Worked in the Correctional system for several years, always wondered how many of the guys in prison were there directly or indirectly due to their interactions with women, i.e.; jealousy, violence to other men and female partners whether deserved or not, false accusations, "white knighting" for women, going into un-paid debt, attempts to gain material wealth/status criminally to appear more attractive to women, etc. etc. Estimate it would be at least 50%. The "wrong woman" can destroy a man financially, spiritually, and legally...please proceed cautiously and logically gents!
Women prefer freedom, travel, meeting a variety of partners, etc. to marriage. So do I. I will stay single. They can stay single. Society loses because there are fewer children being raised well by two parents. Too bad. I stopped caring about "what is best for society".
When I was about 20 years old, I lent a girl some money for a stereo system. She disappeared from that point on, until I saw her in a nightclub six months later. She was with another guy. I went right up to her and took my money back. Her boyfriend sat there like a pussy. Fast forward 20 years. I found out one of my friends is dating the same chick, and she also was working for him. All was good until she embezzled a ton of money from his company. Lol
Why change? I'm guessing that no individual or law enforcement ever really held her accountable for being a thief. You got your money back and that is good but she needed someone to take it back and penalize her
Some good gems in this vid as always RM. I always refuse payment when helping friends/family do stuff because the second you take any kind of payment, it's now a business relationship and changes how you relate to each other - you are now a service provider to your client and expectations change for the worse. Not to say it's one-sided though, good way to keep one's skills and mind sharp with new challenges, and there's always a beer in the fridge or a meal waiting for me on a visit, whether or not I've brought anything. Growing up in a neighbourhood with career welfare people, you're bang on about how it ruins people. Generational welfare, 3 gens living in a house, all collecting. Sad for them and for me as a taxpayer. Don't be a John. Don't give money to women.
I approve this message. 🔥🔥🔥 A man transmutes his life energy into labor, which is then compensated for in the form of certificates of exchange, we call currency. You have to protect your money, energy, attention, and time because these are precious resources for a man. The secret to dealing with women which I learned from street hustlers was that nothing a wo_man offers, or has in her possession, is worth paying money for, or compromising your manhood for. She has to pay you for your time either through putting money in your pocket, working for you, satisfying your intimate desires, or all of the aforementioned. Great vid. 💸💸💸
As a man, you can spend 100% of your currency and she will not bat an eye.. then when it comes to paying a 1% bill or just a drink she will blow up and think what a cheap skate.. when you have spent 100% maybe even 110% of your time turned faster than fiat..
As I have gotten older, I become really conscious of when I am giving to receive. Also, I have picked up here and there, that women have nothing but disrespect around a guy trying to pay his way into getting with them. As guys, we can go help someone fix their car, fix their roof, and there is an unspoken agreement that we can ask each other for help.
@@Feracitus not just young Chads, even guys their own age who have a pulse/are still in decent shape. Women who decided to forgo having a family realize by that age that the wall has hit and they face another 30/40 years alone… they can no longer draw in a man with their physical form so they have to resort to other means. This is when hypergamy starts to falter (it’s no longer adaptive after the reproductive years).
I love how unique your perspective is in comparison with a lot of other red pill content. It makes your vids really valuable and gives a person something to think about, even if they dont 100% agree with every take or point you make. In this case, youre dead on IMO, never give women money. Im proud to say that one of my personal values is never paying a penny for opposite sex attention and never involving money in interactions with women. Ive been able to hold true to it for almost 5 decades. I think perhaps men that do, are either trying too hard to impress or simply think they are not enough, without added benefit of paying, and that includes guys with porn site subscriptions or simps on Only Fans.
You know she gave it up quickly to the last guy when she says “I want to take it slow” - and if she says “I want you to be kind and gentle” it means the last guy railed her in the stall of the men’s room at the bar and left without paying the tab.
My rule for investing in dates or whatever with women was always the same that it was for loaning money to friends our family. That rule was I never invest or loan more money or time or whatever so that if I didn't get a return on my investment it would not devastate me or make me angry.
Your story's are great man. I hate giving money to women so am good with that 😂. If u wont give money ,u always know if they are there for you , or for opportunity ... That's why my ex left me.. she realised i wassent gonna give her money 😂😂 i wil say don't even borrow it... Cause they wil manipulate u if they don't respect u
May start my Ph.D soon. Kinda feel like I’ll be safe guarded because I won’t have much money, but at the same time the smart women may want to invest in me. I hope I get in a position I can just bone and be the cool guy
Have you ever bought a woman dinner? Have you ever bought a woman drinks at the bar? Taking a trip to some waterfalls in Thailand, you don't pay the 100THB for her bus fare to get to the destination? You say women are ruthless. So you never met a woman, took her to your place, had sex with her, and after the deed is done she asks for cab fare to get home or says that she needs help for her rent? And when you said No, and her manipulative threats started coming; you don't assess the situation and see that it much easier to give the $20 she is demanding vs dealing with whatever threat tactics she has up her sleeve? In all your travels, you have never encountered this? You have never been in a girly bar and paid her fee to leave the bar- not even just to have the experience of what that is all about?
I agree with Ronin man overall in this episode. In general in relationships that are romantic or platonic it's generally not a good idea to mix $ into it. However life is a grey area. If I have a girlfriend and we"ve known each other a few months and I take her out and pay for dinner and a movie that we both enjoy is that paying a woman? What about if I sleep with a girl from a poor country and in the morning she needs $ for a taxi that costs $2. Am I a simp? Life is shades of grey and each choice should be looked at independently of the others. Good video though.
Thanks ! On those questions go with your internal king Midas that develops after implementing the original idea at a deep level. The right answer will appear and you’ll know it inside
same issue with my nephew he is now trying to get a job now at 24, everyone in the family has been helping him so much, thats why he was so lazy as a teen, but now he is trying to get his life together
"G u y s in prison are winners," I highly disagree. Winners find a way to beat the system. If you end up in a cage while playing the game of life, I wouldn't necessarily call that a win. Society is always changing, and those who can change with it are the winners, in my opinion. Also, if you want my w 0 m a n, you have h 3 r. There is no reason to get in an altercation for something that's abundant on this planet.
RM, I have a question: Why do wealthy, rich m 3 n with plenty of options get married? Before you say "to start a family," remember that *50%* of ALL marriages end on divorce so the family will be broken anyway. This is a topic I've never heard talked about in the RP community.
Most men are blue pilled. They work hard with the goal of getting married. Being focused on success in school and business, they often have little time to think so the old “I’ll find the one!” Is all they think. Money doesn’t red pill a guy
Same reason children of parents who abuse them are more likely to be abusers themselves; they were trained that way by happily or "un-happily married" parents.
My first and only two girlfriends spoiled me; while I would buy her a bumblebee stuffed animal from Dollar Tree or decorated a rock as a pet. I have a question for RM; Have you ever been robbed/mugged on your years of travel? I have never been mugged/robbed but it seems that many have whilst travelling throughout LatAm.
Can the Men of God stand up? Last I heard they are the ones who are inheriting Eternal Life, and will inherit all the riches of the World. The simple key is to give with instruction, an expectation that causes growth in the person and that be your focus. Not getting some. God gave Adam and Eve the garden, gave them an expectation, they Royally messed it up, God took what he gave away to their shame. The borrower is servant to the lender, but if you don't give, you will have no one serving you. Hope this one isn't over your heads.
This video is off and not very sound. I’m not sure what you mean about no money. If my wife is traditional is she not entitled to a share of the spending money? Only a small percentage of women like convicts, just like some men enjoy watching their women with another man. Some is not all by a long shot. I get it, you shoot from the hip and sometimes it is brilliant, other times we get a steaming pile like this. I still like you, but maybe have someone go over your stuff before you publish it.
I believe the point Ronin was articulating is that as soon as you start paying money to a woman, you can no longer trust that she has genuine desire for you. Is she with you because she loves you? Or is she with you because she gets money from you and then begins putting on an "Act" to keep you giving her money. And then because anyone who gets money for not doing much / or just showing up develops an unhealthy dependency that ultimately is damaging to their souls as a human. As humans we need to be able to strive and prove to ourselves that we are capable as adults... And not still acting dependent like children. Being "entitled" is actually deeply destructive to relationships. It hurts the guy who is giving to the "entitled" person who is incapable of appreciating the value of the money (since they didn't earn it)... And since the "entitled" person has no capacity for appreciating what they never earned, they also have no sense of limits and can just keep taking money until the guy has nothing left. And it still won't make the "entitled" one love the guy any more... It will likely just create resentment once they feel the emptiness that comes from getting paid for doing nothing or for putting in a tiny fraction of effort compared to the amount of money / rewards they received.
And as far as the prison inmates... I think Ronin was referring to the widely known trait in women to naturally get arroused when they see violence... Especially when one guy beats the crap out of another guy. There are countless videos you can find where a girl is instigating between 2 guys... She get them to fight each other and then after one guy is unconscious on the floor, will walk over his body while excitedly being whisked away by the "Winner" of the fight. It's an evolutionary attraction trigger... Be with the guy who can beat up the other guys. Hence, there is an attraction to guys in prison by the average woman because they are typically the type of vilolent guy who will fight back hard and win in a fight against your average "safe" guy out there.
SERIOUS GOLD content like, "Dont give women money," makes me so proud to be part of Ronin Man for life...
Worked in the Correctional system for several years, always wondered how many of the guys in prison were there directly or indirectly due to their interactions with women, i.e.; jealousy, violence to other men and female partners whether deserved or not, false accusations, "white knighting" for women, going into un-paid debt, attempts to gain material wealth/status criminally to appear more attractive to women, etc. etc. Estimate it would be at least 50%. The "wrong woman" can destroy a man financially, spiritually, and legally...please proceed cautiously and logically gents!
Women prefer freedom, travel, meeting a variety of partners, etc. to marriage. So do I. I will stay single. They can stay single. Society loses because there are fewer children being raised well by two parents. Too bad. I stopped caring about "what is best for society".
That was the socialists' end goal: for you to stop caring about society so they can have it.
Young, broken American women do. Through most of the world - 95% they don't care about those other things.
A woman once told me once you exchange money for nothing, it’s over she just keep asking
When I was about 20 years old, I lent a girl some money for a stereo system. She disappeared from that point on, until I saw her in a nightclub six months later. She was with another guy. I went right up to her and took my money back. Her boyfriend sat there like a pussy.
Fast forward 20 years. I found out one of my friends is dating the same chick, and she also was working for him. All was good until she embezzled a ton of money from his company. Lol
Why change? I'm guessing that no individual or law enforcement ever really held her accountable for being a thief. You got your money back and that is good but she needed someone to take it back and penalize her
Some good gems in this vid as always RM.
I always refuse payment when helping friends/family do stuff because the second you take any kind of payment, it's now a business relationship and changes how you relate to each other - you are now a service provider to your client and expectations change for the worse. Not to say it's one-sided though, good way to keep one's skills and mind sharp with new challenges, and there's always a beer in the fridge or a meal waiting for me on a visit, whether or not I've brought anything.
Growing up in a neighbourhood with career welfare people, you're bang on about how it ruins people. Generational welfare, 3 gens living in a house, all collecting. Sad for them and for me as a taxpayer.
Don't be a John. Don't give money to women.
I approve this message. 🔥🔥🔥
A man transmutes his life energy into labor, which is then compensated for in the form of certificates of exchange, we call currency. You have to protect your money, energy, attention, and time because these are precious resources for a man. The secret to dealing with women which I learned from street hustlers was that nothing a wo_man offers, or has in her possession, is worth paying money for, or compromising your manhood for. She has to pay you for your time either through putting money in your pocket, working for you, satisfying your intimate desires, or all of the aforementioned. Great vid. 💸💸💸
Most men can earn money and live on their own it's the w8m3n who are dependent on men's money
As a man, you can spend 100% of your currency and she will not bat an eye.. then when it comes to paying a 1% bill or just a drink she will blow up and think what a cheap skate.. when you have spent 100% maybe even 110% of your time turned faster than fiat..
"But Ronin, I thought I was supposed to be the provider!"
-S I M P s
As I have gotten older, I become really conscious of when I am giving to receive. Also, I have picked up here and there, that women have nothing but disrespect around a guy trying to pay his way into getting with them. As guys, we can go help someone fix their car, fix their roof, and there is an unspoken agreement that we can ask each other for help.
Truth. Nothing but disrespect is a John’s reward
They even say is better to have a man that makes 50k a year and gives it all to them, than a man that makes 100k and gives them little 😂
Flip the Coin: Would a Woman ever give a Man $$. HELL TO THE NO. 😉
they do when they're in their 40s--50s to hook up with young Chads.
@@Feracitus not just young Chads, even guys their own age who have a pulse/are still in decent shape. Women who decided to forgo having a family realize by that age that the wall has hit and they face another 30/40 years alone… they can no longer draw in a man with their physical form so they have to resort to other means. This is when hypergamy starts to falter (it’s no longer adaptive after the reproductive years).
I love how unique your perspective is in comparison with a lot of other red pill content. It makes your vids really valuable and gives a person something to think about, even if they dont 100% agree with every take or point you make. In this case, youre dead on IMO, never give women money. Im proud to say that one of my personal values is never paying a penny for opposite sex attention and never involving money in interactions with women. Ive been able to hold true to it for almost 5 decades. I think perhaps men that do, are either trying too hard to impress or simply think they are not enough, without added benefit of paying, and that includes guys with porn site subscriptions or simps on Only Fans.
You know she gave it up quickly to the last guy when she says “I want to take it slow” - and if she says “I want you to be kind and gentle” it means the last guy railed her in the stall of the men’s room at the bar and left without paying the tab.
Yeah I've learned that in a very bad way! I will never let a women barrow money again.
Many good points, great video👍👍
Thank you!
@@RoninMan I thank YOU, Awesome Sir o7 💯
Agreements all round.
My rule for investing in dates or whatever with women was always the same that it was for loaning money to friends our family. That rule was I never invest or loan more money or time or whatever so that if I didn't get a return on my investment it would not devastate me or make me angry.
I prefer not giving them money at all. No investment. They like me, they hang. They don’t, they don’t
Thank you for sharing abundantly with us once again 🌼
I actually found your channel from the sugar momma video.😂
Alot of gems in this one
Your story's are great man. I hate giving money to women so am good with that 😂. If u wont give money ,u always know if they are there for you , or for opportunity ... That's why my ex left me.. she realised i wassent gonna give her money 😂😂 i wil say don't even borrow it... Cause they wil manipulate u if they don't respect u
Smart!
now this one I can get behind without even listening
May start my Ph.D soon. Kinda feel like I’ll be safe guarded because I won’t have much money, but at the same time the smart women may want to invest in me. I hope I get in a position I can just bone and be the cool guy
Have you ever bought a woman dinner? Have you ever bought a woman drinks at the bar? Taking a trip to some waterfalls in Thailand, you don't pay the 100THB for her bus fare to get to the destination? You say women are ruthless. So you never met a woman, took her to your place, had sex with her, and after the deed is done she asks for cab fare to get home or says that she needs help for her rent? And when you said No, and her manipulative threats started coming; you don't assess the situation and see that it much easier to give the $20 she is demanding vs dealing with whatever threat tactics she has up her sleeve? In all your travels, you have never encountered this? You have never been in a girly bar and paid her fee to leave the bar- not even just to have the experience of what that is all about?
I agree with Ronin man overall in this episode. In general in relationships that are romantic or platonic it's generally not a good idea to mix $ into it. However life is a grey area.
If I have a girlfriend and we"ve known each other a few months and I take her out and pay for dinner and a movie that we both enjoy is that paying a woman? What about if I sleep with a girl from a poor country and in the morning she needs $ for a taxi that costs $2. Am I a simp? Life is shades of grey and each choice should be looked at independently of the others. Good video though.
Thanks ! On those questions go with your internal king Midas that develops after implementing the original idea at a deep level. The right answer will appear and you’ll know it inside
same issue with my nephew he is now trying to get a job now at 24, everyone in the family has been helping him so much, thats why he was so lazy as a teen, but now he is trying to get his life together
"G u y s in prison are winners,"
I highly disagree. Winners find a way to beat the system. If you end up in a cage while playing the game of life, I wouldn't necessarily call that a win. Society is always changing, and those who can change with it are the winners, in my opinion. Also, if you want my w 0 m a n, you have h 3 r. There is no reason to get in an altercation for something that's abundant on this planet.
That was historically they were winners. Caveman days, before the law.
@js7un165 winners adjust. Society is always changing. Thus, the definition of "winner" always changes.
I don't give them money... If she gives me a hard time about that, I tell her, "Go find 'J. Paul Gotitt', then... Keep it movin..."
...great idea!
What was the name of the book?
Could you give me a timestamp for when I mentioned a book?
RM,
I have a question:
Why do wealthy, rich m 3 n with plenty of options get married? Before you say "to start a family," remember that *50%* of ALL marriages end on divorce so the family will be broken anyway. This is a topic I've never heard talked about in the RP community.
Most men are blue pilled. They work hard with the goal of getting married. Being focused on success in school and business, they often have little time to think so the old “I’ll find the one!” Is all they think. Money doesn’t red pill a guy
Same reason children of parents who abuse them are more likely to be abusers themselves; they were trained that way by happily or "un-happily married" parents.
+1 shield 🛡
You have to find a vulnerable woman that wants to be manipulated and she will give you everything
There is a word for it. It’s called love.
@@RoninMan love is fake. it does not exist other than maybe briefly for those aged 15-21. That is why the term even exists.
Hey can you do an episode about femboys and what should someone that identifies as a femboy do to navigate this crazy world?
I'm not familiar with this topic. Have never even heard that term before
da uf r u drivin with that antenna bobbin?
Friend driving
My first and only two girlfriends spoiled me; while I would buy her a bumblebee stuffed animal from Dollar Tree or decorated a rock as a pet. I have a question for RM; Have you ever been robbed/mugged on your years of travel? I have never been mugged/robbed but it seems that many have whilst travelling throughout LatAm.
Some guys tried to rob me once in Bali and in Thailand. I fought them both off
@@RoninMan 💪🏻
Be generous yet aloof
Can the Men of God stand up? Last I heard they are the ones who are inheriting Eternal Life, and will inherit all the riches of the World. The simple key is to give with instruction, an expectation that causes growth in the person and that be your focus. Not getting some. God gave Adam and Eve the garden, gave them an expectation, they Royally messed it up, God took what he gave away to their shame. The borrower is servant to the lender, but if you don't give, you will have no one serving you. Hope this one isn't over your heads.
PRECISA que hablas solamente de mujeres occidentales.
Awesome! Great to hear from you.
Cute dog btw
What you don't get is a relationship is about give and take on both the man and women part. You need to choose better women.
This video is off and not very sound. I’m not sure what you mean about no money. If my wife is traditional is she not entitled to a share of the spending money?
Only a small percentage of women like convicts, just like some men enjoy watching their women with another man. Some is not all by a long shot.
I get it, you shoot from the hip and sometimes it is brilliant, other times we get a steaming pile like this. I still like you, but maybe have someone go over your stuff before you publish it.
Did you hear his point about what welfare does to people, on the topic of dependency & compassion?
If you are married, this video isn’t for you
I believe the point Ronin was articulating is that as soon as you start paying money to a woman, you can no longer trust that she has genuine desire for you. Is she with you because she loves you? Or is she with you because she gets money from you and then begins putting on an "Act" to keep you giving her money. And then because anyone who gets money for not doing much / or just showing up develops an unhealthy dependency that ultimately is damaging to their souls as a human. As humans we need to be able to strive and prove to ourselves that we are capable as adults... And not still acting dependent like children. Being "entitled" is actually deeply destructive to relationships. It hurts the guy who is giving to the "entitled" person who is incapable of appreciating the value of the money (since they didn't earn it)... And since the "entitled" person has no capacity for appreciating what they never earned, they also have no sense of limits and can just keep taking money until the guy has nothing left. And it still won't make the "entitled" one love the guy any more... It will likely just create resentment once they feel the emptiness that comes from getting paid for doing nothing or for putting in a tiny fraction of effort compared to the amount of money / rewards they received.
@@bouncingback5168 exactly
And as far as the prison inmates... I think Ronin was referring to the widely known trait in women to naturally get arroused when they see violence... Especially when one guy beats the crap out of another guy. There are countless videos you can find where a girl is instigating between 2 guys... She get them to fight each other and then after one guy is unconscious on the floor, will walk over his body while excitedly being whisked away by the "Winner" of the fight. It's an evolutionary attraction trigger... Be with the guy who can beat up the other guys. Hence, there is an attraction to guys in prison by the average woman because they are typically the type of vilolent guy who will fight back hard and win in a fight against your average "safe" guy out there.