Felt philosophical, might delete later 🙄🤭. What other problems do you think we'll never be able to solve? 🧐 P.s. if I see one more "HOW TO MAKE 2025 THE BEST YEAR OF YOUR LIFE" video I'm gonna throw up 🤢.
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@@SteelWool567 kinda. i belive the quote is about when he starts running. he says it gets easier as long as you do it every day, but its doing it every day thats the hard part.
I really struggled with maths as a kid and had to re-do my maths GCSE’s twice. If some of my teachers had said this to me earlier in my school years I may have had a much better relationship with the subject and not resented it so much
You can't die the way you want to. Overthinking is normal. You can't make people love you. Most of your friends are dull. Every time you get good at something, you will eventually fail at it. Old age will get you in the end. You will never truly appreciate the good times you have now, until they cease.
I don’t agree with most of your friends being dull being an inescapable, every-person kind of thing. None of my friends share this trait. I would not be friends with them otherwise I absolutely agree with everything else you mentioned tho xD
@@headdog9895 I don't agree with your agreement to everything else he mentioned XD It would be fun to just say this much haha but this video made me wiser temporarily too - We can choose how we die for sure. Most of us don't want to so it just happens in an expected or unexpected way because it's unavoidable in the end - Overthinking is not a normal normal. I'm sure because I dislike doing it. It may be a usual human characteristic but desired to be normal? No. It disrupts our mood and rest - We can certainly "make" some people love us. Not forcefully of course, but some love me for example because if I'm interesting and kind to them. Or at least like me because I "made" myself this way. You can better and work on your behavior. hm. Scratch that. Love is a different kind of like, mostly dependent on the one feeling it. I miss that...
This was a realization I started feeling a couple years ago - “most of your friends are dull”. I swear it’s true. I find hanging out with people utterly boring. No one makes any effort to get to know you, no one puts in 50% into your “friendship.” People have little interesting to say. It might be context sensitive. Because people indeed have their stories and their experiences. But I feel most people keep things very superficial. Whatever the reason, based on where I am in life, I need something deeper than chitchat. You need a partner, a best friend. You just need one person who gets you. Until then, I’ll do my own thing. Socializing is exhausting and usually unfulfilling.
@@rogsolaris7411 Having just finished 5 solo cruises in the past year, and sometimes inflicting myself upon other people at solos group dinner tables, yes most people are utterly boring. We are born with two ears and one mouth, I have learned it is better to listen twice as much as I talk. But after listening to other people's utterly boring sad mundane lives, I find that most of my new friends are dull. I fnd the crew utterly fascinating, but I have to remind myself that they are paid to be nice to me, they aren't really my friends. So, yeah, interacxting with dull people is like a work of mercy for me. I get no pleasure from interacting with other people. I only interact out of a sense of moral duty, and the fact that I am not a hermit and than socializing helps my mental and physical wellness and heatlh. That is, too say, as bad as socializing is, being a full-time hermit is worse. The end.
This is true. Once I did this, I knew for sure that I would never put up with certain types of people or certain behaviors ever again. It has brought a lot of peace into my life l
You are the only realistic self improvement youtuber out there. Keep the hard work because your videos really help a lot of people including me. Thank you for posting
Finding peace within yourself, standing still, and becoming your own best companion is far more challenging than endlessly chasing after things that hold no true value.
Why does this video give everyone so much peace? It just makes me angry. Not angry because he’s wrong, angry because he’s right. I hate that I react with anger to EVERYTHING.
Ask yourself what you see/hear in this video that reminds you of yourself. I used to hate thinking about improving myself because, ultimately, I hated myself. Hearing good advice angered me because I hated that everyone else seemed to be better than me in all aspects. 7 years of therapy later, I stopped hating myself and realized that everyone is shite
@@joao3547 haha, what a nice realization. but if it works it works. George Carlin also said that everyone is full of shit. Guy was a genius so probably was right. I must add that he also found single individuals bright. The issues begin with groups
This turned out to be one of those happy instances when a somewhat reluctant click turned into a very rewarding and eye-opening couple of minutes. You earned this follow. Thank you!
I struggled "growing up" a lot. In my late 20s i was dreading being 30, and I've since crossed that. I remember having this kinda breakdown where I realized I had no idea how to be an "adult" and that all these other "adults" around me seemed so together and mature and solid. It took me a few months but I was happy to learn by talking to other 30ish year olds, that only really narcissistic arrogant folks think they have anything together. The happiest people I spoke to found humor in it all. There is no standard, just a wave were riding.
Gracias muchacho! The epic phrase "we can't solve problems , just improve the quality of the problems around us" Will be my motto. Just to stop overthinking on possible courses of action, an just improve the situation. 😊
I want to hold myself to this, so I downloaded your video and will try to watch it everyday for a while. adhd just kind of forgets these pillars instantly. I'm always constantly forgetting the long term consequence of almost anything.
It is really cool to see young people getting to the understanding of the Four Noble Truths expounded by the Buddha thousands of years ago. Nothing changes. Focus on the Unseen.
These kind of problems is the young mans game, eventually you become wiser (hopefully). Find yourself, be yourself and find peace in who you are... then most of your problems will go away
“All things are so very uncertain, and that's exactly what makes me feel reassured” Two-ticky, Moominland Midwinter, 1957 This is one of my favourite quotes regarding uncertainty, though I find it difficult to keep it in mind that I can't just engineer myself through self-improvement to not feel anxiety over life.
When i remember about uncertainty it puts me down and then i can't stop thinking i don't deserve to live because of how inflexible and straight forward dumb and unlucky i am. Thanks for reminder mate
What do you mean you don't deserve to live? Are you not happy? At peace with yourself? Are you troubled by something you can or can't control? You need to stop being so hard on yourself and learn to find your peace because that's what you deserve.
Man it’s getting philosophical in here, I have a lay down something far reaching. Problems are an inherent feature of life. Definitely aim to have better problems. Sometimes it’s is not you that’s the problem, it’s your environment. Change environment, problem solved. Best of luck to everyone this new year !
I get the itch around those knowitall people. The itch to punch a hole in their strict worldview. That single-viewpoint logic. But I realized these kind of people are lost in their own bubble, which is a pity. They would never accept opposing facts as they must always be right. Later will confidently make their own mistakes. If there's no win in arguing with them it's better to avoid
The only thing that really made me understand how uncertain and completely unpredictable life really is was war. Completely unexpected and unbelievable. And when it happened, so much bigger than me and my plans and dreams, when it ruined my plans, dreams and the life I knew and was used to - that's when I finally realised how fragile everything is. And everyone. Nothing is certain. We never know. Good luck everyone.
I think after insecurity, the main point of "you'll never solve these problems" got lost a little, and it became more about advice to solve these common problems. I do think you talked them through well. My personal solution to these "problems" is that while they cannot be solved, life is partly about trying to solve them, even if that is futile. Being present is not only about enjoying the journey to something bigger, sometimes (or oftentimes) it is indulging in immediate pleasure. Finding a perfect balance between those two modes is probably another unsolvable problem.
Your videos make me feel so much better. Your intelligence, wisdom, simple explanations and soft tone make me feel like a good friend is keeping me company. Thank you so much. May you have happiness in your life for helping people like me who are mentally struggling
Hey man i just wanted yo say i really appreciate your work. Ive struggled with depression and drug addiction all my life, i would mindlessly scroll self help videos occasionally and i came upon your channel. Honestly i can say you have minute for minute the best channel on TH-cam I've ever watched, in terms of advice on growth and personal development that can be implemented immediately, its the best. I noticed a huge improvement in all aspects of my life after implenting some of your instruction and ill be forever greatful.❤️
@aaftiyoDkcdicurak no, but it's about life I general. If what we have created in our life is built around necessities that have been moulding our very existence, then the solutions are quite simple, given that many people can experience the same things but differently.
About uncertainty, the way I learned this lesson was watching the movie Carrie. I felt like I had been bullied in high school and elementary. But that was me giving them too much credit. I thought they knew what they were talking about when they made fun of me. Carrie showed me that they didn't. They're uncertain about me, and making guesses, and making stuff up for fun. None of it was from a place of authority to actually make any real decision about who I am or how worthy I am.
It's about being friends with yourself and understanding your capabilities and sometimes realising that alot of what you are thinking about may or may not happen, but are you happy? Alot of our thoughts are problems we create ourself, we visualise and then apply emotions and feelings towards it, I say just allow yourself to love who you are, but keep in yourself, it's your peace. Don't allow anyone to disturb it or take it from you.
0:45 To use uncertainty as an intoxicant of comfort comes with a hangover of nihilism. It IS certain that you are either going to be able to, or not, improve yourself tomorrow. And if you assume you won't be able to, but are, and have chosen to not better yourself, you are certainly worse off for it. Only when you aren't is when it won't matter. 2. 1:14 No a lot of people know what they are doing, while others don't. And that's great news or else my car would never run. 4:22 Wrong, productivity is a means to an end, and if your priority is to be as carefree as possible (which seem to be the theme here), then there are productive steps you can take towards that. And I promise you, pretending like everything doesn't matter and dealing in absolutes as an excuse to do worse will not make your troubles go away. But doing more does not equate doing better. There are concrete productive things that will solve problems and make frequently reccuring challenges much more bearable. "Emotional stability" usually follows when your actions allign with your goals. 4:40 "The mirage of necessity". The corner stone of the human experience is necessity. But I understand you are conflating necessity with non-necessity. 6:42 I personally find "Presence" to be highly overrated. It isn't ever any more interesting then what you can sum it up as having been. And there have been plenty I couldn't wait to be done with. 7:52 Nice, something true, and usefull. 12:00 Who really believes this? I think most people imagine themselves so improved that they become content, and if we are content our problems don't get as much screen time as our contentedness. Doesn't mean they don't exist or won't ever get screen time, but there are certainly versions of yourself where the problems you can't escape get as little screen time as possible. This whole assertion kind of assumes you can't be content. And sure, some never will be. But a lot will. 13:22 Yeah, there we go. Nihilism.
0:52 Yes! This. I always get anxiety thinking about maintaining things once i get there. But now i just came to the realization that’s not how the real world works.
I’ve learnt that travelling the world, embracing discomfort and having a just do it mindset can make your mindset pretty bulletproof and all these “problems” that most people have become pretty insignificant, because you are riding a buffalo on a random Vietnamese farm or speeding through the jungle on a moped loving life. Happy new year (same shit different date on the calendar) 🎉🎉
Avicii. I was thinking about him one day. And how he decided to just “leave the party”. And realised no matter how much you do, achieve, learn… it will not necessary make you happy or fulfilled. Or sort your inner battle. Very strange feeling and thought i have to say.
Everything he said here is true, but I honestly don't know how much it helps me. Maybe some of our delusions are necessary, such as I will not live forever but there is always the opportunity of tomorrow. Right?
Perhaps it's not about mortality or immortality, but about your gratitude towards life, I'm not talking about religion or belief systems, I'm talking about how you see yourself. Are you taking life for granted? Are you treating yourself well each day? Are you making sure that you are genuinely happy in your environment? If not, why?
Wether its MK ultra or just societal problems, your have been a real source of healing to me and i honnestly wish to thank you. I hope i can one day be even half as good as you at being a youtuber
This was a high quality video. So insightful and comforting. I loved it. Please don't delete it! You should become a voice actor. Your voice is so soothing to listen to Congrats. You've got a new subscriber!
Unfortunately in the present moment I can't stop being productive or I will fall behind. New job. Apprenticeship. School. None of those tasks can wait. They have to get done. Hopefully in a year and a half I can be more present.
Love how you make it sound so stupid to think the things that are easy to think, It truly is foolish to consume your life with these worries. Love the way you present this. Thank you for the video, definitely gave me some peace
I don't even remember where I got this from, but I've carried it in my head for as long as I can remember. If there is a problem, and that problem has a solution, then there is no problem since you only need to apply the solution. If there is a problem, and that problem has no solution, then there is no problem, since a problem to be a problem it needs to have a solution. A problem with no solution is simply a fact. The wisdom behind it I think its pretty deep, and I've tried to always think it this way whenever I'm faced with difficult things.
Saying 'never will I' is the same as saying can't. Delete can't from your vocabulary both mentally and verbally. You'll become shocked at what you CAN do. And ignore everyone who tells you 'you can't do that' or 'that'll never work' because it's the same thing. Someone told me to do this at 17 and it served me greatly everyday of my since. With practice, persistance, patience and planning, you can do pretty much anything you apply yourself to that you want to achieve. Never stop reaching, growing and learning. Stagnation is death.
John Goodman, in the movie Matinee, says to this kid, "You think grown-ups know what they're doing? That's just a hustle, kid. Grown-ups are making it up as they go along, just like you." This really resonated, and so does this advice on the uncertain nature of life. I'm old now, and when I want to do something, I just do it, knowing that it might not even be that good. It's not that I've lost my standards. I've just realized that these standards are sort of ridiculous. I mean if you listen to Bach and read Dostoevsky, you are throwing yourself in the shade by making any sort of comparison. Creativity is fun, outside of any social judgments.
It was curiosity about uncertainty that led me to take a probability module at high school and then onto study a Statistics degree at university. Retired now, I trade Derivatives ( options & futures) using basic probability principles you can learn in a few hours. Learn some basic probability - understand uncertainty.
I've found that love solves almost all of life's problems. Love for myself and others allows me to move past blockages that would break down other people or relationships.
Let mè guess a woman 😂 you see there is a word together its how we men get programned to never do woman thing and find our own company to be enough and love ourselves... to get her 😮
its like you speak my whole mind in a 14 minute video, time to overthink my life for the rest of my life i guess, guess i should focus on living more than trying to fix it, tend to forget that though. I love the quote “get busy living or get busy dying” in Shawshank redemption. Im procrastinating going to bed, i have to get up in 4 hours. Staying up to deal with the consequences later.
Very nice video mate, you made me skeptical about some decisions I took in life that maybe they could have ended in a good way for me. I'm thinking that some chances I had with people and I didn't take them. Your content shines amongst other common rocks in a river of copy paste videos about self improvement.
As a grown up adult at some point of my life I realized that problems, constantly appearing in a particular sphere of life literally feed me and pay my bills. If there wouldn't be these problems, people wouldn't hire me to solve them and I would quickly end up being jobless/in search of new problems to solve. So yeah, they will literally never end, but it's actually how it should be
Then stop relying on others, perhaps rely on yourself. An idea or a business you want to create for yourself. Manage your stress and look for your peace.
@Essexboy0514 dude, you didn't get it. People make their money by solving others' problems. If you sold somebody an apple, when you solved their problem of hunger for a while. If you taught somebody to speak French, when you helped them to solve their problem of not being able to speak French at level they wanted. If you recorded a TH-cam video and people liked it, you solved their problem of having nothing better to watch tonight. Problems of different kinds arise every moment and make the world running
A problem I struggle with and probably always will is feeling stagnant. Sometimes I'm moving forward, & sometimes I am going backwards. But I would think if there was a graph, it would be net positive. Life doesn't feel like that, for me, at least.
Make sure you are not falling for the hedonistic adaptation trap, where every step forward moves the goalpost too, making you feel stuck. Improvement becomes more difficult and every setback feels bigger.
@juanfp I think I may have done that. I'm reading a book at the moment. Written by a scientist, I am starting to understand that growth isn't linear. 😊 Thank you.
Sounds like you gave yourself a standard on how you need to constantly grow and improve in your life, that's where the fear of stagnation lies, when you feel you should be doing something more than you are, so you let it disturb your peace and feel uncomfortable with being comfortable.
1. Phati main jina sikh, nothing is certain. 2. What do you need to do? Zoom out, why you started. 3 & 4. Get comfortable with being yourself. 5. Delay pleasure.
Not delay pleasure. He talked about two different kinds of pleasure. Longterm or shortterm. You can delay short term pleasure, but this doesn't make it last longer. An example for short term pleasure would be taking drugs.
Pull the springs out from your microphone using pliers or a heavy gage metal wire. Get some shrink wrap and apply it on half of the length of each spring. Pull the springs back on. Voilà! They do not ring anymore when you bump in the arm of your microphone while recording. (it works with adhesive tape, but it doesn't look as pretty than shrink wrap)
Looks like captain Price is back at it again Always appreciate the insights it keeps me coming back for more Time really flies!! Can't believe it’s been more than half a year already been following the channel for a while now and its been amazing to see how much its growing and its all thanks to ur hard work Really glad to see it getting the recognition it deserves though u deserve more credit captain keep it up i live laugh love for this content fr !!
@@NewelOfKnowledge HEYYY!! Been caught up with uni, haha. First times are always a bit rusty but Im working on building that momentum. Thanks for the amazing advice in the video it really helped me chilllax a bit about productivity and reminded me to enjoy the journey. You’re a lifesaver as always
Felt philosophical, might delete later 🙄🤭. What other problems do you think we'll never be able to solve? 🧐
P.s. if I see one more "HOW TO MAKE 2025 THE BEST YEAR OF YOUR LIFE" video I'm gonna throw up 🤢.
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Nah mate, don't delete pls - if you can help it. This is quite a useful bit of info, would be a shame to remove it
That and also with the repetitive “and with that, 202X comes to an end..” audio on social media
You can delete it, of course, but there are people, who like it.
@@Marcus1293 hahaha deleting it was a joke, I was just tryna use a similar phrase like "felt cute, might delete later"
Life is not hard, you just have to do it everyday.
Was the best advice I’ve ever heard.
@@b3n.j4mn is this from bojack horseman?
@@SteelWool567 kinda. i belive the quote is about when he starts running. he says it gets easier as long as you do it every day, but its doing it every day thats the hard part.
But…it’s hard to do it everyday? I don’t get this advice
I had a math teacher once say, "They're not math problems, they're math opportunities."
Wow why do I feel like my mind was just blown? Even as I already love math, I can see how this would be transferrable to other situations.
Cool tin whistle songs! 🎵
I am hundredth like! Hehe
Interesting.
I really struggled with maths as a kid and had to re-do my maths GCSE’s twice. If some of my teachers had said this to me earlier in my school years I may have had a much better relationship with the subject and not resented it so much
You can't die the way you want to. Overthinking is normal. You can't make people love you. Most of your friends are dull. Every time you get good at something, you will eventually fail at it. Old age will get you in the end. You will never truly appreciate the good times you have now, until they cease.
I don’t agree with most of your friends being dull being an inescapable, every-person kind of thing. None of my friends share this trait. I would not be friends with them otherwise
I absolutely agree with everything else you mentioned tho xD
@@headdog9895 I don't agree with your agreement to everything else he mentioned XD
It would be fun to just say this much haha but this video made me wiser temporarily too
- We can choose how we die for sure. Most of us don't want to so it just happens in an expected or unexpected way because it's unavoidable in the end
- Overthinking is not a normal normal. I'm sure because I dislike doing it. It may be a usual human characteristic but desired to be normal? No. It disrupts our mood and rest
- We can certainly "make" some people love us. Not forcefully of course, but some love me for example because if I'm interesting and kind to them. Or at least like me because I "made" myself this way. You can better and work on your behavior. hm. Scratch that. Love is a different kind of like, mostly dependent on the one feeling it. I miss that...
This was a realization I started feeling a couple years ago - “most of your friends are dull”. I swear it’s true. I find hanging out with people utterly boring. No one makes any effort to get to know you, no one puts in 50% into your “friendship.” People have little interesting to say. It might be context sensitive. Because people indeed have their stories and their experiences. But I feel most people keep things very superficial. Whatever the reason, based on where I am in life, I need something deeper than chitchat. You need a partner, a best friend. You just need one person who gets you. Until then, I’ll do my own thing. Socializing is exhausting and usually unfulfilling.
@@rogsolaris7411 Having just finished 5 solo cruises in the past year, and sometimes inflicting myself upon other people at solos group dinner tables, yes most people are utterly boring. We are born with two ears and one mouth, I have learned it is better to listen twice as much as I talk. But after listening to other people's utterly boring sad mundane lives, I find that most of my new friends are dull. I fnd the crew utterly fascinating, but I have to remind myself that they are paid to be nice to me, they aren't really my friends. So, yeah, interacxting with dull people is like a work of mercy for me. I get no pleasure from interacting with other people. I only interact out of a sense of moral duty, and the fact that I am not a hermit and than socializing helps my mental and physical wellness and heatlh. That is, too say, as bad as socializing is, being a full-time hermit is worse. The end.
Uhhh so getting up at 4am, drinking a grass smoothie, and working for 18 hours straight is NOT the solution??
Nah - you gotta wake up at 3:00Am
@@adamapples499 This guy gets it
And drink 2 grass fed smoothies
nah - you gotta wake up yesterday
Hahahah
Once I became my own best friend, a lot fell either into place or by the wayside. It's a great state of being to be in, I promise.
This is true. Once I did this, I knew for sure that I would never put up with certain types of people or certain behaviors ever again. It has brought a lot of peace into my life l
Perhaps you need to get to know your self before you decide you like your self?
Purely by coincidence I had a conversation about that very matter this morning👍
I envy you and because of that, I don’t like you. I can’t help this feeling, it’s unfortunate.
@@SteelWool567 Admirably honest of you. Sounds like your more of a friend to your self than you realise
You are the only realistic self improvement youtuber out there. Keep the hard work because your videos really help a lot of people including me. Thank you for posting
Agreed.
leo skepi as well, although he has a harsher view of life thats feels too much sometimes.
Not selfsih and self-absorbed; just realistic that no one else really truly cares about you.
Finding peace within yourself, standing still, and becoming your own best companion is far more challenging than endlessly chasing after things that hold no true value.
"problems are a feature of existence, not a bug". Ha! Nicely said!
problems can also be opportunities in disguise. mostly not
Why does this video give everyone so much peace? It just makes me angry. Not angry because he’s wrong, angry because he’s right. I hate that I react with anger to EVERYTHING.
Looks like you have found the denominator to then generate the best question you need to ask yourself.
I'd rather be angry than sad or depressed tbh
Ask yourself what you see/hear in this video that reminds you of yourself. I used to hate thinking about improving myself because, ultimately, I hated myself. Hearing good advice angered me because I hated that everyone else seemed to be better than me in all aspects. 7 years of therapy later, I stopped hating myself and realized that everyone is shite
@@joao3547 haha, what a nice realization. but if it works it works. George Carlin also said that everyone is full of shit. Guy was a genius so probably was right. I must add that he also found single individuals bright. The issues begin with groups
lol i hear you it must be the testosterone
This turned out to be one of those happy instances when a somewhat reluctant click turned into a very rewarding and eye-opening couple of minutes. You earned this follow. Thank you!
I'm living in a dark era in my life, and you are the light and warmth for my heart and soul!
Your not alone I am too but we both clicked this video
Wishing you well. We're in this with you.
Every hard period will end, just keep pushing my friend.
@@Ghostyx1989 hope things get better 🫂
@@GSPV33 thank you 🥺🫂
I struggled "growing up" a lot. In my late 20s i was dreading being 30, and I've since crossed that. I remember having this kinda breakdown where I realized I had no idea how to be an "adult" and that all these other "adults" around me seemed so together and mature and solid.
It took me a few months but I was happy to learn by talking to other 30ish year olds, that only really narcissistic arrogant folks think they have anything together. The happiest people I spoke to found humor in it all. There is no standard, just a wave were riding.
This ^
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Manipulex Protocol on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance.
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
This is the second time I hear about this book, would you please share it? I can't find it.
this should be a mandatory watch in college or so
Gracias muchacho!
The epic phrase "we can't solve problems , just improve the quality of the problems around us"
Will be my motto.
Just to stop overthinking on possible courses of action, an just improve the situation. 😊
Improved situation sounds much better than better quality problems
I want to hold myself to this, so I downloaded your video and will try to watch it everyday for a while. adhd just kind of forgets these pillars instantly. I'm always constantly forgetting the long term consequence of almost anything.
ah, the everyday curse of living with neurodivergence. Don't be too harsh on yourself, be proud for functioning among the mostly typicals
Dude, you have the nicest and most pleasant to listen to voice and narration i’ve heard in ages 👌
I feel like it's better to have complete and total control over ONE thing in your life, and then everything else can be in chaos and still be "okay."
That is actually one of the most helpful videos I’ve seen in the last time. Thank you!
Thanks!
Thank you :) this is very kind of you. I'm glad you found the video valuable.
It is really cool to see young people getting to the understanding of the Four Noble Truths expounded by the Buddha thousands of years ago.
Nothing changes.
Focus on the Unseen.
You'll never be able to escape uncertainty so embrace it, well said, I needed to hear this now, thank you
These kind of problems is the young mans game, eventually you become wiser (hopefully). Find yourself, be yourself and find peace in who you are... then most of your problems will go away
“All things are so very uncertain, and that's exactly what makes me feel reassured” Two-ticky, Moominland Midwinter, 1957
This is one of my favourite quotes regarding uncertainty, though I find it difficult to keep it in mind that I can't just engineer myself through self-improvement to not feel anxiety over life.
real talk that quote just unlocked something in my brain.
thank's for sharing
i love the moomins, two-ticky is my favorite
Lewis. You are single handedly the wisest man I have ever had the pleasure of hearing. Thank you.
Wise choice of clothes I guess, but what is he even wearing
@@GabrielBacon his own style I suppose
I think the best way to live is to create great memories for ourselves and those around us ❤
When i remember about uncertainty it puts me down and then i can't stop thinking i don't deserve to live because of how inflexible and straight forward dumb and unlucky i am.
Thanks for reminder mate
What do you mean you don't deserve to live? Are you not happy? At peace with yourself? Are you troubled by something you can or can't control? You need to stop being so hard on yourself and learn to find your peace because that's what you deserve.
I like to see problems not as issues to solve by removing the pain but rather using the pain as a platform to pivot to a higher level.
I like that you are unapologetically yourself and don't try to make it seem like you know better
Man it’s getting philosophical in here, I have a lay down something far reaching.
Problems are an inherent feature of life. Definitely aim to have better problems.
Sometimes it’s is not you that’s the problem, it’s your environment.
Change environment, problem solved.
Best of luck to everyone this new year !
The problem is that a lot of people don't hold a healthy amount of uncertainty, they truly believe they know things and act with that confidence.
I get the itch around those knowitall people. The itch to punch a hole in their strict worldview. That single-viewpoint logic. But I realized these kind of people are lost in their own bubble, which is a pity. They would never accept opposing facts as they must always be right. Later will confidently make their own mistakes. If there's no win in arguing with them it's better to avoid
The only thing that really made me understand how uncertain and completely unpredictable life really is was war. Completely unexpected and unbelievable. And when it happened, so much bigger than me and my plans and dreams, when it ruined my plans, dreams and the life I knew and was used to - that's when I finally realised how fragile everything is. And everyone. Nothing is certain. We never know.
Good luck everyone.
I think after insecurity, the main point of "you'll never solve these problems" got lost a little, and it became more about advice to solve these common problems. I do think you talked them through well. My personal solution to these "problems" is that while they cannot be solved, life is partly about trying to solve them, even if that is futile. Being present is not only about enjoying the journey to something bigger, sometimes (or oftentimes) it is indulging in immediate pleasure. Finding a perfect balance between those two modes is probably another unsolvable problem.
Your videos make me feel so much better. Your intelligence, wisdom, simple explanations and soft tone make me feel like a good friend is keeping me company. Thank you so much. May you have happiness in your life for helping people like me who are mentally struggling
Yeah I feel the same way about the channel too
Hey man i just wanted yo say i really appreciate your work. Ive struggled with depression and drug addiction all my life, i would mindlessly scroll self help videos occasionally and i came upon your channel. Honestly i can say you have minute for minute the best channel on TH-cam I've ever watched, in terms of advice on growth and personal development that can be implemented immediately, its the best. I noticed a huge improvement in all aspects of my life after implenting some of your instruction and ill be forever greatful.❤️
Amen to that!
The problem with self help books is that they aren't written by people who know about your problem.
@aaftiyoDkcdicurak no, but it's about life I general. If what we have created in our life is built around necessities that have been moulding our very existence, then the solutions are quite simple, given that many people can experience the same things but differently.
I believe in taking this advice in moderation.
This is the most comprehensive video of all the values I’ve learned from last years experience. Beautifully done. Thank you
About uncertainty, the way I learned this lesson was watching the movie Carrie. I felt like I had been bullied in high school and elementary. But that was me giving them too much credit. I thought they knew what they were talking about when they made fun of me.
Carrie showed me that they didn't. They're uncertain about me, and making guesses, and making stuff up for fun. None of it was from a place of authority to actually make any real decision about who I am or how worthy I am.
I love this take! 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
0:00 Deep down
0:16 (1) Uncertainty
3:17 (2) Productivity
6:58 (3) Insecurity
8:53 (4) Exposure
10:02 (5) Pleasure
11:38 (6) Problems
12:52 Final word + outro rizz
you left me with more questions than I had before watching this video but it's somehow very refreshing. thanks :-)
This man exudes the confidence of someone who has found true and lasting peace
It's about being friends with yourself and understanding your capabilities and sometimes realising that alot of what you are thinking about may or may not happen, but are you happy? Alot of our thoughts are problems we create ourself, we visualise and then apply emotions and feelings towards it, I say just allow yourself to love who you are, but keep in yourself, it's your peace. Don't allow anyone to disturb it or take it from you.
Thanks
thank you :) that's very kind
A whole lot of comfort and reassurance in one video. Thank you, you have no idea how much this has helped me already. ♥
0:45 To use uncertainty as an intoxicant of comfort comes with a hangover of nihilism. It IS certain that you are either going to be able to, or not, improve yourself tomorrow. And if you assume you won't be able to, but are, and have chosen to not better yourself, you are certainly worse off for it. Only when you aren't is when it won't matter.
2. 1:14 No a lot of people know what they are doing, while others don't. And that's great news or else my car would never run.
4:22 Wrong, productivity is a means to an end, and if your priority is to be as carefree as possible (which seem to be the theme here), then there are productive steps you can take towards that. And I promise you, pretending like everything doesn't matter and dealing in absolutes as an excuse to do worse will not make your troubles go away. But doing more does not equate doing better. There are concrete productive things that will solve problems and make frequently reccuring challenges much more bearable. "Emotional stability" usually follows when your actions allign with your goals.
4:40 "The mirage of necessity". The corner stone of the human experience is necessity. But I understand you are conflating necessity with non-necessity.
6:42 I personally find "Presence" to be highly overrated. It isn't ever any more interesting then what you can sum it up as having been. And there have been plenty I couldn't wait to be done with.
7:52 Nice, something true, and usefull.
12:00 Who really believes this? I think most people imagine themselves so improved that they become content, and if we are content our problems don't get as much screen time as our contentedness. Doesn't mean they don't exist or won't ever get screen time, but there are certainly versions of yourself where the problems you can't escape get as little screen time as possible. This whole assertion kind of assumes you can't be content. And sure, some never will be. But a lot will.
13:22 Yeah, there we go. Nihilism.
I swear, sometimes these videos you make come at such a right time, it's like you're a fly on my wall
0:52 Yes! This. I always get anxiety thinking about maintaining things once i get there. But now i just came to the realization that’s not how the real world works.
Watching your videos feels like therapy. Thanks for offering your perspectives
Thank you Lewis. After watching, I realized how much I needed to hear these. You are perfect, keep on with your good content
I’ve never connected more to a video ever. Audibly laughed and throughout the mind blowing ideas we all just can’t go by accepting. Keep it up!
I’ve learnt that travelling the world, embracing discomfort and having a just do it mindset can make your mindset pretty bulletproof and all these “problems” that most people have become pretty insignificant, because you are riding a buffalo on a random Vietnamese farm or speeding through the jungle on a moped loving life. Happy new year (same shit different date on the calendar) 🎉🎉
Avicii.
I was thinking about him one day.
And how he decided to just “leave the party”.
And realised no matter how much you do, achieve, learn… it will not necessary make you happy or fulfilled. Or sort your inner battle.
Very strange feeling and thought i have to say.
Everything he said here is true, but I honestly don't know how much it helps me. Maybe some of our delusions are necessary, such as I will not live forever but there is always the opportunity of tomorrow. Right?
Perhaps it's not about mortality or immortality, but about your gratitude towards life, I'm not talking about religion or belief systems, I'm talking about how you see yourself. Are you taking life for granted? Are you treating yourself well each day? Are you making sure that you are genuinely happy in your environment? If not, why?
This video is incredible, keep up the good work!
Wether its MK ultra or just societal problems, your have been a real source of healing to me and i honnestly wish to thank you. I hope i can one day be even half as good as you at being a youtuber
It's not just what you say being true, you're also a great showman - subscribed!
As Jim Morrison wrote and sang,”The future is always uncertain and the end is always near.”
This is one of your most important videos ❤ Thank you for being a counterweight to all the productivity hype on this platform
This was a high quality video. So insightful and comforting. I loved it. Please don't delete it!
You should become a voice actor. Your voice is so soothing to listen to
Congrats. You've got a new subscriber!
Unfortunately in the present moment I can't stop being productive or I will fall behind. New job. Apprenticeship. School. None of those tasks can wait. They have to get done. Hopefully in a year and a half I can be more present.
This is exactly what I needed on this morning I was dreading all of my problems so much. Much appreciated for the perspective, sir
I liked ur video! 100% true. Your channel is underrated. Thanks for taking the time to make these videos
And here i am, facing midlife chaos and existential drama. And all i needed was this video!! ✌️😊🇬🇧🥰💥🙇♀️🙏
Thanks for this Lewis!!! Played it twice immediately. Will come back to this from time to time.
Love how you make it sound so stupid to think the things that are easy to think,
It truly is foolish to consume your life with these worries.
Love the way you present this.
Thank you for the video, definitely gave me some peace
Marvelous perspectives. But I must also say that your voice is like a warm bath with a feeling of sweet song. Incredibly soothing.
Thank you, and what a lovely accent!
Nothing is certain, and even that is not certain.
Very much enjoyed this! Cheers from North Carolina in the US. Appreciate you Lewis!
This is so beautiful. Wise words that could change the course of many lives for the better. Thank you.
I don't even remember where I got this from, but I've carried it in my head for as long as I can remember.
If there is a problem, and that problem has a solution, then there is no problem since you only need to apply the solution.
If there is a problem, and that problem has no solution, then there is no problem, since a problem to be a problem it needs to have a solution. A problem with no solution is simply a fact.
The wisdom behind it I think its pretty deep, and I've tried to always think it this way whenever I'm faced with difficult things.
Thank you, your words are like a warm, snuggly blanket to the soul.
Saying 'never will I' is the same as saying can't. Delete can't from your vocabulary both mentally and verbally. You'll become shocked at what you CAN do. And ignore everyone who tells you 'you can't do that' or 'that'll never work' because it's the same thing. Someone told me to do this at 17 and it served me greatly everyday of my since. With practice, persistance, patience and planning, you can do pretty much anything you apply yourself to that you want to achieve. Never stop reaching, growing and learning. Stagnation is death.
John Goodman, in the movie Matinee, says to this kid, "You think grown-ups know what they're doing? That's just a hustle, kid. Grown-ups are making it up as they go along, just like you." This really resonated, and so does this advice on the uncertain nature of life. I'm old now, and when I want to do something, I just do it, knowing that it might not even be that good. It's not that I've lost my standards. I've just realized that these standards are sort of ridiculous. I mean if you listen to Bach and read Dostoevsky, you are throwing yourself in the shade by making any sort of comparison. Creativity is fun, outside of any social judgments.
Plzz write a book on all this stuff , its great how u collect so many sources with actually valid points
something about you is so natural, maybe voice, gestures, eyes... feels sincere like an old friend. bless you man!
It's called believing in yourself that you are where you are supposed to be, find your peace and learn to be content.
It was curiosity about uncertainty that led me to take a probability module at high school and then onto study a Statistics degree at university. Retired now, I trade Derivatives ( options & futures) using basic probability principles you can learn in a few hours.
Learn some basic probability - understand uncertainty.
Thanks, needed this!
thank you :)
OMG. I needed this but again kind of left me with more anxiety.
Well, just when I am feeling a wave of generalized anxiety, youtube comes strolling along with the exact video I need right now.
I've found that love solves almost all of life's problems. Love for myself and others allows me to move past blockages that would break down other people or relationships.
Let mè guess a woman 😂 you see there is a word together its how we men get programned to never do woman thing and find our own company to be enough and love ourselves... to get her 😮
Love for yourself means you found your peace and you want to help others find there's too by giving a piece of your love and energy to another.
"existential crios" i felt you there, wanted to say "chaos" and "crisis" at the same time, happened to me many times
its like you speak my whole mind in a 14 minute video, time to overthink my life for the rest of my life i guess, guess i should focus on living more than trying to fix it, tend to forget that though. I love the quote “get busy living or get busy dying” in Shawshank redemption. Im procrastinating going to bed, i have to get up in 4 hours. Staying up to deal with the consequences later.
this is one of the best videos that I have watched in my whole life!!! Allah bless you
I saw this video in the perfect timing
He's christian
Wow i was totally captivated my this, well done, very talented on the delivery of the message.
Bros that one dark souls npc that isn’t depressed and unmotivated but is just a mentor for you and stays with you for the ride
Thanks Lew
This video is a MASTERPIECE MASTERPIECE!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽✨🙌🏽👌🏽🤌🏽🥂✨
Very nice video mate, you made me skeptical about some decisions I took in life that maybe they could have ended in a good way for me. I'm thinking that some chances I had with people and I didn't take them. Your content shines amongst other common rocks in a river of copy paste videos about self improvement.
So happy TH-cam suggested you to me. Thank you for this video and reminders. You are just what I needed. :-)
This video is a certified banger! 5-star re-watch value. Mad gems.
As a grown up adult at some point of my life I realized that problems, constantly appearing in a particular sphere of life literally feed me and pay my bills. If there wouldn't be these problems, people wouldn't hire me to solve them and I would quickly end up being jobless/in search of new problems to solve. So yeah, they will literally never end, but it's actually how it should be
Then stop relying on others, perhaps rely on yourself. An idea or a business you want to create for yourself. Manage your stress and look for your peace.
@Essexboy0514 dude, you didn't get it. People make their money by solving others' problems. If you sold somebody an apple, when you solved their problem of hunger for a while. If you taught somebody to speak French, when you helped them to solve their problem of not being able to speak French at level they wanted. If you recorded a TH-cam video and people liked it, you solved their problem of having nothing better to watch tonight.
Problems of different kinds arise every moment and make the world running
After just 90 seconds I subscribed- thank you for being real.
I am still learning English, and watching your video I have to stop it every 20-30 seconds to translate and learn a new word. Thank you 😅
You always make me smile (and oftentimes laugh inside), the way you describe the kinds of life we people live. 😅
A problem I struggle with and probably always will is feeling stagnant. Sometimes I'm moving forward, & sometimes I am going backwards. But I would think if there was a graph, it would be net positive. Life doesn't feel like that, for me, at least.
Make sure you are not falling for the hedonistic adaptation trap, where every step forward moves the goalpost too, making you feel stuck.
Improvement becomes more difficult and every setback feels bigger.
@juanfp I think I may have done that. I'm reading a book at the moment. Written by a scientist, I am starting to understand that growth isn't linear. 😊
Thank you.
Sounds like you gave yourself a standard on how you need to constantly grow and improve in your life, that's where the fear of stagnation lies, when you feel you should be doing something more than you are, so you let it disturb your peace and feel uncomfortable with being comfortable.
1. Phati main jina sikh, nothing is certain.
2. What do you need to do? Zoom out, why you started.
3 & 4. Get comfortable with being yourself.
5. Delay pleasure.
Not delay pleasure. He talked about two different kinds of pleasure. Longterm or shortterm. You can delay short term pleasure, but this doesn't make it last longer. An example for short term pleasure would be taking drugs.
@nostalji93 Right, a good way would be to ask yourself whether you will regret doing something or not rather than asking if you will enjoy it.
@Kaustubh-ub5zj you enjoy all pleasure by definition...
Pull the springs out from your microphone using pliers or a heavy gage metal wire. Get some shrink wrap and apply it on half of the length of each spring. Pull the springs back on. Voilà! They do not ring anymore when you bump in the arm of your microphone while recording.
(it works with adhesive tape, but it doesn't look as pretty than shrink wrap)
Looks like captain Price is back at it again
Always appreciate the insights it keeps me coming back for more
Time really flies!! Can't believe it’s been more than half a year already
been following the channel for a while now and its been amazing to see how much its growing and its all thanks to ur hard work
Really glad to see it getting the recognition it deserves though u deserve more credit captain
keep it up i live laugh love for this content fr !!
ELLA WHERE HAVE U BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN.
Great to hear from you as always.
*Bravo six, going dark.
@@NewelOfKnowledge
HEYYY!!
Been caught up with uni, haha.
First times are always a bit rusty but Im working on building that momentum.
Thanks for the amazing advice in the video it really helped me chilllax a bit about productivity and reminded me to enjoy the journey.
You’re a lifesaver as always
I can't finish watching a TH-cam video like this -- it's a problem in my life that I'll never solve lol
Pure gold !!!