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- Flirting is much more than canned lines. A lot of it has to do with your attitude, and what your viewpoint is in any given situation. Enter FRAME and frame control, one of the most powerful tools in your dating arsenal.
More more on frame control at: verbalgameacad...
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It makes me chuckle knowing how this is absolute gold and only Todd can tell it right
I absolutely love Todd and will be a fan boy for life... But UMP does a pretty good job at explaining frames as well
@@anthonygonzales7748 who is ump? Never heard
A Master Class in Frame.
Frame can also be short for frame of reference aka point of view. Comedians use a change of frame to create jokes. The setup of the joke is telling a story from one frame of reference and the punch line is looking at the story from a different frame of reference. For example, a guy comes up to a girl wearing a t-shirt that says "Boys Are Stupid. Throw Rocks At Them". The boy reads the t-shirt and casually says, "That's a good way to get your rocks off."
Sexual escalation done well is just a gradual change of frame from non-sexual to sexual.
Do girls wear shirts like that?? 👀
I needed this, I'm having dates but not s3x in the first date
best explanation of what frame is, so far
Todd, long time listener, first time commenter!
The frame behind you rocks too! I see the irony ;)
You’re really helping me. Im gonna keep going. On day 6 of my 30 day challenge. Thanks Todd
Todd, can you do a video on how to decrease flaking and ghosting. I’ve never seen it this bad before. I follow all of the best practices of pickup, have strong social skills, am confident, solid looking, yet still see the vast majority of my numbers flake/ghost.
The scary part is even a lot of girls who show high interest during the approach and at first over text or the phone will inexplicably ghost. It’s like their buying temperature has a short expiration date.
It’s a minor miracle I’ve managed to get 4 lays since early March but that’s because I’ve approached like crazy and have clawed tooth and nail for those results (and even did some online dating, as awful as it is).
Obviously, the rise of OLD and social media have given women exponentially more options, which has fueled the flaking, but I’m curious if you have any in-set methods or strategies to increase the likelihood of the girl showing up for the date.
Completely second that. Please make a video on this too, Todd
He said it in one of his videos.. Simply go in the real life, instead of tinder and instagram.. There is a lot of ghosting and flaking unfortunately..
Connect greater before closing.
Dating in the west is broken. Period.
Just emphasising more on qualifying the girl after she's hooked
frame = rules. Laws are frames. some laws are solid, some are fluid.
Todd an idea for suture video,
I can game well, do most things right. Get phone numbers, escalate correctly with right timing. Know when to slow and when to pick up. Quite laid back doing it. However when a really attractive girl doesn’t give me feedback and I’m looking at her face to gauge her emotions in feelings because they’re very attractive sometimes Their energy transmits to me maybe I’m too absorbed. But I start of thinking of ways to calm their nervousness or if they’re giving me short answers consistently I start stressing cause I can feel the set going bad and then I feel like it’s almost a burden to turn things around and game gets worse. It’s like knowing game is holding me back. If I had been during my newbie days I wouldn’t sense when it’s going bad and just game hard till close or rejection
Last 5 Minutes are gold. Thank you Todd
Great extrapolation! Thanks 👍🏼
The what is jazz quote is “if you have to ask, you’ll never know.”
Hey Todd.
I have strong social skills, am confident, can approach, good looking and overall interesting life/personality.
But I feel I don’t approach enough because of my high standards for looks (in my contemptuous view), and because of that I find myself walking for 2 hours screening like hell and doing just a couple of approaches.
On one hand, I feel true to myself because I don’t really like most girls and don’t want to fake interest, but on the second hand I lose social momentum and I know I will do worse on an interesting set because of my long « screening ».
Hence, should I approach generally more, no matter the looks, and overall give girls a chance, or should I stick to my « high standards »?
Thanks man
Approach and interact with a bunch of people and only try and pull the women that meet your standard. And go to higher end venues, where more of the same caliber of women congregate
Dude, you just nailed it on the head for exactly what I've been doing post covid.
I dunno I guess my beer-goggles teen self that would smash anything with a few holes and a pulse isn't really "me" anymore...
I guess we've grown up lol.
I am finding my best results through social circle game now.
Make friends with someone who has a lot of female friends and get involved that way. Cold approach has been like a never-ending search for a diamond in the rough, mostly sober, & solo (new city).
So yea, I totally understand and am glad I'm not the only one that feels that way on cold approach game recently.
@@stagbeetle195 +1 on beer goggles fading away much more picky now where as early 20's everyone was 10/10 lol
@@Hunter-yy4es literally lol
I guess waking up next to some Swamp-troll that I thought was an elegant Swan. Doesn't have the same allure anymore...
@@stagbeetle195 LOL I get this feeling too. However, it really is area dependent - if you live in the right neighborhood and go to upscale places, you will still be floored, every now and again. Having good standards is great and is definitely not a "problem."
Hi Todd, what is a good way of distinguishing between shit tests and just flirty banter? Is there a grey area and, if so, how do you decide what type of response to give? I.e., whether you decide 'just pass it' if it's shit test, or continue the flirty banter? Thanks.
So basically, frame is like ‘first impression’??
More like "shared understanding" of the situation.
I’m just a beginner at game. Does anyone know any good forums or websites to discuss game with others? Thanks 😊
Where are you at haha? Looks like a garden house or something
That’s the frame
Greenhouse game, you haven't heard?
What to do if a girl is borderline offensive or she acts passively-aggressive towards you?
The chick in question is fuck buddy of a male friend of mine, and when she talks with me she is trying to put me down, sometimes very directly.
I think to start responding in the style of Patrice O'Neal but this will potentially make her angry with my friend
Smirk and say "interesting" then become preoccupied with something else,
That attitude/treatment doesn't deserve your attention
How many times do you think you say "umm" in any given minute while talking in this video?
Let's be fair he is not a motivational speaker like Tony Robertson he is thinking about lines you can use. He's not reading from a script.
Todd can I get a woman in a wheelchair I’m 57 dark, tall and good, I approach well but not a lot of success?
Try the ace formula
You look puffy todd, time to hit the plates
He’s been puffy dog. If he wanted to change it, I’m sure he would’ve by now
and by plates you need to clarify "gym plates" not "dinner plates" 😂
Why would you even notice or bother to say that? Are you gay? Take value from the content or just watch gay porn instead
Would be todds puffy anytime, if i had good game like him lol
I need to see him game with this look like if you agree
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Todd ,dont you think that if you are a attractive man a girl will automaticaaly chase you, whats the need to set up a frame.
If a guy 100 thousand years ago, didnt need to learn frame control to get girls why do i need it.
A guy didn't need to learn how to use a computer back then either, why do you need a laptop bro?
@@ezrastellar1147 bro computer and attraction are two completely different things
Computer is a logical device and attraction is based in evolutionary psychology.
Attraction was same throughout the human race , read something.
Your question just shows how uneducated you are .
@@ezrastellar1147 exactly
He DONT
Todd - stop swallowing when ur in the middle of talking.
Ok you just said absolutely nothing for 14 minutes staright.
Maybe you need to work on some basics first
On there, Coach Casey 😂😂
You speak to complicated
Set playback speed to 0x75. Hope this helps.
Improve your English skills.
Lol it’s too complicated because you’re add a beginners level. Trust me I was there, too, in implementing them into affect was not easy. I fucked up, but also I had some success is fast forward to now wireless fuck ups. More success is now.
Are you 6 years old?
Is English not your language?