I didn't realize how serious mental illness was until I lost my son amd 2 brothers to suicide. IT IS REAL I wanted so badly to be with them I was hospitalized 6 times over wanting to just end the pain. I'm beyond thankful for not ending my life. I GOT HELP and got to see my only daughter grow into a beautiful adult. She saved me So please if anyone is dealing with deep dark depression. Just remember someone does care amd does love you.
That's terrible to lose three people that way. I'm so glad you found a reason to hang on despite your grief. I wish you the best in life from here on out--you've already seen the worst.
I know what depression feels like because in August of 2018 I was seriously contemplating suicide. I was hearing voices in my head telling I was worthless and I had no use anymore. My doctor put me on Citalopram but it wasn't working. The only power that saved me from those voices in my head was the power of the blood of Jesus Christ. When I called to God that night his presence came to me. I felt love that filled my inner soul. The only way I can keep those feelings of depression away is for me to take some time out every day to give praise singing and worship to God. When I do that I can feel God's love and it lifts me up and strengthens me. If I stay away from worship for to long the depression wants to come back. Praise to God keeps it away.
Suicide isn't always a selfish act. When my oldest son was diagnosed with bone cancer at the age of 21 he fought a good fight for 4 years. When he couldn't fight anymore he decided to end his life instead of letting his family watch him suffer and waste away. He spoke to me about this after he was diagnosed and I supported his decision. What my son did was a selfless act not a selfish one.
You should have thought of that before you selfishly decided to force a child into this existence who may suffer terribly and should never have to consider such a difficult decision in the first place. The possibility of them not having a good life just so you can be happy is not worth the risk. I hope you just learn from it and read up about anti-natalism.
@@BloodAndGutsTV your mother should have aborted your ass. How dare you say such things to a mother who has lost their child. Karma will find you bitch
My aunts brother had AIDS, he ended his life back in the mid 80s, but of course that was in the Netherlands 🇳🇱 where such wishes are respected for the terminally ill.
Someone, somewhere may have changed their mind about ending their life today Lamont, through watching this video. Tomorrow may bring a new perspective. "Hold on for One more Day" Wilson Phillips 1990
Diane, I would like to use that quote on my upcoming cemetery visit video's. I plan to go to our local cemeteries and tell stories of the people that I know, or who are related to me. And your comment would be perfect for that. Would you mind if I used it? And do you want me to accredit it to you? I will, just let me know. Thanks.
It is not a good idea to commit an act, such as suicide, stealing, or murder, if you do not know of a certainty what will happen next. Where is anyone that follow through on such an act. Are they really at peace?
I’m sitting here with tears running down my face. I have tried 3 times to end my life,I just feel a constant pain over the loss of my sister to suicide and I miss her so much....... I will continue with my medication and councillors and hold onto the love of my daughter. Thank you BB it means a lot.
Keep the faith and God will see you through. Loosing a child is like someone went inside my body and pulled out my heart and trample on it. That alone should let me think life is worthless, but I cried to God with every fiber of my being and he helped me through the pain and suffering. You can count on him, even when you can't count on anyone else! I love you my brother!!
I am a women who has battled many years with survere manic depression ,Border line personality disorder . You can say all the sweet warm words in the dictionary ,but when your in the clutches of this horrible illness we don’t hear your words,we don’t feel the words. It has only been by Grace of my Lord Jesus Christ that I still live.
So sad! Just goes to show you that money can’t cure everything. Thank you so very much for your message. I wish my grandson had heard it. It hurts so bad not to be able to see him and hug him. I can’t hear his voice anymore and it breaks my heart. He was only 23. I wish I could have healed what was hurting inside of him. He had such a beautiful heart and a loving attitude. I miss him so very very much. 💔😢😢😢😢
Southern Style - thank you so much! It breaks my heart that people are suffering so and feel so desperate. I pray for all those that are hurting and those that understand. God bless you. I do feel my grandson is with me and I will see him again. Love you Southern Style. 💖🤗
We are All Human, rich or poor We will all end up in some cemetery in our towns hopefully not forgotten.Thank you Lamont for visiting and introducing us to many who have left this earth. Gone but not forgotten.RIP🙏
Some deem success as owning fancy cars, dripping in pure gold chains or even unlimited money. If you don't love yourself and others none of it matters. xoxoxo
_her designs on her bags and wallets were so minimalistically beautiful, I’mma have sumn purse bag and it’s wallet someday, rest easy ma’am kate_ ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! That was. Wonderful what you said towards the end, and if I could keep pressing that Thumbs Up Button a hundred thousand times I would thank you again you said it so well.
I just love how you are so respectful Lamont with your videos.It doesn’t surprise me that your channel is growing at rapid speed. You keep it real but you have such compassion. Congratulations in achieving 21 k . Keep it real and you will do great things
Thank you for showing us her gravesite. I didn't know her maiden name and would never have thought she live anywhere but N.Y. . Keep up the good work my friend.
I hope you are getting medical help. These issues are caused by chemical imbalances. Please see a psychiatrist if you have not already. Peace & love 🙏☮️💟
@@OGitGirlJess mine are from childhood trama and I was born at 33 weeks weight 3 lbs and something and I have IBS my dad has them plus depression and other mental health issues my mom so did she was the worst bipolar u can have I lost her to suicide when she was 17 on may 15 delt with my dad drinking issue cops and so on and I have felt with rape I have seen a a doc that's how ingot dignosed with it and depression and anxiety disorder social anxiety to I hated the meds they gave me made me very very angry all the time gained so much weight and my hormones where out in wake so i resufe to go on any again I have worked so hard to loss the weight I have ad it is so we are looking into cbd oil and gummies for me I already found some just have to order when paid im more about using natural stuff to help me I don't even like taking pain medicine lol of this stuff don't work then all look up and find something that won't make me Gian weight won't mess my hormones up again and and won't make me angry all the time
@@OGitGirlJess I also lost the only women that's been like a mother to me on Christmas Eve 2019 to rare uncurble tumor cancer she was 49 been in my life since I was almost 2 years old and I lost my dad's mom who I was also close to cancer as well in 2002 I had alot happen sadly
Martina Lola fraser I’m sorry you’ve had this reaction with the meds. Mine are from childhood trauma also. However, in the past 10 years so many new meds have come on the market that do not have those powerful side effects. I respect your choice, I just wanted you to know that nothing can truly fix a chemical imbalance other than medicine. You’ve been through a lot, I hope you find peace. 🙏💟☮️
Thank You Lamont-A beautiful tribute to Katherine Spade. 🌷🌷🕊🕊🕊Thank you for your encouraging words-mental illness is real-Thank You for addressing it🕊🕊🕊
The late well loved performer Frank Sinatra who passed back in 1998, still had wealth and power at the time of his passing and he chose to have a simple flat marker just like hers.
My oldest daughter came ouer last week for the first time in a while with my grandchildren because of coroavrisus with her new bright pink kate spade bag i will share your videos with her thanks Lamont stay safe fr Ontario canada
Thank you for sharing this video. My heart goes out to Kate’s daughter and family. I pray that her daughter doesn’t suffer from any demons. Mental illness is a very dangerous disease.
Sometimes those who suffer from mental illness only see the ending of their lives to stop the daily pain they feel living. It is their cure and it is a final one. Mental illness is hard to treat and takes many many years to control and some never get it under control. Lamont you did a great job memorializing Kate Spade. May she finally have peace.
Lamont you were literally less than a mile from me! So cool to see KCMO on your channel! My sister was in her class in HS. Super sad for her and her family. 🤍
I remember my 1st Kate Spade bag, I was 25 yrs old and I absolutely loved it. I understand how she felt, it’s hard, mental illness is very serious. Rest In Peace, Kate Spade ❤️❤️❤️.
Many of these comments are being posted without a clear picture of clinical depression or how mental health affects the person who makes that choice of suicide. The patients very illness does NOT factor in on how it would impact others. There is no thoughts of parents, spouse, friends, even children. The pain is crushing and complete, it often feels like it's the best and only option. It is not a cowardly act, it is an act of desperation.
Suicide has taken my father, old brother and youngest brother... one has to be content/happy with what ya have...happiness is key... not money... teaching yourself to see the happiness is what I've concluded to be the way... I also believe being happy sends happiness to those who have left... be it friends and or family. I just giggle over the simplest things events... it all good =-)
@@gillianharrison-gates7181 Thank you all so much... stay happy!! life is really fun and never allow sad things... ya can't change... rule your life... you do that... it "always" get better.
I am so very sorry you've had so much loss... But I also see that you're strong and have a good outlook, and humor,keep laughing, and I can tell you will be just fine... My best to you 😊😊😊
I love her hand bags, and I can tell you, women love talking about how much they love their kate spade purses. For a lot of girls, getting a kate spade purse was a coming of age thing. I'm so happy she was able to share her creativity with the world, I feel sad that she's gone but her legacy will live on forever.
I am here for those who want to talk... No matter what... Just please reach out to me.... I'm no professional... Just someone who cares.... Love you guys... 🤗
I've been on the brink of ending it on several occasions but always thought of my loved ones and sought help. God bless the families that have suffered such a tragic loss. There is always help from someone. Thanks Lamont for sharing 🙏
I appreciate your words for suicide, but let me give you some advice, the last thing someone who's thinking of suicide needs to hear, is that how they feel is considered selfish or cowardly. All that does is makes them feel that there is something else, that they can add to their list, of what they think is wrong with them, especially if they are dealing with depression. You saying that people love them, even if they don't think they do, was perfect. But then calling them something negative, doesn't help any and actually does the opposite of what you're trying to accomplish. And I'm speaking from recent experience. Love your videos, watch every single one. Keep em coming.
I agree. I'm sure Kate was smart enough to realize the effect it would have on her daughter and the rest of her family and friends but some people can't help giving in to those suicidal feelings. She was probably tormented by them for a long time and I wondered if she ever sought out professional help? When you have anxiety/depression the last thing you want to do is be thrust into the spotlight and in her type of career she had to face that constantly. I don't know how she did it except thru great inner strength to fight that battle every day, so using negative words to describe her suicide is not really fair. If you have ever had these same demons, you know they take you to a very dark place and no amount of wealth or success can help. Thank-you for mentioning where people can get help if needed. I hope Kate has now found peace.
Totally wholeheartedly agree! I feel that people that attempt or take their own lives are way past being able to reason out who they are going to hurt etc. They can only think of wanting the pain to end. I also have never believed it is a sin to take your own life and that ones that do will not go to the afterlife. I believe the real sins the lack of funding for mental health care and the stigma,still today,attached to any and all mental illnesses. We lose way too many loved people because of those 2 things!
Hi Lamont; I like what you about people thinking about other people who love them when they want to die,but when depression goes too deep for too long that's not enough. I know because I attempted suicide 5 times & by the grace of God. I am still here. Please if anyone who reads this suffering to the point of suicide please reach out and seek help and know THIS YOU ARE LOVED AND NOT ALONE!!!
I am glad for your videos, very interesting facts. Finally someone is doing this. Amazing life stories of these remarkable people and how they lived and died and where they are now.
I never had one of her bags but knew who she was and was so shocked when she committed suicide. At first I thought how could someone with all she had and had going for her do that and also leave her daughter? But....as someone that has been put through absolute hell these last couple of years I can understand her feeling so down that she checked out. Fortunately, I have never wanted to do that. My heart goes out to her for feeling that depressed and hopeless and to her daughter.....and to anyone else suffering in that way. Please call the number Lamont left if you do. It can and will get better..... Hugs to all.....
Thank you Lamont for pleading for people that are suicidal... But when someone is to that point of taking their life... It's pain they are running from & not wanting tomorrow to come. God Bless.
Thank you Lamont for telling us about Kate . Such a talented lady. I want to know more about her and will do my research. I'm also curious about her young son. I was overwhelmed with sadness when you spoke about her death and mental illness. Makes me wonder about her childhood, her parents and her husband. Her wealth, her success in business, what went wrong .... 🤔👜👛
I found out that Kate had a daughter and not a son. Her name is France's. I listened to your video again and you mention Kate left a note to her daughter. My mistake
First of All... Thank You Lamont for your care and concern for so many people you do not know but yet... To put down a crisis number to call if you are suffering and thinking of harming yourself during those very dark times when no one Seems To Care. And for speaking out on the awareness of this illness and Dispaire that people suffer with. This was a very good video and yes, to just think All the Fame and Money she had she still found a humbling place in her being to only want a small and simple headstone. Rest In Peace~ Ms. Spade🌿
This is exactly why I am a subscriber to each of your channels. Thank you for all you do and the amount of research it takes. Most of all, you are a warm, compassionate caring gentleman. I love you for that. God bless you and stay safe ❤️🙏🏻
I really am glad that he did add the hot line in the video. And Lamont at large for having that heart felt talk for people that might be going through depression and anxiety. That really did touch me and i felt better hearing that and that pushes me to go on. Thank-you! ☺
Lamont great video! You words are so heartfelt. The presentation & concern u send out to ppl is truly amazing. Love how u speak & get the msg out there. Also putting the phone # if ppl need it. Great job!
Your a good human being, we need more people like you Lamont. God bless you. Your right when you say it's a selfish act, my father took his life and my life was never the same.
Thank you for posting the number. I have called it before, not for my own feelings. I have two nephews who took their own lives, two years and two days apart. My brother lost both of his children and is now suicidal himself. He promised to call me before he takes his life, told me how he was going to do it and where. I have talked him out of this, several times and while on the phone with him, was able to get someone to his home. A couple of weeks ago, he tried to call me...the message I heard when I got home was a very faint..hellllp. I had gone to get some blood work dine, at the hospital. I git an eerie feeling when I looked over and saw an ambulance, still running, outside the ER. I git my blood taken and my husband and I stopped to get lunch. I git home and had calls from another brother. I called him and he told me that my brother had tried to kill himself. My husband went back to the hospital. The ambulance I saw had brought my brother in while I was there. My heart dropped because I had not been there for him. I am obviously running out of ways to keep him alive! People who are suicidal do not think about family, children, pets or things along that line. When nephew 1 took his life, I will never forget his mother picking out an urn and turning to nephew 2 and saying to him, “Don’t YOU ever put me through this. Don’t ever do this to me”, she was screaming and crying. He to,d her she had nothing to worry about,he would never do it. He didn’t realize at that point that he was going to do this very thing two years later People who take their own lives get called selfish and cowards, people say they’ll burn in Hell..Nothing could be further from the truth when suicide happens. When my sister died a few years before my first nephew, I became completely obsessed with death, with all things involved in cremation, funerals...the whole deal. People need to research this topic before making ignorant statements! ✌️❤️✌️
Angel For Animals I couldn’t of said it better myself that’s so true in every word you said they are not selfish. at a time like that no one knows how your mind works no one knows what tomorrow may bring to anyone so sorry for your loss my condolences 😢
Laney Spangle ~ Thank you! I found myself in therapy after losing 19 people and for digs over a five year span, nit all to suicide, but they’re just as dead. My therapist kind of tried to tip toe around me and I told him straight up, I do daily research on death. I’ve watched cremations, I’ve watched assisted suicides, I’ve watch actual suicides...all in videos of course. I asked questions that he didn’t want to answer, but eventually did. I learned that through failed suicide attempts, Drs determined that a person taking their own life, can be completely in the dark about what they are doing. Many survivors have said the remember walking into the room with intentions of taking their own life, however, minutes before, their mind “protected” them, they had no clue what they had done, even after surviving. Four years after the last death in my family, I still do research every day about all types of death, all types of burial, all things death related. I hope more people will seek out the information that is out there! ✌️
Angel For Animals your very welcome your a true inspiration in my eyes to think what you have gone through it makes you think and question your own state of mind and where you are at in your own life. thank you for sharing your story to us all and please take care ♥️
You have an amazing way with words. So precise with your delivery but you don’t sound rehearsed at all. Really helps me feel and appreciate the depth of the loss. THE WORLD NEEDS MORE EMPATHY! Keep doing what you’re doing. RIP Kate Spade
Money dont mean crap when you are depressed.
And even less when you're dead.
It depends if you are depressed due to lack of money than money is everything
So very true. Money is not everything.
It does cuz you have a place to eat, sleep go see a therapist. Money makes a world difference.
@New Jack City after you
I didn't realize how serious mental illness was until I lost my son amd 2 brothers to suicide. IT IS REAL
I wanted so badly to be with them I was hospitalized 6 times over wanting to just end the pain.
I'm beyond thankful for not ending my life. I GOT HELP and got to see my only daughter grow into a beautiful adult. She saved me
So please if anyone is dealing with deep dark depression. Just remember someone does care amd does love you.
Ty for sharing gby love and light 🙏🏻
Keep Hanging on!!! I care 🤗
💛💚💙
That's terrible to lose three people that way. I'm so glad you found a reason to hang on despite your grief. I wish you the best in life from here on out--you've already seen the worst.
It takes real courage to not take the easy way out and fight your inner demons. I'm glad you got the help you needed.
I know what depression feels like because in August of 2018 I was seriously contemplating suicide. I was hearing voices in my head telling I was worthless and I had no use anymore. My doctor put me on Citalopram but it wasn't working. The only power that saved me from those voices in my head was the power of the blood of Jesus Christ. When I called to God that night his presence came to me. I felt love that filled my inner soul. The only way I can keep those feelings of depression away is for me to take some time out every day to give praise singing and worship to God. When I do that I can feel God's love and it lifts me up and strengthens me. If I stay away from worship for to long the depression wants to come back. Praise to God keeps it away.
Be encouraged and continue to stay in God's grip!
I currently take that medication and it helped me very much
Hang in there. Keep praising God in the storm. His story for you is not complete. Peace and love to you.
There’s more to this story .. suicide 🤔. If y’all do more research you’ll find out.
Amen praise God. 🙏🏽
Suicide isn't always a selfish act. When my oldest son was diagnosed with bone cancer at the age of 21 he fought a good fight for 4 years. When he couldn't fight anymore he decided to end his life instead of letting his family watch him suffer and waste away. He spoke to me about this after he was diagnosed and I supported his decision. What my son did was a selfless act not a selfish one.
My condolences that's horrible
You should have thought of that before you selfishly decided to force a child into this existence who may suffer terribly and should never have to consider such a difficult decision in the first place. The possibility of them not having a good life just so you can be happy is not worth the risk. I hope you just learn from it and read up about anti-natalism.
@@BloodAndGutsTV your mother should have aborted your ass. How dare you say such things to a mother who has lost their child. Karma will find you bitch
My aunts brother had AIDS, he ended his life back in the mid 80s, but of course that was in the Netherlands 🇳🇱 where such wishes are respected for the terminally ill.
@@BloodAndGutsTV what. The. Hell! First of all what’s wrong with you? Second, what logic is that?! You make no sense and spread terrible energy.
Someone, somewhere may have changed their mind about ending their life today Lamont, through watching this video.
Tomorrow may bring a new perspective.
"Hold on for One more Day"
Wilson Phillips 1990
I completely agree with you BassGirlSusan. I truly appreciate your sincerity and kind heart Lamont. Much love.
Every word of that song is spot on. 💙
Depression can be a living hell. I know from experience.
PRAYED!
Headstones don't tell a story. The people who loved them do.
Nah some headstones do.
Diane, I would like to use that quote on my upcoming cemetery visit video's. I plan to go to our local cemeteries and tell stories of the people that I know, or who are related to me. And your comment would be perfect for that. Would you mind if I used it? And do you want me to accredit it to you? I will, just let me know. Thanks.
Very true.
Her tomb stone should have been designed with one of her designs. She is missed 💗
No matter how popular and rich you are, we all end up in the ground. So stay humble
I love Kate Spade. I was so sad when she passed away
RIP Kate, some of the happiest people on the outside are tormented, inside.
Lamont you have the most beautiful eyes 👀
Very sad for her young child just heartbreaking
Just goes to show ... you never know what somebody else is going through.
The other tombstone said the man you said was her brother born 1918. Could not have been brother.
Suicide is long term for a short solution
Especially at the moment😔
It is not a good idea to commit an act, such as suicide, stealing, or murder, if you do not know of a certainty what will happen next. Where is anyone that follow through on such an act. Are they really at peace?
@@kathybenson9382 had to be her maternal uncle
I’m sitting here with tears running down my face. I have tried 3 times to end my life,I just feel a constant pain over the loss of my sister to suicide and I miss her so much....... I will continue with my medication and councillors and hold onto the love of my daughter.
Thank you BB it means a lot.
Keep the faith and God will see you through. Loosing a child is like someone went inside my body and pulled out my heart and trample on it. That alone should let me think life is worthless, but I cried to God with every fiber of my being and he helped me through the pain and suffering. You can count on him, even when you can't count on anyone else! I love you my brother!!
Keep holding on.Suicide is a spirit ,it lingers in families,break that curse.Pray,hug your daughter.
Sending love...your life is worth living! ❤️
Take it one day at a time, keep your faith in your god. You are loved ❤️
I pray that life gets better for you. This world is better because you are here♥️
RIP Kate Spade. Legend. Thank you Lamont!
I am a women who has battled many years with survere manic depression ,Border line personality disorder . You can say all the sweet warm words in the dictionary ,but when your in the clutches of this horrible illness we don’t hear your words,we don’t feel the words. It has only been by Grace of my Lord Jesus Christ that I still live.
Thank you Lamont, you said it all perfectly...
So sad! Just goes to show you that money can’t cure everything. Thank you so very much for your message. I wish my grandson had heard it. It hurts so bad not to be able to see him and hug him. I can’t hear his voice anymore and it breaks my heart. He was only 23. I wish I could have healed what was hurting inside of him. He had such a beautiful heart and a loving attitude. I miss him so very very much. 💔😢😢😢😢
Southern Style - thank you so much! It breaks my heart that people are suffering so and feel so desperate. I pray for all those that are hurting and those that understand. God bless you. I do feel my grandson is with me and I will see him again. Love you Southern Style. 💖🤗
Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart that’s true, but we need to take away the power money has over us and concentrate on what matters.
Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart great point!
But without the money u stress more no food no housse no life
I’m so very sorry 😢 . God bless you and your ease your pain of loss. May he Rest In Peace.
Thanks for the kind words of encouragement...
Life can be so hard sometimes.
May She rest in Peace
We are All Human, rich or poor
We will all end up in some cemetery in our towns hopefully not forgotten.Thank you Lamont
for visiting and introducing us to many who have left this earth.
Gone but not forgotten.RIP🙏
Some deem success as owning fancy cars, dripping in pure gold chains or even unlimited money. If you don't love yourself and others none of it matters. xoxoxo
There's so many people who are rich and poor who are lonely and broken.you are so right about what you said.
💕💕💕💝
_her designs on her bags and wallets were so minimalistically beautiful, I’mma have sumn purse bag and it’s wallet someday, rest easy ma’am kate_ ❤️❤️❤️
Sad I'm crying here, as i suffer with depression and anxiety, thank you
I love my Kate spade bag Thank u for bringing her final resting place to us.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! That was. Wonderful what you said towards the end, and if I could keep pressing that Thumbs Up Button a hundred thousand times I would thank you again you said it so well.
I just love how you are so respectful Lamont with your videos.It doesn’t surprise me that your channel is growing at rapid speed. You keep it real but you have such compassion. Congratulations in achieving 21 k . Keep it real and you will do great things
I was so sad when she died, I love her bags, I own 2 bags and one wallet....what a shame, may she Rest In Peace! Thanks Lamont, another great video!
People come to this world empty handed... And leaves this world empty handed... All fame all wealth means nothing at the end
What a caring heart you have BB. I'm glad you decided to put the hotline number in the description in case someone might need it.
You do a great job. We have to pray for those who can’t for themselves.
Amen
AMEN!
Thank you for showing us her gravesite. I didn't know her maiden name and would never have thought she live anywhere but N.Y. . Keep up the good work my friend.
I live with sever panic attacks anxiety attacks depression since I was a kid I'm 28 it's not fun at all so sad about her
Sending you ❤️ you can make it through this!
I hope you are getting medical help. These issues are caused by chemical imbalances. Please see a psychiatrist if you have not already. Peace & love 🙏☮️💟
@@OGitGirlJess mine are from childhood trama and I was born at 33 weeks weight 3 lbs and something and I have IBS my dad has them plus depression and other mental health issues my mom so did she was the worst bipolar u can have I lost her to suicide when she was 17 on may 15 delt with my dad drinking issue cops and so on and I have felt with rape I have seen a a doc that's how ingot dignosed with it and depression and anxiety disorder social anxiety to I hated the meds they gave me made me very very angry all the time gained so much weight and my hormones where out in wake so i resufe to go on any again I have worked so hard to loss the weight I have ad it is so we are looking into cbd oil and gummies for me I already found some just have to order when paid im more about using natural stuff to help me I don't even like taking pain medicine lol of this stuff don't work then all look up and find something that won't make me Gian weight won't mess my hormones up again and and won't make me angry all the time
@@OGitGirlJess I also lost the only women that's been like a mother to me on Christmas Eve 2019 to rare uncurble tumor cancer she was 49 been in my life since I was almost 2 years old and I lost my dad's mom who I was also close to cancer as well in 2002 I had alot happen sadly
Martina Lola fraser I’m sorry you’ve had this reaction with the meds. Mine are from childhood trauma also. However, in the past 10 years so many new meds have come on the market that do not have those powerful side effects. I respect your choice, I just wanted you to know that nothing can truly fix a chemical imbalance other than medicine. You’ve been through a lot, I hope you find peace. 🙏💟☮️
Thank You Lamont-A beautiful tribute to Katherine Spade. 🌷🌷🕊🕊🕊Thank you for your encouraging words-mental illness is real-Thank You for addressing it🕊🕊🕊
I'm super shocked by her grave honestly. I was expecting something fancier.
Yeah.
Captcha Neon so was I. Not much to it.
Most likely to keep her privacy
Lynn .D - Like she would know the difference?
@@booradley989 she wouldn't know the difference, but I think it's more so for Security maybe?!! I too was expecting a little more.
The late well loved performer Frank Sinatra who passed back in 1998, still had wealth and power at the time of his passing and he chose to have a simple flat marker just like hers.
I appreciate you so much for putting that number in the description. Thank you for your videos, I love them all! You're a great dude. 🌹
Thank you so much, Lamont. You handled the topic very well and I'm sure that you'll save some lives with this video.
My oldest daughter came ouer last week for the first time in a while with my grandchildren because of coroavrisus with her new bright pink kate spade bag i will share your videos with her thanks Lamont stay safe fr Ontario canada
I definitely deal with some depression and I'm so glad to hear you're just address it love you so I watched all the time when I can.
Its a sad fact that so many people suffer the horror of depression me included so sad she took her own life I just hope she is at peace now
Thank you Luv. For your honesty, Empathy, and your gentle spirit.💖💋🌺
Sometimes, you just want it all to stop. Thank you for your compassion Lamont ❤️
Thank you for sharing this video. My heart goes out to Kate’s daughter and family. I pray that her daughter doesn’t suffer from any demons. Mental illness is a very dangerous disease.
Me too hun. 😭
Just had a classmate take his life less than 10 days ago..never thought he would be the one to do that.
Sometimes those who suffer from mental illness only see the ending of their lives to stop the daily pain they feel living. It is their cure and it is a final one. Mental illness is hard to treat and takes many many years to control and some never get it under control. Lamont you did a great job memorializing Kate Spade. May she finally have peace.
Wonderful message, its all about Love.
Lamont you were literally less than a mile from me! So cool to see KCMO on your channel! My sister was in her class in HS. Super sad for her and her family. 🤍
Thank you Lamont! You are such a caring person, we care about you too!
Damn her headstone looks as though it has been there for at least over 10 years
Great video. Never treat people poorly. You never know what might push them over the edge.
Martha Fogelin ❤️🙏🏻 Amen
I remember my 1st Kate Spade bag, I was 25 yrs old and I absolutely loved it. I understand how she felt, it’s hard, mental illness is very serious. Rest In Peace, Kate Spade ❤️❤️❤️.
I finally got a yellow KS. Loved it but it was stolen.
@@triciaselman9215 🥺🥺🥺😩
Hi from Tucson Az. Never thought that way ever.I love myself
Lamont, thank you for your compassion and your sincerity, your videos touch people's souls.
Thank you Lamont for those words of wisdom. I appreciate your kindness and love for all types of people.
Thank you for all your hard work on showing us all these locations. RIP Kate Spade🙏
Yes exactly Lamont!
You have such a beautiful spirit, much respect my friend 🙏💜
Lamont, I just want you to know how much I appreciate all the links you leave and or phone numbers for people call with tips etc. Good job !
Many of these comments are being posted without a clear picture of clinical depression or how mental health affects the person who makes that choice of suicide. The patients very illness does NOT factor in on how it would impact others. There is no thoughts of parents, spouse, friends, even children. The pain is crushing and complete, it often feels like it's the best and only option. It is not a cowardly act, it is an act of desperation.
Thank you for doing this video on Kate . You’re a very kind person and caring .
Thank you Lamont for those encouraging words at the end of the video ❤you have reached and helped so many people
Suicide has taken my father, old brother and youngest brother... one has to be content/happy with what ya have...happiness is key... not money... teaching yourself to see the happiness is what I've concluded to be the way... I also believe being happy sends happiness to those who have left... be it friends and or family. I just giggle over the simplest things events... it all good =-)
Sorry to hear about all that my friend:(
D. Nicely I’m so sorry for your loss
@@gillianharrison-gates7181 Thank you all so much... stay happy!! life is really fun and never allow sad things... ya can't change... rule your life... you do that... it "always" get better.
So sorry for your loss
I am so very sorry you've had so much loss... But I also see that you're strong and have a good outlook, and humor,keep laughing, and I can tell you will be just fine... My best to you 😊😊😊
I love her hand bags, and I can tell you, women love talking about how much they love their kate spade purses. For a lot of girls, getting a kate spade purse was a coming of age thing. I'm so happy she was able to share her creativity with the world, I feel sad that she's gone but her legacy will live on forever.
Her niece Rachel Brosnahan was just on Jimmy Fallon show from home during the Corona Virus
Thank you Lamont for speaking out and encouraging others to reach out for help.
Well-researched, heartfelt, and moving; another amazing video. Thanks for all of the time you put into these 🙂
Just purchased another today! Love Kate Spades❤️
Thanks for the number lamont, ive been suicidal in the past and my ex husband finding me stopped me, im glad it did
I am too
I am here for those who want to talk... No matter what... Just please reach out to me.... I'm no professional... Just someone who cares.... Love you guys... 🤗
I've been on the brink of ending it on several occasions but always thought of my loved ones and sought help. God bless the families that have suffered such a tragic loss. There is always help from someone. Thanks Lamont for sharing 🙏
She was a jewel of a woman...so very missed...RIP my dear!
Thanks for sharing. Lamont , well said. GOD BLESS.
I appreciate your words for suicide, but let me give you some advice, the last thing someone who's thinking of suicide needs to hear, is that how they feel is considered selfish or cowardly. All that does is makes them feel that there is something else, that they can add to their list, of what they think is wrong with them, especially if they are dealing with depression. You saying that people love them, even if they don't think they do, was perfect. But then calling them something negative, doesn't help any and actually does the opposite of what you're trying to accomplish. And I'm speaking from recent experience.
Love your videos, watch every single one. Keep em coming.
I agree. I'm sure Kate was smart enough to realize the effect it would have on her daughter and the rest of her family and friends but some people can't help giving in to those suicidal feelings. She was probably tormented by them for a long time and I wondered if she ever sought out professional help?
When you have anxiety/depression the last thing you want to do is be thrust into the spotlight and in her type of career she had to face that constantly. I don't know how she did it except thru great inner strength to fight that battle every day, so using negative words to describe her suicide is not really fair. If you have ever had these same demons, you know they take you to a very dark place and no amount of wealth or success can help. Thank-you for mentioning where people can get help if needed. I hope Kate has now found peace.
So glad you said this. I was thinking the same thing.
Totally wholeheartedly agree! I feel that people that attempt or take their own lives are way past being able to reason out who they are going to hurt etc. They can only think of wanting the pain to end.
I also have never believed it is a sin to take your own life and that ones that do will not go to the afterlife.
I believe the real sins the lack of funding for mental health care and the stigma,still today,attached to any and all mental illnesses. We lose way too many loved people because of those 2 things!
I agree with you. Humans are usually wanting to live & thrive & those who become suicidal it is because something drove them to it.
You are spot on in your assessment. Very sad. Thank you for the link! Very thoughtful.
Hi Lamont; I like what you about people thinking about other people who love them when they want to die,but when depression goes too deep for too long that's not enough. I know because I attempted suicide 5 times & by the grace of God. I am still here. Please if anyone who reads this suffering to the point of suicide please reach out and seek help and know THIS YOU ARE LOVED AND NOT ALONE!!!
Ty you are loved too
I am glad for your videos, very interesting facts. Finally someone is doing this. Amazing life stories of these remarkable people and how they lived and died and where they are now.
I never had one of her bags but knew who she was and was so shocked when she committed suicide.
At first I thought how could someone with all she had and had going for her do that and also leave her daughter? But....as someone that has been put through absolute hell these last couple of years I can understand her feeling so down that she checked out. Fortunately, I have never wanted to do that.
My heart goes out to her for feeling that depressed and hopeless and to her daughter.....and to anyone else suffering in that way. Please call the number Lamont left if you do. It can and will get better.....
Hugs to all.....
Thank you Lamont for pleading for people that are suicidal... But when someone is to that point of taking their life... It's pain they are running from & not wanting tomorrow to come.
God Bless.
Rest in the Light Kate. You will never be forgotten and will always be loved 💗
Thank you Lamont for telling us about Kate . Such a talented lady. I want to know more about her and will do my research. I'm also curious about her young son. I was overwhelmed with sadness when you spoke about her death and mental illness. Makes me wonder about her childhood, her parents and her husband. Her wealth, her success in business, what went wrong .... 🤔👜👛
I found out that Kate had a daughter and not a son. Her name is France's. I listened to your video again and you mention Kate left a note to her daughter. My mistake
Thank you for sharing very sad she was still young and had a little girl hope you are doing well.
First of All... Thank You Lamont for your care and concern for so many people you do not know but yet... To put down a crisis number to call if you are suffering and thinking of harming yourself during those very dark times when no one Seems To Care. And for speaking out on the awareness of this illness and Dispaire that people suffer with. This was a very good video and yes, to just think All the Fame and Money she had she still found a humbling place in her being to only want a small and simple headstone. Rest In Peace~ Ms. Spade🌿
Thank you for the kind words
You are a great man! Keep up the good work man. :)
Thanks
This is exactly why I am a subscriber to each of your channels. Thank you for all you do and the amount of research it takes. Most of all, you are a warm, compassionate caring gentleman. I love you for that. God bless you and stay safe ❤️🙏🏻
Seriously? A tiny marker in Missouri is all that’s left . Craziness.
Your message at end has me crying...depression sufferer here...THANK YOU Lamont! ♥️✌😇
If you only knew. REALLY knew!
THANKS FOR sharing words.👍🇺🇸
I had this effect me. I lost my beautiful niece. I know how her family feels. Thank you.
Feel so sad for her and her daughter. 💞
Beautiful message, Lamont. Thank you for this one❤❤❤
You are a good man, Lamont.
I really am glad that he did add the hot line in the video. And Lamont at large for having that heart felt talk for people that might be going through depression and anxiety. That really did touch me and i felt better hearing that and that pushes me to go on. Thank-you! ☺
Rest In Peace Kate.
Lamont great video! You words are so heartfelt. The presentation & concern u send out to ppl is truly amazing. Love how u speak & get the msg out there. Also putting the phone # if ppl need it. Great job!
Rest in Paradise Kate.
I live in Canada. Respect and love your time and Videos. Thank you for your hard work.
Well damn what a headstone smh 🤔🤔🤔$150 million you say
Your a good human being, we need more people like you Lamont. God bless you. Your right when you say it's a selfish act, my father took his life and my life was never the same.
Afterlife interview with Kate Spader : on Sloan Bella channel. There was a lot more going on in her household other than her depression !!
Thank you for posting the number. I have called it before, not for my own feelings. I have two nephews who took their own lives, two years and two days apart. My brother lost both of his children and is now suicidal himself. He promised to call me before he takes his life, told me how he was going to do it and where. I have talked him out of this, several times and while on the phone with him, was able to get someone to his home.
A couple of weeks ago, he tried to call me...the message I heard when I got home was a very faint..hellllp. I had gone to get some blood work dine, at the hospital. I git an eerie feeling when I looked over and saw an ambulance, still running, outside the ER. I git my blood taken and my husband and I stopped to get lunch. I git home and had calls from another brother. I called him and he told me that my brother had tried to kill himself. My husband went back to the hospital. The ambulance I saw had brought my brother in while I was there. My heart dropped because I had not been there for him. I am obviously running out of ways to keep him alive!
People who are suicidal do not think about family, children, pets or things along that line. When nephew 1 took his life, I will never forget his mother picking out an urn and turning to nephew 2 and saying to him, “Don’t YOU ever put me through this. Don’t ever do this to me”, she was screaming and crying. He to,d her she had nothing to worry about,he would never do it. He didn’t realize at that point that he was going to do this very thing two years later
People who take their own lives get called selfish and cowards, people say they’ll burn in Hell..Nothing could be further from the truth when suicide happens. When my sister died a few years before my first nephew, I became completely obsessed with death, with all things involved in cremation, funerals...the whole deal. People need to research this topic before making ignorant statements! ✌️❤️✌️
Angel For Animals I couldn’t of said it better myself that’s so true in every word you said they are not selfish. at a time like that no one knows how your mind works no one knows what tomorrow may bring to anyone so sorry for your loss my condolences 😢
Laney Spangle ~ Thank you! I found myself in therapy after losing 19 people and for digs over a five year span, nit all to suicide, but they’re just as dead. My therapist kind of tried to tip toe around me and I told him straight up, I do daily research on death. I’ve watched cremations, I’ve watched assisted suicides, I’ve watch actual suicides...all in videos of course. I asked questions that he didn’t want to answer, but eventually did.
I learned that through failed suicide attempts, Drs determined that a person taking their own life, can be completely in the dark about what they are doing. Many survivors have said the remember walking into the room with intentions of taking their own life, however, minutes before, their mind “protected” them, they had no clue what they had done, even after surviving. Four years after the last death in my family, I still do research every day about all types of death, all types of burial, all things death related. I hope more people will seek out the information that is out there! ✌️
Angel For Animals your very welcome your a true inspiration in my eyes to think what you have gone through it makes you think and question your own state of mind and where you are at in your own life. thank you for sharing your story to us all and please take care ♥️
Laney Spangle ~ You’re very kind! You take date also. ✌️
Not in eternal slumber....all the dead are resting until that day of his glorious return.
You have an amazing way with words. So precise with your delivery but you don’t sound rehearsed at all. Really helps me feel and appreciate the depth of the loss. THE WORLD NEEDS MORE EMPATHY! Keep doing what you’re doing. RIP Kate Spade