Are you getting mixed messages?
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- Mixed messages leave you confused and wondering how to proceed. Do you pursue? Pull back? Or evacuate altogether and go no contact? This TH-cam Live discussion on Love Advice guides you on the best choice for each scenario. #mixedmessages #datingadvice
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Relationship Expert and Bestselling Author (Allowing Magnificence, Older Women/Younger Men, and Breakup Triage) Susan Winter, writes, speaks and coaches on evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. Media credits include: THE OPRAH SHOW, THE TODAY SHOW, GOOD MORNING AMERICA, ABC/CBS/NBC EVENING NEWS, CNN, BBC, COSMO, HARPERS BAZAAR, PEOPLE, FORTUNE, BUSINESS INSIDER, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, and THE NEW YORK TIMES. In radio, Susan is a frequent guest on NPR, ABC, BBC, PLAYBOY RADIO (Sirius), and CBS NEWS RADIO. Public speaking includes keynotes at the World Economic Forum, International Mental Health Festival, and Core Club (NYC). Her Podcast, 'The Susan Winter Show,' can be heard on Spotify, iHeart Radio, and Apple Music. www.susanwinter.net
susan is such a self-loving goddess.
Agreed. Well balanced woman
Thank you! Absolutely love your comment
@@Surayya444 thanks!!
1:07:45 - "You will be more tormented by being less, than the frustration of watching everybody fail to be more." Quoted for truth.
Celibacy solved all my problems for good.
SUPERCHAT ANSWERS: 1. THORWALA. You've been too accommodating, had too few boundaries in place, and been too passive in the relationship. I think that's why she dumped you and says she sees you as a 'brother.' Due to those factors, you have to move on. Your energy needs to be confidently forward, not seeking to re-attract her. Find your center and your strength, and from that place she (might in time) see you in a different light. Best wishes!
Mixed messages suck, yes. I was just complimented by a random guy on Bumble for my assertiveness. He said a lot of women lack that. So there you go, girls. If you needed permission to speak your mind, there it is! Be authentic and speak your truth. Embolden and empower yourself. You won't regret it.
"We can't jam a quality person inside a pretty exterior."
Thank you Susan!! Once again! You're such a warm, intelligent and kind person. I love listening to your psychological advice which is always heartfelt as well as logical!! Great work🤩😘💟
I appreciate your comment insomnia
SUPPERCHAT ANSWERS: 2.COOLMOM. He is exhibiting classic player behavior. Love bombing, gifts, actively courting you, then once he's slept with you he pulls away. I'm so sorry to say it like it is... looks very much like a dating game and you need to make your exit. Best wishes!
honestly, as a guy it's always good for me to sit & listen about women, to stride to be better man, its rare to find grounded, real life, advice, feed back, etc.
Susan is Goddess OMG '' You got to see progress in relationship - if you get longer period of togetherness is very good sign the relationship is going somewhere''. Thank you so much Susan !!!
Susan you are such an angel and role model. You always point out the roots under the surfaces. I am so happy i found you here. truely thankful Susan. lots of love and respect.
Hello dear Summer. This is Winter. So lovely to read your comment I do appreciate it
Me. Susan. You are so graceful in your wisdom. Listening to you about the “player” I actually got sick to my stomach bc you hit my guy on the head. I really need to watch this again and again and again. I am so glad to have been able to hear you today! Thank you for all you do. Such a beautiful person!
ALEX FLIPS, THANK YOU DEAR MAN!! I missed some of the comments you steered my way. I'll be aware next time. I really appreciate your moderating for me. You're the best!
Susan, I just started listening to you. I love and enjoy all the wisdom you share with us. 🤍
The way you simplify everything reminds of the famous Einstein's quote "If you can't explain it to a six year old, you don't understand it yourself."... sometimes, I just wonder, why it did not occur to me to analyze relationship complications as you do..!! everything looks just so EASY with your brilliant approaches ..you are absolutely wonderful! thank you indeed xxx
Ari, Thank you. I truly appreciate what you have written. I’m an only child who grew up in the countryside. Dogs and horses were my friends. I had lots of time to think as I was always alone. And in that I always observed people and analyze their interactions, in part, because I didn’t understand their responses. I came up with different responses. But I was afraid to share them because I must be wrong if everybody else is in agreement. So I truly appreciate your thoughtful note
Oh, thank you Susan for sharing the story of your wisdom development!🌹
Can’t help myself not leaving a comment while listening to your show every Thursday and learning about bits and pieces of Susanism such as .. if you are dealing with an unskilled partner who treats you horribly, ask yourself ‘WHAT AM I DOING HERE?!!’..👌😍🙏
So many things so well said Susan! I think one of your best videos!♥️
Thank you Bonnie
Dear Susan, thank you soo much for these advises! Especially that they dont only apply to one person, but, more of us in the similar situations can really use the wisdom in them. Thank you!
Thank you for all your advice! I have a situation is like advice for
Good luck on the Abc the List Susan ! ❤️
Thank you Roberta
Just on time. I needed to see this video today. thank you Susan.
love Susan. yes conflict resolution should be a class in high school or junior high. no social skills are taught.
Susan is the BEST! Lovely lady. Lovely heart. Great advice. Thanks Susan. ........I'm in Texas.
Yeehaw! I’m your next-door neighbor. Thanks for the awesome comment and for your support
@@SusanWinter So, you are the "girl next door." ..... I'm going to come ring your doorbell. :) :) :)
Dear Susan,
Would you please discuss about Twin Flames relationship? I think I found my twin five years ago.
I love your channel. You’re a true angel coming from heaven teaching us how to have healthy relationships. You have such a beautiful heart and soul. We adore you!! Thank You!
For Gorgus who contributed for Superchat, if you havent watched the replay yet. Your advice from Susan starts from min 1:13:00
Thanks for your help deep diver!
Priority. The keyword.
Yes!😊
Thank you for enlightening us 🙌🏽
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A lot of times, especially with older people in relationships, negotiations result in stalemates...🤷 = Relationship ends
Wow! You re amazing🌹Thank you for your insight💝
U are the best thank u sooo much!!!! Appreciate so much your channel
why do I still want someone bad for me. he was my fiance and I was so happy . How can I want someone who doesnt love me and could let me go? people say oh he could come around,but my pride wont let that happen. im too hurt. it would feel fake to me and conditional if he came back. he could leave again. my trust is shattered. id never leave him. my love is stronger.
his love was as real as his plastic mary. all fake. easily breakable. no sign of her in real life.
Hi Susan.. I'm an avid fan. I've watched most of your videos.
I really want to ask you about the guy im dating for quite sometime. He has been consistent and treating me well. I really like him, but the thing is. He has a very bad past which is a deal breaker for me. He has kids in the past but not married. Should I give him a chance or take the risk that he is a changed man, or should i just let him go?
You look amazing ❤
Thank you Susan 💛✊
I just subscribe Susan love your videos
My girlfriend recently told me she cheated on me online but verbally texting this guy she met in twitter from Nigeria. Were in california She told me they've been talking for 3 weeks 1 week ago. Within 2 hours of this I went home. She said that I was neglecting her and did spend enough time with her and do things she liked. The guy lives in nigeria really!
She said she is willing to end if me and her crest emotional security. She said she won't talk to that guy anymore and she wants to be with me only
Hola Susan!!! Me encanta your talks!!!
Not anymore I believe.
Thank you Susan♥️
Aren't mixed messge a No?
It’s definitely a No.
It depends. Mixed messages are not a good sign because it means the person you are with is either unclear, unmotivated, or playing. Generally speaking you should go in another direction however, in cases where the individual is exceedingly forthright and honest about their fear and state their intention to overcome it as they grow closer to you… Then you have a possibility
how about when he has been very nice to you. you want to give him a chance but you are afraid he might repeat the same mistakes because of his dark past
No. Don’t fall for the BS. True nature has been told and shown. Put yourself first. Keep legs closed, for sure.
I have tried and tried he knows I care. Do I stop trying I still want him in my life Ty
I know very little of your situation from two sentences. But if you keep trying and he keeps being unresponsive, move on
@@SusanWinter thankyou Susan. That's what everyone says but I hate giving up how to move on?
Hi Susan i have coffee date with a woman im looking forward to it
I feel that I am evolved in certain aspects of what I want. But still think that I don't have high self esteem.
As I am dealing with wmy ex, who I thought had low self esteem, and needed validation from other guys.. is now doing well in professional life. But personally she has become numb towards me, saying she doesn't feel it's important if we stay together or not.
And this makes me anxious. Am I really lower than my ex(who is trying to work it out as gf) when it comes esteem?
Dear Susan, I met a man yesterday and after a few minutes he asked if I took in laundry? You know, circa 1920's. Do you think he's The One?
I’ve been in a relationship for 7 years he’s asked to marry me and gave me a ring. I have fallen out of love and no longer want to kiss or have sex with him. I’m just not attracted to him anymore. How do I stay friends and not hurt him.
Firstly, you cannot be friends. That would be torture for him and uncomfortable for you. Perhaps in time when he no longer adores you and wants you as his wife.This is a super tough discussion. It has to be done with warmth and kindness while also being clear and firm. Speak to him honestly and from your heart. Tell him that because of the deep affection you have for him and have had in the past, you cannot in good conscience move forward with marriage knowing that it no longer feels right for you. That would create greater harm in the long run
Give him my contact info, please
Dear Susan,
I am the one who ask you a question about Twin Flames relationship. Just in case you decide to choose that topic.
My name is Dee
And I don’t know how to do super chat with a tag of dollars amount. Please advice
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Hi how long do u wait when he pulled away after 6 months
I’ve been dating a woman for two months now we are going slow and are having a great time , we even are going on road trips together. It’s like this was meant to be. I was saying goodbye the other night from hanging out for a weekend , all the sudden she says “ I love you “ I said it right back without a pause, less than 10 minutes later I got a text that said I love you but as a friend even though we are dating . So now I’m confused is she afraid of going to fast and is taking the “ love you” away ... or is she just afraid maybe she’s falling for me and coming out to soon . Idk ... we get along great and what not and there’s attraction there , I guess I’m kinda confused I meant what I said to her but now Idk about her part.....
Hi Susan im going ask one the women i know to be my Valentine im trying to think of witch one
Eric, you have a wonderful problem ahead of you. You have not one but several women to choose from. So choose wisely and enjoy your Valentine’s Day
Thank you susan i already ask the one woman and she said yes we are going to have lunch for Valentine's day
The one that says yes.
@@nuthinbutluv4u142 hi how are you doing
Why does someone says I dont feel the same anymore like a couple of month ago?
Caroline, love can be whimsical. It’s probably infatuation that faded
Wow, hitting the nails on the head...
Thanks Frank
Let's date?
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