Many years ago I was a lorry driver away all week and my wife was at home with 2 young kids, my neighbor saw the grass in our garden was getting tall, instead of just commenting he came around and cut it for us. No questions and no judgement, he just did it. I've retired now, so am able to return that favour to neighbours in need. Instead of judging, ask, everyone needs a little help from time to time.
Years ago, I used to cut my neighbours front lawn when I cut my own. Then a family situation / emergency meant I didn’t have time for a number of months. The grass grew and grew, and not once did my neighbour ever enquire if anything was ok! Sadly, much of the time, doing good deeds means you end up being taken for granted!
I spent decades helping others as a nurse. I'm now in a position where my health has deteriorated to the point where I need help. About 6 years ago, my mother and 2 of my brothers died within 9 months. My 3rd brother was diagnosed with terminal heart disease and he moved in with me. I was still working plus caring for him full time, which accelerated my own health problems. I cared for him for 2 years before he also passed away. Please don't judge. You don't know what the situation is that caused this. My yard looked very bad and, when I finally stopped hiding behind pride and I shared my health issues, several people stepped in to help. I am eternally grateful they did. Now some of the neighborhood preteens and teens have started helping me and I pay them so they can earn something for their hard work and I am at peace knowing my yard isn't an eyesore.
As to judging folks.. ive suffered from mental health problems due to my husband's health issues. In the last 12 months, he nearly died 3 times. The stress on both of us was absolute, overwhelming and completely debilitating. FYI, we've been married 33.5 years and are in our late 60,s. So, please don't judge a person by what you may see on the outside, inside there may well be a plethora of invisible problems. Be kind and spread a little sunshine in the lives of others.
Couldn’t agreed more Joanna! My customer was so kind to me and Just seemed to have a lot on his plate, neighbours came out and weren’t friendly at all. I wish you and your husband all the best and hope you both have a great weekend
I’m a gardener I deal with overgrown gardens weekly there’s normally a sad story behind it and the smile on the customers face when they see it all tidied and back to how it was before is priceless!
I can't count the number of times I shoved stuff into a cupboard or under the bed or into the back yard because I couldn't take my eyes of a very "busy" toddler for even 30 seconds. If only there had been someone like you at that point in my life to help out a bit. This was so lovely to watch.
My daughter has 5...4 to 16...guess what they do...chores...started them early the fundamentals of life. Just as I did her. I worked, and going to school and still managed what needed to be done. Good luck with your little one
@@jlocey87 Oh! that toddler is in his 30s now. I did start both on chores as early as possible--by age 4 they were cleaning toilets. But, getting to that point was grueling.
Quite right. A neglected garden or yard does not mean a bad person lives there. It might be they are having serious challenges that make keeping the yard clean seem a bit less than central to their lives at a particular moment. They may be old, disabled, sick or depressed just to name a few possible challenges. Neighbours can help. You are showing your help here. Valuable video that we can all learn from and emulate! Respect.
@Peter M. Why would you come up with all kinds of silly reasons such as life problems as reasons to not maintain a garden, maybe the owner just doesn't give a shit about gardening, which is his/her right. Maybe he/she bought the house because he/she liked the house, the garden just came with it.
I have seen this plenty of times. People are just lazy. Period. It's the entitlement mentality whereby that was Mommy or Daddy's job...but they ain't around no more so it ain't ever gonna get done. Work ethic gets watered down every generation entitlement goes up. Put the baby in the shade and spend an hour or two a weekend to at least clean and organize the shit laying around the year. Excuse makers are just as bad as the perpetrators.
@@TVCanTThat's a silly and shallow attitude. I have worked hard on the garden, but this year due to a bereavement, worries about my pension not being paid and the lousy weather, I've spent much less time on it. Mowing the lawn, yes, but weeds in some areas are rampant. It's a big garden and demands a lot of time, and motivation. The latter has been a struggle. Not an excuse. A statement. Now I'm playing catch up, but the weather has again thwarted my plan for a Bank Holiday mow and weed blitz
Stunning! Hope the man and his daughter enjoy their new space. As a single parent my garden was neglected for very many years. Working full time, raising my daughter and renovating my old cottage on my own took all my time and money. It's only in the last few years, now that my daughter is grown, that I have time to tackle outdoors. I'm sure some of my neighbours thought I was lazy but theres only so much one person can do. I would have cherished a little help along the way so I hope your beneficiaries are truly grateful.
First, I would tell the neighbor to MTOB. And, if they still kept on about it I would have handed them the weed eater and the pressure washer and told them to have fun!! You never know what a person is going through. I can name A LOT of channels on here that I watch that help out others without blinking an eye!! So thank you for all you do and it looks fantastic!!
I live on a farm and on a farm road. All the houses are well kept except one. He and She both work for the National Park Service (Wilson's Creek) and have good paying jobs. The house and the yard are an absolute freaking mess. Garbage, old cars, appliances, and God knows what are underneath 4 ft of grass, weeds, small bushes and trees that have taken over. The old wood siding has been eaten off the house by their goats and sheep. Yes, the wood is EATEN off by these goats and sheep. I'm not kidding. He came by my work one day (his mistake) and introduced himself to me and I immediately launched into a quiet tirade about his filthy yard and house. I told him he alone was driving down property values and he needed to get his ass home and clean his yard. No kidding. I minced no words with this lazy govt employee. I did not care if I got fired, I'm retired and was working part time. But I told him off for sure.
@@stormy8092 And where did it get you? Nowhere. You could also lend him a helping hand, take on small portions together as neighbours. Or perhaps actually motivate him to take care of his garden and not scold him off like he's some child that did something bad? You're probably decades older than me, but this stubborn and hostile behaviour towards your neighbours isn't going to help you nor your neighbourhood at all.
There is nothing wrong needing some help. No one is perfect and Lord knows I can't always get things done. Prayers for all!!! I am excited to see the finished area.
Just WOW! This Weedtastic Jungle was an absolute treat to clean! If you could help me to bring more cleans like this to my channel and community.. all you have to do Is hit that subscribe button and support the Journey.. (It doesn't cost you a penny)
Do you dump the weeds in the plastic bags or empty them to reuse the bags for the next job?. Landfill and unnecessary plastic waste is a huge problem I think. Thanks for the video and yes I have subscribe.
At the end of a different video I show how I dispose of It all, I reuse the bags unless they split. Sometime I Just use gorilla buckets too. Thanks for watching
You guys worked so hard well done it's the war time spirit of this great country people helping one another really touches all our hearts who will help some one tomorrow
It is written, "Do not judge, lest you be judged. For the measure you use will be used against you. Treat others as you wish to be treated." Lived my whole life like that. Never had any problems. I'm on my 60's now and it still works. Cheers from Tennessee
I have to say, weeds also grow incredibly fast, especially it seems in really hot weather! It doesn't take long for a yard to look like that, at least over here in USA. I am so happy you were able to help, he seemed so nice. Boo on that neighbor! Still watching the video, but I can't wait to see the family outro! Edit: Omg, Arthur! He's getting so big! So adorable. It seems like Theo was just that age. 🥰
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Never judge others!!On sept 2020 i had a brain tumor that all of the sudden put me in a coma.We didnt know if i was going to live and if I did what was the extent of the brain damage.In all that turmoil my husband had to get rid of all our animals and hes working full time.He had to let our property go.Whoever looked from outside thinks that we are lazy...But it was too much to deal for one person.We needed help.Thank God for His miracle.Im walking and talking and Im alive.We still need help but were doing what we can keeping the property. Not everybody is lazy! Some people have REAL REASONS not excuses! Beautiful Job!!😊😁
@@marlenegold280 Marlene...people dont know!!!It takes 24/7!I even needed somebody to give me fluids.I couldn't move! When some loved one is in that situation,they become PRIORITY!...People have no idea!!!....
As someone who is disabled and has mental health issues I know how quickly stuff can spiral. Well done mate, well handled and beautifully cleaned. Yay singing Arthur so clever and such beautiful singing and a snazzy hair cut.
Thank you mimi, I received a frosty greeting by the neighbour I did actually catch it on camera but I’m not allowed to use the footage. Hope you have a lovely weekend
Another gorgeous patio reveal which goes a lot deeper than bricks. You leave people feeling whole and beautiful again...like everything is okay or at least somewhat better. Like my neighbor who's a barber, people leave him feeling beautiful and confident again. You perform a very valuable service to humanity... and Inspire others around the world.
During covid I was having a hard time. The local church ladies came and cleaned my house. It is the most kind/ meaningful thing that ever happened to me. Just fills my heart with gratitude and love whenever I think back on it.
All of us widowed or solo parents, that can balance kids, full time employment and house chores, get it, he's not into outdoor work-and that's OK! He's got money to hire help. The patio was light work and you guys did a great job. Welldone! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
First time I've come across your channel. You did a lovely job on the garden. So right that people are too quick to judge others without knowing the full story. Some people are never happy unless they are putting others down. Your little boy is so cute also. Best wishes!
Aw thanks I hope you enjoyed the content, Totally agree.. Just say something nice and try make someone smile! Thank you that’s Arthur 18months old and I have another Terror called Theo nearly 4! 😊
Loved your boy's radiant face when Daddy told him he did well. Please parents, praise your children often and love them. They are so precious and deserve the best you can give them.
Thank you for being kind to this man. Working full-time and single parent too a toddler he would be lucky to get time to breathe let along think about a back garden patio. Neighbour sounds like the neighbour from hell. Always willing to put someone down not help them up. To even be hostile to you says it all about him to be frank. It was an awesome job. Arthur was gorgeous 😍 This whole video was a bright spot in an absolutely appalling day so thank you for that too
I had that same day, what a surprise! Courtyard looks amazing, and nosy mean neighbor needs to spend an hour in someone else's shoes. God Bless that darling boy, gave me a big smile...
In alot of cases, people with physical or mental issues/challenges just cannot get out to do maintenance on the property. When you're dealing with these issues gardening isn't a priority. We show never judge because we don't know their circumstances. Wouldn't it be much more peaceful and kinder if the neighbour took the time to check on their neighbour and helped out!
It's wonderful that you are able to help, if they have children, it's hard to get something done, I've been there. So kudos to you. And blessings for the family.
Es sorprendente que como mantengas tu casa eso refleja tu estado mental. La limpieza y el orden mejora en mucho los estados depresivos. Cuando te sientas con depresión o tristeza ponte a limpiar y a ordenar eso es curativo
I can't help but think how much better this area looks now when he comes home. What a great relief for him. Perhaps he can find a small table and couple of chairs at a thrift shop to make a nice spot to sit. A couple of pots with a few easy care plants would soften it and be a nice addition. Good job you did for him, mate.
The court yard looks so much better and now his toddler can play there too! Arthur is adorable, probably will be a drummer when he grows up ;) Hope you all have a wonderful day and thanks for sharing the clean up!
Your so kind! And yes nobody should be judging anyone. As for people calling him lazy! That angers me! He works full-time and has a toddler, so he has two full-time jobs! He just needed a hand! He was blessed to meet you! People need to know the whole story before saying anything! They honestly shouldn't be saying anything to begin with. If they were so concerned they should have stepped up and gave him a helping hand like you did! Your an amazing guy! Thanks for all you do! I always say in the end of my videos to always be kind to others because we don't know what they are going through And a simple smile or hello can turn their entire day around. Blessings to you and your family 🦋
That was a monster of a job especially in that heat! I didn't expect much of a colour change but they came up so much brighter. Great job. Arthur is getting big! He has shot up!
Single mum's have been bring up children and sometimes working two or three jobs with less pay just to stay above water for generations, wearing the title of lazy or scummy mummy when they just can't keep up with the house and garden maintenance with everything else. Your right people shouldn't judge but unfortunately most do with their actions. Hopefully this can inspire neighbours an communities to check in on one another and start with a smile or a friendly wave. It Costs nothing to be polite and means the world to someone alone or in need. . Great job.. loved this one as it's not just the elderly who need support.. it can be anyone.. 🖒💞😎✌
I guess it's good that the weeds grew up through the brick. They didn't seem to put up much of a fight when being pulled. A great job overall. I really like the simple design on the brick. And yes, every neighborhood, everywhere has that one guy who would rather complain than do the first thing for their community
You've given that dad happiness on so many levels, the work you've done on his yard gives him back days of his life trying to do it himself. Now he also has a safe place for his toddler to run around outside, giving that piece of mind to both him and his child. This was a big one on your total karma scale.
Sometimes ppl might think that spaces like this were neglected for such a long time when in fact it only took a few weeks for the weeds to grow uncontrallably due to a mixture of sun and rain lol. I know from experience! haha
This is from a year ago and I’m amazed how differently you work these days with all the Kress tools. You must find life so much easier these days. Mind you, the jobs you tackle these days are 10 times harder. Keep up the good work,Ben.
Thanks for another great video! That was a nightmare job and you converted it to a dream! Thank you to both you and your helper. I also enjoyed ime with Arthur! He is getting to be a big boy! Thank you to you and your wife for all you do for your sons and for us. It is good to see family interacting and enjoying each other. George S
I'm from Russia. And it's so strange to me that having such a small yard it is completely tiled. In our country, they would have made a solid flower garden or beds with tomatoes and herbs)
Everyone does something different with their gardens in the UK - some will have flowerbeds, some will have trees, some will have a wild garden, and some will prefer some harder surfaces so they have a table and chairs outside, or so their children can use their bikes on it. We’re all individuals, but most Brit swill prefer a greener area. It’s very much no one else’s business what neighbours do with their gardens, though. We really value our privacy and right to do what we want with out own spaces.
What a beautiful transformation ❣️ Now that’s a space a toddler can really use. Hope it makes the family’s life more rounded out with outside playtime. Beautiful job and as always, beautiful family. 💕💕
Wow those weeds were huge! U guys did such an excellent job with this property. I’m sure the home owner is thrilled to be able to enjoy the beautiful outside patio. 💯
Thankyou Ben, I think the guy just got over whelmed with it. Having someone come in who knows what they're doing is a massive help. I'd like to hope that he can stay on top of it now. Enjoy your weekend 🙂
So glad the homeowner was able to afford a professional. OMG don’t have to tell most of us what working a stressful job all day, pick up from daycare, dinner, laundry, bath…🤦🏻♀️. That was a little overgrown, but you got him started AND did an excellent job!👍🏻💚💚💚Arthur is beginning to show off his personality! 💙💙
Ben, great job! The neighbor can stuff it!!! You and your brother did this guy a solid. So excited when I read in the comments you and Nick are going to collaborate 😄 Arthur's new haircut is so cute 😍 and he's learning so much so quickly. Have a good safe week Ben.
Thank you Luann . Yes if all goes to plan we will be filming on the 28th be exciting to bring a collaboration to the channel. Yes bless him makes him look so grown up though. Hope you are well and have a great week
Ben , this is most impressive job you've posted to date ! What a transformation ! I didn't realize there were different coloured bricks in the bigger area under all of those weeds . I could see it was hot , 10 out of 10 to you and your mate for doing a brilliant job .
Love watching these transformation videos. It’s inspired me to look after my garden more. We moved into our house a few years ago and we both work full time and have prioritised making the inside of the house nice (as that’s where we spend most of our time) rather than the outside, I also didn’t think I would be able to make it look good or it would cost a lot to get someone in. From watching these videos I have learned that a strimmer, garden scissors and a jet wash can go a long way and I finally tackled my front garden this weekend. There’s still a long way to go to make it perfect but it’s definitely looking better. People shouldn’t judge others
Just plan a little bit of work on a small section and stop before you get tired out, clean up so its NOT left in a mess and then have a nice drink Coffee/Tea etc , do this as often as you can and you will get it all done, Its always the FIRST STEP as it all looks so daunting, If you are lucky to have family then drag them into it but again only a little at a time , half an hour weeding is plenty.
Wow! What a gorgeous courtyard! I am a divorced Mom with 2 sons. At one time I worked 3 jobs: a clinic during the day, a sales person during the weekday evenings, and child care for someone else's child in weekends! Thank goodness I lived in a townhouse where the yardwork was included with monthly dues or I would have been an overgrown mess too! And thank God I had good children! I LOVE your little boys, so precious!❤ I have 4 grandsons now!!
Oh Ben! I truly know how it feels to have a job get away from me. I despaired of ever getting my yard cleaned up. God bless this family and you and your mate for making this a beautiful space again! ❤️
That is a wonderful job. Someone needed "full service help" and you delivered. Best wishes to the Dad on toddler wrangling. Nice to see the colors and order come in. Looks like a great place to play with a toddler. Arthur does have a nice haircut and that was quite a bit of rhythm and singing going at one point.
Well that must of made the customer happy, a few weeds, cleared the garden and found some rather nice block paving. Happy Chappie Arthur having lots of fun.
Good morning, yes, never judge!! Also the ladies, if your friend has dirty dishes, wash them for her and don't talk about your help!! Such a neat back now, they can sit out and enjoy it, now it's easier to keep clean. Thank you for your kindness in helping. Many blessings. Arthur is gorgeous, much loved and cared for. Go well, kind regards.
Great job 👏 👍 . So love hearing theo learning more words ,you come across great parents x ❤️ do wish instead off the neighbours complaining maybe offer help it does not cost much too help a fellow human . Thankyou for a great video look forward too many more from Essex uk 🇬🇧
You are right be kind to others. This fellow is a single father ( definitely not an easy task at best) works full time ( we don’t know what are the conditions there) , as other responsibilities and tries to maintain a house as best he can. Don’t judge a person in any way. As for the backyard work,excellent. It’s absolutely a positive way to make the owner happy,a weight off his shoulder and shut the neighbour opinion off.
What an amazing job you made of that Ben, must have been such a relief for the customer. Arthur- such a cutie, growing so fast and sporting a fab haircut 👦🏼😍
I didn’t realize there was a beautiful paved backyard. What an awesome play/ family entertainment area. I can already picture it. You are so kind to help in time of need. Blessings and may you prosper❤️🤍💙
We should never judge other people if we don't know the whole story. I was in the same situation when my mum needed nursing care and I was working full time. Two shifts a day and the garden was getting out of control. Only got hate comments from the neighbourhood about the garden. I wish I'd had someone like you to help me. Great respect for your work and how you help other people.
Looks like they had their hands full with the cute little one & before they knew it the weeds grew. It can become overwhelming. It looks beautiful now!! So sweet the little boy at the end of the video!! Thank you! 😊🦋
Another great job ! Your little one is so precious, future musician, such a awesome age. Bet there is never a dull moment with this little man . Enjoy your videos and love it when you share your darling little one. Hugs from Clyde North Carolina .
You inspired me to look after my yard!,After many years of very difficult challenges i slowly saved to buy what i needed, a lawn mower , power washer, hose, shovel ,brush, rake etc. I never had what i needed to maintain the garden and yard but now i have these items i can slowly make it nice again and be proud. Thank you 😊
What a lift for the dad and toddler! I hope he goes out to get a little tricycle so his little one can enjoy being out in that wonderful back patio. Arthur is a cute little guy!
Another amazing job performed today on the patio. The patio looked great just having the junk and garbage taken away. After you removed the grass and weeds the patio looked wonderful. Once you pressure washed the patio and removed the accumulated mud the owner had a beautiful lawn.
Many years ago I was a lorry driver away all week and my wife was at home with 2 young kids, my neighbor saw the grass in our garden was getting tall, instead of just commenting he came around and cut it for us. No questions and no judgement, he just did it. I've retired now, so am able to return that favour to neighbours in need. Instead of judging, ask, everyone needs a little help from time to time.
Exactly. I pick up all litter on about 4 local streets rather than trying to find who does it and tell them off
Exactly...it's a lost art.
Years ago, I used to cut my neighbours front lawn when I cut my own. Then a family situation / emergency meant I didn’t have time for a number of months. The grass grew and grew, and not once did my neighbour ever enquire if anything was ok! Sadly, much of the time, doing good deeds means you end up being taken for granted!
What a thoughtful gesture
You've got a heavenly neighbor!! Mine called the city on me.
I spent decades helping others as a nurse. I'm now in a position where my health has deteriorated to the point where I need help. About 6 years ago, my mother and 2 of my brothers died within 9 months. My 3rd brother was diagnosed with terminal heart disease and he moved in with me. I was still working plus caring for him full time, which accelerated my own health problems. I cared for him for 2 years before he also passed away. Please don't judge. You don't know what the situation is that caused this. My yard looked very bad and, when I finally stopped hiding behind pride and I shared my health issues, several people stepped in to help. I am eternally grateful they did. Now some of the neighborhood preteens and teens have started helping me and I pay them so they can earn something for their hard work and I am at peace knowing my yard isn't an eyesore.
As to judging folks.. ive suffered from mental health problems due to my husband's health issues. In the last 12 months, he nearly died 3 times. The stress on both of us was absolute, overwhelming and completely debilitating. FYI, we've been married 33.5 years and are in our late 60,s. So, please don't judge a person by what you may see on the outside, inside there may well be a plethora of invisible problems. Be kind and spread a little sunshine in the lives of others.
Couldn’t agreed more Joanna! My customer was so kind to me and Just seemed to have a lot on his plate, neighbours came out and weren’t friendly at all.
I wish you and your husband all the best and hope you both have a great weekend
There are more lazy people than those who have real problems.
best of wishes
@@basbas768
Ah, so you’re one of the “neighbor” types…
@bas bas And you're making this judgement based on what statistical data exactly?
I’m a gardener I deal with overgrown gardens weekly there’s normally a sad story behind it and the smile on the customers face when they see it all tidied and back to how it was before is priceless!
I can't count the number of times I shoved stuff into a cupboard or under the bed or into the back yard because I couldn't take my eyes of a very "busy" toddler for even 30 seconds. If only there had been someone like you at that point in my life to help out a bit. This was so lovely to watch.
yes!!! This is so true!!
Why doesn't this neighbor help instead of criticize ?
Yes, you never know people's issues
My daughter has 5...4 to 16...guess what they do...chores...started them early the fundamentals of life. Just as I did her. I worked, and going to school and still managed what needed to be done. Good luck with your little one
@@jlocey87 Oh! that toddler is in his 30s now. I did start both on chores as early as possible--by age 4 they were cleaning toilets. But, getting to that point was grueling.
😊 Thanks for being so kind. If the neighbors would have helped out instead of criticized the world would be a better place. 😊
Quite right. A neglected garden or yard does not mean a bad person lives there. It might be they are having serious challenges that make keeping the yard clean seem a bit less than central to their lives at a particular moment. They may be old, disabled, sick or depressed just to name a few possible challenges. Neighbours can help. You are showing your help here. Valuable video that we can all learn from and emulate! Respect.
@Peter M. Why would you come up with all kinds of silly reasons such as life problems as reasons to not maintain a garden, maybe the owner just doesn't give a shit about gardening, which is his/her right. Maybe he/she bought the house because he/she liked the house, the garden just came with it.
I have seen this plenty of times. People are just lazy. Period. It's the entitlement mentality whereby that was Mommy or Daddy's job...but they ain't around no more so it ain't ever gonna get done. Work ethic gets watered down every generation entitlement goes up. Put the baby in the shade and spend an hour or two a weekend to at least clean and organize the shit laying around the year. Excuse makers are just as bad as the perpetrators.
@@TVCanT Jesus loves you
There seem to be plenty of judges here but don't forget when you 👉 point a finger there are more pointing back at you
@@TVCanTThat's a silly and shallow attitude. I have worked hard on the garden, but this year due to a bereavement, worries about my pension not being paid and the lousy weather, I've spent much less time on it. Mowing the lawn, yes, but weeds in some areas are rampant. It's a big garden and demands a lot of time, and motivation. The latter has been a struggle. Not an excuse. A statement.
Now I'm playing catch up, but the weather has again thwarted my plan for a Bank Holiday mow and weed blitz
Stunning! Hope the man and his daughter enjoy their new space. As a single parent my garden was neglected for very many years. Working full time, raising my daughter and renovating my old cottage on my own took all my time and money. It's only in the last few years, now that my daughter is grown, that I have time to tackle outdoors. I'm sure some of my neighbours thought I was lazy but theres only so much one person can do. I would have cherished a little help along the way so I hope your beneficiaries are truly grateful.
First, I would tell the neighbor to MTOB. And, if they still kept on about it I would have handed them the weed eater and the pressure washer and told them to have fun!! You never know what a person is going through. I can name A LOT of channels on here that I watch that help out others without blinking an eye!! So thank you for all you do and it looks fantastic!!
I live on a farm and on a farm road. All the houses are well kept except one. He and She both work for the National Park Service (Wilson's Creek) and have good paying jobs. The house and the yard are an absolute freaking mess. Garbage, old cars, appliances, and God knows what are underneath 4 ft of grass, weeds, small bushes and trees that have taken over. The old wood siding has been eaten off the house by their goats and sheep. Yes, the wood is EATEN off by these goats and sheep. I'm not kidding. He came by my work one day (his mistake) and introduced himself to me and I immediately launched into a quiet tirade about his filthy yard and house. I told him he alone was driving down property values and he needed to get his ass home and clean his yard. No kidding. I minced no words with this lazy govt employee. I did not care if I got fired, I'm retired and was working part time. But I told him off for sure.
@@stormy8092 And where did it get you? Nowhere. You could also lend him a helping hand, take on small portions together as neighbours. Or perhaps actually motivate him to take care of his garden and not scold him off like he's some child that did something bad?
You're probably decades older than me, but this stubborn and hostile behaviour towards your neighbours isn't going to help you nor your neighbourhood at all.
@@stormy8092 Wow, you couldn't figure out a better way to handle the situation?
@@stormy8092 Well said.
Some people are too quick to judge others. Arthur I love your hair and 10 out of 10 for your singing.
There is nothing wrong needing some help. No one is perfect and Lord knows I can't always get things done. Prayers for all!!! I am excited to see the finished area.
Hope you enjoyed the video
What dad needs back there now is a small table with a few chairs & a few potted plants if only greens & not blooms. Great job!
And an umbrella.
and his clothes aired back
Just WOW! This Weedtastic Jungle was an absolute treat to clean! If you could help me to bring more cleans like this to my channel and community.. all you have to do Is hit that subscribe button and support the Journey.. (It doesn't cost you a penny)
Well done guys. 👍
Why do you use such small bags for the weeds? Just curious. 😁
Do you dump the weeds in the plastic bags or empty them to reuse the bags for the next job?. Landfill and unnecessary plastic waste is a huge problem I think. Thanks for the video and yes I have subscribe.
At the end of a different video I show how I dispose of It all, I reuse the bags unless they split. Sometime I Just use gorilla buckets too. Thanks for watching
You guys worked so hard well done it's the war time spirit of this great country people helping one another really touches all our hearts who will help some one tomorrow
It is written, "Do not judge, lest you be judged. For the measure you use will be used against you. Treat others as you wish to be treated." Lived my whole life like that. Never had any problems. I'm on my 60's now and it still works. Cheers from Tennessee
That's true,im on my early 60's,been working and still is. Judging others doesn't work so better do what's best daily.
I have to say, weeds also grow incredibly fast, especially it seems in really hot weather! It doesn't take long for a yard to look like that, at least over here in USA. I am so happy you were able to help, he seemed so nice. Boo on that neighbor! Still watching the video, but I can't wait to see the family outro!
Edit: Omg, Arthur! He's getting so big! So adorable. It seems like Theo was just that age. 🥰
Really glad you enjoyed the video thanks for the kind comments
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My son can mow my property here in Texas and within a week it's almost knee high again..especially the weeds. Too much rain and sun.
Never judge others!!On sept 2020 i had a brain tumor that all of the sudden put me in a coma.We didnt know if i was going to live and if I did what was the extent of the brain damage.In all that turmoil my husband had to get rid of all our animals and hes working full time.He had to let our property go.Whoever looked from outside thinks that we are lazy...But it was too much to deal for one person.We needed help.Thank God for His miracle.Im walking and talking and Im alive.We still need help but were doing what we can keeping the property.
Not everybody is lazy!
Some people have REAL REASONS not excuses!
Beautiful Job!!😊😁
I’ve been through that with my child, it took 110% 24/7 focus at the hospital for years. His poor younger brother.
People have no idea.
@@marlenegold280 Marlene...people dont know!!!It takes 24/7!I even needed somebody to give me fluids.I couldn't move!
When some loved one is in that situation,they become PRIORITY!...People have no idea!!!....
As someone who is disabled and has mental health issues I know how quickly stuff can spiral. Well done mate, well handled and beautifully cleaned.
Yay singing Arthur so clever and such beautiful singing and a snazzy hair cut.
Thank you mimi, I received a frosty greeting by the neighbour I did actually catch it on camera but I’m not allowed to use the footage. Hope you have a lovely weekend
@@FlawlessCleaningServices people can be shitty, I avoid them mostly. Very professionally handled mate
Another gorgeous patio reveal which goes a lot deeper than bricks.
You leave people feeling whole and beautiful again...like everything is okay or at least somewhat better.
Like my neighbor who's a barber, people leave him feeling beautiful and confident again.
You perform a very valuable service to humanity... and Inspire others around the world.
Love this comment thank you so much, glad you enjoyed the video
So kind of you and to encourage others to be kind to others… thank you, thank you
During covid I was having a hard time. The local church ladies came and cleaned my house. It is the most kind/ meaningful thing that ever happened to me. Just fills my heart with gratitude and love whenever I think back on it.
All of us widowed or solo parents, that can balance kids, full time employment and house chores, get it, he's not into outdoor work-and that's OK! He's got money to hire help.
The patio was light work and you guys did a great job. Welldone! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
DONT JUDGE ,you know nothing of this person life.stop feeling sorry for yourself
First time I've come across your channel. You did a lovely job on the garden. So right that people are too quick to judge others without knowing the full story. Some people are never happy unless they are putting others down. Your little boy is so cute also. Best wishes!
Aw thanks I hope you enjoyed the content,
Totally agree.. Just say something nice and try make someone smile!
Thank you that’s Arthur 18months old and I have another Terror called Theo nearly 4! 😊
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
People like to bully others. It makes them feel big
They are just arse holes
Good job guys!
Loved your boy's radiant face when Daddy told him he did well. Please parents, praise your children often and love them. They are so precious and deserve the best you can give them.
I have a great neighbor, was laid up 5 years ago, he brought my supper for 8 months. I have troubles he still does so much for me
Thank you for being kind to this man. Working full-time and single parent too a toddler he would be lucky to get time to breathe let along think about a back garden patio.
Neighbour sounds like the neighbour from hell. Always willing to put someone down not help them up. To even be hostile to you says it all about him to be frank.
It was an awesome job.
Arthur was gorgeous 😍
This whole video was a bright spot in an absolutely appalling day so thank you for that too
I had that same day, what a surprise! Courtyard looks amazing, and nosy mean neighbor needs to spend an hour in someone else's shoes. God Bless that darling boy, gave me a big smile...
"Flawless" is a guy with compassion and empathy.
I don't see a lazy person. And even before the work was started, I could see what a gorgeous place it is.
In alot of cases, people with physical or mental issues/challenges just cannot get out to do maintenance on the property. When you're dealing with these issues gardening isn't a priority. We show never judge because we don't know their circumstances. Wouldn't it be much more peaceful and kinder if the neighbour took the time to check on their neighbour and helped out!
It's wonderful that you are able to help, if they have children, it's hard to get something done, I've been there. So kudos to you. And blessings for the family.
Thanks carol appreciate the kind words
What a kind hearted gentleman
Es sorprendente que como mantengas tu casa eso refleja tu estado mental. La limpieza y el orden mejora en mucho los estados depresivos. Cuando te sientas con depresión o tristeza ponte a limpiar y a ordenar eso es curativo
Beautiful job!! Love the pavestone design . A very welcoming space. Now the neighbor will be angry because it looks better than their yard..lol!
Love that comment can’t please them
Yes let the neighbor swallow his pride. I can see the toddler. Thank you wonderful people for giving the yard a face lift. God bless
Lisa, 👌👌👍👍👏👏👏👏
I love that you pull the weeds by the roots and not just weed whack them so the grow back in no time. Well done
I can't help but think how much better this area looks now when he comes home. What a great relief for him. Perhaps he can find a small table and couple of chairs at a thrift shop to make a nice spot to sit. A couple of pots with a few easy care plants would soften it and be a nice addition. Good job you did for him, mate.
I can't believe what beautiful pavers you uncover!!!!
The court yard looks so much better and now his toddler can play there too! Arthur is adorable, probably will be a drummer when he grows up ;) Hope you all have a wonderful day and thanks for sharing the clean up!
Thanks Nancy. Glad you enjoyed. Yeah bless him loves a little sing and music lately so you never know
My garden was a jungle once, my employer was stressing me out so much..he decided his needs came first..he decided he needed money more than i did …
Your so kind! And yes nobody should be judging anyone. As for people calling him lazy! That angers me! He works full-time and has a toddler, so he has two full-time jobs! He just needed a hand! He was blessed to meet you!
People need to know the whole story before saying anything! They honestly shouldn't be saying anything to begin with. If they were so concerned they should have stepped up and gave him a helping hand like you did! Your an amazing guy! Thanks for all you do!
I always say in the end of my videos to always be kind to others because we don't know what they are going through
And a simple smile or hello can turn their entire day around. Blessings to you and your family 🦋
Such a lovely comment, appreciate the words and it’s all so true
That was a monster of a job especially in that heat! I didn't expect much of a colour change but they came up so much brighter. Great job. Arthur is getting big! He has shot up!
It was certainly a monster one mate! I know right the area was so dull before. He Is having to grown fast to keep up with Theo’s antics
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You'd think that heat would've shriveled those weeds! 😳🙄🤭🤔. Arthur handsome young man.
Single mum's have been bring up children and sometimes working two or three jobs with less pay just to stay above water for generations, wearing the title of lazy or scummy mummy when they just can't keep up with the house and garden maintenance with everything else. Your right people shouldn't judge but unfortunately most do with their actions. Hopefully this can inspire neighbours an communities to check in on one another and start with a smile or a friendly wave. It Costs nothing to be polite and means the world to someone alone or in need. . Great job.. loved this one as it's not just the elderly who need support.. it can be anyone.. 🖒💞😎✌
Did that baby just make up a song about his hair? “I did it” being the opening track to the preceding mini concert! Bless his little cotton socks 😂
Being outdoors and keeping active can actually be good for mental health and wellbeing.
What a wonderful transformation! I love that you are helping and not judging. And Arthur is absolutely precious!
I guess it's good that the weeds grew up through the brick. They didn't seem to put up much of a fight when being pulled. A great job overall. I really like the simple design on the brick. And yes, every neighborhood, everywhere has that one guy who would rather complain than do the first thing for their community
Thank you for watching and for the kind comments
Great joe
You've given that dad happiness on so many levels, the work you've done on his yard gives him back days of his life trying to do it himself. Now he also has a safe place for his toddler to run around outside, giving that piece of mind to both him and his child. This was a big one on your total karma scale.
Sometimes ppl might think that spaces like this were neglected for such a long time when in fact it only took a few weeks for the weeds to grow uncontrallably due to a mixture of sun and rain lol. I know from experience! haha
Beautiful job, I pray the customer has better days ahead, thanks for sharing.
Thank you Robert, have a great weekend
This is from a year ago and I’m amazed how differently you work these days with all the Kress tools. You must find life so much easier these days. Mind you, the jobs you tackle these days are 10 times harder. Keep up the good work,Ben.
Thanks for another great video! That was a nightmare job and you converted it to a dream! Thank you to both you and your helper. I also enjoyed ime with Arthur! He is getting to be a big boy! Thank you to you and your wife for all you do for your sons and for us. It is good to see family interacting and enjoying each other. George S
Cheers George, thank you for the ongoing support. Hope you are well?
Doing well here, thanks for asking. Looking forward to the next video...
Jetzt noch etwas Dekoration mit Pflanzen, ein kleines Kräuterbeet und eine Sandkiste für den Kleinen. Perfekt. ❤
I'm from Russia. And it's so strange to me that having such a small yard it is completely tiled. In our country, they would have made a solid flower garden or beds with tomatoes and herbs)
That's what I thought. How you can call this garden?
Everyone does something different with their gardens in the UK - some will have flowerbeds, some will have trees, some will have a wild garden, and some will prefer some harder surfaces so they have a table and chairs outside, or so their children can use their bikes on it. We’re all individuals, but most Brit swill prefer a greener area. It’s very much no one else’s business what neighbours do with their gardens, though. We really value our privacy and right to do what we want with out own spaces.
It looks more like it was originally designed to be socialised in rather than for plants. It's a very large area, good for parties.
Good job. But don't like the now concrete jungle 😊
Container plants would soften the space and if they are based on wheels they could be easily rearranged .
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What a beautiful transformation ❣️ Now that’s a space a toddler can really use. Hope it makes the family’s life more rounded out with outside playtime. Beautiful job and as always, beautiful family. 💕💕
Yes but I bet the neighbors complain about the noise they make playing😅
Much as i appreciate you eork That is a tiny yard. It takes no time to keep it straight. I'm a single parent. I work Ten hours a day.
Wow those weeds were huge! U guys did such an excellent job with this property. I’m sure the home owner is thrilled to be able to enjoy the beautiful outside patio. 💯
Yes they were huge and so much of it
All the curtains drawn as well. Hopefully he got some help sorting out the interior. We all need a little help.
Thankyou Ben, I think the guy just got over whelmed with it. Having someone come in who knows what they're doing is a massive help. I'd like to hope that he can stay on top of it now. Enjoy your weekend 🙂
Yes definitely thank you for watching
So glad the homeowner was able to afford a professional. OMG don’t have to tell most of us what working a stressful job all day, pick up from daycare, dinner, laundry, bath…🤦🏻♀️. That was a little overgrown, but you got him started AND did an excellent job!👍🏻💚💚💚Arthur is beginning to show off his personality! 💙💙
Ben, great job! The neighbor can stuff it!!! You and your brother did this guy a solid. So excited when I read in the comments you and Nick are going to collaborate 😄 Arthur's new haircut is so cute 😍 and he's learning so much so quickly. Have a good safe week Ben.
Thank you Luann . Yes if all goes to plan we will be filming on the 28th be exciting to bring a collaboration to the channel. Yes bless him makes him look so grown up though. Hope you are well and have a great week
Ben , this is most impressive job you've posted to date ! What a transformation ! I didn't realize there were different coloured bricks in the bigger area under all of those weeds . I could see it was hot , 10 out of 10 to you and your mate for doing a brilliant job .
Cheers Daniel! This one was a big change to the usual videos aye? Looking forward to finding more like this. Have a good one mate
Your son is adorable. And the patio looks amazing. 👌
Love watching these transformation videos. It’s inspired me to look after my garden more. We moved into our house a few years ago and we both work full time and have prioritised making the inside of the house nice (as that’s where we spend most of our time) rather than the outside, I also didn’t think I would be able to make it look good or it would cost a lot to get someone in. From watching these videos I have learned that a strimmer, garden scissors and a jet wash can go a long way and I finally tackled my front garden this weekend. There’s still a long way to go to make it perfect but it’s definitely looking better. People shouldn’t judge others
Just plan a little bit of work on a small section and stop before you get tired out, clean up so its NOT left in a mess and then have a nice drink Coffee/Tea etc ,
do this as often as you can and you will get it all done, Its always the FIRST STEP as it all looks so daunting, If you are lucky to have family then drag them into it but again only a little at a time , half an hour weeding is plenty.
Thank you so much for helping this man! You were his blessing 👏🏻
Wow! What a gorgeous courtyard!
I am a divorced Mom with 2 sons. At one time I worked 3 jobs: a clinic during the day, a sales person during the weekday evenings, and child care for someone else's child in weekends! Thank goodness I lived in a townhouse where the yardwork was included with monthly dues or I would have been an overgrown mess too! And thank God I had good children!
I LOVE your little boys, so precious!❤
I have 4 grandsons now!!
Wow! What an amazing result. I'm a gardener, so I know what a back breaking job it is clearing weeds from block paving. Very smart haircut Arthur.
Any tips as I have 0 gardening experience I don’t own a strimmer would that have helped
Communities are built by helping one another. Look out for each other and remember a kind word and a smile can be Huge in someone's life. 😊
Oh Ben! I truly know how it feels to have a job get away from me. I despaired of ever getting my yard cleaned up. God bless this family and you and your mate for making this a beautiful space again! ❤️
Unfreaking believable! Well done you! Now that toddler can go outside and play! Bless you! 💚
That is a wonderful job. Someone needed "full service help" and you delivered. Best wishes to the Dad on toddler wrangling. Nice to see the colors and order come in. Looks like a great place to play with a toddler. Arthur does have a nice haircut and that was quite a bit of rhythm and singing going at one point.
WOW!! Looks great.
Well that must of made the customer happy, a few weeds, cleared the garden and found some rather nice block paving.
Happy Chappie Arthur having lots of fun.
He was certainly a happy chappy 😊
Good morning, yes, never judge!! Also the ladies, if your friend has dirty dishes, wash them for her and don't talk about your help!! Such a neat back now, they can sit out and enjoy it, now it's easier to keep clean. Thank you for your kindness in helping. Many blessings. Arthur is gorgeous, much loved and cared for. Go well, kind regards.
Great job 👏 👍 . So love hearing theo learning more words ,you come across great parents x ❤️ do wish instead off the neighbours complaining maybe offer help it does not cost much too help a fellow human . Thankyou for a great video look forward too many more from Essex uk 🇬🇧
I know Alison, they were very hostile towards me which I didn’t understand, as I was there to help.
Have a great weekend!
@@FlawlessCleaningServices hope you all have a beautiful weekend too . Few more weeks and summer holidays but theo can not wait x
"We shouldn't judge without knowing the full story"
actually equates to
"We should never judge because we never know the full story".
You are right be kind to others. This fellow is a single father ( definitely not an easy task at best) works full time ( we don’t know what are the conditions there) , as other responsibilities and tries to maintain a house as best he can. Don’t judge a person in any way. As for the backyard work,excellent. It’s absolutely a positive way to make the owner happy,a weight off his shoulder and shut the neighbour opinion off.
Thank you for the kind words
Your help with this garden has been wonderful to see. People do need someone to care. Well done. Watching from Australia
That baby is so cute, so happy I watched to the end and didn’t miss seeing that guy!
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What an amazing job you made of that Ben, must have been such a relief for the customer. Arthur- such a cutie, growing so fast and sporting a fab haircut 👦🏼😍
There is still humanity out there👍💓
What a beautiful patio. Nice safe place for the little one to play. Thank you for helping. Wishing good health and happiness for this family.
Lots of work. Now they have a fresh start. Love the singalong
I didn’t realize there was a beautiful paved backyard. What an awesome play/ family entertainment area. I can already picture it. You are so kind to help in time of need. Blessings and may you prosper❤️🤍💙
Wow. What a difference. I'm sure the gentleman was so happy for what you did for him. A little kindness goes a long way.
Thank you so much for helping him and God bless. It looks fantastic!
Thank you so much appreciate the kind words
We should never judge other people if we don't know the whole story. I was in the same situation when my mum needed nursing care and I was working full time. Two shifts a day and the garden was getting out of control. Only got hate comments from the neighbourhood about the garden. I wish I'd had someone like you to help me. Great respect for your work and how you help other people.
Looks like they had their hands full with the cute little one & before they knew it the weeds grew.
It can become overwhelming. It looks beautiful now!! So sweet the little boy at the end of the video!! Thank you!
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Yes very happy the little one can enjoy the back yard now 💕💕
Thanks for watching Maureen, plenty more like these to come 😊
Another great job ! Your little one is so precious, future musician, such a awesome age. Bet there is never a dull moment with this little man . Enjoy your videos and love it when you share your darling little one. Hugs from Clyde North Carolina .
Thank you Sharon for the kind comments , so glad you enjoy the videos and family outros, hope you have a great weekend
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
He should have his toddler outside showing him how humans pick up garbage. I hope he let him watch you. So he can know. I hoped the dad watched you.
That patio cleaned up SO BEAUTIFULLY!!! Well done! Your son is adorable. ♥️
You inspired me to look after my yard!,After many years of very difficult challenges i slowly saved to buy what i needed, a lawn mower , power washer, hose, shovel ,brush, rake etc. I never had what i needed to maintain the garden and yard but now i have these items i can slowly make it nice again and be proud. Thank you 😊
What a clean! Probably one of your best transformations!
Cheers Deano for the help!
A very satisfying before and aft!!!
Wow, what a fabulous job you did! And what a pretty garden once it was all cleaned up.
Great work man! The kid looks like he has the makings of being a percussionist!
Nice job! So wonderful you could help this father out. I am sure this was overwhelming for him and you gave him a nice fresh outlook.
What a lift for the dad and toddler! I hope he goes out to get a little tricycle so his little one can enjoy being out in that wonderful back patio. Arthur is a cute little guy!
Another amazing job performed today on the patio. The patio looked great just having the junk and garbage taken away. After you removed the grass and weeds the patio looked wonderful. Once you pressure washed the patio and removed the accumulated mud the owner had a beautiful lawn.
Yes such amazing transformation in stages. Thank you for watching
Thank you for helping this man, we all get a little overwhelmed with life sometimes and the kindness of others makes a lot of difference.
Your sons are always a treat to watch! You did a great job with that yard!
Thank you so much 😊
Brilliant job 👏👏👏