She Needs Space From the Relationship (3 STEPS to WIN Her Back)
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- SHE NEEDS SPACE FROM THE RELATIONSHIP (3 STEPS TO WIN HER BACK)
What to do if she says she needs space from the relationship? When she says she needs space, is it over? What can you do when she lost attraction and needs space? What if she says she needs space, but still texts me? What does it mean when she says she needs space and time? When she says she needs her space, how long will it take for her to come back?
You might know that if your girlfriend says she needs space to think about the relationship, no contact is key. But what do you do next?
Well this video will give you the 3 steps you need to take when she says she needs space from the relationship & get her back.
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Hi Geoffrey, just discovered your videos. I find your videos very helpful. Is there a way of messaging you in private to discuss my situation? I would appreciate your feedback and support.
Hi geoffrey. How does this apply to a marriage with kids? Do you just move out?
I DMed you on Instagram to ask your advice on my current situation as I am on a break with my GF. Hope you can take a look at it and respond. Thanks
Hi geoffrey setiawan my wife asked for space but she asked me if I can leave the house that way she can miss me but we have kids and before she told me that she said I wouldn't want you to leave because the kids would miss you.
Geoffrey Setiawan help me in my situation!
If she wants to take a break. She needs to win you back. Don't contact her.
In the interim, if you haven't already been working on yourself, it's time to start. And then never stop working on yourself.
What if I've tried to contact her multiple times and even tried to convince her into talking, and then I realised my mistake, so now we are in the no contact period. Will that make up for my mistake?
@@yashasvisrivastava6850 I've just got to that point as of today. Did anything work out for you?
I’ve been in 4 relationships since 18 and I’m 24. The worst mistake I ever made was being controlling and not giving space when needed. Needless to say I’m now single again but I’m ready to learn and grow thanks to your video! 🔜👌🏻
Hi Will,
Yes, many of us displayed these behaviors. Here is a good place to start to begin to change this around.
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Appreciated hearing your story!
My problem every time
@@jamesnolan9414 really
I am now going through this same situation at 23 and Word word I had the same problem of being controlling and not giving space. Its been rough.
Hang in there guys. Many of us were groomed to keep our emotions hidden and now that the world is changing we are behind. We need to be more vocal about our emotions but like many guys I don't know how to correctly vocalize my emotions.
Also thanks Geoffrey, your advice is gold.
Man this is my relationship 100% literally step by step the way you broke it down. Thank you for the great advise.
That's awesome man :) Glad it spoke to you!
Did it work?
@carlos blatant assumptions are one of the reasons we are here mate 😅
@@josephmischel5292 Yes, John is one of our star students mate.
Have ever you discussed what happen when she ask for break and she started dating for someone else? It sounds like an excuse for her to push me out from her live. Btw. We married for 24 years, kids already grown up to understand whole things.
My gf said this to me and I reacted badly thank you for this advice
@Rachel Wilson because i didn't realize how important she is to me and just how much i love her until after she broke up with me and told me to give her space
@Rachel Wilson very cunty response
@@NoObKiLlerS117 no, it s a good one indeed
Thank you I needed to hear this , it’s going to help me heal 💪🏾
What a great video! I have watched several videos on the topic but yours put it in perspective the best. Thank you!
Omg this is exactly the reason why I asked him for a break... I really miss him but the relationship was getting so difficult. I felt he wasn't understanding or hearing what I really needed to feel appreciated....
joselyne rubi so what now. Because this is basically my relationship
How are you guys now
We went back together... Coronavirus happened, he panicked, he just saw me 3 times from March to September. He wasn't working since a year and some months ago, he was a couch potato. And we broke up like a month ago. I was suffering in the relationship, I wasn't happy, I was frustrated, he didn't want to change, he said he would stay in that hole until I don't know when.... I wanted to have my own family, but I can't have babies with a 30 year old child . He didn't want help. During the last week he tried to change, I was sick of the situation already.
He blocked me from everywhere and I haven't known about him since then.
@@TheJoselynerubi sorry to hear that. my gf wanted another break 2 weeks ago. But I'm scared because it's the same thing and doesn't think I've changed. But our last break was 2 years ago and I use to chase her that time. This time I'm not so I hope this helps a lot honestly. I'm scared she's just done with everything cuz she told my friend that. We been together 10 years. But idk if she's actually done. Why not just end it now? Any advice you have so I snap convince her il approach and showcase change differently?
@@MrAndres212able we officially broke up in April because she was hooking up with her manager. I vented out to one of my friends and now I'm dating her. My ex ended up breaking up with her current bf cuz he was cheating on her withing two months of being in a relationship. My current relationship is holding pretty strong.
Thanks for the advice, nice video Geoffrey!
Thank you so much Geoffrey! You are absolutely amazing brother!
This is the best video on seperation i have seen. Thank you!
Great advice always!
I'm recently going through this situation right now and it's really crazy how you described everything and how much Sense it made and actually how much sense it makes but the instant change negative feelings are gone and that took me a long time
I like the way you broke this down. I wish I heard this along time ago
Great advice, thanks Geoffrey!
great solid advice Geoffrey ! No begging for sure !
New perspective and I’ve listened to literally 100s of videos on this subject. Glad TH-cam put you in my feed
Thanks Geoffrey. Been assisted.
Awesome advice, perfect. Thank you. Everything you stated, honestly is facts for me.
Thanks man. 2 year old video and it’s still helping people, I’m going through this right now and all that “she belongs to the streets now” crap was getting to my head. I’m the one who messed up by projecting crap from my previous partner on her.
Literally the most helpful video on TH-cam on this topic. Thank You so much brother.
I am glad I came across your channel, thank you
I'm not a man, but this advice is helping soothe my anxiety attack and heartbreak. I'm starting to understand how I contributed to our issues and feel more hopeful about working on my marriage. Thank you for your channel.
Hi tooth656,
My advice is applicable to all people and here is another great video if you are struggling with anxiety.
th-cam.com/video/LK0gJ7oFciE/w-d-xo.html
Look for god and you will find out your need to rebuild your faith and foundation you will be helped of you pray and dedicate yourself to the lord
This right here !
Geoffrey, I came across your video because my girlfriend of 3 years wanted a separation. We’ve lived together for a year and just moved back to our hometown. I didn’t immediately come to TH-cam for answers, I’ve been spending time with my family and talking about it. However, I realize one of the things that I love about her is the potential to start a family removed from many of the bad habits of thought that are practiced in my family. This realization came after my dad just gave me the “big dick” advice: “shit, give her all the space she needs, leave her ass, there are other people.” Typically I’d listen, but you don’t just meet people who are worth fighting for every day, and she’s that woman for me. So then I googled around and came across your video. For better and worse, I don’t know how this will go, but I already cannot thank you enough for your timely advice and train of thought.
Thanks for sharing Brandon! Would be glad to be able to keep supporting you in your journey!
Did you two ever got together again?
@brandoncooper did you guys work out??
I hope you're doing better 💓
Your dad was correct though
Thank you 🙏🏾 I needed this for sure
Thank you so much for this bro! This really made me feel better and to make myself better for the one that I love! ❤
This is gold thank you.
I feel like engaging the world and my loved one wholeheartedly. I really feel an opening in my chest when realizing this, since it is the best I can do, and whatever the outcome, I've worked from my heart and done what feels right, which is the best I can do for myself and others.
I am glad I found this video. It's an eye opener to guys who experienced the same thing as me. Thank you, Geoffrey!
This video was actually super helpful, thanks tons!! 🙌
3 years later and this video still on point. Thanks!
This is my relationship to a T. Thank you for your guidance and solid advice. I hope to come back here some day and report that we used this space to grow better individually and later as a couple.
This video is EXACTLY what I desperately needed. It put a lot of things into an incredible perspective that I haven't been able to see for a long time. Thank you.
Good stuff Geoffrey! Thanks for the advice. Also you seem like a good guy and I can support that!
istg this is the type of video I've been searching for. I'll thank you for sliding into my recommendation. You deserve a subscribe.
I caused my girlfriend (ex) to feel hopelessness about the relationship by constantly reacting poorly to conflict and not giving her the comfort and trust the relationship needs for her to be able to unpack her baggage and relationship issues with me. However, I am really hoping to instil this trust again and work on myself during this break period so we can have a healthy relationship dynamic once again.
Plz help dude i am going thru same thing totally the same i did the same thing i wasnt reactive enought and she felth hopeless and desperate
this has been really useful! Its helped me feel at ease and given me things to work toward for myself. Thank you
I like the video man. Great tips. Subbed
This is the realest video I have watched and it hits on so many levels and opened my eyes. Thank you for your advice keep up the great work!
Dang, this is exactly what is happening to me right now. Thanks man!
Love this so much Geoffrey! So much freedom in surrendering to space.
Mind-blowing advice here!
Thanks so much for this, very insightful and helpful
Thank you!! This confirms something I already thought to be true.
Very powerful words man. Thank you. I truly believe you saved my relationship when i had no clue what to do or who to turn to. Thanks again!
Thanks for this video. It helps me to understand better why she reacted that way. I don’t think we’ll get back together but at least she did reach out a few times and manage to amicably speak on things that matters.
Such a better explanation.Very much grateful.Thanks so much for such insight.
Thank you for all the amazing advice!
Wish I saw this earlier. We're about a month into giving each other space, been on good terms the whole time but sometimes I had a lot of trouble controlling my emotions and I got a little excessive with the how are you texts for the first week or so. Now that I'm seeing this, I'm really realizing that patience is key.
Hi Martin Van Buren,
Why wait, start now.
So any update about you guys? Im in the same position
@@tnxdot2565 she kind of showed me through our communication that she's not really who I thought she was and we've been no contact for about a month. I still kind of do have some sort of feelings for her left but I'm pretty comfortable being single right now. I put the pieces together that explain why she acted that way but now it's to a point where any sort of communication has to come from her end because I realized it's not worth my time, I've done all I can do.
@@williamhowardtaft8394 oh man. Im sorry to hear that. But at least you poured it all on the table so you've got nothing to hold on for. Cheers to our hearts whose trying to find clarity. Keep going man! Im here if you want to talk out sometime since we both are in the same situation.
@@tnxdot2565 dude I’m literally going through the same thing.
3 weeks ago she talked about a break and broke up with me.
Later she came back and said she didn’t mean it. She’s just going through mental problems. And she says she still wants to date me.
Now this week she started acting weird again and she’s trying to avoid me.
I told her yesterday that I love her and guess what her response was? She literally said “I have no mood for love right now, I need to go buy something “.
Now today I asked her again if she loves me, she says “As a friend yea, as something else nah”.
At this point now I’m genuinely pissed.
Only dude thst made sense n have frameworks so underrated
Thanks my guy!
I'm going through this right now and your video is really helpful, man. God bless you.
Sooo impressed with the content of this video. Thank you
Man, you are really spot on, on what is going on with my fiance and I. I really think she keeps things bottled in to avoid conflict, but she feels if she speaks up, she will get angry and say things she does not mean out of anger. So, she feels hopeless right now.
Hey Geoffrey Great Info. "Grow your Mindset" Awesome Concept.
Thanks for tuning in!
This helped me a lot. Thank you for making this video.
Your advice is Gold. You are gold.
Been watching a lot of your videos and it blows my mind how many comments you reply to. Your level of commitment is incredible. You are helping so many people who feel helpless and don't have anywhere else to turn and for that I want to thank you! If everyone was as committed to their relationship as you are to your comment section you wouldn't have a need for a youtube channel lol
Haha, thank you. I try not to miss a one. I also reply to each and everyone of the questions and comments in our private community for the last 3 years. We average over 60 posts a day and growing.
I force unconditional love time after time again and I know she doesn’t deserve that self love from my part!
This is almost the exact situation im in right now. Great video
Wow this was very informative and helpful! Thank you
I would love to see a video about being confident and how to handle everything at this time
Subscribed! Hands down the most on point advice I’ve seen for the past 3-4 weeks. I had been searching for this very advice. Thank you!!
Thank JayJo. Always nice to have a fan :)
Thank you Geoffrey for your videos, you´ve helped me a lot.
Thanks so much for sharing these valuable advice. Extremely helpful.
Hi Geoffrey, your videos have been extremely helpful, thank you!
My pleasure Sean. Thank you for watching and supporting!
This is the exact relationship problem I have been facing since so long .. This has really really helped me a lot , I could feel myself in it thoroughly . This video has made me feel that I’m right at my own place to feel such things n to stop doubting on myself. Thank you so much
Love it!
this was actually very helpful
wow thank you for this advice, i need to try this
I can’t thank you enough for having these perfectly detailed videos. A lot of times we as men get tones of bad advice when we’re in these marriage situations. Thank you and I will continue to watch your videos.
Awesome Anthony. Glad you appreciate the work we put into these videos. We definitely are here to counter a lot of the toxic advice we get from "experts" in this industry.
I cannot thank you enough man, i was in a breakdown after 6 years of relation she wanted space and things looked so bad you taught me everything i was doing wrong and finally i won her back after 2 months of never ending time i am really thankful to you man thank you so much 🔥
Haha I love it! I may need to start doing some TH-cam success stories.
Glad I played a role in helping you to achieve the relationship of your dreams.
My girlfriend and I broke up a week ago. She asked me to respect her and give her space. Of course out of pain I didn’t. I’ve been calling 15x a day. I’ve been crying to her. I’ve been begging for her to respond to texts. Am I too late to try this? Or can I just start it now? How do I try your method after being very emotional and obsessive for the first few days since she broke up with me?
@@user-bt9vs4ix1n Stay calm give her space and then you'll know the right time to approach but right now there's no way she's coming back just wait nothing else u can do
@@sonurabha2142 I’ve been like 2 weeks without contact during space man and we still love eachother I think, you think it’s cool to reach out just to ask how they are doing? What did you do?
@@Rbear266 Well its better if you dont reach out. Try and be yourself for sometime get yourself busy with work or maybe studies just wait out 2 more weeks then maybe you can reach out but right now just wait. In my case i know how it burns in the chest i went through hell but i guess it was all to make me better now that i understand so try and understand the situation make yourself better if she is meant to be she will be ✌
This really helped me understand how behavior is received by the other person. Thanks!
Thanks man... your video is really helpful.
Your video is my bus stop. Thank you.. I’m going through this right now, I was able to get her to express herself and she is willing to see us work things out, meanwhile I’ve prepared myself for the good and worst, I’m goin to keep working on myself as I’ve always.
Hey man how is it? Are you guys still together?
This is one of the best video I’ve ever watch about the argument, thank you!!
Love it! Thank you.
It's a game and the one who loves more loses it. He/she wants space, break it off and let him/her have all the space in the world.
You gave me a perspective that I haven’t seen before. Thank you for the valuable advice.
I am following your advice and reflecting on all that has happened within my relationship. We have our issue but love is there. I am continuing to listen and grow. Thanks a million.
Wonderful!
How did it go?
How did this pan out
I love this video, you hit every point on what’s going on with and my partner wow
I really appreciate this video. I really feel broken and lost and spiraling down. This gave me hope for the future I can’t thank you enough
Thanks for the advice because this has been going on for 3 years im doing all those things and you made me understand what I'm doing wrong ive been with my fiance 10 years and she's not showing emotion now we got 2 kids and I do not want to lose my family and my true love thanks man
Brother, thanks for caring enough to make all the difference.
God bless you and yours,
Wulfy
You will be my guide starting tomorrow. Thankyou
you just saved my relationship and i appreciate it so much
Great Job on this Geoffrey. I definitely agree with your point of not begging, pleading or getting angry. Interestingly enough this pushes them further away and a lot of the time can show selfishness and/or scarcity which neither is attractive. Doing the opposite gives you a much higher chance to salvage the relationship with the person you are dating/in a relationship with and demonstrates emotional stability. Great vid.
Thanks Javon :) Honor coming from you.
You actually talked my relationship word for word thank you you helped me so much
Glad this spoke to you!
Saw so many videos this is the best one. This guy realt been through this himself and he broken it down like how it is. You the man bro
I just found you. All that you say makes sense. I will put it to work tomorrow. No good morning text. Thank you. 🙏🏼
Im going through this right now, and Im doing my best to better myself. I would try and explain that she was doing the same things as I was being accused of and she would shut down. I didnt beg or plead when she asked for space, I said that I think it would be healthy for us both. Im only talking to her when we have to exchange our daughter. We talked for 4 hours prior to her leaving and Im so proud of myself that I stayed calm the whole time. Thanks for this amazing video, your calm way to explain a difficult topic is amazing !
Sure thing! Glad it was valuable to you. I would also recommend watching this video if you have not already. It outlines ways you can conduct your conversations that prevents arguments and opens both of you up for better communication. th-cam.com/video/nWodZCMlMns/w-d-xo.html
How did it turned out?
I’m going through the exact same thing. We have a son together. How are you guys now?
Geoffrey, I would definitely love to see something on how to keep yourself positive while working on yourself. To create a better environment when you are taking a break. I happen to be in a situation now where we really can't separate but we're not really talking to each other because we have children and financially it's just not possible to leave. Covid-19 has really played a lot of havoc because of being stuck together. There's not much t
We do can't really get a part especially cuz we have two young children. Any ideas could be awesome I would really appreciate that.!
Thank you so much this really helps me understand things better
Broke up with her yesterday ,I will follow your steps bro . Thanks
for all of you going through tough times I wish you the best!! make sure you improve yourself and be the best version of yourself and she will eventually see this and want you back! but if it isnt meant to be then move on and be stronger and never do the things you've done before to anyone else. Learn from your mistakes and let that pain make you into a beast!! join the gym get shredded and I promise you brothers, you will attract everyone around you.
Just saw this for the first time and just got on a break with my girl of 5 yrs. So tough but everything was accurate so will follow the advice and pray everything works better!
What's the update bro??
Thanks a lot for the video!
Thanks for the advice.
I am really happy I saw this video and I appreciate it the more it is coming from a guy himself! It validates my feeling that it’s ok to react and want space. To need space means you want to work with it. Thank you
Right on right on! :)
I rarely comment videos but this one really helped me man. She left me a couple of weeks ago and I really recognize myself in the things you said. Now I started to work on myself, going to the gym, be more productive. Even if she doesn't want to come back then these efforts will pay in the long term for me. Thank you
Did she come back bro?
Golden advice bro😊
Great video man! Just broke up with my girl 3 weeks ago, your words support me to carry on, a big thanks !