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Big win today we went trick or treating today with the kids (in the netherlands its today) after 4 months of horror and 2 weeks of seperation. She gave me the cold shoulder but i didn't reacted to that and just did my thing creating a save space. At the end she broke lose and was telling me fun stories about her work and she fooled me with something and then said: fooled you darling and gave me a hug. Keep faith you all!
It's been a month and I'm being ghosted 😂 ik better things are bound to happen and this is so fun. I would've tripped so hard being ignored like this a month ago!!🤭
@@6ixvamp well no we are getting a divorce actually. Turned out she had an affair with a guy from work who actually came over to our house during our seperation when the kids were asleep. Im to good for that and don't even want her back now. Just pity for the kids
Thank you so much. Me and my wife were almost two weeks from finalizing our divorce. We sat down and talked. Looking the bigger picture the reason we went this far because of me. We're reconciling now. It's scary because i don't want to mess it up. Your videos has helped me. Thank you so much.
Profound! I am taking away so much from your videos here that I think I can say that I have made significant progress in shifting my mindset and paradigms in communicating with my Ex and listening as well as understanding her. She noticed too already but it is still a process and I can frankly say that I am excited about it and my focus is not on any outcome. It just rather is on me changing continuously and making progress and experiencing growth!
I've been trying to find someone who knows what I have already done without ever having to ask me. This man right here did that so well I had to see if he was talking straight to me. I'm going to stick with him
Hey Chase, Continue to empower yourself with the leadership skills to confidently show your changes… Your confidence will show as you slowly start to re-attract your partner. If you’d like to learn more about it, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program. And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below! Client Review Videos: th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html Client Review Screenshots: drive.google.com/drive/folders/1Gp8UpRV9uMlFx763BfuQnEqN930FQb7b?usp=sharing
I'm in that boat with you brother......i love my wife to death, but I've made mistakes some big ones (not infidelity) and so now I'm trying and doing everything that I can do to better myself and make the internal changes so I can be a better husband and save my marriage
@@huddyr1112 I have the same exact problem. I love her more than life but I was so oblivious to my own toxicities and I thought I was always right. I destroyed any emotional safety that there was and pinned her against me. She left me and says she isn’t willing to give me a chance to show I will change
Started off great today, then my BPV crumbled for a moment and although I recognized it I needed to reflect on that. She noticed it but didn't seem to mind as much; and until that point the conversation was going well.
Have worked a lot on myself Geoff. Havent spoken my ex in 2.5 months except for a couple of small texts which she started. Hopefully we'll work it out! Thanx for the awesome videos!
@@maxperusse2277 i dont even remember me posting this but, yes! We are back together :) Took a lot of strength, but its pure love at this moment. What about your story?
I cheated 3 years ago as a civilian now I’m on a rotation in Korea my wife’s friend moved in with her while I’m gone and now she want space and she says she’s finding herself she stop wearing her wedding ring and her friend takes her out but she’s enjoying it I’m trying to still be here for her when she needs me and just listen. We have 3 kids and I love her so much I wish I never hurt her. I’m trying to learn through your video’s on how to earn her trust back and work on myself so my change is genuine and turn into a new me and hope be the man she deserves
thank you so much for clarification on this part because currently im neglected by my wife. me and my wife is married for 14 years plus but i have sinned her for having an affair in the past which triggers the stonewalling that im experience as of today. i decided to go back to her and asking for her forgiveness but i just received no respond at all. your video might help me to change myself.
Thank you so much I have spent years on dragging this relationship.. and now I fill do not want to continue if he puts every problem under the rug and somehow manages to calm the situation and carry on ...But the issue is not getting addressed and cropping up again and again...Am fade up and tired of this.. Don't see any pleasant future living with him... Have two grown up sons also..Feel so sad and hopeless thinking why I continued this long
@@southernsoul152 what would it take for him to show you he understands his toxic stuff and is willing to change them happily? Especially if you don’t believe him or you are closing off… all this just brings so much more pain and stress.
@@Rbear266 An atomic spiritual shift. He has promised over and over that he “finally gets it” and will be the man “I deserve” but then goes back to his lying, stonewalling, dismissive hurtful ways within a week or so. There is such as a thing as “the point of no return” where it doesn’t matter if he ever gets it or changes, where the thought of eventually dying alone brings more peace than the thought of dying near him. The only thing I feel might make me feel differently is an atomic shift that cannot be ignored and that is felt down to the bones. I NEED him to make me feel safe and that, above all else, he’s my best friend. Sadly, it doesn’t look like a possibility. I hope I find you well 🙏🏽 God bless
@@southernsoul152 thank you for the response southern soul, I’m sorry about your situation. I am reaching because I do not want my girl to feel this way if she doesn’t already. That shift, it’s just so hard to show them when we are long distance and she’s not trying to communicate, it’s been a wonderful 8 year relationship for the most part and I just want to show her that her worries and concerns that she’s had that stem from my insecurities and lack to listen will change because this situation has been a kick in my ass to wake me up to realize what I want out of life. I just need that second chance I’m just conflicted on how to obtain it 😪
Hi Geoffrey, I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself & tried to show my ex how I understand the issues, how my mindset had changed, seeing issues as an opportunity now & showing her that I’m able & wanting to fix things. But she has recently blocked me & asked me to stop trying. So I’m lost with where to go from here? I can’t really keep contacting her if she’s asked me to respect that she’s asking me to stop.
I wait for your videos. It really soothes me.😌😌 . Nowadays I hate my boyfriend with no reason . He is so loving and caring. But I feel like I don't love him anymore and it really hurt me. I never expected such a situation in our relationship 😭. When I opened up this matter to him, he was really sad but he loves me still a lot. What can I do?
RIGHT, what I started to do those changes when she asked for a divorce she said that it pissed her off. Which I was lost about because I showed her that I could do what she had asked. Had me lost even more. And now all I get is that “she’s done” I can’t deal man!😔
Misspelled word at 7:44 "haven" instead of haven't. No big deal just thought I'd bring it to your attention so you could correct it. Other than that this is a good video and it's changing my whole perspective on my current relationship situation.
Hi Ace, Happy this video was insightful and shifted your perspective on your current situation... Thanks for pointing out the typo... If you’d like to learn more about this and other mindsets, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program. And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below! Client Review Videos: th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
Great video. How does one breakthrough when my partner is intent on divorce because I didn't reveal all about the affair? 10 months of healing and problems flare up twice as difficult as before
3 years together . At the moment longdistance relationship for one year .Recently gf got frustrated with me . She said that not loving me like before and lost some feeling for me. She hoping to gain live and feeling once she see me again . Because we love each other like crazy . I am sacre of losing her . Pls advice me what to do
Hey man, I’m in the same situation right now, being in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend who suddenly stopped replying to me. I felt like she was losing feelings already for a while. How did your situation turn out? Can you give me some advice? I’m so scared of losing her, she’s the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
How can you display your improvements and changes if your wife has moved out, blocked your number and ended any form of communication whatsoever? I just don't understand
Hi Todd Barton, Just like in my business, I don't focus on how can I get more people to see my work and program. I instead focus on building the best freaking program on the market and know that people will see it eventually. Same thing in the relationship. Don't focus on the marketing, selling, etc. Instead focus on the changes, the right changes and the massive ones. Then you partner will see them eventually. Become don't appear.
Xee Thao, this is exactly the nature of confirmation bias. This is why most find it very difficult to reconcile. While my clients learn how to truly change and eventually be able to prove to their partners that they can be trusted. Can't fake it. Right? th-cam.com/video/iyxOuKmuTuY/w-d-xo.html
I agree chores working out etc are not the main thing but maaaaaan they don’t hurt…. Get fit and do chores I’m done with this stupid ass toxic man description I was raised by. Plus working out and chores will 120% help with your mental space m. When you gain new skills your confidence also goes up. Go get fit.
Hi Shane - We definitely work with you 1:1 through our Relationships Revival program. The best way to do this is by joining the masterclass (See link in my pinned comments) and submitting your application to see if you would be a good fit!
We have a child together and when we talk she wants to talk about separation papers often in calls. I help out with bill money while in separate house holds and reassure I don’t want to rush moving in and build up ourselves then she says no matter the change she doesn’t want to come back to the same house. Could the house be a metaphor?
Hi Jayme, she wants to see real & permanent changes for her to feel safe. Use this opportunity to work on becoming the best version of yourself. Her saying "same house" is most likely a metaphor.
What if I admitted that I’ve been sleeping with t several woman because i was trying to fill the hole she left in my heart. No she doesn’t want to talk to me at all.
Hey Geoff, thanks for all the advice. I've been with my partner for 6 and 1/2 years, because of her past relationships she has major trust issues. She's accused me alot in the past of cheating on her, which I would never do. 3 weeks ago I could not pick up my phone at the time because I was in a meeting, then she immediately accused me of cheating. I then called her on video chat during the meeting, and she just hung up. I've gotten so tired of falling to my knees to prove my innocence, that this time I just texted back "ok" after she texted "I have 0 trust in you". Any thoughts on how to handle this?
Tell her that you understand why she feels that way, and ask her for more clarity. If you’re dealing with trust issues, it’s completely understandable that a call that wasn’t picked up is interpreted that way. Talking about her past traumas creates a safe space for her… will her away from that negative mindset. Let her realize she’s tripping on her own, don’t even point it out
I'm just curious...I agree with a lot of what you say, but, why is it that the spouse who leaves is never the one with the issue, but the problem is always stacked up to the one being left? (The guy) Seems unbalanced.
Firstly, I work with men. Secondly, you're the one watching the video. If I make a video to YOU about what YOUR PARTNER should do, that would be a terrible video, wouldn't it? It would just lead people to play victim, blame others and perpetuate problems, rather than actually taking responsibility and taking it upon yourself to do something about it. I want to empower men to understand that it takes just one to save their relationship. Feel free to take a look at my clients who have successfully done this: th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
I’m trying we been seperated 6 months and the last months we had affection and intimacy last 5 weeks then she tells me she doesn’t want to talk to me and wants the divorce still I’m so messed up
I feel you man I'm 10 months in and have had intimacy with her like 6 or 7 times and then she, pretty much shut down and resisted me bad recently but after 6months i bought Geoffreys program i said man screw it and tbh it's his program and God is the best thing I could have on my side to potentially save it, it's about the skills.
What to do when your spouse is reaching out to you for financial reasons during separation? Do you help her out without talking about the relationship with her?
I was told by cops who were here when she was moving out to never give her money during separation or divorce. They told me it only makes things worse.
My wife says that she no longer loves me, limits conversation and I tried to carry a conversation and she shots me down. I don’t have a comeback a good answer to her negative comments.
Late to the party, 7 months even, but I totally relate here and thought I'd share my experience with ya. Keep the conversation as short as she wants it. In the same vein try to always be supportive of her, help her when she needs it. Whether she asks for it or not. Don't just do it though, it has to become your identity change is KEY! And she has to believe the change. Which she can much easier believe it if it isn't a display your putting on to get her back. Own your change and grow into what she needs, if that's truly what you want. She had a death in her family, I was there for our children. She had a major surgery, I let her keep the kids on my weekends to help her around the house. I mowed her lawn while she was down and out. Your actions can be just as powerful as any conversation. 4 years later and we are talking and trying to work things out. She is still apprehensive but I feel like I'm a better person for it honestly. I wish you the best, sorry so late I just discovered this channel and your comment jumped off the page to me.
Hi Santosh, It is absolutely possible to get her back… The reality is that she will gravitate towards the person that can make her the happiest and provide the trust and safety she desires. If you have done the work to make the massive internal & external changes to become the best version of yourself, you can re-attract her.
I am undergoing separation anxiety and she has blocked all communications emotionally stonewalling me ,couldnt get in touch with her through any source what should i do ,neither of our family are not talking and added to that my wife, it looks like i am the only one standing alone
@@santoshvictor You're not the only one! Look at a bunch of our client stories, they started where you are: th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
I am in separation currently with my spouse and surprisingly this week, she calls me for financial assistance. Should I help her without any terms and conditions. Or I must stay far away from her
You'll be an old fool if you help some women who told you that you ain't shit in her life anymore 😂. Unless if you have kids, kick her ass to the curb. Your number 1 now brah, not her. Tell her to ask her new boo and not you.
But how about she has done so much damage in our marriage... that has made her so guilty to the point that she thinks she has to leave but me on the other side doesn't want her to bcuz of the kids
Jeffrey... A lot of questions and no answers from you. What's your success rate what are your qualifications respectfully how many relationships have you even been in that you would that you would call serious? Even ever been married?? "Master Class?" Give me a break. Truly trying my hardest not to sound like a troll. I gave you the benefit of the doubt you have zero answers in any of your videos all questions, all shameless plugs to promote your agenda, yet no credentials. All I see in here is a whole lot of clickbait! What is your track record? Answer all these questions and perhaps your viewers can proceed. I have a hard time again respectfully taking anyone serious with a Kia furniture in their backdrop calling themself a master of anything!
Feel free to take a look at the evidence that really matters. Anything else? Any other toxic assumptions? #1 - See for yourself how many people are raving about this program. This is an every-day occurrence. www.loom.com/share/2699d4ec9c70437e85a16ffb628b581a?sharedAppSource=personal_library #2 - A client story with Liam Rose. You can see the passion he has for this program after spending lots of $$ on others. th-cam.com/video/LSs7y0s0gYg/w-d-xo.html #3 - A client story with Jason Newman. He quit his high-paying job to come work for us, because we changed his life in ways un-imaginable through any other programs. th-cam.com/video/FoxjQ_NCuVo/w-d-xo.html #4 - This fourth link is to our current collection of client stories. We publish more every 2 weeks, because we are drowning in success stories, and we actually have 11 more backlogged. Many of these people are high-powered individuals who have spent close to $10-50K on other programs, and professional services. Listen to them yourself. th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html #5 - This is a walkthrough of our program with more of our clients raving about the program. th-cam.com/video/LC4LSAEVNWo/w-d-xo.html #6 - Oh, and if you doubt how much money I make, and how successful and respected I am in the industry, feel free to look at my earnings :) I just choose to spend my money building generational wealth, supporting family, and starting investments. www.loom.com/share/1f796113319543de9e7d1e10f2e5e696
Oh yeah, and in case you are wondering. Samantha and I are getting married in 2023. We decided to put off our wedding to establish and stabilize our careers first. In fact, we are having 2 weddings to serve both sides of the family, both of which we will be paying by ourselves :) We've been together 7 years now, and could not be happier, and our relationship is getting better every single day. We are custom-building our $2 million dollar home currently, but due to the supply-chain issues, it has been delayed and set to complete in August of 2022. In late 2022, you'll see me in a VERY fancy home, with no Ikea furniture (All will be bought from Restoration Hardware). Oh, and I find this really funny - but "credentials" should not be determined by a degree. Your criteria of "credentials" should be, "who can get me the best results". Many of my clients have spent tens of thousands of professionals with "creds", but got nowhere, and they swear by my program, and my program only. In fact, we enroll multiple dozens of therapists with "creds", all of whom abandon the system they have been practicing for 10-20 years to practice mine. Why? Their clients cannot stop talking about my program! Interesting, right!
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I'm working really hard to save a LDR. I know her since my childhood. 😭
Big win today we went trick or treating today with the kids (in the netherlands its today) after 4 months of horror and 2 weeks of seperation. She gave me the cold shoulder but i didn't reacted to that and just did my thing creating a save space. At the end she broke lose and was telling me fun stories about her work and she fooled me with something and then said: fooled you darling and gave me a hug. Keep faith you all!
It's been a month and I'm being ghosted 😂 ik better things are bound to happen and this is so fun. I would've tripped so hard being ignored like this a month ago!!🤭
Ahh man, I’m so happy for you. Hope all is well now
What a feeling it must have been. Im getting there with my mrs
@@6ixvamp well no we are getting a divorce actually. Turned out she had an affair with a guy from work who actually came over to our house during our seperation when the kids were asleep. Im to good for that and don't even want her back now. Just pity for the kids
@@alexandertimmers8654 from my understanding, she had an affair during your separation… but if it was a separation, was it really an affair?
Thank you so much. Me and my wife were almost two weeks from finalizing our divorce. We sat down and talked. Looking the bigger picture the reason we went this far because of me. We're reconciling now. It's scary because i don't want to mess it up. Your videos has helped me. Thank you so much.
Profound! I am taking away so much from your videos here that I think I can say that I have made significant progress in shifting my mindset and paradigms in communicating with my Ex and listening as well as understanding her. She noticed too already but it is still a process and I can frankly say that I am excited about it and my focus is not on any outcome. It just rather is on me changing continuously and making progress and experiencing growth!
I've been trying to find someone who knows what I have already done without ever having to ask me. This man right here did that so well I had to see if he was talking straight to me. I'm going to stick with him
Awesome man. Glad my videos resonate with you!
I’m in this boat rn. Wish me luck, I am the leader of this movement. I’ll push till the end regardless.
Hey Chase,
Continue to empower yourself with the leadership skills to confidently show your changes…
Your confidence will show as you slowly start to re-attract your partner.
If you’d like to learn more about it, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here.
relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program.
And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below!
Client Review Videos:
th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
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drive.google.com/drive/folders/1Gp8UpRV9uMlFx763BfuQnEqN930FQb7b?usp=sharing
I'm in that boat with you brother......i love my wife to death, but I've made mistakes some big ones (not infidelity) and so now I'm trying and doing everything that I can do to better myself and make the internal changes so I can be a better husband and save my marriage
@@huddyr1112 same brotha, almost 6 months in feel the same about my wife have 2 babies together and I'm here standing till the end as well
@@huddyr1112 I have the same exact problem. I love her more than life but I was so oblivious to my own toxicities and I thought I was always right. I destroyed any emotional safety that there was and pinned her against me. She left me and says she isn’t willing to give me a chance to show I will change
Started off great today, then my BPV crumbled for a moment and although I recognized it I needed to reflect on that. She noticed it but didn't seem to mind as much; and until that point the conversation was going well.
Have worked a lot on myself Geoff. Havent spoken my ex in 2.5 months except for a couple of small texts which she started. Hopefully we'll work it out! Thanx for the awesome videos!
Did yall work out
@@maxperusse2277 i dont even remember me posting this but, yes! We are back together :) Took a lot of strength, but its pure love at this moment. What about your story?
Thank you, keep inspiring and educating us please, world need more of this
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Needed this, my wife and are seperated now 6 months. She moved into her own place and is set on divorce. She doesn't want to talk about reconciliation
Look into attachment styles or attachment theory. Helping me a ton. Separated 3 months but same scenario. You will be pleasantly surprised, I promise.
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Love it! I see you have submitted your application to join my program and have an appointment to speak with one of my team members.
What a valuable channel❤
I cheated 3 years ago as a civilian now I’m on a rotation in Korea my wife’s friend moved in with her while I’m gone and now she want space and she says she’s finding herself she stop wearing her wedding ring and her friend takes her out but she’s enjoying it I’m trying to still be here for her when she needs me and just listen. We have 3 kids and I love her so much I wish I never hurt her. I’m trying to learn through your video’s on how to earn her trust back and work on myself so my change is genuine and turn into a new me and hope be the man she deserves
How are things going for you now?
You inspire so much hope!
This is a great video! What books would you suggest regarding this video topic?
Man.. you're the best! ❤️ Best wishes 💯
The 1st advice i took,thankfully.. also my wife's fist positive respond..
It surprises me considering how stubborn she was..
Well done!
thank you so much for clarification on this part because currently im neglected by my wife. me and my wife is married for 14 years plus but i have sinned her for having an affair in the past which triggers the stonewalling that im experience as of today. i decided to go back to her and asking for her forgiveness but i just received no respond at all. your video might help me to change myself.
Happy this video have helped you... You should signup for our free masterclass to see how we can help you even further.🙂
Thank you so much
I have spent years on dragging this relationship.. and now I fill do not want to continue if he puts every problem under the rug and somehow manages to calm the situation and carry on ...But the issue is not getting addressed and cropping up again and again...Am fade up and tired of this.. Don't see any pleasant future living with him... Have two grown up sons also..Feel so sad and hopeless thinking why I continued this long
I’m in the exact same situation as you were a year ago and just wanted to say… I feel your pain and I pray life has gotten better for you 🙏🏽
@@southernsoul152 what would it take for him to show you he understands his toxic stuff and is willing to change them happily? Especially if you don’t believe him or you are closing off… all this just brings so much more pain and stress.
@@Rbear266 An atomic spiritual shift. He has promised over and over that he “finally gets it” and will be the man “I deserve” but then goes back to his lying, stonewalling, dismissive hurtful ways within a week or so. There is such as a thing as “the point of no return” where it doesn’t matter if he ever gets it or changes, where the thought of eventually dying alone brings more peace than the thought of dying near him. The only thing I feel might make me feel differently is an atomic shift that cannot be ignored and that is felt down to the bones. I NEED him to make me feel safe and that, above all else, he’s my best friend. Sadly, it doesn’t look like a possibility.
I hope I find you well 🙏🏽 God bless
@@southernsoul152 thank you for the response southern soul, I’m sorry about your situation. I am reaching because I do not want my girl to feel this way if she doesn’t already. That shift, it’s just so hard to show them when we are long distance and she’s not trying to communicate, it’s been a wonderful 8 year relationship for the most part and I just want to show her that her worries and concerns that she’s had that stem from my insecurities and lack to listen will change because this situation has been a kick in my ass to wake me up to realize what I want out of life. I just need that second chance I’m just conflicted on how to obtain it 😪
7 years together and like 8 months long distance.
So what do you do when you can’t talk with your spouse unless it’s just about your children?
Hi Geoffrey, I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself & tried to show my ex how I understand the issues, how my mindset had changed, seeing issues as an opportunity now & showing her that I’m able & wanting to fix things. But she has recently blocked me & asked me to stop trying. So I’m lost with where to go from here? I can’t really keep contacting her if she’s asked me to respect that she’s asking me to stop.
Just give her time she needs space I know it's hard same thing happened to me just be patient she will come around
Thanks you for your videos. You make all good points on all the mistakes I'm making.
Thank you this message was very helpful me and my wife only have limited contact and it's when she messages me or calls me
I am the wife applying this to my marriage with my husband.. I am on the right track, right?
OMG our thumbnail templates are so similar hahaha... even the colour scheme! From canva?
I wait for your videos. It really soothes me.😌😌 . Nowadays I hate my boyfriend with no reason . He is so loving and caring. But I feel like I don't love him anymore and it really hurt me. I never expected such a situation in our relationship 😭. When I opened up this matter to him, he was really sad but he loves me still a lot. What can I do?
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@@ledgerdaniel2752 and who is that person?
She sees my changes but she says why did it take a separation for me to change. Why didnt I change during the marriage?
Never too late my friend!
@@GeoffreySetiawan I so hope your right Geoffrey , crossed fingers
Sounds like my story. We are in the process of seeing if we can work it out.
this is where i am at the moment 💪🏼🤞🏼
RIGHT, what I started to do those changes when she asked for a divorce she said that it pissed her off. Which I was lost about because I showed her that I could do what she had asked. Had me lost even more. And now all I get is that “she’s done” I can’t deal man!😔
Wow!!! Thank you, Geoffrey. 😊
Thank you Geoffrey, this helps understand.
Thank you!
Misspelled word at 7:44 "haven" instead of haven't. No big deal just thought I'd bring it to your attention so you could correct it. Other than that this is a good video and it's changing my whole perspective on my current relationship situation.
Hi Ace,
Happy this video was insightful and shifted your perspective on your current situation...
Thanks for pointing out the typo...
If you’d like to learn more about this and other mindsets, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here.
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Man, pointing out the minute, unimportant details... I can see why you going through a divorce man. Keep working on yourself
@@710sethhIKR a 25 min video packed with information and he points out a missing apostrophe jfc
Ideas and concepts but no specifics
Great video. How does one breakthrough when my partner is intent on divorce because I didn't reveal all about the affair? 10 months of healing and problems flare up twice as difficult as before
What if my wife and I broke up and after a week she’s seeing someone else???
Hey G
Now that I joined the program I realize how clueless I was… 🤦🏽♂️
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3 years together . At the moment longdistance relationship for one year .Recently gf got frustrated with me . She said that not loving me like before and lost some feeling for me. She hoping to gain live and feeling once she see me again . Because we love each other like crazy . I am sacre of losing her . Pls advice me what to do
Hey man, I’m in the same situation right now, being in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend who suddenly stopped replying to me. I felt like she was losing feelings already for a while. How did your situation turn out? Can you give me some advice? I’m so scared of losing her, she’s the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
Idk cheating thats a deal breaker. You have to keep your boundries or they never respect you
Accurate 100% love it
I get that pera dime but zero effort from the partner ?? Yea this is tuff but I’m game. A genuine man wait thought I was genuine alrwady
How can you display your improvements and changes if your wife has moved out, blocked your number and ended any form of communication whatsoever? I just don't understand
Hi Todd Barton,
Just like in my business, I don't focus on how can I get more people to see my work and program. I instead focus on building the best freaking program on the market and know that people will see it eventually.
Same thing in the relationship. Don't focus on the marketing, selling, etc. Instead focus on the changes, the right changes and the massive ones. Then you partner will see them eventually. Become don't appear.
U change for urself not to impress ur wife.
That’s true he had promised me so many times but he still did the same thing over I can’t trust him that he will change
Xee Thao, this is exactly the nature of confirmation bias. This is why most find it very difficult to reconcile. While my clients learn how to truly change and eventually be able to prove to their partners that they can be trusted. Can't fake it. Right?
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I agree chores working out etc are not the main thing but maaaaaan they don’t hurt…. Get fit and do chores I’m done with this stupid ass toxic man description I was raised by. Plus working out and chores will 120% help with your mental space m. When you gain new skills your confidence also goes up. Go get fit.
Hey is their any any any way I can speak to you. I don’t want to lose her after 15 years.
Hi Shane - We definitely work with you 1:1 through our Relationships Revival program. The best way to do this is by joining the masterclass (See link in my pinned comments) and submitting your application to see if you would be a good fit!
@@GeoffreySetiawan thank you. Getting out of work in 30 min and will get on that ASAP.
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We have a child together and when we talk she wants to talk about separation papers often in calls. I help out with bill money while in separate house holds and reassure I don’t want to rush moving in and build up ourselves then she says no matter the change she doesn’t want to come back to the same house. Could the house be a metaphor?
Hi Jayme, she wants to see real & permanent changes for her to feel safe. Use this opportunity to work on becoming the best version of yourself. Her saying "same house" is most likely a metaphor.
What if I admitted that I’ve been sleeping with t several woman because i was trying to fill the hole she left in my heart. No she doesn’t want to talk to me at all.
Hey Geoff, thanks for all the advice. I've been with my partner for 6 and 1/2 years, because of her past relationships she has major trust issues. She's accused me alot in the past of cheating on her, which I would never do. 3 weeks ago I could not pick up my phone at the time because I was in a meeting, then she immediately accused me of cheating. I then called her on video chat during the meeting, and she just hung up. I've gotten so tired of falling to my knees to prove my innocence, that this time I just texted back "ok" after she texted "I have 0 trust in you". Any thoughts on how to handle this?
I feel this..
Tell her that you understand why she feels that way, and ask her for more clarity. If you’re dealing with trust issues, it’s completely understandable that a call that wasn’t picked up is interpreted that way.
Talking about her past traumas creates a safe space for her… will her away from that negative mindset. Let her realize she’s tripping on her own, don’t even point it out
I'm just curious...I agree with a lot of what you say, but, why is it that the spouse who leaves is never the one with the issue, but the problem is always stacked up to the one being left? (The guy) Seems unbalanced.
Firstly, I work with men. Secondly, you're the one watching the video. If I make a video to YOU about what YOUR PARTNER should do, that would be a terrible video, wouldn't it? It would just lead people to play victim, blame others and perpetuate problems, rather than actually taking responsibility and taking it upon yourself to do something about it. I want to empower men to understand that it takes just one to save their relationship. Feel free to take a look at my clients who have successfully done this: th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
I’m trying we been seperated 6 months and the last months we had affection and intimacy last 5 weeks then she tells me she doesn’t want to talk to me and wants the divorce still I’m so messed up
I feel you man I'm 10 months in and have had intimacy with her like 6 or 7 times and then she, pretty much shut down and resisted me bad recently but after 6months i bought Geoffreys program i said man screw it and tbh it's his program and God is the best thing I could have on my side to potentially save it, it's about the skills.
How do I contact you Geoffrey
Hi Sunny! Feel free to shoot me an email at geoffrey@relationshipsmastered.com
What to do when your spouse is reaching out to you for financial reasons during separation? Do you help her out without talking about the relationship with her?
You are setting yourself up to be used. I wouldn't do it
I was told by cops who were here when she was moving out to never give her money during separation or divorce. They told me it only makes things worse.
My wife says that she no longer loves me, limits conversation and I tried to carry a conversation and she shots me down. I don’t have a comeback a good answer to her negative comments.
Yeah been there too
Late to the party, 7 months even, but I totally relate here and thought I'd share my experience with ya.
Keep the conversation as short as she wants it. In the same vein try to always be supportive of her, help her when she needs it. Whether she asks for it or not. Don't just do it though, it has to become your identity change is KEY! And she has to believe the change. Which she can much easier believe it if it isn't a display your putting on to get her back. Own your change and grow into what she needs, if that's truly what you want. She had a death in her family, I was there for our children. She had a major surgery, I let her keep the kids on my weekends to help her around the house. I mowed her lawn while she was down and out. Your actions can be just as powerful as any conversation. 4 years later and we are talking and trying to work things out. She is still apprehensive but I feel like I'm a better person for it honestly. I wish you the best, sorry so late I just discovered this channel and your comment jumped off the page to me.
Man I love you
Is there any way to get back my divorced wife and btw shr divorced me and left
Hi Santosh,
It is absolutely possible to get her back… The reality is that she will gravitate towards the person that can make her the happiest and provide the trust and safety she desires.
If you have done the work to make the massive internal & external changes to become the best version of yourself, you can re-attract her.
I am undergoing separation anxiety and she has blocked all communications emotionally stonewalling me ,couldnt get in touch with her through any source what should i do ,neither of our family are not talking and added to that my wife, it looks like i am the only one standing alone
@@santoshvictor You're not the only one! Look at a bunch of our client stories, they started where you are: th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
My wife is in Mexico and I’m in the United States
Hi cheetahluv210,
Nothing changes, the process stays the same.
I am in separation currently with my spouse and surprisingly this week, she calls me for financial assistance. Should I help her without any terms and conditions. Or I must stay far away from her
You'll be an old fool if you help some women who told you that you ain't shit in her life anymore 😂. Unless if you have kids, kick her ass to the curb. Your number 1 now brah, not her. Tell her to ask her new boo and not you.
This so gus
Thanks... I guess..lol
But how about she has done so much damage in our marriage... that has made her so guilty to the point that she thinks she has to leave but me on the other side doesn't want her to bcuz of the kids
I’m separated and blocked
update?
Jeffrey... A lot of questions and no answers from you. What's your success rate what are your qualifications respectfully how many relationships have you even been in that you would that you would call serious? Even ever been married?? "Master Class?" Give me a break. Truly trying my hardest not to sound like a troll. I gave you the benefit of the doubt you have zero answers in any of your videos all questions, all shameless plugs to promote your agenda, yet no credentials. All I see in here is a whole lot of clickbait! What is your track record? Answer all these questions and perhaps your viewers can proceed. I have a hard time again respectfully taking anyone serious with a Kia furniture in their backdrop calling themself a master of anything!
Feel free to take a look at the evidence that really matters. Anything else? Any other toxic assumptions?
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#4 - This fourth link is to our current collection of client stories. We publish more every 2 weeks, because we are drowning in success stories, and we actually have 11 more backlogged. Many of these people are high-powered individuals who have spent close to $10-50K on other programs, and professional services. Listen to them yourself.
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Oh yeah, and in case you are wondering. Samantha and I are getting married in 2023. We decided to put off our wedding to establish and stabilize our careers first. In fact, we are having 2 weddings to serve both sides of the family, both of which we will be paying by ourselves :) We've been together 7 years now, and could not be happier, and our relationship is getting better every single day.
We are custom-building our $2 million dollar home currently, but due to the supply-chain issues, it has been delayed and set to complete in August of 2022. In late 2022, you'll see me in a VERY fancy home, with no Ikea furniture (All will be bought from Restoration Hardware).
Oh, and I find this really funny - but "credentials" should not be determined by a degree. Your criteria of "credentials" should be, "who can get me the best results". Many of my clients have spent tens of thousands of professionals with "creds", but got nowhere, and they swear by my program, and my program only.
In fact, we enroll multiple dozens of therapists with "creds", all of whom abandon the system they have been practicing for 10-20 years to practice mine. Why? Their clients cannot stop talking about my program!
Interesting, right!
@@GeoffreySetiawan Congratulations for your wedding!!!!😊
Stop trying to sell shit
Trust me - I ain't trying to sell anything to you. I would not want to work with toxic people like you in a million years!