The Power of Reframing Exercise as Self-Care | Mike Stanlaw | TEDxBayonne

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  • Did you know that 95% of people do not get the recommended 30 minutes of physical activity daily? This means that this percentage of people are not only neglecting their physical health, but they are also neglecting their mental well being.
    In this TEDx Talk, Mike Stanlaw goes into the benefits of re-framing and re-thinking exercise as self-care, which is the primary way we need to view fitness. By taking care of ourselves, we will be better for ourselves and for all of those around us.
    Mike Stanlaw is the Owner of Stanlaw Fitness in Bayonne, New Jersey and has been a Personal Trainer since 2008. His motto "Get Your 30" has helped people achieve 30 minutes or more of physical activity every single day to reach their health and fitness goals.
    Mike has his Bachelor's Degree in Psychology and Master's Degree in Social Work, which he combines with his Personal Training Certifications to help people get the greatest mental and physical benefits out of exercise. He loves competitive bodybuilding, and lives in Bayonne with his amazing wife Laura. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @cornypinkuni9519
    @cornypinkuni9519 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Underrated talk. Get Your Thirty. Every. Single. Day. Self care.

  • @destmichael
    @destmichael ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Getting my thirty is my motto now thank you. I've been almost 3months consistent next week. It's my lifestyle now, I stopped weighting myself. I feel better and that's all that matters. I'm a better wife, mother, friend, daughter and neighbor.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      SO happy to hear this ! Keep up the awesome work DeAnn !! 👊💪

    • @cornypinkuni9519
      @cornypinkuni9519 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love this. ♡

    • @lankbel
      @lankbel 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤

  • @clarily-561
    @clarily-561 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I agree with his speech self care in many ways is very important :)
    I don't know who needs to hear this though but, it's ok to feel down sometimes, it's ok if you don't feel good today. Not every day has to be an amazing motivated day- life is a bumpy ride!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said! It’s a bumpy ride and it’s ok to not be ok. Try to take care of yourself the best that you can every day!! 👊💪

  • @SL-qd9hu
    @SL-qd9hu ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love this talk and the positive emotion that the speaker conveys! I would say you need a box of self care tools (and adapt to what brings you joy): listening to music, singing, dance, yoga, yoga nidra, meditation, body scans, all type of sports that you enjoy, journaling, forest bathing, hiking and so much more. Everything that brings you from your head into your body and/or connects you spiritually. At least 30 min per day.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! A box of self care tools is an awesome idea. The mind and body connection is everything and you nailed it when you said "connecting you spiritually". I appreciate the feedback !

    • @ChosMan16
      @ChosMan16 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What’s forest bathing

  • @cheiron
    @cheiron ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A wonderful message Mike! Thanks for reminding us about one of the most important forms of self care that we can practice each and every day.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your support Cheiron and for attending! I appreciate you; keep up the great work with your training! 💪

  • @srikantsivaraman836
    @srikantsivaraman836 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Powerful. Loved this talk, and the incredibly important message!

  • @letmerm
    @letmerm ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mike is one of the or the only trainer, I met who walks the talk and very focused on goals of his clients. He is very meticulous and makes sure your progress is consistently monitored and keeps record of the activities to the last detail. He is very respectful and personal to the point, I make sure I never miss a session with him and want, to be around him, so that I feel motivated and be on track to achieve my personal fitness goals. Keep up the good work Mike. I really appreciate your commitment towards your clients.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ravi thank you so much. I appreciate the kind words and always look forward to our sessions 👊💪

  • @quinnmarkey5074
    @quinnmarkey5074 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Mike has really helped me throughout my fitness journey and modivated me to stay with it. Awesome speech.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Means a lot bud thank you. Lots more to do !! 💪💪

  • @dennisburnett7207
    @dennisburnett7207 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Getting Your 30" is a simple but important concept we all should strive for. Great job Mike!!!

  • @susanabend9290
    @susanabend9290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thought provoking and revealing. Mike tells a story that stays with you. Truly a gem.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Sue. Looking forward to Thursday Morning Training!!! I appreciate the kind words and you as a friend and Client since forever lol

  • @robincastillo8217
    @robincastillo8217 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Outstanding Mike! Really made me reflect on myself, my life, and getting my 30. Thank you for always motivating me!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Robin thank you so much! Always miss our training sessions but glad I’m able to still keep ya motivated! You’re awesome. Train for life! 👊👍💪

  • @barbarahingos2055
    @barbarahingos2055 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Congratulations, Mike, on your great presentation. It is very informative and inspirational. Emphasizing how important self care is makes so much sense. And, I am sure has many thinking about such after hearing your presentation. I am an extremely proud aunt. Much Love!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love you Aunt Barbara!!! Thank you so much. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @5jpineda
    @5jpineda ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great job Mike! Get you 30 is the way to go.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Joe. Keep up the great work; you can tell the difference in your muscularity!!!

  • @stacypineda1949
    @stacypineda1949 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great inspirational video. I’m so glad we joined Stanlaw Fitness. I was definitely in a funk last year and after joining a few months ago I’m starting to feel better about myself. Thanks for everything.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stacy thank you so much and I’m so happy to be able to help you. You and Joe are doing awesome !!! 👊💪

  • @camillestanlaw48
    @camillestanlaw48 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mike, this was great. You are so inspirational. Now that I’m feeling better I’m going to start walking, even if it’s half a block.
    Uncle Bob would be so proud of you. Love ya ❤️❤️

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much Aunt Camille. He would be proud of me driving the boat this past weekend as well lol. Love you so much!!!

  • @jg1996business
    @jg1996business ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such an important message! My mood and outlook on life is always so much more positive when I’m exercising regularly.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Saleem I appreciate you! “Good energy in the gym” LOL 👊 keep up the great work!

  • @carissalintao2232
    @carissalintao2232 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every time I get my 30 I'll watch this talk for inspiration.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re awesome Carissa. Thank you and Max so much for this life-changing opportunity. I’ll never forget it.

  • @caroltorturelli423
    @caroltorturelli423 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved your presentation Mike Stanlaw. So personal and inspiring. We all need to be reminded about Self Care. Thank you for sharing your message.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. I appreciate you being a part of our studio and for all of your support !!!

  • @joanviehmeyer5946
    @joanviehmeyer5946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations Mike. Well done. So glad to be a member of Stanlaw.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Joan!!! We are happy to have you. You always work hard with the Not So Seniors and with your favorite the TRX!!!

  • @mscit210
    @mscit210 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So glad I found my way to the Stanlaw Studio. Taking care of myself is my top priority! Thanks Mike!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Mary Ann! So happy to have you and Annie at the studio !

  • @sharmisthasingh9441
    @sharmisthasingh9441 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Valuable insight on self care, Mike. Thank you for this great presentation.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Shirley! I appreciate you and thank you for being a part of our studio !!!

  • @laurennardinibranco9512
    @laurennardinibranco9512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Self care is so important for our body and soul. This was so inspiring and made me reflect on ways to improve my own self care through exercise and mindfulness. Great job Mike Stanlaw!!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Lauren and I appreciate your support and you being an awesome Client !

  • @33fotysky99
    @33fotysky99 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mike has motivated me to get up from my coach today and do a little stretching while watching this. Thanks for this little step!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Small victories !! Keep at it and try to stretch a little more every day. Happy to have helped you 👊💪

  • @bradleykg
    @bradleykg ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mike this was fantastic to watch and I know that your passion is real. This was for everyone to watch and follow and then rewatch it every time they need a reminder. Ok would write more but I am going to get my 30!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Means a lot Brad thank you for watching and for the kind words! Appreciate all of your help throughout the years 💪

  • @petermonforte9216
    @petermonforte9216 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video Mike! The passion you have for fitness shows in the results of your clients. 💪

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Means a lot man thank you so much 👊💪

  • @thangtran8378
    @thangtran8378 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent video. Mike runs Stanlaw Fitness the best gym in Bayonne. I love that gym have been there for almost 4 years now.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Thang! Proud to have you as a Member here. Keep up the awesome work man 👊

  • @RedandBlackS10
    @RedandBlackS10 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So relevant and important! Thanks Mike!

  • @stanlaw5
    @stanlaw5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very well spoken and motivational! Great job Mike!

  • @lisamilan3453
    @lisamilan3453 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great speech - inspirational, interesting, relevant, and real. Mike truly walks the talk.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Lisa! I appreciate you!!!

  • @mattbretzius1036
    @mattbretzius1036 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was so inspired watching this video I did squats the entire time. Keep killing it Mike!

  • @myirishdogs
    @myirishdogs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great presentation. Thank you.

  • @denisecomenzo6155
    @denisecomenzo6155 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this reminder self-care is the core to a long and healthy life ❤
    😊

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My pleasure to help Denise! Keep taking care of yourself so you can be great for those around you!

  • @awildacruz7027
    @awildacruz7027 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very eloquent and inspirational speech coach. Thank you for sharing this valuable information.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much appreciated Awilda! Looking forward to our training sessions!!!

  • @kareemhassanein273
    @kareemhassanein273 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome Mike! What a great motivational speech. Made me think about myself more than ever. Honored to be training with you!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Kareem; honored to be your Trainer! 👊💪 seeya bright and early tomorrow 😂

  • @michaelrusso6352
    @michaelrusso6352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Highly agree! Very well said and well done! Have to put yourself first.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much appreciated man….looking forward to the next session!

  • @danieltadros3831
    @danieltadros3831 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mike, this is very nice! I’m going to start getting my 30, early in the day like you recommend! I’ll definitely keep you posted!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Dan! Great reconnecting with you; keep it going and keep me updated!!!

    • @cornypinkuni9519
      @cornypinkuni9519 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wondering how it's been going.

  • @bengolshan155
    @bengolshan155 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So inspiring and motivational. Simple yet so relevant, great presentation. Thank for sharing Mike.
    -Joe

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joe thank you so much. I appreciate it and glad you watched!!

  • @ajayshekar1023
    @ajayshekar1023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Mike, this has helped me a lot, I appreciate it!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to help you Ajay! Keep getting your self-care time in! 👊💪

  • @nikkitaheri3298
    @nikkitaheri3298 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true....Instead of constantly trying to find it, give gratitude to your body by working out and exercise. Thank You Mike!! Noted...

  • @xauxcontrairex
    @xauxcontrairex ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is amazing!! Thank you for sharing this inspirational video :)

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Nhi and for attending and being there to support !!! :)

  • @shianecrow4318
    @shianecrow4318 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow this is so inspiring ❤

  • @annettecreedon6862
    @annettecreedon6862 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed to here this today! Thanks , Mike, I need to be better at my self-care.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Annette; keep getting your 30 every day with the NSS! You’re awesome!

  • @maximsokolov9626
    @maximsokolov9626 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing job Mike!!!!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      To you and Carissa as well for making this happen. Thank you!

  • @michelleab3205
    @michelleab3205 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the frame that exercise helps us see the world differently!

  • @azalypelegrin9589
    @azalypelegrin9589 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful!! Thank you

  • @janiem6347
    @janiem6347 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very motivating! Thank you 👍👍

  • @wellbodisalone
    @wellbodisalone ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great speech! It was so inspiring.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Means a lot thank you so much; happy to help you

  • @laurastanlaw5292
    @laurastanlaw5292 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inspiring, I could not be prouder!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Could not have done this without you. I love you with all my heart!

  • @daniellemcclellan9159
    @daniellemcclellan9159 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This resonated with me so much. I used to be so physically and mentally fit. Then I wasn’t either. It took a while for me to make the connection between the two. I’m getting back there. Cue the rocky montage 😂 thank you for this ♥️

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      My pleasure and keep up the GREAT work!!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to help Danielle! Keep up the great work and keep remembering your “Why?” !!!

  • @DIAMOND-gj2zy
    @DIAMOND-gj2zy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Superb message I need it in the personal level because I was always doing exercise but due depression and worry I left exercising any more.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate the kind words! Keep taking care of yourself and keep pushing forward. Sticking with the exercise will greatly help with your depression and worry. Stay strong.

    • @DIAMOND-gj2zy
      @DIAMOND-gj2zy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stanlawfitness827 Thanks for that, absolutely I'll do my best to get over this dilemma.

  • @liselcox582
    @liselcox582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing Mike!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Lisel I appreciate you! 💪💪

  • @ilknureren8526
    @ilknureren8526 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing talk!

  • @nicosmarcou679
    @nicosmarcou679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing talk

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you man!!! Was awesome working with all of you.

  • @MrDemarkles
    @MrDemarkles ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video Mike!

  • @dliedke
    @dliedke ปีที่แล้ว +2

    VAMO TIME!!!!! 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️💪💪🏊‍♀️🏊‍♀️🏊‍♀️🏊‍♀️

  • @JsnHgl
    @JsnHgl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very inspiring.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Jason! I appreciate it 👊

  • @mikenowitzki6732
    @mikenowitzki6732 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Impressive speaking skills, and a great message!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Means a lot Mike thank you so much. Glad you enjoyed it and I hope it helps you! 👊💪

  • @tylermacanka7660
    @tylermacanka7660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talk, better trainer!

  • @hiyoutube8013
    @hiyoutube8013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been biking a lot recently but I do miss weight lifting

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep up the great work with the biking! As far as weight lifting goes, just start back up with the basics. Squats, rows, presses, curls, 3x per week. You’ll get back into the swing of things! 💪

  • @merokhagendrasir2474
    @merokhagendrasir2474 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow

  • @denniperez8028
    @denniperez8028 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to breathe while working out???

  • @ariadnehendricks9529
    @ariadnehendricks9529 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🔥👌🙌

  • @wmp3346
    @wmp3346 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I exercise daily, but bathing is optional. You don't want to be over clean.

  • @ManojTrader-vv1is
    @ManojTrader-vv1is 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3 2:28

  • @lilabukvic4216
    @lilabukvic4216 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But If you as one monk he would says that spiritual care is most important then after coming body care

  • @SaltBushCity
    @SaltBushCity ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What happened to TED... 😩

  • @jenskruse1475
    @jenskruse1475 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🤮

  • @Shellbee22
    @Shellbee22 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Self care …of course it’s self care ..is that not common sense ..do people really not know this ..wow

  • @thomasorchard
    @thomasorchard หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is up with constant lip smacking?!?!

  • @peterreed736
    @peterreed736 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He's not wrong but exercising but it's so darn boring.

  • @Jason_H23
    @Jason_H23 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Get to the point

  • @jahnwarnermedia
    @jahnwarnermedia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Angela got the vaxx

  • @jahnwarnermedia
    @jahnwarnermedia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Did he really say “when I aks new gym goers..” If u speak Ebonics u lost me 12 seconds into yo tahk yo

    • @thomasorchard
      @thomasorchard หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup and the constant lip smacking