Brenda BaBoom , you are absolutely correct! I change my number and I didn't share it with anyone that we both associated with. In fact I deleted their numbers from my phone, because I don't want to hear anything about the narc that I had. I am struggling and everyday is a challenge but that was the best thing for me. No regrets and I'm Not Looking Back.
It took years of low self esteem, misery, deep depression, constant stress..for me to realize there's no other way out of this situation besides going No Contact with the narc. It will never change. They will never change. They will always blame you for everything they've done to hurt you. To them, you're the reason the relationship failed, and its your fault they were "pushed" to do the things they've done to hurt you. They don't have accountability, and they will continue to hurt you until you stop allowing it.
No more trauma. No more crying at night. No more feeling I'm not good enough. Thank you the most high for saving me and giving me the power and authority to walk out of this demonic demonic fake marriage that never existed. The crying, the pain and all the torturing will returned to him 7 times fold.
Yes! The stalking is horrible. I have been no contact almost 3 years and he still stalks me. I am trying to transfer to another state to get away from that nut!
Mine stalked me at work and the gym, both times that I went no contact. I thought this last time he did this was because he gave a shit. NO, it was to ruin me one last final time. I 🚫 him on my work/cell phone & told his wife what a pig he was. It finally worked.🙌
This is absolute truth that every time that phone rings, you are wondering if its "that person". I did just that after the 3'xs I went no contact. Finally, after the last & final time I did no contact, I blocked his number on my work phone and cell phone. Once I did that, the anxiety stopped 🤚
My belief is that electrical lines are energetic chords. I have blocked phone,cell,FB, and email and most of my narc mothers friends so I dont feel the invisible frequency. I feel more at peace too. Just bracing for the flying monkeys. --No contact for 4 days.
I have him and his new supply and even my daughter blocked so I don’t have to see his posts. They have still popped up and I don’t get it, so I blocked every person in the free world with his name
I needed to hear this today Hario. That narc left the area in flee from the law. Left me to raise 1 year old twins. It’s hard talking to him here and there because of the disappointment and rage I feel due to this eff’d up situation he left me with. I felt like I had to settle with talking to him because we have babies together. Eff that. I want total freedom from this madness. He tries to gaslight when he can and is so arrogant in the short time that we talk. No contact it is. I want total healing from that demon.
So true! My soon to be ex-husband thought we were going to be friends…. Told him I don’t want to be his friend. We aren’t friends and we will never be… Seemed like it hurt his feelings…. I am sorry, I can’t! Just trying to be friend to hold me back in life and think he’ll be able to come in and out… Nope! Done!
I went no contact for about 5 months. Out of the blue, I get this call. On the other end, it was my ex narc. I took the religious standard to listen and find compassion. It last only 4 weeks when I went through his apple watch and realized he had over 8 women daily he was mentally using them and I had not even gotten to my name yet. Talking about the level of disgrace I felt. When I asked him about it. As a grown 53 man, he stated to me it was something for him to do. All 5 foot nothing of me made sure I gave him the same bird poop to kiss. I had to realize my Soul and self-worth value is higher than this. Every day can be a struggle but I choose to stay the course for myself. By the way, he is a pastor of a church... The level of disgrace! Writing and seeing a therapist has been major source for me. He is blocked on everything, text, call, email, cash app you name it. It's so sickening that people refused to get help.
Thanks, yes. Finding self is so important. It was just so hurtful it made me question my faith. I am on finding my true purpose and living my life. The sad part of this is I am a dreamer and often I can still see the reckless he is doing. Spiritual War fair is something else as well. So, now I speak about to help others and saving my daughter.@@careyhope4025
Went no Contact and never took a call...Nothing could make me go back, Blocked everything, it was hard at first but it worked. I am truly happy and at peace with me.
Going no contact, true no contact if you can is the best thing for you. Trust me on this one. It doesn't matter what they do at this time. Some of this is on us. Change your number if need be. If you have to still deal with them go grey rock and just talk about the only things that are needed.
I went no contact and he's been looking for me high and low! He showed up out of nowhere on Valentine's Day and it's been two years since I seen or talk to him! Scary!
NO CONTACT : we were love addicts, and an addict should not be next to the substance that was being abused. we abused the emotion of love and used it on the wrong things. so no contact is a detox , a kind of rehad and you need strength and God will lead you towards being sober from the love addictions , sex addictioons or whatever we were getting that clearly was not healthy.
This is my first time attempting no contact after us being together for a year and I've decided to speak out on the abuse I've endured. Appreciate this video and all the comments with tips. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I have decided to forgive the narcissist that committed so much harm to my family and myself. I negotiated and used leverage in court, got my. Kid and accepted that they are sick and I forgive them. I feel liberated of anger and hate. I feel free and at peace. They won’t harm me anymore. I no longer let it bother me. I am in control and no one else.
You Can't Beat No Contact. You Do It for yourself. You get your POWER BACK. Ruminating SUCK'S Stay No Contact. Things get better everyday. Stay focused on You. $Stack It$ $$$$$$$$ Do good things for yourself every single Day. Don't ever forget there Betrayal You. Hario is giving it to You Straight. Check out his Tie my Man is looking Fly. Great Videos
There will be no getting back together with the narc for me. And on their last real Hoover attempt when they said I want you back and they realized that's never going to happen again. Then they said everything they could to try and hurt me. But it didn't hurt it just made me realize why this relationship should definitely be over.
Yup!! This one begged for a plate of food and sex for 2 days...when I said NO...magically they didn't need nothing from me and I was every Whore under the sun and they was so happy with they woman 😂 should have been asking her for a plate and sex!
So true, Hario. Also, if you stay connected to the narc your thoughts are going to stay in the past with all those painful things that happened. And those painful things will be your future because the narc won't stop. It will only get worse. If the narc is around, you can't have better, happy days and those days wont become your new, happy memories.
Honestly I found it hard till the 6th month, which was last month, when he just acted so mean and said “talking to him was unnecessary” , it was so demeaning , downgrading I felt like I don’t exist and so useless and purposeless and going no contact has made me feel like I’ve regained that power and self esteem especially that he is trying to reach out .. not engaging or responding is a actually way more peaceful than responding.
Amen to going no contact! I would have never known to do this if it wasn’t for the wonderful channels out there like Hario’s. I truly believe that what helped me the most in my healing path was going no contact. I still have work to do in my healing journey but I am so much better now than I was 6 months ago when I was discarded. Yes he’s been hoovering in creative ways but I know the lack of response from me is driving him crazy.
It amazes me how on point you are with this behaviour. It will help to heal many because the enemy is exposed and only the truth can set us free! Thank you.
I've reached 2 years of no contact 🎉 cut him off by changing my number and then about 5 months later I deleted my email address and got a new one. I stayed off of social media for almost 5 months and we werent friends on social media but he hoovered me twice a few months after i changed my email. Never responded to his hoovers and blocked ALL of his accounts, he didn't make it hard to find them...
Definitely! I blocked him everywhere when I walked away so I know that whenever I get a message it’s not him. I didn’t want to see anything or think about him anymore.
I went no contact I got tired of the mental emotional abuse tired ok. I realized I deserve so much more. It's been over a year. I'm more than happy, blessed 🙌joy I can't explain the joy I have. Absolutely 💯 glad I went No contact. God has been blessing me and I'm just good in my life and I have God to thank.
I finally went no contact with my mother the religious narcissist on and off since 1992 and finally absolutely no contact since 2014. I moved out of the State in 1992, moved back in 2021 and madame narc showed up with the shenanigans when she heard that I was in town. A flying monkey inquired about why to which I replied “my therapist said “No contact.” Just this past Tuesday, she showed up with her fake apology because my sister was in the other room as her alibi. All I heard was something about an apology because she hasn’t done anything to me. The AirPods went in instantly and I didn’t hear anything else. ✌️
Thank you for the tip about blocking them on our phones. I think I created a narc injury a few weeks ago by not disclosing my new physical address to him, so I haven’t heard from him since. That’s a big deal for him to do that. But thanks for telling me to block him nevertheless. Now my heart doesn’t have to stop when my phone rings. I’ll know it’s not him.
Hario, I had to change phone numbers, address, job, city, county, social media is locked down, blocked every flying monkey, and there's a no contact order. Too hard to get to me now, hope he never hoovers.
Took me 10 years, I’m sad to say, to go no contact and mean it. If I’d had this information and straight talk earlier, I wouldn’t have wasted so many years. Thank you!
Just blocked all THREE of his numbers!!! Thank you for your videos!!! I wish I knew you personally, lol, I have learned ALOT from you!! You're a true, genuine, good person.......I feel it
thank you Hario, am dealing with this , starting to see the narcissi has no intention of having a loving long term relationship, they will keep abusing till the day they die, i am safe, its difficult but with distance i see the damaged person more and more that i was with.
Thank you @hario I allowed the block and unblock tatic until i realized I was allowing myself to be tormented .. thank you so much for continuing to break this down , this was much needed.. 🤗🤗🤗
This is uncannily accurate. What you just put into words was unbelievable. Felt like you were describing everything I was going through. I was struggling tonight so I told myself I need a Hario video, and t I'm so glad because this really spoke to me.
GREAT VID. New Supply? Now I'm like She can HAVE DAT DEVIL MESS!! Even the good things he offered came on a dark evil abusive platter! Red flags? I ignored overt shocking neon bright red flags!! Now its Devil B GONE! NO MO.
Attaboy Hario !!! You the man !!!! Keep sharing your knowledge and wisdom, everytime I listen to you I heal a little more !!! The abuse I have endured over the last couple decades can only be called reprehensible and henious. Together we win !!! Thank you and God Bless U !!!!
Everyone this video should have a million views because this is the best instructions that you could ever get to heal after a narcissist situation. Please everyone take heed to this advice. So you can become a better person and a better you.
I had a friend from high school and she would say she had to have complete control. I didn’t understand this until she would decide when we saw each other or talk to each other. I blocked her on Facebook. I took my control back
No Contact, blocked him and his family...realized I could still tell when he called and I actually started looking for the blocked call...that's when I deleted everyone associated with the narc...OH HOW FREEING! The mental real estate I accumulated was amazing...just to think about me, my life, God, the world and my place in it, to cry, to read, take a long walk etc...LOVE YALL...
No contact is not just blocking ,changing phone numbers,email addresses ,social media ,it’s also not talking about the nex and googling them(I’m guilty of that part) I looked at a pic of him today and it out me in a funk….so no more…I wasn’t to maintain my peace and sanity 8 months out
I still can’t comprehend how it literally took me 9 or 10 times Trying to go no contact… it’s been almost a year and The best method I use is act as if they never existed each month my mind gets clearer and clearer and slowly as I get out of the fog and look back I cannot understand why I staying with an abusive heartless scumbag and when people ask me why it’s so awkward because I’m trying to figure that out myself I literally lost myself lost my mind
Together we win ! I like that. Thanks for your guidance. I've been feeling stronger with leaving the narc I was with since your channel. Now he emailed, I acted like a new man in my life and told him to leave her alone !!!!! Lol. No contact for now on sure will
Everybody not the same. Some are weaker than others. Period. I leveled up right in their face. And they have no understanding. All I did was become dead silent. In the same building hoping they cone at me so I can fk them up and leave them for dead. Period 😂
Hi Harold I've been watching your videos and you're absolutely right this is the best thing that could ever happen I've been free now for months I thank you for your videos because they're really helping me
So happy maintaining my space, my freedom, controlling my own autonomous self, living joyfully ALONE. NO USE DAT DEVILS ABUSE!! Must keep SAFE DISTANCE. Proven holds grudges is resentful & vengeful...
Blessings Bro Hario, however God does heal and restore, yes he does. I know firsthand, going on 7years now, better than ever, To God be all the Glory....
Trying to go no contact soon. Broke up with him about 4 weeks ago, and during his moveout, he left a lot of his things. He is suppose to come grab the remaining this Saturday. I have move everything to the garage so he can just grab and go! So anxious for this to be over so I can go completely no contact!!
@@tellnolies8530 yes! I figured this was the case. He moved out while I was not at the house. Trying to not even see him tomorrow. Just get your things and leave… hoping for no drama. Thanks for the encouragement!!
Hario I don't know no points you missed. But one thing to add is how great you will feel and how much in control you will feel once you go no contact. The empowerment you feel and self worth because you control the narrative in your life.
When you go no contact it will eventually give you a peace of mind.but sometimes even you go no contact the narc can become very very pity and more evil then before
You can't be nice to narc you are good people that why they target you and it's hard for you. But if you go ghetto and mean it that narc will get off you. I don't have a problem getting a legal FA that narc will run
Yes you are right I love ❤ This video You have made here I needed it so very Badly Wish I had gone No Contact right after I would he discarded Me. Thank you for being Here for me and so Many others You have helped To save my life
I just want to say thank you so much for doing this video I really do like your channel I’ve been watching you for about a year and a half now what brought me here was a five-year on and off relationship with my ex who was definitely a narcissistic guy I was in hell dealing with him I became a different person . last year was actually the last time that I had contact with him face-to-face and even over the phone but there’s something weird going on I met him when I was 22 and I finally just stopped dealing with him and I’m 28 now but for the past couple of days maybe even a week something is just trying to pull me back to call him it’s all coming up all over again and I don’t know why I’m trying to stay away I don’t even know why I unblocked his number in a weird type away it’s like this energy that’s making me feel like maybe one day he’ll call me and apologize to me I know I’m stupid for even saying these things but it’s the truth I believe he left me with a soul tie and every day is a day to day fight to stay away I know the hell of a narcissist because my father was a narcissist and the same hell I went through with my boyfriend begin with my father but I just don’t understand why lately I’m keep thinking about him Or dreaming about him when I hate him and I just want him to leave me alone he hasn’t been contacting me but for some weird reason he’s controlling my energy controlling my mind and I haven’t even spoken to him since last year tell me what I need to do i just want to move on because this is keeping me from embracing a new chapter that god has for me 😭
I just don’t see how the narcissist has that much time in a day to … make fake Instagram accounts to Hoover .. 🤦🏿♂️ back to back like they do … that shit keeps the wounds open but idk 🤷🏿 they really are sick people … 😐
Hario,, please help. I have blocked my narc. The thing is when he ghosted me, it was forever. We were married for 8 years and he moved his new supply in after 3 weeks. My heart was broken, I couldn't breath! Then when I caught him cheating he not only blocked me, he erased me. He changed his #.
Sounds like my story I was with my. Narc for 6 years he def cheated cause I. Found out almost 2 years of separation he got nnarried only 4. Months after. He never said sorry to me asinine time.. blamed. Me as usual. And walked out . I. Cursed at him . The weirdest part he still reached out to my family. Members and friend acting weird ..... never satisfied.
Going no contact helped me take my power back. I was constantly fighting fire with fire and loosing pieces of myself after every battle. Even when I was right in my defense, I felt lousy afterwards for the type of anger I allowed them to cause me to display. REVENGE IS MINE SAID THE LORD and I had to remember that my respect for God's rule was more important than me feeling justified in revenge. Not blocking them made me just as guilty in the chaos as they were. Him, her and his entire family are blocked from my life and my phone!!.
Changing your phone number and going N🚫 Contact is a superpower. Never will the Narc piss on your time and energy again.
Brenda BaBoom , you are absolutely correct! I change my number and I didn't share it with anyone that we both associated with. In fact I deleted their numbers from my phone, because I don't want to hear anything about the narc that I had. I am struggling and everyday is a challenge but that was the best thing for me. No regrets and I'm Not Looking Back.
I changed my number, blocked the Narc on email and am not on any social media platform. The best thing I ever did.
It took years of low self esteem, misery, deep depression, constant stress..for me to realize there's no other way out of this situation besides going No Contact with the narc. It will never change. They will never change. They will always blame you for everything they've done to hurt you. To them, you're the reason the relationship failed, and its your fault they were "pushed" to do the things they've done to hurt you. They don't have accountability, and they will continue to hurt you until you stop allowing it.
Better err on side safety. Why jeopardize our very lives, safety!! 2 many dead empathy at thier hands already!! Dont risk it.
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No mo eggshells. Dat unpredictable violent prone, rage full devil Makes me very uneasy...
Especially if you have children its very difficult
You are absolutely Right💯👏🏽💯👏🏽
They will both try to make you jealous & try to bring you into their relationship. Absolutely disgusting.
Yes, No Contact stops the crazy making, no contact will liberate you🙏🔥🔥
No more trauma. No more crying at night. No more feeling I'm not good enough. Thank you the most high for saving me and giving me the power and authority to walk out of this demonic demonic fake marriage that never existed. The crying, the pain and all the torturing will returned to him 7 times fold.
No contact is the only way to heal.
9 months no contact, life is great. No contact is key to your healing and freedom
Miss V. Your on the Money with that. I'm with you Honey.
I agree 110% zero contact is the only way to heal from a Sneaky, backstabbing, trifling meat suit.
I noticed the problems just melted away it was crazy …. The only thing that sucks is the stalking 🤦🏿♂️😅
Yes! The stalking is horrible. I have been no contact almost 3 years and he still stalks me. I am trying to transfer to another state to get away from that nut!
Mine stalked me at work and the gym, both times that I went no contact. I thought this last time he did this was because he gave a shit. NO, it was to ruin me one last final time. I 🚫 him on my work/cell phone & told his wife what a pig he was. It finally worked.🙌
This is absolute truth that every time that phone rings, you are wondering if its "that person". I did just that after the 3'xs I went no contact. Finally, after the last & final time I did no contact, I blocked his number on my work phone and cell phone. Once I did that, the anxiety stopped 🤚
My belief is that electrical lines are energetic chords. I have blocked phone,cell,FB, and email and most of my narc mothers friends so I dont feel the invisible frequency. I feel more at peace too. Just bracing for the flying monkeys. --No contact for 4 days.
I have him and his new supply and even my daughter blocked so I don’t have to see his posts. They have still popped up and I don’t get it, so I blocked every person in the free world with his name
I needed to hear this today Hario. That narc left the area in flee from the law. Left me to raise 1 year old twins. It’s hard talking to him here and there because of the disappointment and rage I feel due to this eff’d up situation he left me with. I felt like I had to settle with talking to him because we have babies together. Eff that. I want total freedom from this madness. He tries to gaslight when he can and is so arrogant in the short time that we talk. No contact it is. I want total healing from that demon.
So true! My soon to be ex-husband thought we were going to be friends…. Told him I don’t want to be his friend. We aren’t friends and we will never be… Seemed like it hurt his feelings…. I am sorry, I can’t! Just trying to be friend to hold me back in life and think he’ll be able to come in and out… Nope! Done!
I went no contact for about 5 months. Out of the blue, I get this call. On the other end, it was my ex narc. I took the religious standard to listen and find compassion. It last only 4 weeks when I went through his apple watch and realized he had over 8 women daily he was mentally using them and I had not even gotten to my name yet. Talking about the level of disgrace I felt. When I asked him about it. As a grown 53 man, he stated to me it was something for him to do. All 5 foot nothing of me made sure I gave him the same bird poop to kiss. I had to realize my Soul and self-worth value is higher than this. Every day can be a struggle but I choose to stay the course for myself. By the way, he is a pastor of a church... The level of disgrace! Writing and seeing a therapist has been major source for me. He is blocked on everything, text, call, email, cash app you name it. It's so sickening that people refused to get help.
Wow … I’m so glad you’ve moved on 💕
Thanks, yes. Finding self is so important. It was just so hurtful it made me question my faith. I am on finding my true purpose and living my life. The sad part of this is I am a dreamer and often I can still see the reckless he is doing. Spiritual War fair is something else as well. So, now I speak about to help others and saving my daughter.@@careyhope4025
No contact is the Empaths silence treatment and its a Nuclear Bomb for the Narc!
Learned everything I need to know about the silent treatment from the narc
yep as an empath myself i went no contact,,,,its driving her nuts but she has other sources of supply
I now think of myself instead of pleasing that demon
Went no Contact and never took a call...Nothing could make me go back, Blocked everything, it was hard at first but it worked. I am truly happy and at peace with me.
Going no contact, true no contact if you can is the best thing for you. Trust me on this one. It doesn't matter what they do at this time. Some of this is on us. Change your number if need be. If you have to still deal with them go grey rock and just talk about the only things that are needed.
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No contact means changing your phone number 💃💃
That’s when I took control and eliminated the Narc problem. I changed my phone number and it changed my life.🌸
HARIO, telling the Truth. Everyday gets better when you Walk Away and Go No Contact. Feel the Peace and Quiet in your Life. Step back into your Light.
Silence Golden!! No mo Drama Prince. Thier personality life long m.o.s DONT CHANGE. Especially when astrological FIXED & or CARDINAL!!
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I went no contact and he's been looking for me high and low! He showed up out of nowhere on Valentine's Day and it's been two years since I seen or talk to him! Scary!
@A.S the scary part is he was outside screaming my name for me to open the door that was scary!
Real scary 🙏
And there dangerous if you don’t pay attention to your surroundings 👌🏿
Get u some stray and if they come near u stray them. And watch your surroundings.
'That disaster lying next to you...' A-fuckin men.
NO CONTACT : we were love addicts, and an addict should not be next to the substance that was being abused. we abused the emotion of love and used it on the wrong things. so no contact is a detox , a kind of rehad and you need strength and God will lead you towards being sober from the love addictions , sex addictioons or whatever we were getting that clearly was not healthy.
This is my first time attempting no contact after us being together for a year and I've decided to speak out on the abuse I've endured. Appreciate this video and all the comments with tips. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Good. Stay no contact. Trust yourself.
Delete Social media completely and CHANGE your numbers. Blocking is not enough.
I have decided to forgive the narcissist that committed so much harm to my family and myself. I negotiated and used leverage in court, got my. Kid and accepted that they are sick and I forgive them. I feel liberated of anger and hate. I feel free and at peace. They won’t harm me anymore. I no longer let it bother me. I am in control and no one else.
You Can't Beat No Contact. You Do It for yourself. You get your POWER BACK. Ruminating SUCK'S Stay No Contact. Things get better everyday. Stay focused on You. $Stack It$ $$$$$$$$ Do good things for yourself every single Day. Don't ever forget there Betrayal You. Hario is giving it to You Straight. Check out his Tie my Man is looking Fly. Great Videos
My skin feels like it’s crawling. He’s right about every interaction.
I invite them to my block party 🎉
There will be no getting back together with the narc for me. And on their last real Hoover attempt when they said I want you back and they realized that's never going to happen again. Then they said everything they could to try and hurt me. But it didn't hurt it just made me realize why this relationship should definitely be over.
Yup!! This one begged for a plate of food and sex for 2 days...when I said NO...magically they didn't need nothing from me and I was every Whore under the sun and they was so happy with they woman 😂 should have been asking her for a plate and sex!
On day 46 baby !
Hang in there 🙏
❤🎉🎉THATS A FACT. NO CONTACT RULES
So true, Hario. Also, if you stay connected to the narc your thoughts are going to stay in the past with all those painful things that happened. And those painful things will be your future because the narc won't stop. It will only get worse. If the narc is around, you can't have better, happy days and those days wont become your new, happy memories.
Exactly jenn.
Honestly I found it hard till the 6th month, which was last month, when he just acted so mean and said “talking to him was unnecessary” , it was so demeaning , downgrading I felt like I don’t exist and so useless and purposeless and going no contact has made me feel like I’ve regained that power and self esteem especially that he is trying to reach out .. not engaging or responding is a actually way more peaceful than responding.
Amen to going no contact! I would have never known to do this if it wasn’t for the wonderful channels out there like Hario’s. I truly believe that what helped me the most in my healing path was going no contact. I still have work to do in my healing journey but I am so much better now than I was 6 months ago when I was discarded. Yes he’s been hoovering in creative ways but I know the lack of response from me is driving him crazy.
My ex actually figured out how to get through the phone block,it came up private,I was like wtf😬
It amazes me how on point you are with this behaviour. It will help to heal many because the enemy is exposed and only the truth can set us free! Thank you.
This channel saved my LIFE I watch and rewatch everytime I need to keep my sanity I think I am going crazy 😔😔😔😔😔
I blocked him and wow it feels way better than I even imagined!
I've reached 2 years of no contact 🎉 cut him off by changing my number and then about 5 months later I deleted my email address and got a new one. I stayed off of social media for almost 5 months and we werent friends on social media but he hoovered me twice a few months after i changed my email. Never responded to his hoovers and blocked ALL of his accounts, he didn't make it hard to find them...
Definitely! I blocked him everywhere when I walked away so I know that whenever I get a message it’s not him. I didn’t want to see anything or think about him anymore.
I went no contact I got tired of the mental emotional abuse tired ok. I realized I deserve so much more. It's been over a year. I'm more than happy, blessed 🙌joy I can't explain the joy I have. Absolutely 💯 glad I went No contact. God has been blessing me and I'm just good in my life and I have God to thank.
No contact is powerful. Thank you for teaching others. We need q&a livestreams
You have to block and delete toxic people who want to destroy you !! The sooner the better.. the enemy ain’t nothing to play with !!
This channel is the best therapy!
Hario this is big FACTS
I finally went no contact with my mother the religious narcissist on and off since 1992 and finally absolutely no contact since 2014. I moved out of the State in 1992, moved back in 2021 and madame narc showed up with the shenanigans when she heard that I was in town. A flying monkey inquired about why to which I replied “my therapist said “No contact.” Just this past Tuesday, she showed up with her fake apology because my sister was in the other room as her alibi. All I heard was something about an apology because she hasn’t done anything to me. The AirPods went in instantly and I didn’t hear anything else. ✌️
No contact will cut the head off the snake!
Thank you for the tip about blocking them on our phones. I think I created a narc injury a few weeks ago by not disclosing my new physical address to him, so I haven’t heard from him since. That’s a big deal for him to do that. But thanks for telling me to block him nevertheless. Now my heart doesn’t have to stop when my phone rings. I’ll know it’s not him.
I'm so glad I never gave my xnarc my address only my tx central mailing address
Every word is true. Your explanation and insight is Keene
Thank you God I'm Free,,,,,
No contact
Peace of mind you trouble no one
thank you for helping me stay strong and never answer s call from him. because I see who he is thank you
I'm doing much better. Because of your teaching, I have learned to be kind to myself!! I am free and happy!! Thank you Sir!
Hario, I had to change phone numbers, address, job, city, county, social media is locked down, blocked every flying monkey, and there's a no contact order. Too hard to get to me now, hope he never hoovers.
Took me 10 years, I’m sad to say, to go no contact and mean it. If I’d had this information and straight talk earlier, I wouldn’t have wasted so many years. Thank you!
Damn
Me too
Just blocked all THREE of his numbers!!! Thank you for your videos!!! I wish I knew you personally, lol, I have learned ALOT from you!! You're a true, genuine, good person.......I feel it
thank you Hario, am dealing with this , starting to see the narcissi has no intention of having a loving long term relationship, they will keep abusing till the day they die, i am safe, its difficult but with distance i see the damaged person more and more that i was with.
Thank you @hario I allowed the block and unblock tatic until i realized I was allowing myself to be tormented .. thank you so much for continuing to break this down , this was much needed.. 🤗🤗🤗
Best message yet!!! 👍❤🤗
This is uncannily accurate. What you just put into words was unbelievable. Felt like you were describing everything I was going through. I was struggling tonight so I told myself I need a Hario video, and t I'm so glad because this really spoke to me.
GREAT VID.
New Supply? Now I'm like She can HAVE DAT DEVIL MESS!!
Even the good things he offered came on a dark evil abusive platter!
Red flags? I ignored overt shocking neon bright red flags!!
Now its Devil B GONE!
NO MO.
Attaboy Hario !!! You the man !!!!
Keep sharing your knowledge and wisdom, everytime I listen to you I heal a little more !!! The abuse I have endured over the last couple decades can only be called reprehensible and henious.
Together we win !!!
Thank you and God Bless U !!!!
Everyone this video should have a million views because this is the best instructions that you could ever get to heal after a narcissist situation. Please everyone take heed to this advice. So you can become a better person and a better you.
Yesss...great video...all my love for Hario...!!!!💜💜💜
The fog… I said this today. It lingers.
You (DON'T) ALLOW That to Rent Space In Ur Head.
I had a friend from high school and she would say she had to have complete control. I didn’t understand this until she would decide when we saw each other or talk to each other. I blocked her on Facebook. I took my control back
No Contact, blocked him and his family...realized I could still tell when he called and I actually started looking for the blocked call...that's when I deleted everyone associated with the narc...OH HOW FREEING! The mental real estate I accumulated was amazing...just to think about me, my life, God, the world and my place in it, to cry, to read, take a long walk etc...LOVE YALL...
Completely agree! The liberation is such a blessing! The peace that surpasses all understanding!!!
Well spoken words and full of truth
No contact for 1 year am so free thank god for this freedom
No contact is not just blocking ,changing phone numbers,email addresses ,social media ,it’s also not talking about the nex and googling them(I’m guilty of that part)
I looked at a pic of him today and it out me in a funk….so no more…I wasn’t to maintain my peace and sanity
8 months out
Thanks bro. Moving out in two weeks. I can feel everything around me shifting. Staying humble and peaceful.
Together we win! Thank you 👍
I still can’t comprehend how it literally took me
9 or 10 times Trying to go no contact… it’s been almost a year and The best method I use is act as if they never existed each month my mind gets clearer and clearer and slowly as I get out of the fog and look back I cannot understand why I staying with an abusive heartless scumbag and when people ask me why it’s so awkward because I’m trying to figure that out myself I literally lost myself lost my mind
Together we win ! I like that. Thanks for your guidance. I've been feeling stronger with leaving the narc I was with since your channel. Now he emailed, I acted like a new man in my life and told him to leave her alone !!!!! Lol. No contact for now on sure will
I have no social media it's been a min now and I'm glad I don't because of reasons like this
My fundamental change came from the following frame. 'I always faced a tidal wave. I just learned to surf.'
Everybody not the same. Some are weaker than others. Period. I leveled up right in their face. And they have no understanding. All I did was become dead silent. In the same building hoping they cone at me so I can fk them up and leave them for dead. Period 😂
Hi Harold I've been watching your videos and you're absolutely right this is the best thing that could ever happen I've been free now for months I thank you for your videos because they're really helping me
So happy maintaining my space, my freedom, controlling my own autonomous self, living joyfully ALONE. NO USE DAT DEVILS ABUSE!! Must keep SAFE DISTANCE. Proven holds grudges is resentful & vengeful...
this is gold, and so true.. talking from experiences....
Blessings Bro Hario, however God does heal and restore, yes he does. I know firsthand, going on 7years now, better than ever, To God be all the Glory....
Trying to go no contact soon. Broke up with him about 4 weeks ago, and during his moveout, he left a lot of his things. He is suppose to come grab the remaining this Saturday. I have move everything to the garage so he can just grab and go! So anxious for this to be over so I can go completely no contact!!
Good stay no contact they leave things to come back to harass you !!
@@tellnolies8530 yes! I figured this was the case. He moved out while I was not at the house. Trying to not even see him tomorrow. Just get your things and leave… hoping for no drama. Thanks for the encouragement!!
My husband left back in May 2023, he still hasn't came to move his shit out and it's the end of July😢 I want it gone!!
Dat disrespectful disaster can KEEP IT DOWN DARE. Wants back up here but dat abusive, control freak can KEEP ALL DAT CRAZINESS DOWN DARE!!!
Im going through it right now. I went no contact she did me wrong after 8 years
Hario I don't know no points you missed. But one thing to add is how great you will feel and how much in control you will feel once you go no contact. The empowerment you feel and self worth because you control the narrative in your life.
Amen you are the best,you have this narcissist thing clean. You always amaze me. It was great content.
When you go no contact it will eventually give you a peace of mind.but sometimes even you go no contact the narc can become very very pity and more evil then before
You can't be nice to narc you are good people that why they target you and it's hard for you. But if you go ghetto and mean it that narc will get off you. I don't have a problem getting a legal FA that narc will run
Yes you are right
I love ❤ This video
You have made here
I needed it so very
Badly
Wish I had gone
No Contact right after
I would he discarded
Me.
Thank you for being
Here for me and so
Many others
You have helped
To save my life
I just want to say thank you so much for doing this video I really do like your channel I’ve been watching you for about a year and a half now what brought me here was a five-year on and off relationship with my ex who was definitely a narcissistic guy I was in hell dealing with him I became a different person . last year was actually the last time that I had contact with him face-to-face and even over the phone but there’s something weird going on I met him when I was 22 and I finally just stopped dealing with him and I’m 28 now but for the past couple of days maybe even a week something is just trying to pull me back to call him it’s all coming up all over again and I don’t know why I’m trying to stay away I don’t even know why I unblocked his number in a weird type away it’s like this energy that’s making me feel like maybe one day he’ll call me and apologize to me I know I’m stupid for even saying these things but it’s the truth I believe he left me with a soul tie and every day is a day to day fight to stay away I know the hell of a narcissist because my father was a narcissist and the same hell I went through with my boyfriend begin with my father but I just don’t understand why lately I’m keep thinking about him Or dreaming about him when I hate him and I just want him to leave me alone he hasn’t been contacting me but for some weird reason he’s controlling my energy controlling my mind and I haven’t even spoken to him since last year tell me what I need to do i just want to move on because this is keeping me from embracing a new chapter that god has for me 😭
I just don’t see how the narcissist has that much time in a day to … make fake Instagram accounts to Hoover .. 🤦🏿♂️ back to back like they do … that shit keeps the wounds open but idk 🤷🏿 they really are sick people … 😐
They have all the time in the world just make sure you block n deleted
This is the ONE Im 3months in Semi clear Stay strong
I thought they would find someone else!
Hario,, please help. I have blocked my narc. The thing is when he ghosted me, it was forever. We were married for 8 years and he moved his new supply in after 3 weeks. My heart was broken, I couldn't breath! Then when I caught him cheating he not only blocked me, he erased me. He changed his #.
This is unbelievable 😳
Sounds like my story I was with my. Narc for 6 years he def cheated cause I. Found out almost 2 years of separation he got nnarried only 4. Months after. He never said sorry to me asinine time.. blamed. Me as usual. And walked out . I. Cursed at him . The weirdest part he still reached out to my family. Members and friend acting weird ..... never satisfied.
Going no contact helped me take my power back. I was constantly fighting fire with fire and loosing pieces of myself after every battle. Even when I was right in my defense, I felt lousy afterwards for the type of anger I allowed them to cause me to display. REVENGE IS MINE SAID THE LORD and I had to remember that my respect for God's rule was more important than me feeling justified in revenge. Not blocking them made me just as guilty in the chaos as they were. Him, her and his entire family are blocked from my life and my phone!!.
Hario you should do nights when you let people share Their story on live
Omg the amount of fake accounts is ridiculous....I'm in full no contact
Mines just dials *67 and bypasses the block or uses apps. 23 calls and counting yesterday alone.
Thankyou brother for sharing your wisdom May God bless you all
Blocking will not help. He calls from different numbers