NEVER Desire a WOMAN (How she will LEVERAGE SEDUCTION AGAINST you to gain attention and power)
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We are living in a time where you are expected to spend your time, money, energy. For her to sit across the dinner table and pretend that she is doing YOU a favor. 😂
You ain't never lied. True words.
When your pre selected they ll pay for you.
@HARDMODEKINGS NO, they won't.
only if you allow it.
Exactly 😂 shit is outta control
Nowadays you have to work 20 times harder for a women that is 20 times worse compared to what our grandfathers had.
H*eflation lad
Social media fucked it all up
I don’t know man… if you’re working that hard then something’s wrong. If you follow Casey’s techniques to the letter, you’ll find it becomes much less work. For real the HARDER i work, the less I get in return (where women are concerned). everything is the OPPOSITE of what makes sense! When I act disinterested and literally couldn’t give two fucks SHE starts working harder to get me to pay attention to her. It doesn’t make logical sense in our guy brain, but women are from venus or something like that.
It's a paradox, just like happiness. If you search for happiness you will never find, until you stop searching, then you discover that it was there all the time.
Had a girl tell me she was "too busy for a relationship" and wanted to "stay friends" after flirting an shit, then a few days later I posted a story with a girl I went on a hike with and she blocked me 😂 focus on yourself kings
It obviously annoyed her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That gal was a total loser. Got no game other than feeble power plays
Good work bro!
brother she wanted you to give up all your power and ”try harder” meaning she wants u to simp and chase her so she can have all the leverage and power, you did well, very well , always keep your frame
So you removed your attention and proved you’re preselected and the end result was getting blocked. Do you yall not see how all of this is bullshit?
Bed 'em, don't wed 'em.
Date 'em, don't mate 'em
Fuck em don't cuck em
@@geweetwelwie1 fuckem don't cuck em
Fuck em don't cuck em
@@geweetwelwie1 "recreational use only"
Act as if it means nothing to u is the only way u will win with women long-term
Casey nailed it here and these are all facts.
I had a gurl I was dating, I never acted like I desired her, I never asked to see her, she was always the one wanting to see me and always doing her best to make sure she sees me anytime she can.
The moment I started desiring her and wanted to see her she pulled away and I didn't see her for about 3 weeks, I pulled away too and never reached out to her, when she realized that I haven't reached out to her she called me on the phone and asked to see me.
It's crazy how not desiring a woman works.
I completely agree with Casey, "never desire a woman" always conceal your interest and intent.💯🔥
They know instinctively that a man who desires them and shows it is weak
And she probably fucked around other dudes in those weeks. Disgusting. It’s why I don’t get these games because you lose either way.
No, you don't have to ask her out and I didn't go on dates with her. We just hangout casually in the area from time to time.
@@wisdomchukwudi7762pls explain I have a chick at work who is crazy bout me and we flirt with eyes etc but how do i seal the deal
@@nickelbothello6210 Yep, just flirt with her and let things flow naturally.
She might even be the one who asks you out
"You as a man has to stop lusting them,you as a man has to have a control of those intimate desires you have and not let them control you:.I agree.
sometimes easier said than done. especially when she’s hot. i think the key is… lust all you want, just don’t make it obvious. important to be preoccupied with your goals. they respond more to a guy with little time for their bullshit.
@@927tripp yes sometimes it is difficult,I think we should be aware of the lady's spiritual development,her intellect rather than solely lusting after her body.
i agree. that typically happens after you’ve hit it for a good bit of time. once the infatuation of the body wears off there better be substance behind it or it’s not long before it’s over.
Once you control your primitive urges she loses her leverage…this is right around when she tries too use other men too make u jealous….don’t fold
Thats why it's vital to Always put yourself first and just deal with the women that only want to deal with you, plain and simple
So true I've wasted so much time in the past on these creatures
FACTS. She likes you UNTIL you like her. Then she has the VALIDATION she was looking for. Replace s..e..x with attention/validation when understanding women.
There are lots of women who are safe for you to like and who want your commitment, but you won't find them among women who just look for validation
If she loses interest when you show interest, that means she wanted your interest solely for her ego. She had no romantic interest to begin with. Reciprocating interest = losing her is the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. It shows how much experience you all lack with women.
@yourfoodforthought you are NOT paying attention. Women have REPEATEDLY said out of their OWN mouth that they lose interest when a guy reciprocates interest. It's their nature. It is what it is.
You can actually reciprocate, only if you don't give your full validation by doing so.
@@healthiswealth6237 Then nobody would be in relationships, married, etc. You’re not looking at reality and how ridiculous that statement sounds. Committing to someone, physical affection, sex, etc is showing interest. The highest level of interest as its not just words, you’re acting on it.
My circle of friends for many years revolved around the boating scene on the river in my town. One of our friends had a $200k+ a year job, owned a beautiful yacht on the river.. but had zero game. He got walked on time after time. Nice guy and a great friend.. wish he could've understood Casey's truths
Absolutely ! and once you've understood it, you have to assimilate and accept to believe in it, it's not an easy part but then things start to become clearer, for those who doubt, you just have to try, but it takes time and strength.. to be a man.
@@swanncm yeah. You have to test out the truths on the field, for them to become your truths.
Some guys never learn. They cant over ride the gynocentric social programming
What truth it’s all conjecture his musings no proof to back it up
This debunks hypergamy. Your friend satisfies hypergamy is nearly every category but one. If status, money, etc really mattered that much, than his lack of “game” would be minuscule. “Hypergamy” is nothing but a cope. You’re implying that women would hook up with a couch surfer over your friend despite the value he brings. Make it make sense.
It’s called emotional blackmail. As soon as you show interest her blackmail begins.
I always say “Nevermind, I mistook you for being good looking”, and walk away.
Hate this era, social media tiktok insta reels brainwashed people, online dating fking phones all ruined it
That's easy. Ignore them. It's not worth it.
I’ve found as long as your smv is higher than hers you can show desire without getting pullback
Or even can talk to her without being considered cringe or sx assault
@@gaborb6577 Come back to this video when your woman pulls back out of nowhere. Then you might be ready to learn something
Remember that perceived SMV is more important than actual SMV. There are guys who make a ton of money, have great education, are fit. But for w/e reason, the girl can’t see all that so she makes a snapshot judgement that his SMV is low.
When you show too much interest, she makes a snapshot judgment that your SMV is lower
That can work for quick sex but not for a lasting relationship. Her mind will tell her hypergamy is not satisfied. Indifference will always be the key because indifference comes from a man who is focused on his purpose over a woman.
It's really the same concept. They interpret your showing desire as having low SMV. It's why they were chasing you when you weren't as interested coz then they saw you as someone with lots of options = higher SMV
You must demonstrate reluctance when dealing with the feminine spirit.
So u must just ignore them and walk past them like they not there?
Basically, the ones that want u to bang em will let u know...the others don't exist.
@@starzgalaxy17 Hold back and reserve your masculinity for the woman that demonstrates the traits and behaviors that you value as a man.
@starzgalaxy17 use your left and hand ✋️ and keep your right hand hidden bro be very selective in your time and money
Focus on yourself kings and everything else will follow, never ever deviate
That last part is so true. Never chase. You're da man! And she would be lucky to have you in her life.
Value Yourself more than her Beauty
It was never like this before Covid
Yes, it was.
Brother, it has ALWAYS been like this
Your perception of the world is through a victim mindset. If you are here to learn how to attract women, do you think that victim mentality will help you?
It was like this before Covid, after Covid It's has gotten worse, bruh
another harsh cold truth by Uncle C. This just keeps getting better.
Women see Men like Fisherman see fish. Women simply fish for validation instead. Just like fisherman, tons of effort goes into the hunt. If every time you went fishing you caught fish every cast, it would get boring really quick. You would move along and seek a quarry more challenging. The hunt is what makes it addictive and makes you want to come back to fish again. When she posts that insta picture, she's basically throwing a validation crankbait looking for that big dumb man bass thats going to bite and give her the like she's hunting for. For the more discerning man bass, she will present a finesse bait to entice you. It's all the same. Just don't bite often and she come back to hunt you again. Don't be the guy where she can run a hook through and old stinky shoe and you gobble it up the second it hits the water.
This dude gives me anxiety, and I'm married. Haha!!!!
Dude..listen to him i wish I listen to him before my divorce
Through your videos, I have found a new inner strength within myself. I’ve reclaimed my power in my interactions with women and feel confident and solid in my decisions.
I’ve been telling women I’m not interested in sleeping with them and watch them chase you like never before .
I got this from Casey act and actually mean you don’t want them you need to control your mind and lust isn’t from God you controlling yourself you have all the power and leverage not the woman.
To you tell them that in person over text? And how exactly do you say it?
So funny dude. Cos it really does lol.
@@XXWXX911 just tell them first date “I’m not interested in sleeping with you” in person or text something like that
I have yet to tire of these commentaries.. they just seem to get better and more refined.. love this
Once again,great stuff little bro!
Well said and to the point.
Great that your reinforcing what I feel was at my core. The shift can happen one of us at a time. Its motivating that others are like minded in the truth.
Zander, one of your best videos yet.
Watching your videos have already became my mantra to keep me on track. I wish I would've known these in the past.
Was dating this girl for 6 months, actually started loving her 4 months in. She started withholding sex for 3 weeks straight and it drove me crazy and made me anxious. I finally said something about it and she changed for 2 weeks. Started sending me nudes and being more sexual and whatnot. Then 3 weeks later she leaves me. LOL she was my first, guess I learned my lesson. It’s ironic cause I used to watch your videos a couple of times a week back in August when we both met. Realized I forgot to watch them and thats when all the bs started.
Old habits die hard
All good man it happens, onto the next one and learn from the mistakes
@@zizroysthegreat607 I really liked spending time with her, I hope she comes back but if not theres plenty of them out there and once I find that one I know I’m equipped with the learning lessons from the previous
Women crave a man's desire. They just don't want to to get oneitis / have unrequited "love" towards them. Desire her & own it & be carefree about it.
Really? So then that’s the opposite of what Casey’s saying. I agree with you though. So be blunt and straight up like “hey you took my breath away, why are you free to grab a drink?” Type shit?
No. Do not reveal your desire to her even if you do. Thats like giving her all the leverage. She will discard you
@@rhuiden4086No it’s really not giving her all the leverage.
You guys bite into this red pill stuff too hard and wonder why you still struggle.
Red pill is a great short term strategy, but notice the advice from men who’re actually older than 30 who’ve locked down a solid relationship - they’re red pill aware, but understand the balance required for an actual healthy, fruitful relationship.
Seriously, like @chipsteve said, women do actually crave a man’s desire. But they don’t want you to become weak and pedestalise them, putting them ahead of your career or goals.
There’s nothing more captivating to a woman than a man who is not afraid to show their desire in the correct circumstances.
Think of a man that is at work and is constantly missing deadlines/targets because he keeps drooling and showing his desire to a coworker that he is dating - that’s an ick. All he does is make her think “is there nothing else in the world more interesting than me/is your purpose only to desire me, and not change the world?”.
But then think of a man who knows when it’s time to work, ignores his attractive coworker whom he’s dating and gets the job done and excels in it, while she gets emotional that he’s ignoring her. Then, when it’s out of work hours and the colleagues are going for after-work drinks, he finds himself with her in a man-to-woman situation. There, he can remove his “professional & serious” character, and reveal his true, playful, relaxed, charismatic self who’s unafraid to tease, or nonchalantly express his desire for her and say “you know you looked really hot today…” and expect nothing from it. Meanwhile, the bartender has been trying to flirt with him while he orders a drink, he engages a little but knows his bounds - his girlfriend watches on, she realises that he could make things happen with that bartender quite easily if he wanted to, so while the girlfriend could try to play games with the man because he’s committed to her, if he has any backbone then he will not have a problem finding another girl. She also realises that nothing, not even her beauty, is able to distract him from his work.
Desire towards a woman is being present when you’re together, where it feels like you’re the only two people in the world, but as a man you control this and should make sure you only experience it in small snippets.
Desire is showing to your woman that you are carefree in displaying your affection and attraction.
Desire is also built upon the upon the masculine frame that - “what we are experiencing, man to woman, is because I have chosen you. Despite every other girl that I am dating/have dated, I am here with you because I chose you”. A woman knows this, and provided you’re not putting up a persona, she will realise how scarce you are and latch onto you. There’s no shame in showing that affection to her, because whenever you go out to dinner, drinks, shopping, you will always be getting attention from other women and your girlfriend will witness that, realise she is replaceable, so it will reaffirm her position that she has chosen the “right” man. And when you’re at work, you display that no amount of desire for her will come above his career and goals - this also creates a challenge for her, to continue to try to pleasure your life to make you give in.
So if you’ve done the work, you’re an attractive and desirable man, you can show your desire to your woman. But your career/mission is always greater than your desire, and you give her reminders that you are the prize and have options. You can and must find the balance.
If you don’t show desire, you’re kidding yourself.
The caveat to this is when dealing with a woman who wasn’t sold on you in the first place. But you shouldn’t be dealing with those women.
If you find you’re dealing with those women more often than not, you have more work to do.
You gotta know game and play it accordingly.
@@Mega.lithic It's as if many women want what other women want. Oneitis is where she is the only person you give attention to, so she begins thinking other women are not interested in you or that you have low SMV and her attraction towards you goes down. If you express desire but are carefree, as in if she's not interested it's fine you got other options, then she will tend to value that more coz she figures you're interested in her but not for a lack of other options
I've been getting your videos due to TH-cam algorithms and liked a few of them but this one, my vanilla brotha you hit home runs at all angles...you got yourself a new sub 👍🏾🔥
Massive advice, thanks.
I was in the need of this reminder
Your best video. Something I preach as well
Perfect timing king currently dealing with a chick that recently came back...
If she had other dicks don’t take her back
BRAVO. Short video and to the point.
this is so true man, ngl before i saw your videos i didnt know shit about any of these. now i am getting somewhere. good for me i just 18 so i still have young years and prime coming up.
This is a beautiful message ❤.
Casey, I'm back and thank you for the information - I believe you are 100% spot on. I look back at my past relationships and yes... the more they chased me, the better she liked it and the better I liked it.
Rock on Bud !!
And that is a NICE HAT .... so if you want to put it to good use, You are cordially invited to my place when we start cutting and baling hay (round bales) and working Calves this summer. I supply all the Beer.
Casey nails it! I have seen this in total action. Try going the opposite way and watch it crumble!
Absolutely. Amen brother.
Women is a numbers game
Great video brother
This is the real izm which pimps have been applying for centuries. They get vilified for it but they are actually the only men on planet earth who have a true understanding of female nature, which allows them to do things that the average man can’t. Salute 👌🏾
Pimps as in sex traffickers or pimps as in Casey?
Pimps are the least people who understand the female 🐑
Bro, this is gosbel!
Phenomenal message that I learned too late in life. Ha Ha! Oh well.
Yeah same l'm 66 never had luck with girls that l wanted,was always mesmerised with their beauty
Thank you!
Quality vid
He completely rite 🎯🤝🏿
that stare tho...this man is a man of wisdom..
Word 💯
Well said
Yo Casey bro..... You're humble and modest....... But you're actually quite brilliant bro....... I had to put it on loop bro.
Brah…. It’s ‘brah’, brah. 😂
@@JohnM... We say bro in Philly bro..... 😁
@@spruce5123 Noice!…
Absolutely!
Preach!
Bravo!!!
Hey Casey, could you do a video for the guys on the differences between the first and second stages of attraction? - I have heard you say before that you need more overt pursuance in the beginning. I have noticed that it is a very fine line to walk. Two big questions I have are regarding - ways to pursue initially that preserve the air of uncertainty, and good opportunities to start pulling back that are uncommon for them.
This is true IF she's already somewhat interested in you. If she doesnt give two craps about you, she'll just move on. This type of advice only works for high interest girls.
So what? Is that supposed to be bad? If you don’t desire her, who cares if she’s not interested
@earlem9771 If you don't care then why do you consume these videos on how to get women to be attracted to you? Why even listen to this advice?
@@jadedpaladin6685 who said I want to be with a woman? I don’t mind being single until I die. If a woman decides she wants to be with me one day, I might be up for it, but most women are a complete waste of time and money. They don’t reciprocate your affection anyway
All i have to add to that cornucopia of truth is: 💯🔥
Best advice for men
hands downs. 👍🏽
Casey doesn’t strike me as a youth pastor but I remember hearing a lot of what Casey said in this video at my youth group 👍🏻
This is the secret… it’s an internal shift that resonates in your actions and it cannot be faked
Casey I'm on the same page as you. I agree with everything you've said in this video and it applies perfectly in dating. I've taken your advice and I've noticed the huge difference it makes. It truly is about how she perceives you and the only way shell desire you is if she respects you. My problem is I'm building that discipline and forcing myself not to desire any women. I go to a gym full of hot women trying to get attention. I ignore them most of the time to focus on my workout but it's really difficult when they use your internal desires (sex, beauty, her body) against you how do you get yourself to the point you don't give an f how hot she is and it means nothing to you? Especially if at the same time you ofc want to see if she's a good fit for you aka meet her.
Only way is, have many other options and pass successes to rely on. And it's still hard. But can maintain frame knowing you can get others in the future, had in the past, and maybe have some on the go in the present
powerful
"It is not my job to pursue her. It is her job to pursue me." This has changed my life. Filtered through so many women and got this...nothing can compare. And whats craziest to me is that one of em is a high roller cash chick
She chases us.
All this content has a place but let’s also acknowledge we are looking for connection with someone who is likeminded
But basically the situation is still disappointing: if someone did not grown as chad, sociopath, tall, cannot be changed into, even knowing this fact.
Take my word. My best friend is around 5’6, Mexican, looks below average and sleeps with more beautiful women than the “tall narcissistic chads” I know. We're both in our 20s and I've known him since 3rd grade.
What I have observed from him is that he is an excellent communicator.
His behavior is masculine and nonneedy, but with his words, there's a touch of femininity. He knows what women like to talk about and listens to them carefully. This comes from him growing up with 3 sisters.
This video still applies because he's never directly chasing or showing intense desire for a woman. It's almost like he takes a masculine-friendly approach.
Btw he doesn't have any musical talents and works at a bank.
I love you man
Thanks. That connects the dots. It is lust. One of the 7 deadly sins. Corn too.
Never found a gurl when I was looking, only when I wasn't. Now I just need to figure out how to do that and what I need to do with the energy. Not kidding.
I'm only a shoulder to cry on if I'm a face to sit on.
Too real man haha I’ll remember this
If you’re not sitting on her face, you missed the point of this video
@@KingLouisDaSaint Haha!!
😂
Oh my god that is such a BOSS mindset! I like it 👍
No one on earth that gave a woman a value and lifted her to the clouds like this guy…
explain?
Desire purpose and success. She’s to desire man. Man is to desire the path to a successful purpose. That’s how you lead women. You desire her she doesn’t trust you so she won’t be interested
Fax
Epic Video. I want a Family Some day soon. And Keep the Human Race going and becoming better.
Can you make a Video about that? Any thoughts on that?
The back bone of the masculine mindset in one video. Watch it everyday fellas. I hear you. It's difficult. You need value for women to think about why you don't give away attention or lust them. Otherwise they'd just say "next".. you need value.. Casey mentioned it as being preselectedness... demonstrate value while you withold your attention and lust
I agree in when you lust for her you give her all the power on the dynamic, but at the very beggining how you create the attraction then?, i mean the first or second date because its actually when she has all the leverage
Think through it. If you don't want her, how does she have leverage? If you don't know her yet, how can you want her?
@@savageinstitute9569so date but be reserved and playful/kind but don’t have expectations except for the values you want to see in a partner? and when you see those values then what do you do? I know if you don’t see those good values then you cut the chick off.
@Mega.lithic a woman that is 300lbs or 55 years old has no leverage over you, a hot chic has the same software. Of course there is zero expectations on the date except that I'm going to leave relatively soon.
When you find one that fits you, your values, looks etc then act like you don't care. You have to keep all that care, feelings, nurturing BS under your armor. You can be weak for her, it is natural but you cant show it.
Great message but dont dismiss fitness so easily. My experience and opinion is that discipline is possibly the most important core pillar that needs to be built as a man. Fitness is definitely a great way to build that discipline in a healthy way that invests positively into your own future. The building of discipline and results starts to build a proof of power and ability within yourself. This shows, and women see this"confidence". It is known women gravitated to the greatest hunters. How do you become a great hunter? Practice, discipline, fitness. "Confidence" is built from building your ability.
Facts
1:35 sad fact. But that is what we men need to cement in our heads.
2:01 attraction factors many different things. Hut none of them actually make them look at you differently.
2:33 yes, control over the sex drive. It is your job to remove it from them after you give it to them good. Lets them realize what they lost.
Also first
A lot of dating coaches claim you should 'show intent' which is the opposite of what you're claiming. Maybe a cool idea for a topic.
Don't you find this content repetitive? It's 100 videos on the exact same thing.
We don’t need dating coaches we need real men
Who to believe in Casey?
Yh it's confusing. I think it comes down to the intent coming from a place of masculine strength and leadership, rather than being controlled/weakened by the lust, so Casey has a point. But being attracted to her but never acting on it to "prove" that you are strong isn't masculine. You are just suppressing how you really feel.
Talk to her like she’s a dude from your neighborhood that you’d like to be on good terms with. That’s intent.
The desire has to be shown subtly and playfully’
Can’t jump from 1-7.
Initiate skin contact early on with a touch on the arm.
And yes, many of these girls don’t have anything more than the bedroom.
Man oh man. Female nature has really gotten the better of me this year. May god have mercy on every blue pilled man out there. I had nothing but good intentions and got humiliated and punished so hard for it i still can't believe the extent of it. I literally did nothing wrong, except for being ignorant. Crazy. The humiliation was the worst of it. Pure, completely unprovoked, horrobly painful disrespect from her end. As if i was a piece of trash for showing my interest in the girl and that even though i'm a really handsome guy. Lot's of girls are chasing after me. The fact that this can happen to a guy like me makes me sad. There are so many guys that are less attractive than me. I can't even imagine the difficulty they're facing.
At least i learned and i learned quickly. Hopefully this is the beginning of a new life for me. Got a date on saturday. I will be a pure block of iron from now on. Wish me luck boys. I really need it. If you've been through something like i've been through i will pray for you. And i'm a god damned Atheist. This is how brutal my experience was. BE CAREFUL!
Oh believe me if there was a way out by physical exercise I wasn't taking a rest day.
Good job for, for the first time ever, not incorrectly using the modern English word 'lust' as a negative sexual shaming term, but as a neutral synonym for desire. You correctly used the real meaning of this word three times in this video, as a verb, as a direct synonym for "desire". Please don't revert to the false usage of this term, which is nothing other than the Anglo-Saxon synonym for "desire", just like "way" vs "method", or "rightness" vs "rectitude".
Yea but if you’re too distant then she isn’t interested either; there’s a happy medium
It makes no sense. You constantly hear "be sexual and flirty from the first time you meet with her, show that you have a purpose in her, otherwise you'll be friendzoned". And now we got to this point where you have to show no sexual interest and she'll chase you for some reason. Feels like you've run out of content and just make stuff up on spot.
This is a fantastic rebuttal to this guy. Notice how he makes content that contradicts himself all the time. It’s absurd how he thinks about this 24/7
This is high level advice that you guys (respectfully) aren't ready for. You need more experience with women to understand and connect the pieces. There are levels to this like every other skill in life.
🙏🏾🖤
Wawu wawu🎉
Can you give some examples/Stories?
A lot of his advice is true to an extent but I assure you when you are older it changes. Women, if smart, wise up and no longer play these games. Maybe it’s because as women age their options become less and less and when they are 20 something they feel they can get any guy they want. It gets a lot better for men as you age and you can then truly be you and not play these games of indifference etc.
Cassey 😂😂😂😂
When I get paid taking myself out on a date.
bro ur the voice