NEVER Give WOMEN Your Approval or Validation - Hypergamy Makes Her PULL AWAY

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Attract and Keep ANY women you want using 'MBT' Below!🔥
    event.webinarjam.com/go/live/20/0vw7msni1s7s2

    • @magicalviews6755
      @magicalviews6755 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Casey I do all things what you told in your videos Casey and I'm now so irritated by a chick because she ain't want me to go far away from her eyes even a second

    • @mahmoud3109
      @mahmoud3109 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      bro are you married or in a relationship right now? if you can honestly answer would awsome. from what thsi video you recommemnding men to never make an effort as women are intrinsically evil and over selctive creatures that would mess with mens life. is these infos you demonstrated have passed real life romantic test s?@@magicalviews6755

    • @calebg.9662
      @calebg.9662 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@magicalviews6755 that's not a coherent statement so maybe master English first then work on your game

    • @chairmn42
      @chairmn42 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      he used an emoii

    • @leehughes7747
      @leehughes7747 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So much game playing ... not sure it's worth the effort

  • @kendallroy7
    @kendallroy7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1198

    Ngl...the only thing these videos do is remind me why I should stay single.

    • @freedomgunsandliberty
      @freedomgunsandliberty 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      He hits right on some points but gets others wrong. Watch other goor relationship coaches and make your own style. I can have a relationship and have a woman wrapped around my finger. I keep a main but spin plates on the side for variety. Corey Wayne’s book 3% man and the way of the supreme man are two you need to read

    • @jaymandel2965
      @jaymandel2965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

      I’ve been following Casey’s advice and now I can’t get rid of my longtime girlfriend. I was so out of my masculine frame, and was doing EVERYTHING he says will make a woman leave you. I finally told her I’m done, and now she says “She can’t live life without me” But realizing female nature, I might as well stay single.

    • @JukeboxBalowski
      @JukeboxBalowski 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I think that would be best.

    • @3chunter307
      @3chunter307 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yup

    • @arbricuthrell221
      @arbricuthrell221 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Every dam day™️

  • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
    @PeterShaw-ne1yq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +315

    A bank will only lend you their money if you can prove to them you don't need the loan

    • @Mrgreen2558
      @Mrgreen2558 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Money 💰 what please women nothing else

    • @panama2468
      @panama2468 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Best analogy ive seen. Thats exactly right

    • @nikolalavrnja4395
      @nikolalavrnja4395 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The moment you enter the bank to ask for loan,the bank know you need a loan so quick and badly...

    • @nikolalavrnja4395
      @nikolalavrnja4395 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      But,if analogy is applied to women...then its 💯

    • @RealCraigMac
      @RealCraigMac 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Whew!!

  • @cougsjohnson1
    @cougsjohnson1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +705

    I never broke this rule "EVER" in my Life, until I turned 37 years old. I always test chicks for months before I will consider committing. I finally thought I met "The One" and after she passed every litmus test posible, chased me for 6 months straight, I finally felt like I could trust her. So I finally told her how I felt about her, thinking that what she had been begging me to do. Within 1 minute after telling her how i felt, she immediately did a 180 on me, & liteally said "Yeah, but I don't know if I feel the same way about you" Then, said she needed some time to think about where we stood. 3 weeks later, she said she realized that she was still in love with her Ex, then got back together with him, and ditched me.
    Literally 1 minute before I opened up, and told her how I felt, she was Head over Heals for me, & told me she never felt this way about anyone, and never thought she'd actually meet her dream guy, like in a Farytale. WTF. I'm now in my 40's & I've never made that mistake again!!

    • @chercher304
      @chercher304 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Which is why detachment and withholding affection never works!! She got fed up of chasing, mentally checked out and waited until she had a locked option to leave! Men are supposed to chase not women!! U did not come across as masculine. Letting a woman chase u is a big no-no!!! It makes u look feminine!!! Women fall in love over time and attention given!!! Men are supposed to be the pursuers!!

    • @Jack_Mehoff
      @Jack_Mehoff 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

      @@chercher304How does having women chase you make you feminine ?

    • @creekcreeperrc7972
      @creekcreeperrc7972 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Should've let her think you were doing her a favor by letting her date you. Best of luck my brother 🙏

    • @chercher304
      @chercher304 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@Jack_Mehoff men are by nature the hunters!! Its The way casey talks about women know what a masculine man should be like on a primal level!! Nature designed masculine energy to chase feminine energy just like a sperm chases an egg!! On a primal level a woman knows she should be chased. a woman chasing a man comes from a place of desperation and neediness. A high value feminine woman never ever chases a man!! A man that allows a woman to chase him does not give of masculine energy he is a feminine man. A woman would pick up on that in the back of her primal brain and it is a turn of!! the man is taking too long to assume the male role!! She assumed the masculine role do u think she would ever have respect for that man?? A man who has women chasing him is insecure in his masculinity because he cannot chase and secure a woman with his own masculine virtues! Which is what happened in this scenario. Chasing him for six months all the while in the back of her primal brain she knows he is supposed to be the hunter the pursuer!!

    • @1tarikross161
      @1tarikross161 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      @@chercher304you missed the moral of the story, and what Casey is saying

  • @davidbatlle6019
    @davidbatlle6019 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +271

    I am 58 years old, happily married, with decades of experience with women. This guy hits the nail on the head. She has to physically and psychologically and emotionally “look up” to you. Otherwise, you are straight to the Friendzone.

    • @localmobileguru
      @localmobileguru 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Elaborate my man

    • @amirawad7741
      @amirawad7741 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      @@localmobileguruyou have to be better than her. in every way

    • @csgecko
      @csgecko 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      or the disrepect zone

    • @davidbatlle6019
      @davidbatlle6019 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      @@localmobileguru a woman has to sense that you have the upper hand on her, financially, physically, emotionally, not as a means to Lord it over her, but something that she feels that she is under your protection. That is why I do not tell her everything that I think and feel it it undermines my masculine energy. I don’t tell her what I’m afraid of, what I worry about, I don’t ask for help, because I come with solutions. That is the alpha that a woman is attracted to. But it can’t be an act, it has to be genuine, and real or else she will see through it.

    • @vikrraal
      @vikrraal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      a 58 year old using words like "friendzone" doesn't add up. Either you are fake or you are trying too hard.

  • @tshiamomasemola9233
    @tshiamomasemola9233 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +222

    I'm slowly learning not to pay attention to what a woman says she wants, she doesn't so I guess I know better for the both of us

    • @destinyshittiny1168
      @destinyshittiny1168 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😅😅😂😂😂😂😂

    • @archetype1987
      @archetype1987 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      I tell my guy friends this quote all the time..."Never take attraction advice from a woman. She doesnt know what shes attracted to. You would never ask a bear what attracted it to the trap that caught it, because if it knew, it wouldnt have been caught at all. Instead, ask the hunter who put the trap there. You don't ask fish how to catch fish....you ask fishermen. You don't ask women how to get women.....you ask MEN who get women...."

    • @heji3427
      @heji3427 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@archetype1987dxmn this is gold hahah

    • @picard4327
      @picard4327 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@heji3427 And.... wrong

    • @OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOq
      @OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good rule of thumb, although there are women out there who are self aware, and would share how they have taboo desires of bringing graped, used, and tied up. Basically saying they crave being dominated. They also tell on themselves. Look at how they respond when viewing a man acting aggressive, indifferent or whatever else. Their actions speak louder than words.

  • @Freddiekhay_08
    @Freddiekhay_08 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +402

    For the past 7-10 days every single video has just been a masterclass Casey, thanks for the wisdom and hardwork you put into the videos

    • @briandam8126
      @briandam8126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Agreed. I think he’s cracked the code, so to speak.
      All the money, abs and status stuff is great to get in the door, but you need to be ALMOST aloof

    • @encounteringjack5699
      @encounteringjack5699 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@briandam8126He has many answers that are great, but he basically advises extremism here, which is not at all the correct approach. Eventually, the woman will leave because of it.

    • @milanpospisil8024
      @milanpospisil8024 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Do you really think he is telling the true? It has some truth in it, be Casey goes into extremes lately. If you think this is how you should behave in relationship, than Im not suprised many men here are probably single.

    • @encounteringjack5699
      @encounteringjack5699 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@milanpospisil8024 Exactly, there's truth in it, but too extreme to begin or even say, never give a woman approval. I wonder if Casey is going through something. I went into his MBT thing, and it's not this bad. I've only gone through the first four or five modules/weeks, and I don't think it is this bad. The majority of it, at least so far, has boiled down to: stop being so stupid and learn how to be social as a man. Literally said at one point, "this shouldn't even be a course on attraction and just about growing some balls" lol
      Everything else being some helpful tips.
      At least that's what I took away haha. Maybe I need to review a little to be sure, but from what I remember that's basically what it was. Just applying what is in his webinar. I haven't looked at the material in a couple weeks now so it's been a while. Even then, there was kind of a lot in just those few weeks. Think there's 12 modules/weeks total, but I'd have to check.

    • @robm8067
      @robm8067 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@milanpospisil8024 😅 🤔yeah he is pulling no punches! based on this video most women are masochistic. Most of the hardcore concepts in this video are for women who are 8-10’s because they have been validated so much since birth.

  • @seancase1543
    @seancase1543 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I’m sick of the games . Staying single

    • @fromtheraq3898
      @fromtheraq3898 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Facts this shit is too much man. I'm tired of this modern day cornball shit dude

    • @someone7773
      @someone7773 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It’s not even a game anymore. If you’re truly a narciss or sociopath they will like u. Just have to play the game if ur not naturally like that. It sucks man. Women don’t want love anymore

    • @androidsr78
      @androidsr78 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@someone7773u think all women r attracted to a sociopath?Only needy and weak women.

  • @laidbackassassin
    @laidbackassassin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Most men are looking for a woman to love them unconditionally like their mother did and spend their life trying to find it. It won’t ever happen so the sooner you accept that fact the happier you will be

    • @Alienology444
      @Alienology444 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope you are able to heal from your insecurities and let kind people into your life. You're not incapable of finding love.💗

    • @OldSchoolStrength
      @OldSchoolStrength 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      facts

    • @OldSchoolStrength
      @OldSchoolStrength 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Alienology444 Stick to watching instead 🙈

    • @Alienology444
      @Alienology444 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@OldSchoolStrength wdym?

    • @thomasmaughan1016
      @thomasmaughan1016 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Alienology444just look at the divorce statistics.

  • @ingrained2train
    @ingrained2train 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    This was the exact video I needed! In the beginning I did everything right with my girl, made her pursue me, she initiated the relationship, nurtured me, all that…however I got caught up in the excitement and made myself too available, too much phone conversations and all that, then 7 months in she hit me with the “I need space” text…fortunately I handled it well, didnt react, gave her space and got back on my grind, she came running back, and I see exactly what I did wrong and been holding frame since and she’s been amazing, and this video confirms I’m doing the right things now

    • @picard4327
      @picard4327 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Grifters gotta grift

    • @sherifkhaled6335
      @sherifkhaled6335 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      She was just having a fling with someone she craved, and when the thirst was quenched, she came back for the secured beta.

    • @picard4327
      @picard4327 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sherifkhaled6335 You're a virgin, right?

    • @chineduokonkwo1775
      @chineduokonkwo1775 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sherifkhaled6335lmfao

    • @EdDesan77
      @EdDesan77 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you let her hit deep in you?

  • @jonnygraham2372
    @jonnygraham2372 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    This august, I saw a girl I’ve known for YEARS. We dated all august, she talked me out of my rotation after our waitress made a joke that I have a “new girl everytime I go there” which was true. She was upset and told me she wanted me undivided attention. I conceded. I introduced her to my mom which I NEVER do and told her I really care about her, long story short.. she broke things off even though I was taking her out and had lots of trips planned. I’ll be in Vegas with another girl next week and just needed a reminder. The seggs was incredible the first few times and I SENSED her lack of desire the more I committed, won’t be doing that again. LISTEN CLOSELY TO THIS MAN YALL.

    • @nyahhbinghi
      @nyahhbinghi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      1. you made mistake of bringing girls to same place. 2. Waittress shouldn't have said anything. But first mistake was yours.

    • @jonnygraham2372
      @jonnygraham2372 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@nyahhbinghi dude I tip that waitress BOOCOO bucks too, always 30% at least. Lesson learned for SURE. Update on the girl though, she got back with her ex husband as soon as we split. Apparently she just used me to make him jealous since he hates me 😂

    • @nyahhbinghi
      @nyahhbinghi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jonnygraham2372 word bro, 90% of the time if someone leaves it's for the best haha, all good in the hood

  • @Liam_D
    @Liam_D 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    "Using kissy-face emojis makes you an emasculated bitch" LOL me and my gf both sent each other that emoji 5 days ago, and I only heard from her today finally. Headman knows what he's talking about.

    • @d-trill7675
      @d-trill7675 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      If you hadnt heard from your girlfriend in 5 days, she was never yours to begin with.

    • @raskult
      @raskult 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lmfao. I used the kissy face emoji to clown someone and make them look dumb but that was it

    • @bryant2672
      @bryant2672 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      She was with me

    • @oneactchasm-gi3zs
      @oneactchasm-gi3zs 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why would you even have a gf when you can bang new hotties every week F00L. Stop wasting your life bud

    • @jimdaniel4412
      @jimdaniel4412 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They will lure you in to cute funny text game. I knew this when I seen my male friends start using them and I laughed at them

  • @TheReysinhell
    @TheReysinhell 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Yep. Don’t give them approval. She start to wonder why? That’s what you want. She’ll then constantly try to get to know you more. Even in a relationship, you need to let her know you can leave at anytime. Let her do the work. You have to have the power , don’t give in or she’ll start thinking you’re not the one.

    • @Brian-xp3uy
      @Brian-xp3uy หลายเดือนก่อน

      And if she asks how she ranks in sack activities, even if she is #1 across the board, tell her when she asks that she is like 7th in sex, 5th in oral ect. This keeps her trying harder all the time. Works to perfection. Keeps her in line and trying harder and harder. No puns intended. Never let her reach #3 in any category.

  • @jacopofbargellini4005
    @jacopofbargellini4005 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +186

    in retrospective i think most of the points are true, my wife was involved since the beginning because i dumped her twice, when i divorced i had a beautiful and young girlfriend for 6 years mainly because i made her contantly feeling she was lesser than me. Once i realized i was behaving as a prick and tried to be better, more respectful, i fell in love for a beautiful blonde with blue eyes and gave her all my love and all my approuval. Guess what happened? She dumped me because she was my queen. The weaker you are as you demonstrate all the possibile love, the less they care and respect you. I was happier when i didnt know the rules of the game but i knew istinctively how to behave.

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      This whole game seems like an exhausting waste of life. I mean it drains energy needed for more important things. My work, fitness schedule, and chores take up all my time except for a little down time. The only purpose I can see for women in my life is if they return to being a helper. Feminism isn't working out. I've come to accept being single. The dating scene is a dumpster fire loosing proposition all around.

    • @XPuntar
      @XPuntar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      It is not because of approval of validation it is because you make her your 1st priority! Even before yourself!

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@XPuntar If she's not a priority to us, she will be to some cuck. The well is dry.

    • @spacepope87
      @spacepope87 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@qua7771
      You're doing it wrong if it's exhausting.

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@spacepope87 I'm just not into drama. I have zero time for it. If the chick isn't around when I'm ready then oh well. There is no equity in a relationship, so why invest anything in one.

  • @hv2328
    @hv2328 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    “Never chase commitment, love, intimacy, or affection”. No soft man-child.
    We have to always be in our masculine. Never let our guard down. Never.
    Gold brother

    • @user-hv3ln3rk8i
      @user-hv3ln3rk8i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So what do you need women for? Sex sevice? Very masculine...

  • @55tmilam
    @55tmilam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Young guys out there pay attention to this guy! He knows what he’s talking about! This knowledge will save you a lot of heartache! Unfortunately I was 39 years old before I truly learned and took the red pill. Respect yourselves men!

    • @mademenchronicles2335
      @mademenchronicles2335 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I was 40 when I found the red pill

    • @altered_beast
      @altered_beast 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same

    • @John-pl8fe
      @John-pl8fe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yep same here only figuring this stuff now!

    • @paulmccormacksvideogamesan2912
      @paulmccormacksvideogamesan2912 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm 52 and blew it my whole life

    • @antyoutube7796
      @antyoutube7796 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish i knew about this when i was in high school

  • @baptisteringot
    @baptisteringot 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Every single one of your videos, ESPECIALLY the most controversial ones, have proven to be absolutely on point the past few weeks as I slowly got involved with a woman again after staying on my own for 2 years. Everything checked out. This weekend I did a test, I played boyfriend energy. Helpful, spent lots of time with the girl, didn’t play the asshole card much, even gave her care and attention. By the end of the weekend, she was distant. Two days prior, she was cooking me a two hours long lasagna for my birthday. Asked if I could keep her company, responded “No, I’m going to the gym”. When I got back from the gym, I approached to see what she was cooking, she leaned on my shoulder straight away. Then wanted to cuddle in front of a movie. Straight up giving affection, showing needs for it. The moment I was available for her the whole weekend, at the end of it, tension and attraction was gone. Never again, never will I make this mistake again. You’re a godsend for men in their quest to reclaim their masculinity. Thanks man.

    • @kodiakgriz2296
      @kodiakgriz2296 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yep.... deniers enabling their own weakness

    • @Faxtron
      @Faxtron 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's works always, but when the girl loose atraction and validation 100% and finally move to the next (cheeting) this not work anymore.

  • @user-go2kl6jb7s
    @user-go2kl6jb7s 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    the easiest way to talk to a girl seems to be not to talk to them at all

  • @sagatisbeast
    @sagatisbeast 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    As a Christian, I'm ok with being single. I learned all this over 10 years ago after me and my son's mom split. All this information is 100% valid.

    • @paulclinton6414
      @paulclinton6414 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A

    • @bobdole6691
      @bobdole6691 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yea idk what the fuck you are saying, that shit is retarded

    • @halburd1
      @halburd1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      all is 100% valid? i disagree why? = if the absence thing was true, then why do SO MANY military men. like the navy. they go away for months only to find out when they are gone long periods the women cheat! so NO absence is NOT a good thing. the saying - when the cat is away the mice will play. is a saying for very solid reasons. FYI my mother cheated on my dad 2 times that i know of when he went to sea before the divorce.

    • @pophh8142
      @pophh8142 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As a divorced Christian over 50 years old, I also agree that this information is 100% accurate. The only thing missing is the answer to why are women this way? The answer should be observable to a fellow Christian. God has made women that way. It is programmed into their DNA to preven men from worshiping females. God only wants his people, which are only men, to worship only him and his son. if you try to worship anything-else, you will fail miserably. It is a failsafe built into their DNA. if you try to make them equal to you by giving them praise and validation, then they will turn from you.
      Matthew 4:10 [10]Then saith Jesus unto him, Get thee hence, Satan: for it is written, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve.
      1 Corinthians 11:3 [3]But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
      Isaiah 3:12 [12]As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.

    • @BrosinsMusic
      @BrosinsMusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @lizlopezthemortgagegal
    @lizlopezthemortgagegal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    I hate to admit it but this is so true! You are so spot on!
    All men need to listen to you!

    • @Meenaia
      @Meenaia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'd have to disagree. This dude giving advice on how to erode another human being's self worth while wearing a tight tank top with muscles on full display is absolutely no different from a fully made up e-girl in a push-up bra giving advice on how to manipulate a man into getting what they want from them.
      There is a sizable portion of the population compromised of both genders who possess a high level of EQ (emotional intelligence) that are being grossly overlooked here. For those who are wanting a healthy and genuine connection, be aware that manipulative tactics such as these do hinder your chances of obtaining such a connection and these tactics will be spotted a mile away by people who are capable of giving you this connection.

    • @EddieKM
      @EddieKM 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      No

    • @quetshupfa
      @quetshupfa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      get away from here! this is female safe zone!

    • @lizlopezthemortgagegal
      @lizlopezthemortgagegal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @quetshupfa Does it emasculate you if females listen? 🤣
      Why are you telling me to get out of here? I don't think Casey said men only allowed

    • @quetshupfa
      @quetshupfa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@lizlopezthemortgagegal yes he did.

  • @UstashaMe84
    @UstashaMe84 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    You are the Goat for this. Had a girl actually seek me out. I had the upper hand clearly. I fell apart being a desperate needy simp. I lost what initially attracted her. She’ll never look at me as masculine again so I’ll just remember this for the next time. Only good thing I did was despite all urges, when she broke it off, I’ve been silent ever since. No way am I giving her an ego boost or to let her know she phases me.

    • @Curdledmayonnaise
      @Curdledmayonnaise 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      If she saw u with another girl she would hit u back up I bet

    • @alf3071
      @alf3071 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Curdledmayonnaise 100%

    • @usjet333
      @usjet333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@CurdledmayonnaiseShe sure would.

  • @freedom_-vn2dc
    @freedom_-vn2dc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    This video is absolutely incredible. I'm surprised at the maturity level of this guy at 27 years. I'm 31 and have been with hundreds of women. Everything he says is true.

  • @PapaDuck360
    @PapaDuck360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    A man being with a woman creates attachment. A woman being away from a man creates attachment: GAME.

    • @happyapple4269
      @happyapple4269 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men and women are not supposed to be detached, they are supposed to be attached to create and nurture children.

    • @eta_carithebrightlord3396
      @eta_carithebrightlord3396 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@happyapple4269 it's this fucked up society

  • @MrOMar1144
    @MrOMar1144 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    When you listen to the micro-nuances as described, you begin to realize how FINELY tuned a man MUST be. It stresses the importance of having a father/male role model in your life, because in their absence what should come naturally now has to be learned and the process is tedious, however it still MUST be learned.

    • @triplehayes6416
      @triplehayes6416 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very well said

    • @matthewwhite777
      @matthewwhite777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My Father's Day men and women had rolls happiness was not the point the man was in charge. divorce was not an option. My father cannot relate to the modern world when he came up blue collar jobs paying over 100k a year.. fixes got to be something wrong with me if I can make that much money..m anyway you get the point times have changed so much so fast the examples I saw what what f****** for so many years

  • @prelude2127
    @prelude2127 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Okay okay as a married man with two children putting up with a lot of bulshit. I learned a lot here. Implementation time. I have nothing else to lose really

    • @enigmaticnomadics
      @enigmaticnomadics 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Take it slow, buddy. As you pull back, she won't know what to make of it. Once the respect has been lost, it is extremely difficult to establish.
      My recommendation would be to take up jujitsu. (I don't do jujitsu)
      It's masculine and gets you out of the house. You'll make friends. Maybe enter tournaments later. Don't talk about it before hand.
      Don't talk about it much after.
      Basically, stop talking so much in general.
      If you lose her, you never had her anyway. At least you can rebuild dignity.

    • @ericlavoie4697
      @ericlavoie4697 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@enigmaticnomadics thats good idea im in same bull shit this year i bought snowmobile went out when i wanted she threw it in my face everytime

    • @GlobeofBeauty
      @GlobeofBeauty 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@enigmaticnomadicssuperb recommendation. I would add that it doesn't have to be jiu jitsu. You can simply spend more time on the gym. Also, I can recommend boxing, I've done it since I was 7, 32 now. The confidence boost is surreal

  • @3chunter307
    @3chunter307 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I done check out this matrix. Stack some cash. Move to Costa Rica.

  • @NickSandt
    @NickSandt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I haven’t had a girlfriend since ‘97 but one that I had in ‘96 told someone to tell me that if I didn’t start talking more that she would break up with me so I told that messenger to tell her I’m breaking up with her, it’s over. It lasted 6 weeks which is my longest relationship. My thought was if people don’t like me for me, which can be very quiet at times, then I’m not gonna change myself for anyone. That just doesn’t make sense, I love myself and don’t need to try to be someone I’m not.

    • @charleslamb5810
      @charleslamb5810 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That was a good move king. Also It would probably be good to self reflect on what you can do to improve because this is indirectly a message as well. Perhaps you are too in stuck in your head and not engaging enough, or perhaps not. But either way it is definitely worth considering. Peace

    • @sanju_deep
      @sanju_deep 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Why haven't you had a girlfriend since '97?

    • @NickSandt
      @NickSandt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@sanju_deep Well I know why I’ve been single since 2005, and that’s because I made a promise to myself to not start dating until I became wealthy. It has been my belief for all these years that money is the most important factor in a relationship and being a Christian, I don’t have sex outside of marriage so the only reason for someone like me to date is to find a potential wife and I’m not ready yet.
      I have believed that money is the #1 thing that women are after but after watching Casey Zander videos he’s changing my mind about how women really think and judge men.
      But why was I single from ‘97 to ‘05? I have no idea. I chalked it up to being poor and living in the ghetto. But a couple years ago I tested positive for autism so looking back at my life, being on the autism spectrum makes the most sense as far as explaining all of my interactions with people.

    • @heji3427
      @heji3427 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good. Erase yourself from the gene pool then
      Just natural selection at play
      The weak ones are destined to be eliminated while the strong-willed ones who are willing to throw and sacrifice everything to achieve their desires in life will ultimately prevail.

  • @grommet7772
    @grommet7772 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    It's a damn shame when you can't even give a woman a genuine compliment.

    • @alf3071
      @alf3071 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      you can't avoid the consequences

    • @aslysa2277
      @aslysa2277 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stupid comment

    • @stu6097
      @stu6097 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      You can if she earns it.

    • @banut2116
      @banut2116 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Why do you want to though?

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You can throw her one on occasion if you’re moving along exclusively just never say I Love You

  • @JukeboxBalowski
    @JukeboxBalowski 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Look what happened with Tom Brady! You'd think he would be as high status as a man could get, but his wife was messing around with another man. The status doesn't hold up as time goes by.

    • @spacepope87
      @spacepope87 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Brady is not a good example. His wife is a hot shot model.

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She didn’t cheat on him. They parted ways amicably and she was upset cuz he put football above her. If anything he ditched her

  • @Avakthefirst
    @Avakthefirst 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    “Do not tell them this, and don’t verbally say any of this Shit…don’t let women see that you watch this channel, none of this “
    You’re a guru for the modern age. Appreciate you brotha.

  • @lennoxdewolff7168
    @lennoxdewolff7168 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The first guy on planet earth to figure out how women actually work💯

    • @riverat7558
      @riverat7558 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tom leykis was the first to put it in the media back in the 90s that I know of.

    • @riverat7558
      @riverat7558 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He sounded up this way. Whatever your brain is telling you to do in regards to a woman do the opposite. If you're craving to go see her do the opposite. If you're craving to text her do the opposite. Works perfectly.

  • @mattormrod7843
    @mattormrod7843 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    At 55, I discover my faults, I do love females though they’re my favourite animals, it takes real discipline not to turn to mush in their presence. But from here on things are gonna be different. Cheers Casey

  • @coreywiley3164
    @coreywiley3164 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I’m glad I’m consuming this information at 19

    • @GlobeofBeauty
      @GlobeofBeauty 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You will be leagues ahead of us pre TH-cam gens lol

    • @hirofumi3123
      @hirofumi3123 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely, this is gold

  • @adibee88
    @adibee88 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Totally blew my mind on how many mistakes I made in my most recent relationship. Thank you Bro.
    Going forward, I'll know what not to do.

  • @mikeygreed1474
    @mikeygreed1474 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Bro I just finished with a girl I was dating , gave her to much validation “thought she was different bs” if only I saw your videos beforehand , I’d be in a different situation, I know for next time though,keep up the work .
    speaking nothing but facts

  • @wutangfury9283
    @wutangfury9283 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "I thought she was different" so did I my friend. So did I.

  • @kevinwasilewski598
    @kevinwasilewski598 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Omg, 27. I could be this guy’s Dad. But this guy’s words are spot-on

    • @OliHandy2008
      @OliHandy2008 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Where did he get these ideas? It all checks out in relation to evolutionary biology and my own anecdotal experience. But I'm 42 and had no clue!
      In one of his last videos he basically said "whatever you intuitively think is the right thing to do/think to keep a woman's attraction, do the opposite'.

    • @suiz1781
      @suiz1781 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@OliHandy2008Probably from studying psychology and his own personal experience

  • @jimandersch5364
    @jimandersch5364 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I finally gave my wife approval and validation verbally, after 4 years, the next day she decided on divorce. This advice is the truth.

  • @deerlow1851
    @deerlow1851 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    i think this is incredibly sad. in a true loving union this is the complete opposite, this will only ever work in surface level relationships

    • @GlobeofBeauty
      @GlobeofBeauty 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's sad but it's human nature, unfortunately. I've been in several relationships some short and some long. (3 mon-6years). What Casey is saying here IS the truth. If you find a girl DO NOT put her on a pedestal. If you wanna be nice at least give a push-pull. "You're cute, but you're such a dork". I can basically predict the length of my relationship based on how much validation I've given her

    • @Alienology444
      @Alienology444 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@GlobeofBeauty I'm sorry but this is not true at all. Maybe you've just been with the wrong women but my boyfriend is the most loving man I have ever met in my life. We work because we know each other deeply and take care of each other. The most beautiful relationships require both people to be fully vulnerable and comfortable with each other.

    • @GlobeofBeauty
      @GlobeofBeauty หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Alienology444 good on you. You seem to be the exception

    • @Alienology444
      @Alienology444 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@GlobeofBeauty I know a lot of girls like me though. Of course there are going to be awful women but why spend any time on them at all. Just wait until you find a nice girl.

  • @mmr0221
    @mmr0221 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I made ALL the mistakes

    • @mehdighanem9365
      @mehdighanem9365 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats what gonna cost u to have the girl that u want

  • @Drew-gi5dw
    @Drew-gi5dw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    He's wrong. Never give her your UNCONDITIONAL approval or validation. If you do not give her approval or validation, she won't think you value her; if you give her unconditional approval and validation, she won't have anything to chase or need to improve, and that means she owns you. You must be like a ruler who tells his subjects that his subjects have done well but not perfectly, and with the imperfections you're displeased. Carrots and sticks, not just sticks.

    • @Level_No_Curve
      @Level_No_Curve 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Basically how pimps manipulate in a way lol

    • @Drew-gi5dw
      @Drew-gi5dw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Level_No_Curve - women are looking for someone to rule over them. Provide for them, protect them, and tell them what to do. The only difference between a pimp and a good man is the reason and purpose for which they rule.

    • @OliHandy2008
      @OliHandy2008 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How is he wrong? Did you not understand the video?

    • @Drew-gi5dw
      @Drew-gi5dw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      @@OliHandy2008 - yes, I did. And he's dead wrong about his entire thinking on this subject, because he's making the wrong associations. Women aren't attracted to a man based on time spent apart, or based on receiving his approval. Women are attracted to a man based on whether or not he is a worthy ruler over her. I have seen a woman who worked as a junior partner to her husband in business - and have seen this repeatedly - who spend quite literally every moment with her husband. But he is never not the one in charge, never the one not making the decisions, and never the one not taking full responsibility for everything. He is, quite literally, her king, and that is why she loves and adores him.
      Women are, in the end, looking for a worthy ruler; a worthy king of her life, just as the Bible proclaims to the first woman, "your desire will be for your husband, and he shall rule over you." That is a description of the biological reality. A woman doesn't want friend in a man; she wants her king.

    • @Drew-gi5dw
      @Drew-gi5dw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Luke_MoonWalker - just because someone rules over you doesn’t make you a mindless animal. Do you have a boss? Your boss rules over you. Most men let the woman rule, which is contrary to nature, and then the woman treats them like garbage and they feel betrayed, but the fact is that they betrayed the woman first by not maintaining his dominion over her and building his dominion with her help.

  • @JohnnyB719
    @JohnnyB719 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    You could literally translate all these principles to marketing, sales, recruitment etc…

  • @usjet333
    @usjet333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Casey's videos are pure gold. When my boy turns 15, I'm requiring him to watch and learn from this wise man.

    • @KQKQKQKQKQKQ
      @KQKQKQKQKQKQ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Be a man and teach your son yourself. Don't let another man raise your boy.

  • @lendingcapital5615
    @lendingcapital5615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I love your content and I’m a woman. There aren’t many masculine men out there, unfortunately, and it’s mostly women’s doing unfortunately

    • @WhiteWolfeHU
      @WhiteWolfeHU 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men don’t act masculine, especially around women because society for our entire lives has engrained that scary masculine man is evil and will scare women. We act nice because we don’t want to look mean. Oh well life really sucks this century.

  • @ManquitoYt-kv5un
    @ManquitoYt-kv5un 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    She doesn't love you, she loves what you can provide for her. #truth

  • @amnestylost
    @amnestylost 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    If she doesn't actually want you if you show yourself as a man's man, she isn't attracted to you to begin with. It can happen.

    • @Mrgreen2558
      @Mrgreen2558 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who care I don't chase women , in the future if I want to marry, I will marry Asia women like Thailand, Philippines and Indonesia they are truly wives love their husbands but as men you need to be responsible as you are leader in house.

  • @nativeofnc
    @nativeofnc หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My ex complained that I never validated her. Not only did I NOT understand what she meant but she left me anyway. 🤷🏻‍♂️
    She didn’t said that I didn’t make enough money and went on to leave me for a beta male.

  • @krisrocker437
    @krisrocker437 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Casey - a wise younger brother I never had. I wish you taught me these lessons when I was in late 20s/early 30s. I am 46 and not sure if I have any place in the current dating market.
    Kudos to you, Casey. You are helping your fellow men/brothers to rise up. May God bless you.

    • @thegeneral1297
      @thegeneral1297 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      There’s always space regardless of age as long as you have developed yourself as a man

    • @sigurdhaugan4763
      @sigurdhaugan4763 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Honestly being an older man isnt a bad thing. I am in my mid 30s and I'm not sure I wouldve been able to handle this information at 20. I was way too immature. My mind and body is so much stronger now at my age, and I honestly believe that men should wait to date and marry until at least 30 because most men arent Casey. It takes time and commitment to build ourselves, not just on the outside but the inside. To deal with the stress of life and battles and that mindset building also builds confidence and self love. If you are happy by yourself, a woman can compliment that if you know how to work it. I had a neediness in my 20s for love, but now in my 30s idrc about women. I'm happy where im at, which allows me to vet women to fit into my life rather than the opposite. However I also talk to women in their early 20s rather than older women, and i think that does help. Men gain value as they age and women are the opposite. Women in your age group arent likely to be chased because they are literally leftovers, undesirables, etc. You have more value at your age then your female counterparts. The ball is in your court brother.

    • @mandlamasuku7913
      @mandlamasuku7913 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You still have a place in dating pool ,imagine me I'm 46 and going out with a 25 year old young lady -up your game

    • @kodiakgriz2296
      @kodiakgriz2296 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep same picked nice looking l pumping gas in mid 20s.....

    • @mauric99
      @mauric99 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thegeneral1297 look up john elite

  • @dab0rgna1mn17
    @dab0rgna1mn17 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Facts. You can literally test and play with these ideas in any relationship. I get called an asshole all the time. But, guess what; she aint gone anywhere. Women can actually "tell" you where you are in any stage of the relationship if you know what to listen for. And this presentation hits the mark.. No ones telling you not to care; Just dont let THEM know you give a shit...

    • @happyapple4269
      @happyapple4269 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then we get " why dont you ever say you love me"?

    • @gatesroyale
      @gatesroyale 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      easy i show it with my actions or i protect you dont i@@happyapple4269

  • @KarakuraRiser
    @KarakuraRiser 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    There was this one girl who'm I had so much feelings for, one day I told her and she started crying.

  • @crpyt4258
    @crpyt4258 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    He's legit I pulled back 2 days ago and sure enough other guys she was following she unfollowed them. They will test you, I thought she was the one again for the second time in my life. I don't have problems getting laid. Your videos made me realize why the panties drop the 1 st night but I loose them 5 years later. You the man. Thank you brother

  • @songas333
    @songas333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Never compliment a woman ever, got it

    • @realxspade
      @realxspade 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly I’m a lil confused

    • @BrosinsMusic
      @BrosinsMusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣 I never aroused the interest of any female by complimenting her, thats surface bullshit and she will fish for compliments, how does this dress look? She wants your approval, if you always give it then hypergamy naturally swings the other direction.

    • @nonyabizness2550
      @nonyabizness2550 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Only once. To get her attention to start the first conversation.

  • @Auticusx
    @Auticusx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I appreciate your content. You are lucky to know this stuff at 27 yes. What you are showcasing is what you do AFTER a man works on his body, earns money, and gets status. You're right, just those things by themselves wont KEEP anyone. What you are showing is what you have to do AFTER you've done those things and you are spot on. However its important to stress that if a guy doesn't have his physical body taken care of and at least some money coming in, he's never going to get to what you're talking about because he's invisible.
    And you're right there about sacrificing your life for this knowledge heh. Yes if women know you know this they think you are an incel piece of ****. Keep it all to yourself guys lol.

  • @vcropper2
    @vcropper2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This is so on point. I even notice this from my young daughters. If I show too much affection they treat me horribly. As soon as I withdraw that affection they become so sweet. I find myself having to break rapport with my girl if I get too comfortable. What you’re saying is 💯 but the shit is exhausting!

    • @jewelsofuniverse2130
      @jewelsofuniverse2130 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s sad your daughters be only sweet when you withdraw they need to leave western demonic media alone

    • @jasonneuhoff9354
      @jasonneuhoff9354 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Totally fucking exhausting

    • @dreamxd9331
      @dreamxd9331 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Don’t know why do we have to do this shit rather then loving someone really it’s so exhausting and not it

    • @jackhobson6547
      @jackhobson6547 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Its women bin general

    • @Stillcountingracks
      @Stillcountingracks 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      All of Western women *

  • @Nick-L4D2-Z3n
    @Nick-L4D2-Z3n 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    You are 100% right mate. Thanks for sharing and pointing out what I've known and felt my whole life. Wish I listened to my own inner voice with the last woman as she was all I've ever wanted. Made myself look bad in her eyes I guess, giving in too "easily". But I am of the opinion that a man feels at best when he gives as we are naturaly givers and taking care/providing of the ones we love. Stay Masculine by all means.

    • @alf3071
      @alf3071 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      feel u bro, same situation

  • @Avicena-tf5uj
    @Avicena-tf5uj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    All of this can be summed up by remain stoic, don’t simp, respect yourself and never move in with a female.

  • @55tmilam
    @55tmilam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    “ women love arrogant assholes!” Bahahahahaha truer words have never been spoken!

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      *immature* women

    • @chaitanyagupta6668
      @chaitanyagupta6668 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@basicinfo2022you can use women in short. Save the bandwidth

    • @likachambers6465
      @likachambers6465 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not true - we don’t like assholes after the age 14 . I fall for guys who are nice to me .

    • @jordanharrison8769
      @jordanharrison8769 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@basicinfo2022 ALL* women

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @jordanharrison8769 a high value woman is not attracted to a toxic man cause she's interested in a man who is husband material

  • @Matt-vz5wy
    @Matt-vz5wy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Thanks so much for this. I just did exactly what you described and couldn’t understand why she bailed out of nowhere when things were so good. Now I get it. She knew how bad I wanted her, because I told her. This also explains why the only girls that seem to consistently want me are the ones I don’t want. Lightbulb moment for sure.

    • @RESLOWED_MUSIC
      @RESLOWED_MUSIC 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      how do you keep her like in long term , and you being in masculine

    • @ultimate4416
      @ultimate4416 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same for me brother

    • @boysgang9159
      @boysgang9159 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@RESLOWED_MUSICShe has to see you with other girls or know you have other girls and do not give her attention treat her like whatever

    • @herzog6480
      @herzog6480 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RESLOWED_MUSIC One day at a time.

    • @RESLOWED_MUSIC
      @RESLOWED_MUSIC 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@herzog6480 what one day

  • @EtoThe1toTheV
    @EtoThe1toTheV 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    This is one of the best presentations I’ve seen on TH-cam on how female subconscious attraction works. I can tell you from experience though that this will mostly apply to younger or immature women. It’s a person’s own responsibility to learn how and why they are attractive and to continuously work on themselves in every facet.

    • @gameon2000
      @gameon2000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      even moreso with the most older women. That's yet another reason, as to why you should go for younger ones.

    • @davidsanegor4375
      @davidsanegor4375 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      All women mate

  • @vidakorang2616
    @vidakorang2616 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    A round of applause for professor casey.What this young man is teaching is something missing from the educational curriculum.Hebce men do not understand the female nature and they only come to discover the real nature of our precious females too late in life.Every dating coach i have watched is always talking about how you need to go to the gym to get a woman.How you need the best perfumes to get a woman.How you need to talk and cold approach to get a woman,I was asking myself whether a woman was oxygen or water that men cannot do without.
    BUT!!!!Uncle C,has decoded the matrix codes and clearly demystified the theory of attracting women,everything is women,women,women.
    Thank you Uncle C.
    You are what this generation of men need right now to attain mastery over lust and achieve real PEACEOF MIND devoid of all the drama with women.

  • @zafeirisz.5569
    @zafeirisz.5569 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The fact that within 12 hous videos like this already has 20K watches, means that maybe our species still have hope. Carry on the good job Casey!

  • @damachine3
    @damachine3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I started looking into this topic because I have a 22 year old son. Luckily, he has found a girl that seems down to earth. Time will tell. But, more than anything, these videos make me appreciate my wife of 30 years so very much! We started with nothing and built an amazing life together. There has never been any of this BS. Times have changed, and I largely blame the advent of social media...and we met long before that. So sorry for you young and/or single guys out there that have to deal with this crap!

    • @jackhobson6547
      @jackhobson6547 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Social media definitely has alot to do with it

  • @voyer1999
    @voyer1999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Who messed you up bro!!!
    It’s ok to be vulnerable and fall in love again!!! I’m an arrogant prick and I’ve been married 23 years. I have for kids and marriage is the greatest thing I ever did for myself.

  • @TheADRIANOVALENTINO
    @TheADRIANOVALENTINO 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Scarcity creates Value.
    Money, Status etc will give you a big boost which is great.
    However you need to internalize your manhood to be a true man's man.
    Hence what a woman desires most..👍👍

  • @urielbp2756
    @urielbp2756 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Woman is very difficult thing to understand bro . When I don't care to her , she comes so lovely and when I show love and affection she pulls away . That's f*cked up bro hahaha

    • @zamadepuib3254
      @zamadepuib3254 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's because of unhealthy attachment styles. Stop looking for avoidant attachment ones. Those are the worst.

  • @joakimfrysa1060
    @joakimfrysa1060 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Your videos are getting better and better. Can't thank you enough for shoving the red pill down my throat. Everything i thought about love and relationships was wrong

    • @picard4327
      @picard4327 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LOL. Nice bot reply

  • @robertrobinson1454
    @robertrobinson1454 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    At the end of my relationship, my ex pulled away drastically. To the point I didn’t know if she ever loved me.
    Now rewind a year prior. She was sitting on my coach crying because she felt she wasn’t good enough for me. CRYING!!! The same woman that wants nothing to do with me at this point is the same woman that was crying because she perceived me as the man of all men last year. At that point, I validated her. She used her tears and emotions and got me. Trained me up like a puppy and drained like a black widow. The love propaganda we are all miseducated with taught me to love more, give me, do more. Wrong, wrong, wrong! Listen to this man in this video, please! It will be one of your biggest gifts to yourself.

  • @matthewsaltzman5573
    @matthewsaltzman5573 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This might be the most important channel I've found on TH-cam so far. I've been applying these techniques over the last couple months and everything is 💯% accurate.

  • @serginho3
    @serginho3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is gold!

  • @mypov4343
    @mypov4343 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Start by being happy and complete as a single person and pursuing your god-given purpose in life. Then when you meet a woman whether it works out or not you always can go back to being a happy complete single person. That also makes it easier for you to be your authentic self and remain in frame no matter what happens

  • @realralphanthony
    @realralphanthony 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love you bro, dropping deeeeep inner game

  • @leontsiaousis2610
    @leontsiaousis2610 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Stay single, stay happy

  • @peter2945
    @peter2945 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks Casey. This is gold that adds clarity to mind and action.

  • @kusuguttai
    @kusuguttai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Men, rewatch this video over and over until it sinks in, then apply it; live it.
    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @flanbeyan
    @flanbeyan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    With all due respect 🙏. I will simplify all your complicated Jargon. Women want successful men and Men want good looking women. Enough said. Want women? Become successful.

  • @daviddabeegukabassima8232
    @daviddabeegukabassima8232 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true. God bless you brother!

  • @jdenha7078
    @jdenha7078 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Last girl I talked to she was taking long to text back, treated her the same then ignored her, she got pissed and blocked me, told her I wanted a high value woman and you don’t mean that criteria then blocked her while she was trying to reply 😂

    • @stephenperry9042
      @stephenperry9042 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      How did you respond to her if she had already blocked you?

    • @Thatdude-tp7xs
      @Thatdude-tp7xs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@stephenperry9042exactly

  • @mildwaves
    @mildwaves 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Casey been droping gems

  • @fernandosalas4885
    @fernandosalas4885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Woowww this is pure GOLD.

  • @IssaSabhari-lk5cl
    @IssaSabhari-lk5cl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I agree with you 100% why do I say this because I’ve been in this life but the setting is I’m still single, but still never give up and I checked the NBC webinar yesterday and the day after still the same thing I love it I’m doing what you told me to do and never give up. I never stop, but I think now I have to do my job which is clean my house go work every day I don’t care about women, I just care about myself. You’re right here from now on I’ll call you my captain thank you captain.

  • @claudio6032
    @claudio6032 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Does this mean I can never show my love to her with soft kisses, holding hands while driving, touching and hugging und cuddling, spending time with her or telling her that I love her or that she is amazing if she is? ….altho I like this? Why have a girlfriend then in the first place?

    • @chotaboy66
      @chotaboy66 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I think you can do all this, but she has to earn it by chasing you, investing in you, initiating touch, telling you she loves you first etc & when you do reciprocate do it sparingly & not all the time. Not too fast in the beginning & not too much over time. Even try to reciprocate jokingly, make it funny, which leaves a level of uncertainty in her mind. I know it can be hard not to straight up show these emotions. but sometimes you have to slap yourself in the face, metaphorically that is.

    • @animekple
      @animekple 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's not about that, I don't think he's talking about your long-terme girl friend. Sure you can take care of her, and give her your arm when she needs it if she's your girlfriend. Just don't be addict to physical contact and keep complementing her for aprouval et neediness

    • @Meenaia
      @Meenaia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Of course you can as long as it's with the right person who matches your love language. I'm going to be completely honest, I consider the way you wish to express your love as one of the most beautiful and purest ways. I think almost all of us regardless of gender are like this at one point until we got really hurt because we exposed our most vulnerable side to the wrong person eg: someone who hasn't healed through their own trauma and operates out of self preservation like most of the people here. Usually the trauma experienced in one persons relationship spreads like fire into other relationships. A good song to listen to as an example of this is The Weeknd's Save Your Tears. Especially the line that says "I broke your heart like someone did to mine". I guess what I'm trying to say in all this rambling is: Yes you can and should show your love the way that brings you genuine happiness. Just keep in mind some things:
      1. you both should feel safe enough with eachother to express your innermost thoughts
      2. you both value eachothers feelings as much as your own
      3. you both are comfortable with yourselves (not trying to please/push away the other out of fear of rejection)
      4. being close like this requires time, compassion, and open direct communication which circles back to #1
      You are one of the most mature people I have seen as of yet in this comment section. I hope you continue to remain true to yourself and don't cave to the shallow perspectives of others because they are lost themselves. Speaking from experience as someone who did cave, this was no way to live and it was incredibly lonely.

  • @SantiagoBetancur-oo3oj
    @SantiagoBetancur-oo3oj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really appreciate the sacrifice you make, thanks for the content!

  • @user-yy2re9sy7d
    @user-yy2re9sy7d 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Brutal Truth..... Well done Casey!!

  • @clementetijerina4148
    @clementetijerina4148 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The best thing to do is no commitment. Just have her there for when you need her. Is she wants.

  • @rosserscott4376
    @rosserscott4376 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What wemon say they want is completely different than what they respond to.

  • @sorencin11
    @sorencin11 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Unbelievable how helpful your teachings are.

  • @kubiz8812
    @kubiz8812 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The best info you put out so far coach. Very good job.

  • @theoneandonly3499
    @theoneandonly3499 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I hate to admit it but Casey is killing it and is the best :D

  • @RETRO701
    @RETRO701 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i love this guy, the way he explains things is amazing man... god bless all the alpha males !

  • @ccjailen
    @ccjailen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This information is golden. Much appreciated.

  • @Victoreeuss1
    @Victoreeuss1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Damn, straight facts! Served up cold 🥶.

  • @adamperry3833
    @adamperry3833 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Basically this robes up as you kick back and too some degree just chill and let them come on to you basically dont be logical use the reverse

  • @Meenaia
    @Meenaia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Wow. Society is so lost when open direct communication, not being ruled by ones fragile ego, and operating out of genuine care rather than manipulation towards fellow humans is looked down upon. Being able to do just these three things shows TREMENDOUS strength of character which sadly few seem to posses. Growing spiritually and healing the painful parts of yourself that you're not only scared to face, but also project onto others, will bring closer and more fulfilling relationships in all areas in life. I mean, it will if you're into that sort of thing.

    • @TheZechariah
      @TheZechariah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Bro have you dealt with modern women recently?

    • @Jack_Mehoff
      @Jack_Mehoff 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      This sounds great on paper…

    • @Meenaia
      @Meenaia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@TheZechariah to be fair, I've isolated from most of society because people are assholes. But in doing so, I learned a lot about myself by honestly looking at myself and what I was doing to sabotage relationships. Turns out I was just as much of an asshole as everyone else and it's the same reason everyone else has bad relationships: I was afraid to be myself and get hurt. Most of everyone's problem is them not being happy with themselves first and foremost. And I guarantee there are modern women out there who think like this.

    • @Meenaia
      @Meenaia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Jack_Mehoff It's even better if you are living it. Fix yo sh*t and get new role models like Jesus or if you aren't into religion try Gabor Mate who approaches the subject of love and healing in a scientific yet compassionate way.

    • @Jack_Mehoff
      @Jack_Mehoff 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Meenaia thank you

  • @scottoshea9440
    @scottoshea9440 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is pure gold

  • @jimmydeer
    @jimmydeer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So. Good. 100% FACTS-keep bringing the truth!

  • @brucelston
    @brucelston 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Honestly atp I don't want my gf if I have to do this.

    • @loveme77527
      @loveme77527 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes this!!
      I feel like this is manipulation...
      Can we just be kind to eachother & appreciate one another on both sides with maintaining love for ourselves...

    • @vcropper2
      @vcropper2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Unfortunately…

  • @kingdoz
    @kingdoz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So true. He’s right all round but missing a tiny bit, if you want her to ‘deeply fall for you and always respect you too. Nothin* wrong in the sense that you also may want her validation too, you can get it and enjoy it, but never ask for it or show her that you are needy for her. You will get all that off her if you manage to just gain her trust by being authentic and doing for her and showing her you love her but you must do it on YOUR terms. You can surprise her by simply ‘doing’ as you say but never asking.. All is true about giving space for her to want you more, but what is missing here is also do things to gain her trust of you becuase if she also trusts you, she will give you all her love. But don’t let her trust you for t(e wrong reasons such as always being there for her.. you need to make her want you at the same time. You need to earn the respect of a woman and then must keep that respect. And like he says you earn her love by letting her know you

  • @Faxtron
    @Faxtron 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This information is pure gold.

  • @cdeep120
    @cdeep120 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video is pure gold.

  • @Archangelmychel
    @Archangelmychel 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    MEN! Listen… we are not in competition with each other. Do Zander things so that more women earn us. More turn 18 every day..
    Jesus I’m learning so much…