How to Change the Nature and Tone of Every Significant Discussion After Infidelity

Have you ever felt like every discussion with your partner after infidelity is a mess? Maybe you feel like you start out well only to cascade into anger, resentment and rage? Tomorrow I'll share with you a tool that changed my life after a challenging and embarrassing therapy session where I had to admit I was in 'lawyer mode.' I thought I was right! I was convinced I was not only right, but actually IN THE RIGHT in my agenda, tone and approach. Like many of us, I was sadly mistaken and had to be called out by my therapist. It was a gamechanger for me and I'm absolutely convinced it will be a gamechanger for you, IF you use it right and implement it with your partner. This principle will not only affect conversations with your partner but also your kids, whether small or grown. I'll see you tomorrow with the tool.

[@thebluebutterfly5177]

Looking forward to it!

[@AlexDVlogs]

Thank you Sam

[@samshealingpodcast]

my pleasure my friend. thanks for watching and commenting.

[@AlexDVlogs]

Having a hard time Sam

[@trashman9395]

Dude! You make so much sense… how can I get my unfaithful wife to actually listen and stop doing the exact opposite of what you and other experts say?
Please forgive my lack of communication skills, I have a TBI from the Army and complex severe PTSD along with other cognitive issues.

[@samshealingpodcast]

i get it my friend. is she open to getting help? will she meet with me?

[@trashman9395]

@@samshealingpodcast
​​⁠she says she is doing it but at every turn she’s just not getting it. She would meet. She’s currently in hope for healing and we are starting ems online on the 23rd. But she’s still just saying the same words and justcg going through the motions while telling me that I am over reacting.

[@trashman9395]

@@samshealingpodcast we watch your videos and she only points out what I do wrong while checking boxes for herself. Then she does the exact opposite and has a lot of butts. She says yes it’s true or yes in that situation “BUT” you are xyz or something

[@trashman9395]

@@samshealingpodcast I can send you her phone number, please let me know what email address you want me to send it to.

[@samshealingpodcast]

I'm sorry @trashman9395 but I don't make phone calls unless they are sessions. She or you can email me at [e-mail]

[@blackaj69]

Looking forward to the episode. Keep up the good work.

[@samshealingpodcast]

thank you. means a ton.