Losing it on a Door

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  • @yung1717
    @yung1717 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +580

    Men like this are terrifying. His reactions are abusive and disgusting. He’s pitiful

    • @christopherramon-reid2000
      @christopherramon-reid2000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Seriously. He is a pig

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Seriously!! And so many of them are like this

    • @PPE707
      @PPE707 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s not a man. Men don’t behave that way.

    • @reginadavis7499
      @reginadavis7499 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Good thing she didn't go back. It would only gotten worse

    • @kaox44
      @kaox44 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, terrifying, abusive and disgusting he is. However, women this date this guy and breed with him.

  • @RyanBlockb5
    @RyanBlockb5 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +454

    Don't tolerate angry or sloppy drunks. And she should have gotten the restraining order. To protect herself and her daughter.

    • @Buildyourinheritance
      @Buildyourinheritance 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      And she’s still saying “hi & bye” that’s dangerous and I bet he knows where she’s at

    • @positiveopinion4594
      @positiveopinion4594 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I hope she has the integrity not to accept any money over the damages he caused and have nothing more to do with him. he will not change.

    • @ReddyReader
      @ReddyReader 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unfortunately, you're
      RIGHT!
      They'll kiss and make up. Cheeez
      ​@@Buildyourinheritance

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What will he do if he decides to bill up more unprocessed anger??

    • @mahoganysoulll
      @mahoganysoulll 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kattiethomas4687more than likely go and get the gun and go to her house like he said. I can’t believe she was still in contact with this man, Smfh.

  • @papalegbasson2447
    @papalegbasson2447 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +348

    Wow! She should have taken this to Judge Mathis. He suffered very little consequences..

    • @nanjones3973
      @nanjones3973 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Well that’s the plaintiffs fault. She should’ve gotten a restraining order and had him locked up. Give the judge something to work with.

    • @epp.5593
      @epp.5593 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I agree. Judge Mathis would have threw the book at him.

    • @smitchell790
      @smitchell790 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Judge Mathis hates men like that so I agree

    • @persuaded
      @persuaded 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Definitely some crackheadish 😂😂

    • @BloodNote
      @BloodNote 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nanjones3973as someone who has a restraining order against a stalker I had ZERO relationship with. Who still contacts me. It doesn't mean a damn thing. Police don't give a fuck about women in danger. That order is just a piece of paper.

  • @WarGrowlmon18
    @WarGrowlmon18 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    SHE SHOULD'VE FILED CHARGES AGAINST HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @luispineda9255
    @luispineda9255 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +206

    She should have gotten every penny she was asking for. The move was a direct consequence of his drunk crazy behavior. She should have gotten him arrested and gotten the restraining order as well.

    • @tonyrichardson5955
      @tonyrichardson5955 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I agree 💯

    • @cosmos34
      @cosmos34 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I agree on principle, and I hate abusive men like this. However, she hurt her case by failing to follow through with the restraining order.

    • @KarenBassett-Wheeler
      @KarenBassett-Wheeler 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Women do not give up the men they're in love with. That's.why the police can't do anything. It's frustrating to them to have their hands tied by someone who won't follow through when they've called the police.

    • @nanjones3973
      @nanjones3973 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She didn’t present her case well enough to have won that portion of her case. If she had something from the landlord stating that they’re refusing to renew her lease due to that incident, then she probably would have gotten it. She would also have to prove there were no other factors affecting the renewal. She made the choice to move, which is not the same thing as being forced to move due to that event. She also didn’t get a restraining order which weakened her argument that she moved out of fear. Especially since she continued friendly communication with him after.

  • @LiveGrowRescue
    @LiveGrowRescue 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    Her not filing for a restraining order or having him arrested was THEE reason why she wasn't awarded her moving costs. She didn't take him seriously when she should have at the moment, so why should the judge?

    • @kiahhh444
      @kiahhh444 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She said she was trying to get the money for the door

  • @WarGrowlmon18
    @WarGrowlmon18 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    She also should've followed through on that restraining order against this lunatic.

  • @faithfullmess
    @faithfullmess 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    The fact that he waited until all the guests left before showing out says A LOT.
    He doesn’t confront men because he’d loose.
    (Also: This case screams, “The BEAR…I choose the BEAR”! 😂)

    • @bysunshineandgrace
      @bysunshineandgrace 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Right! lol He wasn’t that drunk if he knew to wait and threaten her in private.

    • @bobberry1463
      @bobberry1463 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I mean to be fair that is the normal thing to do. If we having a dinner party and something happens that upset me the mature thing to do is wait for the guest to leave and talk to you about it. Even more so if it an event for my partner like a birthday party. You don't want to ruin the mood you wait till everyone leaves.

  • @yung1717
    @yung1717 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +150

    I would’ve gotten him arrested. All his actions that night and she let him go free? He did that with her daughter in the house

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Especially since he is a military veteran.. they have a lot of mental challenges.
      Signed a military brat & ex military spouse- both have severe ptsd.
      They are hell.

    • @christianakalaitzi1645
      @christianakalaitzi1645 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She is a kind hearted lady. This could have WRECKED his life!

  • @moniquem3738
    @moniquem3738 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    This poor lady. Thank God he showed his true colors before it got worse.

  • @mashondaknight9132
    @mashondaknight9132 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    The defendant is a childish nut case that can't control his emotions ,the woman should have also sued for emotional distress.

    • @JoyJoy-oc7su
      @JoyJoy-oc7su 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally agree!

  • @lynnw2953
    @lynnw2953 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +163

    ngl ma'am is kinda pissing me off by 10:30. i just feel like y'all play too damn much behind men & threats. the police are OFFERING to arrest a lunatic who has already told you that he will shoot you and/or light your vehicle on fire.
    but oh no! "i'm so scared!" GIRL DO SOMETHING!
    it's giving "i didn't wanna put no black man in jail!" 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @AtlChica883
      @AtlChica883 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Girl, absolutely!!! She didn’t have his keys what if she didn’t find them. She should have gotten the restraining order and then if he threatened or came by he goes to jail and he doesn’t keep his gun!

    • @susiesolangesimpson2828
      @susiesolangesimpson2828 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And that’s how women end up getting killed. SMH

    • @futuredent
      @futuredent 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Trying to be objective about it, I said maybe she didn’t move on them arresting him that night because I can imagine that feels like a temporary fix that may only further enrage someone who’s already threatening you. Now, the restraining order - DEFINITELY.

    • @VeryAnonymousDoe
      @VeryAnonymousDoe 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly! smh at these kind of women

    • @Blue-ej7rw
      @Blue-ej7rw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She seemed a little nonchalant in the beginning about all the red flags at the start of the party. She should've politely ejected him from the party.

  • @christianakalaitzi1645
    @christianakalaitzi1645 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Dude! You terrorized this poor lady!

  • @shynbryt11
    @shynbryt11 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    No this is his behavior without alcohol. He is unhinged and a danger to all women!!!

    • @rbaltimo
      @rbaltimo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      EXACTLY

  • @sheisme2
    @sheisme2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    She should have sued for mental anguish.

    • @gemineyes2
      @gemineyes2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Unfortunately, most like JM would not have granted because she continued talking to him. I've seen it.

  • @AbadScratchingHabit
    @AbadScratchingHabit 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +543

    lol yea everybody knows spades break up friendships and happy homes!😅

    • @nneekaestelle4732
      @nneekaestelle4732 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

      And Uno.....

    • @6Summerville
      @6Summerville 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

      😂😂😂 UNO and Spades have been breaking up happy homes since the 70’s 🤣🤣😂😂

    • @AbadScratchingHabit
      @AbadScratchingHabit 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nneekaestelle4732oh yea mos def uno…… I heard they have a draw 100 card…..

    • @GrumpySmurf0813
      @GrumpySmurf0813 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I agree with all y'all. Lol

    • @phoenixrising1242
      @phoenixrising1242 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      😂😂😂😂 cards & bones

  • @talexander2302
    @talexander2302 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Such a nice lady, I'm glad she broke up with him we are to old to deal with this type behavior ...

  • @ec-kj4yp
    @ec-kj4yp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Wow. I'm glad that she handled him the way she did on that night. He was SO out of line. I hope that he actually is as sorry as he seems to be now, and that he gets help.

  • @bonniemcdermid7387
    @bonniemcdermid7387 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    This case is bothering me. The fact that he threatened to pull a gun on her and smashed in her door seem to all be forgiven by the Judge and the plaintiff. Women die every day at the hands of intimate partners and these are warning signs. She should not stay friends with him; even to say hi and bye. She should steer clear of him and never talk to him again.

    • @xXLilSmurthXx
      @xXLilSmurthXx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      What do you want the judge to do? The police saw the kicked in door, text message regarding getting a gun, etc... She chose to not get a restraining order, to not have him arrested, etc... The judge told her she should have done both.

  • @Carlos-ll7bz
    @Carlos-ll7bz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    She should have put him in jail so the next woman he dates at least has a heads up

  • @scoot8792
    @scoot8792 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    If you can't handle liquor, DON'T DRINK!

  • @SxCense
    @SxCense 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Geesh…. She dodged a bullet, punched intended.

    • @themadmillionaire
      @themadmillionaire 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Heck yeah, run and don’t look back 👩🏿‍⚖️

    • @TheVsaunders09
      @TheVsaunders09 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      *Pun, but we got where you was going 😂

  • @bonitathompson1640
    @bonitathompson1640 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    He’s crazy. Restraining order wouldn’t stop a bullet. I would’ve had him arrested and me my child would’ve been gone! She prolly would’ve won more. Because she stayed and continued to correspond with him - that’s cray cray too.

  • @BeStillNow
    @BeStillNow 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    How does it make her argument weaker? He literally kicked in her door & threatened her life multiple times…

    • @techoperatives2232
      @techoperatives2232 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Feminist logic

    • @Tiddywhisperer
      @Tiddywhisperer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They’re still talking holding conversations. If she was really scarred for her life she would’ve cut him off moved and then sued him. She was still meeting with him after it happened because she returned the tickets. Judge saw she was an opportunist that tried to maximize on the idea of her getting to move as she said the police notified her it may be an opportunity to get out the lease. That’s what made it weaker.

    • @ayannaskye7921
      @ayannaskye7921 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      But she still entertained him. Huh she has to have accountability in this. She wasn’t that scared to send him to jail or at least a retraining order.

    • @susiesolangesimpson2828
      @susiesolangesimpson2828 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      But did she get a restraining order? No. If I’m fearful I’m buying a gun and pressing charges. She’s still friends with him. Obviously she’s not that scared.

    • @peacefreedom4930
      @peacefreedom4930 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      If she stopped speaking to him, filed the restraining order, moved, and then sued him her case would have been stronger. I don’t think it was a good idea to entertain him after he threatened to come back with a gun. That was crazy. She’s talking about needing him to pay. Uh, you’re risking your life for $1,000? That’s crazy

  • @a.miller8316
    @a.miller8316 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    If she truly was afraid, she should've filed a restraining order. You don't get to have it both ways

  • @markbirchette8740
    @markbirchette8740 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Grown folks can't drink responsibly and get along...SMH

  • @jessij6641
    @jessij6641 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    He too old to be acting like that

  • @triciat8401
    @triciat8401 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    John is a good man Judge you sure picked a good one!!!!!❤❤❤

  • @marshabrown9263
    @marshabrown9263 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That story about him losing his ring was so sweet ❤❤❤

  • @chelseablack
    @chelseablack 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    He looks intoxicated in court!

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He do

    • @sheliapea1387
      @sheliapea1387 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Not necessarily. He's had a stroke.

    • @chelseablack
      @chelseablack 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sheliapea1387yeah it wasn't giving stroke side effects. I think we saw how chaotic he can be when drunk first hand

    • @cindymann3673
      @cindymann3673 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His voice is giving ‘alcoholic’.

  • @sweetcandykane1
    @sweetcandykane1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    A person of his age should not be behaving like this, he needs some help for his anger issues because he'll meet the right one sooner or later.

  • @ilan2endi
    @ilan2endi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    He was insecure period

    • @shay1161
      @shay1161 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No mental unstable period

  • @IrishEyes1024
    @IrishEyes1024 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    He didn't have a headache the next morning because his body is accustomed to heavy drinking.

  • @shirleysarradet9486
    @shirleysarradet9486 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Wrong ruling!!! His fault altogether!!

    • @nanjones3973
      @nanjones3973 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Nah… the ruling is accurate. In a court you have to prove your case and she failed to do so for the moving expenses.

  • @lolamaude3449
    @lolamaude3449 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The defendant is like a ticking time bomb.... he really needs mental health care. He is really nasty!

  • @mntzmiles081
    @mntzmiles081 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Spades is a card game that can get messy, trash talking is apart of the game. But you can tell that her is a drunkard

  • @universelove6163
    @universelove6163 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    He should have paid for her moving expenses!!

    • @cynthiawallace7108
      @cynthiawallace7108 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's exactly what I'm saying, she probably would've had to pay more if she broke the lease sooner...

    • @universelove6163
      @universelove6163 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cynthiawallace7108 exactly 🙌🏾

    • @jonicagordon2392
      @jonicagordon2392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      14:58

  • @bigway23505ify
    @bigway23505ify 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    All this for his hurt feelings... some folks need to grow up!

  • @papalegbasson2447
    @papalegbasson2447 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Yeah, he's cray cray. Good ridden

  • @Mongo76
    @Mongo76 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    He didn't need to be driving anyway.

    • @Jimsalos
      @Jimsalos 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly what I was thinking

  • @nicholebrown3694
    @nicholebrown3694 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I don’t understand ‘being too scared’ to press charges while also clearly not being scared enough to never let this man around you again

  • @lifewithdeedee3392
    @lifewithdeedee3392 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    She needs to get stronger, she didn't press charges, didn't get the restraining order her excuse is she never been through this before smh

  • @donna9127
    @donna9127 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    People don't grow up smh as I get older it gets worse

  • @dorthymcbride3384
    @dorthymcbride3384 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dude, you were going to DRIVE DRUNK....GUILTY!!

  • @rcanty1837
    @rcanty1837 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Awwwww! I love what the Judges hubby did with the ring. So sweet ❤❤

  • @istayinpa8222
    @istayinpa8222 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "We gotta a friendship relationship now" is crazy😂😂😂😂😂 I got one too!!

    • @eboneeprice9908
      @eboneeprice9908 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The judge sensed that and that is why she did not receive the moving amount…if she would have followed through with the authorities she would have received everything that she asked for.

  • @zuritribe4844
    @zuritribe4844 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Lmao he looks like an angry block head 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @positiveelegance286
    @positiveelegance286 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I can almost bet that the defendant showed signs of crazy waaay before spades night, and it wasnt the first time he called her out her name. If this was the first time she wouldn't have felt the need to ininvite him to the after party,but she knew from previous dealings that he was going to be a problem.
    Ladies! Once a so called man shows you who he is the first time keep it moving. I cant even see what she saw in him in the first place...uggggh

    • @tmack7563
      @tmack7563 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you no women are horrible at picking men and desperate smh

  • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
    @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I dont even want hi and bye with a man like that. We losing contact!

  • @queennola3039
    @queennola3039 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Intoxicated but trying to drive his vehicle… this is the kind of person that hurt everybody else on the road but themselves.

  • @Grovel007
    @Grovel007 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    This is why I stick to weed

    • @heidicrimmings9615
      @heidicrimmings9615 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @Israelitewoman77
      @Israelitewoman77 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂

    • @HeLivesForever25
      @HeLivesForever25 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I could sit in a room for hours with an angry drunk. I wouldn't be within a million miles of someone who uses weed. Enjoy.

    • @TheeMrsCarter519
      @TheeMrsCarter519 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@HeLivesForever25Lmfaoo that’s backwards.. we are the chill ones….. those drunks be killin people off that liquor

    • @Everykneebows
      @Everykneebows 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why would you lower your iq on purpose

  • @444clockit
    @444clockit 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    His bald head tail woulda been locked up messin wit me. Like he said he can’t blame this entirely on alcohol, that’s how he is as a person

  • @GenerationOldSkool
    @GenerationOldSkool หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wrong ruling. His shenanigans caused her to move

  • @annettewoodward9768
    @annettewoodward9768 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I admire and adore these judges as a couple ❤

  • @JoyBlackman-p5i
    @JoyBlackman-p5i 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Big grown baby boy ! Thank God I always see the red flag beforehand have no time for this!!!!!

  • @chaseabageav6511
    @chaseabageav6511 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Plaintiff should know how SERIOUS some people take Spades

  • @princesscoles6586
    @princesscoles6586 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Stay away from veterans who have not fully dealt with their demons

  • @Mary_Lee2395
    @Mary_Lee2395 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    She didn’t do what the police officer said because she knew she was going to let him back in and continue the relationship with him! One reason why I don’t sympathize for anyone in these kind of relationship. They know how violent and crazy that person is but continue to be with them when they already know he or she is never going to change. It kills me more when they surround and expose their kids to their unhealthy relationship.

    • @johnnyb6151
      @johnnyb6151 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where in the case did you hear they got back together? And didn't you hear the judge say get advice from a lawyer and not the police? I guess not! Smh. That's how lies start. Be careful.

  • @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
    @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Honestly listening to him talk, he comes off like an Alcoholic 😢 I’m glad she made the judgement to dismiss him. Usually us women want to forgive and ignore the red flags 🚩 bless this woman’s heart ❤️

    • @chrisjones8124
      @chrisjones8124 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Alcoholic and got that crack mouth..

    • @dagerldemsuga
      @dagerldemsuga 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He’s probably slurred due to the stroke he mentioned he had 🤷🏾

  • @gthomas4real499
    @gthomas4real499 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    CONVERSATE is not a word! Spread the word 💙

    • @TheZogie
      @TheZogie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Did ya even look it up first?

    • @tamikalittle6910
      @tamikalittle6910 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There's NO WAY a man can threaten me with a gun and I don't contact authorities

    • @rckkeller9437
      @rckkeller9437 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Absolutely is a word…

    • @rckkeller9437
      @rckkeller9437 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He had a stroke cuz he is obese, is unhealthy and drinks!

    • @AtlChica883
      @AtlChica883 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Correct, the word is CONVERSE 🍁🍁🍁

  • @isaiahsanders9356
    @isaiahsanders9356 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I have talked to a man like this I can definitely understand that fear because at that point you never know what that person is cable capable of

  • @anonymouslee8287
    @anonymouslee8287 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Don't know how to play the dozens!!!😂

  • @Pgschool37
    @Pgschool37 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Stop trying to reason with a drunk. After she got him outside of the apartment she should've dealt with him from a distance. It's no way I would've helped him look for keys (i.e.night/day) after his ultra-sensitive mood, kicking my door and cursing me out. Like him, she needs to mature more especially since she's a parent. Also, she was laughing periodically as she reminisced over that foolish night. No wonder the judge took it light on him. What great qualities to look for in a mate. [Insert double dunce award here!]

  • @symonephillips7841
    @symonephillips7841 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    For the life of me, I don’t understand why these women do not file charges

    • @MyNameIsLake.
      @MyNameIsLake. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But they’re “scared”…….. toxic

    • @dagerldemsuga
      @dagerldemsuga 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And a lot of the time, the damn restraining order doesn’t work. The crazy person will still find a way to find you and harm you. It’s a joke!

    • @symonephillips7841
      @symonephillips7841 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dagerldemsuga it’s more of having his anger & whatnot documented and on paper! That way if it ever escalates to the point of her defending herself.. there’s a paper trail

  • @BlancaLaChapis
    @BlancaLaChapis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So he was too drunk to be held accountable for his violent behavior but sober enough to drive!!! Wow

  • @kimberlyadorno280
    @kimberlyadorno280 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She definitely should have gotten the money she paid to break her lease. She should have gotten the restraining order, but his actions were absolutely threatening and terrifying.

  • @celeste8389
    @celeste8389 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm glad she left this man, he is very dangerous. If you can't hold your liquor Sir, don't drink. Grown folks should know better, but apparently not for him...

  • @Shardesangz
    @Shardesangz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Him and that smirk pissed me off!

  • @evalim8182
    @evalim8182 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Truth comes out when you are drunk,true colors

  • @YourExcellency
    @YourExcellency 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    She honestly found him attractive?? 🤢🤢🤢🤢

  • @x0_tipsy_0x
    @x0_tipsy_0x 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It’s always a game of Spades and Uno that brings out the worst in people.

    • @elleincloud
      @elleincloud 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Uno? 😭

  • @noenn9895
    @noenn9895 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love Judge Milian. She just cracks me up with her side talk 😂😂😂 and then the interview at the end is so adorable. 😂😂😂

  • @tonyaharper2468
    @tonyaharper2468 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's safer and less stressful and no drama staying single. Idk what's wrong with these men

  • @b.dailey3180
    @b.dailey3180 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Plantiff money driven & she likely to return to this relationship transactionally.🤣🤣🤣

  • @terrifelton4438
    @terrifelton4438 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Whether she took a RO out or not. Plenty of women are murdered with a RO. A RO is not a gun or security.

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Correct. Femicide is on the rise!!

  • @JuanitaMichelle
    @JuanitaMichelle 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hate that women play with their lives like this. Ladies, when a man is physically or verbally violent toward you, separate yourself! Period. This thing where they’re talking months later and she’s thinking the restraining order may not be necessary, is how you and your children (who are in your care) end up in the hospital and the grave!

  • @leafrazer8440
    @leafrazer8440 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whenever someone makes a threat, TAKE IT SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't ever assume they won't follow through! Even nice people could snap!!! There are a lot of good people who are no longer with us because of violence. He should of went home sober up and talked about it in the morning like the plaintiff said. Even though, the defendant was intoxicated it's still no excuse for his behavior. He lost control of himself with the Plaintiff's daughter in the house. Just be a man and walk away. Since, he didn't walk away and threaten to bring his gun that right there tells me he's very unstable and could snap at anytime. The plaintiff said something very important. She said she's never seen the defendant behave this way that's because his true colors are starting to show through the alcohol.

  • @sunnyflorida1770
    @sunnyflorida1770 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m from Jersey and have heard about ppl getting killed over a spades game 😩

  • @4bygraceursaved
    @4bygraceursaved 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She dodged a bullet and he lost a good woman.

  • @3rdandMainBags
    @3rdandMainBags 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    If you play Spades, u know what they were saying😂..#NoRookiesAllowed

  • @fjones5890
    @fjones5890 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That’s terrifying. Glad her and her daughter are ok 😢

  • @keemajames2551
    @keemajames2551 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This could have easily ended up on Snapped! Her protective instincts are at most sub par.

  • @mariettamb
    @mariettamb 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    And he has audacity to say: another black.... he are a victim play er, never take responsibility, I find her so reasonable and patient with him - another black man who need to learn communicate instead playing victim.

  • @BoogieDown-q5f
    @BoogieDown-q5f 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    *This guy acts like denzel in training day!!!!* 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @CarmBSNRN
    @CarmBSNRN 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    His behavior is the result of an ID episode: A man killing a woman because she did not take his threats seriously.

  • @markbirchette8740
    @markbirchette8740 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I don't believe she was that scared, or she would've gotten the useless restraining order. She was still texting him too, bull.

    • @roselandebazelais8236
      @roselandebazelais8236 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Useless restraining order???😂😂😂😂
      It's useless??

    • @traceyaz125
      @traceyaz125 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I see her point. The restraining order is as you say, useless, so why antagonize him with it? She was worried he would come over with his gun like he promised. I think she made the right choice.

    • @themadmillionaire
      @themadmillionaire 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@traceyaz125absolutely, keep your enemies close

    • @briantoebben3095
      @briantoebben3095 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Restraining orders are more like an official notice that hey your being paid attention to and if you make another dumb move against this person we will officially come get you. They power they have is dependent on the persons respect for the law and individuals wishes. They can not stop a person from being evil or conducting an action so I get the useless part but it would take personal protection from police to make that actually happen.

    • @fjones5890
      @fjones5890 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He threatened to burn her car and shoot her, he dgaf about a restraining order

  • @SassyDiva53
    @SassyDiva53 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love judge and her husband together!

    • @RayYoWTF
      @RayYoWTF 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was coming here to comment this! They are so cute together and make such a beautiful couple. They’re such goals.

  • @guccilady1017
    @guccilady1017 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    “Conversate” 😖

  • @zeldafitzgerald4149
    @zeldafitzgerald4149 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This guy is actually scary. He knows how to manipulate people by pretending to be sweet and innocent. Apologizing for his "mistakes" but someone is gonna get really really hurt or killed by his "mistakes". This is just what abusers do.

  • @starhurd824
    @starhurd824 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Cause seriously, what will a restraining order do??

    • @missa1goins
      @missa1goins 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Right, cause more anger that's what.

  • @michelleclemons7933
    @michelleclemons7933 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That part ..he waited due to him being a Coward and afraid of the men.

  • @amberdouglas1700
    @amberdouglas1700 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Judge Milian always minimizes the abuse of some women.

  • @Aree_TD_
    @Aree_TD_ 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If you don’t have tough skin you can’t play spades and don’t try to learn mid game 😂.

  • @crystalshaw8744
    @crystalshaw8744 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I bet they stil together.

    • @kimr5479
      @kimr5479 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I said the same thing, it wouldn't surprise me if they get back together!😊

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Doubt

  • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
    @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    She only had to move, because of him.. so he should’ve had to pay for her move.

  • @jroc74gd4l
    @jroc74gd4l 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have family that have not talked since 2012 of spades.. that game should be banned.

  • @cynthiawallace7108
    @cynthiawallace7108 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't understand how she didn't get At least somehow money for her having to break her at lease Sometimes Judges don't get it... She probably had to stay because if not, she would have to pay at lease four or five months to break her lease..smh

  • @gunntopgunn
    @gunntopgunn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bless his heart!

  • @LeeJ90
    @LeeJ90 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How she shuffled them papers at the end with that side eye 🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂

  • @SamMaigwa
    @SamMaigwa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He was already unhinged had nothing to do with the alcohol
    When someone showing you who they are BELIEVE THEM 💯 He should of been made to pay moving costs he threatened her life 😢