In case you’re feeling overwhelmed right now

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  • @RonaldLBanks
    @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +43

    ✋ S.A.A.R. = Stop, Assess, Adjust, Resume. If this makes sense and you can relate to anything I mentioned, let me know!

    • @travislee1658
      @travislee1658 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I ALWAYS enjoy your perspective as it relates to your approach to life related isdues/ concerns ...... Your intelligence and resolve is so helpful.
      Thanks sir ...

    • @ThatCleanDadlife
      @ThatCleanDadlife ปีที่แล้ว

      🤚

    • @fortyfourrobo544
      @fortyfourrobo544 ปีที่แล้ว

      Raise my hand couldn’t find imoji

  • @avenj4659
    @avenj4659 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    ‘Navigating your way out of overwhelm is overwhelming…’. I think I needed to hear someone voice this so I know I’m not alone

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re definitely not alone my friend! I’m glad I was able to sharing something that connected with you.

    • @AllThingsConsidered333
      @AllThingsConsidered333 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is where I’m at…

  • @kathyfannon7563
    @kathyfannon7563 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I was in tears at my desk yesterday in total overwhelm with a work situation. After hearing you talk about this, I think this is what I naturally tend to do. Stop, make a list, what can wait, what is priority, carry on.
    I always feel like I leave your videos a better person. Thank you for speaking into our lives. ❤

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You got this Kathy! I’m so glad that this video reached you in a moment like this when you needed it. Seeing that you naturally follow a step by step process like S.A.A.R. whenever you feel overwhelmed is amazing. I use to try and muscle my way through it, thinking if I kept pushing I’ll have a break through…. but often that turned into a break down. Love that you have a process that’s working for you!
      You feeling like you leave my videos a better person is so amazing! Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share my content with you in this way! I’m honored! I’m also rooting for you! Keep growing Kathy!!

    • @avenj4659
      @avenj4659 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I concur - I too feel better for having watched and listened to his videos each and every time

  • @key618
    @key618 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The made perfect sense at the perfect time. Stop. Assess. Adjust. Resume. 💜

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome! I’m glad this resonated with you Key! Keep growing on your journey!

  • @zsuzsablom6256
    @zsuzsablom6256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just the guidance I need today for the overwhelming chaos in my head.
    Thank you!

  • @lilachaiku4045
    @lilachaiku4045 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I get overwhelmed with trying to change something, and then I just stop. I need to work on assessing and adjusting so that I can find the energy to resume. Keep moving forward is the moral of the story.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Change itself can be scary and overwhelming, so I understand how you feel 100%. Assessing and adjusting are definitely helpful though. Try this process and see how it helps you! Keep growing on your journey Lilac!

  • @Rodnyet
    @Rodnyet ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Feel like I get overwhelmed on a daily basis, this vid was great to hear 🙏🏾

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad I had an opportunity to share this with you Rodnye! Hope it helps you navigate out of overwhelm on your journey!

  • @Sarah_and_her_buns
    @Sarah_and_her_buns ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is great advice! I definitely think the "stop" to reevaluate is better than quitting when feeling overwhelmed, but it is important to remember that sometimes quitting can be necessary. Especially if the situation or behavior is toxic it can be necessary to quit (i.e. smoking cigarettes).

  • @11cabadger
    @11cabadger ปีที่แล้ว

    Not sure if this is the video I watched but a couple of days ago I saw one of your "overwhelmed" videos and after thinking about what you said, I had a major A-ha moment. Declutter doesn't mean organize.
    I spend so much time & money sorting through the mess and trying to find ways to make it look good. And it never does. Craziness!
    The stacks of paper & unopened letters are still there, just in decorative boxes. The 5 bottles of shampoo, 6 kinds of soap, and 3 cans of Comet are still in the bathroom, just stowed in different places (under the sink, in the shower caddy, and in the bathroom cabinet I squeezed in beside the toilet).
    I'm going to check out the links you included but I want to thank you now. You have no idea what a difference you have made😊

  • @zennoodle
    @zennoodle ปีที่แล้ว

    I use Start, Stop and Continue but I like the steps from the video better because it gives space to assess the situation and make necessary adjustments. If you ever do a TH-cam live I would definitely like to know. All these videos speak to me on a very clear level and they are so easy to follow. I can even be multitasking and still pay attention. Its wild!

  • @erinorourke1372
    @erinorourke1372 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this. It’s fire!🔥 I am the sort of person that plows through and tries to keep my head held up through it all at the expense of my mental health and lately my very soul. Your tip is spot on. If I step away to assess, my thoughts can clear and I’m able to make better choices, or cool off from the situation. Then I can adjust to my new level of understanding. I’ve been checking in on my values to see what is in alignment too. Last, I’m able to resume, maybe I’ve given it time, something I’ve never done before. Anyway it’s all really helpful to reduce my stress levels and to hold my life vision. Thanks again!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love how you’re applying these steps Erin! Also the fact that you’re checking in on your values is huge also. As I’m sure you know, I’m a big proponent of core values so I definitely agree with you here. That’s an important piece to this as well. Keep it up!! 🙌🏾 I’m rooting for you!

  • @tiyyas3022
    @tiyyas3022 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I do also expect to be overwhelmed. I do keep notes outside of my head and I write things down too and review often. This makes it easier to breathe on busier days. I am trying so hard to not expect anxiety so thanks for these tips

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad this was helpful Tiyya! Writing things down helps a ton so I’m happy to see you’re also doing that. Keep it up!

  • @Music-gw4qf
    @Music-gw4qf ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dropping this in my "Ronald L Banks best of" playlist.
    Keep it up man.
    Thanks a million

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s awesome! Thanks for listening my friend. Glad you found it helpful!

  • @yarennnxo
    @yarennnxo ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg this came at the perfect time, you’re amazing thank you so much! Subscribed!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow awesome! I’m happy this video reached you and you got value from it. Also welcome to the community! I’m glad you decided to subscribe and I’m excited to grow with you on this journey!

  • @nicoledais4129
    @nicoledais4129 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for this Ronald! Your guidance is so on time and so helpful. You are truly a gem! 😊

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so welcome Nicole! I appreciate you being here and I’m glad this was helpful for you! Also thank you for your kind words!

  • @jessejunesworld
    @jessejunesworld ปีที่แล้ว +4

    perfect timing, thanks

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're so welcome! I’m happy this reached you Jesse!

  • @amonralice
    @amonralice ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. ❤

  • @tamismith96
    @tamismith96 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so very much for sharing ways to break it down into 4 steps. It seems to simply it for me, and I feel like I can move forward. I really appreciate your suggestions!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful Tami! Trying to navigate out of overwhelm doesn’t always feel like a simple process but breaking it down into manageable steps really simplifies everything by making manageable! Keep growing on your journey!

  • @cathylynnpietranton
    @cathylynnpietranton ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Ron for these 4 steps. Very helpful. 👍👍❤️

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any time Cathy! I’m glad it was helpful for you!! Keep growing on your journey!

  • @susanbernier9399
    @susanbernier9399 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you ... very timely!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome! Glad it was helpful Susan!!

  • @jacquelineparker8063
    @jacquelineparker8063 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just started following you. Thank you so much. I’m trying my best to empty my storage unit, I’m listening to you videos, sometimes over and over again. Very inspiring❤

  • @TravelingDan20
    @TravelingDan20 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks brother🙌🏻

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any time! Glad you enjoyed this my friend!

  • @sandipeterson3242
    @sandipeterson3242 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯makes sense and was very insightful! Thank you Ron for your amazing words of wisdom😊

  • @shirleyburnham2782
    @shirleyburnham2782 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Makes perfect sense xx

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome! I’m glad you enjoyed this Shirley! Keep growing and learning on your journey!

  • @_Jabri
    @_Jabri 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a really nice video

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad you enjoyed it! Thank you!

  • @ambikawolf664
    @ambikawolf664 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was helpful. Thank you. .

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful my friend!!

  • @shellsvillage
    @shellsvillage ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Ronald 👋🏼
    Good Morning ☀️

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Good morning Shells! Thanks for tuning in and watching!! Hope you enjoyed it!

  • @natashyas4149
    @natashyas4149 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for breaking this down!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re so welcome Natashya! I’m glad you enjoyed this! Hope it helps you on your journey!

  • @blkmsm
    @blkmsm ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just moved too a new city and I don't know any one here and feeling some kind of way

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I get how you feel. Making adjustments is going to be a game changer for you though. Look at some things you can do differently to help you meet people. Join free Facebook groups in your area, check out locate events, strike up genuine conversations with people you cross paths with, etc. Just a couple things to consider! You got this though!

  • @polly2900
    @polly2900 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @aundriamorgan4210
    @aundriamorgan4210 ปีที่แล้ว

    My relationship with my family. I feel stuck. I want my own space again, but it’s going to come at a price tag of paying for two places to live. One being for my Mom. How can I navigate this? I honestly can’t live like this anymore.

  • @m0012
    @m0012 ปีที่แล้ว

    ✋✋💯

  • @gracedarlenemcpherson9079
    @gracedarlenemcpherson9079 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Raise 🤚

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Love it! Keep growing and learning on your journey my friend!

  • @emmanuelladumon5316
    @emmanuelladumon5316 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👋🏾

  • @thenightingale580
    @thenightingale580 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ✋ 👐 ✋

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing! I’m happy this resonated with you!! 🙌🏾

  • @iamlyrics9118
    @iamlyrics9118 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💯💪🏼👑

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate you my friend! Keep growing and learning on your journey!! 🙌🏾💯

    • @iamlyrics9118
      @iamlyrics9118 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RonaldLBanks No the appreciation is me of you. It's like saying "Ouch" to your videos when I watch. It's a conviction in a good way of knowing that I should do and be better. 💯

  • @GoldenKey757
    @GoldenKey757 ปีที่แล้ว

    what kind of camera do you use?? it looks great.

  • @gethinjones6328
    @gethinjones6328 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have my thesis due on Friday, job applications, maintaining friendships and a relationship, fitness and nutrition. Yeah i might feel overwhelmed right about now 😂. Much needed video, thankyou

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Best of luck with your thesis Gethin! I remember working on my thesis years ago and stressing all the up until the due date. You got this though! I’m confident you’ll be able to manage it all. Hopefully this process I shared makes it easier for you!

    • @jennyjenkins877
      @jennyjenkins877 ปีที่แล้ว

      You had me at thesis. 😬

  • @livetobe2079
    @livetobe2079 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes I am

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like this video reached you at the perfect time. I hope this simple process helps you! Keep growing on your journey!

    • @livetobe2079
      @livetobe2079 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RonaldLBanks definitely needed this thank you love your videos

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@livetobe2079 you’re so welcome!

  • @MmM20978
    @MmM20978 ปีที่แล้ว

    People help me get out of a funk.

  • @ZZeplinnen
    @ZZeplinnen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🖐

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m happy this resonated with you my friend!

  • @TGYtco
    @TGYtco ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How did you know I am feeling overwhelmed???🤣🤣

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Lucky guess I suppose! Haha! Thanks for watching and I hope this was helpful for you!

  • @zorororonoa3626
    @zorororonoa3626 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m happy this resonated with you my friend!

  • @denisekirshenbaum7798
    @denisekirshenbaum7798 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @denisekirshenbaum7798
      @denisekirshenbaum7798 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. I feel overwhelmed every day. This makes sense and I will try it right away.