Oversharing on Social Media, and Old-School Parenting Techniques
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ม.ค. 2019
- The ladies of “The Real” chat about not wanting to overshare with the public, but also wanting the tea after other couples break up. They also discuss the unconventional parenting methods in their families - but as Adrienne says, “Jeannie Mai is not a doctor,” so don’t try these techniques at home!
When it comes to social media, are you more likely to keep your personal life to yourself, or share with everyone?
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People always want your business but won’t share THEIRS! That’s why I don’t post personal info unless it’s harmless.
Yep I literally almost NEVER share anything personal on social media anymore. I used to overshare and now look back and cringe so hard like wtf was I thinking posting that?? I have so many people muted or unfollowed on fb cuz I can't stand the annoying people that post all day everyday their personal business.
You would have to be perfect to be an expert stupid.... and nobody is perfect.... each child is different...when you got one child figured out ...the other one is completely different... Lord cannot take the over righteous attitude at times..... OH and Public announcement
....Tamara HAS TWO KIDS.😑
Right
This is true.I try to tell my kids to stop talking so much about to people about everything.I have even learned to tell what I want to tell and keep what I don’t want to tell.Honestly,I don’t care who Loni is with for real.
I am like that, you can tell me your business, but I won't tell you mine.
If you don’t want people in your business, DONT PUT YOUR BUSINESS OUT THERE
Jasmine Monet I agree but if it was put out there people shouldn't be held to continuing with explanations and updates IF THEY DONT WANT TO. There's no established law to continue with updates because you posted that you were at SeaWorld, red lobster wherever and then boom ..no relationship more relationship posts.
simple as that!!!
Amen, amen, amen
Exactly
Amen....aint nobodys business but their own
Loni be the first one telling them to spread their business though
Yah Girl STFU
DAMN These some harsh responses. LOL
Facts lol
but if they don't want to its their choice no one forces them
I do not think that that is what she said. In my opinion she meant that if you do not want someone to know if your relationship has ended you should not have said anything about the relationship in the first place.
I hate how rude Loni was with Jeannie acting like she can't enunciate. So disrespectful. I'm proud of Jeannie for staying cool and professional.
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Brianna Walker nah Lonnie was definitely pretending she couldn’t speak and she acts “ghetto” on purpose and over does the “Asian accent” on purpose -_-
Love my Tiger Balm great for fibro too
You can get Tiger Balm at Walmart for like $5
Thanks for sharing this!
Please add where exert in the vedio the issue is at so that we can forward to check it out
They better listen to jeannie. The asians are hella smart and you see she looking bomb af at 40
Excuse me she's 40????? You are lying!!! She looks 25 or so wow
@@Shantellywashington not lying!!
@ crazy 😭
Lmao!!
Shes 40 ?? I thought she was 16!!
Jeannie is right about the tiger balm. Don’t sleep on her!
Are you breaking the skin with the coin? Bec sounds to me that the bacteria from the coin can get into the body.
Yes, and for children, you don't use coin but small red onion instead. Do it before bed, you will get hot and sweaty when you're asleep and you'll feel better in the morning.
Alternative Spicer you rub the onion until it breaks the skin?? I’m totally new to this concept but love remedies so want to try it
@@Mamamia90210 it wont be breaking the skin like if you use a coin but children's skin is not as thick, so the logic is even with using the onion (use the pointy end) it will have the same effect. and please don't use the same force like when you do it on adults. you'll know you are done when it leaves pinkish mark on their skins.
She’s right. This is like an ancient remedy for many Asian cultures, even for me because I’m Vietnamese. It may hurt at first but it will make the tiger balm oil seep through the skin and heal you.
Also, they need to let Jeannie talk...
Añuli Okoye-Oyibo yup
My girl Jeannie is so professional when handling simple girls like Loni.
I’m with Loni. If you’re clouding up my feed every day with your relationship status and your arguments together then I need an answer as to what happened! 😂
Adam Hall 😂😂😂. Yes I need chapter 4 of your bs 🤔. Getting good.
Same
I need a friend like Jeannie Mai haha
Makito Anderson same here she’s so cool
What Jeannie said about tiger balm and the coin does work. Im asian myself and my parents do it on us too
Smells like Vicks just brown
Does it hurt or nah?
Random Random it actually doesn’t hurt at all. U may feel a little bit uncomfortable at first, but when you get use to it, it’s kinda satisfying. I swear to God
Anh Tran Ohhh that’s cool though!
joel prince you can get it at drugstores like Walmart, target, shoppers drug mart, etc. Or even off of Amazon.
That was kinda rude at the end when they kept cutting Jeannie off. It’s her tradition. No one cut Tamera off when she was talking about things her mom did. Or Adrienne and her Vick’s. Just because you don’t agree with something, doesn’t mean you have to be rude and cut them off.
They cut her off, because they don't want people actually trying that method at home. What if an audience member or someone watching the show tries it on their kid, then something bad happens to that kid. Who do you think is going to be blamed? They're trying to protect Jeannie from getting in trouble, that's why they had to cut her off and say it's just her method and to not try it at home. Plus Jeannie didn't want to stop, yes it may actually work, but you don't know if it's going to work for everyone and as a non-doctor, she could get into a lawsuit if someone does do it and say she told them to.
I thought it was rude as well but I also understand why they did it. If she had kept it general and not gone into a lot of detail, I think it would have been OK. But the detail puts her up for lawsuits (in the minds of people who are trying to get a quick buck). She should just mention the remedy and not gone into detail on how it is applied. If people want to know, they can always go look it up or reach out to an Asian remedy professional.
Well if the argument is that people may do it at home and sue her, then we should talk about why people would do that. Everything that’s on tv isn’t for me. I’m not going to follow the first thing i hear from tv personalities. So people shouldn’t have to mute theirselves or their believes because people can’t might do something in the world. It’s not a liability. If you don’t understand something and you don’t believe in it, then don’t do it. It’s pretty simple. I can’t sue Tide for their commercial because I used it and my skin broke out. So you shouldn’t be able to sue a tv personality for their beliefs
I’m Vietnamese and let me just say it’s not dangerous haha it works tho but yea idk how it feels to a child so I think it’s best people don’t go crazy
Kazimo they shouldve had more confidence in jeanie since shes the only one that make sense half of the time AND its not a matter of may cause it WILL work 100%.its like taking Tylenol to ease your fever,common sense. plus if theres any risk to it she wouldnt have bring it up on nasiontal tv
Jeaanie always keeps it 100 that’s why she’s everyone’s fave
ONLY COUPLES who have built a BRAND around the relationship SHOULD tell us why the broke up. That’s it.
Yes
Agreed.
Loni gets so defensive when anyone out of her race play jokes about her or her people but she's quick to make fun of Jeanie and her language/ race. 🙄
michael kolio very true
michael kolio she says everything is done ‘out of love’ and they’re all ‘jokes.’ 🙄 Do we believe her? Nope.
She's quick to make fun of any other race besides her own. Not just Jeannies race.. loni is the biggest hypocrite of all time
Ooo, but my ass got strangled on a donut and milk. Bc I was totally not expecting what Loni said. I bout fell out my chair.🤣🤣😭
I just discovered these videos an hour ago and already noticed that! 😬😬😬
Jeannie is the only one that keeps it real most of the times...those other 3 often say things for the audience claps
jawdey kim Jeannie is the realest!
Kim River Adrienne always keeps looking at the audience after she says something for validation. Girl bye!!!!!
@@PureAloha78 Its cuz people dont really fully understand what she said sometimes and its palpable. She feels like she has to wait for a reaction so sh knows she was understood
pookie pie ahhhh ok. That makes sense. Sorry if my comment seemed curt.
Depends on the day
Lmao Jeannie wasn't lying. Growing up, my Chinese neighbor did this a couple of times when I was sick and it really worked. Now I be scratching my man's back like that and it still works.
If you’re breastfeeding and your baby gets baby acne, just put your breastmilk on the affected areas. My mom is a lactation consultant hehe so I know allll the tips 💁🏼♀️ it’s liquid gold and it works wonders😉
Amazing!😳
OMG I will definitely try it now because my newborn is having bad baby acne, thank you 🙏 for this information
@@rachelyaoudam8952 did it Work?
@@samalyou4191 yesss it did gurllll, thanks again
Correct because of the amount of lactic acid that breast milk contains.
I’m Vietnamese. I’ve always loved Tiger Balm. Now I’m 30 years old and married, I still use it even on my Colombian husband and it is EFFECTIVE!
Jeannie Mai, you make this show. You are sooo flippin' hilarious and sharp, too!!! They need to increase your salary, honey!!!
@Kimmie's World FYI, I never said Jeannie should get paid more over the others, but their salary shouldn't be based on their history either. It should be based on the here and now and what they bring to THIS show.
@Kimmie's World Huh??? Your reply makes no sense at all and I'm not here for the going back and forth with you.
Right. Adrienne & tamera get paid more just bc of their history . It’s wrong
@Simply Kimberly nobody knows Jeannie but 90% of people comment on how much they love her...she's doing great for someone who doesn't have a "history"
Every relationship I’ve had has been private to the point where nobody even knew I was dating someone. So there’s no need to share why the break up happened.
Shay Tha real same people are so noisy.
Shay Tha real True
Agreed, look at all of these TH-cam couples who constantly post and over share their relationship online. There's couples that literally share every moment of their life together.
Facts
Jeannie is right about that btw. It's used often in my family. I ask my mother to do it for me (because you'll need help) when I'm that badly sick. You have to create a tree structure on your back. It helped me when I had pneumonia, the flu, when my asthma acted up, etc. -Soka
If u were a TH-camr and u got subscribers off being a couple and y’all broke up we need an explanation when u put your relationship out I’m public and break up we need explanation
Period
Destini Barfield That’s what I said!
Agreeee
I agree with Devon. It's nobody's business. People seem to forget that youtubers and celebrities are real people. You are not their friends, you are their fans. There is a difference. If you are a friend, it's ok to ask what happened. If you don't know that person personally, it's none of your business. It's their choice whether or not they want to tell their story. Stop feeling so damn entitled, respect their privacy, and just wish them well.
Yes....
Lol non-Asians will always be skeptical of foreign methods 😂😂😂 Don’t worry... as an Asian American, I give a skeptical look to odd American methods 😂😂😂
HDKoMusic as a south Asian, I agree with this
HDKoMusic I'm a non-asian and I'm more open to foreign methods than traditional,Western, medical methods.
Asian methods work
I used tiger vbalm as a child its a big thing in the carribbean too
Happy birthday Jeannie
It’s interesting watching this now that Jeannie is divorced and Loni is with the James man. They’ve been pretty true to what they said.
StingingwithqueenC Loni is actually doing the opposite now with James.
NYCzora I think her big thing was not having them on the show. She hasn’t but since she seems to be in love, maybe that will change.
million dollar I think she meant short period dating. She did mention every 3 months. James has been pretty consistent and there so he’s not a 3 month one
million dollar It’s different when you’re serious about a person.
Hahaha.. I love your name
Loni purposely butchering Jeannie's language wasn't funny at all it was just unnecessary and disrespectful.
It just sounded interesting and fun to say. I usually get excited with foreign words so then I would probably enjoy saying it. No disrespect to anyone here.
scanslypink but would you purposefully mispronounce it?!? I mean, i’m American and to me, it’s a pretty simply word to say “GOW-yaw” very easy. I don’t understand why everyone can’t say it 🤷🏽♀️
@@sammierose1150 I wouldn't and if I did it's not that I'm making fun... I really wouldn't take offence if anyone did. I'm Kenyan with an English accent. So having lived in America for 5 years and have this happen all the time amongst my friends mispronouncing words and my friends mispronouncing swahili words... It was always fun and games. Lighten up.
@@scanslypink girl STOP!!! If someone was mocking black people...OMG, Loni would lose it!
@@mariyaa111 you do realize we're on the same side and I'm actually standing up for Loni? Or what exactly I'm I stopping? I stop defending Loni?
13:30 jeannie is right. that tiger balm scratching thing I saw that on survivor cook islands.
JD Krasinki yes! My mom used to do that on us all of the time.
Jup!
Damn Tamera looking like a whole snack. Loving the outfit, hair, earrings, makeup, etc 😍
Sometimes Loni is so rude...It kinda makes my heart beat faster. .haha. I love Jeanie and Adrienne♥
I feel like in this vid Jeannie is really struggling to give her opinion.. :/ I feel they cut her across a lot more than I remember. Maybe it was just in this episode. Idk.
8:51 Adrienne has entered her therapy session with both dr Jeannie and dr Tamara 😂♥️
Tiger balm and Vapor rub are still popping in my family. Also other things 😂
Maybe I’m imagining but anyone feeling some odd tensions here and there in this girl chat?
You mean tamera and her moods or angry face and comments
Yeah they being irritating
Deuteronomy 6: 6-7 " These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."
yesssss we love another christian
Amen to that
William Jean ew
Vega Crux their wives was animals
Amen 🙏
What Jeannie Said is TRUE! My best friend is Chinese it WORKS!! Ya’ll please hold judgements of different cultures.. I ask this humbly.
Was just saying recently those ol’ folk remedies Really WORK!
Thank You Mrs. Gladys💙 *ya’ll do not know her..
The same ones putting all their business on social media for the world to see are the main ones who are constantly posting “people need to stay out of my business” or “you don’t know what goes on in my life or behind closed door” two days after posting the 5th update about their S/O in 3 hours🙄 I couldn’t stand it one time and actually said, uh, yea girl, we do know bc you already told us everything🤣
And what did she respond with?
Ghislane, at first she said that she wasn’t talking about that(what she had posted, in detail🤦🏻♀️) but when everyone started saying, yea, do that all the time she deleted it🤷🏻♀️
@@myassisdragon1558 hahahahah poor thang
Ghislane, I really wasn’t meaning for it to come off mean but when everyone started commenting I messaged her. I was like look, I’m sorry, I wasn’t trying to be ugly but maybe not put everything out there and then blast people for asking..she was like ok, I’m not gonna say anything private anymore! She made it three days. I’ve come to understand that she’s just the type that needs the attention, good or bad. She’s a nice girl but just needs to be the center of attention🙈I had to take a break from her posts, LOL
@@myassisdragon1558 no I know what you mean. Sometimes its good to tell someone the truth and it was actually really sweet of you to message her privately. And well yeah you have that type of people and you should juat focus on her as a person and ignore her calls for attention haha. And she may not learn from it the first time, but hopefully maybe later
My dad put some GAO YAO on me when I was young - no coin rubbing - but it worked! I felt so much better instantly!
Jeannie is not making things up. In Indonesia we call that method "kerokan". Works all the time!
Tamera comes off like her way is best.
BLANSTAR21 When Adrienne said no one is an expert, I agreed. But Tamera was like “Uh............... welllllllllllll...........” 😂
100 % agree
TRUE.
So annoying and she gets clearly offended when they disagree, like girl, gtfo. Plus, always HAS to bring children into their girl chats, lmao.
Exactly its so annoying. The faces she makes when someone has a different opinion than her is so immature.
I love the hosts of the real! Their opinions are always only real and honest😘 they are an inspiration to many people in the world and I am one of those people
I really like how these ladies be at it on these topics but are still hilariouss and respectful and true to their characters looooooool !!!! I lovee itttttt
Nosy Adrienne 😂😂
If you breastfeed your baby use some breast milk for baby acne, gunky eyes etc. Breast milk is amazing! 🤗
"Don't look at me crazy like that, we give you guys Panda Express, we can do stuff around here OKAY." LMAO Jeannie 😂😂 I died 😩😂😂 I lockey wanna try that remedy these colds be having me writing a will cause I'm convinced I'm dying 😂 Honestly though Jeannie I just love how rooted you are & the way you talk about your culture it's absolutely BEAUTIFUL!
Been binge watching your videos for the past week .. somehow stumbled on this thread that has a longer version like 10 min+ 😄 thank you 💖💕🇹🇿
Some more longer clips please! I throughly enjoyed this and lasted long enough to have my cup of tea with ☕️
If u decided to put ur life on social media when breaking up we as ur social media in law need some explanation 😳😳
“Social media in law” lmao omg
That coin thing really works. Cambodian people use it too.
Jeannie is right! It’s called “coining” and many asians including myself experience this natural therapeutic treatment since we were kids! It hurts but relieves the illness... great for relief of migraines if you coin your neck.
Loni was so incredibly rude as well as the other girls. You could see Jeannie was getting frustrated. It’s her CULTURE. Y’all love to preach respect for differences until it’s different than you.
So hypocritical.
I come from a multiracial family. What Jeanie said actually works.
These women don't respect Jeannie. Smh.
And she alluded to it
Can’t wait for them to come back next week. I’ve missed them. I also can’t believe Jeannie is 40! 40! She looks good asf!
I love the real daytime you'll always spill the tea
My question is why do girls always want guys to show them off on social media? Why not just take pictures and keep them personal. No one needs to know your business. Keep it all personal. To many nosy people out there. Just keep your personal life to your self it’s safer and better
Agreed, some couples share every moment together.
Mario De La Rosa I agree! I wouldn’t want social media to be what validates my relationship. He can post you and still be cheating. 🤷🏽♀️
Yes!!!!!!!! As long as you know how solid y’all are no need to prove it to the world that y’all happy asl! People that are always tryna prove how happy they are usually aren’t behind closed doors
Jeanie is everything
I love it when it’s just the 4 of you at the table idk why but it’s great
Lol! I cannot stop watching you guys! Once I get started it just goes on and on and on all night long! And I hate it because they'll be part 1 and then they'll be part 2 I just want to watch it like all the way through where can I do that? But you girls and this girl chat crack me up!
I love inappropriate Jeannie 🤣🤣🤣 she always made me laugh and now I love her wisdom! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is why I don't believe in putting pics and details of my relationship on social media unless it's just my relationship status.
I am glad there are longer clips now. I don't have to be clicking on 4 minute videos every day, :)
Isn't it so interesting how much of a hold social media has on us and how it boosts up our insecurities? Sheeeesh!
My hubz has never put me on social media. I don't either. We are happily married. We keep ppl outta our business. PERIOD!
I remember my sister and mom were pissed because I don't share my photos but my cousins would share my photos. 😂😂😂😂
Ppl seriously do too much.
Dang...I’ve been miserably sick this past week and just now getting over it...I was desperate for anything and I’m just now seeing this
I agree with loni 100%. I don’t post my personal relationship on social media because people always want to be in your business
Love Tam's outfit and Loni's outfit and makeup!
Social media should be completely irrelevant when it comes to relationships. What we have, we know that we have. This is why open communication, honesty, and trust are vital to a REAL relationship. This is for actual mature ppl, not for people who play senseless games.
When people put everything on social media they become a target..... private lives are NOT private anymore. 🤷🏾♀️
Because people in this day and age lost touch and forgot what the word private means. The definition of Private: Keep that sh*t to yourself!
I know exactly what jeanie is talking about! Ive had that done my entire life and it works!
who else loved this whole 14 minnnn vid instead of the 5 mins one im so fulfilled right now
I agree Jeannie!
the moment you start a story about your life must end the end, never a book has a beginning and has not end so do not put your life on social media...
Adriennes my favorite and I feel like shes so underrated
Lmao Jeannie “I made him a t-shirt with my face on it”😂😂😂
Adrienne was not supposed to post anything about her ex and her for five years? What? Some people are in prison not in relationship. Glad she found her love and was able to walk away from the engagement.
Durelle Mouatcho yeah five years seems extensive but he wasn’t really a public figure so maybe that’s why?
When did they break up? I'm so confused?
elleemariex lawrence idk how much of the story you are missing but she was Engaged to a man named Lenny before idk when they broke up exactly a few years ago but now she is married to israel houghton.
@@sharon21924 oh my god I thought this was a newer one saying she called the engagement off from Israel haha thanks for clearing that up! Ha x
She kept her engagement a secret for months and then they broke up and then months later she announced it on the show
OPINIONS ON EACH TOPIC
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Oversharing On Social Media : first of all I wanna appreciate Jeannie's relates and rawness regarding this topic because if you think about it... regarding her previous relationship , she was always honest ( I will admit sometimes too honest ) and I love that because one she knew the responsibility of keeping it real especially on this show also comes with sometimes talking about your personal life and when it comes to relationships/ marriage , she would give the answer / point of view that wasn't so sugarcoated or trying to make it look nice and pain a pretty picture... what you see is what you get and even with h divorce , she kept it classy but still even then she was still willing to give Freddie the upmost respect and love through that time so I appreciate her for being REAL all the way around !
Old School Parenting : In this day and age I feel like when it comes to come up with remedies u should find many other options to care for YOUR child in the best way possible ! You want to take precautions and sometimes even google or even try to talk to a doctor before doing certain things that involve your child's well being
Finally, a video more than 4 minutes!
I loved the Instagram post in the beginning! HILARIOUS!!!!!
14 minute video? Feels like Christmas again.
Loni's reaction to rubbing liquor on gums 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’m not Asian and I’ve tried what Jeannie said (idk how to write it) and it really does work!!
Am from Africa, I just watched one episode and couldn't resist the rest and I was like we need this, we really do 😥😃😆
Good grief Loni... your humor is highkey offensive to southeast asians forreal
Ariel Kimble exactly, it was annoying.
Maybe she should leave the jokes to the comedians.
Loni does insensitive jokes like this a lot, they just aren't funny, very annoying actually so she should stop.
smh. y’all are so sensitive.
Yesp, we shouldn't laugh. But sure got strangled on a donut and coffee, when Lon did that. So umm, it may be better to laugh then ask forgibness, than choke (like I did).💯. 😅🤣😭
Why do some people feel some type of way when their significant other doesn’t post them on social media. Me personally, a post doesn’t mean you love me more, doesn’t mean you’re not cheating. If we love eachother, the bond is there, chemistry and all then I could care less about a post.
Yes to the long segments being posted!
I agree with Lonnie. I'm private about my love life too... I dont have the energy to be taking down all photos of "us" when its over
What Jeannie said it’s true I have a lot of Cambodian friends and when I’m sick they do it to me they call it coining
My mama use to use that tiger oil and she’s Cuban! It worked for us growing up.
Tamara’s outfit😍😍omg! I’m in love with that blouse😩♥️
And I definitely wanted to finish hearing what Jeannie was saying! I love old remedies! 😔
Loni keeps talking about Facebook?? What about Instagram boo? Lol James is all up on your gram girl! Hahah
Malory Burkhalter bc they’re serious Malory
We also do what vietanamese do when we're having a cold. However for kids, we use shallots instead of coins.
Love Tamara's outfit 💖💖
Jeannie Mai and Loni Love are hilarious so funny x thanks ladies love this episode x
First! Yay, I’ve been waiting for Some Girl Chat!!!! First Like. First view. 😋🤩💜👍
What happened to the WOO WOO WOO!!!??? Hahahaa She couldn’t have
Said it better 😂😂😂
Jeannie Mai is the star of this show for sure !!!!
Scraping the back with tiger balm is a really amazing true thing! I do it to my boyfriend a few times a week
Tam has such an exotic beauty. She looks like an Egyptian princess.
EDIT: I know everyone... more than 80 replies just because I said that Tam looks like an Egyptian princess. Racism is alive and well UNFORTUNATELY.
Egyptians arent black!!
@@kataseef9688 There are many egyptians that are black lmao. Ancient egyptians were even black.
@@yusraabdi9881 No!! thats an afrocentric lie! only black americans sy egyptians are black! bcause they want ot claim ancient egyptian history!! Egyptians arenot "black" theyre of the whitest middle eastern ppl..north africans(morroccans) are. Also, having a dark complexion doesnt make you "black". There are pale asians..but therye arent considered "white"
Im sick and tired of black americans always trying to cling to north africans(egyptians/nubians,etc but not wanting to embrace theri true west african blood!!! Tamera mowry has ghaninian west african blood! mixed with european! I would never mistake her for Egyptian or any north african country
@Aji N Saudi arabia/turkey/russia is in "Asia" but they dont look Japanese!!! what continent ur from means nothing about ur race/ethnicity!!!