That's a interesting perspective but I feel like that's bad because your shielding a part of yourself because your scared of them not excepting you . And I'm usually the type of person that picks up on those type of stuff . Like if I feel your holding back I'm going to call you out on it
I hate when my bf be around his frends he be so fckn xtra and I be like stop being fake but ion think he being fake he jus don’t act like that around me
I love these type of videos especially hearing Josh's answers to these questions. There is a definite ring of truth to them. I have watched other "Asking a guy questions girls are too afraid to ask" YT videos and the answers from the men 1) did not seem well thought out and 2) didn't have a ring of truth to them. So I appreciate you Josh. You have answered many questions I've always wanted answers to. Thank you!
Can you make an unbiased in depth video about the steps you need to take on effectively communicating your worth to a man you touched base on how a women should show she can't be brought how can a woman communicate through words and actions that she expects kindness love etc I watch some dating channels and they always seem to vaguely speak about this topic they say things like love your self feminine energy blah blah blah I get that those are important parts as well but some of us women haven't gotten the proper representation on how to do this effectively so we unknowingly send the wrong message and honestly I would prefer to be walked through the steps of dating so that I simultaneously learn through my actions to love myself I hope that made sense but anyways sorry I went on a little rant but love u guys
Set boundaries and stick to them men unfortunately have to be told things so literally let him know what you like and what you don't like.... When they do something you don't like let it be known and you can choose to show a little punishment of some sort so he can clearly see you are serious it's all about what you as a woman will and won't put up with .... That simple
Don't let anyone keep pushing your boundaries/keep stepping on you. Know yourself (your values, direction, worth, etc) and know your boundaries. Communicate your boundaries calmly and clearly, and don't be afraid to walk away if you are not being honored and valued. Excuse it once or twice (depending on the person and the situation.. once if it's big), walk away the third time or else you will not be taken serious. A guy (or person in general) will not respect you if you do not respect yourself, so respect yourself (not for him or for anyone, but for you!) Everytime you DON'T stick to your word, your words lose their worth/meaning. Don't play dumb for a guy. If someone is trying to play you for stupid by making you second guess youreself over very obvious stuff, and you let it slide, they will lose respect for you and see you as gullible/easy to manipulate. Make it clear that you do not tolerate games/manipulation. Do/say everything with a sureness and calm. Ask the guy to be honest, sincere and genuine with you, and ask him to have enough integrity in his heart to leave you alone if he can't be those things. EDIT: And by excuse it, I mean excuse it after letting him know about it (in a sure, level headed way) and by letting him know that you are excusing it this time only. Try to have an open and honest conversation about it. Let him know you want to understand why he did/said what he did/say. Ask him about what he thinks about it/what made him do it. Clearly and calmly let him know how it made you feel. Observe his response to this conversation, is he being genuinely receptive, is he annoyed and avoiding this conversation, does his body language and his response(s) show that he cares or do they show that he doesnt? Keep note of these things and if it happens again, respect yourself enough to say thanks, but no thank you. (Again, depending on the person and severity of situation)
8:29 One individual has many different social roles, you can be someone's daughter, someone's wife, someone's mother, someone's friend but you can't act the same way in all of these roles, example with a friend you could share dirty jokes, but you can't do that with your parents or kid. Those behaviours are authentic parts of your personality, but each role has different boundaries.😊 Btw love your videos😁😊
can y’all do a video about how you guys grew to get to how you wanted to be treated in the relationship? like how it took josh awhile to open up / treat you how you wanted to be treated. how did y’all make that happen. please 🙏🏽
I heard some guys are scared to approach also if you’re with a group of friends (something about not tryna get played/rejected in front of your friends 🤷🏾♀️ idk a guy friend told me this)
idk man i've def met/spoke with guys who cant even state their interests and what got them into certain things, but the second I stop speaking to them or call them out on their dryness I get a earful about how much they want to make things work and how they want to be with me. 🙄
Lol I didn't realise guys loved the chase so much 😂 I just see certain people as a friend and then end up looking like I have caught feelings lolllll it's hard to explain.
Dry texting is the worst. I have texted someone trying to initiate and flow the conversation in effort to get to know them, but it's hard with bland answers. But Josh explanation makes the most since.
Notifications!! Quality queens n kings isi josh jewels or real love legos connecting us with the real!! U guys give us royal respect value us and connects us with the real! I miss my old channel i been a fan for years!!! Truuuth facts!! Make them longer get merchandise get a netflix series or BET+ this black love needs to be shared! Lol loooove uuu guys thank God for your union and showing the raw truth.
To eliminate the toilet seat up issue. Have a house rule to close the lid when you leave the bathroom. So no matter what, who uses the bathroom has to lift it up to what they need. Just the lid or the whole seat. 😘
Love love love you guys! Josh you savage but honest! We as women have to understand that when we want men to be open and real with us, we can’t be sensitive. Men will be more communicative if we are more receiving of there perspectives ( I’m not saying that have to except their views, just find a balance 🤷🏻♀️🙂 shout out 🗣 to Anabel Fuentes from Florida 😃
“Whatchu mean?”
**the excuse is loading**
💀💀💀
Ok ketchup and mustard 😍😭‼️
😂😂😂
literally my first thought
amber lawrence ,that was my first thought and was about to comment it but you bet me to it 😂
I was thinkin that too!
i literally just said that seconds before i seen your comment lmaoo
Josh just out here exposing men and I'm here for it. 😂
Edit: what he be drinking in that cup though?😂😂💀
Probably water😂
Water I’m guessing 😂😂
Most def that qualitttttyy H²O
I’m reporting this comment 😂😂
But fr 😂 Need some of what he’s drinking
"You teach men how to treat you." PERIOD. Literally the best sentence ever created.
Josh needs his own talk show at this point 😂 we’re invested!
McDonald's: *Does red and yellow*
Josh and Isi: *Do it better*
@Yahlandah IM LOVIN IT😁
Josh: why don’t girls lift the seat up? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Teyonna T he took me out with that one 🤣🤣🤣
We have the same name and initials!
Taj Tucker heyyy!!
Teyonna T I almost thought i commented on a different account.
Josh basically made guys sound crazier than us women 🤣 I love these videos you guys❤❤❤❤❤❤
As a female I usually dry text because I feel like I'm too weird so I hold back a lot of myself. It ends up seeming as though I'm not interested.
Damn I felt that in my SOUL
That's a interesting perspective but I feel like that's bad because your shielding a part of yourself because your scared of them not excepting you . And I'm usually the type of person that picks up on those type of stuff . Like if I feel your holding back I'm going to call you out on it
Yassss...we need a pt.2, a women's version, andddd the macdaddy video😂😂😂
Lol yes
Roshawnah Forde we just need ALLLLL videos lol
Nah seriously what is in Josh's cup 😂😂😂 we all need some
Lmaooo 👀
It's tea
Dont act unusual, dont act brand new.
-Josh 2020
I want this to be a shirt🤣
@@mihlaliralarala3340Same😂😂😂
lookin like ketchup & mustard 😂 love yall 💗💗💗
I don't like speed round. Take your time with these questions. We need answers! #WhyDoGirls..
"Y'all ain't sleep" I'm donnnneeeeeee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Josh : Oh we hear you..
Me & Isi : 🤨
That segment about being one way with you girl vs. your boys was so enlightening
I hate when my bf be around his frends he be so fckn xtra and I be like stop being fake but ion think he being fake he jus don’t act like that around me
Issa you cheated us. Lol Josh was going to explain why men cheat!
Right lol i wanted to confirm my suspicions
Isi sounded like my friends African mom 💀💀 “Ohhhhh Yeah?” 😭😂
I love these type of videos especially hearing Josh's answers to these questions. There is a definite ring of truth to them. I have watched other "Asking a guy questions girls are too afraid to ask" YT videos and the answers from the men 1) did not seem well thought out and 2) didn't have a ring of truth to them. So I appreciate you Josh. You have answered many questions I've always wanted answers to. Thank you!
yesh yesh that's true
Can you make an unbiased in depth video about the steps you need to take on effectively communicating your worth to a man you touched base on how a women should show she can't be brought how can a woman communicate through words and actions that she expects kindness love etc I watch some dating channels and they always seem to vaguely speak about this topic they say things like love your self feminine energy blah blah blah I get that those are important parts as well but some of us women haven't gotten the proper representation on how to do this effectively so we unknowingly send the wrong message and honestly I would prefer to be walked through the steps of dating so that I simultaneously learn through my actions to love myself I hope that made sense but anyways sorry I went on a little rant but love u guys
Set boundaries and stick to them men unfortunately have to be told things so literally let him know what you like and what you don't like.... When they do something you don't like let it be known and you can choose to show a little punishment of some sort so he can clearly see you are serious it's all about what you as a woman will and won't put up with .... That simple
Don't let anyone keep pushing your boundaries/keep stepping on you. Know yourself (your values, direction, worth, etc) and know your boundaries. Communicate your boundaries calmly and clearly, and don't be afraid to walk away if you are not being honored and valued. Excuse it once or twice (depending on the person and the situation.. once if it's big), walk away the third time or else you will not be taken serious. A guy (or person in general) will not respect you if you do not respect yourself, so respect yourself (not for him or for anyone, but for you!) Everytime you DON'T stick to your word, your words lose their worth/meaning. Don't play dumb for a guy. If someone is trying to play you for stupid by making you second guess youreself over very obvious stuff, and you let it slide, they will lose respect for you and see you as gullible/easy to manipulate. Make it clear that you do not tolerate games/manipulation. Do/say everything with a sureness and calm. Ask the guy to be honest, sincere and genuine with you, and ask him to have enough integrity in his heart to leave you alone if he can't be those things.
EDIT: And by excuse it, I mean excuse it after letting him know about it (in a sure, level headed way) and by letting him know that you are excusing it this time only. Try to have an open and honest conversation about it. Let him know you want to understand why he did/said what he did/say. Ask him about what he thinks about it/what made him do it. Clearly and calmly let him know how it made you feel. Observe his response to this conversation, is he being genuinely receptive, is he annoyed and avoiding this conversation, does his body language and his response(s) show that he cares or do they show that he doesnt? Keep note of these things and if it happens again, respect yourself enough to say thanks, but no thank you. (Again, depending on the person and severity of situation)
8:29 One individual has many different social roles, you can be someone's daughter, someone's wife, someone's mother, someone's friend but you can't act the same way in all of these roles, example with a friend you could share dirty jokes, but you can't do that with your parents or kid. Those behaviours are authentic parts of your personality, but each role has different boundaries.😊 Btw love your videos😁😊
Absolutely no one:...
Josh: “YOU TEACH MEN HOW TO TREAT YOU!”
Isi: “you’re maaaad.”
Y’all and these sit down videos can never stop I live for these 😩❤️❤️❤️
I need to give my future boyfriend some of what Josh is drinking
right
On my soul!
“ don’t act unusual” 🤣 this whole video had me dead
can y’all do a video about how you guys grew to get to how you wanted to be treated in the relationship? like how it took josh awhile to open up / treat you how you wanted to be treated. how did y’all make that happen. please 🙏🏽
She said “ I heard you but what are you saying “ 😭😭😭 mee
Right!? I need you to elaborate! 😂
Nobody:
Josh & Isi:
Me:What up y'all? JOSH & ISI here looking like a QUALITY ketchup & mustard !😂❤💛
Oh Lord he said The Mack Daddy lol
Josh and his damn MacDaddy 😂😂😂 . Love y’all ❤️
😂😂
Yall are so cute, isi gets all shy sometimes when Josh talks 🤣🤣🤣
Keep doing your thang guys, love this video 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Isi rocking red rose and josh yellow sunflower! Beautiful couple love y'all
“we are bee beeps by nature”😭😭💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂💀😂😂
I heard some guys are scared to approach also if you’re with a group of friends (something about not tryna get played/rejected in front of your friends 🤷🏾♀️ idk a guy friend told me this)
THANKS for the warning! We already knew what was up! Hahah. We did miss y’all, but y’all looked great in ATL!!🤍🥰
This man said “DON’T ACT UNUSUAL” 😂😂😂 that’s my new phrase ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The fact that you have compassion and you choose not to use it at that moment in itself, shows lack of compassion
Josh: I can come to my guys like "yo breath stank rn"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
the whole time i’m just thinking about how they are dressed like ketchup and mustard 😂.
idk man i've def met/spoke with guys who cant even state their interests and what got them into certain things, but the second I stop speaking to them or call them out on their dryness I get a earful about how much they want to make things work and how they want to be with me. 🙄
We need that macdaddy video🤣🤣
When Isi said “Josh we about to cut this camera”....The face he gives! Get it Isi!
@6:15 Lmao “that’s that spice, that’s that spice in ya life” 🤣🤣
When he said “banter” I knew you guys watched love island 😂😂
Woah He is straightforward n most men not like that isi he issa keeper sis❤
Lol I didn't realise guys loved the chase so much 😂
I just see certain people as a friend and then end up looking like I have caught feelings lolllll it's hard to explain.
Josh has a cup of wisdom damn I think that's your calling you should advise women/men on life issues coz you great @ it!
Another banger from one of my favourite couples AND individuals 🤣👌🏽 quality content
Notifications squad😆 I been l o v i n g these recent girl vs guy talks 💯
Dry texting is the worst. I have texted someone trying to initiate and flow the conversation in effort to get to know them, but it's hard with bland answers. But Josh explanation makes the most since.
“For one yall ain sleep”🤣🤣🤣
Ketchup & Mustard lmfao peep the hoodies. Literally perfect for each other
LMAO THE TRASH CAN NOISE
Frigg men get on my damn nerves 😂😂😂
4:31 lloooll when josh said ‘banter’ I was like, ‘so they’re using our lingo now huh’ but then isi mentioned love island so I get it now😂🤣😩
the gals asking why men act different around friends vs them GOTTA be lying if they say they don’t act different around they’re friends too
Josh is such an aquarius I can't
Notifications!! Quality queens n kings isi josh jewels or real love legos connecting us with the real!! U guys give us royal respect value us and connects us with the real! I miss my old channel i been a fan for years!!! Truuuth facts!! Make them longer get merchandise get a netflix series or BET+ this black love needs to be shared! Lol loooove uuu guys thank God for your union and showing the raw truth.
Josh is right (and I don't say that lightly lolol), you gyped us on the "why do men cheat" question smh lol
Josh just selling out men. Lmao.
Y’all just made me so happy knowing y’all watch love island (UK) 😂❤️
YO JOSH is one SMART ass man for real tho... yall know its the truth
I’m dead 😭 12:03 josh face lmaoo 🤣🤣😂💀
i replayed that part a couple of times too lmaooo
Yaaaas I’m here for a part two & the women version 🙌🏾
Delicate flower 🌸 yes 👏🏽 that’s what I’m teaching my nephew
This video was great make a part 2 for guys and girls y'all keep it 100% real! Yes us guys will forget lol (you are right Josh)!
Part 2, yeah!!!
And the women's version too!!!
5:28 I'm not even a dude and that happens to me all the time 😂
Reverand Josh kicking them facts. Preach pastor!!!
"oh we hear you"🌚😑
Amanda Augustine LMFAO😂😂😂
Gotta love it, I get kinda annoyed but I make whatever happens happening!!🤷🏽♂️
love the subliminal matching with the hat!
i’m glad y’all put the trigger warning cause chileeee lol
This just changed my whole morning. Thanks, you two! ♥
Everytime y'all say beep beep it makes me crack up laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sooo I’m officially hooked to u guys! 🥰
The only youtube channels typically I Binge watch is: Steve Harvey and Naptural85 & now you.
I think it depends on how you was taught cuz I have two brothers and they never left the toilet seat up
Yeah my dad or my little brother never leave the toilet seat up.
This was definitely one of the funniest ones! 😂😂😂 Josh is too much 😂😂
I'm naturally quite friendly and then it's awks because it looks like I might be trying too hard or something but I just like making friends.
Loving this pineapple and strawberry colors on y’all ❤️
That's a different take! Everyone else is saying mustard and ketchup. 😂
A'Mya Springer 😂😂😂 for some reason fruit came to mi mind first. Now I’m like k&m sounds better 🤦🏽♀️
@@lalaslife1679 I like pineapple and strawberry though! It's unique!
A'Mya Springer thank you 😊😊😊
@@lalaslife1679 You're welcome! ❤️
Even after all the triggers, she’s still the ketchup to his mustard
”yall ain't sleep.” 😂😂😂😂
To eliminate the toilet seat up issue. Have a house rule to close the lid when you leave the bathroom. So no matter what, who uses the bathroom has to lift it up to what they need.
Just the lid or the whole seat. 😘
Y’all giving me ketchup and mustard vibes lol I love it, and I love y’all together ❤️🔥
I love you guysssss😆😆 yall are so inspiring you dont understand. Keep doing yalls thing. Love from nyc
I've been waiting yayyyyy!
The outro gets me yooo😁...
As usual y'all put out quality videos 😍❤
So we gon pretend like they weren’t matching the pappadeaux hat???? I see y’all, y’all ain’t slick🤣🤣❤️💛
Seeing the hat, that was my first thought. It wasn't ketchup and mustard.
"Y'all ain't sleep" I'm crying
Shout out to when Josh made a reference to Love Island, us Brits cant get enough haha
Love love love you guys! Josh you savage but honest! We as women have to understand that when we want men to be open and real with us, we can’t be sensitive. Men will be more communicative if we are more receiving of there perspectives ( I’m not saying that have to except their views, just find a balance 🤷🏻♀️🙂 shout out 🗣 to Anabel Fuentes from Florida 😃
Awee y’all out here looking like ketchup and mustard 🥺🥰
Really wish he would’ve went in depth on my cheating question but I still loved this ❤️
omg! did Josh really do a song reference to my fave drake song "make me proud" lol i loove
Yes I sent a lot of questions on IG when she posted it
Yea Josh we appreciate all these very truthful answers definitely do a part two 🔥🔥 and a why do women ... too for Isi to answer question 😁
Banter lol I love Love Island! Y'all so funny if I ever need a good laugh I can count on you both❣
I watched a video of y'all from when you were still in college. Y'all have grown together, it's beautiful and l wish you well. ❤️
Love from 🇿🇼
Part 2 Yes Ma’am/Yessir!! 👀❤️😆