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  • In all honesty, all I've ever done is share my perspective on certain topics pertaining to self-development and creating an ideal life. I'm fully aware that it's highly possible, my thoughts and advice may be odd, but I've lived odd experiences in which I've had to find suitable solutions. My content may not be for everyone, but it's certainly for someone. And the possibility of just one person benefting from my solutions, is enough for me to share them. If, however, you don't resonate with something I've said, that's perfectly fine. Everyone sees life through different eyes, and what may seem logical for one, is illogical for another.
    I've already accepted the fact that no one's perception is inherently bad or false, if it feels true for you, then it is (true for you) and if it's false for another, then that's what it is for them. We should all still feel confident enough to voice our ideas aloud if we want to, because it actually might help someone hearing from you specifically. You may have a way of wording something that just clicks for someone else, or an anology to share, or a personal experience that someone else can relate to and learn from.
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  • @jbone877
    @jbone877 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    The most common stated regret among the dying is wasting time on bad relationships

    • @masterpain7742
      @masterpain7742 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry can't relate these b1tches have like five boyfriends and a black guy on the side .look how pretty she is Yu really think she's alone bruh? Stop simping

    • @mimimarusch
      @mimimarusch ปีที่แล้ว +10

      dear, I appreciate deeply the reasons that brought you to find these conclusions. And I am not judging you either. But its a difficult thing talking about other peoples desires and reasons for their desires and giving advice to their specific situations. my desire is to save my family and heal the relationships in this family and marriage. I have the double amount of years compared to you. I have no time left to start a new family. To just replace my partner by someone new. I notice that this advice of replacing a loved one is mostly given by people either very young, who have not yet experienced a long term relationship, or people happily partnered. I know there lies wisdom in youth, and foolishness in age sometimes. But I love a saying from native americans: don't talk about other peoples circumstances,unless you have walked in their moccasins. So please, don't pretend to know,why others love someone.

    • @rosabarkss
      @rosabarkss ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And wasting time caring about what others thought/their judgements instead of doing what they wanted to do 😔

    • @JTScott1988
      @JTScott1988 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow.
      That’s wild.

  • @b.3358
    @b.3358 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    As someone who spent 4 years manifesting a person, I agree with you. And this person was toxic and abusive with me. And I gaslighted myself and thought I could change that. Things only got worse and worse and I was more disrespected each day. Until I just gave up because I don’t deserve that. All the love I gave and I was insulted constantly. What a waste of time. Now, I’m not wasting my time with anyone anymore but still have work to do do value myself more and don’t put myself in a situation like that again.

    • @maleekaismyguardianangel
      @maleekaismyguardianangel  ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Exactly sweetie. There are times when fighting for that same person becomes a toxic habit. It takes inner strength and discernment to know when to walk away, and instead choose what you truly deserve, which is so much better🩷 I'm proud of you💗

    • @b.3358
      @b.3358 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@maleekaismyguardianangel 💗 thanks for the heart and reply.

    • @intuitivetasha113
      @intuitivetasha113 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      So many people waste time on manifetsing a sp ...when all they had to do was change their self concept! The sp will magically change with them. Its impossible to change a sp without changing urslef FIRST. No one to change but SELF

    • @b.3358
      @b.3358 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@intuitivetasha113 I tried to change my sc but sometimes I don’t know how. Do you have tips? Not for attracting him anymore, I just want my life to be better in general. Everything is falling apart.

    • @seabreeze4559
      @seabreeze4559 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      we project our anima/animus (Jungian) into a person and this is a crush
      I think the more serious intense form is limerence.

  • @leroystea8069
    @leroystea8069 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    Interesting topic.
    Last year my wife passed away.
    Been a journey navigating through all of this. I'm older. We were together 42 years. Married 35 of those years. I have experienced the passing of many in my life experiences. Parents, friends people I cared about. Physically gone and yet understanding their true nature, spirit lives on. For me currently it's about finding my new self. I hope you find your balance. I am happy to be a friend to you if that is desired. Take care and thank you again for sharing ❤

    • @valentinaturner6269
      @valentinaturner6269 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That’s so beautiful I hope you can heal and grow through this

    • @lucidaandromeda
      @lucidaandromeda ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sending so much love 🙌🏽💞🙌🏽💓🙌🏽💗

    • @leroystea8069
      @leroystea8069 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lucidaandromeda thank you so much ❤️

    • @leroystea8069
      @leroystea8069 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@valentinaturner6269 yes I am finding my balance. Thank you so much ❤️

    • @soulcake76
      @soulcake76 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are blessed to have been married for 42 years; I’m 47 in June and yet to find a love, the way you have. And I know I’m on my way to experiencing losing those I love because time passes by and because, it just may be their/my own time to leave. But for what it’s worth, reading your post helped me accept mortality just a bit more. Even if we never meet -“cosmically “, I’m your friend….

  • @celmayster
    @celmayster ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Thank you for your help in my reorientation this morning. In a break up and heart hurts. But I know better. I’m a breast cancer survivor. I held the door of death. I know better. I work to inspire people daily. I needed inspiration today. Thank you. Blessings and love and light. Never stop what you are doing. You are wonderful.

    • @maleekaismyguardianangel
      @maleekaismyguardianangel  ปีที่แล้ว +24

      You are stronger than most of us💗🌸

    • @celmayster
      @celmayster ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maleekaismyguardianangel 😌🙏🏼💜✨💜🙏🏼😌

    • @jokesonyou222
      @jokesonyou222 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so strong ❤️

    • @celmayster
      @celmayster ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jokesonyou222 Thank you. Blessings to you. 🙏🏼We don’t always know how strong we are until we are in it and the choices of how to handle it are in front of you. 💜✨

    • @sabramorman7106
      @sabramorman7106 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @gigitech9500
    @gigitech9500 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I’m in my 30s. The man I was with was perfect on paper. I will not be terrorized. You have to let it go either knowing it will come back or drop. You are powerful. Live yo life

  • @summercrushtj9889
    @summercrushtj9889 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    As an overthinker this video really put things into perspective about my time on earth and how I want to spend it. Thank you for this.. this was so freeing

  • @Kidrobot016
    @Kidrobot016 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This applies to anyone. The older you get you realize your time is valuable. If someone isn't valuing that time, then "I don't have time to care".

  • @ashannaredwolf8485
    @ashannaredwolf8485 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Having just recently gone no-contact with my toxic/abusive family, this had a different meaning for me than letting go of a romantic relationship. But you're right; I don't have time to care about the people who don't see me, no matter who they are. Thank you, Maleeka.

    • @magvs_mæstro216
      @magvs_mæstro216 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bet you they say things like, "you think you're better than us/me!? You are full of your self, Ashanna!"

    • @ashannaredwolf8485
      @ashannaredwolf8485 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@magvs_mæstro216 Yep; selfish, stuck-up, all of that. 🙃

  • @WeAreAllDragons
    @WeAreAllDragons ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I haven't told my IRL friends and family about my TH-cam channel because I don't think any of them would understand LOA. 🤣I walked away from my corporate job years ago and never looked back. It was a process and it took years, but the journey was so worth it. I am loving watching your journey unfold. Rembering our own mortality is indeed liberating. Thank you for sharing your story with us. 💕🐉

    • @syedarija4033
      @syedarija4033 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same girl it’s very different experience and I feel very different from other twin flame experience and seeing angel numbers no one understands me

    • @bluwng
      @bluwng ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just lost by long term corporate job and am finding it difficult to find another job at the same level. I also don’t want that kind of life anymore and the troubling thing is thatI don’t know what else to do. This girl is so young and has her life is in front of her I am north of 40 and the window is closing. I feel I should have left corporate life a long time ago.

  • @naturallybecoming831
    @naturallybecoming831 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yeah I realize I’ve spent way too much time worrying and living in fear. Holding onto ppl who when I think about it aren’t worth my time. It’s not how I want to live my life. I had been reflecting on this lately but I’m finally gettin to the point of being unapologetic about not giving ppl or undesirable situations any of my time or energy.

  • @aluciana
    @aluciana ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I haven't watched all your videos, but out of everything I've seen so far, this is the one I loved the most. It is so raw, honest and vulnerable. Thank you very much for sharing your perspective with us.

    • @maleekaismyguardianangel
      @maleekaismyguardianangel  ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This is one of my favourite videos too. It's a message I've been wanting to share for some time💓 and thank you for receiving it well🌸

  • @bgoicuria1
    @bgoicuria1 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    My big brother transitioned in September 2019. That started a downward spiral in my life leading to the pandemic right after. Then I lost my physical health due to anxiety… Back then I didn’t know it yet… but that was the beginning of my journey towards the greatest comeback of my life. My guardian angels (my big brother included) started talking to me through angel numbers and other signs and synchronicities which have increased tremendously till this day. They’ve led me to Sadghuru, Neville Goddard, Joseph Murphy, and many more people including you! So thank you for all that your doing and I’m happy to see another soul who’s been raising through the fire after going through something so traumatic. Plus you’re the very first person who’s on this journey who I can relate to… with (physically) losing your older sibling. I understand you 100% and appreciate what you share! ❤

    • @maleekaismyguardianangel
      @maleekaismyguardianangel  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Your story and mine are incredibly similar. It was after her passing, when I started feeling guided towards these teachers as well. The angel numbers, the synchronicities, the insights; all of it has increased in my life also. I'm really glad you recognize him as one of your guardian angels. My older sister is mine too💓

    • @esotericdarkangel4971
      @esotericdarkangel4971 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, I relate to both of your stories so much the death of my father most definitely contributed to the place that I am now.. angel numbers and spiritual insight included. I also consider my father as one of my spirit guides, his death profoundly transformed my experience.

    • @southernguru1455
      @southernguru1455 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Easy times make weak men, hard times make the toughest men walkin... salute bro

  • @ddg80sbby
    @ddg80sbby ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This was so good. I just celebrated my 37th birthday a few weeks ago. In January I was literally a day away from dying from anemia that I didn't even know I had. Since then I've been living differently. I haven't done a dramatic overhaul of my life, but I've gotten back into reading, took up painting, and I'm back on my authentic spiritual path. I've been cooking and baking. Just living more even at home and most importantly, HAVING FUN!
    This video put things in perspective for me as far as relationships too. I don't have time for any of that drudgery anymore 🙏

    • @taghazoutmoon5031
      @taghazoutmoon5031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did you find out about anemia?

    • @ddg80sbby
      @ddg80sbby ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @taghazoutmoon5031 I had been becoming more and more ill over the span of a few months. I chalked it up to anxiety and my menstrual cycle. But then in January, the symptoms wouldn't go away and got progressively worse. I was having trouble breathing, becoming very weak, and having heart palpitations. When I started feeling it in my heart real bad I was like "okay, time to stop being stubborn" so I went to the ER.
      So I walk in there, tell them my symptoms, I wait a little bit and they take my samples. Very quickly they call me back to retest my blood because my levels were at a 2.6! By the time they took the second set it was 2.4 😳 (For commenters who don't know: normal blood counts for women are between 11 and 14).
      TLDR: I went to the ER and was rushed back to the ER for a triple blood and iron transfusion because I was essentially a walking corpse.

  • @Mahahemingway
    @Mahahemingway ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Wow the aesthetic of your intro is beautiful. I love the vulnerability of this video and your focus on intentionality and love through grief. I’m actively becoming comfortable with sharing such vulnerability on TH-cam so thanks for this inspiration and just the beauty of your vulnerability. I recently shared somewhat my grief over my previous relationship that I’m still getting over in my last video so thanks for this. Sending love your way and to everyone else watching this💙

  • @serenas5658
    @serenas5658 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Our days are numbered. I recently lost 2 young cousins less than a week apart. With death/ loss, it gives us( the living) an opportunity to reflect on our lives. What and who are really important? And what can I change? This was such a beautiful message.💕

  • @cocoablossom5201
    @cocoablossom5201 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Beautifully said. I'm living with heart failure. Every day is a gift. My mother and Grandmother passed within a month of each other. I took care of them. It's hard coming out of the grief. excruciating atually. I have to tap back in to my happiness and not be taken out by pain. Your video was what I needed to see today. I'm sorry for your loss ❤❤ but thank you for sharing.

    • @oamahana
      @oamahana ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry, they're happy in heaven !❤ I send you so much love, light and good energy !
      Love u sweetie

    • @joymwongeli9579
      @joymwongeli9579 ปีที่แล้ว

      damn, sorry for your loss :(

  • @ManifestGirl7811
    @ManifestGirl7811 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wow, just wow, no idea how your channel doesn’t hv a million subs, your visuals, your voice, your content is so heart melting, attention grabbing and honestly heartfelt. Thank you for your vulnerability, honesty, openness with us strangers who just get a glimpse into your world. The lessons linger long after the video ends, I’m personally grateful. We look like we could be related, but you feel like family. These insights are a treasure🥹♥️🙏🏽

  • @chloenicolaas
    @chloenicolaas ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This helps me so much.
    My older brother passed away last year at the age of 27, what made it much harder was knowing someone else took him away from me and my family. It was so sudden and I had a lot of regrets I had to get through. At his funeral there were so many people though, so many lives he had a affected, proof of how much he lived. As time went on, I wanted to live again specifically for him, and like him with no regrets. Your story and energy is very inspiring, thank you.

  • @Cali_Ashes
    @Cali_Ashes ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I sent this video to my SP… who is also my Bestfriend who introduced me to manifestation annnnd who also became FWB…and who has been in no contact with me for exactly 1 year from tomorrow. But I still wish him well and all the best in Life. I miss his friendship the most. But I did put him and his needs before mine, and would drop anything for him. And he chose his friends over me. This past year I have learned so much being alone and open to learning. THANK YOU so much for sharing your story and wisdom!!! 🥰

  • @ConnieMichelle
    @ConnieMichelle ปีที่แล้ว +10

    this is exactlyyyyyyyyy what i needed girl, i’m watching it again as we speak

  • @brandonjohnson7729
    @brandonjohnson7729 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im going thru sooo much right now just got out of a 10yr relationship and let me tell you this hurts a lot but we both know its for the best. I lost 10 pounds and lack of energy. However im praying more and more and watching your channel which has helped me a little. We have no kids together but dammit I miss her so much that I literally her name everywhere I go. Im seeking therapy but its not working. Please pray for me and my family im really trying to get well but its so hard. Thank you for this video may God bless you.

    • @noreplyzone-ef7uz
      @noreplyzone-ef7uz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending love and healing your way. The heart has a way of mending as time passes. Focus on you. You are the most important person in your life and you have so many new exciting chapters ahead of you❤️

    • @lukeselfimprovement5420
      @lukeselfimprovement5420 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It will get better bro 🙏

  • @lucidaandromeda
    @lucidaandromeda ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video really shook me up in the best of ways. Thank you so much for always being so raw and honest with us, especially when sharing very intimate and sensitive moments. I lost my dad almost 5 years ago, and I never imagined my life without him. I've been thinking about how he wanted to experience so much more in his life, how much he enjoyed all life had to offer, and how we never really know when this human journey is coming to an end. May we all live our life in joy and bliss, because we deserve that and even better. 🙏🏽❤🌼💃🏽✨🧚🏽‍♀️🌷🌟

  • @SystemSovereign
    @SystemSovereign ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You randomly showed up at the top of my feed, I’m glad I watched. You are a very intelligent and insightful young woman. Thank you for sharing, you said many things that I found useful

  • @IAMSAINTVEGAS
    @IAMSAINTVEGAS ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I lay my life on the line for love with no regrets. Therein lies my truth: no regret, no fear, only unconditional love and faith. I love this video as well. Your message will help so many people. Great work, great aesthetics and voice.

  • @thmoney25
    @thmoney25 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video. I started living more and finding out more about myself after my father died. I was really close to him and he was my biggest cheerleader. I had to learn to become my own cheerleader and put my self first in my life. I learned that it is not selfish to put yourself first because the people will gladly go after what they want if they want it bad enough. It even comes to the point that they will throw you away. So I choose to show up for myself everyday. Thank you again for sharing this wonderful message.

  • @HeartOfTheSource
    @HeartOfTheSource ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is beautiful. You have a very balanced way about your energy. And capability towards a gentle imparting of wisdom, full of confidence and invoked knowledge of self. This will get you far soaring amongst the ☀️✨ I've been told similarly through my journey but I'm not very confident or balanced after surviving a lifetime of abuse. Yet remembering how we're all a work in progress helps me to keep faith and fortitude towards personal victory. There's really levels to this, like hidden realms waiting to be discovered. Thank you for sharing this with us 💕🕊️🙏

  • @nerdswithcats7312
    @nerdswithcats7312 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That was very profound coming from such a young person ❤ You are wise far beyond your years ❤ Thank you so much for this message, we all need to hear it. ❤❤

  • @kellybrown2879
    @kellybrown2879 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you....I see that I am not the only one grieving or going through hard things...it makes a HUGE difference!!!!!

  • @elyen1151
    @elyen1151 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We will always manifest the same things over and over by just stepping away
    (people who leaves us, "bad"jobs) Unless we work on ourselves, our self-concept, we can loose the rest of our life no matter how much longer it is going to last
    P.s.If this life is over, there is another life. Also, our true life/nature is outside of the 3d reality/dimension and its limitations:)
    I am sorry about your loss

    • @randybackgammon890
      @randybackgammon890 ปีที่แล้ว

      You better tell her.She said 'when this life is over that's it! No more,lights out.'....If she meant otherwise she should make that clearer.Its a statement with no absolute proof anyway yet she delivered it as hard fact.A lot of people do that✌️

  • @User-uw7uw
    @User-uw7uw ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have no idea how much I needed to hear this message. I’m going through a very painful breakup and I was convinced I was gonna die because the pain was unbearable.

  • @yasminfragomeni8
    @yasminfragomeni8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you again for this amazing video. I'm so glad I was able to answer "Yes" to all of your questions, without a single ounce of doubt. I feel so blessed at all times.

  • @user-jn5cn1dm5d
    @user-jn5cn1dm5d ปีที่แล้ว +13

    i found your videos last night and listening to you is so eye opening and comforting, thank you for all the things you have to share. Have a lovely day to anyone who reads this❤^^

  • @youngretireesclub
    @youngretireesclub ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I completely understand this and know it works for people, but when I was in my late 20s I took that mentality (that I'd die at 33) and it gave me a ton of anxiety and made me put an immense amount of pressure on myself and the things I was trying to accomplish. I felt like I had to rush... now that I'm past 33 I feel much more relaxed and like I can breathe and have time to heal. I think healing takes time and good things take time, so for me focusing on my inevitable death doesn't really serve me. 100% great to prioritize what is important to us / not waste time on things / situations that aren't in alignment with our well-being no matter how much time we have left.

    • @jori3361
      @jori3361 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had a similar experience! When I was in my early 20’s I freaked out like I had all these things to experience & accomplish because I was “young.” I was riddled with anxiety and discontent bc I never felt like I was doing enough. I felt like I was running out of time. Now at 27 I’ve focused on healing, wellness and my loved ones. Life is much more fulfilling 🖤 I’ve taken from the video that I can keep focusing on these things and put less focus/eliminate what doesn’t serve me

  • @ethereal946
    @ethereal946 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "When she died, I started to live"
    I feel this is happening to me, I lost my brother 3 months ago, I've been in the worst possible space but yesterday I made my first individual decision to get my hair in locs, this is a big deal for me consider my parents call the shots on everything and even this might make them angry when they find out but I realize as much as I adore them I yearn for things outside the little box they hoped I'd fit, hopefully they have the grace to let me live a life I love while I can rather than maintain the illusion of who they hoped for.

  • @ahoycaptain5065
    @ahoycaptain5065 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Saudi teen here. Mom left the physical realm when I was like 10. I didn’t feel like it was as big of a deal as everyone else made it up to be. I was 10 years old, and 70 year olds would come up to me and say “you’re mom made literally just died, you need to cry”
    I didn’t
    I feel her here with me, why should I cry when her essence is still here? My father and I are very spiritual, we are the only ones in the family that still feel her here. Miss her, but I will not spend the rest of my life mourning her.
    I’m studying for my college entrance exam right now (1 month till d-day oof) hopefully getting into medicine.
    All I want to do in this life is travel, chill, buy my dad his favourite coffee beans every time he runs out. Idk I just want to chill in this life. Very thankful for my country for allowing me to live this kind of chill life because they provided me with the perfect environment for it ( don’t listen to what the media says about us trust me it’s all bull 💩)
    Wow. I digress. I forgot what I wanted to comment in the first place, oh well, I’ll go with the flow.
    Anyways I’m passing this exam with an 100% I’m sure about that, but i won’t mind some prayers from you all haha.
    Thank God, thank you, and thank me. I love life.

    • @masquerade882
      @masquerade882 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wishing you the best. May you achieve all your dreams. Good spirit! ✨😊

  • @emberk39
    @emberk39 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my morning self care today i was thinking about a friend who passed away two years ago, and I feel like watching this shortly after is her sending a reminder directly to me. Thank you.

  • @theadrenalizedartist6843
    @theadrenalizedartist6843 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I totally agree with the statement, “You did not truly love that person. You love the way they made you feel. “I realize now that I’ve been chasing a feeling, but not necessarily a person. I think that I need to learn not to be tied to the end result because I don’t have time to stress over it. Your video was a gentle reminder. Thank you.

  • @YouTubeAddict
    @YouTubeAddict 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You be droppin' some good game and wisdom, fr. 👑🙏 More people need to hear this - especially those who are wasting their time getting involved in all sorts of senseless drama and violence - before they end up spending what time they have left locked in a cage.

  • @urmum7894
    @urmum7894 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I recently went though the worst heartbreak of my life in February due to so much abuse. Thank you for this new perspective on life you've opened my eyes.

  • @cbsepts
    @cbsepts ปีที่แล้ว

    just found your content recently and i agree with your sentiment here....what we love is HOW people make us feel...and there are other people that can make us feel that exact same way

  • @edman_H
    @edman_H ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🏾 release this woman from any kind of bondage or stagnets that has a hold on her free her 🙏🏾 I stumbled upon this video I am dealing with a lady that pretty much mirrors you to a tee looks spirit situation age. She is allowing me to learn her and I am just supporting her to help her through a journey to me. I wish you the best of luck Thank you for your video 🙏🏾

  • @jori3361
    @jori3361 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chelsea these last two videos you’ve posted have been on another level. You’ve really tapped into something special here!! I’ve been going through so much lately with my dog passing and a skin infection that’s had me out of work, but your content has made me feel like things might end up being okay. Your videos mean so much to many of us 🖤

  • @mrwebbofficial
    @mrwebbofficial ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re right. I don’t have time to keep loving someone who won’t reciprocate. This is the Universe talking to me now.
    Thank you. I’m going to let her go now.

  • @westsi1
    @westsi1 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Desirelessness” is also very beautiful.

  • @MariaClara-ke4db
    @MariaClara-ke4db ปีที่แล้ว

    This video helped so much you don’t even understand 🥲🥲🥲Thank you so much for this mental gem 💎…You are really living in your purpose and it shows 😍

  • @trulystarr4507
    @trulystarr4507 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so so valuable. You are a divine feminine! I am already 53. Please everyone. Listen to this powerful truth. Time goes so fast. Don’t live heartbroken & in trauma for decades as I did until the last several years. Life…flies by as you get older. Trust me! Go live & chose wisely the life you were made for 🤍. It then becomes so beautiful

  • @Lavender3333
    @Lavender3333 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing your story, your loved one is smiling upon you from above. I'm almost 32 and your words deeply resonated with me. Not only releasing past love ideals related to romance but also from friendships. It's such a strange transition losing friends as we age, but on the flip side we begin aytracting people who are more aligned with our values. Your words have given something to think about, I've been missing musical creativity and this was the reminder I needed! Thank you. Many blessings your way 🌻✨🧡

  • @OongaBoongaGrim
    @OongaBoongaGrim ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn 🥺👁️🙏🏼💜🕸️💚♾️☯️🧿 u a special one, never lose yo voice girl... The world needs more people like you and for more of us to understand what you dove into this video cuz dis shit right here iss what eryone struggling wit...I recently juss accepted, acknowledged, and began mastering these practices ma self... Asé 👁️🙏🏼🧿 keep making the world a better place n may whoever She iss rest in peace and guide us all from beyond 👁️🙏🏼🕊️

  • @jainy1707
    @jainy1707 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a truly divinely inspired post......I was ready to receive this message.

    Thank you for helping guide me as I map out my pathway.

  • @devon_dahlia125
    @devon_dahlia125 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your mind, tone and perspective is intoxicating. This was my first video of yours. I already know your content because I feel the same way.

  • @PedroDVC
    @PedroDVC ปีที่แล้ว

    Your filming style is absolutely beautiful. What a vintage vibe. And the content is so good. Love it!

  • @musicenthusiast96
    @musicenthusiast96 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love how soothing and eloquent you are... thank you for this :')

  • @kateblodgett184
    @kateblodgett184 ปีที่แล้ว

    Other people really are not our own divinity unless we have true reciprocity with them. And its so fleeting, some of these moments with others where we feel cherished by them, only to find out in the end that those moments become an addiction. We then get wrapped up in sacrifice of our own lives toward the end of having their constant care and attention., but its imaginary on our end with some of the people who touch our lives, they are a fantasy. We learn it in infancy, some of us. Then there is grief for loved ones who truly loved us and left or passed away. This is one of the most important lessons any of us have to learn - living in alignment with ourselves. Choosing alignment, insisting on it as a daily practice. Deep gratitude for your wisdom and sharing it with us

  • @1officialdiva
    @1officialdiva ปีที่แล้ว

    I listen to this almost everyday to remind me I don’t have time to give a 🤬.
    ❤Thank you.

  • @ITz2NDNATURE
    @ITz2NDNATURE ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Continue Being Great & Grateful Gorgeous ❤! Thank You For Sharing Your Gifts ❤! You’re Needed & Loved Always ❤!

  • @toptierbeauty
    @toptierbeauty ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was deep 💕 Grief definitely got me to the point of what you covered in the video. Literally opened my eyes to LIVING when my grandmother passed away. Consciousness and Choices is what we all have.

  • @Hwaryunes
    @Hwaryunes ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I found your channel recently ( actually 2 months ago, i think) and I absolutely adore your content, it's as if I found the answers I was looking for and some things (hard truths) I needed to hear. Thank you for all your work and advices. Also I love the way you edit your videos, the aesthetic of it? as if it were some found footage I don't know how to explain it, sorry.
    Again thank you so much for your work.

  • @Housecampermarty
    @Housecampermarty ปีที่แล้ว

    Ive got dumped 4 months ago and i still cant get over it. I am griefing like ive never had. Your videos are very helpful and calming. Thank you very much.

  • @cristina14k
    @cristina14k ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't focus and listen to people who speak very slow. HOWEVER, I never knew how calming and relaxing is listening to it, so I have this video in the background. The irony is that somehow, the message gets across. I need a podcast of this ❤

  • @manokdog
    @manokdog ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes Lord preach. I left my Sp and I didn't want to go back to her but I loved how she loved me. I always said I will find another sp be but she will be ex SP 2.0 and I found her same build, better looking, clear skin better body but when It was time to get this girl I realized that I didn't' want a person that reminds me of my ex 24/7 but now I know the quality of the woman I want and when my father. . . which is my own wonderful human imagination thinks it's time for a new woman to show up in my life I'll be ready but for now I am God and I love me only unconditionally.

  • @jeantuite-actress--imdb
    @jeantuite-actress--imdb ปีที่แล้ว

    when one of my older brothers passed from cancer that was tough too but made me even more aware of the fragility of life

  • @oliverfinnegan3395
    @oliverfinnegan3395 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spirit sent you, thank you, needed to hear this ❤

  • @CoHeirMultimedia
    @CoHeirMultimedia 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great topic and sorry for your loss. I like the fact that you are speaking in present tense. I know that I am a work in progress but living in the now is amazing. Thank you for your transparency!!! Never change...just evolve.

  • @MarBella111
    @MarBella111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, I love your message, your voice and the background music is my favorite. You are a beautiful manifestation ❤

  • @hhighnessjamie
    @hhighnessjamie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I fucking loved this video, this topic, the perspective, the raw truth that we ARE expiring... so live Your Life how you choose fitting and do so consciously.

  • @didicotton3900
    @didicotton3900 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This here is a blessing & right on time, -gratitude🙏🏾

  • @bethanyVee2009
    @bethanyVee2009 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG! This literally made me cry. The truth of this hit HARD!!!! Thank youuuu.

  • @andrenicholas2748
    @andrenicholas2748 ปีที่แล้ว

    Something amazing about you. God bless you! Keep that energy flowing

  • @TONESEEKER7
    @TONESEEKER7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. Your insight and wisdom is truly appreciated. Take moments to smile at you, laugh at you, to be ok with.....to love that person in the mirror. That's the one who needs to hear it first, feel it first. Thanks for giving and sharing YOU.🙏

  • @rmartel919
    @rmartel919 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Maleeka. Wonderful video.

  • @ReyBen-ig5jg
    @ReyBen-ig5jg ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Maleeka, I really enjoyed this video. Namaste

  • @phillypainting303
    @phillypainting303 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are an an absolutely beautiful soul. So grateful we crossed paths

  • @chloetsao3801
    @chloetsao3801 ปีที่แล้ว

    i am so so thankful for you and your moving words. thank you

  • @sophieneedsaladder
    @sophieneedsaladder ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found your channel and I'm in love with it, your voice is so soothing 🥰

  • @AnthonyTV414
    @AnthonyTV414 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video and advice. Thevthumbnail on this video is 🔥 ❤

  • @agentsuperargo5023
    @agentsuperargo5023 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been in a relationship with someone for years, only to learn that after the relationship ended that it was actually a relief. No more stress or pressure from that particular person when you've learned to let them go.☯️

  • @JayRocko
    @JayRocko ปีที่แล้ว

    I must truly say this out of all the manifesting TH-cam channels that I’ve been watching to try to manifest a lot of things in my life - This one woke me up ( Rise the God in me )
    And thought - I don’t have time to waist on things that doesn’t make me better or reciprocate the love I give out ❤ 🤲🏾 much love to you Queen( wherever you are ❤❤❤)
    Thank you for this vlog of truth , passion , unconditional love ❤

  • @shamanwavemw3596
    @shamanwavemw3596 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your energy, I can't put my finger on it, but I adore your essence. 😊

  • @alexanderdavison7784
    @alexanderdavison7784 ปีที่แล้ว

    Liked and subbed. Thank you for making this video. I really needed to hear what you said ❤ All the best.

  • @beingawaken10
    @beingawaken10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a gem. I really enjoy your videos. 🙏

  • @sonnychhuon2694
    @sonnychhuon2694 ปีที่แล้ว

    As one human to another, I appreciate you. Well spoken.

  • @solantar6912
    @solantar6912 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very practical info , and your emotional intelligence allows others to meet the calling with in them to evolve into a higher state .Blessing of joy and happiness to you beautiful .

  • @mekomcneil1429
    @mekomcneil1429 ปีที่แล้ว

    I CANT LIE THAT BEAUTIFUL PICTURE DREW ME IN ...GORGEOUS

  • @adambouhamdan8163
    @adambouhamdan8163 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this today. Thank you for such a beautiful video. A great reminder that our time here on this earth is limited. We have to make the best of it. Thank you! Subscribed!

  • @SigmaMindset313
    @SigmaMindset313 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dang I just found you and I love you already lbvs! The 1st video on my home screen & its on point for what I'm going through right now! Appreciate you sweetheart!

  • @CobaltLobo
    @CobaltLobo ปีที่แล้ว

    That quote you stated at the end is beautiful. It reminds of a quote by Hannibal that states:
    “I've always found the idea of death comforting. The thought that my life could end at any moment frees me to fully appreciate the beauty and art and horror of everything this world has to offer.” 💙

  • @channyboyy
    @channyboyy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience and your wisdom. A great reminder to stay in the present moment and be simply be still. It is beautiful to enjoy life even in the still moments

  • @dayashathirsts
    @dayashathirsts ปีที่แล้ว

    So I've been watching your videos for a while. I clicked the video admittedly for the thumbnail. But I stayed for the content. You have a wonderful soul. I am at a point in my life where I feel the same. I've been heartbroken and dumped recently. I'm just getting over it. I want to love someone unconditionally, but my heart doesn't have the strength at the moment. I resonate with a lot you say in your videos. Thanks for that. Take care Chelsea.

  • @JoseRivera-fr6id
    @JoseRivera-fr6id ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank so much for this video, You have such a beautiful Soul GOD bless you.

  • @JayAyers
    @JayAyers ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the cadence of "living at the end". I tried thay mindset yesterday and i felt so at peace.
    Just wanted to reach out to you and thank you for wording this message so well.

  • @guardianoftime2
    @guardianoftime2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the reminder 😭

  • @magvs_mæstro216
    @magvs_mæstro216 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh, you definitely a chosen one. I can tell in the first 3 seconds. And very intelligent. ::thumbs up:: Such a beautiful soul.

  • @Brunko333
    @Brunko333 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are perfectly awesome and complete. Thank you being here.

  • @Baba6782
    @Baba6782 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your videos just keep getting better AND better 💗✨ thank you fir sharing your journey 🤭

  • @imtiazahmadwattanyar3736
    @imtiazahmadwattanyar3736 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stay Blessed , " THE NATURAL BEAUTY " with a clean heart & soul . 💐

  • @lexiaknowles
    @lexiaknowles ปีที่แล้ว

    This video answered a lot of my questions I don’t even know what to suggest for a new one ! It’s golden advice !

  • @PatrickPrejusa
    @PatrickPrejusa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    VERY WISE. your videos are wonderful. great content, edits, music, you are deeply attractive and your voice is lovely.

  • @warrinb
    @warrinb ปีที่แล้ว

    Phenomenal timing 🌹

  • @xoxchunaxox
    @xoxchunaxox ปีที่แล้ว

    This one was the one, you have no idea how deep this one went for me . Thank you ❣️

  • @Tabi1111
    @Tabi1111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I am so glad I found your channel! I believe we are so close in age if not the same, live in a similar area and think in such the same way. I feel so connected to you and makes me so happy to know there I people I resonate around me if if I dont know them personally. ❤