Update : after breaking up with my "friends" who disrespected me constantly. I became actually much better mentally, yes it was very painful at first and there's still some pain but for real i changed and became much better.
I've experienced this recently. I have an sp who I love deeply, but he wasn't committing to me. This made me feel anxious and insecure, so much so that I wasn't able to sleep properly for a bit. I've decided that I wasn't loving myself enough by subjecting myself to this situation at this moment, so I broke things off with him. Don't get me wrong, I still love him and would love to be with him, but I did not regret ONCE leaving him. I feel so liberated. I've been treating myself the way I've always wanted, I've been prioritizing my health, my hobbies, my creativity, and so many other things I love about myself. In this headspace, I've noticed that it is easier to BELIEVE that he is conforming to this version of me because it doesn't come from a place of need. And I just know that if it isn't him, it will be someone who will give me exactly what I've been giving myself. Great video as always!
That’s the hardest part for me in manifesting SP. I’ve been there for them when they needed but I was only an option and never a priority. So I started focusing on myself more and stopped reaching out to them. I’ve decided to let it flow for now instead of making a decision to leave or to stay. I’m kind of getting to a point of not caring about the outcome but not quite completely there yet
@@emiigarzon they haven’t shown up and I’m also staying away from social media. So complete no contact. I feel good most of the days. I still think about them every day but in a more neutral way than before. Keeping myself busy most days with work and hobbies. Sometimes I have mood swings but overall I have this deep belief that everything works out for me eventually
your universe revolves around you, not them. their universe revolves around them, not you. however, it is a beautiful thing when other's come across your universe with their own and you both connect and grow knowing, though, that it may not last forever.🌱💜 (just a thought that crossed my mind)
Yes! This is so good. People receive love differently and it was hard but I realized that the people I LOVED most only can receive love from a distance because they are still seeking love for themselves. No harm done. It’s a beautiful understanding of love and finding ways to love people unconditionally as I do for myself now 💜💜💜
You are a magic being, I can't even explain what you vibe is. Just pure high vibe and confidence. And somehow, you always say the things I need to hear, in a way that speaks to me. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Today, for the first in..Forever? I refused to be someone's after thought. Not with anger or pettiness. Just out of love for myself. I deserve better.
My Spanish (narcissistic old school) mom did the same. I struggled with it for many years. I finally decided to release all the hopes of her becoming or changing into the mom i needed and had wished for all my life. I became my own mom, and began to love myself fiercely, it is so amazing because immediately i felt as though a pound of brick's were lifted off me. I have grown stronger, healthier and much more happier. I love myself so much🎉❤🎉
I actually saw this video come up in my feed before I decided to break up with my boyfriend. When I saw this come up, I was already contemplating it for the reasons listed in the video. I didn’t get to listen to it completely, but now that I have returned to it after committing to the break up, this video has confirmed that I made the right decision, and I am so happy with myself. I’m so proud and the ones that care about me that are within my circles feel the same way. Please have the courage to take your life into your own hands. You will not regret it, but know that it does come with pain. Use that pain to make an even stronger than you already are..♥️
My God I actually needed to hear this... This is perfect timing... I've been feeling the same way about my mom, as she has not supported and loved me the way I desired this whole time. The fact that no one in my house was put into my life for that reason is a hard pill to swallow. I do love my family, truly. On my journey of self love however, I still have hopes that through parenting myself and giving myself the love and validation I deserve, I hope to continue to attract others that will see me as well.
Just camr out of my psychiatrist appointment because I tend to get obsessed over people aren't reciprocate with me. I'm going to start psychotherapy. This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. It was jist perfect, you nailed it completely. I'm in awe. I've never heard anyone say this. This opened my eyes. It's basic LOA as you said. Thank you so so much💗💗💗💗
♥ You're definitely not alone! You can absolutely work to shift this mindset, to move your reactions to become more conscious and learn to give yourself, first, the attention and care that you seek from another. You deserve to have stable relationships. Also, well done for reaching out for help, it's a true strength - wish I had sooner!
Recently discovered your channel, and infinitely grateful for this divine guidance and virtual sisterhood. Thank you for the energy and intention you are putting out. It is recognized and received. 🌸 ✨
I really needed this am currently going through a phase where am learning to be the person I always wanted other people to be and reminding myself it's OK to recognise someone's inability to love me doesn't have to be a reason to villainise them , it's peaceful 😌
Exactly what I needed💗Just ended a long distance relationship not too long ago. It ended beautifully and I knew deep down it was the best thing for me. I am now prioritizing love for myself and showing up for myself in ways that I needed to. This video helped me gain perspective
I stopped trying to get my SP and I cut off a lot of people that were bringing me down. I quit my old job because I deserved better and In turn I met a younger guy that is head over heels for me, cuddles me, helps me, LISTENS TO ME and will go out of his way for me....this came out of nowhere! He's not my SP, not my type at all (looks wise) and he's much younger than me (26 and I'm 34) but I gave it a shot. He's a hard worker and motivated. We been together for like 3mos or so now and it's been pretty great. I still miss my SP but I've got nowhere near as much feeling of lacking anymore. I feel more positive and he helps motivate me to get out of my anxiety as well. ❤❤ He meets most of my love languages so far.
You make the kind of lovingly soothing yet firmly dignified content I think all of us wounded kids out here really need. I don't mean anything at all sideways about it when I say that your entire vibe is that of the healed mother, so many of us wish we were raised by. You're poised, wise beyond your years, and you exude this loving energy that communicates healthy boundaries in both directions - for yourself and the ones in contact with you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and perspective of this life. The world is a better place for it.
This has been both thought provoking and affirming! Thank you so much. I need to let this sink in, and l anticipate some positive changes in my space from what you've shared.
I really believe that you will definitely get the love you deserve , we are always very thankful to you for sharing so many life changing tips for all of us , this kind of love and compassion you show to all of us who are completely strangers to you shows the very high level of strength and patience in you 🙏 always thankful for all your life changing advises 🙏👍
Maleeka, Im going thru the worse emotional rollercoaster of my life and your Videos have helped me so much. Your wisdom and approach to things are extremely helpful. Thanks queen!!🌈💖
I love this soo much! I just wanted to add and share a small thing. When you said that people prioritizing other things over you is you not prioritizing yourself, that got me thinking. While I did have friends that do that, my parents were weirdly the opposite. They are so obsessed with mine and my brother's lives that they try to control every aspect without realizing that we're human and have emotions and all. And it made me realize just now... I control myself🤯 I critize myself when I'm eating bad or staying up too late and instead of asking how I feel, I just say I should of done it differently or do this now blabla. That just baffled me completely. To think people don't prioritize our feelings only because we don't. No more controlling from now on! Life is all about feeling ALL the feels! ❤️
I can relate to the relationship you had with your mother ---i do my best love my two daughters in the way that I needed but didn't receive it... I try to be as conscious as I possibly can in loving them and encouraging them. we have such a good relationship :-) I know if you decide to have children one day you will be a wonderful mother. . I hope love and life and the universe fills your cup, full of love each and every day.. you deserve people who show up for you and support you and love you.❤
This video is very beautiful. You truly produce magic with the way you speak. Lately, I’ve been feeling dismissed by the universe. I have been putting effort and love into others and have not been receiving the love my soul desires. I haven’t been showing up for myself like I need to. I’m learning how to love myself. I thought by providing love to others, they would love me back. When in reality it’s more about loving ourselves and accepting the love of others that resonate with us. We cannot force other people’s energy in this universe. Thank you for such a lovely video 😊❤
I love how calming your voice is! I always jot down notes whenever I see your videos. After a breakup from a looonng relationship, I needed so much of this. Loving yourself first it is! I was drained before as I didn't prioritize myself first so when that SP left me there was a void in myself. Right now I'm filling it with love from myself. I'm rebuilding myself thanks to you too!
wow. i was meant to watch this video. i have been going through so much pain with my mother recently. and just last week i told myself i had to be my own mom, though i didn’t know how to do it in a way that would last. i would do it, then not do it, forget, then remember again, then struggle to make it last. this morning i was thinking about how my mom may actually love me but was never taught how to express that love in the way i have been desiring. i have been trying to undo the negative wiring in my brain of my perception of her that has built up because of resentment. i’m amazed at how in sync this video is with my current struggle
I believe the love I genuinely give myself. It is just taking a little time. I hope not too much. I know my guardian angels have my back as the always do. I am transitioning. I am loving myself more and more meanwhile. We all deserve true authentic Love and Respect. thanks so much I subscribed
This video came at the perfect time and was beautifully made! Thank you angel! We need to start loving ourselves how we need to be loved and not outsource it to others! 💞✨
I cried, honestly, I put up with a lot of people for the sake of "unconditional love", but it didn't hit me until now that I should've given it to myself! I didn't have a wonderful childhood growing up, and I remember vividly scribbling the words "I hate myself" onto a piece of paper when I was 8. I was abused and had no place to run to, which made me feel like life wasn't worth living. The men I was attracted to gave me crumbs when I was attracted to them, once I moved on and decided to put me first, they all came back with declarations of undying love. I thought it was weird until I knew about the Law. I grew up with N parents, I understand they are the way they are due to their upbringing, but to have my needs disregarded constantly does hurt my spirit. I felt like this video is what I've been needing, God bless you ✨
This video is so personal, thank you so much for sharing. Your voice is so healing ❤ subscribed! Would you please consider doing a video on acceptance? Thank you so much
Wow. Honestly, this video feels like some sort of spiritual awakening. Love yourself - We hear this a lot nowadays but THIS video really got me. Thank you so much!
This is such an amazing video. I love the setup. I love the aesthetics. I love the pink vhs vintage footage looking aura coming off the screen. I love her voice and how crispy the audio sounds. I love how slow she’s talking and how easy it is to digest her message. I love how she gives advice while also sharing how she applied the same advice to her own personal life to help relate to the listener and to show her humility by connecting her story with the advice she’s giving. I love most of all what she’s saying. We aren’t taught about emotions and how to manage them effectively. This is such a great message and I wish this were taught to many people much earlier on maybe in 5th or 6th grade. I’m grateful that it’s being taught now and I just wanna send you so much love sis because you are so Golden for going through this and then taking the time to share the solution and your journey with us. You are brave af and you are greatly appreciated. I love thinkers and I love boldness. I truly appreciate how you express yourself and I’m gonna absorb this energy and learn how to immolate the things I’ve learned in this video into my own life. I Love You & I hope anybody reads this has a blessed day. Happy Holidays 💕🌹🎨✨
Exactly what I needed to hear… your voice is so soothing and calming and it’s just completely opposite of listening to all of these dating advice videos, and the things that I need to be doing for a man and frankly, it’s just exhausting to hear anymore about dating advice but this type of advice is so much better because it’s about self preservation of myself as an individual so that I could continue to thrive in this world for myself and my son as a single mom.
Called out! I have to admit that I am seeing now that I workaholic tendencies have not been serving me when it comes to building relationships with others. It's time to schedule a hiatus. Thank you for holding up the mirror.💖
I really like you (this is the first video I've watched)... very soothing, calm, feminine, and hot lol. I love when a woman is fully dressed and looks so beautiful without exposing skin. It's one of my goals I haven't really pilled off yet besides a few outfits.. Anyway, love your style. Thank you for being here. I will now go binge listen to more of your videos. I am also setting an alert on my phone to remind myself of "Mothering self." Such a great feeling. Take care.
What a profoundly important point you make, in the fashion that only you, can. I am in the middle of doing exactly what it is you are encouraging your viewers to do in this video, and I appreciate the gravity of the concepts being spoken about.. because I am living it. Have the day you deserve!
Love the video and it's message! Loving yourself first is so important and I want to manifest is a partner who loves so much genuinely in the way I deserve. It may be hard for some to love themselves as they want another to fill that void but if it really helps people like this think of it as you only filling half the void. there is still a void to be filled by another but they can't fill the entire void meaning you love yourself which is half the void then they fill the other void making you whole and complete. It might not sound healthy but for people like this such as myself thinking of it like this helps alot.
Wow. You began this video by explaining the exact dynamic my mother and I have. You checked my narcissistic tendencies that have most likely developed as a result of my mother. You put me into words, and I couldn’t have said it better myself. Thank you for popping up on my feed. I needed you.
After reading some of these comments I'm really glad im still single and never had a gf so never been attached or used, etc. I have an avoident attachment style so I guess the grass really isn't greener on the other side... boutta be 28 in July and never been heart broken....😅
I just wanted to drop a comment today to tell you that I was once subscribed to you, and then I started feeling attacked by your message. This was not your fault, I was unaware of how deeply insecure I was about myself. Then today something shifted, and I started watching your videos again months later. You have such a deep, mature, and realized perspective of manifestation and the law of assumption and how it ties together with self-development. I resubscribed today; I want to keep watching your videos to keep myself accountable to my own self-love because I deserve it. Thank you for being you, here's to maturity 🥂
I recently struggled have been struggling with my friendships and not being fully satisfied with how they have been loving me because it is through their definition. But I haven’t been able to accept people as they are and I am constantly wishing and hoping for them to reach my level of expectations for them. Or I am constantly hoping they reach their potential of loving me the way I deserved to be love . But you’re absolutely right , I must give myself that love because the only reason I crave it is because it is a lack and has been a lack in my life . Today I vow to put myself first . ❤️
ive been thinking about this a lot this year. specifically, that i dont owe anyone anything & no one owes me anything. so if my expectations are not met, thats okay, because i dont need to be there. i shouldnt hold people to expectations but i guess its natural to have them, but even then you feel like they arent met you dont need to stay. that doesnt mean you have to argue about anything or even exchange words, but just to detach from it all because its okay.f
Damn, whole video hits hard but the sentence at 10:39 about how you'll ditch plans for yourself just for a group of friends or someone else at a moments notice... jeesh. The resistance I feel every step of the way when I do this.
Thanks for you content , I’m and old school guy , living in Canada now grew up on a third wold country and it was harder to feel the love from my parents !! I now they love my 💯 but they didn’t know how to show it I guess…now I have kids and I make sure tell them I love you hug them …..what I thing in our schools they should teach our kids more thinks that no one telll you ! Love yourself no one is responsible for you welll being but yourself…….i had to go true a brake up to find myself and like me more and love me more ……
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Update : after breaking up with my "friends" who disrespected me constantly. I became actually much better mentally, yes it was very painful at first and there's still some pain but for real i changed and became much better.
There's not a whole lot, in life, which is worth constant disrespect. Glad to hear you made the choice which was good for you
just healing from my friendship break up too , loads of love and warm wishes to you and best of luck for your journey
Omg same here 🤍 wish y’all love, healing and light. We’ll get through it!
Same here, I cut off a few toxic friendships and now I feel 100% better. It can be lonely at times but I am better off.
Same.
I've experienced this recently. I have an sp who I love deeply, but he wasn't committing to me. This made me feel anxious and insecure, so much so that I wasn't able to sleep properly for a bit. I've decided that I wasn't loving myself enough by subjecting myself to this situation at this moment, so I broke things off with him. Don't get me wrong, I still love him and would love to be with him, but I did not regret ONCE leaving him. I feel so liberated. I've been treating myself the way I've always wanted, I've been prioritizing my health, my hobbies, my creativity, and so many other things I love about myself. In this headspace, I've noticed that it is easier to BELIEVE that he is conforming to this version of me because it doesn't come from a place of need. And I just know that if it isn't him, it will be someone who will give me exactly what I've been giving myself.
Great video as always!
Well said sweetheart 👏🏼 I'm incredibly proud of you💕
That’s the hardest part for me in manifesting SP. I’ve been there for them when they needed but I was only an option and never a priority. So I started focusing on myself more and stopped reaching out to them. I’ve decided to let it flow for now instead of making a decision to leave or to stay. I’m kind of getting to a point of not caring about the outcome but not quite completely there yet
Wooah I'm feeling the exact same way as you! I'm just in middle ground now, I'm trying to stay that way. Thank you for commenting :')
You and me are in the same boat. This was helpful reading it
How have they been showing up since focusing more of your energy on you?
@@emiigarzon they haven’t shown up and I’m also staying away from social media. So complete no contact. I feel good most of the days. I still think about them every day but in a more neutral way than before. Keeping myself busy most days with work and hobbies. Sometimes I have mood swings but overall I have this deep belief that everything works out for me eventually
Well done for prioritising yourself, recognising your intrinsic value rather than seeking it externally. 🙌
your universe revolves around you, not them. their universe revolves around them, not you. however, it is a beautiful thing when other's come across your universe with their own and you both connect and grow knowing, though, that it may not last forever.🌱💜
(just a thought that crossed my mind)
I love that thought💕
@@maleekaismyguardianangel i love your thoughts too♡♡♡
I love drinking a glass of wine and listening to you. You put my mind in a good place. I like the idea of getting lost in myself. You can't lose.
Yes! This is so good. People receive love differently and it was hard but I realized that the people I LOVED most only can receive love from a distance because they are still seeking love for themselves. No harm done. It’s a beautiful understanding of love and finding ways to love people unconditionally as I do for myself now 💜💜💜
I love the aesthetic of your content. It’s very unique & almost timeless. also you have a beautiful, calming voice.
many blessings! xx
Same….she’s just so different from everyone else I love it
Yes!! Love your voice, I’m loving your content, thank you!
You are a magic being, I can't even explain what you vibe is. Just pure high vibe and confidence. And somehow, you always say the things I need to hear, in a way that speaks to me. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Today, for the first in..Forever? I refused to be someone's after thought. Not with anger or pettiness. Just out of love for myself. I deserve better.
My Spanish (narcissistic old school) mom did the same. I struggled with it for many years. I finally decided to release all the hopes of her becoming or changing into the mom i needed and had wished for all my life. I became my own mom, and began to love myself fiercely, it is so amazing because immediately i felt as though a pound of brick's were lifted off me. I have grown stronger, healthier and much more happier. I love myself so much🎉❤🎉
I actually saw this video come up in my feed before I decided to break up with my boyfriend. When I saw this come up, I was already contemplating it for the reasons listed in the video. I didn’t get to listen to it completely, but now that I have returned to it after committing to the break up, this video has confirmed that I made the right decision, and I am so happy with myself. I’m so proud and the ones that care about me that are within my circles feel the same way. Please have the courage to take your life into your own hands. You will not regret it, but know that it does come with pain. Use that pain to make an even stronger than you already are..♥️
I just got rejected by someone and I thought of you channel for comfort and support. Thank you for this.
I needed to hear this today. Your timing is spot on.
Perfect😊💕
My God I actually needed to hear this... This is perfect timing... I've been feeling the same way about my mom, as she has not supported and loved me the way I desired this whole time. The fact that no one in my house was put into my life for that reason is a hard pill to swallow. I do love my family, truly. On my journey of self love however, I still have hopes that through parenting myself and giving myself the love and validation I deserve, I hope to continue to attract others that will see me as well.
Just camr out of my psychiatrist appointment because I tend to get obsessed over people aren't reciprocate with me. I'm going to start psychotherapy. This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. It was jist perfect, you nailed it completely. I'm in awe. I've never heard anyone say this. This opened my eyes. It's basic LOA as you said. Thank you so so much💗💗💗💗
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@@raemahhenderson1602 thank u! That video popped up on my yt page last night :o
♥ You're definitely not alone! You can absolutely work to shift this mindset, to move your reactions to become more conscious and learn to give yourself, first, the attention and care that you seek from another. You deserve to have stable relationships. Also, well done for reaching out for help, it's a true strength - wish I had sooner!
Recently discovered your channel, and infinitely grateful for this divine guidance and virtual sisterhood. Thank you for the energy and intention you are putting out. It is recognized and received. 🌸 ✨
I relate to your sentiment.😃😎
I really needed this am currently going through a phase where am learning to be the person I always wanted other people to be and reminding myself it's OK to recognise someone's inability to love me doesn't have to be a reason to villainise them , it's peaceful 😌
this came literally RIGHT on time. I genuinely needed this.. you literally are speaking to me.
Exactly what I needed💗Just ended a long distance relationship not too long ago. It ended beautifully and I knew deep down it was the best thing for me. I am now prioritizing love for myself and showing up for myself in ways that I needed to. This video helped me gain perspective
I stopped trying to get my SP and I cut off a lot of people that were bringing me down. I quit my old job because I deserved better and In turn I met a younger guy that is head over heels for me, cuddles me, helps me, LISTENS TO ME and will go out of his way for me....this came out of nowhere! He's not my SP, not my type at all (looks wise) and he's much younger than me (26 and I'm 34) but I gave it a shot. He's a hard worker and motivated. We been together for like 3mos or so now and it's been pretty great. I still miss my SP but I've got nowhere near as much feeling of lacking anymore. I feel more positive and he helps motivate me to get out of my anxiety as well. ❤❤ He meets most of my love languages so far.
Aww congrats hun I quit myself
@@Sacredmysticz So much better
You make the kind of lovingly soothing yet firmly dignified content I think all of us wounded kids out here really need. I don't mean anything at all sideways about it when I say that your entire vibe is that of the healed mother, so many of us wish we were raised by. You're poised, wise beyond your years, and you exude this loving energy that communicates healthy boundaries in both directions - for yourself and the ones in contact with you.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and perspective of this life. The world is a better place for it.
This has been both thought provoking and affirming! Thank you so much. I need to let this sink in, and l anticipate some positive changes in my space from what you've shared.
I really believe that you will definitely get the love you deserve , we are always very thankful to you for sharing so many life changing tips for all of us , this kind of love and compassion you show to all of us who are completely strangers to you shows the very high level of strength and patience in you 🙏 always thankful for all your life changing advises 🙏👍
This is so relatable to everything I'm going through. I'm glad spirit is showing me im not actually alone as I always feel normally 😢
Maleeka, Im going thru the worse emotional rollercoaster of my life and your Videos have helped me so much. Your wisdom and approach to things are extremely helpful. Thanks queen!!🌈💖
I love this soo much! I just wanted to add and share a small thing. When you said that people prioritizing other things over you is you not prioritizing yourself, that got me thinking. While I did have friends that do that, my parents were weirdly the opposite. They are so obsessed with mine and my brother's lives that they try to control every aspect without realizing that we're human and have emotions and all. And it made me realize just now... I control myself🤯 I critize myself when I'm eating bad or staying up too late and instead of asking how I feel, I just say I should of done it differently or do this now blabla. That just baffled me completely. To think people don't prioritize our feelings only because we don't. No more controlling from now on! Life is all about feeling ALL the feels! ❤️
I can relate to the relationship you had with your mother ---i do my best love my two daughters in the way that I needed but didn't receive it... I try to be as conscious as I possibly can in loving them and encouraging them. we have such a good relationship :-) I know if you decide to have children one day you will be a wonderful mother.
. I hope love and life and the universe fills your cup, full of love each and every day.. you deserve people who show up for you and support you and love you.❤
This video is very beautiful. You truly produce magic with the way you speak. Lately, I’ve been feeling dismissed by the universe. I have been putting effort and love into others and have not been receiving the love my soul desires. I haven’t been showing up for myself like I need to. I’m learning how to love myself. I thought by providing love to others, they would love me back. When in reality it’s more about loving ourselves and accepting the love of others that resonate with us. We cannot force other people’s energy in this universe. Thank you for such a lovely video 😊❤
I love how calming your voice is! I always jot down notes whenever I see your videos. After a breakup from a looonng relationship, I needed so much of this. Loving yourself first it is! I was drained before as I didn't prioritize myself first so when that SP left me there was a void in myself. Right now I'm filling it with love from myself. I'm rebuilding myself thanks to you too!
Honestly, this video is so timely and on point for me in this present moment. Thankful for this amazing content.❤
wow. i was meant to watch this video. i have been going through so much pain with my mother recently. and just last week i told myself i had to be my own mom, though i didn’t know how to do it in a way that would last. i would do it, then not do it, forget, then remember again, then struggle to make it last. this morning i was thinking about how my mom may actually love me but was never taught how to express that love in the way i have been desiring. i have been trying to undo the negative wiring in my brain of my perception of her that has built up because of resentment. i’m amazed at how in sync this video is with my current struggle
I believe the love I genuinely give myself. It is just taking a little time. I hope not too much. I know my guardian angels have my back as the always do. I am transitioning. I am loving myself more and more meanwhile. We all deserve true authentic Love and Respect. thanks so much
I subscribed
This video came at the perfect time and was beautifully made! Thank you angel! We need to start loving ourselves how we need to be loved and not outsource it to others! 💞✨
I cried, honestly, I put up with a lot of people for the sake of "unconditional love", but it didn't hit me until now that I should've given it to myself! I didn't have a wonderful childhood growing up, and I remember vividly scribbling the words "I hate myself" onto a piece of paper when I was 8. I was abused and had no place to run to, which made me feel like life wasn't worth living. The men I was attracted to gave me crumbs when I was attracted to them, once I moved on and decided to put me first, they all came back with declarations of undying love. I thought it was weird until I knew about the Law.
I grew up with N parents, I understand they are the way they are due to their upbringing, but to have my needs disregarded constantly does hurt my spirit. I felt like this video is what I've been needing, God bless you ✨
Currently mothering myself as well. Greatest decision I’ve made in a long time ❤
This video is so personal, thank you so much for sharing. Your voice is so healing ❤ subscribed!
Would you please consider doing a video on acceptance? Thank you so much
How did you know I needed this 😢I love you soooo much for this! I needed to hear it from this perspective ❤❤
This transmission has been received! 📡 I'm vibin' every word in this message! 🥰
Perfect😊
Wow. Honestly, this video feels like some sort of spiritual awakening. Love yourself - We hear this a lot nowadays but THIS video really got me. Thank you so much!
Your voice is so soothing
I absolutely love this video!! And it’s so on time. I needed this
so happy you felt it🩷
wow girl. i so needed to hear this, thank you. you’re so special i love your channel. you soothe my soul every single time ❤
This is such an amazing video. I love the setup. I love the aesthetics. I love the pink vhs vintage footage looking aura coming off the screen. I love her voice and how crispy the audio sounds. I love how slow she’s talking and how easy it is to digest her message. I love how she gives advice while also sharing how she applied the same advice to her own personal life to help relate to the listener and to show her humility by connecting her story with the advice she’s giving. I love most of all what she’s saying. We aren’t taught about emotions and how to manage them effectively. This is such a great message and I wish this were taught to many people much earlier on maybe in 5th or 6th grade. I’m grateful that it’s being taught now and I just wanna send you so much love sis because you are so
Golden for going through this and then taking the time to share the solution and your journey with us. You are brave af and you are greatly appreciated. I love thinkers and I love boldness. I truly appreciate how you express yourself and I’m gonna absorb this energy and learn how to immolate the things I’ve learned in this video into my own life. I Love You & I hope anybody reads this has a blessed day. Happy Holidays 💕🌹🎨✨
Exactly what I needed to hear… your voice is so soothing and calming and it’s just completely opposite of listening to all of these dating advice videos, and the things that I need to be doing for a man and frankly, it’s just exhausting to hear anymore about dating advice but this type of advice is so much better because it’s about self preservation of myself as an individual so that I could continue to thrive in this world for myself and my son as a single mom.
Every video just hits different…🙏🏾❤
Called out! I have to admit that I am seeing now that I workaholic tendencies have not been serving me when it comes to building relationships with others. It's time to schedule a hiatus. Thank you for holding up the mirror.💖
I really like you (this is the first video I've watched)... very soothing, calm, feminine, and hot lol. I love when a woman is fully dressed and looks so beautiful without exposing skin. It's one of my goals I haven't really pilled off yet besides a few outfits..
Anyway, love your style. Thank you for being here. I will now go binge listen to more of your videos.
I am also setting an alert on my phone to remind myself of "Mothering self." Such a great feeling. Take care.
I will always say this, your videos always come to me when I need them the most. Thank you for your work
Thank you for bringing peace to my brain today. I appreciate you.
You deserve it💕
So precious. Little lady, you are wise beyond your years. This coming from a 60 year old lady. Oh, fyi, 60 is the new 40😎🎩❤😊
This video is one of the best birthday gift I received today. Thank you
Happy birthday darling 🎂
Happy birthday 🎉
@@friedgreentomatoes5054 Thanks guys you're adorable
What a profoundly important point you make, in the fashion that only you, can. I am in the middle of doing exactly what it is you are encouraging your viewers to do in this video, and I appreciate the gravity of the concepts being spoken about.. because I am living it. Have the day you deserve!
Love the video and it's message! Loving yourself first is so important and I want to manifest is a partner who loves so much genuinely in the way I deserve. It may be hard for some to love themselves as they want another to fill that void but if it really helps people like this think of it as you only filling half the void. there is still a void to be filled by another but they can't fill the entire void meaning you love yourself which is half the void then they fill the other void making you whole and complete. It might not sound healthy but for people like this such as myself thinking of it like this helps alot.
Your videos are beautifully put together. I see the time and love you put in your videos and it makes it very pleasant to watch them ❤️.
Thank you for noticing sweetie 😊
Wow. You began this video by explaining the exact dynamic my mother and I have. You checked my narcissistic tendencies that have most likely developed as a result of my mother. You put me into words, and I couldn’t have said it better myself. Thank you for popping up on my feed. I needed you.
Thank you. This was empowering,super validating and nourishing. Thank you thank you thank you.🩷
You are so welcome💜💕
After reading some of these comments I'm really glad im still single and never had a gf so never been attached or used, etc. I have an avoident attachment style so I guess the grass really isn't greener on the other side... boutta be 28 in July and never been heart broken....😅
Lucky haha
i swear we give people too much power over us..
I cannot believe how much this video resonated with me, word for word :O
This is what I needed to hear. Thank you so much.
I love your content
Always😊💕
Oooh you better teach sis. Thank you for sharing this wisdom. I appreciate you!!
This is absolutely beautiful and so well articulated. Thank you for sharing this.
I really love and appreciate your videos!!!!!! This was one of my favorites!
I'm so glad😊💕
I just wanted to drop a comment today to tell you that I was once subscribed to you, and then I started feeling attacked by your message. This was not your fault, I was unaware of how deeply insecure I was about myself. Then today something shifted, and I started watching your videos again months later. You have such a deep, mature, and realized perspective of manifestation and the law of assumption and how it ties together with self-development. I resubscribed today; I want to keep watching your videos to keep myself accountable to my own self-love because I deserve it. Thank you for being you, here's to maturity 🥂
I recently struggled have been struggling with my friendships and not being fully satisfied with how they have been loving me because it is through their definition. But I haven’t been able to accept people as they are and I am constantly wishing and hoping for them to reach my level of expectations for them. Or I am constantly hoping they reach their potential of loving me the way I deserved to be love . But you’re absolutely right , I must give myself that love because the only reason I crave it is because it is a lack and has been a lack in my life .
Today I vow to put myself first . ❤️
ive been thinking about this a lot this year. specifically, that i dont owe anyone anything & no one owes me anything. so if my expectations are not met, thats okay, because i dont need to be there. i shouldnt hold people to expectations but i guess its natural to have them, but even then you feel like they arent met you dont need to stay. that doesnt mean you have to argue about anything or even exchange words, but just to detach from it all because its okay.f
gotta be one of my favorite videos
Thank you. So, so much. Honestly.
Your wisdom is inspiring and your energy is so erudite. Thank you for your authentic and intuitive leaps of knowledge 🤎
Damn, whole video hits hard but the sentence at 10:39 about how you'll ditch plans for yourself just for a group of friends or someone else at a moments notice... jeesh. The resistance I feel every step of the way when I do this.
I did this and found my soulmate.
Blessings 🌬️✨✨✨
Could you make a video about dark and feminine energy and the importance about embodying both of them ?
❤️
all she speaks is facts
Thank you💖
You’re always right on time with your messages ❤
I’ve been working on putting myself first in therapy for a few weeks…little by little I’m getting there
Beautiful, but not surprised.
I LOVE your channel! I send all my frustrated co-creators here!! Brava! ❤💯❤
❤ U. Btw I love your aesthetic, I love the little library in the background it makes me feel so homey and cozy when I watch your videos
Thanks for you content , I’m and old school guy , living in Canada now grew up on a third wold country and it was harder to feel the love from my parents !! I now they love my 💯 but they didn’t know how to show it I guess…now I have kids and I make sure tell them I love you hug them …..what I thing in our schools they should teach our kids more thinks that no one telll you ! Love yourself no one is responsible for you welll being but yourself…….i had to go true a brake up to find myself and like me more and love me more ……
I love the way u speak and ur voice💜 u sounds so familiar to me☺️💫 you are doing great job, wish i have more friends like u. Sending hug✨✨✨
Hug received 😊
This popped up literally when I needed it ❤️
This is wonderful ❤ thank you so very much ❤❤
this is everything I needed to hear.
thank you ❤ keep it up
WOW needed this.
Hi, i always see this video everytime i go to sleep. Thankyou for beautiful words.
13:21 That cute smile at the end.
Happy birthday again!🎉😊
@@maleekaismyguardianangel Thank you so much :D
knew it was a sign as soon as I read the account's name, maleeka. cuz my spirit guides name is literally makayla 😭✨
Thanks Angel 🕊️
You are amazing. Nothing but love
always such a beautiful soft spoken Goddess
I needed this video 🥺 thank you
Wow, you are absolutely amazing with your words. Thank you mama 😘
Flfc ❤️😋🔥
u make me realise things I need to realise right this moment, I almost feel like I 'wake up' after watching ur videos ❤️
You got this hon💓👏🏼👏🏼
To go with in and know what you really want for yourself.
Thank you for this. So on time. ❤
Thank you for this video❤
Oh my god, every single word you said. I am currently going through it right now
It was a wonderful video. Thank you
Oooh I needed to hear this, bless you