How to you use the law of attraction step by step (according to changeyourlifeforever.co.uk/) 🩷Know what you want in life 🩷Be specific about what the want, down to exact details 🩷Give a time when you want this by 🩷Determine what you are willing to do in return 🩷Think about what your life will look like with this item in it 🩷Think what value this item will bring to your life and others 🩷Set a plan on how you think you can achieve it 🩷Manifest and project your image daily 🩷Work everyday towards that goal 🩷Record your actions and rewards and wait Which step do you think is unnecessary in manifesting your desire?
Personally, putting deadlines on my goals has always caused resistance. It lead to me focusing on the 3D far too much cause I was constantly looking for my desire in the physical reality. I can't remember a time where I manifested what I wanted successfully, if there was a deadline attached. Perhaps it's worked for others, and I'd like to learn how they did that, but for me, it never has🤷🏼♀️
I definitely don't completely agree with the idea of taking action, or "determining what you are willing to do in return" and "recording your actions", in my opinion, it implies that there is a transaction to be made. What I believe is that you don't attract things into your life, but rather that they come from you (basically law of assumption according to neville). However, I do think that changing your lifestyle in favour of your desires is something positive, as in, fully immersing yourself in your desire. For instance, when I wanted to manifest higher intelligence and a greater memory, I would ask myself what "the end" would look like to me. This involved me being very studious and dedicating myself to learning something new so I decided I would do just that. I know that you don't have to do anything to manifest what you want, but to me, it just felt weird to not do anything. I think this really depends on what you're trying to manifest, but if they are more "abstract" things like personality changes, skills, higher creativity, etc. then I think one could greatly benefit by putting yourself in situations that imply you have achieved those things. Like, if you want to manifest amazing dancing skills, it doesn't make sense to wait until it happens by doing nothing and not practicing because it could imply that you don't actually assume/believe/know/feel that it is true right now. There is no waiting if you have your desire in the eternal now.
Setting a plan on how u achieve it i guess in my case it always brings up resistance and does not help for the flow of inspired actions caise i wud b resisting the other ways in which it could manifest and maybe letting it flow always is a much lighthearted and enjoyable process
@@maleekaismyguardianangel I think they're likely ALL required to some extent. But perhaps a specific timeline and the last one is more optional.. "Assuming it's done already" as in "law of assumption" would really indicate no "time line" but rather past tense "already done" and wait for the universe to deliver, while taking action in that direction.. Cheers from London ☯️♾️🙏🏴🇬🇧
I think the 20s are there for you to figure yourself out. In your early 20s you feel like a baby learning to walk on your own, in your mid-twenties you think you've figured it out (but you haven't) and in your late 20s you start to appreciate yourself more & go back to the things you used to like. Older people often say that they can now care less. I think it's sad we need such a long time to get there, but here's to trying & never giving up :)
I love the message of this video. I recently saw a video from Anita Moorjani where she said that the most important thing we can do is to love ourselves and be authentically ourselves. Whenever we do that, we attract good things into our lives. I don't feel like trying to manifest specific things in my life, so the idea of improving my life, loving myself and living in the present moment resonates more than trying to manifest love, money, success etc.
Great post. People try to manifest having which is the last step. Have to first Be, which leads to Doing, which leads to Having. Have to manifest who you want to be first before you can do and have the things. Much easier to manifest that way
Self-loathing is so difficult to deal with. No matter what anyone tells you, positively, about yourself, you just assume to be false, because they don't know - or for some similar reason. I experience it, and wouldn't wish it on anyone
I used to be very harsh on myself tell myself that I am stupid and dumb and was so scared that other people would see it too. I had adhd and was so scared about my coworkers noticing any of my adhd symptoms. I worked extra hard to prove my worth by my insecurities manifested people to pick on me and my weaknesses. I was a virgin for most of my 20s and thought no one would want a virgin the closer I got to 30. I changed my self concept over the last 2 years and I dont even think that way anymore. I am shocked that I used to talk to myself that way and worse. It just takes practice. I watched self concept videos and I used affirmations to change my daily talk. People at work love/respect me now. I am now dating someone who used to treat me like I was disposable and is now talking to me about marriage and a baby.
As an introvert that is also shy, this definitely resonated with me. Thanks so much for sharing! This is one of a handful of channels that I set to give me notifications every time you post.
so eloquently put, and relate heavy to the more introverted type confidence, still unlearning so much people-pleasing, and accepting that this journey has a timeline that I don't know but will have to trust and have faith in, I used to silently suffer because I didn't want to confront people if I felt uncomfortable, but it's something I'm learning to outgrow, really appreciate this video, wishing you nothing but love
Such a beautiful love story. You exude love and self-acceptance and it is so inspiring to see. To finally be at a place where you are no longer in a deficit with yourself is freeing. Little by little I feel myself nearing this utopia and hearing stories like yours is the light that people like me appreciate as it reminds us that we are worthy and deserving of our love. Cheers to you, queen
There is so much that you talk about that I relate to in my own journey of healing and adjusting my self concept. It’s a great reminder of who I’ve been and if I did it once I can do it again
I like you a lot, the calming tone of your voice, the music, the simple yet somehow therapeutic background.. I was listening to this as I was folding some clothes and the last, most important part of the video gave me this feeling of relief that I recently had and lost because of a relationship I got in and became toxic in very quickly. I will not give up unless getting what I want requires me to do so. Thankyou love💗🌷
Thanks for all you have done for me! I learned so much from you. I remember when you had faceless videos. Your voice is so calming. When I saw your face for the first time it all matched so well. Absolutely gorgeous inside and out. I aspire to be more at ease and calm inside. My self concept has lifted so much and I’m ready to add on to me ❤ wishing you nothing but the best and more success. You didn’t have to share yourself and story with us all and still you did ✨ I’m grateful for you!
Thank you for telling your story. I can resonate with many things that you've shared. Realising my shadows was the most transformative experience in my 20's that has led to sooo many changes and shifts my past self would not even believe are possible. Your reflections are all on point and your words are poetry! Thank you again 🙏
I always say "Where there's a will, there's a way. I have the will, I will find the way!" It's kind of like a mantra - I said it as I travelled Europe on my own (I'm also visually impaired), climbed the CN Tower and have now entered into my dream work in the film industry (I'm also a professional writer). Life isn't perfect, but it's pretty darn good!! If anything seems to hard or I don't know how I'm going to achieve it...up comes that little mantra and I start thinking - I can figure this out...I just have to take a minute, a deep breath and start moving toward my goal! Loving your content!! --Gilly
Your voice and the background music were so soothing that I ended up falling asleep. Thank you so much for the wonderful reminder of how worthy we all are.
Hello, watching you from Brazil. This video has spoken a lot to me! Am gonna watch it again, carefully and take notes. Thank you so, so, so much for being here and for being part of my journey of consciousness expansion!
Today I felt like you were speaking to me. In recovery ✔️(6 months sober today), body not where you want it ✔️, not making enough money✔️(unemployed). I've been tweeking my life to move toward the type of life I'd like to have and I've also been doing personal work to better know myself and love myself. I find that even when I'm having consistent days of feeling good, there will be a day that creeps in where I feel overwhelmed and depressed. I know change takes time, and I must practice patience with my life in this transitioning time. Would you have advice or a mantra for those specific days to help me shake it off faster and stay focused on my goal? I appreciate your videos and your message. Sending you positive energies. 🙏🏼
In addition to your message, what also drew me in to your channel and has me on a chokehold is the way you talk and express yourself. I love how sensual you are ❤. I always feel excited when I see people I can relate to in this regard❤❤
fact which broke my personal ice to my own confidents was the fact of knowledge as every single one of us go through the same growth way with no excuses in mean, we all have to go through shyness, ashamedness, blamedness and all of that stuff which makes as to extremly confident human beings...
I was about to shut TH-cam down and stop reading the comments... 'cause I was getting bored with how this video seemed to be repeating itself... I understand that you're hurting. I have too, over relationships ending, but just wanted to say a few things: First, sometimes we blame God for what happens in a relationship and the majority of the time: it's just people, being people... Which leads me to number two... We often think that God gives us people we need or want in our lives... Sometimes he does but most of the time we either choose or attract the people that come into our lives... And although that does not make us responsible for them hurting us, if we are unhealed or have not worked on ourselves we will continue to meet and attract these same kind of people who will hurt us in the future... Last but of course not least, I'm sure you've heard this before... But the pain DOES get better AND go away. At the time I was dating men that hurt me, I couldn't imagine my life without them. Fast forward to now, I could never imagine my life WITH them! You have to focus on you and healing your heart and mind. That comes with understanding your value as a woman and that God created you and loves you without conditions or requirements (Psalm 139). You will feel better when you recognize that you were the prize in that relationship!! And not that man! Don't let him have any more space in your head/heart/soul/mind. This is your deciding moment to either keep hurting and being miserable OR get on with your life, fulfilling your God-given purpose and get back out there and create an amazing relationship with someone else who recognizes that you are the prize, and who treats you like it! I've lived for so long with an old endless loop running in mind... The limiting belief has been that life is hell, and I've only come to earth, to suffer... That I have nothing going for me. I'm just suffering in misery, waiting to die... And then... Something so cool!!! I realized the enemy is a fucking LIAR! And I have so much going for me... Like: 1) I am a registered counsellor 2) I have a brilliant mind 3) I know the darkest dark. I am ready and willing, able and capable, to now step into the light! 4) In many ways, my discernment is razor sharp 5) I have a beautiful connection to God and my own spirituality 6) Because the men in my life - and particularly the most recent man - have been abusive cunts... They have forced me to go inwards, to refine myself, to strengthen myself, to awaken the Lioness/Goddess/Queen that I AM 7) Because my life has been utter hell, I know how to walk through the storm, I know how to die a million deaths, and to resurrect! 8) I see so very clearly, what others don't, it's like I (almost-constantly) have a birds-eye view of things... 9) I understand now, and am continuing to learn, about the true divine feminine and real divine masculine 10) I've had to constantly overcome. MY STRENGTH IS INSANE. 11) I've gone through the fire, I'm being refined, transformed, transmuted: into gold. I am an alchemist. I am the dragon! Traumas and griefs that crush us completely are used to find a strength/evolution/healing/faith, beyond ourselves - Also, we can’t see/know/understand our value through someone else’s behavior (or actions...) *That’s the challenge!* 3 men in my life: the first - was just a very GORGEOUS young girl, with zero self esteem, and a much older, uglier, disgusting and VERY abusive man the second - was a symptom of complete and total: self loathing the third - was a result of despair and desperation I PRAY I CHANGE THIS PATTERN I PRAY I HEAL I pray the next man, will be the last one. the true one. the real one. I vibrate * I radiate * I create * AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER: I am one with the Divine. I experience, peace, BLISS, love, and joy: CONSTANTLY AND CONSISTENTLY. I experience everything as grace AND AS LOVE. I am at peace. I honor the Divine within me.
I've watched a few videos of yours and thought first, oh another one who talks about the law of assumption. But I saw that you lost your sister and where you came from. I also lost my sister a few years ago due to cancer. This changes you. Your values and what you want to spend your time with, including manifesting. I also came from a very poor backround. I feel you, sister. And I think you should be really proud of yourself.
You are such a beautiful soul Chelsea. This video truly gave me the feel goods. I'm still striving to fully love myself after a difficult past, but as you said, it's so worth it no matter how long it takes. I'm at the stage of self-love that I too want to participate in introverted outings, like taking myself to an art gallery, festivals, or a lovely dinner. Keep spreading your love sweetie.
Ohhhhhmyyyygoooooood I LIVE YOUR VIDEOS! Your voice, the background music, what you say. Everything!. Everything about your channel calms me down. Thank you🥺😘❤️
Remember that even if it may take a year to get to this state, there will be shifts within you throughout that time period where you will become more and more what you want to be and eventually you will dominantly become it. There will be moments even after where you may slip into old self and that is okay, bc with all the inner work you’ve done it will be easier to shift back into the new version of you. Time is going to fly by anyway, you might as well prioritize you ❤
Oh btw I do relate to the part where you said 'it would be a crime not to share with another person '. When I realized how lovable i was I felt something similar 😊
having no confidence is...tiring. like i knowwww i have so much potential but im the only one holding myself back and i can't seem to break out of it. I've been told that i talk in a hesitant way like im confused on what im trying to say. you can also tell by looking at pictures of me that im insecure and i just dont know what im doing. it's so tiring and frustrating. even with success,, i would be achieving the greatest grades in my class but I'll still feel like something is missing...and i would go home and cry about it. i don't understand myself at all.
I know this video isnt about Caribbean roots but @1:12 when Chelsea's accent came out, I couldn't stop laughing this morning. Must have rewinded like Funk Flex (i lived in NYC for 6 years, in other words, I brought it back and dropped 💣s on the track). I am about to meditate before I sleep and hit gym in the AM and thought about watching this video earlier at the gym so I came back just to comment & timestamp the accent coming out. As an American-born 🇯🇲 and 🇹🇹, I loved this. I was waiting for Chelsea to say "di mons dem" 😂
I love this! I love you! I love your channel! Congratulations (especially on the healthy consistent relationship) thank you for helping me to change my life!
Sounds so much, as if you were my soulmate! ✨ Thank you so much, I Love HOW you Talk about those issues, I feel you so much! 🙏🏻 Sending you a Big hug from Germany! ❤
Thank you for sharing. This was very enlightening and just what I needed to hear rn. It's crazy how you were nervous about showing your face, you are so beautiful
@@maleekaismyguardianangelyess i remember you wearing a periwinkle sweater, glasses, a dark auburn lipstick, and with your hair down. the setup was also very colorful(?) with purples and blues and greens and pinks and books and those humidifiers in the background which funny enough is what i think when i think of you
I've tried to break into someone that I assume doesn't feel worthy of love. In the end ..all it did was break my own self confidence and make me out to be toxic. I tried too hard. Thanks for the talk. ❤
The key is the way how to become confident and to gain self love. True worshiping in Christianity and the far east spiritual teachings provide the ultimate solutions.
Thank you for posting the music 🎼 Some I knew and hadn’t heard in awhile I appreciate it and I think it’s a wonderful idea to post small businesses I’m going to get me that bracelet! ❤ I’m glad I found you last year. Thank you for this video.
Loved your video and shared it with my daughter, I sent you the link to her new online boutique as she was previously on Shopify. Shared yr vid with her as soon as I watched it. Your channel and content is really inspiring, so happy I found it and you 🥰
love your video. i was wondering whether the confidence in ourselves has the same effect as the manifest. or maybe manifast is just confidence mixed with a little imaganation which make it more fun?
I really started to hate myself when I got my adhd diagnosis. Everything made sense; I hated myself…still hate myself. But I’m getting there…I’ll get there. But I wish I was normal; god I’d do anything to be a normal girl. Anything.
I shared your video with my bestfriend her name is Chelsey too …I wanted to tell you I enjoyed your video my mom told me DM’d my online store to you already I hope you find something you like !
I felt bad 40 years and anxious all the time. THen I find while ago dr. Andrew Hubermans Physiological Sigh. Now I feel calm, confidnend and started to love myself. It's funny how something simple like breathing can change your everyday life
How to you use the law of attraction step by step
(according to changeyourlifeforever.co.uk/)
🩷Know what you want in life
🩷Be specific about what the want, down to exact details
🩷Give a time when you want this by
🩷Determine what you are willing to do in return
🩷Think about what your life will look like with this item in it
🩷Think what value this item will bring to your life and others
🩷Set a plan on how you think you can achieve it
🩷Manifest and project your image daily
🩷Work everyday towards that goal
🩷Record your actions and rewards and wait
Which step do you think is unnecessary in manifesting your desire?
I thing giving a time you expect it will cause some resistance,the what to do in return I’ve never heard that in my life so I’m not sure
Personally, putting deadlines on my goals has always caused resistance. It lead to me focusing on the 3D far too much cause I was constantly looking for my desire in the physical reality. I can't remember a time where I manifested what I wanted successfully, if there was a deadline attached.
Perhaps it's worked for others, and I'd like to learn how they did that, but for me, it never has🤷🏼♀️
I definitely don't completely agree with the idea of taking action, or "determining what you are willing to do in return" and "recording your actions", in my opinion, it implies that there is a transaction to be made. What I believe is that you don't attract things into your life, but rather that they come from you (basically law of assumption according to neville). However, I do think that changing your lifestyle in favour of your desires is something positive, as in, fully immersing yourself in your desire. For instance, when I wanted to manifest higher intelligence and a greater memory, I would ask myself what "the end" would look like to me. This involved me being very studious and dedicating myself to learning something new so I decided I would do just that. I know that you don't have to do anything to manifest what you want, but to me, it just felt weird to not do anything. I think this really depends on what you're trying to manifest, but if they are more "abstract" things like personality changes, skills, higher creativity, etc. then I think one could greatly benefit by putting yourself in situations that imply you have achieved those things. Like, if you want to manifest amazing dancing skills, it doesn't make sense to wait until it happens by doing nothing and not practicing because it could imply that you don't actually assume/believe/know/feel that it is true right now. There is no waiting if you have your desire in the eternal now.
Setting a plan on how u achieve it i guess in my case it always brings up resistance and does not help for the flow of inspired actions caise i wud b resisting the other ways in which it could manifest and maybe letting it flow always is a much lighthearted and enjoyable process
@@maleekaismyguardianangel I think they're likely ALL required to some extent. But perhaps a specific timeline and the last one is more optional..
"Assuming it's done already" as in "law of assumption" would really indicate no "time line" but rather past tense "already done" and wait for the universe to deliver, while taking action in that direction..
Cheers from London ☯️♾️🙏🏴🇬🇧
“It would only be a crime to not share this wonderful person with another human being” lol message received 😂 ❤ 😊
Preach...She Fine Tho' .......Let me instill and implement the Law of Assumption, Stay Safe / Prayers -Your Friendly Neighborhood Cheek Thief
Period lol natural sex appeal
"even if it took you rest of your life to achieve, it would be worth it for you." My life described in one word. ❤❤ Thank you!
you're welcome my love😊
I think the 20s are there for you to figure yourself out. In your early 20s you feel like a baby learning to walk on your own, in your mid-twenties you think you've figured it out (but you haven't) and in your late 20s you start to appreciate yourself more & go back to the things you used to like. Older people often say that they can now care less. I think it's sad we need such a long time to get there, but here's to trying & never giving up :)
Maleeka's voice is everything. Calming, soothing, and relaxing. I'm crushing 😍❤
I love the message of this video. I recently saw a video from Anita Moorjani where she said that the most important thing we can do is to love ourselves and be authentically ourselves. Whenever we do that, we attract good things into our lives. I don't feel like trying to manifest specific things in my life, so the idea of improving my life, loving myself and living in the present moment resonates more than trying to manifest love, money, success etc.
Great post. People try to manifest having which is the last step. Have to first Be, which leads to Doing, which leads to Having. Have to manifest who you want to be first before you can do and have the things. Much easier to manifest that way
Self-loathing is so difficult to deal with. No matter what anyone tells you, positively, about yourself, you just assume to be false, because they don't know - or for some similar reason. I experience it, and wouldn't wish it on anyone
I used to be very harsh on myself tell myself that I am stupid and dumb and was so scared that other people would see it too. I had adhd and was so scared about my coworkers noticing any of my adhd symptoms. I worked extra hard to prove my worth by my insecurities manifested people to pick on me and my weaknesses. I was a virgin for most of my 20s and thought no one would want a virgin the closer I got to 30. I changed my self concept over the last 2 years and I dont even think that way anymore. I am shocked that I used to talk to myself that way and worse. It just takes practice. I watched self concept videos and I used affirmations to change my daily talk. People at work love/respect me now. I am now dating someone who used to treat me like I was disposable and is now talking to me about marriage and a baby.
@@suras8984 really glad to hear you've been able to turn things around for yourself like that, dude
I love that you always come with such a calm and genuine energy. So relaxing and helpful.
As an introvert that is also shy, this definitely resonated with me. Thanks so much for sharing! This is one of a handful of channels that I set to give me notifications every time you post.
I'm really happy to hear it resonated hon🙂 I haven't been able to find much content on introversion and confidence
so eloquently put, and relate heavy to the more introverted type confidence, still unlearning so much people-pleasing, and accepting that this journey has a timeline that I don't know but will have to trust and have faith in, I used to silently suffer because I didn't want to confront people if I felt uncomfortable, but it's something I'm learning to outgrow, really appreciate this video, wishing you nothing but love
and so proud of how far you've come!
You look 16 my dear! Keep on taking care of yourself and loving yourself suits you wonderfully! ❤
Thank you so much hon😊
@@maleekaismyguardianangel you’re so welcome ☀️😉
Such a beautiful love story. You exude love and self-acceptance and it is so inspiring to see. To finally be at a place where you are no longer in a deficit with yourself is freeing. Little by little I feel myself nearing this utopia and hearing stories like yours is the light that people like me appreciate as it reminds us that we are worthy and deserving of our love. Cheers to you, queen
i’d be lying if i said i don’t watch your videos every day all over again just to help the message resonate
There is so much that you talk about that I relate to in my own journey of healing and adjusting my self concept. It’s a great reminder of who I’ve been and if I did it once I can do it again
I like you a lot, the calming tone of your voice, the music, the simple yet somehow therapeutic background.. I was listening to this as I was folding some clothes and the last, most important part of the video gave me this feeling of relief that I recently had and lost because of a relationship I got in and became toxic in very quickly. I will not give up unless getting what I want requires me to do so. Thankyou love💗🌷
I just love this girl's swanky background music.
Thanks for all you have done for me! I learned so much from you. I remember when you had faceless videos. Your voice is so calming. When I saw your face for the first time it all matched so well. Absolutely gorgeous inside and out. I aspire to be more at ease and calm inside. My self concept has lifted so much and I’m ready to add on to me ❤ wishing you nothing but the best and more success. You didn’t have to share yourself and story with us all and still you did ✨ I’m grateful for you!
Thank you for telling your story. I can resonate with many things that you've shared. Realising my shadows was the most transformative experience in my 20's that has led to sooo many changes and shifts my past self would not even believe are possible. Your reflections are all on point and your words are poetry! Thank you again 🙏
I always say "Where there's a will, there's a way. I have the will, I will find the way!"
It's kind of like a mantra - I said it as I travelled Europe on my own (I'm also visually impaired), climbed the CN Tower and have now entered into my dream work in the film industry (I'm also a professional writer). Life isn't perfect, but it's pretty darn good!! If anything seems to hard or I don't know how I'm going to achieve it...up comes that little mantra and I start thinking - I can figure this out...I just have to take a minute, a deep breath and start moving toward my goal!
Loving your content!!
--Gilly
I love how clear you talk.
Your voice and the background music were so soothing that I ended up falling asleep. Thank you so much for the wonderful reminder of how worthy we all are.
Hello, watching you from Brazil. This video has spoken a lot to me! Am gonna watch it again, carefully and take notes. Thank you so, so, so much for being here and for being part of my journey of consciousness expansion!
Today I felt like you were speaking to me. In recovery ✔️(6 months sober today), body not where you want it ✔️, not making enough money✔️(unemployed). I've been tweeking my life to move toward the type of life I'd like to have and I've also been doing personal work to better know myself and love myself. I find that even when I'm having consistent days of feeling good, there will be a day that creeps in where I feel overwhelmed and depressed. I know change takes time, and I must practice patience with my life in this transitioning time. Would you have advice or a mantra for those specific days to help me shake it off faster and stay focused on my goal? I appreciate your videos and your message. Sending you positive energies. 🙏🏼
In addition to your message, what also drew me in to your channel and has me on a chokehold is the way you talk and express yourself. I love how sensual you are ❤. I always feel excited when I see people I can relate to in this regard❤❤
fact which broke my personal ice to my own confidents was the fact of knowledge as every single one of us go through the same growth way with no excuses in mean, we all have to go through shyness, ashamedness, blamedness and all of that stuff which makes as to extremly confident human beings...
I was about to shut TH-cam down
and stop reading the comments...
'cause I was getting bored
with how this video seemed to be repeating itself...
I understand that you're hurting.
I have too,
over relationships ending,
but just wanted to say a few things:
First,
sometimes we blame God for what happens in a relationship
and the majority of the time: it's just people, being people...
Which leads me to number two...
We often think that God gives us people we need or want in our lives...
Sometimes he does
but most of the time
we either choose or attract the people that come into our lives...
And although that does not make us responsible for them hurting us,
if we are unhealed or have not worked on ourselves
we will continue to meet and attract these same kind of people
who will hurt us in the future...
Last but of course not least,
I'm sure you've heard this before...
But the pain DOES get better AND go away.
At the time I was dating men that hurt me,
I couldn't imagine my life without them.
Fast forward to now,
I could never imagine my life WITH them!
You have to focus on you
and healing your heart and mind.
That comes with understanding your value as a woman
and that God created you
and loves you
without conditions or requirements (Psalm 139).
You will feel better when you recognize
that you were the prize in that relationship!!
And not that man!
Don't let him have any more space in your head/heart/soul/mind.
This is your deciding moment
to either keep hurting and being miserable OR
get on with your life, fulfilling your God-given purpose
and get back out there
and create an amazing relationship with someone else
who recognizes that you are the prize, and who treats you like it!
I've lived for so long
with an old endless loop
running in mind...
The limiting belief has been that life is hell,
and I've only come to earth, to suffer...
That I have nothing going for me.
I'm just suffering in misery,
waiting to die...
And then...
Something so cool!!!
I realized the enemy is a fucking LIAR!
And I have so much going for me...
Like:
1) I am a registered counsellor
2) I have a brilliant mind
3) I know the darkest dark.
I am ready and willing,
able and capable,
to now step into the light!
4) In many ways, my discernment is razor sharp
5) I have a beautiful connection to God and my own spirituality
6) Because the men in my life - and particularly the most recent man -
have been abusive cunts...
They have forced me to go inwards,
to refine myself, to strengthen myself,
to awaken the Lioness/Goddess/Queen that I AM
7) Because my life has been utter hell,
I know how to walk through the storm,
I know how to die a million deaths,
and to resurrect!
8) I see so very clearly, what others don't,
it's like I (almost-constantly) have a birds-eye view of things...
9) I understand now, and am continuing to learn,
about the true divine feminine and real divine masculine
10) I've had to constantly overcome.
MY STRENGTH IS INSANE.
11) I've gone through the fire,
I'm being refined, transformed, transmuted:
into gold. I am an alchemist. I am the dragon!
Traumas and griefs
that crush us completely
are used to find a strength/evolution/healing/faith,
beyond ourselves -
Also,
we can’t see/know/understand our value
through someone else’s behavior (or actions...)
*That’s the challenge!*
3 men in my life:
the first -
was just a very GORGEOUS young girl,
with zero self esteem,
and a much older, uglier, disgusting and
VERY abusive man
the second -
was a symptom of complete and total:
self loathing
the third -
was a result of despair and desperation
I PRAY I CHANGE THIS PATTERN
I PRAY I HEAL
I pray the next man,
will be the last one.
the true one.
the real one.
I vibrate *
I radiate *
I create *
AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER:
I am one with the Divine.
I experience, peace, BLISS, love, and joy:
CONSTANTLY AND CONSISTENTLY.
I experience everything as grace AND AS LOVE.
I am at peace. I honor the Divine within me.
Your videos mean so much to me. Thank you, I needed this one ❤
Your vibes give off a very comforting therapist
Thank you, glad you enjoyed it😊
I've watched a few videos of yours and thought first, oh another one who talks about the law of assumption. But I saw that you lost your sister and where you came from. I also lost my sister a few years ago due to cancer. This changes you. Your values and what you want to spend your time with, including manifesting. I also came from a very poor backround. I feel you, sister. And I think you should be really proud of yourself.
Maleeka, i cried watching your video. Your words really touched my self love within. Thank you. You are beautiful.❤
Thank you so much for your vulnerability, Chelsea!❤❤❤
Exactly how I’m feeling and have felt for a very long time. I appreciate this video has come upon my screen right now xxx
You are such a beautiful soul Chelsea. This video truly gave me the feel goods. I'm still striving to fully love myself after a difficult past, but as you said, it's so worth it no matter how long it takes. I'm at the stage of self-love that I too want to participate in introverted outings, like taking myself to an art gallery, festivals, or a lovely dinner. Keep spreading your love sweetie.
U really r my guardian 😇 ty for existing 💕
Thank you for being here sweetheart 🩷
Ohhhhhmyyyygoooooood I LIVE YOUR VIDEOS!
Your voice, the background music, what you say. Everything!. Everything about your channel calms me down. Thank you🥺😘❤️
Brave of you to share this, thank you! ❤🙏❤️
Oooo I love that…. Getting to paint your new self on a blank canvas ❤
Wow the shout out to the black owned business was so beautiful 🫶🏿
First be then become.
-jeff logan
As someone who has been through a same kind of journey I enjoyed every second of this video
Remember that even if it may take a year to get to this state, there will be shifts within you throughout that time period where you will become more and more what you want to be and eventually you will dominantly become it. There will be moments even after where you may slip into old self and that is okay, bc with all the inner work you’ve done it will be easier to shift back into the new version of you. Time is going to fly by anyway, you might as well prioritize you ❤
This is by far my favorite video. Thank you for helping me get my shit together.💝
Oh btw I do relate to the part where you said 'it would be a crime not to share with another person '. When I realized how lovable i was I felt something similar 😊
having no confidence is...tiring. like i knowwww i have so much potential but im the only one holding myself back and i can't seem to break out of it. I've been told that i talk in a hesitant way like im confused on what im trying to say. you can also tell by looking at pictures of me that im insecure and i just dont know what im doing. it's so tiring and frustrating. even with success,, i would be achieving the greatest grades in my class but I'll still feel like something is missing...and i would go home and cry about it. i don't understand myself at all.
I know this video isnt about Caribbean roots but @1:12 when Chelsea's accent came out, I couldn't stop laughing this morning. Must have rewinded like Funk Flex (i lived in NYC for 6 years, in other words, I brought it back and dropped 💣s on the track). I am about to meditate before I sleep and hit gym in the AM and thought about watching this video earlier at the gym so I came back just to comment & timestamp the accent coming out. As an American-born 🇯🇲 and 🇹🇹, I loved this. I was waiting for Chelsea to say "di mons dem" 😂
I love this! I love you! I love your channel! Congratulations (especially on the healthy consistent relationship) thank you for helping me to change my life!
Absolute beautiful soul you are. I have got to get you on my podcast as a guest speaker when I get it up and going.
I'll be there 🩷
Love your calmness
This is her best video yet.
Sounds so much, as if you were my soulmate! ✨ Thank you so much, I Love HOW you Talk about those issues, I feel you so much! 🙏🏻 Sending you a Big hug from Germany! ❤
Perfect Style Plus Amazing Knwoledge with very simple expression.....I Love Your Videos...
Thank you sweetheart 😊
Thank You I am transforming and have prayers for You...
The cinematography 🌟
Thank you for noticing 😍 I love implementing that and improving upon it. I love cinematography 💜
@@maleekaismyguardianangelAwe You’re Welcome Luv!! 🤍
You put it so eloquently.❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing. This was very enlightening and just what I needed to hear rn. It's crazy how you were nervous about showing your face, you are so beautiful
😊❤ smiling all the way.. wonderful way to find yourself and profound love 😊❤
Thanks for being so candid
Please never stop making videos ever
I'll be here hon💓
I hope and pray to meet a woman like you to love and be loved by, me for the rest of my life.
this is insane but last night i had a dream of me watching a new video of you btw nice new setup
Did I look cute in the video?🙃
@@maleekaismyguardianangelyess i remember you wearing a periwinkle sweater, glasses, a dark auburn lipstick, and with your hair down. the setup was also very colorful(?) with purples and blues and greens and pinks and books and those humidifiers in the background which funny enough is what i think when i think of you
I'm so happy for you ✨💜😊
Thank you sweetie 😊
I've tried to break into someone that I assume doesn't feel worthy of love. In the end ..all it did was break my own self confidence and make me out to be toxic. I tried too hard. Thanks for the talk. ❤
Thank you for sharing your journey to becoming your most confident self. Inspiring as always.
The key is the way how to become confident and to gain self love. True worshiping in Christianity and the far east spiritual teachings provide the ultimate solutions.
Thank you for posting the music 🎼
Some I knew and hadn’t heard in awhile
I appreciate it and I think it’s a wonderful idea to post small businesses
I’m going to get me that bracelet! ❤
I’m glad I found you last year.
Thank you for this video.
I really appreciate the creator recommendations
I wish I had my business now hahaha I would link it here…I will one day, you will love it ❤️
This is the video I needed today 💕
Thank you for sharing your story. It gave me inspiration to be stronger.
Loved your video and shared it with my daughter, I sent you the link to her new online boutique as she was previously on Shopify. Shared yr vid with her as soon as I watched it. Your channel and content is really inspiring, so happy I found it and you 🥰
mann i lover her so much!!
I’m so ready for this. ❤
Love your new lighting, you look great!
Very soothing and calming video, it's so rational too ❤ thank you
I am so happy that you show your face now 😊❤️🙏🏽
thank you darling😊
Oh I relate to this so very deeply.
Uuuuugh girl if it weren't for your videos I would be dead of boredom ❤
Your BEST video yet...thank you so much 😊😊😊
Thank you so much😊
Maleeka you know when I need ya!
I had to say Love your hair❤always sososososo much❤
Great video. Very relatable and applicable. Thank you.
Great video! 🥰 You are doing a very good job here 🥰
Thank you for being mu mentor ❤️
SO BEAUTIFUL!
You are my favorite. Seriously. ❤
Your voice is so relaxing 🥰
Great video 👍🏿
love your video. i was wondering whether the confidence in ourselves has the same effect as the manifest. or maybe manifast is just confidence mixed with a little imaganation which make it more fun?
Beautiful, authentic Chelsea ❤❤
Lovely girl
Good luck my sister 👸😍😍😻😻
I really started to hate myself when I got my adhd diagnosis. Everything made sense; I hated myself…still hate myself. But I’m getting there…I’ll get there. But I wish I was normal; god I’d do anything to be a normal girl. Anything.
I love your videos!! 😍
What a brilliant video, I love you!
This video resonates with me !!!
Please can you share a playlist of the jazz music in the background
Glad you like the music hon🙂 I've shared the titles and artists in the outro🩷
Love ur content . You are an amazing person❤❤❤❤❤
I shared your video with my bestfriend her name is Chelsey too …I wanted to tell you I enjoyed your video my mom told me DM’d my online store to you already I hope you find something you like !
This is one of your best. Go Chelsea ! ;) #TeamConfidentIntrovert
Your perfect ⭐️
I felt bad 40 years and anxious all the time. THen I find while ago dr. Andrew Hubermans Physiological Sigh. Now I feel calm, confidnend and started to love myself. It's funny how something simple like breathing can change your everyday life
I'll try this out for myself🙂 thank you for sharing
Assume it and be it