The right time to share your pregnancy news

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  • @megadancefan
    @megadancefan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    The right time is whenever YOU want to share.

  • @rebeccaellison9999
    @rebeccaellison9999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I shared mine right away and we are currently going through a possible miscarriage. We shared with our close family and friends... the people I shared with are my support system and while it has sucked having to tell them the bad news, I’m so comforted knowing they are behind me. I’m 32 so hopefully we can still have our 2-3 as we hope for.

    • @somebodymomma7
      @somebodymomma7 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This comment was left sometime ago. I pray you have grown your family in all the ways your desire ❤

  • @EkAks
    @EkAks 7 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I would hide my pregnancy until the baby is born. There are too many jealous people our there emitting the evil eye.

    • @pharmashree
      @pharmashree 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      very true and it happened with me

    • @lisamuchi8764
      @lisamuchi8764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There is some truth to that..........Often in the US, people are giddy about their Pregancies & so quick to post it on facebook. I think it's better to just be quiet about your Pregnancy & go about your business!!! In most parts of Africa; there's no such thing as Pregnancy Announcement!!!

    • @pinosha1
      @pinosha1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s true it’s happened to me after telling my jealous relatives next day I had miss carriage

    • @micadoh7749
      @micadoh7749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How were jealous relative able to make you miscarriage?

    • @albs1448
      @albs1448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣. Sounds like my people from my country with all the superstitious going on

  • @ingridleask4236
    @ingridleask4236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    There's no 'right' time. It's up to you! Hard to keep the info in if you're puking and falling asleep all the time.

  • @zoecoppen188
    @zoecoppen188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I feel like u can be any age and have a miscarriage.. even in your 20's. I hope anyone who's trying to get pregnant now... You get pregnant easily and have a healthy, strong, easy, safe pregnancy guys 🙏🙏🙏 Miscarriages are so hard to go through both for the women and her partner

  • @lvluxdelight
    @lvluxdelight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ok: main message of this video: SUFFER IN SILENCE
    This is just bad advice bc it really depends. If you have a supportive family, I think you should tell right away. If there's a miscarriage, why should the mother have to suffer alone if she loses her baby? Like this lady said, it happens a lot.
    Any person grieving needs support
    This advice keeps miscarriage such a taboo topic. That's a terrible thing

  • @mariatamara1626
    @mariatamara1626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    In my culture we don't tell people. We just see a baby bump. You can feel free to tell the world whenever you want to but I know people that have been poisoned etc and had a miscarriage when announced at an early stage. It's a cruel world out here

  • @TheLolly881
    @TheLolly881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I kinda wish I didn’t share. I didn’t realize how a miscarriage can make you feel embarrassed. 🥺

    • @kisha26able
      @kisha26able 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I shared my news early twice and miscarried both. Just found out I’m pregnant 3 days ago and this time around will be different. I won’t be saying anything until I’m at least 5 months.

  • @burninglegion4327
    @burninglegion4327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    HR HR HR ok ladies many of us work at small companies where the politics of being out of commission are much worse than mentioned here. Please elaborate than just saying HR is your friend.

  • @theafromath
    @theafromath 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Black women killing the game!!!

    • @lilithssilvermoon3208
      @lilithssilvermoon3208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Afro Math I think white women wait longer to have children- (more security)

    • @lifechoices4749
      @lifechoices4749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lilithssilvermoon3208 and that is why the birthrate is low.
      This doctor did say don't wait until you all have all your ducks in a row because with age comes many risk.

    • @lilithssilvermoon3208
      @lilithssilvermoon3208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Life Choices 😂😂😂🤣 STFU you don’t even know what’s going on or being said- you’re just a jealous COW

    • @gothgoddess1002
      @gothgoddess1002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Life Choices lol I think you need to go back to school. UR an idiot!!!!!! Go back to that hole you crawled out of. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 your reading comprehension sucks!

    • @lifechoices4749
      @lifechoices4749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lilithssilvermoon3208 Huh?
      Jealous of what?
      I have children I give birth too, you looking for a surrogate and donor eggs.
      Focus on yourself.

  • @danamedranoh1096
    @danamedranoh1096 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I shared my pregnancy only to family because of my medical reasons. When my husband wasn’t around they would take care of me. I wanted the world to know! But I waited to announce it to the public once I entered my second semester.

  • @lvluxdelight
    @lvluxdelight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "aww, u gotta keep it under wraps" 🙄
    Um, NO
    These ignorant women annoy me so much bc miscarriage MATTERS
    Women need support
    Not to be mean: but these ladies should never give advice

    • @pineappleice100
      @pineappleice100 ปีที่แล้ว

      It may not be easy for someone to have to go back to those she told and say she miscarried if that were to happen. To each their own.

  • @lilithssilvermoon3208
    @lilithssilvermoon3208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What’s the percentages and or likelihood of miscarriage using genetically good embryos/Donor eggs??

  • @LaNa-vx1gp
    @LaNa-vx1gp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You can chose to celebrate life the moment you find out or later. This is stupid how bad they make it sound to tell people early on.

    • @ingridleask4236
      @ingridleask4236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed. If something bad happens its nice to have support anyway.

  • @zainabmichelle9146
    @zainabmichelle9146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best advice I ever heard thank you

  • @transat7671
    @transat7671 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    super blouse

  • @shelbiee-97
    @shelbiee-97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is the chances of having a second miscarriage?

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    @jerrycharity2673 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @TaxingIsThieving
    @TaxingIsThieving 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:20

  • @steven-pl6oh
    @steven-pl6oh ปีที่แล้ว

    L + ratio

  • @Evbddgegeh
    @Evbddgegeh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I get pregnant easy so did not ever think of women who miscarriage