I had a miscarriage at week 5 in October. It’s December and I just found out today I’m pregnant again! Tomorrow I’ll be at week 5 so praying for my baby’s viability ❤
Congratulations Celia!!! 💜💜💜 I hope your pregnancy goes smoothly. You are one of the latest comments on here and that’s why I decided to reply to you. I am kind of on the same boat as you… I “think” I had a miscarriage a couple of years ago, and just last Friday I got my positive test result! May God be with us in every step of our journey. ❤️❤️❤️
I’m terrified of pregnancy. I had a stillbirth at 28 weeks last year and just had a miscarriage at 9 weeks last week. Both times I found out during an ultrasound- excited to see my baby. I was blindsided and was emotionally devastated each time. I still struggle with seeing period blood, avoid my friends baby showers and struggle interacting with pregnant women and/or babies. I’ve come a long way with my partner and through journaling and counselling. Despite all this, I will never stop trying to get pregnant. Life is too short to live in fear of what could happen. It’s been over 3 years since we started trying to conceive, but I still have a lot of strength because these pregnancies happened. Wishing you all healthy pregnancies and please don’t lose sight of the idea you’ll be holding your baby one day.
I’m so sorry for your losses. I experienced a loss (after 5 early miscarriages) at 17 weeks that absolutely devastated me. It’s the most painful thing I’ve experienced aside from witnessing my living child through life threatening events. Have you seen any videos on PTSD after miscarriage? Might be a good watch. Again, I am truly sorry for your losses. I admire your positive outlook and hope you have your baby soon ❤
I just had my first miscarriage and I wanted to say it's not comforting for people to remind me how common it is. I think they're worried I'll blame myself and they mean well. However, even if it happened to every single women, it doesn't make it any less devastating or sad. I think it's nice to acknowledge that part of it.
I had a 15 week miscarriage in 2012 and never received a diagnosis or closure. It really messed me up hormonally and mentally for a long time. My heart goes out to everyone who have experienced this sadness. Fast forward to 2023 and I am 31 weeks pregnant and I cannot fully be comfortable due to the fear.
After 2 consecutive miscarriages, and 7 wks pregnant- hearing the statistics about 3 loses in a row made me burst into tears. The only thing that has relaxed me since I found out. Thank you for that. 🙏
Oh my heart. I am so sorry about your miscarriages--they are so hard and suck so much. But I am thrilled to hear about your sweet rainbow baby and I am so glad some of these statistics were able to give you comfort. Sending you baby dust and luck for a smooth and easy pregnancy.
My husband and I miscarried our first baby in January 2023 at 8 weeks. We were devastated. We are on our second cycle of trying again and we are really hoping for a positive test. Thank you for your video!
Lost my first pregnancy and found out I had a benign tumor on one of my parathyroid glands. Had it removed, lost a second pregnancy at four weeks (chemical pregnancy technically). Now pregnant for a third time at six weeks today, but I'm trying to be hopeful. Praying for my rainbow baby 🍼🌈 Talking to the women in my life, I found out nearly all of them have suffered a miscarriage, and they're all mothers with multiple children. More miscarriages happen than you realize, and knowing that made me feel more hope.
I miscarried in July and now I’m pregnant again. I’m about 5 weeks now and I’ve been doing well just taking it day by day. Each day I just say I’m pregnant today and I can only do what I can today to care for my body and baby.
Thank you for the compassion you show. My sister in law miscarried and her doctor treated it like it was nothing. It may be common but that doesn't mean it isn't painful, and she definitely felt like that pain was dismissed. Fortunately she switched providers and they now have a beautiful baby girl.
I had a miscarriage Feb 2021, this video brought up a lot for me. I wish I knew of your videos then. I received more compassion from you on line than with my own doctors. That being said, my husband and I love your videos, I am 35 weeks along awaiting our rainbow baby girl March 2022! Thank you for such wonderful content!
You guys are probably not going to see this, but thank you so much for calming my nerves, I've been so scared lately. Thank you for starting this page❤
Thank you for this video. I had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks, but was told about that when I was 10 weeks. Very heartbreaking. I wish you a sticky, healthy baby!
Would you please consider doing a video on pregnancy risks associated with PCOS, along with general information women with PCOS should keep in mind when trying to get pregnant?
I just discovered my baby has no heartbeat 😢 I had just passed the 8 week mark and my 43rd birthday. I was going to announce the pregnancy to my family tomorrow at my birthday party. I feel like a part of me just died... I wasn't expecting to get pregnant. It happened magically, for the first time ever in my life... and now it's gone. Goodbye baby. 🤧😫
I’ve been watching this couple’s videos since the day i found out I was pregnant. Today I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks. I just can’t express how painful it is..
Was watching your content and was so excited about my baby to be. Just just had a miscarriage and here is this video to view. Bless the mamas that have lost their babies 🙏🏼💕
Oh I am so sorry to hear that Shelrobi. Miscarriage is really hard no matter when it happens in pregnancy. I hope you have wonderful support and lots of hugs (if you are a hugger). Please know you are in our thoughts.
Thank you for touching on the disparities in medicine when it comes to black women and pregnancy! Currently trying for my 3rd child and I’m so nervous because I had a horrible experience with my 2nd child. I felt as though the nurses and providers weren’t listening to me or my body.. and I couldn’t help but think about the statistics.
Since finding out last Saturday that I was pregnant, I have watched all of your first trimester videos. I skipped this one though… that was until today when I started bleeding heavily this morning. I am sad and mourning our baby but thankful for the knowledge that we can get pregnant and can try again. We are holding onto the hope that we will meet our baby one day. 💔💚
Same here. I skipped this one till today too. But I haven't had bleeding. I thought it'd be cool to do progression line with ovulation and positive pregnancy tests where the line gets as dark as control... but yesterday they got so light and this morning was very light and by afternoon when I took 4 more the line was completely gone and digital said not pg. So I guess I'm just waiting to start bleeding. I'm crushed.
Thank you for this video I just had my miscarriage this week. My body passed it naturally, I’m happy I told a close group of friends. Both my husband and them have been very supportive. My family is 3,000miles away and couldn’t be there for me. I am doing fine and feeling hopeful after watching this video.
Thank you for your videos, especially for tackling topics like this too. Every time I hear someone's pregnancy loss story, I hurt for them, and feel a tremendous amount of respect and gratitude toward them. Because of information and stories courageously shared, I feel I can go into TTC with eyes open. Nothing fully prepares you for grief, but I feel more prepared and supported in advance if it does happen. My husband and I are finally really trying (after 6.5 years of marriage), and I'll know next week if this cycle was successful. Again, I'm grateful for all your videos, including this one.
I have to get a D&C for a missed miscarriage. I just learned about this at my 12 week checkup.. the baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. :( I had no idea that could happen. I always thought if you had a miscarriage you'd start having cramps, bleeding, etc. But I never even spotted once. I saw the heartbeat at 8 weeks. I've been following you guys since I found out I was pregnant, and searched your channel to see if you had a video on it. I'm so sad I won't be finishing this journey.. it was my first pregnancy at 32 years old.
Thank you thank you for talking about this and for being so empathetic while doing so. I find a lot of providers will tell you the statistics and tell you not to worry about it and brush it off as unlikely. It would have meant so much to me to have this approach to that conversation before my husband and I started trying to conceive. We’re both under 30 and healthy and we got pregnant on the second try, but unfortunately had a miscarriage at 4 weeks and 6 days and I was absolutely devastated. Two months later and I just got my BFP! I’m only 4 weeks, and hoping it sticks this time. This video was so comforting. I appreciate you!
New Instagram follower and TH-cam subscriber here! So happy to have found your accounts! I just wanted to say thank you for your sharing your personal story, empathy, compassion and zeal for patient education with all of us! I didn't expect to be a healthy 32 year old miscarrying at 10w in August. The most important and meaningful thing I heard from my visits was "you didn't do anything wrong." Even though I knew that, hearing someone tell me that was powerful. My husband and I felt ready to TTC again right away, so I'm happy to follow along with your journey just a few weeks behind at 6w2d :)
Elizabeth!! Welcome and thank you for following along. I am truly sorry to hear about your miscarriage--pregnancy loss really sucks no matter when it happens--and I am so thankful you had a provider who could remind that it was NOT your fault! HUGE CONGRATS on your pregnancy! I am thrilled for your rainbow baby. Please keep us posted on how it's going! Love having mamas to share this experience with.
I had a miscarriage my first pregnancy at 10.5 weeks along and only 25 years old and wasn’t well informed by my OB about the risks and they didn’t see my light bleeding as anything to worry about until the Miss AirTags occurred soon after. We are still trying to get pregnant again now but having trouble. It took us awhile to get pregnant before that it’s hard to have to start all over again. Thank you for your video, wish I saw it sooner. I have shared my experience to spread awareness to others. I never thought would happen to me since I was healthy( good weight, normal labs, and only 25) . We are praying to be blessed with a healthy pregnancy to start our family.
I had two miscarriages both at about 6 weeks. I can’t help but feel like I’ll never get the chance to be a mom. I’m trying my hardest to stay strong, but it’s a mental struggle. Thank you for your video ❤️
Use the time travel fix mistakes subliminal and wish to time travel to when your kids were healthy fetus, alive and not miscarried. Also watch pregnancy affirmation video again, you'll get those kids back
My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at 8 weeks on Mothers Day this year. I am 33 years old It was a blighted ovum and the gestational sac grew up to 6 weeks. My body missed the miscarriage and did not recognize it until weeks after we noted the miscarriage may be occuring. The sac passed naturally. It was absolutely long and devastating and it makes you feel like something is wrong with your body. Particularly a missed miscarriage makes you feel like you can't even trust your body. The trauma from miscarriage followed me every moment I went to the bathroom, and the PTSD triggered uncontrollable tears anytime I remotely saw an ultrasound on TV. Nothing is your fault. More often than nor, there is nothing you did wrong and nothing you could've done to prevent it from occurring. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. We waited for my first period and when emotional ready, we started right away. The following month after miscarrying I am now pregnant with my Rainbow. We saw him on the ultrasound and he has a strong heartbeat and measuring on time. Please keep the faith ladies. Things do not always happen on our time, but it can occur. Keeping all you future and current moms on my thoughts and prayers.❤
My husband and I experienced a stillbirth with our first baby about a year and a half ago. We are TTC again and it’s very scary this time around. But for some reason, this video helped ease my fears. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing. We honestly can't even begin to imagine what it's like to go through that loss... It makes us happy that you've had the time to heal before starting to try again. Good luck lady!
This video helped me a lot, It’s been a week since I had my first pregnancy and I did miscarriage by week 6, I was feeling devastated,but I finally found hope
Ttc baby nr 4 at 33years old. I've now had 3 miscarriages spread between all my girls. It's frustrating, heartbreaking and terrifying. Mc, baby 1, baby 2, Mc, baby 3, Mc(2 cycles ago), ttc. Hoping and praying that baby nr 4 will be here soon. P's. I always remind myself that if I didn't have that miscarriage, I won't have the child I have today(lools, personality etc) since every baby/fetus is unique. Holding thumbs for a safe pregnancy for you guys🤗
Thank you for your kind pregnancy wishes. And I send the same to you mama. The TTC game is so hard, and adding in miscarriages makes it even more heartbreaking. Sending luck and babydust for baby #4!! Keep us posted.
Such a good video... very informative. Thank you. I’ve previously had 2 miscarriages and currently 5 weeks pregnant. Binge watching your videos right now while I lay in bed trying to fall asleep.
I’m 5 weeks pregnant and I have been bleeding, cramping and passing tissue. I really needed to hear “It’s not your fault”… I really needed that so much whatever the outcome comes out to be it’s not my fault…thank you
It’s really not ur fault dear… I’m currently 19 weeks pregnant, my baby has genetic issues which is called trisomy 18, it’s a rare and dangerous condition. Our doctor told us to terminate the pregnancy. We r devastated, I cried for this whole month, why is this happening to me, what I did? Is it the punishment for my sins or what. Bt don’t have any other options bt to agreed to terminate it. It was the hardest and most painful decision of my life. My doctor also told me that it’s not ur fault, it’s God’s will, u can’t do anything about it.
Have barely started this video and felt like I had to leave a comment already. Here I am, at the end of a second consecutive miscarriage (9 weeks pregnant, seems like it was a missed miscarriage since the baby was too small for how far along I was and no heartbeat) and am devastated. Since the beginning of my pregnancy I felt I was left in the dark by the doctors I've seen and it is a horrible feeling. I also wish my miscarriage was better explained to me. I'm determined to find a doctor that will take my concerns seriously and will help me (as much as possible, of course) have a healthy pregnancy. Thank you for your content. It is truly helpful to us all! 💜
My mom had several miscarriages and I've just had the 1 pregnancy resulting in my beautiful son. I just found out I'm 5 weeks pregnant and cautioned my boyfriend to wait a few weeks to tell family and friends. I'm 36 and know how high my risk is and just want to wait, but I'm in love with this baby already ❤
This is right on time. I experienced a chemical pregnancy about 2 weeks ago. I was so excited that for a week, I got 7 positive tests, last test being taken the Friday before I went to the ER the following Monday because I was afraid I was miscarrying. The only thing I did not like is that the physicians did not treat it as a pregnancy and treated me as if I just "thought" I was pregnant.
I saw a quote just recently that captures this feeling for me: "Neither love, nor grief, is measured in weeks". It doesn't matter how far along you are, miscarriage sucks. I am sorry you didn't get the support you needed from the docs who took care of you. Your pain and love for that baby is so real and take the time you need to heal. You are in our thoughts.
Unfortunately I have heard many stories from friends with ER doctors really not showing compassion for miscarriages. It is really sad and horrible to not only hear that you lost your baby, but not having even a little sympathy from the healthcare worker in this terrible time makes it 1000× worse. I was so very lucky, and I know that sounds so strange when it comes to miscarriage, but I had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks and found out at the ultrasound and the ENTIRE staff was so compassionate and understanding while I quite literally felt like I was falling into pieces. Looking back I could not have found out such a terrible thing in a more caring place and that REALLY helped with the healing process afterward. I wish more people especially healthcare providers could be even half that compassionate with delicate matters like loss no matter the weeks. ❤
I'm sorry for your loss Also, I felt the same after mine, then after two months or so, I felt I needed a break from everything. If that happens for you, it's ok to take a break. Maybe even beneficial. Again, sorry for your loss. Hang in there ☀️
Happened to my wife and I. Horrible feeling. But I told her at least we know she can get pregnant. And thank God 23 yes. later we have a beautiful intelligent 23 yr old daughter.So don't give up hope.
I have just experienced this at about 5 weeks 😪 knew it was a possibility but didn't think it would happen to us. We hadn't got really excited about it yet because the positive tests were always faint and we were waiting for the line to get darker, still very upsetting ☹️. thanks for your informative videos and good luck with your baby 🍼👶
I just had a miscarriage at 6 weeks. I’m thankful in a way, doesn’t seem like anything really took. At least I didn’t see a heartbeat first. I was already excited and happy so it hurt.
This was a great video; thank you so much! I am currently 5 weeks pregnant 6 years after a loss and the anxiety about another loss has been real! This video really helped give me some piece of mind, so thank you again.
It makes our hearts so happy to hear this was helpful for you. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers as we wish you the very best for this pregnancy.
I miscarried 4 months ago. I was 10 weeks 😢 We are trying again for our 3rd baby. Thanks for speaking about this! You are so right, we need to talk about this more as a society so that people going through this don’t feel so alone.
I am so sorry for your loss, Ana. And you are NOT alone. So many women experience this and it sucks. It is so hard to lose a pregnancy, no matter where you are along the way. Will be hoping and praying that there is a rainbow baby here in your near future.
First of all, congratulations Shaira!! I hope you are feeling okay so far! So glad the videos are helpful. I remember feeling like I didn't know what was going on and imagined other parents had to feel the same way!!
This video is so incredibly helpful. I experienced a missed miscarriage & had a D&C 2 weeks ago. My mind has been racing with so many questions for my OB, so this has helped to ease that anxiety. My 2 week follow up is today so I have a prepared list of items to discuss with him- still a bit scared that it may happen again as I am 42, but I know that I should just remain calm & not worry myself unnecessarily. I will say that I wasn’t prepared for the confusing emotions I’ve been experiencing, but I’m just trying to ride the waves as they come. Thank you for sharing your journey & offering so much insight & information- it is so greatly appreciated!
Thank you! I just got miscarriage yesterday and I cried out a lot today with my partner. We found out that I was pregnant when we were travelling and as soon as we got back I got bad cramp + bleeding. I share my miscarriage with my mom because I was living there for few weeks once I got back from the trip. Apart from her support, she said 1 thing that hurt me so badly... she said because I travel and walking a lot that's why I got miscarriage... and I just sob in tears
I’m sorry you went through that. I hope you are doing better. I had mine on Monday and my mom said something similar, if it wasn’t for me exercising it wouldn’t have happened.
Thank you for talking about this, it was hard to watch and I did have some tears but not due to being triggered by what you said but because of the compassion you both have. I had a miscarriage and then 9 months later I was pregnant again, it was hard because me and 2 of my sisters were pregnant at the same time and I miscarried and they didn’t but they had so much compassion towards me and my mother didn’t talk about their pregnancies because she didn’t know how it would make me feel because I was devastated and she didn’t want to add to the pain I was already going through but I told my mom of course I wanted to hear about how my sisters are doing I may have miscarried but I wouldn’t blame them for having healthy babies(which they both did I now got a niece and nephew) and I wanted to know all about it and pray daily that they don’t have to go through the pain of miscarriage. My mom was surprised when she heard my rant but understood that being the oldest out of the 3 of us I was worried about my sisters and decided to keep me updated on how they were doing since she talked to them more then I did and I was great full to her for that and also let her know I was great full for her thinking about me and my feelings. My heart goes out to any who have miscarried it’s a devastating process and painful in more then one way. ❤
This is amazing! I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks in October im currently pregancy again after my first period. Im on week 4 and terrified. But hopefully for a sticky baby this time! I just turned 35. Thank u for all the info
I am so sorry for your lost. I too just had a miscarriage, well am currently experiencing it. I want to start as soon as possible to become pregnant again. Thank you for sharing because it gave me allot of hope. 🙏🏾 for a healthy baby and delivery
Wow same position as you! Had a miscarriage just after turning 35, got pregnant 3 months later, now I’m about 8 weeks and first appointment with OB is still in another 3 weeks :( hoping everything is ok! Hope everything is good with you!!!
@@kaz8678 You're giving me hope as well. You and baby are gonna be perfectly fine. A happy healthy pregnancy is what you are going to have. And when you hear him or her heart beat, it's going to be amazing. 3 weeks need to hurry up lol. You got this mommy 😊🤗 take it easy and try not to stress to much.
Thank you guys so much for sharing these things this is my second pregnancy after a miscarriage last year and I’m unsure if this one will end in the same result I’m 6 weeks currently but I’m hopeful that I will have a safe and healthy pregnancy
Lost my baby at week 10 today absolutely devastated went through missed miscarriage. We went to see our first ultrasound and found out there’s no heart beat baby stoped growing two weeks ago. This was our first pregnancy. At age of 37 it’s beyond devastating 💔
Sending prayers your way. The same thing happened to me last July. I was supposed to be 10 weeks when we had an ultrasound but my baby stopped growing at 7 weeks 😢 I was totally devastated.
I had a miscarriage I’m Nov. My first ever pregnancy. I thought I couldn’t even get pregnant. I had gastric bypass & lost over 215lbs so now we’re trying and doing the whole ovulation tracking. Just had my period maybe next cycle 🤞🏼
I just had a miscarriage yesterday. Still dealing with the effects of abdominal pain and bleeding. I have never been in so much pain, i imagin that is what contractions feel like. This was my first pregnancy and I was 1 day away from 8 weeks. My husband and I hope to try again with giving it time. We both are taking it pretty hard.
I just had my first miscarriage. It was emotional devastating. I am sorry for anyway going through now, or how have been through it in the past. Just a few things I wasn't prepared for. I didn't realize how long it could take. I had an ultrasound and confirmed heartbeat and baby was 7 weeks, the next week I started bleeding and confirmed baby no longer had a heartbeat with ultrasound. Bleeding started on a Wednesday, the next Wednesday I was in the ER for heavy bleeding that caused me to pass out. I thought that day was the day I would have lost the baby, but that didn't happen until Sunday. I was not at all prepared for what that would look like, because my doctor also said it would be rare for me to see much but head, eyes, body, arms, and legs were clearly visible and a shock I wasn't emotionally ready for. Also, it has been almost 6 weeks and still have a positive home pregnancy test. I guess I just thought it would be over by now. After all the emotions, and bleeding for 3 weeks, I am learning that it is normal to feel a little physically run down after. I wish more people talked about some of the more uncomfortable truths because what you go through is awful enough, you shouldn't have to feel alone on top of everything.
Can you do a follow up video one day on what to expect after a miscarriage? What to expect for a D&C and after a D&C, or taking tables to have the body expel the pregnancy? My own OB didn't do a very good job giving me information, and had to rush out of the room to see the next patient before I got any answers.
Hello, I have been reading a book on how to improve egg and sperm quality so it could decrease risk of miscarriages. I just lost mine at 6w4d and were so devastated. The book give me much closure on to what to do and prepare for the next pregnancy if given a chance. The book is called it starts with an egg. Hope this can help you too
Just to note its best to call your OB if you suspect a miscarriage anyway because they can do blood tests to see if hcg is low and if you have a negative blood type an Anti D shot may be necessary to prevent a future baby from rhesus syndrome. So I would call my doctor anyway, even if they can’t stop the loss.
i miscarried at 9 wks in 2019 it was heartbreaking and my first blessing. i am now 37 wks with my rainbow baby girl and honestly the scary thought never goes away.. 😞
Oh Giselle, that is so tough. I saw a quote recently that said "Neither love, nor grief, are measured in weeks". It sucks no matter how far along you are when you have a miscarriage, and until you are holding that sweet rainbow baby I think most moms are so nervous. You are going to meet her ANY DAY NOW and I can't wait for you. Sending you wishes for a safe birth!!
I had a miscarriage in 2019, missed abortion, I had to take 7 blood tests due to my hcg going up and down up and down. Then after I went through that. I have had several early miscarriages. Chemical ones. It’s very upsetting seeing a positive because I became aware of the signs just for it to fade later on. Praying for a rainbow baby 🙏
I am part of the “less than one percent” I have had 3 losses in the past year. One at 11 1/2 weeks that nearly killed me, I almost bled to death after using medication at home to pass baby, and 2 chemical pregnancies. Currently 5 weeks 2 days pregnant and terrified. I’ve had 6 children. I am getting up there in age. I turned 40 earlier this year. I feel as though my body is failing me all of a sudden. I know I am beyond blessed to have 6 amazing children. I always dreamed of having 10 kids. I am certain I won’t have 10 kids now, but was hoping for one more. It’s very heartbreaking to experience so much loss especially when I know the joy of a healthy problem free pregnancy! My first appointment is scheduled for just shy of 8 weeks and I’m already terrified to go.
I am also the less than 1%. Discovered at my 18 week appointment that baby didn't have a heartbeat and had to go in to deliver. I wish there was more information dedicated to that less than 1%
@@justinechantale7181I ended up losing the baby I was pregnant with just shy of 14 weeks. I’ve had 12 miscarriages since having my last child 5 years ago. I had 6 children. Then started having recurrent miscarriages every time I get pregnant. I swear I’m convinced it’s because I had to have a C-section with my last 2 babies. That the C-section ruined my uterus or something. I can get pregnant every month. Literally. I just can’t stay pregnant. It’s crazy.
Unfortunately today I found out that I have a blighted ovum. There is just a empty sac, nothing is growing there. My hCG levels are increasing. I am heartbroken.
I had a miscarriage two days ago, baby was 13weeks 4 days, waiting for the D&C. This was my first pregnancy and I’m completely devastated, the pain and despair I feel is unimaginable. 😢 this video gives me hope in trying again
I went into labor at 19 weeks and the baby didn’t survive. Then I miscarried at 8 weeks. I’m currently pregnant and I’m 16weeks 6 days and I can’t relax. I’m constantly anxious and when I go to my appointments I start sweating. I don’t think I’ll be able to relax until I’m at least 30weeks. Please pray for me!
I recently had a miscarriage at 8+2 and I did end up seeing my baby. It might be uncommon but I really wish I had been told that it could happen because standing in the bathroom with my dead baby in my hand was not a situation I was prepared for. I'm sure the experience would have been less traumatic if my doctors had just told me it could happen and also options on what to do with it.
Less than %2? Man, I hope so. I had a loss last year and I am pregnant again (4wks). I have not even let myself smile about this one yet. I am really just waiting for bad news again. I cried every day for 5 months after my loss at 11wks in September.
We saw ultrasound heartbeat at 8? weeks. We had just announced our first (finally!) at 11 weeks. We had to explain miscarriage at 12 weeks. It IS heartbreaking, and we are still in the shock phase, as it's been less than a week. I advise everyone, if possible, Get a Genetic Screen. It may not influence any decisions, but you might get an answer on _WHY_ you lost your child. We wouldn't know WHY our child passed, or boy or girl, except the test came back only a couple hours before I took my wife to the ER just after it started. The ER docs were able to tell us we had lost a girl to Turner's/monosomy-X. Now we at least could give a name to the baby we'll never see. 😭😭😭 Without a genetic test, we'd still be wondering what WE did wrong, rather than being told 'there was nothing you could have done.' Maybe we'll stop blaming ourselves at some point. We're still sobbing. Sorry, Bjorkmans, had to unsubscribe. I was loving your vids, now they're too painful to watch. I hope to return, but I don't know when.
A lot of love from Portugal ❤ Also lost my princess to Turner Syndrome one month ago. I agree that it really helped to know why. It gets better! 🌈 Hang on tight
I'm so sorry for your loss. It still sounds like there's nothing you could have done to prevent it. What do you suggest you could do to prevent that? Is that what you mean? Again, so sorry for your loss.
I had ectopic and chemical In last 2 years. I been trying for over 5. It's heartbreaking and scary. I blame myself At first but it's not my fault.I'm in my TWW fingers crossed.Sending love and hope and baby dust to you all❤️
My aunt had 4 miscarriages before she found out she had a condition (forgot the name) it was causing her miscarriages by not letting her carry to term so to stay pregnant she had to take some kind of medication (forgot the name) now whe has a healthy 7 year old daughter
It's confusing to read or hear that recurrent miscarriages is so low, yet there are so many TH-cam videos and even the comments here with women who have experienced it.
I hear that, Leanna, and I'm not exactly sure why that is. Maybe partly because people don't share their heartbreak as often if they have one miscarriage and then get pregnant after that? Unclear. And if you are in the small group with recurrent miscarriages, it certainly doesn't feel like a rare occurrence.
Maybe because woman who have experienced one or more miscarriages are more likely to watch content about miscarriages on TH-cam and to leave a comment.
I am 34 and I had my first miscarriage on Sunday at 8 weeks. I also don't have any other children. When I found out I was pregnant I was shocked because we had been trying months before but had stopped trying since I thought maybe I was unable to have children. So, when we did get pregnant it was unexpected. My blood pressure was high before apparently, so at my first appointment it stood at 186/112, and over different doctor's appointments, even after changing my diet and continuing to exercise it went to about 165/101 consistently. I started spotting on Tuesday, up until Sunday morning at 4 a.m., where I saw alot of blood and tissue. I am hurt, angry and sad and pretty much afraid this is it. There will never be another chance. 😔
I’m currently 8 weeks went for my first US to find out baby isn’t growing. Dr said he doesn’t think this is a good pregnancy and offered me different options. I told him I needed some time to think. Im 38 and this is my first pregnancy and now my first loss. I didn’t think I could get pregnant, I didn’t track my ovulation. But now I know I can and would like to actually try again. I had every pregnancy symptom until the next day from that appt. Every symptom just faded away.
Can you all do a video on Placental Abruption. I had one at 22 weeks pregnant and it came out of nowhere. I don’t drink, smoke or have any blood pressure issues. I did have gestational diabetes with that pregnancy. Thanks
I am so so sorry to hear about your abruption and loss. Pregnancy loss at any stage is devastating, so you have my heart and love and prayers. Thank you for the suggestion--that might work in well in one of our later trimester videos.
My husband's friend and his wife had a miscarriage January 2022. I believe she was around 13 weeks. It was heartbreaking for them. She had to undergo many surgeries to remove everything. But through all of that they learned she has endometriosis, and something else related to the fallopian tubes. They want to keep trying once she is cleared medically and are even thinking about IVF.
Hi!thanks for all your effort put into quality content! It's really helpful. I read somewhere that if you have experienced a miscarriage, then at the next pregnancy, the risk of loss is much lower. Is this true, are there studies?
I have been left waiting as my gestational sac seems a bit smaller than expected for the size of embryo. I’m 7w pregnant from ovulation. Doctor said be ready and scheduled a scan in 2 weeks. I am considering a second opinion/private scan This is horrible!
I just found out yesterday our baby has no heartbeat at 9.5 weeks. This is my 2nd miscarriage and we are far from ok. We are so broken and have no clue as to what the next steps are. We literally walked out in a panic after we were informed. I'm just so broken.
Hello, I have been reading a book on how to improve egg and sperm quality so it could decrease risk of miscarriages. I just lost mine at 6w4d and were so devastated. The book give me much closure on to what to do and prepare for the next pregnancy if given a chance. The book is called it starts with an egg. Hope this can help you too
When you say that miscarriage risk goes down at week 8, are you counting the weekend starting at ovulation or at the first day of your last period? Thank you so so much for your channel, so much valuable information ❤
I am 77 years old. I have waited 52 years to find out my miscarriage wasn't my fault. I am so grateful. It was an ache that never went away.
I had a miscarriage at week 5 in October. It’s December and I just found out today I’m pregnant again! Tomorrow I’ll be at week 5 so praying for my baby’s viability ❤
Congratulations Celia!!! 💜💜💜 I hope your pregnancy goes smoothly.
You are one of the latest comments on here and that’s why I decided to reply to you. I am kind of on the same boat as you… I “think” I had a miscarriage a couple of years ago, and just last Friday I got my positive test result!
May God be with us in every step of our journey. ❤️❤️❤️
@@mimiibarra1887 God bless you in your pregnancy journey too! So far so good over here❤️
May God bless you and your little one 🙏 may this be your rainbow baby 🌈 🙏
Wish you all the best throughout the pregnancy and motherhood ❤
I love this!
I’m terrified of pregnancy. I had a stillbirth at 28 weeks last year and just had a miscarriage at 9 weeks last week. Both times I found out during an ultrasound- excited to see my baby. I was blindsided and was emotionally devastated each time. I still struggle with seeing period blood, avoid my friends baby showers and struggle interacting with pregnant women and/or babies. I’ve come a long way with my partner and through journaling and counselling. Despite all this, I will never stop trying to get pregnant. Life is too short to live in fear of what could happen. It’s been over 3 years since we started trying to conceive, but I still have a lot of strength because these pregnancies happened. Wishing you all healthy pregnancies and please don’t lose sight of the idea you’ll be holding your baby one day.
I’m so sorry for your losses. I experienced a loss (after 5 early miscarriages) at 17 weeks that absolutely devastated me. It’s the most painful thing I’ve experienced aside from witnessing my living child through life threatening events. Have you seen any videos on PTSD after miscarriage? Might be a good watch. Again, I am truly sorry for your losses. I admire your positive outlook and hope you have your baby soon ❤
I just had my first miscarriage and I wanted to say it's not comforting for people to remind me how common it is. I think they're worried I'll blame myself and they mean well. However, even if it happened to every single women, it doesn't make it any less devastating or sad. I think it's nice to acknowledge that part of it.
I had a 15 week miscarriage in 2012 and never received a diagnosis or closure. It really messed me up hormonally and mentally for a long time. My heart goes out to everyone who have experienced this sadness. Fast forward to 2023 and I am 31 weeks pregnant and I cannot fully be comfortable due to the fear.
Same happened to me at 15 weeks too. I can totally relate. I wish you a healthy baby and easy labour!
After 2 consecutive miscarriages, and 7 wks pregnant- hearing the statistics about 3 loses in a row made me burst into tears. The only thing that has relaxed me since I found out. Thank you for that. 🙏
Oh my heart. I am so sorry about your miscarriages--they are so hard and suck so much. But I am thrilled to hear about your sweet rainbow baby and I am so glad some of these statistics were able to give you comfort. Sending you baby dust and luck for a smooth and easy pregnancy.
@@TheDoctorsBjorkman dust and luck? They need prayers to the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ
I had 2 back to back miscarriages and my next pregnancy was a healthy baby girl!🎉 she was born December 2021!
I would rather hear I cannot happen again 😢
My husband and I miscarried our first baby in January 2023 at 8 weeks. We were devastated. We are on our second cycle of trying again and we are really hoping for a positive test. Thank you for your video!
I had a miscarriage on 9/11/21 and never got a period and became pregnant again immediately I'm 8 months pregnant due in june 2022
Lost my first pregnancy and found out I had a benign tumor on one of my parathyroid glands. Had it removed, lost a second pregnancy at four weeks (chemical pregnancy technically). Now pregnant for a third time at six weeks today, but I'm trying to be hopeful. Praying for my rainbow baby 🍼🌈 Talking to the women in my life, I found out nearly all of them have suffered a miscarriage, and they're all mothers with multiple children. More miscarriages happen than you realize, and knowing that made me feel more hope.
I miscarried in July and now I’m pregnant again. I’m about 5 weeks now and I’ve been doing well just taking it day by day. Each day I just say I’m pregnant today and I can only do what I can today to care for my body and baby.
How did your pregnancy go Mikaela? This advice is so comforting
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This is a beautiful statement. Thank you.
Thank you for the compassion you show. My sister in law miscarried and her doctor treated it like it was nothing. It may be common but that doesn't mean it isn't painful, and she definitely felt like that pain was dismissed. Fortunately she switched providers and they now have a beautiful baby girl.
I had a miscarriage Feb 2021, this video brought up a lot for me. I wish I knew of your videos then. I received more compassion from you on line than with my own doctors. That being said, my husband and I love your videos, I am 35 weeks along awaiting our rainbow baby girl March 2022! Thank you for such wonderful content!
You guys are probably not going to see this, but thank you so much for calming my nerves, I've been so scared lately. Thank you for starting this page❤
I’m now today 20 weeks but I still have constant worries of losing this baby we have wanted this for so long and love the baby so much already
How was ur pregnancy journey kayla griffin?
Thank you for this video. I had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks, but was told about that when I was 10 weeks. Very heartbreaking. I wish you a sticky, healthy baby!
Oh Kateryna, my heart hurts for you--miscarriage is so so hard and sometimes very lonely. I wish you a sticky, healthy baby too, friend!
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Me too ❤
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I just discovered my baby has no heartbeat 😢 I had just passed the 8 week mark and my 43rd birthday. I was going to announce the pregnancy to my family tomorrow at my birthday party. I feel like a part of me just died... I wasn't expecting to get pregnant. It happened magically, for the first time ever in my life... and now it's gone. Goodbye baby. 🤧😫
🤍🤍 I'm 39, going through the same thing. Sending you a hug🤍🤍
I’ve been watching this couple’s videos since the day i found out I was pregnant. Today I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks. I just can’t express how painful it is..
I was in the same situation, 5months later and I'm still trying to get pregnant :( I was 4 weeks
Just had one today.
How old were you?
Was watching your content and was so excited about my baby to be. Just just had a miscarriage and here is this video to view.
Bless the mamas that have lost their babies 🙏🏼💕
Oh I am so sorry to hear that Shelrobi. Miscarriage is really hard no matter when it happens in pregnancy. I hope you have wonderful support and lots of hugs (if you are a hugger). Please know you are in our thoughts.
@@TheDoctorsBjorkman oh my goodness you’re so sweet to reply back to my heart break. I was just about to start 6 weeks😞
God bless the both of you 🙏🏼💕
Thank you for touching on the disparities in medicine when it comes to black women and pregnancy! Currently trying for my 3rd child and I’m so nervous because I had a horrible experience with my 2nd child. I felt as though the nurses and providers weren’t listening to me or my body.. and I couldn’t help but think about the statistics.
Since finding out last Saturday that I was pregnant, I have watched all of your first trimester videos. I skipped this one though… that was until today when I started bleeding heavily this morning. I am sad and mourning our baby but thankful for the knowledge that we can get pregnant and can try again. We are holding onto the hope that we will meet our baby one day. 💔💚
Same here. I skipped this one till today too. But I haven't had bleeding. I thought it'd be cool to do progression line with ovulation and positive pregnancy tests where the line gets as dark as control... but yesterday they got so light and this morning was very light and by afternoon when I took 4 more the line was completely gone and digital said not pg. So I guess I'm just waiting to start bleeding. I'm crushed.
Thank you for this video I just had my miscarriage this week. My body passed it naturally, I’m happy I told a close group of friends. Both my husband and them have been very supportive. My family is 3,000miles away and couldn’t be there for me. I am doing fine and feeling hopeful after watching this video.
Thank you for your videos, especially for tackling topics like this too. Every time I hear someone's pregnancy loss story, I hurt for them, and feel a tremendous amount of respect and gratitude toward them. Because of information and stories courageously shared, I feel I can go into TTC with eyes open. Nothing fully prepares you for grief, but I feel more prepared and supported in advance if it does happen. My husband and I are finally really trying (after 6.5 years of marriage), and I'll know next week if this cycle was successful. Again, I'm grateful for all your videos, including this one.
I have to get a D&C for a missed miscarriage. I just learned about this at my 12 week checkup.. the baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. :( I had no idea that could happen. I always thought if you had a miscarriage you'd start having cramps, bleeding, etc. But I never even spotted once. I saw the heartbeat at 8 weeks.
I've been following you guys since I found out I was pregnant, and searched your channel to see if you had a video on it. I'm so sad I won't be finishing this journey.. it was my first pregnancy at 32 years old.
Thank you thank you for talking about this and for being so empathetic while doing so. I find a lot of providers will tell you the statistics and tell you not to worry about it and brush it off as unlikely. It would have meant so much to me to have this approach to that conversation before my husband and I started trying to conceive. We’re both under 30 and healthy and we got pregnant on the second try, but unfortunately had a miscarriage at 4 weeks and 6 days and I was absolutely devastated. Two months later and I just got my BFP! I’m only 4 weeks, and hoping it sticks this time. This video was so comforting. I appreciate you!
New Instagram follower and TH-cam subscriber here! So happy to have found your accounts! I just wanted to say thank you for your sharing your personal story, empathy, compassion and zeal for patient education with all of us! I didn't expect to be a healthy 32 year old miscarrying at 10w in August. The most important and meaningful thing I heard from my visits was "you didn't do anything wrong." Even though I knew that, hearing someone tell me that was powerful. My husband and I felt ready to TTC again right away, so I'm happy to follow along with your journey just a few weeks behind at 6w2d :)
Elizabeth!! Welcome and thank you for following along. I am truly sorry to hear about your miscarriage--pregnancy loss really sucks no matter when it happens--and I am so thankful you had a provider who could remind that it was NOT your fault! HUGE CONGRATS on your pregnancy! I am thrilled for your rainbow baby. Please keep us posted on how it's going! Love having mamas to share this experience with.
I had a miscarriage my first pregnancy at 10.5 weeks along and only 25 years old and wasn’t well informed by my OB about the risks and they didn’t see my light bleeding as anything to worry about until the Miss AirTags occurred soon after. We are still trying to get pregnant again now but having trouble. It took us awhile to get pregnant before that it’s hard to have to start all over again. Thank you for your video, wish I saw it sooner. I have shared my experience to spread awareness to others. I never thought would happen to me since I was healthy( good weight, normal labs, and only 25) . We are praying to be blessed with a healthy pregnancy to start our family.
Same boat except 8 weeks. Would love to hear if you’ve been successful since. ❤️
I lost my twin last week 😞 it was my second miscarriage. My heart is broken and feeling drowning in pain
I had two miscarriages both at about 6 weeks. I can’t help but feel like I’ll never get the chance to be a mom. I’m trying my hardest to stay strong, but it’s a mental struggle. Thank you for your video ❤️
Use the time travel fix mistakes subliminal and wish to time travel to when your kids were healthy fetus, alive and not miscarried. Also watch pregnancy affirmation video again, you'll get those kids back
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My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at 8 weeks on Mothers Day this year. I am 33 years old It was a blighted ovum and the gestational sac grew up to 6 weeks. My body missed the miscarriage and did not recognize it until weeks after we noted the miscarriage may be occuring. The sac passed naturally.
It was absolutely long and devastating and it makes you feel like something is wrong with your body. Particularly a missed miscarriage makes you feel like you can't even trust your body. The trauma from miscarriage followed me every moment I went to the bathroom, and the PTSD triggered uncontrollable tears anytime I remotely saw an ultrasound on TV.
Nothing is your fault. More often than nor, there is nothing you did wrong and nothing you could've done to prevent it from occurring.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel. We waited for my first period and when emotional ready, we started right away. The following month after miscarrying I am now pregnant with my Rainbow. We saw him on the ultrasound and he has a strong heartbeat and measuring on time. Please keep the faith ladies. Things do not always happen on our time, but it can occur. Keeping all you future and current moms on my thoughts and prayers.❤
My husband and I experienced a stillbirth with our first baby about a year and a half ago. We are TTC again and it’s very scary this time around. But for some reason, this video helped ease my fears. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing. We honestly can't even begin to imagine what it's like to go through that loss... It makes us happy that you've had the time to heal before starting to try again. Good luck lady!
I hope and pray that everything will be better the 2nd time around. I am so sorry you experienced this!
Thank you for this. I am actively miscarrying right now and there was something very calming about this video.
This video helped me a lot, It’s been a week since I had my first pregnancy and I did miscarriage by week 6, I was feeling devastated,but I finally found hope
Ttc baby nr 4 at 33years old. I've now had 3 miscarriages spread between all my girls. It's frustrating, heartbreaking and terrifying. Mc, baby 1, baby 2, Mc, baby 3, Mc(2 cycles ago), ttc. Hoping and praying that baby nr 4 will be here soon. P's. I always remind myself that if I didn't have that miscarriage, I won't have the child I have today(lools, personality etc) since every baby/fetus is unique. Holding thumbs for a safe pregnancy for you guys🤗
Thank you for your kind pregnancy wishes. And I send the same to you mama. The TTC game is so hard, and adding in miscarriages makes it even more heartbreaking. Sending luck and babydust for baby #4!! Keep us posted.
Such a good video... very informative. Thank you. I’ve previously had 2 miscarriages and currently 5 weeks pregnant. Binge watching your videos right now while I lay in bed trying to fall asleep.
Hey... so today Iam officially 10 weeks. I feel better knowing made it this far but still super scared..
Praying for the best!
I’m 5 weeks pregnant and I have been bleeding, cramping and passing tissue. I really needed to hear “It’s not your fault”… I really needed that so much whatever the outcome comes out to be it’s not my fault…thank you
Hey sweetie how are you doing now?
It’s really not ur fault dear…
I’m currently 19 weeks pregnant, my baby has genetic issues which is called trisomy 18, it’s a rare and dangerous condition. Our doctor told us to terminate the pregnancy. We r devastated, I cried for this whole month, why is this happening to me, what I did? Is it the punishment for my sins or what. Bt don’t have any other options bt to agreed to terminate it. It was the hardest and most painful decision of my life.
My doctor also told me that it’s not ur fault, it’s God’s will, u can’t do anything about it.
@@n0l990 sorry for your loss.
Thank you for this video! I think that reminder at the end that it’s not my fault was much needed
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Have barely started this video and felt like I had to leave a comment already. Here I am, at the end of a second consecutive miscarriage (9 weeks pregnant, seems like it was a missed miscarriage since the baby was too small for how far along I was and no heartbeat) and am devastated. Since the beginning of my pregnancy I felt I was left in the dark by the doctors I've seen and it is a horrible feeling. I also wish my miscarriage was better explained to me. I'm determined to find a doctor that will take my concerns seriously and will help me (as much as possible, of course) have a healthy pregnancy.
Thank you for your content. It is truly helpful to us all! 💜
My mom had several miscarriages and I've just had the 1 pregnancy resulting in my beautiful son. I just found out I'm 5 weeks pregnant and cautioned my boyfriend to wait a few weeks to tell family and friends. I'm 36 and know how high my risk is and just want to wait, but I'm in love with this baby already ❤
This is right on time. I experienced a chemical pregnancy about 2 weeks ago. I was so excited that for a week, I got 7 positive tests, last test being taken the Friday before I went to the ER the following Monday because I was afraid I was miscarrying. The only thing I did not like is that the physicians did not treat it as a pregnancy and treated me as if I just "thought" I was pregnant.
I saw a quote just recently that captures this feeling for me: "Neither love, nor grief, is measured in weeks". It doesn't matter how far along you are, miscarriage sucks. I am sorry you didn't get the support you needed from the docs who took care of you. Your pain and love for that baby is so real and take the time you need to heal. You are in our thoughts.
Sending you lots of love!
Unfortunately I have heard many stories from friends with ER doctors really not showing compassion for miscarriages. It is really sad and horrible to not only hear that you lost your baby, but not having even a little sympathy from the healthcare worker in this terrible time makes it 1000× worse.
I was so very lucky, and I know that sounds so strange when it comes to miscarriage, but I had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks and found out at the ultrasound and the ENTIRE staff was so compassionate and understanding while I quite literally felt like I was falling into pieces. Looking back I could not have found out such a terrible thing in a more caring place and that REALLY helped with the healing process afterward. I wish more people especially healthcare providers could be even half that compassionate with delicate matters like loss no matter the weeks. ❤
I just had a miscarriage and it has been devastating! The only thing that makes me feel okay is planning, and prepping to get pregnant again!
I'm sorry for your loss
Also, I felt the same after mine, then after two months or so, I felt I needed a break from everything. If that happens for you, it's ok to take a break. Maybe even beneficial.
Again, sorry for your loss. Hang in there ☀️
Happened to my wife and I. Horrible feeling. But I told her at least we know she can get pregnant. And thank God 23 yes. later we have a beautiful intelligent 23 yr old daughter.So don't give up hope.
I have just experienced this at about 5 weeks 😪 knew it was a possibility but didn't think it would happen to us. We hadn't got really excited about it yet because the positive tests were always faint and we were waiting for the line to get darker, still very upsetting ☹️. thanks for your informative videos and good luck with your baby 🍼👶
I just had a miscarriage at 6 weeks. I’m thankful in a way, doesn’t seem like anything really took. At least I didn’t see a heartbeat first. I was already excited and happy so it hurt.
This was a great video; thank you so much! I am currently 5 weeks pregnant 6 years after a loss and the anxiety about another loss has been real! This video really helped give me some piece of mind, so thank you again.
It makes our hearts so happy to hear this was helpful for you. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers as we wish you the very best for this pregnancy.
I miscarried 4 months ago. I was 10 weeks 😢
We are trying again for our 3rd baby.
Thanks for speaking about this! You are so right, we need to talk about this more as a society so that people going through this don’t feel so alone.
I am so sorry for your loss, Ana. And you are NOT alone. So many women experience this and it sucks. It is so hard to lose a pregnancy, no matter where you are along the way. Will be hoping and praying that there is a rainbow baby here in your near future.
i just found out I'm pregnant and I'm 5 weeks now. It's our first and your videos are really helpful for me and my husband. Thank you!
First of all, congratulations Shaira!! I hope you are feeling okay so far! So glad the videos are helpful. I remember feeling like I didn't know what was going on and imagined other parents had to feel the same way!!
@@TheDoctorsBjorkman I miscarried 2 days ago at 5 weeks pregnancy. I am worried what might have caused it and how to prevent it from happening again.
This video is so incredibly helpful. I experienced a missed miscarriage & had a D&C 2 weeks ago. My mind has been racing with so many questions for my OB, so this has helped to ease that anxiety. My 2 week follow up is today so I have a prepared list of items to discuss with him- still a bit scared that it may happen again as I am 42, but I know that I should just remain calm & not worry myself unnecessarily. I will say that I wasn’t prepared for the confusing emotions I’ve been experiencing, but I’m just trying to ride the waves as they come. Thank you for sharing your journey & offering so much insight & information- it is so greatly appreciated!
Hi,can I ask if it happened for you?
Thank you!
I just got miscarriage yesterday and I cried out a lot today with my partner.
We found out that I was pregnant when we were travelling and as soon as we got back I got bad cramp + bleeding. I share my miscarriage with my mom because I was living there for few weeks once I got back from the trip. Apart from her support, she said 1 thing that hurt me so badly... she said because I travel and walking a lot that's why I got miscarriage... and I just sob in tears
I’m sorry you went through that. I hope you are doing better. I had mine on Monday and my mom said something similar, if it wasn’t for me exercising it wouldn’t have happened.
Thank you for talking about this, it was hard to watch and I did have some tears but not due to being triggered by what you said but because of the compassion you both have. I had a miscarriage and then 9 months later I was pregnant again, it was hard because me and 2 of my sisters were pregnant at the same time and I miscarried and they didn’t but they had so much compassion towards me and my mother didn’t talk about their pregnancies because she didn’t know how it would make me feel because I was devastated and she didn’t want to add to the pain I was already going through but I told my mom of course I wanted to hear about how my sisters are doing I may have miscarried but I wouldn’t blame them for having healthy babies(which they both did I now got a niece and nephew) and I wanted to know all about it and pray daily that they don’t have to go through the pain of miscarriage. My mom was surprised when she heard my rant but understood that being the oldest out of the 3 of us I was worried about my sisters and decided to keep me updated on how they were doing since she talked to them more then I did and I was great full to her for that and also let her know I was great full for her thinking about me and my feelings. My heart goes out to any who have miscarried it’s a devastating process and painful in more then one way. ❤
This is amazing! I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks in October im currently pregancy again after my first period. Im on week 4 and terrified. But hopefully for a sticky baby this time! I just turned 35. Thank u for all the info
I am so sorry for your lost. I too just had a miscarriage, well am currently experiencing it. I want to start as soon as possible to become pregnant again. Thank you for sharing because it gave me allot of hope. 🙏🏾 for a healthy baby and delivery
Wow same position as you! Had a miscarriage just after turning 35, got pregnant 3 months later, now I’m about 8 weeks and first appointment with OB is still in another 3 weeks :( hoping everything is ok! Hope everything is good with you!!!
@@kaz8678 You're giving me hope as well. You and baby are gonna be perfectly fine. A happy healthy pregnancy is what you are going to have. And when you hear him or her heart beat, it's going to be amazing. 3 weeks need to hurry up lol. You got this mommy 😊🤗 take it easy and try not to stress to much.
And I just turned 35 too 😫
I’m 11 weeks but just found out yesterday baby stopped growing at 9 weeks. We saw the heartbeat at 7 weeks and everything was fine 😭
Thank you guys so much for sharing these things this is my second pregnancy after a miscarriage last year and I’m unsure if this one will end in the same result I’m 6 weeks currently but I’m hopeful that I will have a safe and healthy pregnancy
Lost my baby at week 10 today absolutely devastated went through missed miscarriage. We went to see our first ultrasound and found out there’s no heart beat baby stoped growing two weeks ago. This was our first pregnancy. At age of 37 it’s beyond devastating 💔
Sending prayers your way. The same thing happened to me last July. I was supposed to be 10 weeks when we had an ultrasound but my baby stopped growing at 7 weeks 😢 I was totally devastated.
Sorry! You will be pregnant
I had a miscarriage I’m Nov. My first ever pregnancy. I thought I couldn’t even get pregnant. I had gastric bypass & lost over 215lbs so now we’re trying and doing the whole ovulation tracking. Just had my period maybe next cycle 🤞🏼
I experienced my first chemical pregnancy yesterday and I'm praying that we'll conceive soon 🙏🏽
What is chemical pregnancy
@@aroundtheworld2367 when you miscarried very early
Miscarried 2 days ago at 5 weeks...really stressed out
@@aroundtheworld2367 sorry to hear that ❤️
When did you get back to your normal period
I just had a miscarriage yesterday. Still dealing with the effects of abdominal pain and bleeding. I have never been in so much pain, i imagin that is what contractions feel like. This was my first pregnancy and I was 1 day away from 8 weeks. My husband and I hope to try again with giving it time. We both are taking it pretty hard.
I'm so sorry. I'm in the same place today. I hope you can heal and you're able to have a healthy pregnancy in the future. The grief is so hard.
@@streamstriss I'm so sorry for your loss too. Its amazing how much we already loved the little baby before even knowing it. ❤️
The most helpful video on miscarriage out there. Thank you!
I miscarried at 11 weeks in April this year first pregnancy. About to test, 2 days past my expected period. Hoping for the best.
I just had my first miscarriage. It was emotional devastating. I am sorry for anyway going through now, or how have been through it in the past. Just a few things I wasn't prepared for. I didn't realize how long it could take. I had an ultrasound and confirmed heartbeat and baby was 7 weeks, the next week I started bleeding and confirmed baby no longer had a heartbeat with ultrasound. Bleeding started on a Wednesday, the next Wednesday I was in the ER for heavy bleeding that caused me to pass out. I thought that day was the day I would have lost the baby, but that didn't happen until Sunday. I was not at all prepared for what that would look like, because my doctor also said it would be rare for me to see much but head, eyes, body, arms, and legs were clearly visible and a shock I wasn't emotionally ready for. Also, it has been almost 6 weeks and still have a positive home pregnancy test. I guess I just thought it would be over by now. After all the emotions, and bleeding for 3 weeks, I am learning that it is normal to feel a little physically run down after. I wish more people talked about some of the more uncomfortable truths because what you go through is awful enough, you shouldn't have to feel alone on top of everything.
Can you do a follow up video one day on what to expect after a miscarriage? What to expect for a D&C and after a D&C, or taking tables to have the body expel the pregnancy? My own OB didn't do a very good job giving me information, and had to rush out of the room to see the next patient before I got any answers.
Hello, I have been reading a book on how to improve egg and sperm quality so it could decrease risk of miscarriages. I just lost mine at 6w4d and were so devastated. The book give me much closure on to what to do and prepare for the next pregnancy if given a chance. The book is called it starts with an egg. Hope this can help you too
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Just to note its best to call your OB if you suspect a miscarriage anyway because they can do blood tests to see if hcg is low and if you have a negative blood type an Anti D shot may be necessary to prevent a future baby from rhesus syndrome. So I would call my doctor anyway, even if they can’t stop the loss.
i miscarried at 9 wks in 2019 it was heartbreaking and my first blessing. i am now 37 wks with my rainbow baby girl and honestly the scary thought never goes away.. 😞
Oh Giselle, that is so tough. I saw a quote recently that said "Neither love, nor grief, are measured in weeks". It sucks no matter how far along you are when you have a miscarriage, and until you are holding that sweet rainbow baby I think most moms are so nervous. You are going to meet her ANY DAY NOW and I can't wait for you. Sending you wishes for a safe birth!!
@@TheDoctorsBjorkman thank you so much 🤍
I had a miscarriage in 2019, missed abortion, I had to take 7 blood tests due to my hcg going up and down up and down. Then after I went through that. I have had several early miscarriages. Chemical ones. It’s very upsetting seeing a positive because I became aware of the signs just for it to fade later on. Praying for a rainbow baby 🙏
I am part of the “less than one percent” I have had 3 losses in the past year. One at 11 1/2 weeks that nearly killed me, I almost bled to death after using medication at home to pass baby, and 2 chemical pregnancies. Currently 5 weeks 2 days pregnant and terrified. I’ve had 6 children. I am getting up there in age. I turned 40 earlier this year. I feel as though my body is failing me all of a sudden. I know I am beyond blessed to have 6 amazing children. I always dreamed of having 10 kids. I am certain I won’t have 10 kids now, but was hoping for one more. It’s very heartbreaking to experience so much loss especially when I know the joy of a healthy problem free pregnancy! My first appointment is scheduled for just shy of 8 weeks and I’m already terrified to go.
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I am also the less than 1%. Discovered at my 18 week appointment that baby didn't have a heartbeat and had to go in to deliver. I wish there was more information dedicated to that less than 1%
How are you doing?
@@justinechantale7181I ended up losing the baby I was pregnant with just shy of 14 weeks. I’ve had 12 miscarriages since having my last child 5 years ago. I had 6 children. Then started having recurrent miscarriages every time I get pregnant. I swear I’m convinced it’s because I had to have a C-section with my last 2 babies. That the C-section ruined my uterus or something. I can get pregnant every month. Literally. I just can’t stay pregnant. It’s crazy.
Miscarried at 9 weeks on Thursday. Absolutely devastated.
I am 38 years old, first time pregnant at 5 weeks. I pray it will go smoothly for me…
Unfortunately today I found out that I have a blighted ovum. There is just a empty sac, nothing is growing there. My hCG levels are increasing. I am heartbroken.
I'm sorry
I had a miscarriage two days ago, baby was 13weeks 4 days, waiting for the D&C. This was my first pregnancy and I’m completely devastated, the pain and despair I feel is unimaginable. 😢 this video gives me hope in trying again
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss 😢 I hope god blesses you with a healthy baby once you try again ❤
I lost my baby at 13 weeks too. The DNC was the hardest part. I 100% know what you’re going through 😢
I went into labor at 19 weeks and the baby didn’t survive. Then I miscarried at 8 weeks. I’m currently pregnant and I’m 16weeks 6 days and I can’t relax. I’m constantly anxious and when I go to my appointments I start sweating. I don’t think I’ll be able to relax until I’m at least 30weeks. Please pray for me!
How was your pregnancy this time?
@@evangelynramirez9077 I’ll be 39 weeks on Thursday!
@@abigailhernandez6889 good for you ma’am.. me in sensitive journey.. cramps and etc...at 21 weeks..
I recently had a miscarriage at 8+2 and I did end up seeing my baby. It might be uncommon but I really wish I had been told that it could happen because standing in the bathroom with my dead baby in my hand was not a situation I was prepared for. I'm sure the experience would have been less traumatic if my doctors had just told me it could happen and also options on what to do with it.
Less than %2? Man, I hope so. I had a loss last year and I am pregnant again (4wks). I have not even let myself smile about this one yet. I am really just waiting for bad news again.
I cried every day for 5 months after my loss at 11wks in September.
We saw ultrasound heartbeat at 8? weeks. We had just announced our first (finally!) at 11 weeks. We had to explain miscarriage at 12 weeks. It IS heartbreaking, and we are still in the shock phase, as it's been less than a week. I advise everyone, if possible, Get a Genetic Screen. It may not influence any decisions, but you might get an answer on _WHY_ you lost your child. We wouldn't know WHY our child passed, or boy or girl, except the test came back only a couple hours before I took my wife to the ER just after it started.
The ER docs were able to tell us we had lost a girl to Turner's/monosomy-X.
Now we at least could give a name to the baby we'll never see. 😭😭😭 Without a genetic test, we'd still be wondering what WE did wrong, rather than being told 'there was nothing you could have done.' Maybe we'll stop blaming ourselves at some point. We're still sobbing.
Sorry, Bjorkmans, had to unsubscribe. I was loving your vids, now they're too painful to watch. I hope to return, but I don't know when.
A lot of love from Portugal ❤ Also lost my princess to Turner Syndrome one month ago. I agree that it really helped to know why. It gets better! 🌈 Hang on tight
I'm so sorry for your loss. It still sounds like there's nothing you could have done to prevent it. What do you suggest you could do to prevent that? Is that what you mean?
Again, so sorry for your loss.
Thank you for this!!! I am 9 weeks pregnant today and this is a constant fear!
Congrats! :)
I had ectopic and chemical In last 2 years. I been trying for over 5. It's heartbreaking and scary. I blame myself
At first but it's not my fault.I'm in my TWW fingers crossed.Sending love and hope and baby dust to you all❤️
Thank you. Very reassuring video during a hard time
This video is so reassuring to me. Thank you so much for doing what you do.
Currently ttc post miscarriage and I think I might be pregnant! Fingers crossed!
I just had a miscarriage last week, ER dr said it wasn't but got confirmed miscarriage yesterday.
Hardest thing I've ever had to go through 😭😭😭
Watching this now is so reassuring, I’m 6 weeks and a day and feeling pretty good so far, but still a bit worried about the risks.
My aunt had 4 miscarriages before she found out she had a condition (forgot the name) it was causing her miscarriages by not letting her carry to term so to stay pregnant she had to take some kind of medication (forgot the name) now whe has a healthy 7 year old daughter
Great scrunchie :) and information of course!
Yay, thank you lady!
Thanks for the great information!
Hard topic to talk about but important!
I know this is an older video but could you guys talk about use of progesterone in early pregnancy to help prevent MC. I have had 2 consecutive ones.
This video is awesome. Love that you are reflecting sympathy and empathy ❤️
It's confusing to read or hear that recurrent miscarriages is so low, yet there are so many TH-cam videos and even the comments here with women who have experienced it.
I hear that, Leanna, and I'm not exactly sure why that is. Maybe partly because people don't share their heartbreak as often if they have one miscarriage and then get pregnant after that? Unclear. And if you are in the small group with recurrent miscarriages, it certainly doesn't feel like a rare occurrence.
Maybe because woman who have experienced one or more miscarriages are more likely to watch content about
miscarriages on TH-cam and to leave a comment.
I am 34 and I had my first miscarriage on Sunday at 8 weeks. I also don't have any other children. When I found out I was pregnant I was shocked because we had been trying months before but had stopped trying since I thought maybe I was unable to have children. So, when we did get pregnant it was unexpected. My blood pressure was high before apparently, so at my first appointment it stood at 186/112, and over different doctor's appointments, even after changing my diet and continuing to exercise it went to about 165/101 consistently. I started spotting on Tuesday, up until Sunday morning at 4 a.m., where I saw alot of blood and tissue. I am hurt, angry and sad and pretty much afraid this is it. There will never be another chance. 😔
Never give up. You Will be pregnant
I’m currently 8 weeks went for my first US to find out baby isn’t growing. Dr said he doesn’t think this is a good pregnancy and offered me different options. I told him I needed some time to think. Im 38 and this is my first pregnancy and now my first loss. I didn’t think I could get pregnant, I didn’t track my ovulation. But now I know I can and would like to actually try again. I had every pregnancy symptom until the next day from that appt. Every symptom just faded away.
Can you all do a video on Placental Abruption. I had one at 22 weeks pregnant and it came out of nowhere. I don’t drink, smoke or have any blood pressure issues. I did have gestational diabetes with that pregnancy. Thanks
I am so so sorry to hear about your abruption and loss. Pregnancy loss at any stage is devastating, so you have my heart and love and prayers. Thank you for the suggestion--that might work in well in one of our later trimester videos.
My husband's friend and his wife had a miscarriage January 2022. I believe she was around 13 weeks. It was heartbreaking for them. She had to undergo many surgeries to remove everything. But through all of that they learned she has endometriosis, and something else related to the fallopian tubes. They want to keep trying once she is cleared medically and are even thinking about IVF.
I just had a miscarriage last week and I’m all over the place in thought.
Hi!thanks for all your effort put into quality content! It's really helpful. I read somewhere that if you have experienced a miscarriage, then at the next pregnancy, the risk of loss is much lower. Is this true, are there studies?
Can u do a video of coping with each other when mom is having symptoms
I found empty sac at 7 week pregnancy. Its so hurt. Its my first ever baby for my life. heart broken.
I have been left waiting as my gestational sac seems a bit smaller than expected for the size of embryo. I’m 7w pregnant from ovulation.
Doctor said be ready and scheduled a scan in 2 weeks.
I am considering a second opinion/private scan
This is horrible!
Thank you so much for doing this important video ❤
I just found out yesterday our baby has no heartbeat at 9.5 weeks. This is my 2nd miscarriage and we are far from ok. We are so broken and have no clue as to what the next steps are. We literally walked out in a panic after we were informed. I'm just so broken.
Hello, I have been reading a book on how to improve egg and sperm quality so it could decrease risk of miscarriages. I just lost mine at 6w4d and were so devastated. The book give me much closure on to what to do and prepare for the next pregnancy if given a chance. The book is called it starts with an egg. Hope this can help you too
@@mintyink7694 thank you for for your suggestion I will look into getting that book.
When you say that miscarriage risk goes down at week 8, are you counting the weekend starting at ovulation or at the first day of your last period? Thank you so so much for your channel, so much valuable information ❤
I’m very grateful for this channel. Thank you doctors ❤️ I’m currently 7 weeks 🤰
Thank you! We’re glad to know you’re finding our videos helpful.
Would you mind linking the book that you mentioned? Thank yiu
Thank you for sharing all of this.