TIMESTAMPS How to greet people 0:33 Never be late 1:01 Men and women 1:38 How to dress properly 2:01 How to behave at the table 3:34 How to sit correctly 4:08 How to behave at a restaurant 4:46 Pouring and drinking 6:08 How to drink tea properly 6:30
BRIGHT SIDE honestly, I really don't see any of these rules of etiquette being observed, unless you're in certain situations where there's someone who is a real stickler for these rules of etiquette
This is the reason why I don't go out with other people. I came from a poor family and just nice to everyone without remembering so many dos and don'ts.
Thank you for your help in teaching us what we forgot or never was taught. The lady sitting, is correct in her position. My comment is a thanks for not comparing to the Queen. She has always been correct, doesn’t need to be teased, just because you don’t know. Reminds me of Miss Manners. More, more!
Hi BRIGHT SIDE, you might want to have a look at cultural differences, some of the mentioned etiquettes - such as the hands off the table or the handshake, differ between countries, a mention of that could be a nice addition in my opinion :)
I've basically lived by these etiquette since I was young. I don't follow it all the time, but it's actually nice to know there are other people like me😊 you'd never know when you'd need 'em😙
1:49 Never forget to introduce others! A certain of person I know never does this, so I have to introduce myself when the new person asks who I am, or when I have to tell my 'friend' something. :| 2:55 There's a saying for the buttons on men's jackets. "Sometimes, always, never." If it's a three button jacket the top button can be however you want, the middle button is always done, the bottome button is never done. IIRC for a two button jacket it's "always, never" but I could be wrong.
My parent's taught my sibling's and I etiquette, as did our grandparent's. I learned how to use it better ,when I was made protocol officer or something like that... I had been in AFJROTC. We would have banquet's for awards that I don't recall, if I ever won one. However, the school photographer took my photo with some of my then fiance friends around me. The question in the album asked , if I was a princess or future president and it was eerily correct about me being a Royal Princess. My dad's relative in the 16-1700's married a member of the Queen's family making me a British Royal having been born in the UK. My birth certificate I held with the Attorney General, as where all Royal birth certificates are held. I was shocked to find out ,although the registrar didn't title me a princess, he put it on paper with a lion on it recognising the significance of my dad's name. Now, I understand why I've been treated better, since finding out. My title is on the Electoral register. As it is now on the Electoral register, it is appropriate for me to use my title on my documents and such to identify that I'm amongst the Royal Family and potentially on my mum's side, too. The name Potter is prevalent in both side's of my family that is significant ,also as there is something about the name and my Royal Jewish heritage. So, as a Royal living as a Commoner ; I know you must be polite and courteous at all times, even when ill.
Etiquette is something I was bought up with and I'm really pleased to be able to pass it down to my children and grandchildren. You don't have to follow it all the time, however it is good to know when you are in polite company :-) Kim from New Zealand
I agree. Of course it depends on where you are, who you are with and circumstances. People scoff at this but if they were going to another country they'd want to learn their etiquette rules so as not to look rude.
I tried to remember all of these configurations for placing my silverware on my plate the last time I went to a nice restaurant, and somehow my knife and fork cussed out the server and I was kicked out of the restaurant.
To me when my husband helps carring my purse it means he's being a gentleman ...some of these are ridiculous ...sometimes its ok to not be so proper its just boring 😒
Tom Andrews He doesn't do all the time omg but if ever my hands are full he will and its only for few mins and he doesn't mind at all even when i ask to give it back he's like its ok...iyi...its a backpack purse beacuse we have a toddler so i always carry something for her. Gosh you say it like its such a freakin bad thing for your man to do that and its not depending on the situation 😒😁
Going into fitting rooms is the number one reason. All of these rules are man made which mean someone made them up! I love breaking rules that I can't be overpowered for. I used to have really thin forearms and never wore watches as they never fit, but kept getting them as gifts. so I would wear it for a while on my upper arm and it drove people absolutely bat dung crazy! I got ragged on for how I carried my handbag (like a football) and even eating my food swapped together! Let people be themselves!
I am always conscious of this so use the cupped hand method, this infuses warmth and genuine concern. It also requires no pressure. Alternatively kissing a ladies hand is often unexpected and conveys a warm but professional and confident persona. We are too stuck up in the UK. I always ask before doing something and always serve my interlocutors whatever the setting.
Yes, no matter how good looking you are you would look appalling and uncouth without politeness...manners and courteousness is what lands class and charm to your persona.
Thank you this is so good! I did not know some of table rules especially the different ways to position my folk and knife (based on what I want to express). I’m looking forward to implementing what I’ve learned.
Because you could say that very phrase until you're blue in the face and some very dense folks will still not have clue ONE about how to behave. FYI not all slobs are men.
About knife and fork position: different angle will have different look. I place horizontal way, but the waiter sees vertically. It may apply when 1 waiter/table for the entire time. He doesn't have anything else to do besides staring at the guest's table. 3+ tables/waiter, he only has time to breath.
I was taught all these mannors at the table with the exception of the liking or not liking and waiting for seconds 🤔 I'll have to memorize the fork and knife on the plate! 😱
i do really like specially about the girls clothes combination 😊😘 nicely well done.. and the how to place fork and knife properly 😊💕 thank you bright side .. 😍💕 (2019 here) 😁😄
I think that etiquette is still very important to follow. Today's society has either completely forgotten about it, or they have never been taught/ learned it. (Sad)
The knife and fork thing would only work and be noticed in a really, really posh restaurant. The kind of restaurant most people watching this can't afford to go to. You think the college kids that serve you your food care how your knife and fork sit?! As long as they are in the plate and you haven't gotten the edges of the plate dirty, all is good.
Omg that is so not the real life over here at all. Even if I would do the fork & knife thing on my plate I am 100% sure the waiter person will have zero clue what the positions means and all the dirty dishes are pile on top of each others so no one sees them anyway.....mmmmm maybe the dishwasher person will "read" the message I send hah haaa
I saw a movie of the times of the French Revolution how a gentleman asked a lady to dance; he did bow and she made a reverence (not sure what's the appropriate word for the lady's gesture). When I was a kid in France a French girl, neighbor of my French aunt and uncle, did the reverence to my mom when she met her. I was in awe. I doubt they still do this nowadays!
Add; while standing in a line, let someone ahead of you if they Have products in their arms. You can still load the counter, while they unload. Be prepared for them to be pleased and surprised.
Add; holding doors open no matter gender or age. Since some people look normal but may have Autism, don’t get upset too quickly if they aren’t helping.I have a grandson, 19, that the whole family has been teaching. We remind him about the door, or send him back to the door. He does this without an attitude.
Etiquette is rarely used these days, it's all about convience and easy way out, trying to finish as much as possible in a short amount of time! America is always on the go!! 🤔
When it comes to being served, unless the dish is cold, or the queen is present, you can eat before everyone else is served. So if the meal is warm or hot, tuck in straight away.
He may have had a frequent social life, just more casual than the ritualistic engagements depicted here. Strict rule and ritual followers tend to be bores in my opinion. I personally like a more lively set. I was raised by a grandmother who practiced many of these customs as she worked for rich people and witnessed it regularly. We were taught them but never passed them on. A lot of elbows and cell phones on my children's tables.
You don't need to be rich for living know how. It's second nature for the middle class in a lot of countries around the world. Never found these gatherings boring at all; on the contrary, always looked forward to these lively social gatherings.
Every country, family, or culture have different things that they consider to be proper etiquette. This more so leans into etiquette lessons of the English and British in my opinion. Not to mention every single person has their own views for what they think about etiquette in general.
It's not even that, it's solely upper-class English at that. Some of these would horrify some of my older family members, and I'm British (under/working class).
Jonathan Springs so if I am understanding correctly you are telling me to stare directly at the sun because I've already done that and I already beat it in a staring contest literally I literally beat the Sun at a staring contest something no one would ever expect but yes it's possible and I did it
yes etiquette n dressing is very important. will you please do another video on etiquette and or dressing for men and women the proper colors for the different seasons please. I love the bright side! Renee Baltimore Maryland
I admit I cracked up by the time they got through the venting on men's jackets versus the proper woman's attire. Average build or full build should try vented, or double-vented suits, but women should wear dark skirts of pants because it emphasizes a woman's figure. You would think they'd use build throughout and not fall back on such a sterotypical thing to say about women's clothes when they've been so gentle about men's 'builds'. I mean...! Good advice on how to sit, though, advising we take up less space and be more polite! Oh, and to whomever wrote this, you're not drying your lipstick with a tissue before drinking but blotting them. Lipstick is generally not wet unless it's liquid lipstick.
TIMESTAMPS
How to greet people 0:33
Never be late 1:01
Men and women 1:38
How to dress properly 2:01
How to behave at the table 3:34
How to sit correctly 4:08
How to behave at a restaurant 4:46
Pouring and drinking 6:08
How to drink tea properly 6:30
BRIGHT SIDE Can you do a video of back to school like a better way of wearing clothes the hair style? Etc. Pls
BRIGHT SIDE honestly, I really don't see any of these rules of etiquette being observed, unless you're in certain situations where there's someone who is a real stickler for these rules of etiquette
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As im in army I know all of this stuff.and you are doing such good stuff by telling people about these things.
I also want to go in army...you are lucky sir
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So nice of you, and Salute🙏
This is the reason why I don't go out with other people. I came from a poor family and just nice to everyone without remembering so many dos and don'ts.
I tried the knife and fork positioning on the plate when I was at Golden Coral. Oddly, it went unnoticed.
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Thank you for your help in teaching us what we forgot or never was taught.
The lady sitting, is correct in her position. My comment is a thanks for not comparing to the Queen. She has always been correct, doesn’t need to be teased, just because you don’t know.
Reminds me of Miss Manners.
More, more!
Yes, these rules are very important to know
Hi BRIGHT SIDE, you might want to have a look at cultural differences, some of the mentioned etiquettes - such as the hands off the table or the handshake, differ between countries, a mention of that could be a nice addition in my opinion :)
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I've basically lived by these etiquette since I was young. I don't follow it all the time, but it's actually nice to know there are other people like me😊 you'd never know when you'd need 'em😙
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I'll just leave a spoon in my mouth,after I'm finished eating and wave at the waiter with my fork for more food,lol.
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1:49 Never forget to introduce others! A certain of person I know never does this, so I have to introduce myself when the new person asks who I am, or when I have to tell my 'friend' something. :|
2:55 There's a saying for the buttons on men's jackets. "Sometimes, always, never." If it's a three button jacket the top button can be however you want, the middle button is always done, the bottome button is never done. IIRC for a two button jacket it's "always, never" but I could be wrong.
I love this , thanks for sharing
My parent's taught my sibling's and I etiquette, as did our grandparent's. I learned how to use it better ,when I was made protocol officer or something like that... I had been in AFJROTC. We would have banquet's for awards that I don't recall, if I ever won one. However, the school photographer took my photo with some of my then fiance friends around me. The question in the album asked , if I was a princess or future president and it was eerily correct about me being a Royal Princess.
My dad's relative in the 16-1700's married a member of the Queen's family making me a British Royal having been born in the UK. My birth certificate I held with the Attorney General, as where all Royal birth certificates are held. I was shocked to find out ,although the registrar didn't title me a princess, he put it on paper with a lion on it recognising the significance of my dad's name. Now, I understand why I've been treated better, since finding out. My title is on the Electoral register.
As it is now on the Electoral register, it is appropriate for me to use my title on my documents and such to identify that I'm amongst the Royal Family and potentially on my mum's side, too. The name Potter is prevalent in both side's of my family that is significant ,also as there is something about the name and my Royal Jewish heritage. So, as a Royal living as a Commoner ; I know you must be polite and courteous at all times, even when ill.
So pleased I was brought up with manners and etiquette.
Etiquette is something I was bought up with and I'm really pleased to be able to pass it down to my children and grandchildren.
You don't have to follow it all the time, however it is good to know when you are in polite company :-)
Kim from New Zealand
I agree. Of course it depends on where you are, who you are with and circumstances. People scoff at this but if they were going to another country they'd want to learn their etiquette rules so as not to look rude.
You mean "brought" up...
I really like to learn ettiquets and most of them I really do😊
I tried to remember all of these configurations for placing my silverware on my plate the last time I went to a nice restaurant, and somehow my knife and fork cussed out the server and I was kicked out of the restaurant.
Oh my! 🤪🤯
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Good tips ,
Shame some people were dragged up & not bought up.
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To me when my husband helps carring my purse it means he's being a gentleman ...some of these are ridiculous ...sometimes its ok to not be so proper its just boring 😒
Is there a reason you can't carry your own purse? If not, the right thing to do would be to carry it and not let your husband do it.
Tom Andrews He doesn't do all the time omg but if ever my hands are full he will and its only for few mins and he doesn't mind at all even when i ask to give it back he's like its ok...iyi...its a backpack purse beacuse we have a toddler so i always carry something for her. Gosh you say it like its such a freakin bad thing for your man to do that and its not depending on the situation 😒😁
Going into fitting rooms is the number one reason. All of these rules are man made which mean someone made them up! I love breaking rules that I can't be overpowered for. I used to have really thin forearms and never wore watches as they never fit, but kept getting them as gifts. so I would wear it for a while on my upper arm and it drove people absolutely bat dung crazy! I got ragged on for how I carried my handbag (like a football) and even eating my food swapped together! Let people be themselves!
Shaaron Evans Hope you are having a great night, and yes be yourself👍 forget those that wint understand 😁
Awww! Thank you Annabelle! I am having a great night and hope you are too!
Men always break my hand when they shake it. Somebody needs to watch this...
Especially if you have arthritis. 😉😉
I am always conscious of this so use the cupped hand method, this infuses warmth and genuine concern. It also requires no pressure. Alternatively kissing a ladies hand is often unexpected and conveys a warm but professional and confident persona. We are too stuck up in the UK. I always ask before doing something and always serve my interlocutors whatever the setting.
A man may offer to help with the purse ... What's wrong with that 🤔
You sure are beautiful !
Bright Side is starting to sound like my mother.....
Well u could do that. But being a good person also means, trying not to offend eachother.
But I have never heard the guy asking you, 'have you eaten your meal?' or 'how is your health?'(whenever you're ill).
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this is the best episode you have aired... i'm positive most of us, myself included, need more Emily Post in our lives.
Hi and I like this video and stay positive like always!🤗😜
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Good attitude direction, ... Bravo.
Yes and thank you for the video
Yes, no matter how good looking you are you would look appalling and uncouth without politeness...manners and courteousness is what lands class and charm to your persona.
Good job, bright side.
Would love to know more.👍
Thank you so much!
Thank you this is so good! I did not know some of table rules especially the different ways to position my folk and knife (based on what I want to express). I’m looking forward to implementing what I’ve learned.
Wonderful work
So royal I love them and will definitely follow
If you like, but for the love of sanity don't ever say Cambridge the way this guy does.
i like it ! i would like to share with you this skakespeare's quote about time :"Better three hours too soon than a minute too late."
all the best.
I am supposed to sleep rn but I'm here
Good job
Oh, the horror of some of these antiquated rules. How about just say "Be a good person" and leave it at that?
Yeah, i agree with you
John Labus that's it
Because you could say that very phrase until you're blue in the face and some very dense folks will still not have clue ONE about how to behave. FYI not all slobs are men.
It's a bit general for a wide array of situations.
only a good person is not enough, manners and politeness is important.
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About knife and fork position: different angle will have different look. I place horizontal way, but the waiter sees vertically.
It may apply when 1 waiter/table for the entire time. He doesn't have anything else to do besides staring at the guest's table. 3+ tables/waiter, he only has time to breath.
Thank you friend. I used to know this, but lost this knowledge as my years progressed. You have my gratitude.
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Good video!👍👍
I have broke holding a woman's purse etiquette so many times T_T
I was taught all these mannors at the table with the exception of the liking or not liking and waiting for seconds 🤔 I'll have to memorize the fork and knife on the plate! 😱
Don't! Crossing cutlery is a superstition for many older people of my acquaintance. My grandmother freaked if I ever did that!
Enjoyed it thank you.
i do really like specially about the girls clothes combination 😊😘 nicely well done.. and the how to place fork and knife properly 😊💕 thank you bright side .. 😍💕 (2019 here) 😁😄
Very insightful and helpful
No 2 i will try and remember
I'm familiar with many of them in my country except for the fork and knives roles anyway I think it's important
I think that everyone should know these things mostly for when ur older my aunt and her family are very strict about this and people should be
I'm impressed that I knew most of these, my parents did always value proper manners when raising their children
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I come from a different side of the world 😂and I didn't know about some of the things. Good video!
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Nice video very useful also
I needed this.
I think that etiquette is still very important to follow. Today's society has either completely forgotten about it, or they have never been taught/ learned it. (Sad)
The knife and fork thing would only work and be noticed in a really, really posh restaurant. The kind of restaurant most people watching this can't afford to go to.
You think the college kids that serve you your food care how your knife and fork sit?! As long as they are in the plate and you haven't gotten the edges of the plate dirty, all is good.
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Omg that is so not the real life over here at all. Even if I would do the fork & knife thing on my plate I am 100% sure the waiter person will have zero clue what the positions means and all the dirty dishes are pile on top of each others so no one sees them anyway.....mmmmm maybe the dishwasher person will "read" the message I send hah haaa
You are right, I tried it a few times my waiter did'n't know about it.
I'm annoyed when the server doesnt look and takes my plate. Sometimes they ask but usually not.
Depends on where you are eating. 5 star hotels and Fine Dine restaurants do follow these rules.
Well sure sure. We got none of those "fancy" places over here !
shweta gupta not all the times. i only eat at 5 stars restaurants i found if the waiter is not accustom to it it will not matter.
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What century is this?
Penny Tarr if you mean to country where these rules are then a country that wants to inslave us all and make us suffer
21st
@@damonormsby1851 then it's obviously Britain 😂😂😂
Imagine if you were at the club and instead of every guy that tried to get your attention by tapping you on the shoulder , he’d bow
I saw a movie of the times of the French Revolution how a gentleman asked a lady to dance; he did bow and she made a reverence (not sure what's the appropriate word for the lady's gesture). When I was a kid in France a French girl, neighbor of my French aunt and uncle, did the reverence to my mom when she met her. I was in awe. I doubt they still do this nowadays!
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Add; while standing in a line, let someone ahead of you if they Have products in their arms. You can still load the counter, while they unload. Be prepared for them to be pleased and surprised.
Simple nd sweet rules.
Nice video
Adding to watch later so I can review.
Add; holding doors open no matter gender or age.
Since some people look normal but may have Autism, don’t get upset too quickly if they aren’t helping.I have a grandson, 19, that the whole family has been teaching. We remind him about the door, or send him back to the door. He does this without an attitude.
Etiquette is rarely used these days, it's all about convience and easy way out, trying to finish as much as possible in a short amount of time! America is always on the go!! 🤔
Wow!
When it comes to being served, unless the dish is cold, or the queen is present, you can eat before everyone else is served. So if the meal is warm or hot, tuck in straight away.
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I'm from Kentucky and my wife is from London. Boy, I have a lot to learn.
O wow I’m a savage
No, you are not! I'd bet you just did not grow up in an environment of frequent social life.
I did, so all this comes as second nature to me.
He may have had a frequent social life, just more casual than the ritualistic engagements depicted here. Strict rule and ritual followers tend to be bores in my opinion. I personally like a more lively set. I was raised by a grandmother who practiced many of these customs as she worked for rich people and witnessed it regularly. We were taught them but never passed them on. A lot of elbows and cell phones on my children's tables.
You don't need to be rich for living know how. It's second nature for the middle class in a lot of countries around the world. Never found these gatherings boring at all; on the contrary, always looked forward to these lively social gatherings.
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@@freespeech6999 I think he was joking dear.
Every country, family, or culture have different things that they consider to be proper etiquette. This more so leans into etiquette lessons of the English and British in my opinion.
Not to mention every single person has their own views for what they think about etiquette in general.
It's not even that, it's solely upper-class English at that. Some of these would horrify some of my older family members, and I'm British (under/working class).
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Caleb Carl yes
Gosh instead of remembering all these stuff , I'll prefer to eat with my hands 😂😂😂😂
Wao...didn't know this maybe that's why I look 90s
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Jonathan Springs so if I am understanding correctly you are telling me to stare directly at the sun because I've already done that and I already beat it in a staring contest literally I literally beat the Sun at a staring contest something no one would ever expect but yes it's possible and I did it
Damon Ormsby wow... What a feat!
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How to get your phone stolen 101 don't put it on the table 🙄. It can be on the table and not in use
yes etiquette n dressing is very important. will you please do another video on etiquette and or dressing for men and women the proper colors for the different seasons please. I love the bright side! Renee Baltimore Maryland
My mom made me watch this😒
She did a good thing, only if u remembered something from it!
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I love bright side....
Nice
I admit I cracked up by the time they got through the venting on men's jackets versus the proper woman's attire. Average build or full build should try vented, or double-vented suits, but women should wear dark skirts of pants because it emphasizes a woman's figure. You would think they'd use build throughout and not fall back on such a sterotypical thing to say about women's clothes when they've been so gentle about men's 'builds'. I mean...! Good advice on how to sit, though, advising we take up less space and be more polite! Oh, and to whomever wrote this, you're not drying your lipstick with a tissue before drinking but blotting them. Lipstick is generally not wet unless it's liquid lipstick.
Here rule I made up myself. Cover your mouth with napkin when your about to burp.
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Life is way too simple and fun to complicate it with such 'rules' as there are none :)
I'm breaking all of these.
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