What do you think it means to be a true lady? Also, be sure to check these etiquette rules if you wanna be a real lady th-cam.com/video/F19UQrXCY7w/w-d-xo.html
I was taught that a lady was kind to everyone and treated friend or stranger with respect and consideration. A lady can be dressed in rags and still retain her poise and dignity. I always think of the character Melanie, from Gone With The Wind, as being the epitome of a true lady.
So being a lady now means that I need to please everyone by trying so hard at being perfect? A girl doesn't need to be perfect in order to be a lady, it's enough that she's respectful and respectable. I can't believe i wasted my 10 minutes eatching this.
So, your logic is, not wearing baggy clothes = yeast infections? I don't wear baggy clothes. Never have, and I never had an yeast infection. Have you ever heard of simply properly-fitting clothes? The implication of the video wasn't "don't wear baggy clothes, wear too-tightly-fitted clothes", it was what it said: a true lady doesn't wear baggy clothes, she wears properly fitting clothes, because baggy clothes - though comfortable for some (not for me, personally) - make you look clumsy, heavy, and larger than you are.
"She", as in "a true lady", as in "a true lady would never wear baggy clothes", which you are not because you choose to wear baggy clothes even though they're not lady like. Nothing wrong with that. Your choice. But that means you're not a lady. Ladies abide by certain etiquette rules. You can't be a lady, if you don't abide by them. You can't have your cake and eat it, too.
Or how about maybe people have learned from experience that exercising, eating right, not slouching, and putting your best foot forward is just a healthy way to live. Guys have lists like this too you know. A strong person wouldn’t be so easily offended by something like this.
Ellie May: by your comment it seems as though you don't know the first thing about being a strong person. The REAL strong people were the women who fought for equal rights. This video promotes the idea that a woman's value is based on her outward appearance rather than her thoughts and mind. It supports the ideology that all women should be the steriotypical "housewife" that follows the above guidelines set in place for her by her domineering husband. And I don't think anyone can learn anything good from that.
Faith Parlapiano Apparently you see what you want to see. This is just a video with some classic etiquette examples. It’s not telling you to do anything. It didn’t bring up rights, or suggest that outward appearance determines your worth. I’m not threatened by it’s suggestions. I’m sorry that you can’t see that.
Ellie May As a real lady that practices all these things from a young age, I agree with you. They are just narcissistic and egomaniacs that get easily offended and triggered. That's not ladylike behaviour. It's an entitled, spoiled, 12 year old brat behaviour, dependent on Facebook 'likes' to feel better.
So I'm not a real lady if I am not feminine, don't conform to stereotypes, and lack fashion and makeup sense? I call BS. I love my oversized clothes and gender non-conforming habits. (No, I'm not nonbinary. I just have habits that anyone can have.)
Blue Lion I read on another comment chain that you were trying to imitate people whining. It kind of reminds me of when someone can't think of a good comeback, and they repeat what the other person said in a high-pitched voice.
I completely agree. I’m a 13 yr old girl and I think all of these are horrible stereotypes to push onto women and girls. If this is being a ‘lady’ then I never want be one.
"Better not to dance at all than to dance badly" so a true lady can never have fun? I think true lady doesn't care about what others may think of her and has a good time
Lei abunch of girls at my school do this probably gonna say that with a bad reaction but they have normal friends not like the wierd kids who hang out with wierd kids
You're right. All women are beautiful the way they are. But if you are doing business or interviewing someone you'll have to follow the rules. It could .. let's just say.. ruin your work.
Okay, here’s my thought. No matter our background, we all want to feel good about ourselves. Using techniques such as these will help enormously. To be truly comfortable, one must use “good manners” ALL the time , not just when needed. That way, it’ll come natural when that special moment comes. It is said that there is no more beautiful feature on a lady then the confidence she fills the room with. So gosh darn go show them you’re ladylike manners. 😜
Idk why but I feel like being a lady hard when watching this video, there's a comparison to being a lady and ordinary girl, so it means that every girl who watch this video will be shocked or criticize
I was taught all this in the 50's at a small age. My mom, taught us to be ladies. She taught us all and how to walk and talk. So, I find you can spot a real lady. And I don't see too many. But, my aunt always said I would rather BE A WOMEN.
PS Went to a dance studio and did something I never did at a professional function. I slouched...at the table...I was always taught from Mom to teacher to stop slouching ....but...it didn't help
hotu first there's a difference between a "lady" and a "woman". With that said; I think you mean are there really ladies who do all this? My answer; I consider myself a lady and I don't do ALL of these however I do a lot of these; but I think the not saying "bless you" thing is rediculous and is more about being politically correct than being a lady. A REAL lady is well mannered, polite, classy, and has a strong moral compass. Saying "bless you" is being polite imo... The bless you example is just one that really stuck out for me.
Bi Vonsel I'd agree with that IF they are doing these things because a video tells them to; if they do these things because that's just who they are and how they roll then it has nothing to do with being manipulated.
what I learnd at fashion design school sometime beige or white heels are better than black , black dosn't always look good with everything. It is all abut color shade.
This video is horrific. Why can't one talk at the volume she wants? Or wear the color of heels that she chooses? Or eat the food she wants? Or wear the kind of makeup that she wants? Why do tights have to be worn? Why can't we dance? I'm astounded at how sexist this video is, and I'm not even an extreme feminist! How was this thought to be okay before being uploaded?
I hate how their forcing or trying to persuade you to be a "lady" we're lady's no matter what happens Makeup however is a way to express yourself EATING IS A WHOLE OTHER LEVEL NINA pizza is pizza soup is soup you is you there's no point of telling me how to eat my ramen or chicken noodle soup
I don't agree with the 'accepting food or drink/wine' part. People get drugged or poisoned. The Spirit of God is needed for guidance in all situations.
Same here. There's people who abstain from tea, coffee and alcohol for their own reasons. I personally abstain for religious and family history reasons and I'm not prepared to go against them. Guess I can't be a real lady. 🤔😂
I think putting trust in your host is probably OK. If you are so paranoid that you need to get it yourself, even though its rude, then stay home. You are safer there anyhow.
katy goodrich This is where my painful Victorian era upbringing comes useful. Colours in clothing and footwear is very precise. Black is rarely worn, you wear black when mourning or a minor - yet important - meeting or formal event. Red is never worn, never not unless you want to set the record of being the most scandalous woman in the manor - in footwear the clothing is more lenient. Unless dress code is bright colours, romance or red you will rarely even see the colour red in your wardrobe (this is British etiquette standard the Spanish, Russian etceteras etiquettes do vary) though red us allowed during the festive season. Skin coloured clothing footwear is a waiting disaster. It blends too well with your skin and that is a key point as one must always tell your shoes from feet. Now it is precise - I will admit but if you follow it you are seen as educated. I wear bell gowns and corsets and you do not see my shoes but you still follow the code of clothing and footwear.
A true lady this... a true lady that... all i hear is sexist 50s messages. Accept for the one about taking care of yourself. It's always important to do that.
I was hoping to find things like, how to sit properly and how to act around others in social engagements. They might be fashion rules when it comes to being lady like but these things on the list have kinda taken it to the next level
you stop telling what to do or what not to do. see? having an opinion is a good thing, it's also ok if you disagree with something. though, honestly, these rules do not make sense and omit very important personal and behavioral aspects of a lady.
I'm raised in a Asian family and this is definitely what they've taught me. These etiquettes probably doesn't suit everyone, but this is best video ever if you want to go outside your comfort zone and build your manner. No offense, also, I'm sorry for my English.
Wait...fidgeting will RUIN your reputation? Ruin, she said. Well honey, consider me ruined. I play with my hair. I ruined my chance of being a lady at 6 months old.
GossipGurl2314 It's a habit. I played with my mothers hair when I was 6 months old. Im 37 and still do it at times. I don't think it makes me look like a liar. It's more self soothing than any thing. Liars will usually cover their mouths when they speak or at least that is what body language experts say
Be gracious, treat people with kindness and respect - especially service personnel. Handle compliments gracefully by returning a compliment if you can or just by simply saying thank you. Take pride in the person that you are, and treat others the way you would like to be treated. Man or woman, we should all be judged on the CONTENT OF OUR CHARACTER, not by external trappings like clothes and purses.
You know what I don't care about what others think about my wardrobe, comfy will always be better than fashion. Comfortable clothes will never backstab you, unlike the new trending heels.
This video has taught me that I dont act like a lady. I do not follow up on most of these. Makeup makes my face puff up. You also shouldn't worry about how other people think of you either. Heck, I wear oversized jackets and shirts but that doesn't mean that I'm not lady like. No girl or guy hould have to change the way she looks just because of other people. This video talks about being perfect which no human is! 👌😁😁😁
One time I got misgendered, they thought I was a boy when I was actually a girl, just by the way I sounded, laughed & dressed, but I actually do wear baggy clothes & I don’t care, I don’t want to become too girly, I think I would look like a disgusting beast 👁👄👁
blameitonablackstar I feel like its more polite to finish all of your food rather than leaving it for the sake of not wanting to look gross or get messed
Who said that sport is sport ..there is no man & woman in it!! If u act like cool dude than u will be called dude & even after a long run if u are eating ice cream or something & having fun with your girls..u are a lady..cs u aren't pretending to be something you are not!!
I'm sorry but this is upsetting and hilarious. Sense when did oversized sweaters and eating all your soup become unacceptable. Yikes if this is what "a lady" is I'm long gone. God bless you though ;)
Jasmine Foster *keeling over with laughter* I mean hhhhello! Apparently I stopped being a lady once I bust out with the genuine heart felt laughter I just shared. Or was it when I bought those really sexy white suede stilettos from Aldo... Comically interesting indeed!
@@lordgrompuluskevinribbiton4319 yeah because it's just as easy being a "gentleman" and a "lady". These tips are all superficial. Nothing to do with self character
Yeah I assumed it would be a satirical or ironic video but no.. the judgmental tones are unbelievable I can't believe they published this lol. Can't we just aim to be our greatest versions?
If you are wearing oversized sweater or any oversized item doesen't mean that you are not a true lady. A true lady would always say that no matter what,you should wear clothes that you feel good in.
There's a difference between a female and a lady as well as there's a difference between a man and a gentleman. If you don't want to follow these rules, don't be offended by just a term.
This is really disturbing. How about making a video on how to be nice to others and have a good personality? This video made me so angry wow I’m shocked. We are not living in the 50’s. I can wear sweatpants and eat Macdonalds and play football and be a “lady” I can also wear a Gucci bag and eat salat for lunch and be a “lady” there are NO rules to being a “lady” and there a NO rules to being a “woman” please will you delete this video this is embarrassing
That's not true. For example my brother's fiancee works for my father in a very highly paid job. She works very hard too. And she's just had to go to the company's christmas party in a very posh london hotel. It's a ball where she has to wear a ballgown and everything. These skills would come in handy then.
Yah, I'm not giving up my oversized clothes to put on some tight clothes and be a lady, I'd rather feel comfortable and be myself instead of faking someone I will never be😁😎😋
Pity Party notice how they went on and on about how bad and improper baggy clothes are, yet the picture was a super tight shirt bursting at the buttons? It’s as if the folks providing photos and those providing voice over never shared any information.
Dude. Tight clothes are frowned upon too. :v You’re supposed to wear well fitted clothes. But maybe you’re like: “Clothes that actually flatter my body type and are comfortable? EWwwww. I will stick to making my clothes out of trash bags.🤤🤤🤤💕✨”
When did wearing a baggy shirts defined to be a true lady?! A true lady for me is the one who is very true to herself and not minding what other people would say to her. As long as she's happy, the lady in her would shine.
I was raised to not accept food or drinks if you are a guest at someones house, because it's more polite. I was raised to always say, "bless you" no matter who sneezed. Whoever put this together must not really know what theyre talking about. Unless southern hospitality is just different.
Agreed. These are setting expectations for us to be perfect at every moment of the day. What, are we not allowed to be comfortable? Even at home?? Nope. Cleary have to maintain our appearance at all times and not focus instead on how we act and treat others.
No. Just no. Being a lady is Emma Watson when she acts for what she stands for, inspiring girls and boys everywhere. Being a lady is when Zendaya actively speaks about the issues people of color face. Being a lady is being a beautiful warrior, no matter what, always brave and always strong. Be yourself, girls. Be fearless and powerful and unstoppable, because that's what makes a real lady, not handbags and facial beauty.
MrsSavannah75 Thank you so much, it really warms my heart to see such support to feminism and womanhood. What with all the fake feminists and haters out there, it is really great to end the day knowing that people like you- ALL of you are going to bring about an era of peace, power, joy and most importantly, equality.
I've never heard sooo many stereotypes all together. If your intention was to educate some girl to be more civil, yea well...you did it in a wrong way. My opinion, of course...
I guess,"lady" is a title which person gets from a noble family or from a noble husband. A always had such idea. Can not imagine how i can be"lady" if i,m from country,where we don't have any nobles? Am i right or wrong? Or they mean,we have to try to be dressed like real ladies?
I prefer being myself.. Being that lady as mentioned in the video is actually being self obsessed and self centered.... Btw No one's born to impress others! 😾
Exactly !! Now, ironically, as a true lady, by watching this, I have wasted my oh-so precious time because a true "lady" would never waste her time...lol😂
This is not being about lady, but about some common fashion mistakes. True lady is not fitness obsessed. There is a great difference between a lady and someone following latest suggestions by media.
you're free to be. But then there are some situations where good manners are everything. You will not come across the necessity for these rules often, but they are here for if you ever do need them.
What this video is promoting is not "good manners" because if it were, no one here would be offended. This video is obviously supporting the unrealistic stereotype that all women should act like they are perfect objects on a shelf and should only be valued based on their outward appearance and their so called "table manners". Why should we care more about what men value in a woman than what we value in ourselves?
"better not to dance at all than to dance badly" as someone who has been taking dance lessons for over 7 years, i think i'm allowed to say that that is completely false. you have to start somewhere...
I disagree. I don't feel that I am a good free style dancer , and at age 50 it is embarrassing when a group of women insist that I must get out on the dance floor and shake my behind. I am a former competitive Ballroom dancer, so I prefer partner dancing and look good doing that.
So, Christine, you actually agree with the comment above. Partner dancing is still dancing. In fact it's the only kind of dancing that counts, since people who dance w/o partners often think they're dancing to entertain others. That's a pretty antisocial kind of dancing, because the funny part is, rarely does anyone watch them for entertainment. I don't like dancing as a spectator sport. I see it as a social activity, too, otherwise, I don't care to do it.
Being a lady is in how you carry yourself and how you treat others: with confidence, dignity, care, and respect. The rest of the advice in this video is simply "how to conform to outdated expectations." Wear whatever makeup and shoes bring you joy!
but still... if I see a fake gucci bag I'd think that person was a wannabe model... this video actually has some good stuff. You should buy real ones or none at all
@@blueturkeyneptune4996 I'm sorry you are body shamed. You are beautiful the way you are. It's sad that some people think they have the right to judge others. Their words say more about them than they do of you. Love yourself and accept yourself for who you are and I pray one day your opinion of yourself will mean more to you than theirs. Take care.
Breaking stereotypes is the best quality a lady can have. You shouldn't be afraid to argue. It's okay to be a powerful lady. This video sounds like being weak and and not speaking up about what you feel.
Sophia Xu No one said that it was ok to look dreadful at an important meeting, but, to say that in every other situation a woman has to be uptight and not be herself? What a crock!
1: you people are saying that a lady should dress how she wants to dress. Who wants to dress in a suit EVER? Therefore, a lady should dress in pjs or hoodies to work every day. 2: we never said that a lady should be uptight. we said that she should dress appropriately and not embarrass herself. That is not the same thing. Also, a lady is supposed to be polite and respectful. If doing this is to not be yourself, then so be it. Better to be polite and respectful and not be yourself than to be rude and unlikable and to be yourself. This does not apply to other situations, however.
That is horrific!!! It is ridiculous!!!! That is just being a robot or being program to be something so unnatural. Politeness and simplicity is much more true to being a human being that to follow some rediculous human create to restrict nature human behaviors to control another.
Me: eats entire soup bowl with hands after i have cooled with my breath on the go in my white high heels and oversized sweater while yelling an argument "You were saying?"
P.Shaman I just moved so I spent the last days moving boxes and forniture. of course I was wearing orribile clothes and then I even go eating out dressed like that and a bit dirty cause I couldn't find the wild to Change and the clothes as well. I never wear high heels in my life and I not planning to do it
this is creating stereotypes for women. All women are not like this. They are good tips but I think women should do what they want and not follow the social norm.
This the most sexist thing I have seen this year and to me being a "lady" means you are comfortable being yourself this video is just saying change your habits and do what is excepted by Society because apparently that is all that matters to some people
Obito Uchiha do you not understand what what they are saying they're telling people girls and women to change their outer appearance just to look good and societies eyes
so right. But something I'll add just for fun: I always put my phone on vibrate, I find it so unproper to have your phone disturb everyone in any circumstance.
Bright Side maybe you're unsure of yourself about making this video. Because every female is different and how they carried themselves. Who are you to judge what a female do that's her business, not yours.
this is just a research result if u accept it f9 if not what is the problem don't bother this too much after all they are not imposing this on u it was ur choice 2 watch this video
Ancient Sumerian You need to go out your home and meet more woman in my opinion ;) if you believe that is because you know a little group of woman that act like the stereotype, or maybe you believe in the publicity with this idea.
So basically we don’t say anything, We’re not allowed to finish eating (or to eat at all), and we’re always sitting there like decorations. Oh and not to forget we look like a Barbie...... oh heck no! So many girls are struggling with stereotypes. This video is absolutely ridiculous. Just be yourself. That’s definitely enough to be a lady. [These people need some milk]
Funny how some of these are about generic mannerism while the other’s is about superficial things like clothes and “beauty” the remaining are just plain disrespectful to women (aka sexist!!). Honestly every single person has their own problems, no one’s going to stop and stare at you for hours pointing out every single “unladylike” trait that you have.
Amen! Worrying about what someone else wears? I can understand being polite, but, even though there are some things being worn nowadays that make me cringe, every one has the right to be who they are, and not conform to someones stiff ideals.
What do you think it means to be a true lady?
Also, be sure to check these etiquette rules if you wanna be a real lady th-cam.com/video/F19UQrXCY7w/w-d-xo.html
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very shallow, insulting and sexist. don't want to be your lady anyhow!
a true lady is someone who isnt shallow and fake
To be a true lady u dont let others define what a true lady is
I was taught that a lady was kind to everyone and treated friend or stranger with respect and consideration. A lady can be dressed in rags and still retain her poise and dignity. I always think of the character Melanie, from Gone With The Wind, as being the epitome of a true lady.
Amen
Just like snow white too
Absolutely!
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marie elena Yes!
If wearing oversized sweaters is wrong, I don't want to be right
Heaven forbid we be comfortable
Chloe Green 😂😂
AMEN
eddie spaghetti preach
This is so true😂
So being a lady now means that I need to please everyone by trying so hard at being perfect? A girl doesn't need to be perfect in order to be a lady, it's enough that she's respectful and respectable. I can't believe i wasted my 10 minutes eatching this.
nobody cares just work on your personality every single day
Spirited Beauty I say, be polite, but be yourself. True beauty is within.
Who else is a “ordinary girl” 🙋🏼♀️
And I like it !
Arianna Lykins I’m like less than an “ordinary girl” 😂
🙋😂😂😂😂😂
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"She would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable."
Excuse you, I certainly WILL wear baggy clothes because they ARE comfortable.
Love me some baggy clothes too...That Lady will probably have a lot of yeast infections too...lol tackle that bright side.
So, your logic is, not wearing baggy clothes = yeast infections? I don't wear baggy clothes. Never have, and I never had an yeast infection. Have you ever heard of simply properly-fitting clothes? The implication of the video wasn't "don't wear baggy clothes, wear too-tightly-fitted clothes", it was what it said: a true lady doesn't wear baggy clothes, she wears properly fitting clothes, because baggy clothes - though comfortable for some (not for me, personally) - make you look clumsy, heavy, and larger than you are.
"She", as in "a true lady", as in "a true lady would never wear baggy clothes", which you are not because you choose to wear baggy clothes even though they're not lady like. Nothing wrong with that. Your choice. But that means you're not a lady. Ladies abide by certain etiquette rules. You can't be a lady, if you don't abide by them. You can't have your cake and eat it, too.
Oversized is in style now.
Same
Women, we being strong and independent is enough. We don’t need stereotypical ‘rules’ to dictate how we should act and look.
Hayleigh Dixon bless this comment! 👐🖒
Or how about maybe people have learned from experience that exercising, eating right, not slouching, and putting your best foot forward is just a healthy way to live. Guys have lists like this too you know. A strong person wouldn’t be so easily offended by something like this.
Ellie May: by your comment it seems as though you don't know the first thing about being a strong person. The REAL strong people were the women who fought for equal rights. This video promotes the idea that a woman's value is based on her outward appearance rather than her thoughts and mind. It supports the ideology that all women should be the steriotypical "housewife" that follows the above guidelines set in place for her by her domineering husband. And I don't think anyone can learn anything good from that.
Faith Parlapiano Apparently you see what you want to see. This is just a video with some classic etiquette examples. It’s not telling you to do anything. It didn’t bring up rights, or suggest that outward appearance determines your worth. I’m not threatened by it’s suggestions. I’m sorry that you can’t see that.
Ellie May As a real lady that practices all these things from a young age, I agree with you. They are just narcissistic and egomaniacs that get easily offended and triggered. That's not ladylike behaviour. It's an entitled, spoiled, 12 year old brat behaviour, dependent on Facebook 'likes' to feel better.
So I'm not a real lady if I am not feminine, don't conform to stereotypes, and lack fashion and makeup sense? I call BS. I love my oversized clothes and gender non-conforming habits. (No, I'm not nonbinary. I just have habits that anyone can have.)
Blue Lion I read on another comment chain that you were trying to imitate people whining. It kind of reminds me of when someone can't think of a good comeback, and they repeat what the other person said in a high-pitched voice.
You go girl we don't need these rules
I completely agree. I’m a 13 yr old girl and I think all of these are horrible stereotypes to push onto women and girls. If this is being a ‘lady’ then I never want be one.
Honey-Senpai your a women not a lady
Kronoxian, you're a child, not a man.
I wanna fight this narrator.
Pied Peculiar - 💯
The narrator is a robot only a dude would write this
Same
Me too
This is so stereotyped
"Better not to dance at all than to dance badly" so a true lady can never have fun? I think true lady doesn't care about what others may think of her and has a good time
Agree
And?.. No girl has to be a lady... Just be somebody you are..
Lei abunch of girls at my school do this probably gonna say that with a bad reaction but they have normal friends not like the wierd kids who hang out with wierd kids
Lei guess u were raised in a barn
Sharon Fleming guess u were raised in a stereotypical house
this is extreme etiquette FOR ladies, not how to be a lady.
Lilja Morris for grandma's you mean
Lilja Morris i dont wanna be a lady im a Boyish girlish girl
skorpia g looking presentable doesn't mean that you have to be outdated
Lilja Morris yes you are right
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Don't tell "ladies" what to do.
Is this for real, like, I don't need you to tell me how to act to be a lady. We are amazing all by ourselves, we don't need these fake rules.
yeah you tell 😠😠😠
You're right. All women are beautiful the way they are. But if you are doing business or interviewing someone you'll have to follow the rules. It could .. let's just say.. ruin your work.
Kitty BB watch me
Midnight Prince you’re interpreting this the wrong way
not every man is a gentleman nor every women is a lady
If you want to become a real lady, just dress the way you want and chose clothes in which you feel comfortable and confident in.
Anyone else feel like they clicked into the 1920s? I got about 2 minutes in and my only assumption was this is meant as a satirical joke.
*when your desprate for content*
Okay, here’s my thought. No matter our background, we all want to feel good about ourselves. Using techniques such as these will help enormously. To be truly comfortable, one must use “good manners” ALL the time , not just when needed. That way, it’ll come natural when that special moment comes. It is said that there is no more beautiful feature on a lady then the confidence she fills the room with. So gosh darn go show them you’re ladylike manners. 😜
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT LOL😂
All you have to do is have courage and never let anyone take you as a joke. This is honestly to much to do.
Idk why but I feel like being a lady hard when watching this video, there's a comparison to being a lady and ordinary girl, so it means that every girl who watch this video will be shocked or criticize
I was taught all this in the 50's at a small age. My mom, taught us to be ladies. She taught us all and how to walk and talk. So, I find you can spot a real lady. And I don't see too many. But, my aunt always said I would rather BE A WOMEN.
PS Went to a dance studio and did something I never did at a professional function. I slouched...at the table...I was always taught from Mom to teacher to stop slouching ....but...it didn't help
Are there really women who would do all this?
hotu who knows, I've been one for 15 years and i still don't understand them
Only if they are naive and easy to manipulate.
hotu first there's a difference between a "lady" and a "woman". With that said; I think you mean are there really ladies who do all this? My answer; I consider myself a lady and I don't do ALL of these however I do a lot of these; but I think the not saying "bless you" thing is rediculous and is more about being politically correct than being a lady. A REAL lady is well mannered, polite, classy, and has a strong moral compass. Saying "bless you" is being polite imo... The bless you example is just one that really stuck out for me.
Bi Vonsel I'd agree with that IF they are doing these things because a video tells them to; if they do these things because that's just who they are and how they roll then it has nothing to do with being manipulated.
Bi Vonsel
not true at all. I follow these rules and I am not naive and I am not easy to manipulate.
what I learnd at fashion design school sometime beige or white heels are better than black , black dosn't always look good with everything. It is all abut color shade.
Emila beige yes white no. Your teacher must have been daft.
I really enjoy Your a vatar. It suits to your fashion awareness :)
This video is horrific. Why can't one talk at the volume she wants? Or wear the color of heels that she chooses? Or eat the food she wants? Or wear the kind of makeup that she wants? Why do tights have to be worn? Why can't we dance? I'm astounded at how sexist this video is, and I'm not even an extreme feminist! How was this thought to be okay before being uploaded?
Cupcake Sprinkles why did you click this video to watch it then?
Rain101010 how was she supposed to predict that?
your right
Cupcake Sprinkles if you talk at the volume you want you could be affecting someone else's peace and that is rude.
Cupcake Sprinkles TRIGGERED feminist
Good manners are all about being respectful and kind, the rest falls in place naturally.
I hate how their forcing or trying to persuade you to be a "lady" we're lady's no matter what happens
Makeup however is a way to express yourself
EATING IS A WHOLE OTHER LEVEL NINA pizza is pizza soup is soup you is you there's no point of telling me how to eat my ramen or chicken noodle soup
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I dont see you protesting women telling men how to be a man.
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I don't agree with the 'accepting food or drink/wine' part. People get drugged or poisoned.
The Spirit of God is needed for guidance in all situations.
Same here. There's people who abstain from tea, coffee and alcohol for their own reasons. I personally abstain for religious and family history reasons and I'm not prepared to go against them. Guess I can't be a real lady. 🤔😂
I think putting trust in your host is probably OK. If you are so paranoid that you need to get it yourself, even though its rude, then stay home. You are safer there anyhow.
What does the color of my heels have to do with being seen as a lady?
katy goodrich probably just avoid the clear heels
Nothing says pole faster 🤪🤣🤣🤪
lolxxxxx
I remember my grandmother being so adamant on that one. No white piece of visible clothing anywhere and I love white button downs.
katy goodrich
This is where my painful Victorian era upbringing comes useful. Colours in clothing and footwear is very precise.
Black is rarely worn, you wear black when mourning or a minor - yet important - meeting or formal event.
Red is never worn, never not unless you want to set the record of being the most scandalous woman in the manor - in footwear the clothing is more lenient. Unless dress code is bright colours, romance or red you will rarely even see the colour red in your wardrobe (this is British etiquette standard the Spanish, Russian etceteras etiquettes do vary) though red us allowed during the festive season.
Skin coloured clothing footwear is a waiting disaster. It blends too well with your skin and that is a key point as one must always tell your shoes from feet.
Now it is precise - I will admit but if you follow it you are seen as educated. I wear bell gowns and corsets and you do not see my shoes but you still follow the code of clothing and footwear.
katy goodrich i dont even like heels
A true lady this... a true lady that... all i hear is sexist 50s messages. Accept for the one about taking care of yourself. It's always important to do that.
I was hoping to find things like, how to sit properly and how to act around others in social engagements. They might be fashion rules when it comes to being lady like but these things on the list have kinda taken it to the next level
HAVE they made a how to be a gentlemen?
Maybe they will :)
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Stop telling us what to do
Adam if your name is accurate, this doesn't even have anything to do with you because you're a boy...
Sophia Xu or maybe he is girly type boy!
Adam Kawache 😂😂😂😂 Obviously you want to be told what to do. Or you wouldn't be here. Or you are here to say something negative
you stop telling what to do or what not to do. see? having an opinion is a good thing, it's also ok if you disagree with something. though, honestly, these rules do not make sense and omit very important personal and behavioral aspects of a lady.
Sophia Xu it's wrong to classify a name as a boy or a girl name if his or her parents like that name and they should be able to name their Child that
I'm raised in a Asian family and this is definitely what they've taught me. These etiquettes probably doesn't suit everyone, but this is best video ever if you want to go outside your comfort zone and build your manner. No offense, also, I'm sorry for my English.
Wait...fidgeting will RUIN your reputation? Ruin, she said. Well honey, consider me ruined. I play with my hair. I ruined my chance of being a lady at 6 months old.
u weren't even a lady back then. you were a baby. that doesn't count.
GossipGurl2314 It's a habit. I played with my mothers hair when I was 6 months old. Im 37 and still do it at times. I don't think it makes me look like a liar. It's more self soothing than any thing. Liars will usually cover their mouths when they speak or at least that is what body language experts say
I am fidgety, I am clumsy, but I own it. I will laugh at myself when I bump into walls or do something awkwardly. People think I'm funny.
Be gracious, treat people with kindness and respect - especially service personnel. Handle compliments gracefully by returning a compliment if you can or just by simply saying thank you. Take pride in the person that you are, and treat others the way you would like to be treated. Man or woman, we should all be judged on the CONTENT OF OUR CHARACTER, not by external trappings like clothes and purses.
So I'm never gonna be a lady, great😊
Sarita Sam me neather
I love swearing
u are one
You know what I don't care about what others think about my wardrobe, comfy will always be better than fashion. Comfortable clothes will never backstab you, unlike the new trending heels.
Not sure to laugh or cry😂😂
Some of this advice is silly. Thanks for the smile today.
This video has taught me that I dont act like a lady. I do not follow up on most of these. Makeup makes my face puff up. You also shouldn't worry about how other people think of you either. Heck, I wear oversized jackets and shirts but that doesn't mean that I'm not lady like. No girl or guy hould have to change the way she looks just because of other people. This video talks about being perfect which no human is! 👌😁😁😁
I have three brothers and I’m the only girl,my mom said I started picking up their behavior and habits...so now I’m here
One time I got misgendered, they thought I was a boy when I was actually a girl, just by the way I sounded, laughed & dressed, but I actually do wear baggy clothes & I don’t care, I don’t want to become too girly, I think I would look like a disgusting beast 👁👄👁
A true lady knows that most of this video is hilarious😂😂😂
The soup one really cracked me up.
I'm a rebel, I like to finish my soup haha.
Ikr 🤣
blameitonablackstar I feel like its more polite to finish all of your food rather than leaving it for the sake of not wanting to look gross or get messed
Maybe but this yt channel has 5 mln of follower and it shouldn’t make a video to create others label
In my country , it's a sin if u're not finish your food 😂
Sharon Sutedja yasss where is that? Lol I like that rule haha
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What is a ladylike sport?!? I’m a runner and I have been told that it is not a “girl sport”. LADIES, DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!!
Exactly I thought this video was made as a joke when I saw the thumbnail lol
Exactly! If we do only yoga then what about women athletes!?
I like soccer :)
Who said that sport is sport ..there is no man & woman in it!! If u act like cool dude than u will be called dude & even after a long run if u are eating ice cream or something & having fun with your girls..u are a lady..cs u aren't pretending to be something you are not!!
@@isurrendertoyou7498 uh
I'm sorry but this is upsetting and hilarious. Sense when did oversized sweaters and eating all your soup become unacceptable. Yikes if this is what "a lady" is I'm long gone. God bless you though ;)
Jasmine Foster *keeling over with laughter* I mean hhhhello! Apparently I stopped being a lady once I bust out with the genuine heart felt laughter I just shared. Or was it when I bought those really sexy white suede stilettos from Aldo... Comically interesting indeed!
U are right
One has to be from an upperclass family and belong to a country club.
Explain how baggy lazy clothes is 'ladylike'
..but...but what if I want to enjoy life?
Funtimes :D you’re right
@Donald J. Trump - 45tg POTUS,
don’t you have a wall to build instead of telling people how horrible life is?
@@lordgrompuluskevinribbiton4319 yeah because it's just as easy being a "gentleman" and a "lady". These tips are all superficial. Nothing to do with self character
Exactly!
Lohol!! 😆 hi five more to point what if I don't wanna be fake
Who else clicked on this video thinking it was a joke😶
allymarie07 guilty
Yeah I assumed it would be a satirical or ironic video but no.. the judgmental tones are unbelievable I can't believe they published this lol. Can't we just aim to be our greatest versions?
allymarie07 yup
Yeah, I thought it was just a joke...
allymarie07 me.
If you are wearing oversized sweater or any oversized item doesen't mean that you are not a true lady. A true lady would always say that no matter what,you should wear clothes that you feel good in.
And that don't have huge chocolate stains on them... Or is that just me?
No, no. Being a "lady" obviously means being fake, not being true to yourself and trying to live up to some ridiculous, made up ideal. Get it?
Dang i must be a man
A true lady does not criticize others clothes or appearance, I say!
There's a difference between a female and a lady as well as there's a difference between a man and a gentleman. If you don't want to follow these rules, don't be offended by just a term.
i lost so many IQ points from watching this
Brain damage to the max😵👎
It's not like you had many before.
Haha me too
Angry Khaleesi: As your name implies...
That's cuz you are such a "lady"....for sure.
A true lady wouldn't make this video 💅
valencia nkambule well played
Shots fired!
valencia nkambule exactly 👏
valencia nkambule LOL!
valencia nkambule 😅😅😅
Who determines how a lady should look like? Let women do what they feel is right for them.
Graham Zulu (y)
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Graham Zulu thank u
Watches video --> looses a bit of hope in humanity; Reads comments --> humanity restored
you must have a very gullible mind then
Is actually the opposite for me.
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True that! 😊
7Sophia Xu
A TRUE lady does NOT pick her nose in public...at HOME is fine...LOL
I can finish my soup if I want to
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Yeah....😅😅😅
Lol
accurate 😆
Girls don't listen to all this, just be polite and be yourself
kiana Kalantari it’s just etiquette to be more fashionable
No need to follow all these rules......... just be youself!
I am P!nky..lol
zainab ok
zainab there is nothing wrong with changing yourself
This must be the most ridiculous video on TH-cam.....😂
You must not belong to a country club.
@@ratherbfishing455 what does that mean
@@AGuyWhoLikesTrains. One should be prim and proper. Ladylike and not coarse.
This is really disturbing. How about making a video on how to be nice to others and have a good personality? This video made me so angry wow I’m shocked. We are not living in the 50’s. I can wear sweatpants and eat Macdonalds and play football and be a “lady” I can also wear a Gucci bag and eat salat for lunch and be a “lady” there are NO rules to being a “lady” and there a NO rules to being a “woman” please will you delete this video this is embarrassing
Hanna frimannsdóttir I agree with you
Donald J. Trump - 45th POTUS i dont dress for guys i dress for myself. Simple as that
Ain't nobody got time for that
I do.
Like seriously, unless you don't have any other obligations in life other than to look good 24/7... so a very well taken care of sugar baby.
That's not true. For example my brother's fiancee works for my father in a very highly paid job. She works very hard too. And she's just had to go to the company's christmas party in a very posh london hotel. It's a ball where she has to wear a ballgown and everything. These skills would come in handy then.
Bre Zeey u using aint says it all.
Some people live to please others. They care only about what others think of them. A very sad existence but these people do exist
Yah, I'm not giving up my oversized clothes to put on some tight clothes and be a lady, I'd rather feel comfortable and be myself instead of faking someone I will never be😁😎😋
Pity Party notice how they went on and on about how bad and improper baggy clothes are, yet the picture was a super tight shirt bursting at the buttons? It’s as if the folks providing photos and those providing voice over never shared any information.
Dude. Tight clothes are frowned upon too. :v You’re supposed to wear well fitted clothes.
But maybe you’re like: “Clothes that actually flatter my body type and are comfortable? EWwwww. I will stick to making my clothes out of trash bags.🤤🤤🤤💕✨”
Exactly! When you don't pretend to be someone else you are actually being a true lady!
When did wearing a baggy shirts defined to be a true lady?! A true lady for me is the one who is very true to herself and not minding what other people would say to her. As long as she's happy, the lady in her would shine.
preach
I was raised to not accept food or drinks if you are a guest at someones house, because it's more polite. I was raised to always say, "bless you" no matter who sneezed. Whoever put this together must not really know what theyre talking about. Unless southern hospitality is just different.
Sandy Claws yeah
Philippine hospitality is diffrent
I do that stuff a lot of the time too!
Where I come from , it's more rude to not accept food or drink if someone offers you.
I am at #11 and, so far, see nothing about being a lady!
Being a lady is about character and inner beauty!
Agreed.
These are setting expectations for us to be perfect at every moment of the day. What, are we not allowed to be comfortable? Even at home?? Nope. Cleary have to maintain our appearance at all times and not focus instead on how we act and treat others.
After watching this video I don't want to be a lady 😡😡😡
Thanks for all likes
Labib Prince Same
But also lady stereotypes a men. A video like this should be done also for male unfortunately
Labib Prince me too
Labib Prince it songs boring 😴😴
Then don't
If Brightside wants to be taken seriously don't put out videos on how to be a true lady in 2017
Hahaha 😂😂😂 Why?
Well as it's already stated, good manners never go out of style.
No. Just no. Being a lady is Emma Watson when she acts for what she stands for, inspiring girls and boys everywhere. Being a lady is when Zendaya actively speaks about the issues people of color face. Being a lady is being a beautiful warrior, no matter what, always brave and always strong. Be yourself, girls. Be fearless and powerful and unstoppable, because that's what makes a real lady, not handbags and facial beauty.
The Queen Of Chaos *** so true
The Queen Of Chaos *** you are amazing 😁 A+. Correct 🙌
Best comment for this video.
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MrsSavannah75 Thank you so much, it really warms my heart to see such support to feminism and womanhood. What with all the fake feminists and haters out there, it is really great to end the day knowing that people like you- ALL of you are going to bring about an era of peace, power, joy and most importantly, equality.
10 min of my life is wasted 😂
Agreed
Sujata Poudel I agree!
Sujata Poudel same here
some of these are a bit excessive, to be a lady imo all you have to do is be polite and courteous. That's it! very simple
watch anime with me
You are AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!
Spirited Beauty don't force yourself. as a girl myself i see nothing wrong with buying fake products.
I've never heard sooo many stereotypes all together. If your intention was to educate some girl to be more civil, yea well...you did it in a wrong way. My opinion, of course...
I love swearing
YEAH!!!!!!!!
Semplicemente SE actually, I believe you share that opinion with the majority of the comment section.
I’m a lady and I don’t follow most of the outdated things mentioned here. As a woman we know when we are being classy or not.
Joselynn Xo agreed
Right. A lot of this is BS, expensive, and stuffy. Just be your unique self, and caring and considerate of others.
Joselynn Xo ur a women not a lady
I guess,"lady" is a title which person gets from a noble family or from a noble husband. A always had such idea. Can not imagine how i can be"lady" if i,m from country,where we don't have any nobles? Am i right or wrong? Or they mean,we have to try to be dressed like real ladies?
Well said.
I prefer being myself.. Being that lady as mentioned in the video is actually being self obsessed and self centered.... Btw No one's born to impress others! 😾
I thought being a lady was JUST having proper manners and being polite.
Mukul Nivedita ❤️thank u
@@alonianewcomb8357 Omg same
Exactly !! Now, ironically, as a true lady, by watching this, I have wasted my oh-so precious time because a true "lady" would never waste her time...lol😂
We do that to impress ourselves,mister. But this video is totally controlling and sexist.
This is not being about lady, but about some common fashion mistakes. True lady is not fitness obsessed. There is a great difference between a lady and someone following latest suggestions by media.
Its true 👍
I wish I could dislike this more than once.
I tried --- it doesn't work
same
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Regan Heberle me tooooooo
pilgrimsister breathe sometimes too😂😂
I just want to be ....myself!
you're free to be. But then there are some situations where good manners are everything. You will not come across the necessity for these rules often, but they are here for if you ever do need them.
Well apparently you cant according to bright side 😂
I agree
Ellies Moon go for it!!
What this video is promoting is not "good manners" because if it were, no one here would be offended. This video is obviously supporting the unrealistic stereotype that all women should act like they are perfect objects on a shelf and should only be valued based on their outward appearance and their so called "table manners". Why should we care more about what men value in a woman than what we value in ourselves?
"better not to dance at all than to dance badly" as someone who has been taking dance lessons for over 7 years, i think i'm allowed to say that that is completely false. you have to start somewhere...
I disagree. I don't feel that I am a good free style dancer , and at age 50 it is embarrassing when a group of women insist that I must get out on the dance floor and shake my behind. I am a former competitive Ballroom dancer, so I prefer partner dancing and look good doing that.
So, Christine, you actually agree with the comment above. Partner dancing is still dancing. In fact it's the only kind of dancing that counts, since people who dance w/o partners often think they're dancing to entertain others. That's a pretty antisocial kind of dancing, because the funny part is, rarely does anyone watch them for entertainment. I don't like dancing as a spectator sport. I see it as a social activity, too, otherwise, I don't care to do it.
What happen to fun?
I am trying to brag but I was 6 when I started gymnastics and then I quit and now I am in dance lol
uhhhh untruthfull
Being a lady is in how you carry yourself and how you treat others: with confidence, dignity, care, and respect. The rest of the advice in this video is simply "how to conform to outdated expectations." Wear whatever makeup and shoes bring you joy!
but still... if I see a fake gucci bag I'd think that person was a wannabe model... this video actually has some good stuff. You should buy real ones or none at all
it doesn't, that's why there are other tips you should follow
guess im gonna be a man
Well said!
catoon the
"She would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable" .... seriously? ...
That's exactly why you should wear them.
Luv Luv yes in the house LOL.
Not only baggy clothes are comfortable.
Wear what you want. But not everything you wear will look lady like. Truth hurts
Luv Luv that’s why it’s a trend I wear it cause I’m body shamed a lot
@@blueturkeyneptune4996
I'm sorry you are body shamed. You are beautiful the way you are. It's sad that some people think they have the right to judge others. Their words say more about them than they do of you. Love yourself and accept yourself for who you are and I pray one day your opinion of yourself will mean more to you than theirs. Take care.
i can't express how much i hate this video
You aren't the only one.
I wanna come to that persons house wearing sweatpants and too much makeup, then start swearing and splash soup at her face
Molly Johnston totally 😡
k0 ma Let me know so I can come with you
Molly Johnston h
I am going to wish a “bless you” to everyone because we need it. thanks
Go back to 1850 , bright side.
They'd like you.
THANK you. I kept thinking this while watching the video.
Breaking stereotypes is the best quality a lady can have. You shouldn't be afraid to argue. It's okay to be a powerful lady. This video sounds like being weak and and not speaking up about what you feel.
it's ok to be a lady and slouch all the time and not take care of yourself and look dreadful at important meetings... yeah
Sophia Xu No one said that it was ok to look dreadful at an important meeting, but, to say that in every other situation a woman has to be uptight and not be herself? What a crock!
1: you people are saying that a lady should dress how she wants to dress. Who wants to dress in a suit EVER? Therefore, a lady should dress in pjs or hoodies to work every day.
2: we never said that a lady should be uptight. we said that she should dress appropriately and not embarrass herself. That is not the same thing. Also, a lady is supposed to be polite and respectful. If doing this is to not be yourself, then so be it. Better to be polite and respectful and not be yourself than to be rude and unlikable and to be yourself. This does not apply to other situations, however.
MrsSavannah75 exactly!!
Simran Upadhye just wondering, are you(or a relative) a high school teacher? *this has nothing to do with this argument
you don't have to be a perfect princess to be a lady I'm not wasting that soup that's a joke
especially if its chicken noodle
This is so sexist that I can't even tell if this video was meant to be a joke or not😂
just because it's telling people to have some manners doesn't mean it's sexist. People are offended by everything these days
Apparently having manners is sexist now. :v
Ikr?
Some of these things are great, but a few seem to be very specific and demanding and even unrealistic
Apparently having manners would turn you in a "lady" and not in a "good human being" in general. Wonder why.
thumb's up my ordinary squad🙋
every thing👍
every thing more like amazing awesome never original squad
every thing 👍👍👍👍
They first need a video on how to be a broadminded, non-judgmental human 😂😂 I'll finish my soup and yours too!
Charvi S. some people are interested. If you are not, just move on.
A true lady is someone who doesn't judge other people based on their look. Let's see who can finish their soup first😂😂
@@annieyummmm Dude its 2021 who cares bout bean' a lady at all but tomboys are confident, positive and passionate TOMBOYS ROCK.
"How to be the unrealistic, idealistic epiphany of every woman everywhere in every culture."
I am going to do as I please. If that includes eating food on the go, then so be it.
How did they upload a video from 1955? Weird.
More like 1855!
Must have just unsealed the time capsule and uploaded it without looking first.
Summary of video: 1. Be too conscious about how others perceive you.
2. Turn your life around it.
That is horrific!!! It is ridiculous!!!! That is just being a robot or being program to be something so unnatural. Politeness and simplicity is much more true to being a human being that to follow some rediculous human create to restrict nature human behaviors to control another.
J La
This is fit for a lady host
Not an everyday lady
I remember following similar rules when playing host to some guest
YOU'RE SO FREAKING RIGHT J La!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
J La l
Me: eats entire soup bowl with hands after i have cooled with my breath on the go in my white high heels and oversized sweater while yelling an argument
"You were saying?"
Omg! You had me laughing! lol!
Me too! lol!
😂😂😂😂
don't laugh too loud though, that's not ladylike
dont forget to slouch
Wow so according to this video I'm not a lady because I'm not superficial. Sorry but I'm wearing baggy pants sometimes because they ARE comfortable.
P.Shaman
I just moved so I spent the last days moving boxes and forniture. of course I was wearing orribile clothes and then I even go eating out dressed like that and a bit dirty cause I couldn't find the wild to Change and the clothes as well.
I never wear high heels in my life and I not planning to do it
To be a real lady, remember to be as shallow as possible. Got it.
I do like the not spreading rumors one, but that's just called being a good person.
Jez XIII move on if you don’t like
@@annieyummmm dude, she is trying to say how to be a actual true lady. And follow your own advice: if you dont like then move on
this is creating stereotypes for women. All women are not like this. They are good tips but I think women should do what they want and not follow the social norm.
Karma Akabane woman should do what they yes, but if they want to become a lady they need to learn some etiquette rules.
This the most sexist thing I have seen this year and to me being a "lady" means you are comfortable being yourself this video is just saying change your habits and do what is excepted by Society because apparently that is all that matters to some people
Obito Uchiha do you not understand what what they are saying they're telling people girls and women to change their outer appearance just to look good and societies eyes
Nowadays its about money and reputation
I agree with you so much
It was always about money, power and reputation.
I am 100% with you on that. Just look at my comment lol
after watching this video, I choose to be an ordinary girl. Yeah, that's more comfortable
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╚╩╩╩╝Ok, who ate my chocolate!?
Henny Georgia wow
Henny Georgia time to copy and paste
twin towers?
:(
Henny Georgia None other than I! 👻
Welcome to the 1950's
so right. But something I'll add just for fun: I always put my phone on vibrate, I find it so unproper to have your phone disturb everyone in any circumstance.
Lol
Bobbi Anderson yup
Some of the tips are silly such as wearing your hair down while dancing
And spend my whole life trying to be flawless "lady" to please everyone but myself? No no!
Pretty Liar GOOD POINT
"You just need to look neat, presentable, and well groomed at any moment of your life."
Well then...
Cupcake Sprinkles that one really got me 😄 I'm ill at the moment so I guess in breaking that rule! lol
My grandmother used to say that all the time. You never know who you will meet, or if the doorbell will ring.
Bright Side maybe you're unsure of yourself about making this video. Because every female is different and how they carried themselves. Who are you to judge what a female do that's her business, not yours.
Lol, just because society says something, this does not mean it's true, how nieve is that?
this is just a research result if u accept it f9 if not what is the problem don't bother this too much after all they are not imposing this on u it was ur choice 2 watch this video
Its a criteria to be a lady not a female
Ancient Sumerian You need to go out your home and meet more woman in my opinion ;) if you believe that is because you know a little group of woman that act like the stereotype, or maybe you believe in the publicity with this idea.
So basically we don’t say anything, We’re not allowed to finish eating (or to eat at all), and we’re always sitting there like decorations. Oh and not to forget we look like a Barbie...... oh heck no! So many girls are struggling with stereotypes. This video is absolutely ridiculous. Just be yourself. That’s definitely enough to be a lady. [These people need some milk]
Funny how some of these are about generic mannerism while the other’s is about superficial things like clothes and “beauty” the remaining are just plain disrespectful to women (aka sexist!!). Honestly every single person has their own problems, no one’s going to stop and stare at you for hours pointing out every single “unladylike” trait that you have.
pilgrimsister She is right! Sorry for you. You have no idea what's happening in this world!
Amen! Worrying about what someone else wears? I can understand being polite, but, even though there are some things being worn nowadays that make me cringe, every one has the right to be who they are, and not conform to someones stiff ideals.
Agree. So misleading. And we shouldn't argue, just leave it and be happy in silence, in our own mind.