25 Etiquette Habits Only 5% of People Remember
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- What's your association with the word "etiquette"? Something old-fashioned, like gentlemen in top hats and ladies with teacups in their gloved hands? Well, this picture has nothing to do with modern etiquette habits. If you want to be perceived as a well-mannered, polite, and respected person, you might want to brush up on this topic.
The thing is, the rules have changed, but we still should follow them in order to not feel awkward. All polite people want to know and observe etiquette rules, especially when some of them aren’t that obvious. For example, if all you want to write in your email is "Thank you!", avoid sending it. You will just clog the recipient's inbox. Yeah, I never knew that, too 🙃.
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TIMESTAMPS:
If you rip your pants 0:27
You need to split the bill with your friends (but they’ve eaten more than you) 0:52
Public restrooms 1:18
If you need to blow your nose 1:53
If your food is stuck in your teeth 2:17
If your fly is down 2:39
If someone smells bad 3:17
Tell the difference between a pregnant woman and an overweight woman 3:56
If you want to take a selfie 4:30
At the airport 5:08
How to talk on speakerphone 5:24
Email Etiquette 5:44
Hold your cup correctly 7:18
If your food is too hot or spicy 7:46
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SUMMARY:
- In the case of bathroom etiquette, if you see that a stall is closed, don't try to open the door. It may accidentally open, and both you and the person inside will feel extremely embarrassed.
- While applying makeup or combing your hair, use the mirror furthest from the hand dryer. Otherwise, people who only need to dry their hands will have to wait until you finish.
- It's bad manners to use a toothpick at the table. If you know for sure something is stuck between your teeth, go to the bathroom and get rid of it there.
- It's good manners to offer a seat to a pregnant woman. But let's admit, the situation can't get more embarrassing than when you confuse an overweight woman for a pregnant one.
- If you want to take a selfie with someone, you should ask for that person's permission first, even if it's your close friend. You should give them some time to prepare for the photo.
- Avoid wearing clothes with offensive logos and bad words. Some people may perceive such a T-shirt as a joke, but others might get offended.
- When you're in the boarding area at the airport, don't crowd in front of the gate. Also, when claiming your suitcase, step toward the carousel only after you've spotted your bag.
-Always inform a person that they are on speakerphone, and that there are other people in the room. If you talk to someone on speakerphone at work, find a separate room and close the door.
- While you can send work emails at any time of the day, don't send business-related texts earlier than 1 hour before the work day starts and 2 hours after it finishes.
- If you're dining out with your family or friends, it's absolutely Ok to ask the staff to wrap your leftovers, even if it's a fancy restaurant. But never ask for leftovers after a business lunch or dinner.
- I guess everyone has burned their mouths on spicy food. Instead of breathing through a wide-open mouth or spitting the food out, take a gulp of cold water or other drink. Works like magic every time!
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Hey there! What annoys you most about other people? 😜
Idk who about you
I mean how
People not liking my comments
They tell you things that are so obvious, everyone already knows them but they still tell you. Hey! That sounds familiar, that sounds just like this video!
When a person blows their nose at a dining table while eating. 😣
Some more etiquette rules~
At a table when eating;
~Eat with your mouth closed.
~Never put your elbows on the table.
~Ask the eldest at the table if you may leave it. (The eldest must also be the one that owns or lives at the house ad well).
~Always wait until all members are sitting at the table before you start eating your food.
~ Don't talk with your mouth full.
~Thank the person who made the meal.
One more etiquette ,never ask for like or subscription in the beginning of video . So mate you got it right. 👍👍
😂 😂 😂
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Very true😂😂😂
LolXD
You're right
Here’s some other etiquette rules:
When sitting at a dinner table,
1- leave your napkin on your lap. Never wipe
your month and place on table.
2- Never talk while your chewing.
3- If you’re having a steak dinner for example,
cut the meet as you eat. Never cut more
than one piece at a time.
4- Turn your cell phone off and never place
it on the dinner table.
5- If your invited to dinner at a restaurant,
always see what your host orders, then
order appropriately. If host for example
orders a $20 dish, don’t order a meal
that is way more, order something around the same price and desert if
desert is either ordered by your host or
your host mentions a favorite desert.
Are these (some) ettiquette rules
Woohhhhh🤣🤣
i know this
One important polite habit in my opinion is avoid speak a language someone don’t understand next to this person. And if we speak their native language I believe is polite give it a preference.
Yes correct. But if you speak in your native language and translating the sentence for others offers more opportunities to learn each other's languages..
If you're hanging out with them or they're part of your circle -- sure. But if you're on the bus, speaking quietly to a friend, and the person who does not speak your language is a stranger, you have no obligation to let them pry.
Here's another one, when waiting in a queue at a grocery store, and another cashier opens, the person in front of you should be given the spot since they've waited longer than you.
@Laura H too true.
How about instead of the cashier acknowledging you as the next person in line, they shout this generic, “I’ll take the next person in line” even if they’ve given you direct eye contact.
@@mynameisnotgirl8184 A bit of a coward eh?
I always stick yup for those who are too timid.
Here's one from my parents
When you're dining, especially in a restaurant, put your knife and fork together to indicate you've finished your meal and opposite each other to indicate you're still busy
Trust me by doing this you'll be making your waitstaff's job a lot easier to do which will also mean better service
This is common practice of course but I've seen that a lot of people who don't know about so for those of you who don't hope I could help
You should also turn your fork down while still eating and up when finished . Leave knife and fork extending the plate by at least an inch.
Yah, my mom also told me that as erll
Yeah u are Right and if u are having a Soup/Dessert,Placing the soup/dessert spoon infront of ur Bowl on the plate indicates that u are done with it..
No, I had know idea. I learned something new just now. Thank you.
When 2 or more ppl are talking DO NOT INTERRUPT WITH YOUR OPINION UNLESS YOU ARE ASKED.
One more ettiquette: If you are talking about a person (who is sitting in front of you ) to someone dont look at the person.He or she can feel awkward & uncomfortable..
Also dont stare at someone too hard
What about telling ladies if they have lipstick on their teeth? I usually silently motion to the teeth or whisper it to them
The proper way to hold a white wine glass is by the stem, so that the wine can keep its chill.
I can eat even a piece of stone with lemon squeezed on it :) One thing i liked is , even before seeing this video , I used to shield a piece of lemon with other hand before squeezing it in on a dish in a restaurant .Its just commonsense. Great tips bro. keep posting.
Thank you for this video...its so informative..I learnt many etiquettes and i even apply them daily.
Every cell phone has a calculator. There should be no reason why the bill can't be split correctly.
You didn't get it.
In my family it's no elbows on the table while you eat.
In the Americas, yes. Elsewhere, perching near the rim is accepted elsewhere. Aggressively planting them in the middle, speaks of being rudely territorial, so no.
Green tea is also great!
It matters
No it's not as per the doctors
Why this comment is on the top of my comment list
The video helped bcz i had put my tea beside me to cool down but totally forgot about it. My tea got saved ! 😂
Well-Mannered People:does it correctly
*ME*:*uses a teacup for drinking coffee*
I eat pizza with chopsticks
*Manners are the foundation of building a great network!*
your voice is so relaxing i think it is perfect
Saying , 'you know', 'you know', 'you know' when they can't think of words to express themselves.
TIMESTAMPS:
If you rip your pants 0:27
You need to split the bill with your friends (but they’ve eaten more than you) 0:52
Public restrooms 1:18
If you need to blow your nose 1:53
If your food is stuck in your teeth 2:17
If your fly is down 2:39
If someone smells bad 3:17
Tell the difference between a pregnant woman and an overweight woman 3:56
If you want to take a selfie 4:30
At the airport 5:08
How to talk on speakerphone 5:24
Email Etiquette 5:44
Hold your cup correctly 7:18
If your food is too hot or spicy 7:46
Water, just soreads the heat ,drink milk , tea .etc. Very interesting tips.
One more etiquette
Be polite to all ( even people who are mean to you )
**Proceeds to burp loudly at the dinner table** - That's chinese Etiquette for you
I think there are places in the Mediterranean too where they do that
Thanks for the etiquettes, bright side u will always leave me shocked with your videos , they are always filled with good stuff and useful information .... I wish you were my teacher......love from India 😘
I was just curious to read comments after watching the video 😃
Nice tips of etiquette. Here's a good one:
When someone is struggling to open a door, do not be quick to rush in front of them to get inside unless they asked to open the door for you, many Men have been known to do this and other folks do it also,leaving the person still struggling to get the door open for themselves. Some wait and watch until the struggle is over and suddenly grab the door leaving the person holding the door unbalanced to fall backward.
Exactly. While it's nice to help people out when they're struggling, rushing in front of them can be rude or make their struggle even harder.
There is a saying, "manners maketh man" It's very true. People with good manners are far more likely to get ahead.
Another one I Iike is, Always be nice to those you meet on your way up because, you may just meet them again on your way back down"
We have a 'lady' at work who fills her mouth with food and starts talking. Its gross and nobody can understand her. Why do people do that?
Bad manners
Because no one's been kind enough to take her aside and have a quiet tactful word about it? Maybe she doesn't realise it's bad manners?
@@prva9347 she is 50+ yrs old. She knows.
@@concernedcitizen4031 Ah well, that's info I didn't have when I posted. (Btw. 50+ years old is still young in my book!)
Going to need some SERIOUS practice on the tea vs coffee one 😬
Having had a hot beverage cup slip from my fingers, especially a coffee mug, I wrap my hand around and put my fingers through the handle. It may not be proper, but it beats a scalded crotch.
It's a useless one.
When you see a working service dog of any kind, do not touch without asking. These dogs are performing a job, and if you look at, make Kissy faces, or talk to a dog you will disturb them. This will put their person at risk. Even if it just looks like a dog is lying under a table, waiting for a bus etc., any type of disturbance will take their focus of their human, and that it could be dangerous or even deadly. It is OK to ask to say hello if the person is not moving, or is waiting for someone. They have the right however to say no, some dogs even if they are not moving, cannot keep their concentration while they are working if you talk to you or touch them. Do not be offended by this. These dogs are like the steering wheel of our car, and you would never let some random person drive your car without your permission. We are not being rude, we are being safety conscious. Thank you
when eating a steak or other piece of meat, cut a bite eat it, cut a bite eat it, don't cut your meat up into twenty litttle bites at the beginning of the meal and go to town on it...its cut a bite, eat a bite.
You should never drink water or something while you are walking
It may affect your Digestive tract.
Never leave the dining table if you have done with your food, wait for others to finish theirs.
If you like somebody's dress, just ask them shall I wear it for one day. It really feels awkward to even answer... I mean how can somebody ask that... I have encountered this twice in my life.
Yeah it happens.
Everyone on IG: *posts mirror shots in the bathroom*
Bright Side:That is bad manners
If any one farted don’t look at him immediately,it is a modern etiquette u know
If you see this hope you have the greatest time and find what your looking for ❤️❤️👍😍
Am I the only one wondering what's the difference in holding a tea cup and coffee cup differently?
The tea and the coffee was a new one for me
Thanks for the fun and informative video!
Thank You.
Really appreciate your efforts 🙏
that you put your PHONE down when your eating
That paying bill was quite nice..eyes popped out of that guy..hehe..love @monkoodog
Don’t put rude annoying bumper stickers on your car because nobody cares about your stick family , if you went to Hawaii or that sea turtles are your spirit animal., or that somehow we all have to coexist.or that Calvin is peeing on a Chevy or Ford ...Just save us all .
Always praise anybody and don't say harsh comments to uplift their personality.
I didn't know about the word Etiquette until I needed it today.
make more of those videos! love them
Such a nice video you people posted. Thanks and upload more videos like this
I was expecting to see silverware etiquette. Surprised it wasn't there.
Thank you
That scream @ 6:32 was ridiculously random!! 😂🤭
Well OH MY GOSH ! i think you should create a short TH-cam film about gentleman behaving like such ! Modern day mannerism & understanding with the modern day young fellow has fallen into DISARRAY & needs (serious) guidance (from you) !!
For the lemons just make small cuts around it and squeeze from there.
You are welcome. Hugs.
To answer your question, what annoys me most is self appointed royalty who narcistically believe they are the authority on how to hold my cup and where my elbows should be at any given moment.
When someone, is depressed divert their attention to a wholesome topic.
I drink tea and cofee how I want.
Very useful and necessary daily tips.
Why hold the teacup and coffee cup that way? Should have explained!
Perhaps it's due to the shape and weigh distribution of the different cups that you drink them from. If you're drinking your tea (or other beverage) from a coffee mug, instead of a teacup, you should still hold it like it's coffee.
Tea cup is lighter...easier to hold in that manner....also, the server will know (and not have to ask you) when serving you
Good info abt cofee n Tea cup handling. Thanks a lot.
Never, ever pass gas in an elevator!
That tea holding thumb nail is super excited. Voting describle turnip .
Got'em
Blessings to everyone 🙏🙏🙏
yes i have learned something new today
I heard this guy's voice in the ivc filter alert thing on tv
And burrping is a bad manners too which should be included in the video
Fz Sw in some cultures burping is a way of showing that you enjoyed he food.
Bright side is really bright
People talking on the phone while on the toilet in a public restroom exceedingly annoying
Or on the bus, where EVERYONE has to listen 😠
Especially😼
Or when going through a checkout - totally ignoring the cashier. Rude.
I knew all of them but still liking the video...
Please explain the two choices at 1:08. I understand the second (split the bill among 4 people)- you will be well over-paying, but what is the first choice, something about rounding up to a "bigger sum" than what your meal cost? Why not pay what you owe as if you were alone - plus a tip for your meal if customary to pay a tip? Why pay more for the first option?
In actuality, you would tell your companions that splitting the bill would NOT be fair to you and you will pay for your meal. Etiquette does not mean being a sucker.
I understand you, I tend to eat little when dining outside, and my part of the bill should be smaller often. But discussing that you want to pay only for your food spoils the good atmosphere and makes you appear as a miser. Tricky situation, this one.
@@mimicrono Why wouldn't I ask you to join me for a meal every day? With you at the table, I most likely will get a very good discount on my meal cost. Nothing personal, but that is the flaw with the video's message. Someone has to be pretty desperate for social approval to be willing to split a bill evenly when they clearly have not incurred anything close to equal meal cost.
Etiquette differs in every countries..is it ?? right or wrong😂
Right
Absolutely, especially regarding food and visiting homes
yes etiquette rules differs in every country
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Part 2 please
wish some people I know have watched this video
Relly osm video❤️❤️❤️❤️
Another modern etiquette is to respect the opinion of another person... People tend to lash out or criticize others belonging to different ethnicity, place or religion... unless someone is being harmed, it's ok to respect the opinion of another person
Brightside: Etiquette
Don’t talk while your mouth is full.
Just because a new and famous perfume smells nice at the sales counter doesn't mean that you won't smell like a toxic waste dump wearing it with your very different body chemistry.
While placing a cup down on the table or pirch, use the pinky finger to avoid making unnecessary sound by supporting it
It may be old fashioned, but elbows off the table when eating. What annoys me when it comes to other people is coughing or sneezing in their hand. Germs
When there is an argument, don't make the fire big.
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Make an etiquette playlist
The blowing sound is very funny😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love etiquette rules.😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Water will never work when you eat spicy food. Sorry 😐
So true!
It still works although not as much effective.
Well, it's water.
Literally water.
The universal solvent.
Or biting into bread
Or eating yogurt if available.
I did the sneezing thing in alley way and security detained me for drug test.
hahaha that was funny
2:12 Eewwww that boy UGGHH
More of this topic pls ....
On the tea and coffee cup thing. What about Hot Cocoa?
If it's in a coffee cup or a mug, I guess you could just hold it like coffee. Vice versa for a teacup.
Thx. Can't think of anything at the moment, my head is a-swirl.🙃
Love you'r videos
Thanks for this vid
I don’t know if this is a cultural thing or not but there is a particular “group” of people I’ve experienced who rather reach over you, around you, across your personal space and NEVER SAY EXCUSE ME!!!!
I hit the like button with my nose
Good thoughts
I went to the supermarket yesterday and saw a little girl holding the door open. A lady was exiting with a few items, so I stepped aside to allow her to pass. At the same time a man in his 40s or 50s just entered while she was exiting. I told the little girl thank you while I entered. I think that man was not being a gentleman, since he clearly saw I stepped aside to allow the lady to exit.
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Actually with the spicy food, you just have to close the mouth and not let air go into. The more air, the more burns.
Any reason behind the way you hold the tea cup vs coffee?
I love this widow