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Brother that was so inspiring. You're adding much more value by sharing this process than by just explaining the theory. It's also comforting to see that you still have those types of things to work on, like addictions. I see that we are all human. I should not hold myself to an ideal of perfection, nor beating myself up when I still have ton of things to heal. Much love.
Of course - always more mess behind the scenes 🤫 The screen-time zombification is something I’m always vigilant for, and it’s only gotten harder as I’ve started doing more work on them! Although things have been better in the last week since posting this - inner adolescent feeling seen, and already noticing changes in well-being & sleep quality!
Hey - this was a strange one to film. 😅 What do you think of this episode? Would you like to see more of these live demonstrations? Let me know - I'm always receptive to your feedback!
Wow... I got chills and some shaky breathing just from watching. Without expanding any further, I will just say that much of that seemed VERY familiar. But one figure I have yet to encounter is that angst filled teen ... Lots of "ghoulish" figures lately. 😒 Anyway, many thanks for your courage in doing this! If you are comfortable doing more demonstrations, by all means, they'll surely be of help to someone. However, this video alone is a great example!
@@GrasslandsG81 Thank you for taking the time to comment, brother. I'm sorry that you've experienced similar - I know the pain there, even if I don't know the specifics. I'll do more demonstrations in the future for sure. I recognise how confronting but likewise affirming they can be!
Immediately... As you closer your eyes. I felt who you were calling arise.. the energy around you and within you changed and I felt goose bumps within myself and a dense feeling in my heart.. I felt you. Or atleast I feel a resonance to what you experienced within myself and it was a complete empathic experience that happened watching you .. I almost wanted to cry. And another more perverse side wanted to take you. I see you.. I thank you for this. I appreciate it.
Thank you Rachel - it's a pleasure to show up and set an example. Hopefully more people will feel called to go into these spaces and experience their potential too!
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Jordan thank you so much for making this powerful video, this is the first live demonstration I've seen of this process. The vulnerability you've shown gives me strength to confront my personal demons. I can relate so much to what you shared. Sex addiction, porn addiction... trying to fill a void with a bad behavior, positive feedback loop... this made me cry, so many questions can't wait to jump into this for myself. Sincerely thank you, new subscriber
Zachary, thank you! I know these challenges myself - a difficult journey for sure. It's my pleasure to show up and demonstrate, and I wish you the best with your own parts work and introspection. Thanks for taking the time to comment and let me know - more on the way!
Always useful to have more examples out there! Plenty more episodes in this series exploring parts work & active imagination on this channel if you’re looking to go deeper! Wishing you all the best, thank you 🌲
Your honesty and vulnerability in this video is so beautiful. It makes me feel very sad as I am reminded of the society we are a part of where 'exposing' ourselves like this is not acceptable. Eg. I have a very special tree that I visit often near where I live by the river (A river that flows at 90% less than its natural capacity due to the city growing and 'damming' the water for human use 😥) Anyway, sometimes I notice my pace quicken as I approach her because I know I can truly relax in her company and no words are needed. I hugged her the other day but made sure I could not be seen by the passers by who are generally people walking their dogs (would they even be walking by the river if they didn't have a dog? 🤔) Anyway, this fear of being one's true self in front of others because of what they may think is so unhealthy for us, it is beyond words. Anyway, thank you so much and I just had a thought ...You have inspired me to do a video of me hugging the tree (thats her in the background of my picture by the way) Much love and gratitude to you my friend 🙏
I appreciate you attention and I'm glad you found it valuable - certainly strange attempting to vocally facilitate yourself while filming while introspecting... but hey, learning new skills hahah
Gosh, Jordan...just discovered you tonight. Late, not sleeping, and coming to a true reckoning point, but running out of hope and a sense of resource. I cannot fully express how grateful I am that your video ended up in my TH-cam feed. Thank you for your work...it's depth meets the wound I have worked a lifetime to heal, but have felt I was running out of any chance to do so. You've offered a path that resonates deeply, and such beautiful support to begin again. Bless.🙏
It's never too late. You've absolutely got this. I'm sorry to hear of some of your troubles, and happy to connect at this important time. Plenty more resources on the way, and thank you for such warm words, Jordan!
@@jordanthornton Thanks so much for your kind words and encouragement, Jordan. I'm astonished by all you've shared on your channel already...grateful for your work.
Dear Jordan, that was turely illuminating! Thank you sooooo much for putting yourself out there and shooting this in the raw and vulnerable way you did so we can watch it and learn from it. Thank you for your courage. I just discovered your channel yesterday. Randomly, one of your videos showed up, and it feels like the missing part in my own journey. I have been fascinated by Jung for years but never really tried to go about doing Jungian inner work, but this video has inspired me to. I will be watching all your videos. I hardly ever comment on TH-cam so I feel a little raw myself doing so. I just wanted to say thank you:))
Priya, your messages are well received and I massively appreciate your pattern-interrupt with commenting publicly to connect! I hope you gain loads of practices & suggestions from these videos - and I wish you the absolute best on your continued healing journey. Thank you for witnessing and supporting.
Hey man, any advice on unlocking the diaphragm? I’ve had locked up breathing for quite a few years now. It just seems like tension that I can’t quite unlock, has led to dissociation, anxiety, and hyper self awareness.
Hey Matt, I'm sorry to hear this and appreciate your question. It would be difficult for me to give a general suggestion without knowing more about you as an individual, but I know that the majority of breathing related restrictions usually root back to unaccessed rage or sorrow (usually both) - the path ahead seems to be one of cathartic release and using the vocal chords in a liberating way. What do you think?
I am almost 30. For the last 2 years, I have only just begun learning about inner healing from past traumas. Psychology, parts work, shadow work, integration has been endlessly fascinating to me because for much of my late teens and all throughout my twenties, I was doing some of these therapies naturally. They would just come to me spontaneously and I would do them- somatic releases through small dance-like motions when I had moments alone, journaling memories and emotions, having INTENSE dream states with revealing stories, closing my eyes to see these other realmly places or moments in time and having dialogue sometimes, intentional breathing, scary dreams with cathartic silent screaming that would jolt me awake, mindfulness practices like reflection of seemingly mundane moments and realizing the greatness of their impact on my life. Every time I find out about another kind of therapy or psychological territory or theory, I get childishly excited because it affirms that in my most vulnerable, broken moments there was so much innate healing occurring at the same time. I am loving my body and mind more and more, and seeing the real desire to want to live and to want to heal touches me deeply; it's hard to describe. Conceited as it sounds, I inspire myself! I want to thank you immensely for what you gave out in this video. As I listened to your words, it was suddenly revealed to me why I have been avoiding a certain creative endeavor. And that is because I used to use this particular outlet as escapism when I was a child when things were unsafe. I think my inner child may have anxiety/fear that I must be in danger right now because this is the thing I want to do. She may be trying to keep me safe, or may be telling me that I AM safe and that I do not need to "escape". Vigilant child, she is. Maybe she needs comfort and reassurance. I will visit her with further inquiry on the topic.
Inspiring yourself is the powerful central point of healing, thank you for sharing some of your experiences for other people to read. I'm sure someone will find value here, and your words are thoughtfully considered. Wishing you well in the new month ahead.
Exactly as anyone stated. You are showing the theory and make it pragmatic, instead of over theorizing every jungian theory which is complex enough on its own. So u got my subscirption thanks man
6:28, Hey brother. i actually do parts work or voice dialogue while standing only in fact. I've recently injured my back so i can't sit anyway. lucky that i actually prefer while standing.
Huhboy, here goes. I grew up with a dismal lack of male bonding, a scathingly rejecting father (although much later we formed a powerful friendship) Boys and young men need bonding initiatory experiences. I read everything i could about boyhood, manhood, eventually filling in some of the blanks. About 15 yrs ago i found a book in a second hand bookstore entitled Becoming A Man or some such. As i started reading, i realized it was by a former homosexual guy who, through the ministry of Christ had managed to become happily married and a father, and was conducting workshops for gay men attempting the same transformation. Now, i do consider this bad science, & bad politics. I'm not religious, though i have a deep inyerest in the historical Jesus, discarding the supernatural elements. But the author's intention was so loving i read it anyway. For example, he did not condemn homosex the way the rabid homophobes do. To him it's comparable to a straight guy who compulsively scores w/many women. His theory is that such men are ruled by their inner boy child. He proposed a meditation: imagine you are walking down a long road, by your side walks your little boy hand in hand. As you walk, in the distance appears a figure approaching. As it nears, you can recognize it's Jesus. The 3 figures meet, you let Jesus take the boy's hand, and watch them walk away together. After reading i thought "Hey, i can do this", i gave it a go, commenced the meditation. With one startling change: my boy was not walking next to me; i was carrying a dead boy. Believe me i was startled, i remember thinking "...umm, this is not mentioned in the book". But there was no undoing or redoing it. This is my intrapsychic reality. So i proceeded. In my right arm was the boy's upper body, over my left arm draped the boy's knees. I did see the approaching figure. Who knows why, but i was unable to keep looking at the figure and chose to look at the ground. So i can't say it was Jesus, coulda been one of his friends. We met, i saw his feet. I lowered my boy's feet to the ground, the figure took my boy's hand, i watched them walk away. I can barely describe the mixture of feelings. The sadness, my life has been a requiem. The fatigue, i'm exhausted from carrying. And the relief, i don't have to carry him anymore. He's ok now, in the afterlife. Phew, even after all these yrs, i remember this everyday. I had not even heard of parts work at the time.
7:32 have you tried red lens glasses to block out blue light when watching media specially at night? for us Jungians the red may remind us of Jung's Red Book and therefore raise self awareness to consider disconnecting from screen time before bed time and that sleeping early is AWESOME for how we feel in the morning. i appreciate this video...
THANK YOU SO FUCKING MUCH for allowing us to hold space with you!! That was one of the most vulnerable things I’ve ever witnessed. I got emotional!! This was so helpful for me. I’ve only had one conversation with an inner child during a meditation and it was by accident! I’ve been searching for any idea on how to get back to that child. This video is best example of how to do this. I’m so grateful for your bravery! Thank you thank you! You are so inspirational. Your journey is giving me hope and reminding me to be patient, it’s a process. -Angie
Hello. I find your videos very enlightening and the information resonating within me. Thank you for that! When you were speaking to your inner child I could sense anger, disappointment, and sadness in having to witness parental upheaval which cultivated an apathetic safety barrier against uncomfortable situations. Now, with the digital age, we have everyone's issues intrude on our minds and lives. You perhaps are more sensitive to the vibrations of the current state of our world and that feeds the memory of those particular times of your life which results in your scrolling as the escape you desire. We all have done it and some still do it....no shame there. Personally, when I go to bed, I do the meditative shift you showed us but focus on releasing the events of the day. I truly enjoyed the process you shared and will try to apply it to other aspects of my life. Thank you so very much!! Many blessings to you!
It’s a pleasure to receive such a deep engagement, thank you for taking the time to write this. Parts work processes are so vital, especially with younger parts 🌲
Uh. This is getting surreal enough I am not sure about even commenting anymore. I canNOT believe at the end here, you said Meet the Shadow King and the Tyrant. One of the young men to whom I referred in my previous comments goes by the Gamer tag- Tyrant. He is the one I wrote the lyric "Shadow Kings" for. He is currently my primary concern, although distant. This is *very* strange and coincidental (Synchronous?) I am not sure how I feel about even watching the next video at this point. wow. (I was *trying* to back off/minimize taking up your time. lol sorry.)
Thank you so so much! This is my absolute favorite video of yours. So raw and real. I understand that it wasn't easy for you but I greatly appreciate it and I'm sure many others do too. This should have at least a million views so far. Crazy! Loved it! Now I actually understand how to fully meditate. 🙃
I beg to differ: don't think at all this was neither messy nor confusing. Our habitual way to dig for candied truths out there actually needs some of these bridging orientations. Again, it is an infinite source of amazement to me that, even though this field of study and practices are decades old, our general public recognition of it is nonexistent. I have to say, you're one courageous fella! Very grateful to have that sort of people in my radius of interaction. Thank you for the initiative, resourcefulness and upfront mien. I'm sure no one that follows you would be judgemental in any way, but I get that it's an open space and all sorts of jerks can come here and do their show. Much appreciated for putting yourself exposed like that to construct this framework and help a bunch of seekers. I'd have one request to make relative to this process: I have had a hard time when something I'm afraid of is manifested in the inner sight. For example, things having to do with the sea, deep sea, big sea animals, etc. It's a big issue I don't know where it stems from. Sometimes it becomes very overwhelming, even though we are consciously aware it's just a representation. Any suggestion on how to approach it? Thank you so much again for it all.
Thank you so much for such insightful and considerate feedback, Fran - it’s always appreciated. To answer your question... the way I would approach building the capacity to hold to more ‘terror’ in the interior world would be having a VERY safe embodiment practice before entering into these spaces. Endeavouring to create as peaceful and solid a physical situation as possible. Self soothing is also important. During this video I started automatically self-soothing and stroking my hand when things were getting tense - those kinds of small self regulations can be done without ‘breaking state’. Anchoring us into peace again. Hope this helps.
@@jordanthornton Ok, I'll try and put more attention to that next time. And I'll make sure to do a small list of self-soothing things, so whenever I'm in the state I have something already in mind to resort to. Thanks again and again... ; P You're the best!
Jordan ha it seems we have a similar issue… but this is what I did… I asked my guides and ancestors to work my devices and algorithms… and I kid you not, literally mid short my screen would start doing it’s own thing (like invisible swiping) and land on something I can connect with or learn from… it’s amazing… I just smile and say thank you ♥️
The first time I heard of the Shadow, was from a Tool song Forty Six & 2. I had zero clue what it was about. Many years later searching for self healing and development I'm reading Carl Jung's Red Book and finally found what I'm looking for In your videos. Conscience information broken down in a practical order. Unscripted emotions displayed showing honesty, sincerity, and the courage to admit addictions and past traumas have me inspired to commit to this. Thank you for your work!
Tool is wonderful, real depth. I'm happy you're reading Jung and also finding value in these teachings - always looking back towards the book, however. It's a pleasure to show up and inspire this work, thank you for taking the time to comment and let me know - keep going with the inner work, Nick!
Thank you Jorden for starting with explaining that this is a awkward and uncomfortable process. I was shocked at how well this process worked for me but the discomfort I felt has made me not want to continue. Your video has inspired me to take it up again.
Alecia, you are most welcome! Thank you for leaving a comment and connecting, it's a pleasure to show up and demonstrate and I'm glad you found value - I have no idea how you got here either, unless you searched for active imagination / parts work?
@jordanthornton - question.. I love ifs but it scares me to delve into getting parts to speak up/communicate, I worry it could become schizophrenic? Thank you for your work & apologies if the question is remedial/uninformed.
I understand your concern, and thankfully address this question in a roundabout way throughout my new shadow work playlist. Check it out on my channel, especially episode 01/08 titled Shadow Work For Beginners - should help!
👏👏👏 Bravo. Thank you for putting yourself in a vulnerable spot to show the technique. Your videos are valuable and informative. Your voice makes the videos soothing to listen to.
Brilliant work! Thank you for sharing. It takes alot of courage to share such a space of vulnerability. The most intimate parts of self in which we are still navigating and discovering. I like that you stated you weren't trying to change this aspect of self. As humans we always feel the need to fix or change these parts. Yet in essence these parts just need to be seen, witnessed, embraced and loved with no judgement. Re-parenting the inner child is a difficult task yet the most rewarding. I appreciate your work, blessings on your journey forward.✨
Mel, thank you for taking the time to write this - your comment is well received and I’m glad that the demonstration proved useful. Acceptance and compassion of parts really is the way forward 🌲
Wow, i applaud your brave ness. well done for putting this out there, and thank you so much, seeing how it is when you go through it made me relise loads. of course seeing it through the 3rd person is seeing it from a higher perspective, a higher self. its so literal . look how much you have grown from that teenager, and in such a way you have benifited at least 1 person today by what you are using the screen for now. Thank you Jordan, Bless ya.
Fred, it's my pleasure to show up and teach from this place - thank you for your attention and engagement. Wishing you the best with your journey now and ahead.
Hello, Jordan. I have been listening to your videos on shadow work, father complex, inner healing, etc. every chance i get for several days, and i consider them all time well-spent. Would you believe i take notes and listen until the end of nearly every episode? I heard you describe this video as "messy" and the like several times, but i didn't see that at all. I saw a strong and courageous man allowing himself to be made vulnerable and transparent for the benefit of others. I saw an equally courageous and altruistic man willing to model a very raw process so that his viewers could learn to do the same. Thank you, sir. I believe we can all relate to the plight of your inner child. We are all on your channel so that we can make sense of and reconcile our *own* shards. Thank you for bringing us all together, and for championing this small army of light bringers. I hope you feel the love and admiration radiating from your crew. I would appreciate more videos like this, although I recognize and honor that the lack of structure may horrify you. I am going to attempt this exercise presently, because i have now seen the process and have a new, basic understanding of how it looks, as well as the benefit. (Again, thank you.)
Your depth of engagement with these videos means a lot to me, and I truly appreciate you taking the time to comment to let me know how seriously you take this work. I've explored similar videos like this in my new shadow work playlist, and also the course - so yes, it's tricky territory, but more attempts have been made. Hope they help.
I really appreciate you walking through this. It was a great help. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences, I know it's a very personal experience
I'm grateful for you with all of my heart I'm going through challenging times and your videos helps me alot, thank you so much for being a fearless soul and sharing these sensitive subjects 🙏🏻💚
Witnessing your in your own fearlessness, thank you. I'm sorry you're going through tough times - reflecting that light and reminding you of your power and stability.
Wow!! Thank you so much for being vulnerable! Your strong, brave and very intelligent with your capacity to help and show others how inner dialogues work. So happy I found you!😍❤ Oh by the way..I stay up also looking at meaningless chat on my phone...ending up tired and angry with myself why I can't seem to stop doing that.
Your story is very similar to mine. I was that kid, some part of me still is that kid. It's hard to know what to do next, but I guess I just have to go ask, right?
It's a mixture of asking and knowing how to parent teenagers, Chris. I've learned a lot from direct access in addition to reading good parenting books (despite not having children) - the advice crosses over, but fundamentally children/teenagers want to be witness, validated and guided in a loving way. Wishing you the best, brother.
Thank you I was literally crying, such a beautiful thing. This helps so much since I’m always tryin to understand words and put them into action, and sometimes guidance is needed. Thank you again!❤️
That kind of shutdown can happen sometimes, I’m sorry. It could be worthwhile to take some time to journal or physically release some of the tension before adding more ‘density’ with video teachings / more ideas - wishing you my best, these videos aren’t going anywhere either! 🌲🔋
Thank you for your courage and your honesty! I have a couple of questions regarding the process that you did. After setting up intention you were waiting for part to come up, what exactly were you expecting to get to notice that it came? What do you do in the inner work process to integrate the part? Overall it reminded me of A. Mindell's approach - process work. Wonder if Stones and Mindell met :)
These are great questions, although somewhat complex to answer in a single comment. My best response is checking out my recent video from the last few months titled 'Active Imagination' - it has a thumbnail with a cloud city and round table!
You are AMAZING! Not messy...brave, clear, fresh, raw, honest, organic and real! I love this episode so much. I like how you mention to not change them and to also wait for them. Also how you speak to him on his level. Soul food for the deep and old souls - so grateful for your bravery and for creating that situation, then, in order to raise consciousness, now. Thanks Emo Teen Jordan and of course all your past and future selves - super valuable work!! Thank you for you!! More please! You got this!!
@@jordanthornton You are super welcome! Indeed, witnessing you be with (y)our parts has invited me to be kinder and more patient in my process. This specific video showed me that I can bring in more time and compassion. My teenage part seemed dramatic, dark, intimidating and unrelatable 😕 so far...seeing you be with yours, has given me a different angle/approach. Very valuable perspective shift, cause I can see how my separations, rejections and projections onto her has not been a safe and welcoming space. I now have a bridge! Beautiful gift, thank you!
@@eloise3280 Yes, teenagers are often awkward creatures poised between the past and the future - really difficult to 'work with', so I get it. Once more pleased to have provided an example of resonance!
Really great. Super interesting to have been following your recent videos, and then now watching your work of 1 or 2 yrs ago. Despite working on this stuff many yrs, i forever feel like a novice. I would venture the awkwardness you demonstrated is itself a sign you are doing it right. In my own parts work, it's incredibly ephemeral. Like whale watching, they surface briefly, then gone. Yet. Profound shifts occur. Some ten yrs ago, an astonishing one. I have one part i call the executioner. I'll never know what possessed us, but we had a vivid face to face. Executioner held my eyes with an expression of astonished compassion. (S)he spoke: "We don't have to execute you! Your family already killed you. We hereby order a stay of execution" I shared this w/my 12 step recovery group. How they cheered! I have one other to tell you. Maybe later I share the youtube fixation. Some neuroscience videos describe a dopamine rush. Maybe. Besides self -help, it's anxiety re the news. Our world is in such a deplorable condition, i watch the news compulsively
Hi. Thank you for sharing this most intimate time of your inner working. I just met you here on YT, 2 videos back and I appreciate very much what you bring. I’d been in “church” 50yrs when in 2012, I shifted to this side of the fence. I’ve not thought of myself as being new age, but more the now-age, expanding into more of my authenticity, playing and exploring like a child, this field of personal development and consciousness;0) Viewing the inner children/folk whom I’ve connected with as fractured off aspects of my self, after our intros and dialogue out of understanding, compassion and absolutely no judgment, I assure them how I've grown/ evolved, and how they were instrumental in getting me to where I am…Now, if they would like, we can amalgamate into the One Love, I am. They no longer need to be alone. I open my arms and I sense their relief as they walk into my opened arms, my heart, and we reunite. :) Something pretty kewl happened one of the last times I did this work. At the end of our chat, I'd only just opened my arms, and readying to express the invite, like a spark or flash, they flew/ popped into me. I loled, at all of this, ...so unexpected! All of this is most different to the days in church, being part of healing and deliverance teams, where I rebuked, broke strongholds and cast “things” off. Care to respond? In the meantime, I’ll be checking out more of your videos, esp. the Essentials Group. Again, thank you so much. I’ve a son 34, on disability and still home who is most angry and only sees this mama as a Woo-wooer, hehe. I’ve tried to guide him to look at the idea of the inner child, but maybe, the way you’ve expressed this idea would be more palatable to him. We’ll see. Thank you, again…For now, I will continue enjoying you:)
I find when I try to do parts work I encounter so many different competing and contradictory parts that keep popping up as I try to work with one. I never get the kind of clarity and vision that you seem to have gotten. And most of the time my parts won’t really give me responses. And then at some point my whole system just reaches an impasse and collapses and I just go dead. And I can’t get to the bottom of if a gut feeling I have about something is my inner knowing or just a part. It feels perhaps I don’t have a strong enough ego to really do this work. Wondering if you can perhaps speak about these things a bit?
I identify: in parts work i do not experience the clarity Jordan demonstrated. It's so fleeting. Like whale watching, they appear for an instant, then gone. But. I would not interpret it as "ego not strong enough". In my own case, it's about the extreme youngness of the traumatized part. The human brain is so undeveloped in the earliest years of life, visual memory is not really possible. Although kinesthetic impressions registered. Hang in there, as the fleeting impressions occur, some REcur. Those tend to confirm....
Hi Jordan, just want to say these were the missing piece of my own work, and will probably read one of these books with more concise steps. I've been meditating for many years now and that part of myself that seeks attention after all this time. Most millennials really have issues with technology these days as a form of escapism. It's a hard egg to crack but knowing with deep understanding really helps to some extent.
Thank you for your courage in sharing your inner space in this way Jordan. Beautiful and inspiring. I saw a Canadian IFS therapist film a session for youtube and before they started the process he mentioned to the real client that they could let their worried parts know that they could erase the video at any point before publishing. That might be something you want to share with a part you encounter if you were to do this again. Anyway, thank you again. Courageoue and ver valuable. I've ordered that book by the by :D
I am so grateful to you for this vulnerable video I could relate very much to every aspect of it. In fact, when you started, I immediately became present to my shadow parts that have the same behavior. I’m staying up late and watching mindless garbage and I started to giggle because they showed up basically a snot nose kids and they were really funny so I really got a lot of the video. Appreciate you so much. Thank you for putting yourself out there for us.
@@jordanthornton Thank you 🙏 I found your content by googling Animus. I am so grateful for the positive projection awareness you imparted on me! Supremely needed that key 🔑 And yes, I am oh so enjoying stacking my book shelves. lol My newest additions are The Invisible Partners, The Thirst for Wholeness, The Shadow King and To Be A Man. ❤️🔥 Building my own inner fire and self respect 🙏
@@jordanthornton Thank you for the warm welcome 🙏 I am most certainly enjoying stacking my shelves! lol My newest editions are The Invisible Partners, To Be A Man, The Shadow King and The Thirst for Wholeness. I found your channel by googling “anima/animus integration”. Super grateful your content showed up! Supremely needed those keys 👌 I also bought TH-cam Secrets, which you did not recommend overtly.. but, I figured if I want to fan my own flame, I need to follow through with cultivating my own gifts and dreams 💭
My pleasure - I think that demonstration really helps with these kinds of unconscious explorations! Have you explored these practices much already, Amy?
@@jordanthornton Hi Jordan 👋 No, your videos are actually the first I've come upon that are so informative but easy for me to understand the method. I've started on the playlist and up to the episode where I wrote out the 6 open ended questions. I tried this on my own first and I was so scared and frightened of the visions I was having I had to stop and find someone to learn from.
I'm on an awakening journey and realized I have so many repressed and unidentified issues I need some kind of therapy for. I've been on a Bernardo Kastrup trip listening to all his interviews and listened one about his book on Jung. I am an old nurse and remember in the 90's when I took mental health and psychology courses Jung was "out there" and look how his "out there" therapies stood the test of time!
Luis, you are most welcome. I've got a new shadow work playlist which goes deeper into these kinds of themes at great depth if you're interested - right there at the top of my channel!
Absolutely fascinating, I dont think anyone would judge this negatively I feel my mind has opened so much by watching this, it's a gift. I've spoken to my internal family systems but this strategy is so much more powerful....... wow.
It's 3:42am. I am in full sleep rebellion, after months of stability, steadily unraveling. My inner child has pulled from her integration (which only took my whole life to achieve) and is at it, armed with her rainbow duster, that never dusts. 6 Year olds are trying little people. Thank you, Jordan. This video is one of my absolute favourites.
I appreciate this. I had a contact through writing and questioning part of my other seft. The self hatred I found in that voice shocked me. It was so wonderful to meet that self. Such a blessing seeing and meeting that part of me and accepting and conversing with it. I honor your sharing this. Didn't it know it was called this.
You're building inwards bridges here, thanks for sharing your passion for the work. I hope you keep finding peace - also consider checking out my 'inner critic' videos on the channel, they should come up to support you if you search the term on the channel page.
This is by far your most powerful video. Holy cow. Thank you. I'm much more experiential in my learning...and this just reverberated in my soul. Gorgeous. I can feel my inner archetypes already asking to speak. Thank you. I'm curious to see what truths lay beneath for me...and am thinking I will use this with future clients as well. This is a path I want to study more.
It's okay. Seriously. I struggle with TH-cam addiction as well. I think many of us do these days. It's so awesome that you helped your porn addiction though. That's great that you are self-aware. I feel like many people are not and that they have so much trouble with going within and actually completing the inner work that needs to be done. So bravo for how far you've come! 🎊 👏 love your videos!
Thanks for showing me what shadow work is. I had heard of it from others online. It reminds me of how I used to voice my dolls/action figures when I was young. I truly had some good dialogue going on then. I had trials in my childhood as well, but I felt them harder than my brothers. I told my little brother “if I ever get away from home, I’ll never come back!” He begged me not to say that. Of course, I don’t go home very often now. It’s painful, but I make an effort to call the parents every weekend now. Now, that’s some shadow work! LOL
Yes, children will often play in these ways if they are allowed - autotherapeutic. Glad that you're finding value here, and good luck with your continued shadow work.
Wow. I am just getting started on your videos although I have been doing similar work with myself and others for years as a physical therapist gone “psycho”. The melding of it all holds many answers and many more questions. So I keep playing. This particular video is amazingly helpful in many ways. I love your easy receptive and accepting approach to your inner troubled teen. Seeing and experiencing this process with you in such organic format is invaluable to my ability to utilize it in my own practice. Thank you so much for taking the risk and I hope to come across more of the same.
Kelly, it's my absolute pleasure to share this process and inspire your response. Glad to have resonated and wishing you the best with your own practice going forward.
This is amazing and thank you for your vulnerability. It’s the integration of parts work that is the hardest bit! With so many parts and maladaptive patterns. Thank you again… I actually shed a tear watching this ❤
Thank u so much for filming this process, for putting urself out there ,raw. The ability to b vulnerable is such a strength. I've just discovered ur channel n I'm enjoying the depth in ur content. So refreshing in a world of 'shorts' ,which I'm prone to scrolling aimlessly myself 🙏💖
Hi Jordan, I have been watching your channel for a few days very engaging to say the least and a big thank you for sharing such knowledge, or live demonstrations so do i take it that the boy you connected with is yourself or someone else? I do think its yourself but i am wondering why do you refer to this archetype as a 3rd party by saying "him" would you not say "i" also i do appreciate the research you put in, and showing us the books you read and say if we wanted to know more about it go get the book. May i recommend that since you have decided to take this on TH-cam which is global and although digitally all of us are connected not all of us have the privilege's of easily getting those books as we are in different parts of the world like i come from the far east so its easy by gleaning on to your knowledge The unfortunate reality i do believe is even if someone is from UK where people can get the book easily, they would also prefer absorbing what you "teach" online as its entirely your effort and you are very kind to help us recover. I'll keep watching and once again my gratitude to you
Thank you for your engagement and attention, Gerald - I'll answer your book question first. I appreciate your point about the difficulty of accessing some resources, although I've found that motivated people are generally capable of acquiring these books if they really want to. I say this experience working with several 1-1 clients who from countries like Columbia, Lebanon, India where books can be hard to find - there always seems to be a way, but I appreciate that it takes an extra effort which I don't need to make in the UK. In response to the parts work, I refer to the part in third person for the sake of demonstration and ease of understanding. You're right that there becomes a point where this is unnecessary and we reclaim first-person language!
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Brother that was so inspiring. You're adding much more value by sharing this process than by just explaining the theory. It's also comforting to see that you still have those types of things to work on, like addictions. I see that we are all human. I should not hold myself to an ideal of perfection, nor beating myself up when I still have ton of things to heal. Much love.
Of course - always more mess behind the scenes 🤫 The screen-time zombification is something I’m always vigilant for, and it’s only gotten harder as I’ve started doing more work on them! Although things have been better in the last week since posting this - inner adolescent feeling seen, and already noticing changes in well-being & sleep quality!
Hey - this was a strange one to film. 😅 What do you think of this episode? Would you like to see more of these live demonstrations? Let me know - I'm always receptive to your feedback!
I loved it! Sure, I think that more raw, live demonstrations would be extremely helpful.
@@juanmaparram4076 Perfect - I’ll find ways to include them where appropriate!
Wow... I got chills and some shaky breathing just from watching. Without expanding any further, I will just say that much of that seemed VERY familiar. But one figure I have yet to encounter is that angst filled teen ... Lots of "ghoulish" figures lately. 😒
Anyway, many thanks for your courage in doing this! If you are comfortable doing more demonstrations, by all means, they'll surely be of help to someone. However, this video alone is a great example!
@@GrasslandsG81 Thank you for taking the time to comment, brother. I'm sorry that you've experienced similar - I know the pain there, even if I don't know the specifics.
I'll do more demonstrations in the future for sure. I recognise how confronting but likewise affirming they can be!
Immediately... As you closer your eyes. I felt who you were calling arise.. the energy around you and within you changed and I felt goose bumps within myself and a dense feeling in my heart.. I felt you. Or atleast I feel a resonance to what you experienced within myself and it was a complete empathic experience that happened watching you .. I almost wanted to cry. And another more perverse side wanted to take you. I see you.. I thank you for this. I appreciate it.
This kind of rawness and vulnerability around these practises is so incredibly valuable - thank you
I'll keep going - thank you for commenting!
Your authentic vulnerability is a source of inspiration and healing for others. What a gift you’re giving to the world. 🙏🏼
Thank you Rachel - it's a pleasure to show up and set an example. Hopefully more people will feel called to go into these spaces and experience their potential too!
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Jordan thank you so much for making this powerful video, this is the first live demonstration I've seen of this process. The vulnerability you've shown gives me strength to confront my personal demons. I can relate so much to what you shared. Sex addiction, porn addiction... trying to fill a void with a bad behavior, positive feedback loop... this made me cry, so many questions can't wait to jump into this for myself. Sincerely thank you, new subscriber
Zachary, thank you! I know these challenges myself - a difficult journey for sure. It's my pleasure to show up and demonstrate, and I wish you the best with your own parts work and introspection. Thanks for taking the time to comment and let me know - more on the way!
This is so touching and powerful. I’ve heard of parts work and active imagination but you were courageous enough to actually demonstrate how to do it.
Always useful to have more examples out there! Plenty more episodes in this series exploring parts work & active imagination on this channel if you’re looking to go deeper! Wishing you all the best, thank you 🌲
Your honesty and vulnerability in this video is so beautiful. It makes me feel very sad as I am reminded of the society we are a part of where 'exposing' ourselves like this is not acceptable. Eg. I have a very special tree that I visit often near where I live by the river (A river that flows at 90% less than its natural capacity due to the city growing and 'damming' the water for human use 😥)
Anyway, sometimes I notice my pace quicken as I approach her because I know I can truly relax in her company and no words are needed. I hugged her the other day but made sure I could not be seen by the passers by who are generally people walking their dogs (would they even be walking by the river if they didn't have a dog? 🤔)
Anyway, this fear of being one's true self in front of others because of what they may think is so unhealthy for us, it is beyond words.
Anyway, thank you so much and I just had a thought ...You have inspired me to do a video of me hugging the tree (thats her in the background of my picture by the way)
Much love and gratitude to you my friend 🙏
Thank you . I respect your courage to be vulnerable. That’s the best way to bring this across . I learnt a lot . Thank you again
I appreciate you attention and I'm glad you found it valuable - certainly strange attempting to vocally facilitate yourself while filming while introspecting... but hey, learning new skills hahah
Gosh, Jordan...just discovered you tonight. Late, not sleeping, and coming to a true reckoning point, but running out of hope and a sense of resource. I cannot fully express how grateful I am that your video ended up in my TH-cam feed. Thank you for your work...it's depth meets the wound I have worked a lifetime to heal, but have felt I was running out of any chance to do so. You've offered a path that resonates deeply, and such beautiful support to begin again. Bless.🙏
It's never too late. You've absolutely got this. I'm sorry to hear of some of your troubles, and happy to connect at this important time. Plenty more resources on the way, and thank you for such warm words, Jordan!
@@jordanthornton Thanks so much for your kind words and encouragement, Jordan. I'm astonished by all you've shared on your channel already...grateful for your work.
Dear Jordan, that was turely illuminating! Thank you sooooo much for putting yourself out there and shooting this in the raw and vulnerable way you did so we can watch it and learn from it. Thank you for your courage. I just discovered your channel yesterday. Randomly, one of your videos showed up, and it feels like the missing part in my own journey. I have been fascinated by Jung for years but never really tried to go about doing Jungian inner work, but this video has inspired me to. I will be watching all your videos. I hardly ever comment on TH-cam so I feel a little raw myself doing so. I just wanted to say thank you:))
Priya, your messages are well received and I massively appreciate your pattern-interrupt with commenting publicly to connect! I hope you gain loads of practices & suggestions from these videos - and I wish you the absolute best on your continued healing journey. Thank you for witnessing and supporting.
@@jordanthornton Thank you for your reply!! I have begun to read Johnson's Inner Work and will be following your channel avidly:)
@@priya9899 Of course, always try to respond meaningfully to everybody who pays attention and seeks contact! Have fun with your studies!
Hey man, any advice on unlocking the diaphragm? I’ve had locked up breathing for quite a few years now. It just seems like tension that I can’t quite unlock, has led to dissociation, anxiety, and hyper self awareness.
Hey Matt, I'm sorry to hear this and appreciate your question. It would be difficult for me to give a general suggestion without knowing more about you as an individual, but I know that the majority of breathing related restrictions usually root back to unaccessed rage or sorrow (usually both) - the path ahead seems to be one of cathartic release and using the vocal chords in a liberating way. What do you think?
I don't trust anyone wearing beanies inside the house
The greatest sign of untrustworthiness, I agree.
Self induced auto-hypnosis. Like Danny Torrance. "Come and play with us."
So confirming. I’ve self guided many sessions of parts and inner child work. This video echos my personal experience. Thank you for sharing.
Jordan 😭
Wow, so so powerful. Holy crap.
Thank you for your vulnerability ❤
I am almost 30. For the last 2 years, I have only just begun learning about inner healing from past traumas.
Psychology, parts work, shadow work, integration has been endlessly fascinating to me because for much of my late teens and all throughout my twenties, I was doing some of these therapies naturally.
They would just come to me spontaneously and I would do them- somatic releases through small dance-like motions when I had moments alone, journaling memories and emotions, having INTENSE dream states with revealing stories, closing my eyes to see these other realmly places or moments in time and having dialogue sometimes, intentional breathing, scary dreams with cathartic silent screaming that would jolt me awake, mindfulness practices like reflection of seemingly mundane moments and realizing the greatness of their impact on my life.
Every time I find out about another kind of therapy or psychological territory or theory, I get childishly excited because it affirms that in my most vulnerable, broken moments there was so much innate healing occurring at the same time.
I am loving my body and mind more and more, and seeing the real desire to want to live and to want to heal touches me deeply; it's hard to describe. Conceited as it sounds, I inspire myself!
I want to thank you immensely for what you gave out in this video.
As I listened to your words, it was suddenly revealed to me why I have been avoiding a certain creative endeavor. And that is because I used to use this particular outlet as escapism when I was a child when things were unsafe. I think my inner child may have anxiety/fear that I must be in danger right now because this is the thing I want to do. She may be trying to keep me safe, or may be telling me that I AM safe and that I do not need to "escape". Vigilant child, she is. Maybe she needs comfort and reassurance. I will visit her with further inquiry on the topic.
Inspiring yourself is the powerful central point of healing, thank you for sharing some of your experiences for other people to read. I'm sure someone will find value here, and your words are thoughtfully considered. Wishing you well in the new month ahead.
Exactly as anyone stated. You are showing the theory and make it pragmatic, instead of over theorizing every jungian theory which is complex enough on its own. So u got my subscirption thanks man
It’s truly my pleasure, thank you!
6:28, Hey brother. i actually do parts work or voice dialogue while standing only in fact. I've recently injured my back so i can't sit anyway. lucky that i actually prefer while standing.
Huhboy, here goes. I grew up with a dismal lack of male bonding, a scathingly rejecting father (although much later we formed a powerful friendship) Boys and young men need bonding initiatory experiences. I read everything i could about boyhood, manhood, eventually filling in some of the blanks. About 15 yrs ago i found a book in a second hand bookstore entitled Becoming A Man or some such. As i started reading, i realized it was by a former homosexual guy who, through the ministry of Christ had managed to become happily married and a father, and was conducting workshops for gay men attempting the same transformation. Now, i do consider this bad science, & bad politics. I'm not religious, though i have a deep inyerest in the historical Jesus, discarding the supernatural elements. But the author's intention was so loving i read it anyway. For example, he did not condemn homosex the way the rabid homophobes do. To him it's comparable to a straight guy who compulsively scores w/many women. His theory is that such men are ruled by their inner boy child. He proposed a meditation: imagine you are walking down a long road, by your side walks your little boy hand in hand. As you walk, in the distance appears a figure approaching. As it nears, you can recognize it's Jesus. The 3 figures meet, you let Jesus take the boy's hand, and watch them walk away together.
After reading i thought "Hey, i can do this", i gave it a go, commenced the meditation. With one startling change: my boy was not walking next to me; i was carrying a dead boy. Believe me i was startled, i remember thinking "...umm, this is not mentioned in the book". But there was no undoing or redoing it. This is my intrapsychic reality. So i proceeded. In my right arm was the boy's upper body, over my left arm draped the boy's knees. I did see the approaching figure. Who knows why, but i was unable to keep looking at the figure and chose to look at the ground. So i can't say it was Jesus, coulda been one of his friends. We met, i saw his feet. I lowered my boy's feet to the ground, the figure took my boy's hand, i watched them walk away.
I can barely describe the mixture of feelings. The sadness, my life has been a requiem. The fatigue, i'm exhausted from carrying. And the relief, i don't have to carry him anymore. He's ok now, in the afterlife. Phew, even after all these yrs, i remember this everyday. I had not even heard of parts work at the time.
Thank you for making this video. My adolescent self still sometimes rests in a similar space, I was able to sit with that part of me alongside you.
7:32 have you tried red lens glasses to block out blue light when watching media specially at night? for us Jungians the red may remind us of Jung's Red Book and therefore raise self awareness to consider disconnecting from screen time before bed time and that sleeping early is AWESOME for how we feel in the morning. i appreciate this video...
THANK YOU SO FUCKING MUCH for allowing us to hold space with you!! That was one of the most vulnerable things I’ve ever witnessed. I got emotional!! This was so helpful for me. I’ve only had one conversation with an inner child during a meditation and it was by accident! I’ve been searching for any idea on how to get back to that child. This video is best example of how to do this. I’m so grateful for your bravery! Thank you thank you! You are so inspirational. Your journey is giving me hope and reminding me to be patient, it’s a process. -Angie
Heart-wide open upon receiving this comment. It’s my pleasure to show up and demonstrate. Thank you, Angie.
Dope. Helped me understand more of what I got to do. Thank you.
Hello. I find your videos very enlightening and the information resonating within me. Thank you for that! When you were speaking to your inner child I could sense anger, disappointment, and sadness in having to witness parental upheaval which cultivated an apathetic safety barrier against uncomfortable situations. Now, with the digital age, we have everyone's issues intrude on our minds and lives. You perhaps are more sensitive to the vibrations of the current state of our world and that feeds the memory of those particular times of your life which results in your scrolling as the escape you desire. We all have done it and some still do it....no shame there. Personally, when I go to bed, I do the meditative shift you showed us but focus on releasing the events of the day. I truly enjoyed the process you shared and will try to apply it to other aspects of my life. Thank you so very much!! Many blessings to you!
It’s a pleasure to receive such a deep engagement, thank you for taking the time to write this. Parts work processes are so vital, especially with younger parts 🌲
Uh. This is getting surreal enough I am not sure about even commenting anymore. I canNOT believe at the end here, you said Meet the Shadow King and the Tyrant. One of the young men to whom I referred in my previous comments goes by the Gamer tag- Tyrant. He is the one I wrote the lyric "Shadow Kings" for. He is currently my primary concern, although distant.
This is *very* strange and coincidental (Synchronous?)
I am not sure how I feel about even watching the next video at this point. wow.
(I was *trying* to back off/minimize taking up your time. lol sorry.)
Thank you so so much! This is my absolute favorite video of yours. So raw and real. I understand that it wasn't easy for you but I greatly appreciate it and I'm sure many others do too. This should have at least a million views so far. Crazy! Loved it! Now I actually understand how to fully meditate. 🙃
I beg to differ: don't think at all this was neither messy nor confusing. Our habitual way to dig for candied truths out there actually needs some of these bridging orientations. Again, it is an infinite source of amazement to me that, even though this field of study and practices are decades old, our general public recognition of it is nonexistent.
I have to say, you're one courageous fella! Very grateful to have that sort of people in my radius of interaction. Thank you for the initiative, resourcefulness and upfront mien. I'm sure no one that follows you would be judgemental in any way, but I get that it's an open space and all sorts of jerks can come here and do their show. Much appreciated for putting yourself exposed like that to construct this framework and help a bunch of seekers.
I'd have one request to make relative to this process: I have had a hard time when something I'm afraid of is manifested in the inner sight. For example, things having to do with the sea, deep sea, big sea animals, etc. It's a big issue I don't know where it stems from. Sometimes it becomes very overwhelming, even though we are consciously aware it's just a representation. Any suggestion on how to approach it? Thank you so much again for it all.
Thank you so much for such insightful and considerate feedback, Fran - it’s always appreciated.
To answer your question... the way I would approach building the capacity to hold to more ‘terror’ in the interior world would be having a VERY safe embodiment practice before entering into these spaces. Endeavouring to create as peaceful and solid a physical situation as possible.
Self soothing is also important. During this video I started automatically self-soothing and stroking my hand when things were getting tense - those kinds of small self regulations can be done without ‘breaking state’. Anchoring us into peace again. Hope this helps.
@@jordanthornton Ok, I'll try and put more attention to that next time. And I'll make sure to do a small list of self-soothing things, so whenever I'm in the state I have something already in mind to resort to. Thanks again and again... ; P You're the best!
Thank you for your vulnerability
Jordan ha it seems we have a similar issue… but this is what I did… I asked my guides and ancestors to work my devices and algorithms… and I kid you not, literally mid short my screen would start doing it’s own thing (like invisible swiping) and land on something I can connect with or learn from… it’s amazing… I just smile and say thank you ♥️
Thank you so much for your translucency. I think it is so brave and beautiful what you are doing.
Aiming for that glass-clear quality more and more with each video, thank you!
I was just watching intellectually, in my kind, but when you said "it's the only time it's safe", I started crying.
Thanks for sharing.
Powerful and open, thank you for sharing here. Be well in the new month.
Beautiful video, it takes alot of courage and strength to do what you did. I wish you alot of success ❤️
The first time I heard of the Shadow, was from a Tool song Forty Six & 2.
I had zero clue what it was about. Many years later searching for self healing and development I'm reading Carl Jung's Red Book and finally found what I'm looking for In your videos. Conscience information broken down in a practical order. Unscripted emotions displayed showing honesty, sincerity, and the courage to admit addictions and past traumas have me inspired to commit to this. Thank you for your work!
Tool is wonderful, real depth. I'm happy you're reading Jung and also finding value in these teachings - always looking back towards the book, however. It's a pleasure to show up and inspire this work, thank you for taking the time to comment and let me know - keep going with the inner work, Nick!
Thank you Jorden for starting with explaining that this is a awkward and uncomfortable process. I was shocked at how well this process worked for me but the discomfort I felt has made me not want to continue. Your video has inspired me to take it up again.
Sending strength and ease for your continued explorations.
Thank you. That was very brave and helpful. Idk how I got here but it's EXACTLY what I need to learn
Alecia, you are most welcome! Thank you for leaving a comment and connecting, it's a pleasure to show up and demonstrate and I'm glad you found value - I have no idea how you got here either, unless you searched for active imagination / parts work?
@jordanthornton - question.. I love ifs but it scares me to delve into getting parts to speak up/communicate, I worry it could become schizophrenic? Thank you for your work & apologies if the question is remedial/uninformed.
I understand your concern, and thankfully address this question in a roundabout way throughout my new shadow work playlist. Check it out on my channel, especially episode 01/08 titled Shadow Work For Beginners - should help!
👏👏👏 Bravo. Thank you for putting yourself in a vulnerable spot to show the technique. Your videos are valuable and informative. Your voice makes the videos soothing to listen to.
You’re welcome - I was going to try screaming dogmatically the whole time but I thought that calm speaking would be better for teaching purpose 😉
@@jordanthornton funny, haha
Thanks for your vulnerability, this very interesting and inspiring 🙏
Thank you, will keep going 🌲
Brilliant work! Thank you for sharing. It takes alot of courage to share such a space of vulnerability. The most intimate parts of self in which we are still navigating and discovering. I like that you stated you weren't trying to change this aspect of self. As humans we always feel the need to fix or change these parts. Yet in essence these parts just need to be seen, witnessed, embraced and loved with no judgement. Re-parenting the inner child is a difficult task yet the most rewarding. I appreciate your work, blessings on your journey forward.✨
Mel, thank you for taking the time to write this - your comment is well received and I’m glad that the demonstration proved useful. Acceptance and compassion of parts really is the way forward 🌲
Wow, i applaud your brave ness. well done for putting this out there, and thank you so much, seeing how it is when you go through it made me relise loads. of course seeing it through the 3rd person is seeing it from a higher perspective, a higher self. its so literal . look how much you have grown from that teenager, and in such a way you have benifited at least 1 person today by what you are using the screen for now. Thank you Jordan, Bless ya.
Fred, it's my pleasure to show up and teach from this place - thank you for your attention and engagement. Wishing you the best with your journey now and ahead.
Hello, Jordan. I have been listening to your videos on shadow work, father complex, inner healing, etc. every chance i get for several days, and i consider them all time well-spent. Would you believe i take notes and listen until the end of nearly every episode?
I heard you describe this video as "messy" and the like several times, but i didn't see that at all. I saw a strong and courageous man allowing himself to be made vulnerable and transparent for the benefit of others. I saw an equally courageous and altruistic man willing to model a very raw process so that his viewers could learn to do the same. Thank you, sir.
I believe we can all relate to the plight of your inner child. We are all on your channel so that we can make sense of and reconcile our *own* shards. Thank you for bringing us all together, and for championing this small army of light bringers. I hope you feel the love and admiration radiating from your crew.
I would appreciate more videos like this, although I recognize and honor that the lack of structure may horrify you.
I am going to attempt this exercise presently, because i have now seen the process and have a new, basic understanding of how it looks, as well as the benefit.
(Again, thank you.)
Your depth of engagement with these videos means a lot to me, and I truly appreciate you taking the time to comment to let me know how seriously you take this work. I've explored similar videos like this in my new shadow work playlist, and also the course - so yes, it's tricky territory, but more attempts have been made. Hope they help.
The most beautiful blue eyes on you tube!
I really appreciate you walking through this. It was a great help. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences, I know it's a very personal experience
Mel, thank you - happy to show up and demonstrate, and I hope it helps support your own parts work too 🔋
I feel restless and soffocated and distracted while doing things like meditation and inner work like these practices, ive just noticed
Wishing you the best with your process this year, keep at it.
Thank you for showing me how. I really appreciate your videos.
Always appreciate your comments, Gail 🌲
Awesome parts work. Such a powerful way to communicate.
It's something we could all do with doing more of.
I'm grateful for you with all of my heart
I'm going through challenging times and your videos helps me alot, thank you so much for being a fearless soul and sharing these sensitive subjects 🙏🏻💚
Witnessing your in your own fearlessness, thank you. I'm sorry you're going through tough times - reflecting that light and reminding you of your power and stability.
Wow!!
Thank you so much for being vulnerable!
Your strong, brave and very intelligent with your capacity to help and show others how inner dialogues work.
So happy I found you!😍❤
Oh by the way..I stay up also looking at meaningless chat on my phone...ending up tired and angry with myself why I can't seem to stop doing that.
Laurie, thank you - It's a strange process to demonstrate but I'm glad that it offered you something. Sending my best.
Your story is very similar to mine. I was that kid, some part of me still is that kid. It's hard to know what to do next, but I guess I just have to go ask, right?
It's a mixture of asking and knowing how to parent teenagers, Chris. I've learned a lot from direct access in addition to reading good parenting books (despite not having children) - the advice crosses over, but fundamentally children/teenagers want to be witness, validated and guided in a loving way.
Wishing you the best, brother.
Thanks this was very interesting and super helpful for those of us that learn by observing. Great stuff.
Glad it was helpful! Parts work is sometimes best demonstrated not spoken!
This was so so touching. Thank you so much for your vulnerability.
Wow. It’s the only time that’s safe🙏🙏🙏
Bizarre process to demonstrate, but absolutely worth it!
First time I see someone else doing this - fascinating to watch. Have you had beings in your mind saying something that later becomes real?
Glad that the video helped, although the second part of your comment I can’t help with 🌲
Thank you I was literally crying, such a beautiful thing. This helps so much since I’m always tryin to understand words and put them into action, and sometimes guidance is needed. Thank you again!❤️
Powerful to receive this - keep going with your work, I’m glad to have provided some support 🌲✌🏻
Thank you. I actually still have those same issues as you and been working on it for a long time.
Brother, I’m right in it with you. Glad to provide value & sending strength for your journey ahead 🌲
@@jordanthornton Thank you. 🙏 I took your advice and got "Inner Work".
Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. You have helped
Me more than you know . Light. and. Love to you.♥️
Angela, it's my pleasure. Wishing you all the best
i swear i fully understand everything you’re saying but it’s like my brain isn’t ready to learn it yet so these videos hurt my head
That kind of shutdown can happen sometimes, I’m sorry. It could be worthwhile to take some time to journal or physically release some of the tension before adding more ‘density’ with video teachings / more ideas - wishing you my best, these videos aren’t going anywhere either! 🌲🔋
I can’t express my gratitude for your having shared this strongly enough
Be encouraged and know this was a powerful demonstration
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More on the way, thank you for being here.
@@jordanthornton
BTW
The Robert Johnson book is awesome
Thanks
Thank you for your courage and your honesty!
I have a couple of questions regarding the process that you did.
After setting up intention you were waiting for part to come up, what exactly were you expecting to get to notice that it came?
What do you do in the inner work process to integrate the part?
Overall it reminded me of A. Mindell's approach - process work. Wonder if Stones and Mindell met :)
These are great questions, although somewhat complex to answer in a single comment. My best response is checking out my recent video from the last few months titled 'Active Imagination' - it has a thumbnail with a cloud city and round table!
@@jordanthornton Thank you!!!
This video is causing me to identify a situation in my life that I would like to dialog with. Thank you.
I encourage you to explore - in your own timing, of course. Happy to show an example of the process. Wishing you all the best, Barbara.
Cause of all suffering is lack of control over reality, that's all there is to it. Stop overthinking. Omnipotence is the only joyful state of being.
Part of the picture, but not the full truth - wishing you well ✌🏻
@@jordanthornton It's not. It depends on perspective. Some enjoy imbalance, like me, some enjoy balance.
You are AMAZING! Not messy...brave, clear, fresh, raw, honest, organic and real! I love this episode so much. I like how you mention to not change them and to also wait for them. Also how you speak to him on his level. Soul food for the deep and old souls - so grateful for your bravery and for creating that situation, then, in order to raise consciousness, now. Thanks Emo Teen Jordan and of course all your past and future selves - super valuable work!! Thank you for you!! More please! You got this!!
Eloise, thank you! I really appreciate this extra warm comment and hope it helped you to find further clarity in your own parts work?
@@jordanthornton You are super welcome! Indeed, witnessing you be with (y)our parts has invited me to be kinder and more patient in my process. This specific video showed me that I can bring in more time and compassion. My teenage part seemed dramatic, dark, intimidating and unrelatable 😕 so far...seeing you be with yours, has given me a different angle/approach. Very valuable perspective shift, cause I can see how my separations, rejections and projections onto her has not been a safe and welcoming space. I now have a bridge! Beautiful gift, thank you!
@@eloise3280 Yes, teenagers are often awkward creatures poised between the past and the future - really difficult to 'work with', so I get it. Once more pleased to have provided an example of resonance!
Really great. Super interesting to have been following your recent videos, and then now watching your work of 1 or 2 yrs ago. Despite working on this stuff many yrs, i forever feel like a novice. I would venture the awkwardness you demonstrated is itself a sign you are doing it right.
In my own parts work, it's incredibly ephemeral. Like whale watching, they surface briefly, then gone. Yet. Profound shifts occur. Some ten yrs ago, an astonishing one. I have one part i call the executioner. I'll never know what possessed us, but we had a vivid face to face. Executioner held my eyes with an expression of astonished compassion. (S)he spoke: "We don't have to execute you! Your family already killed you. We hereby order a stay of execution" I shared this w/my 12 step recovery group. How they cheered! I have one other to tell you. Maybe later
I share the youtube fixation. Some neuroscience videos describe a dopamine rush. Maybe. Besides self -help, it's anxiety re the news. Our world is in such a deplorable condition, i watch the news compulsively
Hi. Thank you for sharing this most intimate time of your inner working. I just met you here on YT, 2 videos back and I appreciate very much what you bring.
I’d been in “church” 50yrs when in 2012, I shifted to this side of the fence. I’ve not thought of myself as being new age, but more the now-age, expanding into more of my authenticity, playing and exploring like a child, this field of personal development and consciousness;0)
Viewing the inner children/folk whom I’ve connected with as fractured off aspects of my self, after our intros and dialogue out of understanding, compassion and absolutely no judgment, I assure them how I've grown/ evolved, and how they were instrumental in getting me to where I am…Now, if they would like, we can amalgamate into the One Love, I am. They no longer need to be alone.
I open my arms and I sense their relief as they walk into my opened arms, my heart, and we reunite. :)
Something pretty kewl happened one of the last times I did this work. At the end of our chat, I'd only just opened my arms, and readying to express the invite, like a spark or flash, they flew/ popped into me. I loled, at all of this, ...so unexpected!
All of this is most different to the days in church, being part of healing and deliverance teams, where I rebuked, broke strongholds and cast “things” off.
Care to respond?
In the meantime, I’ll be checking out more of your videos, esp. the Essentials Group. Again, thank you so much.
I’ve a son 34, on disability and still home who is most angry and only sees this mama as a Woo-wooer, hehe. I’ve tried to guide him to look at the idea of the inner child, but maybe, the way you’ve expressed this idea would be more palatable to him. We’ll see.
Thank you, again…For now, I will continue enjoying you:)
So i have to get used to these alter conciences or just move on
Not exactly - the work is integrations these parts via parts work processes, as demonstrated in the video 🌲
Wow. That was amazing. Thanks so much for sharing and being raw. Peace and light to you.
You are most welcome - glad it helped and wishing you the best with your own parts work! 🌲
Thank you for being vulnerable
You’re most welcome!
I find when I try to do parts work I encounter so many different competing and contradictory parts that keep popping up as I try to work with one. I never get the kind of clarity and vision that you seem to have gotten. And most of the time my parts won’t really give me responses. And then at some point my whole system just reaches an impasse and collapses and I just go dead. And I can’t get to the bottom of if a gut feeling I have about something is my inner knowing or just a part. It feels perhaps I don’t have a strong enough ego to really do this work. Wondering if you can perhaps speak about these things a bit?
Screenshotted this one too, and will do my best - good luck!
I identify: in parts work i do not experience the clarity Jordan demonstrated. It's so fleeting. Like whale watching, they appear for an instant, then gone. But. I would not interpret it as "ego not strong enough". In my own case, it's about the extreme youngness of the traumatized part. The human brain is so undeveloped in the earliest years of life, visual memory is not really possible. Although kinesthetic impressions registered. Hang in there, as the fleeting impressions occur, some REcur. Those tend to confirm....
Even your voice is therapeutic
Cheers, welcome and enjoy!
Hi Jordan, just want to say these were the missing piece of my own work, and will probably read one of these books with more concise steps. I've been meditating for many years now and that part of myself that seeks attention after all this time. Most millennials really have issues with technology these days as a form of escapism. It's a hard egg to crack but knowing with deep understanding really helps to some extent.
Thank you for your courage in sharing your inner space in this way Jordan. Beautiful and inspiring.
I saw a Canadian IFS therapist film a session for youtube and before they started the process he mentioned to the real client that they could let their worried parts know that they could erase the video at any point before publishing. That might be something you want to share with a part you encounter if you were to do this again.
Anyway, thank you again. Courageoue and ver valuable. I've ordered that book by the by :D
I am so grateful to you for this vulnerable video I could relate very much to every aspect of it. In fact, when you started, I immediately became present to my shadow parts that have the same behavior. I’m staying up late and watching mindless garbage and I started to giggle because they showed up basically a snot nose kids and they were really funny so I really got a lot of the video. Appreciate you so much. Thank you for putting yourself out there for us.
Appreciated content. Thank you.
Thank you for taking the time to comment and let me know - more to come, and it's a pleasure to connect with you.
10:14 no judgement, just the space created in a spirit of beautiful compassion. 👍
Thanks for doing this, i didnt judge you in qny way shape or form.
I love you unconventionally 🖤
Wishing you my absolute best - thank you
Thank You Jordan. Thank You.
Truly my pleasure - good luck with your active imaginations
Really loving your content! Thank you so much ❤
Welcome, and it’s a pleasure to get connected. Hope you’re enjoy stacking your shelves with some golden books - you picked up and new reads yet? 🌲
@@jordanthornton Thank you 🙏 I found your content by googling Animus. I am so grateful for the positive projection awareness you imparted on me! Supremely needed that key 🔑 And yes, I am oh so enjoying stacking my book shelves. lol My newest additions are The Invisible Partners, The Thirst for Wholeness, The Shadow King and To Be A Man. ❤️🔥 Building my own inner fire and self respect 🙏
@@jordanthornton Thank you for the warm welcome 🙏 I am most certainly enjoying stacking my shelves! lol My newest editions are The Invisible Partners, To Be A Man, The Shadow King and The Thirst for Wholeness. I found your channel by googling “anima/animus integration”. Super grateful your content showed up! Supremely needed those keys 👌
I also bought TH-cam Secrets, which you did not recommend overtly.. but, I figured if I want to fan my own flame, I need to follow through with cultivating my own gifts and dreams 💭
Thank you for being so vulnerable so we can see how this works!
My pleasure - I think that demonstration really helps with these kinds of unconscious explorations! Have you explored these practices much already, Amy?
@@jordanthornton Hi Jordan 👋 No, your videos are actually the first I've come upon that are so informative but easy for me to understand the method. I've started on the playlist and up to the episode where I wrote out the 6 open ended questions.
I tried this on my own first and I was so scared and frightened of the visions I was having I had to stop and find someone to learn from.
I'm on an awakening journey and realized I have so many repressed and unidentified issues I need some kind of therapy for. I've been on a Bernardo Kastrup trip listening to all his interviews and listened one about his book on Jung. I am an old nurse and remember in the 90's when I took mental health and psychology courses Jung was "out there" and look how his "out there" therapies stood the test of time!
@@selfishjeans Just saw your replies here as I was looking at my page - my apologies I didn't see them sooner, Amy! Hope you're well!
Thank you ❤
You're most welcome, thanks for being here.
I'm very grateful to you for sharing this. It was revealing and profoundly educational. Thank you
Luis, you are most welcome. I've got a new shadow work playlist which goes deeper into these kinds of themes at great depth if you're interested - right there at the top of my channel!
Absolutely fascinating, I dont think anyone would judge this negatively I feel my mind has opened so much by watching this, it's a gift. I've spoken to my internal family systems but this strategy is so much more powerful....... wow.
Wishing you the best with your own parts work process, Viv.
It's 3:42am. I am in full sleep rebellion, after months of stability, steadily unraveling.
My inner child has pulled from her integration (which only took my whole life to achieve) and is at it, armed with her rainbow duster, that never dusts. 6 Year olds are trying little people.
Thank you, Jordan.
This video is one of my absolute favourites.
An important topic for sure, happy to have helped and wishing you well with your next steps, Michelle!
Thank you Jordan
Fiona, you are most welcome.
I appreciate this. I had a contact through writing and questioning part of my other seft. The self hatred I found in that voice shocked me. It was so wonderful to meet that self. Such a blessing seeing and meeting that part of me and accepting and conversing with it. I honor your sharing this. Didn't it know it was called this.
You're building inwards bridges here, thanks for sharing your passion for the work. I hope you keep finding peace - also consider checking out my 'inner critic' videos on the channel, they should come up to support you if you search the term on the channel page.
This is by far your most powerful video. Holy cow. Thank you. I'm much more experiential in my learning...and this just reverberated in my soul. Gorgeous. I can feel my inner archetypes already asking to speak. Thank you. I'm curious to see what truths lay beneath for me...and am thinking I will use this with future clients as well. This is a path I want to study more.
Strange one to film, but well worth it.
Thank you for your courage! Your vulnerable, genuine sharing is very much appreciated. Thank you.
Zorro, thank you - I appreciate your engagement and hope this video was useful for you and your own process with parts work.
It's okay. Seriously. I struggle with TH-cam addiction as well. I think many of us do these days. It's so awesome that you helped your porn addiction though. That's great that you are self-aware. I feel like many people are not and that they have so much trouble with going within and actually completing the inner work that needs to be done. So bravo for how far you've come! 🎊 👏 love your videos!
Always the hardest part to get started, yes. Thank you again for such warm words, Heather.
Thanks for showing me what shadow work is. I had heard of it from others online. It reminds me of how I used to voice my dolls/action figures when I was young. I truly had some good dialogue going on then. I had trials in my childhood as well, but I felt them harder than my brothers. I told my little brother “if I ever get away from home, I’ll never come back!” He begged me not to say that. Of course, I don’t go home very often now. It’s painful, but I make an effort to call the parents every weekend now. Now, that’s some shadow work! LOL
Yes, children will often play in these ways if they are allowed - autotherapeutic. Glad that you're finding value here, and good luck with your continued shadow work.
I really appreciate and honour your venerability. This video has helped my process tremendously. Thank you :)
You're very welcome! It's a life-changing process when taken seriously, and I'm happy to have helped Pam.
Wow. I am just getting started on your videos although I have been doing similar work with myself and others for years as a physical therapist gone “psycho”. The melding of it all holds many answers and many more questions. So I keep playing.
This particular video is amazingly helpful in many ways. I love your easy receptive and accepting approach to your inner troubled teen. Seeing and experiencing this process with you in such organic format is invaluable to my ability to utilize it in my own practice. Thank you so much for taking the risk and I hope to come across more of the same.
Kelly, it's my absolute pleasure to share this process and inspire your response. Glad to have resonated and wishing you the best with your own practice going forward.
This is amazing and thank you for your vulnerability. It’s the integration of parts work that is the hardest bit! With so many parts and maladaptive patterns. Thank you again… I actually shed a tear watching this ❤
Happy to be here to demonstrate, enjoy your own processing 🌲
Thank you!
You're welcome!
Thank you
You're welcome - enjoy the playlist
Thank u so much for filming this process, for putting urself out there ,raw. The ability to b vulnerable is such a strength. I've just discovered ur channel n I'm enjoying the depth in ur content. So refreshing in a world of 'shorts' ,which I'm prone to scrolling aimlessly myself 🙏💖
You are so welcome! Bugger the shorts hahah
Hi Jordan, I have been watching your channel for a few days very engaging to say the least and a big thank you for sharing such knowledge, or live demonstrations so do i take it that the boy you connected with is yourself or someone else? I do think its yourself but i am wondering why do you refer to this archetype as a 3rd party by saying "him" would you not say "i" also i do appreciate the research you put in, and showing us the books you read and say if we wanted to know more about it go get the book.
May i recommend that since you have decided to take this on TH-cam which is global and although digitally all of us are connected not all of us have the privilege's of easily getting those books as we are in different parts of the world like i come from the far east so its easy by gleaning on to your knowledge
The unfortunate reality i do believe is even if someone is from UK where people can get the book easily, they would also prefer absorbing what you "teach" online as its entirely your effort and you are very kind to help us recover. I'll keep watching and once again my gratitude to you
Thank you for your engagement and attention, Gerald - I'll answer your book question first.
I appreciate your point about the difficulty of accessing some resources, although I've found that motivated people are generally capable of acquiring these books if they really want to. I say this experience working with several 1-1 clients who from countries like Columbia, Lebanon, India where books can be hard to find - there always seems to be a way, but I appreciate that it takes an extra effort which I don't need to make in the UK.
In response to the parts work, I refer to the part in third person for the sake of demonstration and ease of understanding. You're right that there becomes a point where this is unnecessary and we reclaim first-person language!
This demonstration elevated my understanding to the level I had been trying to achieve for several months. Thank you for sharing this!
You're very welcome!
♏ Amazing intimate video I absolutely loved it. Pure Magick.
Cheers, Onyx! Appreciate your attention and engagement.
This was incredibly insightful and interesting, please keep making content
No plans of stopping anytime soon - more on the way, thank you for commenting!