Why you Should Never tell your Friends about your Finances
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ส.ค. 2021
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100% regret sharing. They were okay hearing the struggle but called me a show off when i was surpassing them. Lesson taught and learned :)
A real friend will respect your choices even if they don’t understand it. I didn’t share when we were getting out of debt with too many friends, just the ones I trusted. Not every one is happy for your success, some will make fun of judge you. But you just gotta do what’s best for you.
Great points made , enjoyed watching your video.
So true! Thank you for watching!
My mom use to say “Never let your right hand know what your left hand is doing”
"Used to."
My mother told me to remember that 1 month before she passed and came into my dreams to tell me last week!
That comes from the bible.
Certain people weaponize all personal information against you. It's a very good idea to keep your finances private because they're probably going to be gossiped about and that information can fall into the wrong hands. If people ask about your money, they're either trying to size you up or take it from you. Zero upside, a lot of downside.
People will always have something to say. Let them. At the end of the day, we are all trying to figure it out.
Just because I have rental properties, people think I'm a millionaire 🙂
Even if you were that is not their business
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Agree with everything thing you said . But it’s sad how we can’t educate each other finances. Without there being jealousy.
Yea it is sad. Unfortunately that’s how some people are.
There's an old saying "The only people who can hurt you, are those closest to you"
It's true. It's even hard to ask for advice because people are trying to take advantage.
It's sad that I thought I could trust my long-time friend, telling him that I had no credit card debt and on track to paying off my car. Instead of being happy for me, he tried to 'flex' and show me some fancy Chase Platinum card that he had, listing all the 'perks'. He also asked when I was going to 'upgrade' my car since I have a kia sedan and he has a Mazda SUV. Nope! Never again. I've been moving in silence ever since and continue to live below my means.
I’ve even stopped sharing how much I make with my children my 12 yr old daughter stay pocket watching me 🤦🏾♀️ Starting this debt free journey even in this last 3 weeks has really shown me just how much money I’ve let slip right through my fingers 😩 great tips
This video about being debt free and gaining financial independence only got 38 likes but 201 people viewed it. Damn shame, I appreciate you sis. Our community doesn’t speak about this enough, keep putting the message out. 👍🏾✊🏾
People are pathetic. Bought a new car, good for you. Blew all your money on a drug fueled binge in Vegas, good for you. Cleared your debt, invested hundreds of thousands in the markets and retired in peace and happiness, even better for you.
...and pocket monitors!! Those who aim to keep your pockets dry.
Exactly. People do pocket ⌚. #moveinsilence
Im 49. My mom and dad know my salary. Dassit.
I just don't care about what nobody thinks of me and that includes family 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I struggle with this so much. I know you are right, but I wish you were wrong.
Omg you are so right thank you.. This happened to me a friend said I was stupid for trying to get out of debt..
That is NOT a friend first of all. Debt freedom is honorable. Good for you and your journey🤗
You are Soo right. I remember when I see a friend's paycheck. And how friends react when you state your goals
Soo much wisdom in this video. Great job!
Thank you!!
This makes sense. Thanks !
All this!
For finances, or accomplishments i found often they act like it is free money or our friendship became transactional.
I always say i dont make much just enough .. it sets level ground. Always sounds like bragging if you make more then they do.
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Told my friends i was working on paying off my mortgage. They tried to get me to do a heloc and invest with them 😢
So cringe😬....I'd never go into business with friends.
It's crazy because you can't even talk about money or ask for advice without someone trying to take advantage. Or seeing what they can get out of you.
limited mindset
People always laugh at the car I drive, especially the women, the black women, and I'm a brother. Unbeknownst to them, I have a couple of million in my account, and I'm retiring in 12 months in my 40's. It's funny how people judge and not knowing the secret to wealth is simple being content with God. Because to Love God and his word, there's no desire for the world. I spend all my time at the park reading my Bible. Not caring about anything else. I just love buying people cars, roofs, houses, and food. In
That’s AMAZING!! Wow! And that’s the way to live. Contentment is the key to a successful life when you’re trying to live for The Most High. And yet you are still wealthy without needing to show it off. I love this!!! Thank you for sharing!💙
I disagree - discussions on pay is the only way the society can progress towards pay equity. I also think another commenters point about real friends being respectful is the right path.
The mentality of “we don’t talk about money in this society” is the reason why financial literacy is so poor. Talk about it and share the knowledge.
The problem come from parents not teaches finance to their children. Instead of teaching all this social stuff, school should teach being responsible.
But teaching personal responsibility is taboo.
Yes but I think it is wise to not talk about it to just anyone unless you have a platform.
100%!!! My parents taught me little about money and finances. Mostly because of old school “We don’t discuss money” but partially due to their own lack of knowledge.
I’ve taken a long time to pay off debt, save and grow. I’m teaching my child EVERYTHING. If I see friends or family not doing great I’ll offer to help with advice but if they say no thanks then fine, that’s their business and I respect that.