15 Lessons Poor People Teach Their Kids

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  • @alux
    @alux  2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Be careful of the scam accounts impersonating us in the comments! It’s not us!

    • @TheGhostQuarter
      @TheGhostQuarter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah I reported two of them that posted on my earlier comment.

    • @Jonathan_39
      @Jonathan_39 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah I know with my comment on this video. I usually ignore and move on. Sad that the Alux channel isn't the only one with this issue.

    • @abhirampaku6070
      @abhirampaku6070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've had these types of message or spams in my ears.

    • @OpenPhoenix
      @OpenPhoenix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @♜𝗧𝗘𝗟𝗘𝗚𝗥𝗔𝗠@OfficialAlux theres one haha

    • @Manuel-gu9ls
      @Manuel-gu9ls 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "If you're born in a poor family, it's not your fault but if you die poor, it's your fault"
      ~ Bill Gates
      AluxFam

  • @brainstormd
    @brainstormd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young. - Henry Ford

    • @bugs3081
      @bugs3081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The older I get, the more I enjoy learning new things and having an open mind.

    • @brainstormd
      @brainstormd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bugs3081 💯

    • @MesheherKim
      @MesheherKim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If being wealthy means being an a**hole, No thanks! Some of this advice, yes, others no. You don’t need to exploit ppl to be comfortable. Also wealth is overrated. It’s 2022. Wealth is in health, being supportive and kind, no debt and being able to live a content life. This is bs old school advice. You don’t see the karma of bad ppl, but trust, they do get it. Please do not go out being a mean a**hole for money. It’s not worth it. Being kind is better. Have the mindset to be innovative and create but plz this billionaire bs needs to go. We don’t care anymore. We just want health, food on our tables and to take care of our families. I’m not poor, grew 2 businesses, 1 grossing 800k last year. I found that when I became kinder, more supportive of others etc, good things flow. No one needs to be a billionaire.

    • @jazminolivari5554
      @jazminolivari5554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! Definitely! 💯🎯

    • @ichoosename4356
      @ichoosename4356 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Henry ford was a antisemit

  • @JCA51698
    @JCA51698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    “You will always be criticized by people doing less than you”

    • @williebender1895
      @williebender1895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yep . The loudest boos come from the cheapest seats

    • @rinzler9775
      @rinzler9775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@williebender1895 awesome phrase - I'm filing that one away.

  • @brainstormd
    @brainstormd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    “Knowledge is power: You hear it all the time, but knowledge is not power. It's only potential power. It only becomes power when we apply it and use it.” - Jim Kwik

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts just look at people in college they are intellectual yet they are broke living paycheck to paycheck the more you make the more you spend unless you budget your money,save and invest

    • @iantaggart3064
      @iantaggart3064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Now that is wisdom.

    • @jazminolivari5554
      @jazminolivari5554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you on the save and invest part to not be in depth and Yes college graduates owe tons of fees for their education, but they'll pay it up later in their career.

  • @folorunso
    @folorunso 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    ALUX FAM. Growing up my parent will say "isale oro legbin", which in Yoruba language(South-west Nigeria) means "The base of all wealth is filthy with corruption ". Thank God I unlearned and relearn everything. Great piece as always guys 🔥🔥🔥

    • @alux
      @alux  2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      You can’t become wealthy if you hate the wealthy!

    • @psalm9166
      @psalm9166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Abraham was probably one of the richest men in the world. He was a man of great faith. False teacher probably taught that so they would give him money!

    • @citizendaine218
      @citizendaine218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      While they were kind of right, you don’t have to be a terrible person to get rich nowadays.

    • @fence29
      @fence29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds very familiar to members of my family who think all your riches are saved up for you in heaven and wanting or chasing money is immoral. "God never gives you more than you can carry...."

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true...the African traditional concept of wealthy women is indescribable.

  • @brainstormd
    @brainstormd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    “Every man is guilty of all the good he did not do.” - Voltaire

  • @righttime3346
    @righttime3346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Here they are;
    1. you need to work to get money
    2. Study hard to get a good paying job
    3. always cut down expenses
    4. Everyone rich is corrupt
    5. All self-help is bullsh!t
    6. Your destiny is out of your hands
    7. You can't make it in life without connections
    8. In life, you get what you deserve
    9. Listen to your elders
    10. Sunday is the lord's Day to rest
    11. People like us can't be rich
    12. This is how we do things in this house
    13. Try to fit in as much as possible
    14. Better safe than sorry
    15. There's not enough to go around
    BONUS IDEA
    16. Nobody is coming to save you but you're there to save all
    Let's make success our last name 2️⃣⏭️🙌👍💯

    • @piubha
      @piubha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This sounds like something Asian middle class parents would say.

    • @righttime3346
      @righttime3346 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@piubha at least that'll keep the body alive (hardworking) 😂

    • @Manuel-gu9ls
      @Manuel-gu9ls 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "If you're born in a poor family, it's not your fault but if you die poor, it's your fault"
      ~ Bill Gates
      AluxFam

    • @quarantinekitchen6909
      @quarantinekitchen6909 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks human :)

    • @thomasshort1784
      @thomasshort1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Right Time My take on #16 is, If nobody owes you anything, you owe them nothing either, especially if you don't have children!

  • @kivaunreads4091
    @kivaunreads4091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I grew up in the lower-middle class, and watched my mom work two, sometimes three jobs to keep the household together. Not everyone who's poor is lazy, as was strongly implied in #10. Thankfully I wasn't told any of these statements growing up, but living on my own for the first time, I was unprepared for a lot and barely survived on my own (far away from family and support) on minimum wage. Being in poverty takes up an exorbitant amount of headspace because you're constantly wondering where the money will come from for basic necessities. Science even shows poverty physically changes the brain. It wasn't until I got a better job and could easily pay for all my needs that I realized just how much poverty had affected my peace and my ability to think clearly.

    • @jazminolivari5554
      @jazminolivari5554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm glad, you worked your way up and made it.🙏💕

    • @AlexanderRodriguez-ls4et
      @AlexanderRodriguez-ls4et 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cope

    • @mariharrik5987
      @mariharrik5987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @kivaunreads4091 well this channel is really classist and dislikes poor, middle class and new wealth they really seem to worship old money billionaires this channel is pathetic and harmful

    • @mariharrik5987
      @mariharrik5987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      people are poor because of the current system which needs to be fixed

    • @mariharrik5987
      @mariharrik5987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AlexanderRodriguez-ls4et what did she say was wrong there no coping here poor person hater

  • @johnorr8094
    @johnorr8094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    My father once told me: "Life is an adventure, or it's nothing."

  • @KAGconcerts
    @KAGconcerts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    1 Timothy 6:17
    Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.

    • @TKR-ox9ff
      @TKR-ox9ff 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tell that to the average African

  • @Jjunior130
    @Jjunior130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    0:19 1# You need to work for money.
    0:51 2# Study hard so you get a good-paying job and become rich.
    1:43 3# Always cut down expenses.
    2:23 4# Everyone rich is corrupt.
    3:29 5# All self-help Is bullshit.
    4:31 6# Your destiny is out of your hands.
    5:20 7# You can't make it in life without connections.
    6:05 8# In life, you get what you deserve.
    6:55 9# Listen to your elders.
    7:56 10# Sunday's the lord's day to rest.
    9:28 11# People like us can't be rich.
    10:23 12# This is how we do things in this household.
    11:24 13# Try to fit in as much as possible.
    12:25 14# Better safe than sorry.
    13:09 15# There's not enough to go around.
    14:18 Bonus: Nobody is coming to save you, but you can save as many as you want.

  • @aaronparks1820
    @aaronparks1820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    My parents provided most of this advice to me and my siblings, but with the extra rider that we should supplant their advice with better advice if we felt it was more aligned with our aspirations. I feel fortunate my parents were brave enough to break the cycle of bad advice by allowing their children to explore their own path. I'm happy to say their method seems to have worked! Alux Fam!

    • @MesheherKim
      @MesheherKim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If being wealthy means being an a**hole, No thanks! Some of this advice, yes, others no. You don’t need to exploit ppl to be comfortable. Also wealth is overrated. It’s 2022. Wealth is in health, being supportive and kind, no debt and being able to live a content life. This is bs old school advice. You don’t see the karma of bad ppl, but trust, they do get it. Please do not go out being a mean a**hole for money. It’s not worth it. Being kind is better. Have the mindset to be innovative and create but plz this billionaire bs needs to go. We don’t care anymore. We just want health, food on our tables and to take care of our families. I’m not poor, grew 2 businesses, 1 grossing 800k last year. I found that when I became kinder, more supportive of others etc, good things flow. No one needs to be a billionaire.

  • @davidshephard8015
    @davidshephard8015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I believe here at Alux, we’re a family (big one). Thank you a ton Alux, for changing our lives, as well as the world.

  • @mikeknowles8017
    @mikeknowles8017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The only thing I had going for me growing up was that I knew almost everything everybody told me was wrong. My question was always "If you're so smart, why is your life the way it is?" Breaking out of a chaotic disfunctional family of origin is tough and they won't like you for it but it can be done.

  • @ginalowe9103
    @ginalowe9103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My mother was always a step away from homelessness. At 59, I began to invest in real estate and now am financially secure at 66.

    • @fence29
      @fence29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations for making it....spread the knowledge and it going.

    • @lucindajaphet710
      @lucindajaphet710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am inspired, will do this same!

    • @georgegallagher5303
      @georgegallagher5303 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ditto

  • @johnbethea4505
    @johnbethea4505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Believing in any religion or not doesn't make a person either rich or poor, it is your determination and actions that will make you wealthy...

    • @cphillps1749
      @cphillps1749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed
      The wealthiest ppl I’ve met always had a relationship with Jesus, Allah, or some belief in a higher power

    • @darrenbannister6087
      @darrenbannister6087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The message being sent is cringeworthy and disturbing

    • @johnbethea4505
      @johnbethea4505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@darrenbannister6087 yes I agree, but I feel that it is correct..

    • @darrenbannister6087
      @darrenbannister6087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@johnbethea4505 I understand. However this was a bit much for me to digest. And I felt it conflicted with my beliefs and values. After viewing this I unsubscribed. I’m looking at an old Billy Graham video. God bless

    • @johnbethea4505
      @johnbethea4505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@darrenbannister6087 I agree. To me it sounded anti-religious or Socialist. Being rich has nothing with our faith or not. This one was a cut at the poor.

  • @eliseocarrillojr
    @eliseocarrillojr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is on point. I went from a 33k a year salary after college many moons ago (worked for w2 for 2 year only) to millions after quitting my job and starting my own businesses. Fast forward I now own multiple businesses, have multiple partnerships, help others grow their business and invest in the right people, if they need and want the help.
    9 - for me I always respect my elders and others and yes I do listen to advice when it makes sense to me. If they point out a stone many trip on, I’ll make sure to go around it.
    .
    10 - I don’t work on Sundays or any other day, because I love what I do- it’s more like enjoying a hobby daily and having fun. The more I help others achieve their goals (people, clients, entrepreneurs) the more blessings come my way and goals of my own I get to reach.
    12- I always respected and still respect my parents- if you don’t like their rules, hustle and moved out. I did at a very young age to make my own rules.
    If you are in a toxic relationship and unhappy, get out. No ifs , ands, or buts. Love yourself. Value yourself.
    Best wishes, blessings and great success to all that read this.
    Remember, just because you didn’t come from a wealthy family doesn’t mean a wealthy family can’t come from you.
    Great job Alux!

  • @kingdavid___1
    @kingdavid___1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cut down expenses is not the solution. You don't have a spending problem, you have an income problem.

    • @fence29
      @fence29 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This one hit me a certain way too, I'm over here trying to be the budget queen...lol

  • @YGabi333
    @YGabi333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am 48 years young, beautiful and talented in being creative. Because of scarcity mindset, and not having enough or if I get more, there wont be enough for others, has me suffering for years trying to make ends meet! While I see people doing what I started with 7years ago growing and growing while I am being stuck! As a child I always dremt big, big houses, luxury cars. Now I am trying to change my mindset..

    • @YGabi333
      @YGabi333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@NYpaulstanley Thank you for sharing your story! The thing is that I know and feel that I am destine to be more and have more. With the mindset that you have to work hard, made me exhausted so I stop working. Something has to change😊

  • @BasementBerean
    @BasementBerean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You might want to listen to those elders if you think you're in their will. Pissing them off never really helps in the long run. And, listening is not obedience. You still have a choice.

    • @jaylewis9876
      @jaylewis9876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With long life spans and the ability to change it at the last moment in a huff this is a risky gamble. Better to assume it won’t happen and be pleasantly surprised of it does

  • @jeffjeff5266
    @jeffjeff5266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "people in business don't make money, you have to be a lawyer, doctor or engineer!!!" - my mother when I told her I wanted to go into business. I'm still following my intuition, I simply refuse to live an unfulfilling life!

  • @AlfredoHernandez-ri9ps
    @AlfredoHernandez-ri9ps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What about the saying “ I have a lot of children so they can take care of me when I’m old “
    Or the thought if saving broken things and having a mess all over the house because of that .
    There is also the thought of not going to the doctor because of the fear of finding out some bad sickness on our bodies.

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    "RICH DAD POOR DAD" by Robert Kiyosaki is a good timeless read.

    • @bvillebikelady3651
      @bvillebikelady3651 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really enjoyed "The Richest Man in Babylon ".

  • @Daddy_chill123
    @Daddy_chill123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When i stopped listening to my parents and switch off my safe mode and get out of my comfort zone ..im totaly a different person and my life totaly changed from lazy to limitless ✌️

    • @rinzler9775
      @rinzler9775 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Every day, do something uncomfortable"

  • @mcmaschio
    @mcmaschio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    OMG this is exactly how I was brought up and for so long it held me back ... It was only after I left home and basically relearnt everything I was told about money was i able to build and grow businesses and wealth ... Financial education is one of the most powerfull tools that can change ur life ... Take the time to learn more ... Its a worthwhile investment .. i still am and will always be willing to learn more 💯 Thanks Alux .. your videos are steps in the right direction ♥️

  • @mujdo1
    @mujdo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Alux fan I am. At 58, still trying to get rich and thanks to Alux, I am getting there

  • @seanjones4561
    @seanjones4561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    #2 was the one for me, but once my dad got into today’s time he quickly pivot and told me to own businesses and use his connections to break the curses upon my family.

  • @CassiesPetParent
    @CassiesPetParent 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Advice" my mother gave me when I was in high school was, "You can marry a nice man that can take care of you." By the way, I was on the honor roll with sights to go to medical school. But you guessed it- they were poor, old school & thought that was my best chance of a "good life" as a girl. Now, I own a business, rentals & am the breadwinner of the house. Older doesn't always mean wiser. 😎

  • @johnbethea4505
    @johnbethea4505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good poor parents spend time with their kids and try to keep them safe. Rich kids are usually looked out for by a nanny and many times feel like they don't have parents.. Determination is the driver of success...

  • @Rasheentaylor
    @Rasheentaylor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Been watching Alux for about 2 - 3 years now. Aside from the atheistic views, I agree with everything else. And I’ve actually started my own commercial cleaning business and have contracts with businesses. I’m making way more money than I ever was making at any job I’ve had in the past. So thank you for these videos. ✨🙏🏽💯

    • @mariharrik5987
      @mariharrik5987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so you agree with their dislike of the poor its disgustingly classist channel

  • @tasfinnowha1374
    @tasfinnowha1374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I could relate with all of em. Growing up my family was broke and their advices aren't felt like working for reality. So if ur a person from broke family pls keep ur learning mentality constant.

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats what i realised and changed my approach to life.I see the difference.

  • @dianacarpenter565
    @dianacarpenter565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ALUX FAM!!! I have been an ALUX follower from the beginning. Every one of your videos are full of gold nuggets. And I agree with so much in this one. Turned 60 years old today and honestly, the secret to life is to never stop learning!!!

  • @bryanpascual3543
    @bryanpascual3543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Children must be taught how to make money work for them

  • @quarantinekitchen6909
    @quarantinekitchen6909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    When I asked my poor parents for advice I do not DO WHAT THEY TELL ME :).
    I do the opposite

    • @dannyortiz44
      @dannyortiz44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here, man

    • @Void_from_Abyss
      @Void_from_Abyss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @quarantinekitchen6909
      @quarantinekitchen6909 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dannyortiz44 they ruined me :/ I m 35 and I’ve given them 1/2 my check since I was 18 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 now homes are too expensive :/ and every one married and I have a flesh light :/

  • @darkmediatracks
    @darkmediatracks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    ALUX FAM!!! I luv the content but this one was literally my pre adult life 💯 n you hit every point on the nail 🙏🏾.

  • @andrefrancis6722
    @andrefrancis6722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No one is coming to save us we are the rescue team!!!
    Alux fam
    Jamaica love

  • @oleggeraschenko4932
    @oleggeraschenko4932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When I left to teach in China in 2018, my dad told me to quit translating the journal I still translate and focus exclusively on my job in China. I didn't. The job in China went horribly wrong and I returned 3 months and 3 weeks later. During the pandemic I was teaching and translating more than ever before. I teach English myself now (founded my company) and still earn extra translating that journal.

    • @alux
      @alux  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good for you Oleg! We’re proud of you!

    • @rappermokas8434
      @rappermokas8434 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Employ me on part time too

    • @oleggeraschenko4932
      @oleggeraschenko4932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rappermokas8434 what value can you bring me?

    • @luifdls6217
      @luifdls6217 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      by the way what happened/went wrong to the job in China?🤔

  • @ASHISKASHYAP1
    @ASHISKASHYAP1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    (Tip:- Don't Skip the video for this easy Summary)
    15 Lessons Poor People Teach their kids :-
    1) @0:22 You need to work for Money.
    2) @0:52 Study hard so you get a good paying job and become Rich.
    3) @1:44 Always cut down Expenses.
    4) @2:22 Everyone Rich is Corrupt.
    5) @3:30 All self help is Bullshit.
    6) @4:31 Your Destiny is out of your Hands.
    7) @5:20 You Can't make it in Life without connections.
    8) @6:04 In Life you get what you deserve .
    9) @6:53 Listen to your Elders.
    10) @7:56 Sunday's the Lord's day to rest.
    11) @9:28 People like us can't be Rich.
    12) @10:22 This is how we do things in this Household.
    13) @11:23 Try to fit in as much as Possible.
    14) @12:26 Better safe than Sorry.
    15) @13:07 There's not enough to go around.
    Bonus
    16) @14:16 Nobody is coming to save you. But you can save as many as you want.

  • @nathanpieterse6644
    @nathanpieterse6644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love Jesus more than money Alux, cause love is priceless and cant be bought.

  • @johncaron4888
    @johncaron4888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My father told me, "Son don't worry about money; you will have plenty." Although my parents were quite successful!

    • @thomasshort1784
      @thomasshort1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @John Caron He could afford to tell you that, literally!

  • @B_Melo
    @B_Melo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Serious question. Is anybody who watch Alux video really finding financial success?

    • @tempestsonata1102
      @tempestsonata1102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dad did something along these lines when I was a kid. Started his own business, threw all the old wisdoms out of the window, took a deep dive in his new life etc. Then it took my mom and my grandma several years to pay back my dad's debts, restore our middle-class status and regain our self-respect.

  • @Fav.234
    @Fav.234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anybody that thinks they shouldn’t take advice from older people is lost and have fun

  • @rappermokas8434
    @rappermokas8434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey Alux im from uganda and glad about what you're planning to do for the unprivileged with education . I request you extend financial literacy compaigns in schools as well . God bless you

  • @lionelsonj
    @lionelsonj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ALUX FAM✊. This is one of my favorite channels. I've learned a lot about life, career etc thanks to your constant research. More grace to the team, God bless 🙏

  • @samuelwanyagira5584
    @samuelwanyagira5584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Alux for supporting my country Uganda. I love your inspirational and motivational videos, they have helped me to navigate life in a difficult environment. Much love!

  • @CT-yc4gd
    @CT-yc4gd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not my dad but my grand dad. "Work hard and it will pay off." He didn't really add context to what that meant. He also lived in a different time. Companies became cutthroat. Well...they were always cut throat, but unions forced them to negotiate. Then everyone went along with the "if you try hard enough you will make it in life" approach. You have to stick with the times and try to stay ahead of the curve to make it. Being loyal to a company often means jack shit.

  • @bearpaw72
    @bearpaw72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    1:37-1:43 - Bill Gates may argue with you on this one. His last rule on a set of rules he lectured a group of teenagers on went like this: "Be nice to nerds. Chances are, you'll be working for one".

    • @danderry2904
      @danderry2904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nerds mostly don't get straight A's but are creative thinkers and action takers always seeking to do there own thing. ✌

  • @WishyWitchy
    @WishyWitchy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    While I agree with most of what’s presented in this video, it becomes evident that the authors know nothing about the value of education and religion. Instagram celebrities, for the most part, live a meaningless life that leads to depression and anxiety. It’s ok, they will find their refuge in religion or spirituality. In fact, research shows (education teaches you how to conduct and understand research studies, fyi) that spiritual and religious people are happier than non-religious.
    Anyway, use your critical thinking when watching these videos. It’s just a tool, another price of info to consider.

    • @eduardochavacano
      @eduardochavacano 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Religious people can be the loneliest especially when they have kids who become depress because of their manipulative parenting🙏

    • @WishyWitchy
      @WishyWitchy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@eduardochavacano you’re referring to individual cases… I’m talking about the general population.
      ***this is why education is important 😉

    • @aterventypityp
      @aterventypityp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re a woman. Religion and spirituality generally works better for you.

    • @RomeoAdams09
      @RomeoAdams09 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Legendary

    • @ardanach369
      @ardanach369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      In my opinion there's no value in religion. I walked well away from it & I'm much better off as a result.

  • @jesusosorio3013
    @jesusosorio3013 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alux fam here. Thanks to this channel I was able to find financial stability in 4 years than the other 23 years my parents taught me on how to grow. And I’ve barely scratched the surface

  • @jamespaul4618
    @jamespaul4618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    7:20 listen to your elders. Applicable before the information age. All aspects of life have changed. You must adapt to the current situation.7:49 put other first _ however the truth is people will take advantage of you. (I learned that the hard way). 9:35 self limiting beliefs. You were given some bad programs by your family, and the early teachers. 11:00 do not stick with some thing just because it is familiar. 12:38 better safe than sorry. This is just plain bad advice. Playing it safe will lead you to be 'sorry'. There is unlimited abundance in the world.. 13:35 you have been programmed to believe life is a zero sum game. If you win some else must lose. WRONG. There is more than one (1) pie in the world. TRUE. 14:00 nobody is coming to save you. The road to success _ solve other people problems. Become a SME.

  • @MrExclusiveJOSH
    @MrExclusiveJOSH 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    DAMN, watching this video makes Me Angry at my parents! But I know it’s not their fault. They were just doing what they were taught & what they thought was Best for Me and my siblings. It’s a generational mindset, however I’ma be the 1st generation that’s more financially literate. Plus my younger sister watches Alux videos aswell, I feel Like that’s progress moving forward! Always a pleasure Alux, ALUX FAM!💯🔥💪🏾

  • @praneethchathuranga5876
    @praneethchathuranga5876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    John templeton is a very rich and very religious person. Hence alux do not tell that only poor people are religious .

  • @moepan2212
    @moepan2212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Life is a short trip on earth don’t only earn money also remember to earn blessings. The people that spent time only making money and hurting others will regret it because life is a test by God

  • @jakub_cepelak
    @jakub_cepelak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Summary:
    ....
    1. You need to work for money
    2. Study hard so you get a good-paying job and become rich
    3. Cut down expenses
    4. Everyone rich is corrupt
    5. All self-help is bullshit
    6. Your destiny is out of your hands
    7. You can't make it in life without connections
    8. In life, you get what you deserve
    9. Listen to your elders
    10. Sunday's the Lord's day to rest
    11. People like us can't be rich
    12. This is how We do things in this househould
    13. Try to fit in as much as possible
    14. Better safe than sorry
    15.- There's not enough to go around

  • @ТетянаПопович-ч6ь
    @ТетянаПопович-ч6ь 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for helping Ukrainians❤. I enjoy your videos for months now, and when I heard that you help them, my heart has melted.

  • @d947
    @d947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sunday is important to rest. Rest is important… look at how many burn outs there are

  • @himalayachoudhary231
    @himalayachoudhary231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    but they can teach how to live each small moments even a small pastry can make u happy joy .Born poor is not your fault but dying poor is ur fault ur parents did their best

  • @GR44N
    @GR44N 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    7:57 the Sabbath (7th day) is Saturday. Sunday is the first day of the week, Sunday is not the sabbath, it's not the Lord's day.

  • @nikolaivargas
    @nikolaivargas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    my poor father told me that I must love reading textbooks, I was born as his pension plan, and that I must also have children as my pension plan

  • @anthonybrewster8700
    @anthonybrewster8700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Good advice except the one about listening to your elders. There are core strategies and priciples that can only be learned with age. Wisdom can come from any age group but especially those with a lifetime of experience. I get your point about changing times, but perhaps you can do a whole video explaining the difference between wisdom and out of touch babble. Thanks!

    • @RationallyMe
      @RationallyMe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think there are exceptions to every rule, but I would say, in general, Alux is right on this one, IMHO. As early as 12 years old I knew elderly people were giving antiquated advice that I would never implement in my life. Additionally, most of the advice was judgmental, based on superstition and not science, homophobic, rooted in guilt and fear from religious indoctrination, etc.

    • @vokasimid5330
      @vokasimid5330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@RationallyMe well said

    • @MesheherKim
      @MesheherKim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If being wealthy means being an a**hole, No thanks! Some of this advice, yes, others no. You don’t need to exploit ppl to be comfortable. Also wealth is overrated. It’s 2022. Wealth is in health, being supportive and kind, no debt and being able to live a content life. This is bs old school advice. You don’t see the karma of bad ppl, but trust, they do get it. Please do not go out being a mean a**hole for money. It’s not worth it. Being kind is better. Have the mindset to be innovative and create but plz this billionaire bs needs to go. We don’t care anymore. We just want health, food on our tables and to take care of our families. I’m not poor, grew 2 businesses, 1 grossing 800k last year. I found that when I became kinder, more supportive of others etc, good things flow. No one needs to be a billionaire.

  • @Judgement220
    @Judgement220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Disagree with #3: cutting expenses. Could only be true if your income is passive. Other then that should always cut liabilities and invest in assests.

  • @teachermahathir7180
    @teachermahathir7180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry Alux, Muslims don't believe that the position of the sun, moon, etc, determines one's predestination, even though God the totalitarian in determining one's faith, we still have some degree of control of our destiny

  • @winixroy8168
    @winixroy8168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alux family....I started a CHINCHIN business in my poor neighborhood...now I just bought a truck to deliver..now I can focus on my musical career alux just made life easier

  • @the1manshow905
    @the1manshow905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    About no.7, you DO NEED contacts... Networking points you in the right direction who can help you from their mistakes.

    • @fence29
      @fence29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you, I actually watched that part 3 times to make sure I was understanding what they were saying. I do believe you need someone to point you to the door and sometimes hold her door open for you. Connections are grate.

    • @the1manshow905
      @the1manshow905 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fence29 I wish I could rub shoulders with someone who could help me with stocks, I'm try'na 💵INVEST💵 at the end of the year 🤑!! 🤔

  • @alexstraz
    @alexstraz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember the worse thing my father told me right before I graduated highschool that I needed to be serious. That I was going to be a worker bee. Get a job, work, retire, die. It made me wonder what the point of living in the first point? I'm glad I didn't listen to him, but it hurt my heart for the rest of my life he felt that way about me. He was a successful person himself and I guess I didn't understand why he didn't think I could be like him.

  • @Hallonyancat
    @Hallonyancat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is true, but hard work leads to experience to solve problems. Worst thing my father did was ban all computers in the house, then came for the cd player.
    You get out what you put in, and if your dumb enough to stifle creativity in your kids you shouldn't have them in the first place.

    • @thomasshort1784
      @thomasshort1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Angus McKee I couldn't agree more with your 2nd paragraph (especially the last half)!

  • @spiritbaby5151
    @spiritbaby5151 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I told my children not to turn out like me & study hard. All 3 have gone to university! I’ve worked hard all my life as a single parent! Now it is their responsibility

  • @Fav.234
    @Fav.234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being a decent human being should be the most important thing

  • @Emily-rj1ij
    @Emily-rj1ij 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I still live with them and I am so glad that I have all this information which helps me get out of the pit of lies they have and are still engraving in my life.
    ALUX FAM😁❤

  • @AynLosAngeles
    @AynLosAngeles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You didn’t do sh*t for 6 days what are you resting for is the funniest part lol!!! So true !

  • @atenas80525
    @atenas80525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    work every Sunday and you'll wonder why you are alone and then when you are 50 you will wonder who will take care of you

  • @jegedesamuel6932
    @jegedesamuel6932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Parents/Elders advice are NOT always bad. Please put a balance.

  • @farahholly7884
    @farahholly7884 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My family is not poor at all. They are actually very rich. But I was not given hand outs most of the time. They are there for me if I truly need anything but really I was taught to make it on my own. But my grandfather was super rich AND famous. So I felt alot of pressure to follow his footsteps to do something big with my life. So I did it ❤️

  • @Jennifer-nz2ss
    @Jennifer-nz2ss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Must RESPECT your elders and their knowledge. You can get alot IF your receptive to listening and understanding what they are saying to you. Carefully decipher it and you can learn alot. 😉

  • @citizendaine218
    @citizendaine218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    While I keep a lot of the values my parents taught me when they came to this country, I had to learn to unlearn a lot of stuff. I had to learn on my own. Glad ALUX is here to help me on my journey.

  • @gokou135
    @gokou135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This, so much this! Thank you Alux for helping me break these limiting beliefs!
    I am not losing friends because I am defending businessman that my people don't like. But im tired of hating rich people for no reason and making up bullshit stories when they're out here doing massive humanitarian things!!
    One day, I will be rich and hated as well. That's heartbreaking, but it's their choice and I don't have to deal with it!
    #Aluxfam

    • @sherrieshay6205
      @sherrieshay6205 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That corupted statement is not about hate it's about sin greed you can have mass wealth an let it be bad for you.But you can have wealth an not let it hurt you.An those who do give are free from greed an are doing good deads.

  • @paradx37
    @paradx37 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your quote is wrong.
    A-students become teachers, and B-students work for C-students.
    Life experience has proven this to be true

  • @misterblue3514
    @misterblue3514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    3. It can be good at the begginig IMO, but after you earn thousands and thousands every month it's pointles.
    4. Lol, my dad is that "all rich people are evil" guy. I always think to my self. "Yeah. That like 8 y. o. kid on TH-cam that earns milions by unboxing toys is definitely disgusting monster. Sure."
    7. My dad once more.
    9. This can be actually useful. But only in very limited extent (as you described).
    10. Yeah, it might be Lords day to rest. But because I don't believe in any god, nor I am god I don't care, dad. And mom has alteration "Don't be so hard on yourself."
    11. This time it's amazingly my dad's, but my mom's statement.
    14. And now both of my parents's (i guess it's wrong, sorry, not my first language) statement.
    Ok, now seriously. My parents are fantastic parents. They did and still do everything for me and my brothers. Also I have inborn lungs malfunction, so they are very overprotective of me, so 14 is more understandable, than others. I mean all of them are, cause that's what their parents told them and we live in ex-communist country (and they were born in it) so all this info became available only recently. But these statements are holding me back. And that's where you, Alux and similar projects and people, step in. So this is basicaly something like expression of my gratitude. 😀 Thank you Alux fam.

  • @ALEXANDERJMORGAN
    @ALEXANDERJMORGAN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with all of these except the part about faith in God.

    • @darrenbannister6087
      @darrenbannister6087 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The heck with religion, the poor and screw your parents too. Bow down to the almighty dollar ? Am I missing the point?

  • @oliverjackson160
    @oliverjackson160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    *Irrespective of the economic dip, I still thank you for the level headed financial advice. I started trading and investment with $2,000 and since following you for few weeks now. I've gotten $19,700 in my portfolio. Thanks Tamara Marquis.🇱🇷*

    • @Aubree52
      @Aubree52 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You just made mention of Tamara Marquis. Wow! Her good works aIready speaks for her last week l Invested and got 9,400usd and that's Just in few days after I got started.

    • @jesserichard5953
      @jesserichard5953 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You just made mention of Tamara Marquis! Wow! Her good works already speaks for her last week l Invested and got 9,400usd and that's Just in few days after l got started.

  • @victoroluremi5277
    @victoroluremi5277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you Alux.... From Poverty I will be a billionaire......... I am a fan for 3 years now.

    • @alux
      @alux  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you Victor

  • @SadedesignTV
    @SadedesignTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I grew hearing this "money don't grow on trees " ,which is complete BS in my opinion.

  • @vkrgfan
    @vkrgfan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You get education to make good informed decisions, good education is so much more than a degree. Successful people don’t dream about becoming rich, they are rich in what they have to offer to the world.

  • @carparthero
    @carparthero 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i love this video. it exposes what the working class and middle class are really about - at least the ones who live paycheck to paycheck. some people feel they are entitled to have kids even if they are emotionally and financially unqualified. that said, these types of people inspire me to legally pay the least amount of income tax i'm obligated to pay.
    i am glad i didn't have kids as i was not interested or cut out for that. 💯

  • @ravenclaw783
    @ravenclaw783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "There is no nobility in poverty". Poverty can teach you things that wealth cannot. The wealthy forget a lot to a determinant.

  • @wisprngwind
    @wisprngwind 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Some of this one has some good points, but some of it lacks wisdom.

  • @livefromtheground7274
    @livefromtheground7274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Discounting wisdom will surely end your days!

  • @Jonathan_39
    @Jonathan_39 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This reminds me of the opposite version of a video on what rich parents teach their kids by this channel. I rather be a rich dad that teach my kids on how to be rich and let money works for them.

    • @cphillps1749
      @cphillps1749 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea…. I disagree with most of the points in this video

  • @godsblossom
    @godsblossom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bless ya'll for inspiring so many to get their life in order ! 💛

  • @insurancewars
    @insurancewars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I’m a Christian and I have made more money than all of the Alux group combined. The Bible doesn’t say that money is evil, it says the LOVE of money is the root of all evil. There are plenty of extremely rich people in the Bible that were God’s people. Also Sunday isn’t the Lord’s Day unless the pope is your lord. The Bible says that the 7th day is the Sabbath of the Lord thy God. The Seventh Day is what we call as Friday at sunset until Saturday at sunset. Isaiah 58:13,; Mark 2:27,28,;Matthew 12:7. Anyway religion doesn’t hold you back if you have a correct understanding of the one true religion. Alux keeps going down by attacking Christian beliefs.

    • @deantan4080
      @deantan4080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The Bible actually has alot of practical wisdom if people just read it.

  • @randygip5276
    @randygip5276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here’s the thing Alux. Religion teaches prayers. Prayers are affirmation, which is taught by the founders of prosperity, napoleon hill in the book, “ think and grow rich, auto suggestion, which to progr the subconscious mind to reach your full potential. In addition, Jim rohn, Brian Tracy all stressed about mindset development. Also, things are changing so fast, what you say now will become obsolete, Alux 2.0 can be replacing you soon, as we speak

  • @Fit5Pt0
    @Fit5Pt0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sooo, don't listen to my dad because he's old and doesn't use the computer ? .. Ahhh, "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" spin to get the younger crowd subscribing 🤐

  • @atenas80525
    @atenas80525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poor people aren't trying to be like everyone else, they too often are trying to "be themselves" instead of working in humility in subjugating themselves to something bigger and better and thus they stay poor. Humility, not being a standout, is what brings wealth

  • @miztamacondatrack
    @miztamacondatrack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Associating poverty to religion is not fair. There are a lot of Christian’s who go to church who are rich

    • @temidayoazeez
      @temidayoazeez 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, but they compromised. All rich people who are religious did at one point or another in their life. John D. Rockefeller was very religious but he was not known to be kind to his competitors whom he had ruthlessly driven out of the market.

    • @miztamacondatrack
      @miztamacondatrack 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@temidayoazeez what are the facts to back this? So u mean to tell me in this big world that we live in not a single rich religious Christian live in it that God himself has truly blessed without compromising? You can’t base that argument on one person like John D Rockefeller

    • @temidayoazeez
      @temidayoazeez 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @miztamacondatrack The Christain life was not meant to be lived rich. Jesus is the template for any one who want to live a complete perfect Christian life. You could argue time have changed. But there is a very fine line between been rich and having an uncompromised Christian life. We all make little compromises here and there including getting rich. But that doesn't mean there aren't rich people who live good moral life.

    • @temidayoazeez
      @temidayoazeez 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @davidj8384 provide logical arguments, please.

    • @user-rl3iv2jk9q
      @user-rl3iv2jk9q 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am sincerely religious and truly spiritual .
      In recent months some strange sentiment emerges within me : no westerner should be allowed to claim exemptions because they claim some religion . Maybe I am mistaken about this . But I receive no " slack " because I believe in my God , and it is pointless and futile to discuss religion with governments and organizations like NGOs or GONGOs . I am alone , we all are alone , most of us are poor and wounded , nothing is clear nothing is easy , although some people we meet are clearly unsteady and unreliable .
      In my religion , you are alone with God , and God speaks to you by his representatives .
      I could type for an hour , but feel it would be semi-futile , only half-way reaching a few .
      Alux is good company .

  • @KAGconcerts
    @KAGconcerts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Deuteronomy 8:17-18
    You may say to yourself, "My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me."
    But remember the LORD your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth, and so confirms his covenant, which he swore to your forefathers, as it is today.

  • @RommanysWorld
    @RommanysWorld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh yeah I have to unlearn many things from my parents haha

  • @Filiopietistic2762
    @Filiopietistic2762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Having money and being rich is precious but resting to renew my spirituality by connecting with God is vital. If 6 days were not exactly productive, resting 1 day to rethink my strategy and revise my methods can be a game changer duh!

  • @kabzedward8260
    @kabzedward8260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks alux. Watching this from Uganda

  • @CooperJeanne
    @CooperJeanne 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    After watching a few self help videos - I believe 50% is truth and 50% scam/lies/formulaic. Some of the things self help promotes makes people down right delusional. Those who really succeed never really read self help books. Perhaps they have a financial adviser or mentor or even a therapist on hand but self help books are for people who really have no idea about life or themselves. But Alux is one of the better ones...

  • @mozaicmt
    @mozaicmt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    About 1/2 the points made are right. The other half are pathetic and bound to cause people more problems than help.