It's not even that imo. Like she seems like she didn't know he followed her on ig so if she doesn't even know that someone she knows in real life is following her imagine who else follows her that she doesn't even know about which just puts this guy even more in the right.
@@spaghettisauce1104 I wasn’t calling her exactly what she was calling the father, I was basically just pointing out that what she said can be turned right back against her. And yeah you’re right, for all we know there could be genuine creeps following her account without her knowing because she didn’t even know that guy was, which makes the guy even more in the right than he already was.
She is absolutely one of the teenagers who get in an argument on twitter and then start calling the person they're arguing with a pedo because they're talking to someone underage when they start losing the argument
I really can’t hold much against her, because she’s only 16, but for the people who keep doing this shit as adults, it’s fucking scary. Instead of assessing a situation honestly, they learn how to opportunistically bend any situation in their favor, no matter the consequences to others. And I fear society is only enabling this narcissistic behavior
@@eliotguerin192the reason people act the way they do is your mentality of “I can’t cold much against her” at what point can we start holding people accountable? Apparently we can’t gently guide them as children, because they’re children and don’t know better. Young teens? Nope, not then, either, because they’re young teens. A 16 year old? But you can’t hold that against them, they’re 16! As an adult? Well, they’re probably stressed! Okay, how about elderly? No but they’re elderly I can’t hold that against them ): no one is SAYING to hold ANYTHING against her except acknowledging that she’s in the wrong and needs to learn from it.
The fact she said “I’ll tell every one you follow me on instagram, a 16 year old girl how’s that going to work out for ya” with a stone cold demeanor says a lot, she’s a menace. Although he never said “I follow you to see if you do crap like this” but instead started stuttering (probably due to shock) still doesn’t mean he’s a P-doe
@@Sinsteelyeah, exactly. In the context of this situation, she’s the adult, posting pictures of someone else’s kids online, (not that I’m suggesting she’s what she called him, just that she’s as dumb as a moss-covered rock, and doesn’t see the irony).
@@SinsteelI hate this fucking argument. “Oh well the age of consent is different in this area so it’s perfectly okay” No. Because it is LEGAL; *DOES NOT MEAN IT IS MORALLY OKAY.*
Especially since her crap should be on private. My stuff has been on private since I created them. It's disturbing that they don't do this so they can have attention
i saw a video recently that said “the clip of your child eating a banana didn’t get 1k likes because it’s cute” and it’s really stuck with me - and i think this girl needs to see it. creeps who are into children aren’t always lurking on the big scary dark web, they’re also in plain view on facebook and instagram saving photos that the average person wouldn’t bat an eye at. even if the child isn’t actively in danger from a photo being posted, a parent not wanting that photo online 100% needs to be respected.
@@DuettheLionlinks usually get deleted in my experience but I found this "Did you know that online predators get off at the sound of babie’s eating". Seems like it's a stock standard test to see if they've been rehabilitated... gross
I've also seen articles saying that pedos will use what looks like a perfectly innocent photo, then edit them into something they can sell. It's really disturbing.
the dad stuttering and struggling to get words out when that insane 16 year old started to accuse him of being a pedo was REAL shock and frustration. I often stutter or just have a hard time saying what I want to say when I'm just gobsmacked by stupidity lol
In the UK its illegal to take pictures or have pictures of other peoples kids, she could go to young offenders if the dad rightfully wanted to report her. Disgusting
Thats not true, there is no law against public photography of minors or adults. like i agree with the dad 100% the girls being an awkward dickhead but yeah no law against it im afraid google it if you dont believe me.
@Seb_Cz notice how you had to include public in there? This is in the family's house, so the little loophole every yt/tiktok degen uses in these situations doesn't work.
I think it's more likely that she's secretly recording this and is trying to make it look casual and not tip off the father by not having the camera obviously recording anything, including her, but I see the point you were trying to make. Either way, she's 1000% in the wrong and I hope that the photo of the kid was taken down before any creeps could get to it. Edit: typo fixed.
Judging by their accent i would assume they were in the U.K., so I don't know the laws. As Mizzy showed us the laws are weak over there. If she had done this in the states then she would have broken 2 laws: Uploading a photo of a minor without consent Wiretapping ( recording without making it known to the other party).
@@TheCommanderTaco Not trying to argue but wiretapping is different. This is recording a conversation which would fall under single party consent, which is legal in 38 states.
By making the point that it's creepy that he is following her, she annihilates her own argument that there is no problem uploading photos of _another persons child without consent._ What an idiot lmaooo
As she is 16 years old, and assuming she has 16 year old friends, she is literally distributing images of children for 'consenting adults' in the eyes of the law in the UK. Real P word activity, gotta say.
the flat and callous way she said "well, I'll tell everyone that you follow me on instagram. A 16 year old girl. How is that going to work out for you?" gave me straight up sociopath vibes. That is not normal behaviour
For gen z it's normal. Almost all of my classmates were like this and it was horrible. Having empathy these days just hurts really bad. These people don't care.
@@captainngoose I’m gen Z and this is definitely not normal behaviour among gen Z. Idk why most of your classmates are like this, but it’s not a generation thing, maybe you just live in a bad area or something. This type of behaviour is only common in kids who aren’t raised properly.
7:20, the fact that she wants him to give her the benefit of the doubt while accusing him of being a pedophile for simply giving her a life lesson is truly wild af.
Shes chronically online and needs to film anyone who says 'no' to her so that her followers online can be on her side. Someone who constantly needs validation from strangers
@@bluainey ur right, I don't know Britain's recording consent rules. But even if it's not allowed, it would be the last I'd point out when judging her character/actions based off this vid
Her: "I didn't post her name or address or anything, what's the big deal?" Also her: *records and posts video (which the father likely didn't know was being recorded at all) in which he says his daughter's name, meaning everyone who saw her now also knows her name*
She has two layers of victim class status: a woman, and a black person. She thinks she can do no wrong and any level of criticism is automatically bigotry so she can do whatever she wants and hurt whomever she pleases.
The dad was so polite to her. He was reasonably annoyed, kept very calm in the face of false allegations, and even still paid once she deleted the photo. Mad props to the dad, what a guy.
@Sirenz no, the sad thing is having this mindset. "oh yes, everything online is fake." can you give us a *spesific* source so we all know this is fake?
This reminds me of a time a company took a picture of my teachers child that was on social media without asking and put it on a billboard for their advertisement
Not sure about the UK, but in germany it is definetly illegal to put a picture out in public without consent. There are exceptions regarding public places etc, but these dont apply here. And Im pretty sure that recording and posting a conversation with someone without their permission is equally illegal. So if similar laws apply in the UK, she is lucky that he didnt press charges.
There's so many creeps online. Heck there was even a Dr Phil episode where a lady was stealing pictures of someone's twins and trying to pass them off as her own
Posting a picture of someone else's kid without permission, then calling them a pedophile for having a problem with it is a different plane of thinking i didnt even think was possible
This used to be normal. I personally grew up in the early days of the "new internet" and my mother was FB friends with my babysitter, guitar teacher, etc. The reason it is not seen as normal anymore is because the internet is no longer about connecting social circles, etc. It's now about "big number better".
Because of people like her, you can't trust anybody. 1. She betrayed their trust. 2. Posting their baby's photos without their consent. 3. She didn't honor the deal of deleting the photos and getting paid after. So she basically lied to the parent.
Some people think you only follow them on any social media because of romantic and or sexual interest. Which is such a weird thing to think of in the first place.
All for social media attention form people who probably don't care about them also you can bet this girl is really greedy and selfish and will throw you under a truck fot something
Well, here’s hoping she’s young enough that the backlash she’s getting from this is enough to curb this behavior in the future. If she’s lucky enough, this man either called her parents or they found this video (since it’s making its rounds all over the internet), and they tore her a new asshole for threatening to falsely accuse someone of being a pedophile.
My mom used to post pictures of me on Facebook back in 2008-2009. I remember getting in a huge argument with her, because I didn't want to be exposed online (and never did, till this day). Good thing I was adamant and made her remove every single picture, it felt terrible to be used as a trophy, especially when my mom kept posting cringe and treating me like a child, when I was over 15 at the time. I'm against people posting pictures of children, and consider it, in many cases, borderline abusive behavior.
Completely agree! Children should not be posted online. Like you, I've always prioritized my privacy and keep my personal life/photos offline, yet people call me strange for not having instagram/tiktok/etc.
Same, unfortunately I lost that argument with my mother which is so frustrating especially because I myself try to be very careful about what personal information I share online 😑😅
All those complains and calling him a pedo just to agree with him at end just angers me to no end., She really recorded this whole thing to embarrass an innocent and reasonable man for no reason. I'm glad she's the one getting embarrassed by dumb incident also not to mention im pretty sure you can't record a private convo like this either lmao
A random middle aged man following a 16 year old is weird. A father who has hired a 16 year old to be the babysitter for his child following that 16 year old is not weird.
Props to the dad for keeping his cool the entire time. I'd probably have an massive yelling explosion like one of those overreacting Karens you'd see on those videos.
@@omgtatercat He was walking on extremly thin ice and both of them knew it. The fact she doesnt acknowledge any type of danger or problem with posting anyone else photos online(especially someone else daughter ) but sees it's reasonable to accuse people of the most f**** crime because she feels like it sounds good in her defence. Says it all... You know she would be lying through out entire process. A literal Psychopath.
The second she threatened me with a false accusation when I'm trying to protect my child it would've been over she could get tf out of my house and there'd be no "let's just go our separate ways". I'd make damn sure the whole country knows just how much they should avoid her like the plague till she shows she's learned her lesson. Doing something like what she did is a quick way to become unhirable, no employer wants someone that will get themselves fired and then run to social media to lie abt them and the reason they were let go. I recognize that she's an immature teenager and I def didn't wanna always take accountability when I was that age either, but I never did anything so egregious and there still needs to be consequences there's no excuse for her. Literally psychopathic behavior.
The disgusting part is her accusing him of something that real victims most of the time don't have the courage to speak up about. Really hate people like her who use rape,pedo and being a victim as an escape card
For real. Not so long ago here in South Africa a kid killed himself because one of his schoolmates made false rape accusations against him as a joke. I still don't understand where the humor is in knowingly making a flase accusation but this shit is real and has real consequences.
I'm not surprised by this story, not unusual for someone her age. She's an immature teenager that thinks she knows everything and is too stubborn and insecure to take criticism or admit when she's in the wrong. There were definitely times I did the same at her age, tho never anything this egregious and I wasn't on social media till an adult. She ran to post her version of the story to get validation that helps her convince herself she was in the right and doesn't have anything to feel bad for, it's all just an effort to feel better abt themselves and skirt consequences/taking accountability. Lot of adults that are chronically online and have low self esteem do the same thing. Hopefully she learns her lesson and won't do something like this again. Like others have said false accusations destroy lives.
@@skanaraki2161 there will deadass be a point in time where the word "pedophile" or "rape" means nothing due to false claims. i hope whoever said that accusation gets the worst life treatment for what theyve done
As a new(ish) mom who doesn’t share her baby’s photos online, this is really scary 😢 thanks for bringing everyone back to reality about social media posting
I’m 25 and I still remember how teachers had to send a consent forms (every year) to our parents, to take pictures of us, just to put up around the school. (In Canada). We were baffled as kids and obviously wanted to get out photos taken of us having a good time at school. Makes a whole lot of sense now.
@@ms.tatortots5419 Wait really? I wish I grew up with this, we had a ton of photos taken of us throughout our lives where I grew up. And I'm a 21 year old.
We do it here in the US too, except I think my district went with an opt-out instead of opt-in and it’s part of the enrollment process to make sure every parent does it.
I’m the same age and we had to get parental consent forms for just about anything, including sex Ed of course. It’s crazy how far the west has fallen from traditional normal values that keep people and kids safe.
I find it outstanding that people like this babysitter exist. Mad respect to that Dad looking out for his daughter and he had every right to be annoyed.
Outstanding may not be the proper word, but I agree. It's absolutely insane people like her exist, and that father was 100% in the right. From this perspective, he's a good dad
To be honest, the father is unbelievably calm. She was inside his freaking house and she was taking pictures of his children, so he should have grounds to have her remove the picture. I don't know if he can call the police over that, but if he could, and it won't charge him anything, then damn I would've did that on his place.
I love how she makes the assertion "no one will be looking at the photo in a creepy manner" and then calls the dad a pedophile for looking at the photo. MAKE UP YOUR MIND. If you can imagine the dad could have creepy intentions, how are you gonna stand there and say he's insane for imagining people could have creepy intentions...
Her mental gymnastics were impressively deluded. I think the worst part abt it was the fact she *knew* what she was doing, just listen to how she threatened to tell everyone he's weird and a pedo then went "how's that going to work out for you" after the dad tried to hold her accountable. I'd never hire her to work for my business or do *anything* for me, she's exactly the type to get herself fired then run to social media to lie abt her employer and the reason she was let go.
@@kevinwaller657 lol no worries, just put an asterisk "*" on either end of what you want bolded. It can act a lil weird with punctuation you can play around with it to see how exactly it works
this new age of everything must be on social media is so bizarre. i still remember when I was a kid getting it drilled into my head that if you even talked to someone online you’d get kidnapped and die, now teenagers are putting up everything about themselves just shy of their home address. you got people who will block you first if you don’t have a bio with everything on it because that’s creepy to them
As someone who started using the internet during the early ages social media. It’s honestly bat shit crazy to me that people are totally ok with posting hourly updates on there life with their face clearly online.
The fact that she calls him a pedo just proves the fact that she's in the wrong, and that's usually a last resort for guilty people when they can't come up with a proper comeback - they resort to name-calling. They *instantly* lose their case the minute they do that.
With friends if I'm losing an argument I go, "Well... you are a pedo!" and then explain why they were right. This lying is crazy and the fact I have an inside joke of it proves that a little more. stay safe
I was a babysitter as a teenager and helped in childcare as an adult. Holy hell, taking pictures of people's kids is 100% out of line, let alone posting them online without the parents' permission. You're there to make sure the kids are safe and cared for, not violate the privacy of the families trusting you.
@The Unholy Banana I'm a full time baby sitter and parents love when I do special activities with the kids and share pictures in private of it. But then, I always delete them after
If only she actually thought it was a violation of privacy in the first place. She was more offended that her employer followed her Insta. She's obviously posting shady shit of herself on there too.
The dad sounds like a great person especially compared to the girl who called him a pedo when he was just genuinely wanting to know who was going to be alone with there kid.
It is crazy to me that she would think she was in the right here. If she was working in a professional childcare setting like daycare or something and she did this, she would be immediately fired. You don't take pictures of the kids, you can't even have a camera out around them. Like it's just wild that she would think it's okay to post a picture without the parents permission and then above that when he asks her to take it down she would think he's somehow being unreasonable? There's so many reasons for a parent not to want pictures of their child online.
If she thinks it really weird that a person who is employing her is following her, wait till she finds a fulltime job. Especialy a public/other well paying job. They check EVERYTHING. Your social media, your criminal record, your documents, your past jobs, and why you quit them, and more. Him just checking her social media is quite litteraly the least he NEEDS to do when leaving her responsible with his child.
@@theunholybanana4745 your social media can be traced back to you via phone number, email, or whatever else you use for your social media. Im not proffesional at it, but i do know its possible.
Exactly. I would trust no one with my child, if I had one (don't want kids and will probably never have one). Like you said, following social media of your babysitter is the bare minimum
I got written up once cuz my company caught me and a coworker posting on FB during work hours. My coworker tagged me in something and told me to look at it, and I responded. The very next day I got called in to HR with my boss and they showed me video footage of me and this coworker looking at our phones. No one from work was following us, so I was surprised by how closely they were monitoring us. It was creepy, but I learned quickly that your work place is always gonna keep tabs on you no matter where it is
Dad is 100% right pedos do be lurking everywhere. One of my friend's dad is a cop and he would tell us about how a lot of pedo's would get their pictures through Facebook from the mum groups and save them. It's completely horrendous to what lengths they will go to, to get pics of your kids. Stay safe and don't be casually sharing pics on the internet of your underaged kids.
There's that particularly infamous case of a guy getting caught taking images of real children from people's Facebook to make "diaperfur" images. The worst part is he has LGBTQMAP armour so not only gets away with it, he gets invited to read to kids.
@@drunkenhobo5039hat is “LGBTQMAP armor” Yknow, with more than five seconds of thought, I remembered the issue with the LG+ community trying to keep out terfs and maps and those ‘clovergender’ and ‘kindergender’ fuckers, so I’m assuming that’s what ur referring to, or at least it being in the same vein. Idk how that pertains to reading to kids tho
There are entire instragram accounts dedicated to finding and reposting photos of child models or just similar photos, and they usually come from other Instagram accounts, like child pageants or modeling accounts. (Another reason to not put your kid into the abusive entertainment media industry. Sickos.) I don’t think it’s a wild statement to say it’s not an Instagram exclusive issue.
@@drunkenhobo5039 Don't even start adding MAPs to LGBT. LGBT doesn't include and never will include MAPs. You have to realize that pedos WANT you to spread that, this way they get LGBT kids coming to them when they say "I accept you for who you are, you can trust me". When you associate LGBT and pedos, you are actively helping them by making you hate LGBT. Kids see that you are actively against LGBT, they look away towards those that are. Only two main places they have to go are to parents or pedos. As a kid who knew he was "different" and "liked boys and girls" by grade 4 (9 years old), I was able to find spaces online. If it wasn't for a gay guy actually warning me about these lurking pedos, I would never have known and gone right in. Pedos are also the ones in your groups telling you that Drag Queens are predators. Only pedos gain anything from making you hate. Congrats. Pedos use victimhood to lure in young victims. This is happening right now, and pedos are thanking you.
What's also concerning is she's surprised that her boss is following her so shes shown she has no clue about who else is following her and seeing the things she posts.
@Solid Love bro actually commit Sue of side... if you can't understand how she's in the wrong there's no hope left for you. Honestly Keep Yourself Safe
This girl had absolutely no right to post a photo of a child that isn't related to her. The father is one hundred percent right to be upset and to want the photo taken down.
This juvenile has overstepped what protective service she is supposed to be giving. She needs to be reprimanded by the police for not knowing what she should NOT be doing!😒📽
She can’t admit she’s wrong like a narcissist, it’s the worst when you tell someone they shouldn’t have done something and they say “well you did this”
@@wyattjohnson7674Same my guy ayooooooo (Unsolicited advice incoming, feel free to ignore) But also honestly, I’m sorry dude. Shit sucks, to say the least. Just remember to frequently check yourself for narcissistic traits and routinely self-reflect, maybe speak with trusted friends if you find yourself concerned you may be exhibiting any habits he may have passed on, and I think it goes without saying that therapy usually helps too.
@@florpleborp2275 unironically _great_ advice tho. in my early teens it struck me that my learned behaviour/thought process reflected my own dad's lack of empathy and was fundamentally destructive - thamkfully with the right Rx & self-imposed cognitive behavioral therapy, i un-learned it over a couple years and functioned much better. escaped him in 2020 & so glad to not be him. unchecked narcissists beat everyone down to their level.
@@florpleborp2275 okay but dont constantly evaluate your behaviors, you’ll make yourself paranoid and start beating yourself up for it. just listen to people, if they say you have traits like that then get help. thats that.
The fact she thinks she can take liberties with another person’s child, regardless of his or the child’s wishes, is insane to me. Not even to mention the mind-numbing attempt at gaslighting she tries in switching the narrative around to make HERSELF the victim and the parent the weirdo. Like hun, you’re my babysitter, it’s really not that weird for me to follow or look at your social media to make sure you aren’t out there every weekend partying bc you’re actually entrusted with my *child*.
literally. When I first started babysitting for a co-worker. I didn’t have Instagram until we talked about following each other exclusively to share what the kid’s day had been like. Only the parents followed me. And they made SURE OF THAT. Keeping tabs on the person you’re trusting your child with is just common sense
i recently got into an argument with a teacher for posting an audio of the moment a child in her class came out to her about how his mother was being beaten and abused. i said it was beyond fucked up to be sharing that with the internet without his, or even the mothers, informed consent, and i had HUNDREDS OF PEOPLE ARGUING AGAINST ME. the fleet of people online who defend exploiting children for content is insane.
@@xenadavira Are you able to report her? She wasn't using it as educational, nor was anyone acting, so she was fully spreading abuse audio and exploiting kids and clearly has been for years to think it's normal.
Unfortunately/fortunately, depending on the location. They have one party consent laws for recording conversations. Which isn't entirely bad. Say if you have a creep for a boss. But that might be legally ok to record and share that.
Its just sad that if she had not recorded this form of blackmail and actually called the cops on him because, I guess he wounded her pride, that man might actually go to jail and lose custody of his child😢. Thank God these psychopaths have a huge ego!
imagine finding it weird that people you work for, since you're babysitting their child, are following you on socials. I'd sure as hell wanna know what type of person was babysitting my kid and social media is one way of doing that.
fact is that she's gone to all of her friends and they're huddled up in a group talking about how he's a pedo and she's done nothing wrong, she definitely is oblivious to what's going on even now
Honestly schools should teach proper digital citizenship courses where they teach you how to not violate other people's privacy, and how to protect your own.
Some schools do, it's just that most people can't be bothered to listen to advice that's been constantly shoved in front of us to the point where it sounds like whitenoise
Yeahhhh, the longer we have the internet the more I agree with this. Like all I remember were classes on typing and making a website. Nothing on safety. They sure did show us std pictures though. Because sex bad
Seriously, what better way to make sure your new babysitter isnt a total psycho. Not to mention make sure she is NOT posting his baby’s pics online. Absolutely nothing wrong with him doing that.
i knew a girl who did this exact shit because an ex of hers outed her for lying online about family illness to leech money off of her friends. compulsive liars have this tendency to find themselves lost in the pointless argument they’ve started and just begin panic-accusing to save face. it’s an unreal development
A girl in my high school tried to accuse a teacher of assault. Her dad had to come in and explain _she’d done that before when he had grounded her to people at his job_ She was just mad she failed the final. The fucking delusion of some people is beyond understanding.
I'm losing braincells just imagining having an argument with these people. "It's hard to argue with a smart person but impossible to argue with an idiot", or something.
@@chelscara that's straight-up worth disowning someone for like "it's been fun, kiddo, but it's time to be committed to a mental institution for life. pack your bags. maybe ill stop by to visit on your birthdays"
I was adopted and my family does not take photos just in case of a family member sees it and try to find me, i know this does not apply to that situation but she had no idea what the situation is
Thank you, Charlie, for calling her out. She needs to be publicly shamed for this, I hope she sees this and the thousands of people that are horrified by her disgusting behavior.
"Let's talk about the dangers of television" was always a warning that stuck in my mind, while I heard it on television. LOL. You're a STRAAAANGE strange dude. It's like you're grounded while completely oblivious to actual reality.
The first rule they told us when I did childcare for a summer was "DO NOT under any circumstances take or post photos of the kids." It's a serious issue.
It was the first thing I've learned when doing childhood education! Don't record, don't take photos, always ask for consent from parents. Its also common sense! Like they're not your children. There's no reason why someone else beside you should be on your account
Well it's standard rules and practice in U.S HealthCare under the HIPPA Federal Healthcare Privacy Laws. You want an easy to win lawsuit just get some silly, stupid employee, like this teen dim wit, to take a pic of you while in a Hospital or care center and watch the Lawyers trip over each other to take your case.
The father is a saint for the restraint he showed. She really deserved to be forcibly ejected from the household in the most cartoonish style possible.
6:34 The dad asks about a DBS, which is pretty much a UK Criminal Record check anyone can get made for themselves when being employed for a position like Babysitting. She didn't have one, so that makes it even more logical for the dad to check her social media.
As a father, it makes me so happy to see everyone defending him and just absolutely shitting on this chick. The fact that she uploaded this herself is wild.
She probably showed it to her friends and they told her she was in the right and to post it 😂 she should have been so embarrassed after that video ended idk how she could have
@@dieselrichardson9055 there's no way her friends could've possibly said that. Anyways by her arguments she looks absolutely dumb for example: she said that posting the child's photo on a social media isnt that much but then accused the dad of being "weird" for following her on said social media even pointing out that he might be a pedo since that walking female thing without a brain isn't that old
so she thinks he’s a creep someone who actually knows her and has reason to follow her, but doesn’t consider that other creeps would be looking at his child on her profile?
She calls the father a creep, but in reality she’s the creep for posting photos of someone else’s child without permission.
EXACTLY!
WOW! so insightful
Yeah agreed
It's not even that imo. Like she seems like she didn't know he followed her on ig so if she doesn't even know that someone she knows in real life is following her imagine who else follows her that she doesn't even know about which just puts this guy even more in the right.
@@spaghettisauce1104 I wasn’t calling her exactly what she was calling the father, I was basically just pointing out that what she said can be turned right back against her. And yeah you’re right, for all we know there could be genuine creeps following her account without her knowing because she didn’t even know that guy was, which makes the guy even more in the right than he already was.
I love that she calls him a pedophile for trying to protect his daughter from pedophiles
Why does penguinz0 have over 13m fatherless people?! Ain’t no way bruh!
I make better content…
@@BaconWrapDonut least down bad person:
lol 4 bots in a row, we've reached the end of youtube comments
@@MSSMEG2005 shut up
*I love society sometimes*
She is absolutely one of the teenagers who get in an argument on twitter and then start calling the person they're arguing with a pedo because they're talking to someone underage when they start losing the argument
I really can’t hold much against her, because she’s only 16, but for the people who keep doing this shit as adults, it’s fucking scary. Instead of assessing a situation honestly, they learn how to opportunistically bend any situation in their favor, no matter the consequences to others. And I fear society is only enabling this narcissistic behavior
@@eliotguerin192 16 year olds don't have an excuse to be that dumb
@@eliotguerin192she needs it held over her. She needs to learn now that she isn't invincible just because she's 16.
well yeah she literally did it in real life lol
@@eliotguerin192the reason people act the way they do is your mentality of “I can’t cold much against her” at what point can we start holding people accountable? Apparently we can’t gently guide them as children, because they’re children and don’t know better. Young teens? Nope, not then, either, because they’re young teens. A 16 year old? But you can’t hold that against them, they’re 16! As an adult? Well, they’re probably stressed! Okay, how about elderly? No but they’re elderly I can’t hold that against them ): no one is SAYING to hold ANYTHING against her except acknowledging that she’s in the wrong and needs to learn from it.
The fact she said “I’ll tell every one you follow me on instagram, a 16 year old girl how’s that going to work out for ya” with a stone cold demeanor says a lot, she’s a menace. Although he never said “I follow you to see if you do crap like this” but instead started stuttering (probably due to shock) still doesn’t mean he’s a P-doe
Especially since 16 is the age of consent in the UK, anyway.
@@Sinsteelyeah, exactly. In the context of this situation, she’s the adult, posting pictures of someone else’s kids online, (not that I’m suggesting she’s what she called him, just that she’s as dumb as a moss-covered rock, and doesn’t see the irony).
@@SinsteelThere's 100 reasons why he's not a pedo, but it being probably technically not illegal is _not_ one of them lmao
@@SinsteelI hate this fucking argument. “Oh well the age of consent is different in this area so it’s perfectly okay”
No. Because it is LEGAL; *DOES NOT MEAN IT IS MORALLY OKAY.*
@@orangenostrilI love the way you worded that, absolute best response to that creepy ass comment.
The fact she didn't know he was following her proves his point. She doesn't know who is following her .
Creepy people online? Unheard of! Oh you follow me? That’s creepy you pedo!
🤡
Excellent point
Especially since her crap should be on private. My stuff has been on private since I created them. It's disturbing that they don't do this so they can have attention
She’s like 16. Children are stupid. This video is evidence of that
Big brain
She literally proved why he needed to be following her on instagram
I swear
It’s not a necessity, but more so out of concern. Neither of them really “need” instagram to begin with.
@@Spatterdock Thanks for your comment that means nothing, considering the entire situation already happened.
@@jordanjoestar8839 No welcome, I had not asked you to ascribe meaning to it. It is quite common for people comment on events that already took place.
@@Spatterdock Thanks for your comment that means nothing, considering the entire situation already happened.
i saw a video recently that said “the clip of your child eating a banana didn’t get 1k likes because it’s cute” and it’s really stuck with me - and i think this girl needs to see it. creeps who are into children aren’t always lurking on the big scary dark web, they’re also in plain view on facebook and instagram saving photos that the average person wouldn’t bat an eye at. even if the child isn’t actively in danger from a photo being posted, a parent not wanting that photo online 100% needs to be respected.
Link?
@@DuettheLionlinks usually get deleted in my experience but I found this "Did you know that online predators get off at the sound of babie’s eating". Seems like it's a stock standard test to see if they've been rehabilitated... gross
Children eating foods is one of the top pedo searches.... Oh my gods, I hate stupid people..
I've also seen articles saying that pedos will use what looks like a perfectly innocent photo, then edit them into something they can sell. It's really disturbing.
the dad stuttering and struggling to get words out when that insane 16 year old started to accuse him of being a pedo was REAL shock and frustration. I often stutter or just have a hard time saying what I want to say when I'm just gobsmacked by stupidity lol
In the UK its illegal to take pictures or have pictures of other peoples kids, she could go to young offenders if the dad rightfully wanted to report her. Disgusting
Thats not true, there is no law against public photography of minors or adults. like i agree with the dad 100% the girls being an awkward dickhead but yeah no law against it im afraid google it if you dont believe me.
@@Sebatticus I think they meant IN THE UK
@Seb_Cz notice how you had to include public in there? This is in the family's house, so the little loophole every yt/tiktok degen uses in these situations doesn't work.
@@mellojello3950 i think they are from the UK, calling people awkward Dickheads is a very british thing to do LMAO
@@Sebatticus yeah that's not public tho is it? It's a child photo taken in the child's home. So your assertion here is irrelevant
The irony that she’s fine posting the baby’s face but keeps her own face out of frame because she doesn’t want her face online is palpable
I think it's more likely that she's secretly recording this and is trying to make it look casual and not tip off the father by not having the camera obviously recording anything, including her, but I see the point you were trying to make. Either way, she's 1000% in the wrong and I hope that the photo of the kid was taken down before any creeps could get to it.
Edit: typo fixed.
Judging by their accent i would assume they were in the U.K., so I don't know the laws. As Mizzy showed us the laws are weak over there. If she had done this in the states then she would have broken 2 laws:
Uploading a photo of a minor without consent
Wiretapping ( recording without making it known to the other party).
@@TheCommanderTaco Not trying to argue but wiretapping is different. This is recording a conversation which would fall under single party consent, which is legal in 38 states.
@@TheCommanderTaco I’m fairly certain the UK laws are not weak but instead very strict on this stuff.
It’s hilarious
I'm really glad she recorded this so that the father had evidence to back his side up.
“Don’t post my child’s face online” should be the bare minimum of expectation. This is such blatant entitlement on the babysitter’s part
By making the point that it's creepy that he is following her, she annihilates her own argument that there is no problem uploading photos of _another persons child without consent._ What an idiot lmaooo
Facts haha what a morooooon
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I was screaming this.. ^
As she is 16 years old, and assuming she has 16 year old friends, she is literally distributing images of children for 'consenting adults' in the eyes of the law in the UK.
Real P word activity, gotta say.
Same way chimps think that if it makes them feel bad you did a bad thing to them therefore it justifies them to attack you
the flat and callous way she said "well, I'll tell everyone that you follow me on instagram. A 16 year old girl. How is that going to work out for you?" gave me straight up sociopath vibes. That is not normal behaviour
For gen z it's normal. Almost all of my classmates were like this and it was horrible. Having empathy these days just hurts really bad. These people don't care.
@@captainngoose Psychopathic personality trait
@@captainngoose ayup
@@captainngoose mine too :/
@@captainngoose I’m gen Z and this is definitely not normal behaviour among gen Z. Idk why most of your classmates are like this, but it’s not a generation thing, maybe you just live in a bad area or something. This type of behaviour is only common in kids who aren’t raised properly.
7:20, the fact that she wants him to give her the benefit of the doubt while accusing him of being a pedophile for simply giving her a life lesson is truly wild af.
"Why would you follow your babysitter?"
Probably to prevent them from posting photos of their child online.
I think I'd want to see the social media of a person I'm trusting my kid with in general, social media is great for spotting red flags
The fact that she actually filmed and uploaded that HERSELF 💀
wild replies
Social media really done a number on society seems everyone forgot what responsibility is
Shes chronically online and needs to film anyone who says 'no' to her so that her followers online can be on her side. Someone who constantly needs validation from strangers
How do people say the exact same thing charlie said and then get hundreds of likes in a few minutes💀
𝕀 𝕞𝕒𝕕𝕖 ᴀ ʜɪʟᴀʀɪᴏᴜs ᴠɪᴅᴇᴏ ᴏғ ᴀ ᴡᴏᴍᴀɴ ᴄʀʏɪɴɢ ᴏᴠᴇʀ ʜᴇʀ ᴅᴏɢ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ᴘᴜᴛ ᴅᴏᴡɴ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜsᴇ ɪ ᴍᴀᴋᴇ вєттєя ¢σитєит
The fact she was also recording this conversation without the father's consent is wild.
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That's not bad. People record themselves in confrontations all the time in case something happens. I fs think she's completely in the wrong, tho
@@santivelosa513it depends. Whether in public or private space and by where you're at nationality.
@@santivelosa513She’s in their house recording their voice - they have a clear expectation of privacy in their own home, it’s not the street.
@@bluainey ur right, I don't know Britain's recording consent rules. But even if it's not allowed, it would be the last I'd point out when judging her character/actions based off this vid
She should go to jail for accusing him of being a pedophile for no reason.
How inconceivably stupid do you have to be to record yourself openly blackmailing an innocent man and then post it online as if you're in the right?
Her: "I didn't post her name or address or anything, what's the big deal?"
Also her: *records and posts video (which the father likely didn't know was being recorded at all) in which he says his daughter's name, meaning everyone who saw her now also knows her name*
Omfg
Metadata. It’s so easy to find out an address from a careless poster.
THE AUDACITY FOR *HER* TO ACT LIKE THE VICTIM IS SO HILARIOUS
Why does penguinz0 have over 13m fatherless people?! Ain’t no way bruh!
I make better content…
She has two layers of victim class status: a woman, and a black person. She thinks she can do no wrong and any level of criticism is automatically bigotry so she can do whatever she wants and hurt whomever she pleases.
@@silverletter4551 brainless take
𝕀 𝕞𝕒𝕕𝕖 ᴀ ʜɪʟᴀʀɪᴏᴜs ᴠɪᴅᴇᴏ ᴏғ ᴀ ᴡᴏᴍᴀɴ ᴄʀʏɪɴɢ ᴏᴠᴇʀ ʜᴇʀ ᴅᴏɢ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ᴘᴜᴛ ᴅᴏᴡɴ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜsᴇ ɪ ᴍᴀᴋᴇ вєттєя ¢σитєит
certified woman behavior.
The dad was so polite to her. He was reasonably annoyed, kept very calm in the face of false allegations, and even still paid once she deleted the photo. Mad props to the dad, what a guy.
Good thing he did pay her, otherwise she would have probably sent the goon squad after him...
@Sirenz no, the sad thing is having this mindset. "oh yes, everything online is fake." can you give us a *spesific* source so we all know this is fake?
@@Sirenz187 not everything's fake
@@Sirenz187 I take it then that ya got proof? :)
Yeah if this was stateside, that babysitter would have got her ass beat.
Maybe worse.
This reminds me of a time a company took a picture of my teachers child that was on social media without asking and put it on a billboard for their advertisement
Not sure about the UK, but in germany it is definetly illegal to put a picture out in public without consent. There are exceptions regarding public places etc, but these dont apply here. And Im pretty sure that recording and posting a conversation with someone without their permission is equally illegal. So if similar laws apply in the UK, she is lucky that he didnt press charges.
The fact that she was so unapologetic about posting SOMEONE ELSE'S CHILD online.
Why does penguinz0 have over 13m fatherless people?! Ain’t no way bruh!
I make better content…
Ikr
Jesus is coming
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The fact that she's fighting tooth and nail to keep a picture of some random kid on Instagram and has the gall to call him the creep
"it's just a face" she says as she keeps her own face hidden. real classy
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@@MSSMEG2005 A compelling point, off into the woodchipper you go
@@CrazyDutchguys Feet first, of course.
There's so many creeps online. Heck there was even a Dr Phil episode where a lady was stealing pictures of someone's twins and trying to pass them off as her own
this is a big problem, this girl admitted that her friends do the same thing, i swear to god i hope the father takes legal actions against her
Posting a picture of someone else's kid without permission, then calling them a pedophile for having a problem with it is a different plane of thinking i didnt even think was possible
Why does penguinz0 have over 13m fatherless people?! Ain’t no way bruh!
I make better content…
*I 𝕞𝕒𝕕𝕖 a 𝕧𝕚𝕕𝕖𝕠 on why being 𝕞𝕒𝕡 is valid*
*I made a ᴠɪᴅᴇᴏ on why being a minor attracted person is ᴠᴀʟɪᴅ* ,,..
@@MSSMEG2005you’re a terrible individual.
Omg so many fuckin bots!!!!
I think it's a great parenting trick to look at your babysitter's social media to make sure they aren't doing anything weird.
most people will try to put cameras in their homes, but havin her be a nitwit on social media was a plus? Sad the guy had to find out this way.
This used to be normal. I personally grew up in the early days of the "new internet" and my mother was FB friends with my babysitter, guitar teacher, etc. The reason it is not seen as normal anymore is because the internet is no longer about connecting social circles, etc. It's now about "big number better".
My mom had my babysitter give her phone to her and she would check everything everyday 😂
@@lilzeddy your mom is weird for that. she better have been paying thousands
@@lilzeddy that's a legitimately waaayyy over the line thing to do. I hope you know that :/
I love how she immediately starts gaslighting him right after she posted the picture. “Why are you following me? You’re the weirdo!”
Because of people like her, you can't trust anybody. 1. She betrayed their trust. 2. Posting their baby's photos without their consent. 3. She didn't honor the deal of deleting the photos and getting paid after. So she basically lied to the parent.
I rolled my eyes in disgust when she threatened to tell people that he follows his babysitter on Instagram like that's a massive problem.
hahaha yeah that's so off topic and not even an argument for her defense
She would of twisted that story like a motherfucker "He follows me, likes all my pictures and he keeps sending me weird DM's" i can hear it now
Yeah like even when I was younger some of my friends parents followed me on Instagram. Not weird honestly
Some people think you only follow them on any social media because of romantic and or sexual interest. Which is such a weird thing to think of in the first place.
Yeah given the clear implications she was going for I’m sure a lawyer would love that lmao
It is genuinely so confusing and kind of scary that some people can be this idiotic.
The bots are getting out of hand😭
Damn you're right
All for social media attention form people who probably don't care about them also you can bet this girl is really greedy and selfish and will throw you under a truck fot something
@@microwaveguy5405 the four of us lef tcan have an pizza party
Well, here’s hoping she’s young enough that the backlash she’s getting from this is enough to curb this behavior in the future. If she’s lucky enough, this man either called her parents or they found this video (since it’s making its rounds all over the internet), and they tore her a new asshole for threatening to falsely accuse someone of being a pedophile.
My mom used to post pictures of me on Facebook back in 2008-2009. I remember getting in a huge argument with her, because I didn't want to be exposed online (and never did, till this day). Good thing I was adamant and made her remove every single picture, it felt terrible to be used as a trophy, especially when my mom kept posting cringe and treating me like a child, when I was over 15 at the time. I'm against people posting pictures of children, and consider it, in many cases, borderline abusive behavior.
Agreed.
Completely agree! Children should not be posted online. Like you, I've always prioritized my privacy and keep my personal life/photos offline, yet people call me strange for not having instagram/tiktok/etc.
Same, unfortunately I lost that argument with my mother which is so frustrating especially because I myself try to be very careful about what personal information I share online 😑😅
@@saferoundhouse5910 That's too bad. I hope you can convince her without having to resort to more extreme measures.
@@MrLoowizoh no! Your mother treated you like her own child? How scandalous...
"It's just her face" -the delusional woman who refused to show her face.
she really decided to record and share a losing argument💀
And then apparently doxxed the father afterward according to one comment here.
She's a victim, Al Sharpton to the rescue!
@@stevesteve222wha?
@@Toby8700 Vague racebaiting, idk
Crazy how she thought the father following her was weird but not the fact she posted someone else child online without the parents consent
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@@MSSMEG2005 Leave
@@MSSMEG2005 damn bots
My content is so much worse than charlie
All those complains and calling him a pedo just to agree with him at end just angers me to no end., She really recorded this whole thing to embarrass an innocent and reasonable man for no reason. I'm glad she's the one getting embarrassed by dumb incident also not to mention im pretty sure you can't record a private convo like this either lmao
A random middle aged man following a 16 year old is weird. A father who has hired a 16 year old to be the babysitter for his child following that 16 year old is not weird.
Props to the dad for keeping his cool the entire time. I'd probably have an massive yelling explosion like one of those overreacting Karens you'd see on those videos.
Yeah, he was actually pretty calm about the whole thing. A lot of parents would have ripped her a new one.
@@omgtatercat He was walking on extremly thin ice and both of them knew it.
The fact she doesnt acknowledge any type of danger or problem with posting anyone else photos online(especially someone else daughter ) but sees it's reasonable to accuse people of the most f**** crime because she feels like it sounds good in her defence. Says it all...
You know she would be lying through out entire process. A literal Psychopath.
I am also an unapologetically overreacting while completely within my right father
The second she threatened me with a false accusation when I'm trying to protect my child it would've been over she could get tf out of my house and there'd be no "let's just go our separate ways". I'd make damn sure the whole country knows just how much they should avoid her like the plague till she shows she's learned her lesson. Doing something like what she did is a quick way to become unhirable, no employer wants someone that will get themselves fired and then run to social media to lie abt them and the reason they were let go. I recognize that she's an immature teenager and I def didn't wanna always take accountability when I was that age either, but I never did anything so egregious and there still needs to be consequences there's no excuse for her. Literally psychopathic behavior.
@P J there's a lot of those running around these days
The disgusting part is her accusing him of something that real victims most of the time don't have the courage to speak up about. Really hate people like her who use rape,pedo and being a victim as an escape card
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For real. Not so long ago here in South Africa a kid killed himself because one of his schoolmates made false rape accusations against him as a joke. I still don't understand where the humor is in knowingly making a flase accusation but this shit is real and has real consequences.
The word "pedophile" is just thrown around now and that's the issue
I'm not surprised by this story, not unusual for someone her age. She's an immature teenager that thinks she knows everything and is too stubborn and insecure to take criticism or admit when she's in the wrong. There were definitely times I did the same at her age, tho never anything this egregious and I wasn't on social media till an adult. She ran to post her version of the story to get validation that helps her convince herself she was in the right and doesn't have anything to feel bad for, it's all just an effort to feel better abt themselves and skirt consequences/taking accountability. Lot of adults that are chronically online and have low self esteem do the same thing. Hopefully she learns her lesson and won't do something like this again. Like others have said false accusations destroy lives.
@@skanaraki2161 there will deadass be a point in time where the word "pedophile" or "rape" means nothing due to false claims. i hope whoever said that accusation gets the worst life treatment for what theyve done
“ThEy cAn’t FiNd YOu FrOm A FaCe PiCtuRe” literally can find someone just from the type of material shown in a picture a face is easy to find
As a new(ish) mom who doesn’t share her baby’s photos online, this is really scary 😢 thanks for bringing everyone back to reality about social media posting
I’m 25 and I still remember how teachers had to send a consent forms (every year) to our parents, to take pictures of us, just to put up around the school. (In Canada). We were baffled as kids and obviously wanted to get out photos taken of us having a good time at school.
Makes a whole lot of sense now.
I'm 22 and this was done all the way up through high school. It's still common practice lol
@@ms.tatortots5419 Wait really? I wish I grew up with this, we had a ton of photos taken of us throughout our lives where I grew up. And I'm a 21 year old.
I'm a mom & I get these every year from my children's schools. Even daycare has you sign one (or opt out.)
We do it here in the US too, except I think my district went with an opt-out instead of opt-in and it’s part of the enrollment process to make sure every parent does it.
I’m the same age and we had to get parental consent forms for just about anything, including sex Ed of course. It’s crazy how far the west has fallen from traditional normal values that keep people and kids safe.
I find it outstanding that people like this babysitter exist. Mad respect to that Dad looking out for his daughter and he had every right to be annoyed.
Outstanding is not the word I would use but I agree with your intentions
Outstanding may not be the proper word, but I agree. It's absolutely insane people like her exist, and that father was 100% in the right. From this perspective, he's a good dad
I think you mean outrageous?
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To be honest, the father is unbelievably calm. She was inside his freaking house and she was taking pictures of his children, so he should have grounds to have her remove the picture. I don't know if he can call the police over that, but if he could, and it won't charge him anything, then damn I would've did that on his place.
Taking a pic to show the parents is one thing. You have no right to post pics without their consent.
A+ dad there, finally a parent who doesnt obsess over posting the kids all over social media
a parent who wont milk their child for clout and instead wants the opposite to make sure they are as private and as safe as possible
That's most parents, we just don't hear about them on social medias. For obvious reasons 😅
Very small number of people relative to the population are actually on social media.
I love how she makes the assertion "no one will be looking at the photo in a creepy manner" and then calls the dad a pedophile for looking at the photo. MAKE UP YOUR MIND. If you can imagine the dad could have creepy intentions, how are you gonna stand there and say he's insane for imagining people could have creepy intentions...
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Her mental gymnastics were impressively deluded. I think the worst part abt it was the fact she *knew* what she was doing, just listen to how she threatened to tell everyone he's weird and a pedo then went "how's that going to work out for you" after the dad tried to hold her accountable. I'd never hire her to work for my business or do *anything* for me, she's exactly the type to get herself fired then run to social media to lie abt her employer and the reason she was let go.
@@jakehero95 totally off topic but how do you make some words bold?
@@kevinwaller657 lol no worries, just put an asterisk "*" on either end of what you want bolded. It can act a lil weird with punctuation you can play around with it to see how exactly it works
@@kevinwaller657 put double asterisks around them.
this new age of everything must be on social media is so bizarre. i still remember when I was a kid getting it drilled into my head that if you even talked to someone online you’d get kidnapped and die, now teenagers are putting up everything about themselves just shy of their home address. you got people who will block you first if you don’t have a bio with everything on it because that’s creepy to them
As someone who started using the internet during the early ages social media. It’s honestly bat shit crazy to me that people are totally ok with posting hourly updates on there life with their face clearly online.
The fact that she calls him a pedo just proves the fact that she's in the wrong, and that's usually a last resort for guilty people when they can't come up with a proper comeback - they resort to name-calling. They *instantly* lose their case the minute they do that.
I wouldn't call it name calling per say.
It's more false accusations she threatened to make if she didnt get paid, which she still did anyway
@@realafahit's ad hominem, attack the person's character instead of their argument.
@@H0n3yMonstah aaaaaah, ok
With friends if I'm losing an argument I go, "Well... you are a pedo!" and then explain why they were right. This lying is crazy and the fact I have an inside joke of it proves that a little more. stay safe
She seems like the type to use the woman card to get herself away from annoying situations she created.
I was a babysitter as a teenager and helped in childcare as an adult. Holy hell, taking pictures of people's kids is 100% out of line, let alone posting them online without the parents' permission.
You're there to make sure the kids are safe and cared for, not violate the privacy of the families trusting you.
Taking the pictures to send to the parents then delete would be the only case that it's ok
@The Unholy Banana I'm a full time baby sitter and parents love when I do special activities with the kids and share pictures in private of it. But then, I always delete them after
@@FoxMonde That's because you're perfectly sane.
@@theredheadwiththread1275 well thanks
If only she actually thought it was a violation of privacy in the first place. She was more offended that her employer followed her Insta. She's obviously posting shady shit of herself on there too.
The dad sounds like a great person especially compared to the girl who called him a pedo when he was just genuinely wanting to know who was going to be alone with there kid.
It is crazy to me that she would think she was in the right here. If she was working in a professional childcare setting like daycare or something and she did this, she would be immediately fired. You don't take pictures of the kids, you can't even have a camera out around them. Like it's just wild that she would think it's okay to post a picture without the parents permission and then above that when he asks her to take it down she would think he's somehow being unreasonable? There's so many reasons for a parent not to want pictures of their child online.
If she thinks it really weird that a person who is employing her is following her, wait till she finds a fulltime job. Especialy a public/other well paying job. They check EVERYTHING. Your social media, your criminal record, your documents, your past jobs, and why you quit them, and more. Him just checking her social media is quite litteraly the least he NEEDS to do when leaving her responsible with his child.
How do they find your social media tho? Like if I had location off and didn't use my name how are they gonna find it?
@@theunholybanana4745 your social media can be traced back to you via phone number, email, or whatever else you use for your social media. Im not proffesional at it, but i do know its possible.
i was thinking the same thing!!
Exactly. I would trust no one with my child, if I had one (don't want kids and will probably never have one). Like you said, following social media of your babysitter is the bare minimum
I got written up once cuz my company caught me and a coworker posting on FB during work hours. My coworker tagged me in something and told me to look at it, and I responded. The very next day I got called in to HR with my boss and they showed me video footage of me and this coworker looking at our phones. No one from work was following us, so I was surprised by how closely they were monitoring us. It was creepy, but I learned quickly that your work place is always gonna keep tabs on you no matter where it is
Dad is 100% right pedos do be lurking everywhere. One of my friend's dad is a cop and he would tell us about how a lot of pedo's would get their pictures through Facebook from the mum groups and save them. It's completely horrendous to what lengths they will go to, to get pics of your kids. Stay safe and don't be casually sharing pics on the internet of your underaged kids.
110%. The amount of creeps who follow family channels online because they're sharing so much footage of their kids must be unreal.
There's that particularly infamous case of a guy getting caught taking images of real children from people's Facebook to make "diaperfur" images.
The worst part is he has LGBTQMAP armour so not only gets away with it, he gets invited to read to kids.
@@drunkenhobo5039hat is “LGBTQMAP armor”
Yknow, with more than five seconds of thought, I remembered the issue with the LG+ community trying to keep out terfs and maps and those ‘clovergender’ and ‘kindergender’ fuckers, so I’m assuming that’s what ur referring to, or at least it being in the same vein. Idk how that pertains to reading to kids tho
There are entire instragram accounts dedicated to finding and reposting photos of child models or just similar photos, and they usually come from other Instagram accounts, like child pageants or modeling accounts. (Another reason to not put your kid into the abusive entertainment media industry. Sickos.) I don’t think it’s a wild statement to say it’s not an Instagram exclusive issue.
@@drunkenhobo5039 Don't even start adding MAPs to LGBT. LGBT doesn't include and never will include MAPs. You have to realize that pedos WANT you to spread that, this way they get LGBT kids coming to them when they say "I accept you for who you are, you can trust me". When you associate LGBT and pedos, you are actively helping them by making you hate LGBT. Kids see that you are actively against LGBT, they look away towards those that are. Only two main places they have to go are to parents or pedos. As a kid who knew he was "different" and "liked boys and girls" by grade 4 (9 years old), I was able to find spaces online. If it wasn't for a gay guy actually warning me about these lurking pedos, I would never have known and gone right in.
Pedos are also the ones in your groups telling you that Drag Queens are predators. Only pedos gain anything from making you hate. Congrats. Pedos use victimhood to lure in young victims. This is happening right now, and pedos are thanking you.
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i love how she refutes him saying i’m not like that and then using that exact same argument against him
What's also concerning is she's surprised that her boss is following her so shes shown she has no clue about who else is following her and seeing the things she posts.
Exactly. She's contradicted herself in so many ways
She literally proved his point in this video
*client
The fact she filmed and uploaded this whilst threatening him with calling him a pedo is mind blowing
@Solid Love bro actually commit Sue of side... if you can't understand how she's in the wrong there's no hope left for you. Honestly Keep Yourself Safe
@@miningrs You are disgusting and what is wrong with society.
@@MinecraftGod69420 I think they're trying to be ironic/sarcastic
@@sugoinspice9952 idk man check their comment history
@@sugoinspice9952 its more like bait rather than being sarcastic looks like.
This girl had absolutely no right to post a photo of a child that isn't related to her. The father is one hundred percent right to be upset and to want the photo taken down.
This juvenile has overstepped what protective service she is supposed to be giving. She needs to be reprimanded by the police for not knowing what she should NOT be doing!😒📽
She can’t admit she’s wrong like a narcissist, it’s the worst when you tell someone they shouldn’t have done something and they say “well you did this”
Sounds like my father
@@wyattjohnson7674Same my guy ayooooooo
(Unsolicited advice incoming, feel free to ignore)
But also honestly, I’m sorry dude. Shit sucks, to say the least. Just remember to frequently check yourself for narcissistic traits and routinely self-reflect, maybe speak with trusted friends if you find yourself concerned you may be exhibiting any habits he may have passed on, and I think it goes without saying that therapy usually helps too.
Nah, you're giving too much credit. She's just stupid
@@florpleborp2275 unironically _great_ advice tho. in my early teens it struck me that my learned behaviour/thought process reflected my own dad's lack of empathy and was fundamentally destructive - thamkfully with the right Rx & self-imposed cognitive behavioral therapy, i un-learned it over a couple years and functioned much better.
escaped him in 2020 & so glad to not be him. unchecked narcissists beat everyone down to their level.
@@florpleborp2275 okay but dont constantly evaluate your behaviors, you’ll make yourself paranoid and start beating yourself up for it. just listen to people, if they say you have traits like that then get help. thats that.
The fact she thinks she can take liberties with another person’s child, regardless of his or the child’s wishes, is insane to me. Not even to mention the mind-numbing attempt at gaslighting she tries in switching the narrative around to make HERSELF the victim and the parent the weirdo. Like hun, you’re my babysitter, it’s really not that weird for me to follow or look at your social media to make sure you aren’t out there every weekend partying bc you’re actually entrusted with my *child*.
and house/apartment haha
Wait til the child grows up and finds out about this and goes on a mission to teach the babysitter a lesson
literally. When I first started babysitting for a co-worker. I didn’t have Instagram until we talked about following each other exclusively to share what the kid’s day had been like. Only the parents followed me. And they made SURE OF THAT. Keeping tabs on the person you’re trusting your child with is just common sense
Nothing but tumbleweeds in that girl's brain if she doesn't even see the issue in what she did.
"she is todally in the wrong and its enevitable". truest facts in existence.
i recently got into an argument with a teacher for posting an audio of the moment a child in her class came out to her about how his mother was being beaten and abused. i said it was beyond fucked up to be sharing that with the internet without his, or even the mothers, informed consent, and i had HUNDREDS OF PEOPLE ARGUING AGAINST ME. the fleet of people online who defend exploiting children for content is insane.
i would tag the teacher for other people to go report her content of the child, however i don’t want his audio spread further.
Narcissism disguised as altruism. Nothing new, but the internet has made it significantly worse.
@@xenadavira Are you able to report her? She wasn't using it as educational, nor was anyone acting, so she was fully spreading abuse audio and exploiting kids and clearly has been for years to think it's normal.
Unfortunately/fortunately, depending on the location. They have one party consent laws for recording conversations. Which isn't entirely bad. Say if you have a creep for a boss. But that might be legally ok to record and share that.
The worst part is that if the child is getting abused and the mother sees this, the child will only be in MORE danger.
I think that she decided to upload evidence of her basically blackmailing the father is hilarious.
Its just sad that if she had not recorded this form of blackmail and actually called the cops on him because, I guess he wounded her pride, that man might actually go to jail and lose custody of his child😢. Thank God these psychopaths have a huge ego!
imagine finding it weird that people you work for, since you're babysitting their child, are following you on socials. I'd sure as hell wanna know what type of person was babysitting my kid and social media is one way of doing that.
The irony of her accusing him of what hes scared of for his daughter...
Moral of the story: Don't hire her, she doesn't respect the parents or their privacy.
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@@MSSMEG2005 you must like being reported for child abuse
@@MSSMEG2005 you’re sick, don’t look at their channel
And she will try to get you arrested for being a child rapist because you're being a parent and protecting your child.
@@MSSMEG2005 nice bait
fact is that she's gone to all of her friends and they're huddled up in a group talking about how he's a pedo and she's done nothing wrong, she definitely is oblivious to what's going on even now
lmfao 😂 bunch of psychotic freaks
Yeah true but it doesn’t matter what she thinks and she might end up changing her mind later anyways
'She was scramblin' around in the dark and thought she found a diamond she could use for ammo' truer words have never been spoken
“Stop tellin me what to do” in that dads voice is something I always reference in my head because I remember it from Courage the Cowardly Dog
Honestly schools should teach proper digital citizenship courses where they teach you how to not violate other people's privacy, and how to protect your own.
If I had to take a typing class way back when, then they should have to do this 🤣🤣🤣
Some schools do, it's just that most people can't be bothered to listen to advice that's been constantly shoved in front of us to the point where it sounds like whitenoise
We did in my school growing up, but this is in the U.K so that might not be a part of the curriculum.
Honestly, they already do. :/
Yeahhhh, the longer we have the internet the more I agree with this. Like all I remember were classes on typing and making a website. Nothing on safety. They sure did show us std pictures though. Because sex bad
Literally wtf that’s the man’s CHILD he has every right to ask her to take it down for privacy reasons like she really pulled the NUH-UH argument 💀
@Logan Floor {UTTP} the numbers say otherwise
@@BaconWrapDonut me too
Why does penguinz0 have over 13m fatherless people?! Ain’t no way bruh!
I make better content…
@@oceanharp please for the love of god do not reply to bots ffs
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She’s not even good at playing the victim
Seriously, what better way to make sure your new babysitter isnt a total psycho. Not to mention make sure she is NOT posting his baby’s pics online. Absolutely nothing wrong with him doing that.
i knew a girl who did this exact shit because an ex of hers outed her for lying online about family illness to leech money off of her friends. compulsive liars have this tendency to find themselves lost in the pointless argument they’ve started and just begin panic-accusing to save face. it’s an unreal development
A girl in my high school tried to accuse a teacher of assault. Her dad had to come in and explain _she’d done that before when he had grounded her to people at his job_ She was just mad she failed the final. The fucking delusion of some people is beyond understanding.
This is legit scary that ppl would do such disgusting things
I'm losing braincells just imagining having an argument with these people. "It's hard to argue with a smart person but impossible to argue with an idiot", or something.
@@chelscara You know what would’ve happened a few hundred years ago to someone like that?
They’d get the axe. And maybe they were right way back when
@@chelscara that's straight-up worth disowning someone for
like "it's been fun, kiddo, but it's time to be committed to a mental institution for life. pack your bags. maybe ill stop by to visit on your birthdays"
I guarantee she's not getting any more babysitting jobs in that neighborhood. 😂
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probably not considering its fake
I hope not. Hopefully this guy doesn’t let her babysit for him again lol
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@@itskitt3237 why would he
I was adopted and my family does not take photos just in case of a family member sees it and try to find me, i know this does not apply to that situation but she had no idea what the situation is
People like the dad give me hope, but people like the babysitter make me want to be a hermit.
she accuses him of being a pedo but she literally took a picture of a little girl and POSTED it online.
Why does penguinz0 have over 13m fatherless people?! Ain’t no way bruh!
I make better content…
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sounds about right, modern people in a nutshell, actually braindead idiots.
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Thank you, Charlie, for calling her out. She needs to be publicly shamed for this, I hope she sees this and the thousands of people that are horrified by her disgusting behavior.
She wont. No accountability ass bit** comes from a generation that is coddled, never wrong, and gets participation trophies for whining.
"Let's talk about the dangers of television" was always a warning that stuck in my mind, while I heard it on television. LOL. You're a STRAAAANGE strange dude. It's like you're grounded while completely oblivious to actual reality.
Should sue her for that privacy violation
The first rule they told us when I did childcare for a summer was "DO NOT under any circumstances take or post photos of the kids."
It's a serious issue.
It was the first thing I've learned when doing childhood education! Don't record, don't take photos, always ask for consent from parents.
Its also common sense! Like they're not your children. There's no reason why someone else beside you should be on your account
Absofrickenlutely
Well it's standard rules and practice in U.S HealthCare under the HIPPA Federal Healthcare Privacy Laws. You want an easy to win lawsuit just get some silly, stupid employee, like this teen dim wit, to take a pic of you while in a Hospital or care center and watch the Lawyers trip over each other to take your case.
Best part is that she recorded this and made sure her face wasn't shown because she is a minor uwu, talk about hypocrisy
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its also because its fake
@@alwaysabiggafish3305 the world isn’t butterflies and rainbows just because you haven’t seen something doesn’t mean it’s fake
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I didn’t think about that until now, but that’s actually crazy
The duck brothers 🤣🤣 just unlocked a core memory
Haven't thought about the duck Brothers in so long.. thanks for that lol
The father is a saint for the restraint he showed. She really deserved to be forcibly ejected from the household in the most cartoonish style possible.
6:34
The dad asks about a DBS, which is pretty much a UK Criminal Record check anyone can get made for themselves when being employed for a position like Babysitting.
She didn't have one, so that makes it even more logical for the dad to check her social media.
It's more concerning when you consider that a DBS check isn't even that airtight and ignores certain areas.
I would follow my babysitter too, to make sure they didn't pull shit like this
Just the fact that there's people out there that are on the baby sitter's side can be baffling
As a father, it makes me so happy to see everyone defending him and just absolutely shitting on this chick. The fact that she uploaded this herself is wild.
Wrong word, we don't call "chick" some trash human being like that
People nowadays will do anything for clout, especially if they have enough ego to think they're in the right.
@@akirajotaro yeah ego Is FIRST thing you need to have to post videos where you are 100% in the wrong
She probably showed it to her friends and they told her she was in the right and to post it 😂 she should have been so embarrassed after that video ended idk how she could have
@@dieselrichardson9055 there's no way her friends could've possibly said that. Anyways by her arguments she looks absolutely dumb for example: she said that posting the child's photo on a social media isnt that much but then accused the dad of being "weird" for following her on said social media even pointing out that he might be a pedo since that walking female thing without a brain isn't that old
He handled the situation very well. Props for the patience and ability to articulate his frustrations without losing his cool while being slandered.
so she thinks he’s a creep someone who actually knows her and has reason to follow her, but doesn’t consider that other creeps would be looking at his child on her profile?
That reference was On Point. I instantly hear the duck brothers in my head.