GHOSTING HIS GIRLFRIEND OF 15 YEARS. BREAKING UP WITH A FILIPINA
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- HE GHOSTED HIS FILIPINA GIRLFRIEND OF 15 YEARS. MOVED BACK TO THE USA.WHY IS IT HARD TO BREAKING UP WITH A FILIPINA. @mikesphilippineretirement @DumagueteRentals
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It is typical female behavior in the states, I don't blame the guy for being a bit jaded. I understand the clinginess of filipinas too.
It's getting really annoying, really fast at how some of them want you on the phone, video chat, etc non-stop. Leave me the f alone sometimes.
sounds like your better off dating and not be in a relationship
Being in a relationship doesn't mean being up each others asses all the time, Mike. It is no different than a guy that follows a woman around like a puppy dog.
It might be good for codependents, but my family is dead, and nobody ever gave me anything in life. It is great having someone to lean on, but I still need time to myself occasionally.
It is unhealthy to drift into obsession.
You are exactly right and Mike is wrong…
Set your boundaries from the beginning, date women more mature.
@@P90O3Eexactly. 20 years younger is a stretch when the youngest one is only 25. I set my limit at 10 years when I was 43. I did NOT look for the eye candy (some guys are ridiculous about looks). I looked for substance. Maybe I was sneaky I had families checked out it took me a year to find the right one.
To rob a Filipina woman of her youth & child-bearing years; then abandon her penniless is the most despicable scam of them all!🤬🤬🤬
not penniless
@@mikesphilippineretirement If the woman is left with only physical material possessions (depreciating assets) she is virtually penniless. She only has items she can covert to short-term cash. But she has no long-term path forward financially. Worse, unless he helped pay into her social security account, she will be unprotected in a workplace culture that disposes of women after the age of 35 or so. She can’t start over in the competition for the good jobs. So yes, I use the term penniless. That man financially destroyed this woman! That’s why she was so desperate to hang on. That’s why she was so emotional. She understood all along she was hanging off a cliff & he was her only safety rope….AND HE CUT THE LINE!🤬🤬🤬
Abandon her penniless? Yeah right! I very much doubt that! 😂
100 % correct, he did her wrong in the most despicable way. @@PhilCherry3
@@PhilCherry3 You are correct, all these old men expats go there...don't allow the girl to work...it ruins their future...if they don't take them to their country so they can get the benefiets....in the PH if you are 30+ you wont get a job...life ruined.
Mike you are right. When this guy is sitting in an old age home alone, he will realy miss this lady..
yes Ronald I think maybe he will
The problem is he left someone to poverty. There's an unwritten moral obligation, just like the video says, to leave someone better off than you found them. Karma has a way to turn the tables no matter your age.
I doubt that. Residents in assisted-living facilities are typically 75%+ female.
@@sebastianhamilton5892 LOL but most I bet are not desirable in any way
Hopefully karma catches up. Typical of a lot of the "crap" that goes to Asian countries and do this.
George, what a jerk move. That Lady spent her best years with you. She does not only deserve an explanation, she deserves a good financial help for her future life. Even if there is no legal obligation, she really deserves it.
The problem is he left someone to poverty and returns to a first world country. There's an unwritten moral obligation, just like the video says, to leave someone better off than you found them. Karma has a way to turn the tables no matter your age.
George I am 1 Billion % with you. If you had married a Japanese Lady with some self respect and decency you would Probably Be Feeling like a King and Every last man on this planet including Donald Trump being Highly envious of you.
Stick to your gu ns Brother! And expose these Filipina Grab All back st abbers for whom they are.
Go anywhere and choose any woman but one of those ra t bag Filipina's.
Avoid the Philippines if you value your life.
Good wisdom here. The most manly and masculine and responsible thing you can do in relationships is to treat your women well before during and after any relationship. Be a man and don't be a jerk. Simple as that.
You owe her allowance for a period of time as if you were married 15 years
This is the type of guy who would pretend to go to the store to pick up milk and leave his wife and kids. What a coward.
I Had a tear in my eye.The pain,betrayel,and bewilderment this woman must be feeling.
thanks for sharing sounds like you have a good heart
Wow, that's a bad case of disposable humans. Bottom line is he took her best years and threw her away. SMH
thanks Brain for your comment
Maybe she changed
It's Brian.@@mikesphilippineretirement
And somebody took all you OLD EXPATS " GOOD YEARS" HERE IN AMERICA ...😂😂😂 AND GOT RID OF YOU.
SHE took HIS best years.
He owes her an explanation, consideration, understanding and a way for her to survive without support after all those years
he does owe her a video chat
@@mikesphilippineretirement more than just that
He owe her allowance for a period of time and a video chat
He owes her financial support and an explanation.
he owes her nothing, Shes another Filipino Scammer
Thank you Mike for showing us how to be a human being and act like such ...💐💐💐
I wouldn't like to be treated like that and I shouldn't treat anybody like that. Yes, it can be difficult to end a relationship, but we must show respect and empathy to each other honor the time and feeling that have been in between ...
I'm really touched by this story. He took the best years of this young lady and later he left her with nothing.
thanks for watching and your comment
he just selfishly used her for all those years
People have no clue what goes on behind close doors. Even Mike.
Mike is right. This guy needs to grow a set. His lack of maturity is evident by the ghosting aspect. If he had 15 or so good years with her, he should have a least set her up to survive on her own. She did give him her best years. This sounds like sexpat behavior. I'm abit surprised by his actions...one would think at age 70 you would have your sheet together.
thanks for sharing
I like your term "sexpat"
Unfortunately, most of these vlogs cater to that lifestyle, including this one.
This video should be titled "How to pump and dump a Filipina." because that is basically what he instructs guys to do. "Leave her some money in the bank." "Give her a scooter." etc
How about treating them with respect and not using them for temporary sex?
That's what a man does and what a man would say to another.
Hi Mike, this is a story I don’t understand. How can a guy like that? It is worse and cheap react like he did. I mean, he is an older guy but he didn’t learn nothing out of life. It really is worse. So sorry for the Philippina.
yes he should have e-mailed her he was not returning
Yeahhh...
That was terrible doing her that way. What a coward not telling her the right way.
He should have called sooner
Cowards , Rude people, of course.
Do not give people so much credit.
Bad thinking, bad behavior , is fact.
A coward is giving $$ to the young Filipinos and her family and not your kids,
What a bullshit move this was. He is giving every foreign male a bad name in the Philippines. Stuff like this spreads. I missed one relationship because the girl I was engaged to was told not to marry a foreigner, because they kill their wives. She got this stuff from her friends who read it in the Philippine newspapers that a foreigner killed his Filipina wife. They ganged on her until she started to believe it, so she left the relationship. This too will get out and make it more difficult for foreigners to find women in the Philippines.
George is a terrible person. It’s honestly disgusting. If he was done with her after so many years, he at the very least owed her to be honest and tell her the situation straight.
he should have said something
As an expat, that boy and I refer to him as a “BOY”, is a coward. Ghosting someone is one of the lowest thing you could do. He is definitely a coward.
not a fan of ghosting
I refuse to judge others, but I would feel obligated to:
1. Talk in person with her to discuss the situation before leaving.
2. Ensure that she is very well off financially.
3. Maintain open dialog after the breakup.
I feel obligated to my pets until their last breath. My heart goes out to the lady for being victimized in that way.
thanks for sharing Brett
I been with mine 6 years total 4 years dating 2 years married. I'm one of the lucky ones I met mine. Wouldn't trade her for all the money in the world she loves fishing, exploring, doing things not sit around and it doesn't always involve spending money. So I'm blessed with my Asawa/Wife . I will say one thing guys find a Province Lady they are down to earth and simple and easy life
she out does you every time you go fishing
@mikesphilippineretirement 😆 yes that's why I'm keeping her she's the provider 🤣 🤣
@ajw9377 you got you a good Province lady to right ? You can't beat finding and marrying a Province lady. Something about how they were raised and taught by their mother and Aunts and Lola ( grandma) I love her Lola she turned 96 years old and still riding motorcycle 😆 I told her she's my girlfriend ♥️ 😆 she laughs
Does this man have a heart? Does he care about anyone other than himself?
A lot of break-ups happen when THE FAMILY puts too much pressure on the Woman to get MONEY. I know. Fact my Friend!
Boy meets girl. Both fall in love. Lot bought. House built. House furnished. True love. Baby born. Retirement plans make new piggy bank. Save save save. Boy gets text. Girl wants independence. Girl takes properties, children and vehicles. Man feels stupid. Girl repeats. Man repeats. Both get scammed by sophisticated actors. The beat goes on. And the beat goes on...
sing it Cher
Him being a jerk gives all of us a bad reputation. She will talk to her friends and family and word spreads. Sometimes it only takes one bad banana to spoil the whole bunch.
totally agree
He has every right in the world to break up with her if he chooses to and she has an obligation to act like an adult when he does.So he’s a jerk because she doesn’t know how to conduct herself I don’t think so 🤷
Doesn't affect my reputation. I'm embarrassed by my countrymen all the time but they have no affect on how my in laws view me. This kind of stuff did make it more difficult in the very beginning with them but that didn't last long at all.
that works both ways a foreign tell how he was screwed by a filipina when he did nothing wrong
I agree with you Mike, he should have been honest with her and at the very least set her up to be better off than when they met.
George is making all of us look bad!
She is 40 years old now she may never find any buddy easel .....15 years together is just like being married
many beautiful 40 year old's in the Philippines
Hey, Mike, I’ve been watching you, since you started your channel. I’m happy for you. Love your content. Keep up the good work. ❤
thank you so much
Karma will get him. He will regret doing this that young lady.
thank you for the comment
I'm very sorry that woman myself could never do that i was raised differently to me that's awful
it was and we as men must be reasonable for are actions
There's two sides to every story. She should be held accountable also. !5 years and no marriage or permanent residence. She should've saw this coming. Sure, he could've handled it better. I think he left the relationship a long time ago.
Very wise advise. Thank you for being a gentleman!
My pleasure!
Many Filipinas do NOT accept breakups and they do live their lives to please their families much more than the Foreigner husband. We are Number 3 here after her kids and parents and often other siblings. ONLY George knows why he could no longer continue and that to remain here would have been extremely unpleasant for him
There is no excuse for George not knowing how important a relationship is to a Filipina in the Philippines. His actions was being totally disrespectful and heartless to her. After all you cannot ignore that his girlfriend gave him allot of emotional comfort for all of those years which is priceless! Relationships to a Filipina in the Philippines means everything regardless whether it is a local guy or a foreigner. There is no excuse to cut and run without at least leaving her with something to make her life better. No Filipino guy will touch her so she is left alone without even a child for companionship and or emotional comfort. Life is or can be tough in the Philippines!
This guy is cruel!!!! After 15 years of the best years of her life! She should get half of everything he has! If she was in the states after 15 years she would be considered married in many states and would be getting half of everything he has.
thanks for sharing that Rory
I’m surprised how many kind comments are showing up.
Means there are more good people in this world.
In my opinion, Ghosting is the coward's way out!!! If it were not for Mikes phone call, this woman would have never known the truth. And without knowing the truth, she would have been emotionally crippled for the rest of her life, always wondering what happened to him. This is one cold hearted man. Great job Mike!!!
thank you
Every person has to make the best choice for them, sometimes ghosting is the right answer. Maybe the woman is vindictive, gets violent, tries to make false charges against you. It’s better to ghost in that situation.
@@morlandoemtp Ghosting is never the right answer especially not a woman coming from a religious background. In no way shape or form is that the best idea. Unless she cheats on you or does something deceiving then there's no reason for ghosting. You know damn well he couldn't find a woman back home and wasted 15 years of her life for nothing. He's a loser and a coward.
@@morlandoemtp we don't know why he left sick of Philippines ? being with a filipina not a walk in park 15 yr who know who was controlling who
@@garrylafferty100 The man said himself that she didn’t do anything wrong. He just punked out like a loser.
Good morning sir from Winnipeg Beach Winnipeg Manitoba Canada here listing and watching your videos and it breaks my heart to see the action he took towards his girlfriend for many years,
It's men like him make it so much harder fir men like me who are looking for serious and committed relationship,
I hape she will recover and meet a man who will give her the love she deserved.
Thanks for listening
She gave the most valuable commodity she has....she gave her time and youth. She can't regain any of that.
she is still young and beautiful
@@mikesphilippineretirement seriously?? at 40? She is "post wall."
She gave her time and energy. He gave his time, MONEY and energy. She got to live high on the hog for 15 years. PAID IN FULL.
@@wildbill562Mines 41 and looks so much younger!
This is a reminder to women. Don't shack up.
This is terrible. And ghosting your girl after 15 years is just downright cruel. Any man who can't go the distance till the bitter end shouldn't tangle with foreign women.
I agree
Sorry but after 15 years and nothing permanent, she should have bailed after 2-3 years of wasting her time. Plenty of fish in the sea.😊
She acted like a child when he tried to break it off seems to me he didn’t have a choice 🤷
So you are not allowed to change your mind? Everyone is free and should always have a choice. Staying in a relationship if you are unhappy is stupid
@@AcmeRocket If a loving, loyal woman who has already invested 15 years into you can't make you happy, nobody can. Stay single & in your own country
He wasted half of her life. Sad.
So did she.
George is a creep. That is rude.
George is a piece of crap. He robbed this girl of her years. Then left her with nothing.
After all that time together it was disrespectful and wrong to end the relationship that way. As you say Mike quite a cowardly way to finish with Maria. I feel for her too.
thanks for sharing your comment KB
I think we should treat our women the way we want them to treat us. We don't want to be scammed by a Filipina and then put out with the garbage, so let's not do that to them either! You used the right word, Mike! This is indeed cowardly!
thanks for sharing Paul
Hi Mike & Janet,
OMG, what a sad & tragic story, 🙏🏼🙏🏼😔😔. It doesn’t make any sense, 🤔🤔??? Guys are forever complaining about getting scammed by a Filipina, & having their hearts broken, 💔.
Then there’s guys like Reekay (a really cool guy ), that took 5 years, before finding his soulmate.
Your friend won the lottery on his first try, with Maria, and blew it!!! It’s like having the winning lottery ticket, not caring, and throwing it away, 😔😔!!!
But thank you for sharing, there’s an invaluable lesson to be learned here. If and when you’re lucky enough to find the right woman, treat her right, hold her tight, and never let her go, 🙏🏼🙏🏼😉😉❤️❤️❤️…
hi Pete
Breakups happen, but it's mental and emotional abuse to not give closure, especially after 15 years together. She did nothing wrong and deserves a severance package. At minimum, $15K, an explanation, apology, and best wishes for her future is what I would send.
@joeStack419. I said the same thing. He was a lonely 55 year and she gave him her youth which he would have never gotten in the US. I think she deserves a 35-50k house especially since he didn't marry her either.
Hear this kind of stuff too much lately...these old expats moving there...getting the young one, not allowing them to work the trade up for a new model when they get tired of them...Once these women hit 30 it is nearly impossible to find a job, basically ruined there life. Hope these young ones get smart and stop letting the one foot in the grave old men ruin their lives.
He doesn't realize just how good a woman she is he had found a gem i hope when I get there I find a woman just like her
so many good ladies here in the Philippines
Good luck! You're in the right place for advice. From what I've seen so far Mike and many of his fans and expat/passport bro brothers have much wisdom and aren't afraid to share it.
Be a filipina dont make her a gem some.time you can only put up with so much of any woman crap
I don't think gem are easy to find maybe he could not take her family financial burden we don't know average Filipina family's will cost you money medical emergency funerals etc
@@garrylafferty100 it could be. It could be his health went to isht and he didn't want to burden her. Maybe she was clingy or controlling or whatever. That's not really the point. Him leaving like he did I could possibly even understand that if I knew all the circumstances. What I can't excuse at all is him not firing off an email. Plus mutual people ignoring blocking etc. Maybe you don't think that's shifty but I do.
However... everybody could be lying so there is that. 15 years is a long time so I don't think it's that.
Excellent topic Mike...
Thank you kindly
@@mikesphilippineretirementgood interview, the second I seen of this guy and done a good job!
He should just tell her in a email. He is not coming back and it's over. He should be a man a let her know what he is going to do. He can do it in a email
a simple e-mail would have saved a lot of pain
Mike, you have a good soul. god bless you man !
You are an excellent storyteller Mike. I want to acknowledge that. It’s a gift. I agree 70 is not old. I’m close and I am more capable and vital than almost anytime, plus the maturity, good judgment, wisdom, insight and humility.
I’ve had to break up. It is hard. When I first meet I look for emotional stability. Thats very important. Also in the basic human rights a person has the right to change their mind. It takes years to know someone. Sometimes people don’t reveal important things until years later. I’ve had experiences like that. “To thine own self be true”. Honesty with oneself is critical and honesty with a partner is critical. If someone honestly tries many times to break up civilly, and it’s too dangerous or emotionally fearing, then possibly just detaching physically is necessary. We have only one life. We have to live our own life. I agree George could have sent an email letting her know his decision and possibly send her some money to help her for a while like Reekay suggests. Great video.
thanks Koufax
Well said.
You ( mean me) cant judge people from a story. I agree emotion can go high, and jealous can go high also.
yes they can
sounds like now his sex drive us gone he lost interest. Shallow man...
maybe good point
Mike you never shy away from the hard talks, keep it up!
Ghosting someone, especially after a relationship, is a cowards way out of things especially if it's the way they break up with the other person.
I would never heard another woman like that if I was leaving I would let her know I'm not coming back, what he did was not right, this is what gives expats a bad name I'm a bad reputation
I agree Dan
When I get back to Dumaguete permanently, let's sit down and talk. I had a Filipina basically steal nine years of my life and would love to share with you the insight I have from actual experience. Oh one more thing, this is not negative it would just be a heads up for those who are contemplating taking their Filipina back to their home country. Again, as with most things, it's about communication.
Wow 😮 Dean so sorry that happened to you…. I want to hear your story but I don’t have a channel yet. I’m moving to Dumaguete in June .
@@marcrichard7251Me too...in June!
@@marcrichard7251 Thank you btw...she's still here in the U.S. and even though I probably should, I have no animosity toward her.
@@deantucker1464 Yes you’re right forgiveness is a gift in disguise for yourself.
@@marcrichard7251 For sure!
You are always responsible for the positive emotions towards you that you encourage in someone else. Love is a beautiful thing and if you have to end the relationship, you are still obligated to honour that love and make the best you can to diminish any hurt. It is a sad story of a person being used.
Thanks Mike! This was another video with very practical, useful and relevant content supported by your firsthand knowledge of this couple. I'm surprised at how many expats zero in on one lady so quickly, but I understand it if they are located in another country with an LDR. Thanks for respecting Filipina's and sharing their perspective on a breakup.
Very welcome!
Imagine complaining about a situation that you created and not having the balls to confront the woman on her behavior that you allowed to occur due to lack of setting boundaries, and then instead of being a man and commanding the relationship you blame her for what you allowed to happen in the first place and ghost her. Honestly it’s just pathetic.
He totally wrong her , that is horrible what he did to her .
sad what he did
I agree with you Mike!
thank you JBjorl
Well I can say after a 23 year marriage that was unhealthy, I had to do what was best for ME. Like George, I’m sure he felt boxed in and didn’t need the female tears and drama, his only way out was to leave. I understand where he is coming from, the only thing that sours me….once in the states he should have sent her a civil email telling her it was over and that she should move on, being kind and civil. Then he can live his life in peace and drama free, him not disclosing where he is in the states was a red flag, he doesn’t want her “hunting” him down. My two cents. 😊
thanks Robert
If they weren't married it don't count ? It's her fault as well for prolonging nothing ? You don't no everthing he put up with , stay out of folks business what your witnessing is the normal ! Every relationship dosnt end like you and yours
I can understand George. I am in a similar situation. I have not been in a relationship for 15 years. I have been here with my girlfriend for 2 years. I have tried to break up many times. She just doesn't understand. There's so many things that come between us that she just can't understand. Every time I try to talk she just starts her yelling. I can definitely see where George is coming from.
Thanks for watching and leaving a comment. It was not him leaving it was him not telling her he was not coming back
Your friend George is a horrible person. He takes from her the most important years of a young woman's life, he devastates her. What a disgusting person. Coward is the perfect word. He is an embarrassment to all Americans. He owes her, both an explanation AND money and compensation for 15 years. I simply cannot stress this enough, what he did was wrong and a disgusting act and treatment from one human to another.
He’s a coward and a scammer. He didn’t have the balls to break up the right way after all the time she gave him.
I agree he should have told her
How cold can a guy be🤬🤬guys like this make it more difficult for us guys that are not like that and get the cold shoulder from filipina's because of guys like this. As for leaving them better than you found them isn't much of a consolation. The girl goes back home in disgrace. You may as well have just left her a $100 on the night stand for her, she gets out of the shower after a night together so you can leave without feeling guilty. Leaving them something before you leave I think would be more of a slap in the face. It just makes her probably feel cheap 🤬🤬✌🏽❤️
Thanks for sharing MrRizzo
As a grown man, a matter of fact, a senior man for that matter, George handled the relationship very poorly. After 15 years, a person deserves a face to face conversation regarding the ending of a relationship. It's hard in itself to walk away from a 15 year relationship because of all the emotional investment. On top with the ghosting will have devastating effects. I can't imagine the psychological scaring left upon this poor woman.
Don’t worry about that woman, she got herself a new farang pretty fast, there plane loads of farangs arriving everyday. And they’re fighting for left over women😂
@@humungushumungus213 hahaha farangs? This is the Philippines we are talking about, therefore the term AFAM is used to describe foreigners, but I guess it's same thing lol. 😄
@@lendlalfred7870yep I agree!
you are on target with this video. Thanks Mike.
thanks
You’re a nice man, fair and balanced.
I appreciate that!
What do I think of him? I don't! What he did was cowardly, immature and narssacistic!
He is the norm now. Do what you want and ignore how it hurts the other. The guy was a douche.
@ouibaril58, need more details b4 judging him!
wtf? One month relationship, OK to ghost. 15 years? wtf? Real bum.
This is another great topic you’re sharing to expats! Honesty.
Thanks for listening
Mike, i enjoyed your awesome video. As the cliché goes: Honesty Is The Best Policy. Always!
That's one thing about filipinas they're very quick to fall in love with you
But when they do... They do it for a lifetime... Then they introduce you to their family and their family falls in love with you too and they're very happy for the Filipina.... The embarrassment and the shame when the Filipina has to move back in with her family is devastating... And you're absolutely right be upfront and honest about your intentions... Just tell her you're in it for fun and games.... Or you want a serious relationship
Great video
That's one thing about filipinas they're very quick to fall in love with you, because you are a A.T.M machine TO THEM .
just be honest
Good Video Mike…, Sad, but good advice I think.
Thanks 👍
Righteous video, good job! Best wishes to Maria.❤
Thank you very much!
awesome video
thank you
'mama may have and papa may have ... but God bless the child that has its own .. that has his/her own' George Gershwin .
'People will hurt you and desert you and even take your soul if you let them' Carole King
The guys first wife probably will give you the low down on him
Personally, I think the only issue is not just telling her once he was back in the States that he didn't plan to return. Give her a clean break, and if she persisted and wouldn't accept it, then ghost her. At the least, let her know to move on.
That is the issue not that he was leaving but not telling her once he arrived in the US
If a guy doesn't want to marry you after a year Run Run Run
I agree with you on being upfront and honest. If you’re gonna live with somebody long-term, do yourself a favor and treat them exactly the way you would want to be treated. Sometimes relationships just don’t work out no matter what your ethical standards and practices. I’ve never found Filipina’s to be as difficult as Thai partners. Because Thai partners lose face with their friends and families if the foreigner leaves them. I’m sure you get crazy jealous Filipinas, But that is where a good screening process should show up some red flags. The reality is if you’re dating a younger partner you best have some common ground to base the relationship on. The chances are very slim that a Filipina 20 years younger than you will have the same life experience and maturity as you, so you have to be very forgiving and show each other your better angels. Thank you for the video.
Been watching you a while Mike I’m grateful for the practical advice and “real” subjects that you cover , I retire May 31st and move to Philippines September 3rd you information is valuable 🇬🇧
This is a really sad one. I hope she will be ok.
she will be now that she understands he is not coming back
Yeah. It's terrible he didn't tell her this. I can't imagine, just wasting. Not knowing. Awful. You're a good person. @@mikesphilippineretirement
Good topic, Mike. I appreciate how you encourage men to, if they are going to leave (including dying well before their lady friend), leave them in better shape than when you arrived. But in the circumstance that is the topic of this vlog, how does one remotely compensate a Filipina for the “flower of their youth?” You are setting a good example by helping and encouraging Janet to have an independent source of income and be able to support herself once that time comes-the time that comes for all. She can live her life without having to return to family because she will have invested her youth wisely and not fallen for a scammer of youthfulness-sometimes the only thing a Filipina has to invest in a comfortable old age. Good job.
thanks for sharing
Once he got to the States and decided to stay, he should have been clear with her and let her know. But in his defense, it seems that problems built up over the years, and he had enough. Sometimes things get to a breaking point, and we need to move on.
Excellent Excellent message! That’s not fair at all and horrible! He should really reconsider and bring her back to the USA even on a visitor visa she could visit him 6 months every year. Give her a chance to change and improve if there was some minor issues…always be honest! Break ups are hard! I hope I never have a break up with my Filipina! I’m just getting started first 2 weeks together and looking forward to planning my next trip!
Mr. Mike Thanks a lot of sharing I really want your assistant. Kindly Can you please direct me.
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After 5 years I broke off the relationship because I didn't like where she was living,also she was getting a bit fat.
I loved her at the start but hit a slippery slope.She got a house and a motorbike out of the relationship she ended up better off than when I first met her.
what else can you do
You did it the right way!
Again, good content, thanks.....
Good points. I feel the same way
I have been with my girlfriend for 10 years and we are not married we have a 7 year old daughter and we are very happy 2gether we got business 2gether and a 5 bedroom house together
But you don't own the house.
Hey Mike, how are you brother?
I believe that you can still have a beautiful, committed, loyal, trustworthy, respectful, loving, affectionate relationship, not cohabitating together.
You have your own place, and she has her own place. I would be a gentleman and I would assist with her expenses. She spends time at your place. You can spend time at her place. That avoids all the issues if the relationship goes south. Just my opinion.
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Michael maybe her place is many miles away. Than what
@@mikesphilippineretirement yes true, that is very good possibility. If I’m lucky enough to find someone local, I guess that makes it big difference. I never say never brother the heart is open.
Pretty rare.
The issue is that many filipinas in their 20s still live with their parents and siblings, especially if they are still going to school. If they have their own place in a lot of cases it is just a bed in a boarding house or very small room, that you wouldn't be comfortable in. The Philippines is not like the west, most earn and live off of $200- $400 per month.
Yo Mike, great video, completely agree. You need to make sure they are better off. By the way, looks like my room at the Quest Hotel, is that the pool view if you open the blinds to your right shoulder. Heading to Manila next week, but will be in dumaguette/cebu in July
maybe we will see you in July
Quest is a nice hotel for $47/night. I had a really nice room on the 14th floor last time I was there and right across the street from Ayala mall.
Hi Mike and Janet ❤️ So many good points. Treat yr partner how u want to treated. This guys sounds like a Jekyll and Hyde!!! 👍
Thanks so much
The guy can do whatever he wants that's life . We don't know the true dynamics of their years together. Life changes and we move on . Is what it is 🌴
yes your right he has moved on
You sound like a prize.
I agree 💯 with you Mike
thanks
You are such a good person Mr Mike! You have my respect....so it says it doesn't matter what race a person is- a coward man is a coward man across religion, belief or race
He should have been upfront.
I agree
Why would you get up in this guy's business?
Because Mike has a kind heart and common decency. Somethings that George doesn’t have.
@@Mexicobeanpole That doesn't excuse getting involved in someone else's business.
You made me feel so bad. I was at the end of my divorce and I went to the Philippines to distract myself from too much stress. I have never intended to meet someone special and have strong relationships, but it happened. When I came back to the US, I confessed about not being divorced yet, she agreed to wait, but I felt guilty that I was holding her while I was waiting for my divorce. I told her that if she meets someone else, I will understand. From twice a day chat, it turned to once a week. She had four kids, three of them lived on different island with grandparents and the fourth one with her who was adopted by her auntie. She was very beautiful and pure wife material. She had nothing, her husband who never married her kicked her out of the house. I was her only hope to get out of poverty. I decided to block her because I wasn’t fully divorced and didn’t want her to wait for me. Now, after this video, I feel guilty that I hurt her. I will unblock her.
Sounds like a good girl.. I'd like to meet her, sounds like she's a very committed woman