Unc & Ocho debate if sleeping in separate beds is a sign your relationship is over | Nightcap
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ธ.ค. 2023
- Shannon Sharpe and Chad “Ochocinco” Johnson discuss what it means when a couple starts sleeping in separate beds. Cameron Diaz has come out and said that we should normalize it, but is the lack of intimacy a sign that the relationship is already over?
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“There will always be someone with prettier feet” ..Ocho gonna always slip them feet into a convo 😂😂😂💀
was lookin fo this comment
Ocho is not wrong
Can't you right the whole word ? Takes that long to right "conversation"?
😂😂
Shannon is in love with “shaking the covers” 😂 Can we get a bedding company to sponsor Unc?
Either that or a diaper/ wet wipes company after what he said the Prime episode 😂
😂😂 yes Lawd him & them covers😅😅
Shaking the covers how hilarious ❤
Hell yeah he is lmao 😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
As a husband who sleeps in a separate bed, its done for work purposes. Our shifts are different and we were disturbing each others sleep due to this. When we are both off, we sleep in the same bed.😢
I'm just a very light sleeper who can't sleep with someone else even in the same room. The sound of someone breathing or moving sheets wakes me up instantly.
Same here. I'm married, 2 young kids. I have to wake up at 1 a.m for work, so I go to bed around 6 p.m.
My wife and kids go to bed around 9-10 p.m. There's too much noise and commotion going on to sleep in my bed where it'll be quiet to get a good night's rest
This is so true, sometimes you’re sick sometimes you can’t sleep sometimes you have diff shifts
Yup sometimes it has to be done
It’s only a matter of time my boy
Relationships are not one size fits all. I have not slept in the same bed with my spouse in over 10 years. And our marriage does not lack intimacy at all! We hold hands, we go on walks, we talk, we have dinner together, we laugh together, we still have a ball. We are going on 38 years of marriage. And yes when we travel, we get adjoining rooms because I need my sleep! My spouse is a retired veteran with PTSD. Even with the meds, my spouse kicks, punches, and screams. There is nothing like being startled out of your sleep from a scream, or a slap and seeing this person devastated because they have no control of their actions. Intimacy doesn’t require that we sleep in the same bed. Our intimacy begins everyday when my spouse says good morning baby is there anything you need or I say good morning baby what would like for breakfast. I am happily married to my best friend! And I happily sleep alone every night!
Thank you!! They don’t understand, marriages aren’t one size fits all and people do what is best for them. My husband and I sleep in separate bedrooms as well, because our sleep patterns are different and my husband has a very dangerous job and I wouldn’t want to keep him awake, when his job and life depends on him being always alert (I want him to come back home to me). Plus he’s an extremely light sleeper, who likes to be in complete darkness. We’ve been married 14 years and together 16 and we have absolutely no problem with intimacy. I think for people that haven’t been in a long term relationship or marriage for longer than 10 years don’t understand that intimacy isn’t just sexual. Intimacy is the act of being close on all plains of being, meaning mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. It’s not just sexual.
This podcast is amazing, these men have absolutely raised the bar for pod-casters
They should get nominated for podcast of the year
They are funny and wide open 😂
My grandparents were married 72 years and always had separate rooms, single beds. Seemed to have their sanity until their last days. I know that seems weird but i think it's a respect thing. Everyone needs personal space in a relationship. Boundaries are important. People need to learn boundaries with all relationships, including work relationships.
My neighbors were married over 80 years and had separate bedrooms. I think as you get older night time needs change, and it’s over all just better to have separate beds
Mine too.
I agree 👍
My fiance and I have separate bed rooms. She falls asleep at 7:30 pm. My room is the boom boom room.
Not the boom boom room!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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The boom boom room😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Me and my girl just recently started sleeping in separate beds. She snores like a dragon roars and I just couldn’t take it anymore. We’ll watch tv and whatever until she goes to sleep and starts snoring then I’ll go to the other room.
My BF is the snorer and separate rooms saved us
If possible, you should try and address the snoring with a sleep study, it could be effecting the quality of sleep your partners are getting. If it is, it’s most likely causing fatigue or other health related issues you may not even be aware of. The extra bed may save you but it could potentially just be a bandaid to a more serious problem. Might sound like a bit much, but after fixing my sleep (snoring) issues myself I don’t know how I was operating like that for so long.
This is my situation. My husband snores super loud.
Lawd… it’s the Temptations and then TLC later. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣. Also, as a side note folk in separate sleeping quarters may have had some health concerns as well. Every marriage is different.
My age is showing . I automatically , no hesitation said Temptations.
yeah everyone’s story is different
The fact that they laughed at the atemptations…!🤦🏾♀️
Unc like TLC, He ain’t to proud to beg 🤣🤣🤣
Sleeping in separate beds was the most normal thing for the era of the longest marriages. Get a clue folks
That was also before feminism as well though
Man say that!
Sure was!
I don’t see it been with my wife from 16 till now and im 41.. I just don’t see it but everyone different
There’s something to be said about “shaking the sheets” in a twin bed. 😂
I have been sleeping in a separate beds with my wife since my son was born over 5 years ago. I have PTSD and have been known to occasionally (very rarely) throw elbows or swing in my sleep...I dont care how rare it is I couldnt live with the fact of harming my baby or my wife in my sleep. It still brings tears to my eyes thinking about it BUT we are going to be purchasing a new bed at the end of this month and Im going to join my wife and son here on out. We did some test runs and it seems like Im good to go now. I know people who sleep in the bed with their spouse every night on the way out of their relationship. I know my situation is very specific but I see where yall coming from with it.
That's unfortunate about your PTSD. That is a real issue. If I understand what you're saying, your five year old son is sleeping in the same bed with your wife? What!?
It’s unfortunate you experience that , hopefully over time it will get better
No therapy?
Get that baby out of y’all bed! That’s not a good thing, trust me.
That’s great to admit it. My ex punched me in the stomach in a nightmare; a veteran. I remember feeling it really hard I just like not understanding what was happening. It’s not intentional but you gotta be careful about things that happen in nightmares
We sleep selfishly. It is what it is. Because we can’t really control what we do. I snore pretty bad and move around a lot. My girl will seriously lay her head down and not move a single inch for 9 hours. She is like an angel. She says most nights I’m actually okay. But having that second bed is good for the nights that I’m back on my bullshit. Gotta respect your partners sleep! Cause a tired and worn out wife/husband is not going to lead to a happy marriage.
Great point. Same situation. I snore like a Mack truck. My girl and I sleep together most nights, but having that separate bed when needed helps. I don't want her to suffer when she's gotta work in the AM, and I don't want to be resented for stuff I do when I'm unconscious 😂😂 I'd rather sleep together but you gotta respect your partner's need for sleep if you saw logs all night.
Pure jokes …. These two are fools in a great way , I love them .😂🤣👏🏾👏🏾
"YOU NEED TO BE IN THERAPY WITH THESE FEET." Broooo LOL
My great grandparents slept in separate rooms but did everything else together church, dinner, getting well water, 50+ years of marriage. It just depends on WHY your sleeping in separate rooms.
That last sentence 👍🏽.
Yes!
Agreed.
Calling Ocho a striped Bass had me rolling 🤣😂🤣
Here go Ocho with the feet again.
I went to another room when my wife was going through breast cancer treatment because I wanted her to be as comfortable as possible. A year after her treatment, I got too comfortable in my room. But guess what? There is open tickets to visit both rooms if you know what I mean. It’s been 15 years and our love is as strong as ever. We’re locked in.
It either means it's over, or it means it's never going to end.
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It’s crazy how accurate this is lmao
Yooo 😲😂
Best comment 😂😂
These ninjas be clowin & dropping game at the same time 😂😂😂
Not a "BIG BLACK BASS" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I got to go to bed off that one before I wake the house up laughing at y'all two 😂😂
I genuinely have not laughed so hard at a TH-cam video like I did at the end of this one😂😂😂. “You….the big ole black striped bass” 😂😂😂 this is great lol
Sent me 😂
Pickle feet Shannon 😂😂😂
If you don't go to bed angry, going to sleep in separate rooms after an argument is basically... Going to sleep angry
My grandparents passed in the 2009 (Grandfather) & 2010 (Grandmother). They were in their 80's when they passed away and were married for 60+ years. Grandparents had 4 bedrooms in their home and they started sleeping in different bedrooms when they got into their 60's in the (1980's) and retired from working. Slept in different bedrooms for 20 years (1989 - 2009) before they passed away because my Grandfather was a morning person who woke up around 5:00am every morning and my grandmother was a night person who stayed up and watched Television until after midnight. Grandfather went to bed around 7:30 PM everyday. Even though they slept in different bedrooms would always make time for each other to watch Television with each other for at least an hour , two or more. Grandfather was a light sleeper and grandmother was a heavy sleeper.
They irritated each other for decades at times, but the love that they had for each other kept them married for 60+ Years until they passed. Just hope I can stay married for 60+ years whenever I meet and marry my wife in future whenever I meet and marry her.
Separate beds 🟰 no biggie 💁🏼♀️. Every relationship is different with work schedules, excessive snoring & other sleep conditions do what works best for you!
Exactly! I’m a light sleeper and my ex had a super early schedule on top of waking up to use the restroom. We quickly had separate rooms
I sleep on the couch most nights for sound sleep reasons. Some folks just are bad sleepers, snorers, farters or they talk in their sleep. I need my rest so I’m headed to the couch! If we go do the “do” then I hang out in the bed, but once it’s over, I’m off to the couch if the snoring starts.
Never go to bed ANGRY. That great advice
My grandparents wouldn't get divorced and had separate bedrooms. They went to counseling for years and the doctors figured out my grandma was wacko. They had their 50th anniversary and finally got divorced. My grandpa was a farmer and did everything he could to make sure she was set for that day. She went to college while he farmed.
When they finally got divorced she got half the income from the farm plus she was a part-time nurse.
The funny part was that they had separate bedrooms for at least twenty years and made believe they were together when relatives stayed overnight.
He’s must’ve really loved her to be able to give half the farm income but then again if it’s a one time thing and he still has the farm that’s a bit passive income for him. I hope it worked out for gramps after the settlement
@@MegaMjjordan they've both been dead for at least five years now.
I spend all my life sleeping alone then all of a sudden I have to share my bed? My grandparents were married for 40 years and 2-3 nights a week they slept in separate beds.
That was really the norm or popular back in the day.
Ocho reminds me of myself sometimes 😂😂😂 Nah! Just be talking!
My parents been sleeping in separate beds for 20 years haha
I knew they was gon pull up the temptation version😅😂😂
I can’t stop watching these two😂
My grandma and papa have been sleeping in separate beds for years and , they are 54 and 58 years old . They love each other dearly. They have been married for 25 years.
they love gone they just in too deep to seperate now
they just dont want to start over so they make it work
Sure buddy lmao
No ,they do everything else together,just not sleep in the same bed.@@salsninth
Please ask them why. I wonder if it was a snoring, room temperature, to much movement, or one got up earlier in the morning to not wake the other one issue.
My parents been married almost 45 years been sleepong in separate beds for about 20...it can save a marrage as well
Right! If you don’t get enough sleep because of someone else it causes resentment. It’s not talked about enough but as men age they go to the bathroom more in the middle of the night, and that can really mess up the other persons rest
😂 that was TLC😂😂
Someone told Unc Temptations, they set him up! 😂
OCHO talking bout SWV🤦🏾♂️😭
I originally heard of separate beds, from people married 30+years. They know something, modern day couples do not.
They actually do! If you’ve been with some 10 or more years, you understand that you both need some individual space. The ones that don’t understand that, are still in what is called the “honeymoon phase” everything is new, fresh and fun. When you’ve been married as long as I have, you understand the value of alone time.
Ocho flying his freak flag at full mast proudly 😂. I see you man.
If you can afford separate bedrooms, your marriage may last for fifty years. Privacy is a thing of beauty, restful to the soul.
When they both get the song wrong 🤦🏽♀️😂🤫🤪
I will say for me and my wife sleeping separately almost ruined our marriage. That’s because once you start having separate bedrooms and beds you are ultimately opening the door to having a lack of intimacy which a marriage also needs to survive.
Let’s also remember a marriage is about sharing everything in all aspects of our lives not just the things we “choose to share”
I disagree. Separate beds for various reason is accommodating your partner. Separate rooms is a no no. Let’s not confuse them both, as the same. Also, me time is still essential. Never a good idea, to lose yourself inside of a relationship.
I sleep bye myself because im single
Same.Wrecks intimacy.
@@jgyrwa I think you’re confusing codependency with not sharing a bed. Sharing a bed doesn’t mean you can’t be an individual with your own thoughts and ideas.
All I’m saying is that once you decide to get married. You are committing yourself to a person, completely mind-body and spirit it’s not saying that you aren’t your own person. But you are also willing to share things very intimate with your partner such as your bed. also if the two of you cannot sleep together if that’s just something else for you to work on together. You don’t move out of the house just because you don’t like living with the person. You work through it.
Separate bed rooms could be very helpful. The sleep pap machine is loud and for people who sleep wild it's helpful. PTSD is dangerous for your mate too.
Ain't no damn way SWV TEMPTATIONS 😂😂😂
Now Ocho is a Therapist! SMH! He has all the careers! 😂
Yall two crack me up!! Best move ever to start this podcast😂
I just subscribed today. I been saw you guys but would get off into doing something else. But I subscribed today as I had time. I Love Yall and wish you nothing but the best. Thank you both for being real and having a difference of opinion and can agree not to agree and move on. Everyone be so angry and come with so much drama. It's a point of view people. Keep up the great convo.
Black stripped bass! LOL
Unc is too funny
It’s the temptations song first
I snore like a walrus so my wife and I are just happier and better rested in seperate rooms.
Me and my wife have 3kids plus my niece comes over, so they all leave the room and come in with us. So as they walking in I’m walking out to sleep in theirs😂😂
NEVER SLEEP ANGRY , Ocho.85 knows!
Me and my wife been sleeping in separate beds for going on 30 years and we’re happy as ever. I love my space and so does she… We don’t just have separate beds. We have separate rooms.
So you have a roommate not a wife.
Same here!! Omg, the snoring is crazy😅plus he’s always complaining about it’s my bedroom anyway with all my makeup and clothes. I took over the master. But well gets its in with no problems..
@@dayman5417 when youve been married 30 years holla at me
I always keep a separate room and office in my house with a futon mainly cuz I’m used to being an only child and I like my space to play the game or edit videos at night it’s a comfort nostalgic thing and I might just sleep in that room
But it’s no beef
Do you rent separate rooms when you are on vacation?
Okay, lots of people talk about their grandpa and grandma, or their mom and dad sleeping in separate beds, and had long marriages.
Great, but do you really know about their personal relationship with each other.
Intimacy in a marriage is so very
important, and should be spontaneous.
Even holding hands in bed and just talking with each other is special.
My husband and I are in our late 70's.
We met 13 years ago. Intimacy keeps our relationship alive, and keep us focus on each other. We both complain that each other snores loudly😊.
We got used to it. If I am too loud during the night, he goes to the guest room.😊 We always sleep together.
Your partner's snoring is not an excuse , unless you were an only child and set in your way. Then you will have a room mate.
I have a friend who does shift work, her husband and her sleep in the same bed.
In certain cultures, it is the norm for husband and wife to sleep together.
My grandmother and grandfather slept in the same bed.
My mom and dad slept in the same bed.
What if your wife snores like a got dam freight train and ur a light sleeper? Doesn’t mean it’s over, just means I need to get some mf sleep 😂
Love you guys 😂
Im 33 and i don't remember my grandparents sleeping in the same bed
Ocho laugh is Hilarious 😂😂
Shake the covers 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Separate but together the late great Kevin Samuels used to talk about this concept I think it's a case by case thing every relationship is different whatever works for yall works for yall
Now Unc…”shake the covers”-hilarious!
Good shit
They went from TLC, SWV, En Vogue to the Temptations 😂😂😂😂😂
I don't mind sleeping in separate beds especially if he snores and could blow the roof off the house. We can hook up anytime 😂
Lawdddd…. Black Stripe Bass 😂😂😂
My husband and I sleep in separate beds. We have married 26 years. He snores LOUD and I go to bed early he goes to bed late. My room is neat and his room is a mess. He's a pack rat, I'm the neat one.
What abt sex life ??? How you guys managed that
@@edsondepina8430 Was wondering that too lmao 😂 do couples just choose a bed randomly??
Unc talks big, but that lady doctor is waiting for him.
Ocho tripping that's TLC
1:15 that’s TLC OCH 😂🤣🤣😂
And the temptations
As someone raised in a 12 bedroom house, my parents shared only one bedroom. My dad passed in 2020 after 57 years of marriage, and his clothes are still in the same bedroom my mom sleeps.
My parents are seemingly happy 30yrs in & sleep on separate floors…I could never 🤣😭🤣
I don’t think it’s a problem if you have the right partner.
Some partners are understanding, and their relationship is not based on spooning in bed. There’s a fashion found in other places in that relationship.
We have to stop applying a standard that works for everyone. It doesn’t exist. We are all individuals and what works between couples just works. Others, other things work.
Thank you! It’s not a problem because the couple has an understanding and a process that works for them. There are many reasons and I think it’s unfortunate when people can’t see outside of themselves, they paint everyone with the same brush. What works for you, may not work for me.
I love Shannon Sharpe, he keep it REAL!
This is pure Entertainment i be rolling 😂
My aunt & uncle slept in separate beds, but they were in their 70’s, so yeah, but no…
Keep The content coming..keep the feet jokes..Ocho I love it
Sleeping in the same bed as a couple is something society has made *obligatory* , but it shouldn't be really.
Two exes SNORED like gorillas. I was tired of that nonsense. 😪
Sleeping in separate beds have many reasons. Job, kids, she just got her hair done or there's tension in the house.
My grandparents slept in separate beds for at least 20yrs! They were married for at least 45 yrs and literally until death did them apart.
My wife and I have been married for almost 10yrs. We sleep in separate rooms from time to time due to our individual tastes in TV aka she loves Reality TV and I hate it. Lol.
So sometimes she’ll fall asleep in that room while watching her shows that I hate, and I’ll sleep in our Master’s suite after I am done watching my movies/shows.
No beef.
We must normalize separate rooms, beds and homes within stable unions!!!! A bit of distance breeds longevity.
Yh nah
Ex tried that I divorced her in a year
I agree I don't want a stranger in my house lol
@@Jeromeparker5150that means you were not providing in some sort of way.
No way
😂😂 sick sick sick you guys are crazy.. I love it.😂😂😂
I’ve been through this… it started because of work… but it ended in divorce…
Tell them!
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽Ocho keep helping people
As long as there are cell phones and social media sleeping in separate beds is not a good idea.
Striped bass made me spit water
Ocho silent laughs kill me😅😅😅😅
Haha man I’m going up there to shake them covers , if she living here I’m going up there 🤣
These two are so funny 😂😂😂😂
Ocho loves feet. So do I. So i can totally relate 😂
Man, I love sleeping alone. We can handle business then go to separate rooms. 🛌
Take this to bed with ya!🤣🤣🤣🤣
I crashed my Range Rover laughing at this mess 😂😂😂😂😂
The TEMPTATIONS!! Originally sung ain't to proud to beg, fellas. Come on now!! 😂
"Ain't too proud to beg". I see Lefteye singing it all day. Lol.
An ex (before we were a couple and just friends) told me that he snored like a freight train (and he was NOT exaggerating lol). I'm a light sleeper. So he KNEW before it was even a thought that we'd be together that sleeping side by side just wasn't going to happen 🤷♀. When we eventually moved in together, having separate bedrooms was an automatic part of the equation. We also had different sleep/wake hours (I'm basically nocturnal and a freelance writer), so I'd hang out in his bedroom until he fell asleep (started snoring), and then I'd go to mine. In the early mornings, he'd wake me up in my bedroom (which I was fine with), and we'd have some time together before he left for work (after which I'd go back to sleep). Since we also had our own bathrooms, we didn't have any fights about our differing levels of cleanliness in that area 😏. Our eventual breakup didn't have anything to do with the fact that we didn't actually sleep together because we had plenty of intimacy and cuddle time with each other; we just didn't SLEEP together.
😂😂😂 love this show