The ISSUE With Arguing In A Relationship

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  • @StephanSpeaksClips
    @StephanSpeaksClips  ปีที่แล้ว +3

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  • @ITSRAYANNNN
    @ITSRAYANNNN 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Some guys will argue with you over agreeing with them that the sky is blue

  • @JamaicaLove876
    @JamaicaLove876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Agree with you 100%. Consistent arguing is usually a sign that you don't have the same perspectives or standards if everything is a disagreement. Also, it could indicate inability to compromise and selfish behavior in one or both partners. Two strong dominant personalities also leads to a lot of arguing as one usually wants to always be right and in control, a power struggle. Agree, when it gets down to disrespect that will further unravel the weak thread of the relationship. Partners who are compatible, have a high degree of respect for each other, and communicate well (mastering emotions) tend to argue less. Great points. I always say, if they can't communicate it won't work out. Essentially, the way we communicate indirectly shows how much love we have for each other. If I love someone, I certainly wouldn't demean them with toxic words and negative energy, that's not love to me.

    • @ChristopherRenato-wy6xl
      @ChristopherRenato-wy6xl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes 👍
      I think the best is to avoid Argument..
      It solves at lot of problems..

    • @nicolasmoreno9442
      @nicolasmoreno9442 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@ChristopherRenato-wy6xlIf you mean avoiding arguing as avoiding disrespect then I'm all in, but you can argue in a healthy and soft spoken respectful way. Because both partners need to express yourselves, otherwise it is bound to build resentment like a pressure cooker and eventually explode.

  • @jenniferborn6016
    @jenniferborn6016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How would we go about hiring you as a life coach to help

  • @Empre55
    @Empre55 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🫰🏾

  • @ivy1818u
    @ivy1818u ปีที่แล้ว

    My bf always starts arguments, if i tell him to stop it only makes him angrier. Only thing that works is when I put on headphones to not hear him and avoid it escalating.

  • @kathleeng1592
    @kathleeng1592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Just this morning I was talking to my husband about that. Listening to you has really taught me. How to address issues with him better and to mentain respect at the same time

  • @sharondavis787
    @sharondavis787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A healthy relationship of any kind must first have healthy communication. Meaning, both parties must know how to express their disagreements without hostility or defense verbiage even when, they are offended. 🕊 🕊 ❤ ❤ ❤

  • @ministertabathahopson2638
    @ministertabathahopson2638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are so right! my husband and I have been married for 12 years. We have not raised our voices at each other, we sit down and discuss the problem. Noone can hear what either person is saying, if no one is listening.

  • @abigalestoll
    @abigalestoll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If a man and woman can't have healthy conversations without arguments then they should go separate ways.

  • @QuintessentialQuo
    @QuintessentialQuo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s very unhealthy and I’m glad you’re touching on this situation!!

  • @janisdunbarakasugarlips5621
    @janisdunbarakasugarlips5621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Level up your gonna be hey

  • @janisdunbarakasugarlips5621
    @janisdunbarakasugarlips5621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need you know Meow

  • @shawanahickman6952
    @shawanahickman6952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so happy i don't have this issues anymore. Thanks to God and my calm to my storm🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫

    • @MZCARAM3L74
      @MZCARAM3L74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AMEN!..me and you BOTH✔

  • @ruthfeliciano3070
    @ruthfeliciano3070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If a conversation cannot solve an issue definitely arguing won’t either.

  • @tomikodenmon8839
    @tomikodenmon8839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💞Loved delivery of this message💞
    ❤🙏🙌😇

  • @janisdunbarakasugarlips5621
    @janisdunbarakasugarlips5621 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't argue their saying family his mother my family cousins OMG North Carolina to Connecticut

  • @janisdunbarakasugarlips5621
    @janisdunbarakasugarlips5621 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so glad it's out about my voice all tho unbelievable I can't help that you do with Ace I saw Lord justify

  • @hilo5901
    @hilo5901 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if he started with his trip?! I have walked away…I thought things were good… 🤔

    • @ChristopherRenato-wy6xl
      @ChristopherRenato-wy6xl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg 😱.
      That's awful moment

    • @hilo5901
      @hilo5901 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChristopherRenato-wy6xl more like insulting…but I’m glad I found out now instead of down the road…I don’t allow “anyone” to treat me like that…Man? Hmmm…😉

    • @ChristopherRenato-wy6xl
      @ChristopherRenato-wy6xl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah... At that moment, you leaving him like a korean man going to war with no hope of returning.. Hahaha..
      Are you from Korea?

    • @hilo5901
      @hilo5901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ChristopherRenato-wy6xl he wanted something different. I can respect that. It hurts but I can respect it. No I am not Korean, sorry. I’ve had many Soldiers leave me, they all returned from the Battle safe and sound! 😉🤩🥳

    • @ChristopherRenato-wy6xl
      @ChristopherRenato-wy6xl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hilo5901 some many soldiers 🙄🙄🤣.... Where you from and Would you mind if we chat on hang out or Skype maybe?