Unc & Ocho debate if they could handle their partner cheating on them | Nightcap

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  • Chad "Ochocinco" Johnson asks Shannon Sharpe how he would handle finding out that his partner had cheated on him. Later, Chad claims that he and his fiancée, Sharelle Rosado, schedule their sex via a calendar on their fridge... which Relle has something to say about.
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  • @SWHunte401
    @SWHunte401 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +146

    If I get cheated on idgaf how long we together I’m GONE

    • @michelangelooliver2590
      @michelangelooliver2590 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      On god

    • @jannalewis858
      @jannalewis858 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Exactly

    • @getschwifty9531
      @getschwifty9531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You just know, deep down, she won't respect you for taking her back after betraying you.

    • @averymoore9144
      @averymoore9144 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omm save all the other stuff for a tell all book

  • @ajtaylor8750
    @ajtaylor8750 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +780

    Cheating is the ultimate deal breaker in a relationship for me. Women are way more forgiving towards something like that even when they shouldn't be, but as a man it's just something that's way too disrespectful to take a woman back. You step out on me, I'm done. No going back. I'll be in pain, but my dignity and self-respect means more than anything.

    • @agentcodybanx8909
      @agentcodybanx8909 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      You speaking the gospel, my friend

    • @listeningviayoutube7229
      @listeningviayoutube7229 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      I agree and I am a woman.😊

    • @chanceguardamondo7249
      @chanceguardamondo7249 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      Women are more forgivable about it because it means that other women at least want you. It helps validate that they made the right choice in a mate. Men on the other hand are territorial and don’t want anyone else near their woman…..or at least shouldnt.

    • @lexis4490
      @lexis4490 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      One reason women are forgiving is because it gets harder to find someone when we get older.

    • @Keviekev115
      @Keviekev115 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Nope can’t do it

  • @shanadorhcooper1749
    @shanadorhcooper1749 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +311

    Ocho is soo underrated, he’s has great critical and rational thinking and he displays very positive energy

    • @persephone9360
      @persephone9360 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      We can like and appreciate ocho without lying dude cmon. He definitely is a positive guy tho

    • @MariusClay-hd4vp
      @MariusClay-hd4vp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Chad adding 10 years 2 himself 🤣

    • @walkerenterprise1764
      @walkerenterprise1764 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@persephone9360 y'all don't know or understand. That's the LEGEND of ocho. He literally has done soooo much and as a Miami dude. They shoot the shit. Meaning they joke a lot and let you figure it. With Chad, his legend is you never know if he bullshitting or not.

    • @themagicians1122
      @themagicians1122 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Ocho, is A REAL DOWN TO EARTH CRITICAL THINKING GUY, HIS MORAL COMPASS IS ON POINT

    • @lelle1068
      @lelle1068 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ocho has a VERY HIGH EQ and I LOVE IT

  • @One-Of-One_01
    @One-Of-One_01 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +232

    Cheating is not a mistake. That kind of betrayal is difficult to repair.

    • @bigcockedman714
      @bigcockedman714 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100%

    • @shawnlove4502
      @shawnlove4502 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup I agree

    • @ivywoodxrecords
      @ivywoodxrecords 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Dont mistake, romantic love, its not forever, and they dont love you, they just love what you give them. That goes for all relationships actually, even family. So keep 10% of you, for you. Always. You can do what you want with the other 90%, but as long as you keep that 10% of yourself, for yourself, youll never get truly broken, ever.

    • @braziliandoll83
      @braziliandoll83 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts

  • @zzzkun2526
    @zzzkun2526 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +807

    Some people will never cheat, no matter what the struggles are. Some people will always cheat, no matter how good they have it.

    • @listeningviayoutube7229
      @listeningviayoutube7229 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Facts

    • @PrincipalSkinner3190
      @PrincipalSkinner3190 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Well said, I'm very promiscuous when single. But I've never cheated based on principle. I also have friends that can't stop cheating even though they desperatelty want to.

    • @alphonsobrooks1771
      @alphonsobrooks1771 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True. Hardest lesson to learn sometimes.

    • @beajustme
      @beajustme 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

    • @shanid9891
      @shanid9891 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Right! It's about their CHARACTER!

  • @benroethlisberger2567
    @benroethlisberger2567 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +268

    Nah. When I was in highschool a couple years ago I found out my girl was cheating. I was hurt because I was in love with her but I forgave her and we got back together. And after that she had no respect for me and it was obvious. I was so unhappy but wanted it to work out for some reason. After it ended I promised myself that I would never get back together with someone who cheated or showed any type of disrespect like that.

    • @emageful
      @emageful 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@harriso575best thing to do is to take a break from her completely, few weeks. Then start dating other woman and youll get over her faster. But once you start dating thats when ur ex will beg for u to come bk. No matter who she is or think she is.

    • @emageful
      @emageful 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@harriso575the realization is he breaking ur trust. Thats the most obvious.

    • @mandem3426
      @mandem3426 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@harriso575the fact she cheated on you in the first place means she never respected you and doesn’t care about you the way a partner should. If you’re still with her , Get out of that relationship and don’t look back. Time heals the hurt but don’t force yourself to be around people who are willing to hurt you like that.

    • @felix3033
      @felix3033 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      High school relationships are for simps lol

    • @williamcarter9066
      @williamcarter9066 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you’re that young you haven’t gotten a dose of real life experiences !! Am 62 so here some advice for you!! Except your heart to broken more than it’s not!! However whatever crazy shit you do that’s on you !!

  • @rhondabrown1376
    @rhondabrown1376 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +344

    I love how Chad lit up when his wife came into the room. That's love! Yes Lord!

    • @trustplanet
      @trustplanet 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Shannon lit up too. I’m just saying lol

    • @marklockhart4239
      @marklockhart4239 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yea okay

    • @hopenyavor5514
      @hopenyavor5514 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yeah that joy is real! Happy for bruh

    • @nunyabusiness3516
      @nunyabusiness3516 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That's his FIANCE. Let him light up like that when she's his wife THEN that would be special.

    • @AMWHits
      @AMWHits 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂Yup I saw that lol@@trustplanet

  • @sidekickz2180
    @sidekickz2180 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +286

    I was married. She cheated... and I TRIED to forgive her.
    But problems arose when I would point out the red flags that I learned to look for that told me "Hey, she's doing it again."
    Well, she cheated. Again. I'm happily divorced. Point of my story: you can forgive, but you won't forget. And tigers don't change their stripes

    • @1979pmiller
      @1979pmiller 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      My worst nightmare. I'm terrified of having to go through that. Respect to you.

    • @MarkusBracey-cs5rm
      @MarkusBracey-cs5rm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      WOMEN TAKE US BACK. MEN WE GOT PROBLEMS W TAKING BACK PIDD

    • @justin-credible
      @justin-credible 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@MarkusBracey-cs5rmBecause physically the imagery is so different. And it takes waaay more interest for a wmn to let a man enter her.

    • @moneymakingmitch
      @moneymakingmitch 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Never take her back because shell never respect you

    • @BillionDollarPhone1
      @BillionDollarPhone1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But what if u have kids n want them to be happy

  • @zzzkun2526
    @zzzkun2526 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +511

    I’ll never know how someone can cheat, knowing that their partner will never fully recover from such a breach of trust

    • @MM-xc2bt
      @MM-xc2bt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      It's only cheating the 1st time. If the person sticks around after being cheated on ,they are giving permission to have it happen again.

    • @123jayb3
      @123jayb3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Ever notice the trend of women having no consequences at all after cheating in so many movies? It's as if it is encouraged

    • @Nedo_ao
      @Nedo_ao 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MM-xc2bt🤣🤣🤣

    • @dreddmann6532
      @dreddmann6532 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@123jayb3 movies are not real life.

    • @williamcarter9066
      @williamcarter9066 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Everyone is on probation in my life one purposeful misstep they gone like water going down a drain !! With looking back wondering what happened it’s over that’s it!!

  • @ChaseNSmoke
    @ChaseNSmoke 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    I came here to hear Ocho say "stay with me now", and i was not disappointed.

    • @TB-fk4qm
      @TB-fk4qm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yesss!!!! I love when he says that!

  • @Bankrollprimo
    @Bankrollprimo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    I cheated on my ex wife and she let out the most gut wrenching cry I’ve ever heard. I am still remorseful and regretful to this day. I broke her. It took me over 10 years to finally be able to forgive myself for it but when I think about it, it still hurts.
    Cheating is a tough thing to deal with.

    • @sthomas730
      @sthomas730 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Damn been there bro

    • @Bankrollprimo
      @Bankrollprimo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@sthomas730 Glad you understand. Sorry it happened, though, bro.

    • @getschwifty9531
      @getschwifty9531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      💯
      I still feel disgusted with myself for cheating. Men should strive to be above that.

    • @CookieMonster-we1in
      @CookieMonster-we1in 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@Bankrollprimo i cheated on one of the most amazing women i had in 2008. Im still mad at myself. But shes moved on. Shes married with 2 kids. Im still single and getting the worst era of dating.

    • @Olive.00
      @Olive.00 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      At least you are man enough admit how it hurt not just her, but you too. Though you are no longer together, it would help hee to heal permanently by owning up to it, apologize and let her know you felt her pain when she wailed. Also, the decade long it took to forgive yourself and that upon until today, it still affect you each time you think about it

  • @Thruthefiretogold
    @Thruthefiretogold 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +238

    If you let someone disrespect you once with no repercussions they will continue to do it until misfortune lands on them.

    • @kalandrasnow9555
      @kalandrasnow9555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Facts!!

    • @Shae_3
      @Shae_3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This real!

    • @brendaking9589
      @brendaking9589 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Real Truth, never said better

  • @latricedavis4311
    @latricedavis4311 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    Cheating is not a mistake, it’s a choice. Male or female cheating is unacceptable because it showcases the deceit in their heart…and the selfishness of it all😤

    • @TheCameltotem
      @TheCameltotem 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah for sure. It's a choice.

    • @botfields_hardcoregamer6401
      @botfields_hardcoregamer6401 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's a mistake also

    • @rainbowstalin594
      @rainbowstalin594 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@botfields_hardcoregamer6401
      nah.
      how do you sleep with someone by mistake the answer is you don't, you made a conscious choice to betray your partner.

  • @keithjack585
    @keithjack585 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    You can't control what a person does with their body. But you can control what you do when you find out. Stay in shape,stay fly,and stay papered up

    • @ivywoodxrecords
      @ivywoodxrecords 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes, place wallpaper all over your body when you go out in public. You might make a lot of rustling noises, but at least you papered up. Respect.

  • @TheRealPatience
    @TheRealPatience 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Ocho dropped a bar. Manage your expectations when dealing with people. 💯💯💯💯💯

    • @RealLadi228
      @RealLadi228 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Word

    • @ms.miraclewalking982
      @ms.miraclewalking982 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He sure did 💯💯💯

    • @canufillit
      @canufillit 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I got my pad and wrote it down.

  • @donnyjames8409
    @donnyjames8409 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Ocho is the only adult that lies about being older. Lol

    • @jameswatson6
      @jameswatson6 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      He looks 35 years old

    • @pigalottafattenton5003
      @pigalottafattenton5003 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      My mom always almost says she’s 10 years older than she is. I asked her to cook something years ago, she said “I’m almost 60 yrs old, that’s too old to be cooking.” I said you 51. She said close enough 😂

    • @mikeyy425
      @mikeyy425 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And heavier 😂

  • @veronicawhitfield6008
    @veronicawhitfield6008 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Ocho cheesing when his baby comes around 😁😂😂😂 I know that’s right

  • @shadowgod7523
    @shadowgod7523 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Betrayal is worse than death.

  • @gailm8462
    @gailm8462 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    It is interesting that a man will be quick to leave a women for a mistake but a man expects the women to take cheating over and over again😮

    • @MrMan-fx3ow
      @MrMan-fx3ow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That’s life

    • @lilliekeisha
      @lilliekeisha 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      its because women have set that standard of forgiveness so its expected

    • @kasheemsmith6239
      @kasheemsmith6239 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      We don’t expect y’all to stay y’all do that on y’all own

    • @Jay-ry2nk
      @Jay-ry2nk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Of course

    • @HighFrequencyRadio
      @HighFrequencyRadio 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      God didn't put a Hymen on a man.

  • @The.End.Begins24
    @The.End.Begins24 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Unforgettable and unforgivable. It’s life endangering with all the stds.

    • @MaddieLivingston42069
      @MaddieLivingston42069 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I told my young son, don’t have sex unless you trust that person with your life, these are different times we’re living in….

    • @p.gizzle90
      @p.gizzle90 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MaddieLivingston42069and even then he shouldn’t bc we all know _we could trust them wayyy more than they value us._ Better safe than sorry.😣

    • @fourstars5270
      @fourstars5270 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MaddieLivingston42069 times are not different. Aids, & other stds been around before you & your son were born. Best thing is to tell him to wrap it up.

  • @marcushester2312
    @marcushester2312 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    No other podcast covering real life situations like unk and ocho. 💯🤝

    • @hellabreeshhh
      @hellabreeshhh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      UNC said I woke up that's the schedule get it in 😂😂😂 pause

  • @EnriqueGarcia-tc6uy
    @EnriqueGarcia-tc6uy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Ocho is the coolest cat ever. I wish I could hang out with him. :)

    • @jamesjameswhattheladyssayl7657
      @jamesjameswhattheladyssayl7657 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U can

    • @molissab1211
      @molissab1211 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too..He’s like the fun but cool cousin 😂😂

    • @patriciastovall859
      @patriciastovall859 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎉🎉🎉😮🎉😮🎉🎉😮🎉ocho would be my favorite nephew

  • @MaddDoggie
    @MaddDoggie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Cheating is a deal breaker. It’s cowardice, selfishness and immaturity. A real adult will say what the deal is. “ I’m seeing someone else so if you can’t deal with it let me know now”. Some people are not into monogamy and that’s ok as long as everyone is all the same page. Don’t lie to yourself and don’t lie to those you’re intimate with.

  • @JustAshleyDanielle
    @JustAshleyDanielle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    As a woman who doesn’t like football I can say I really love this show 😂 and I’m slick learning a lot about the sport. And imma say everytime , Relle we need Selling Tampa back!!! And the way he looked at Relle when she came in with just pjs says it all. Stop the cap ocho 😂

    • @howardbullard1388
      @howardbullard1388 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah she wasn’t having it😂😂😂

  • @thehound1359
    @thehound1359 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Being cheated on is one of those things that will always be in the back of your mind. It’s unforgivable to me.

  • @runexscapexBotz
    @runexscapexBotz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Doesn’t matter who it is,
    Betrayal or cheating means it is the END.
    It was their choice.
    Take accountability and the consequences.
    OUT!

  • @chi8772
    @chi8772 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    If cheating is so forgivable why don’t men forgive it?

  • @Darkvirgo88xx
    @Darkvirgo88xx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Cheating is a automatic relationship ender. I would never forgive a cheater.

  • @MM-xc2bt
    @MM-xc2bt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    If you forgive a cheater, that's giving them permission to do it again. Also, cheating takes more work than being faithful. So why would you be with someone who puts serious effort into doing the one thing you're not supposed to do in a relationship?

    • @0Shane13
      @0Shane13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But it’s still the more comfortable choice

    • @JACQUEZ23
      @JACQUEZ23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@0Shane13no df it's not 😂

    • @justin-credible
      @justin-credible 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It’s actually not that difficult for the Wmn because they generally have a more willing participant.

    • @0Shane13
      @0Shane13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s far easier to work hard for something you’re passionate about than something you’re not.@@JACQUEZ23

  • @beemonique8466
    @beemonique8466 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I'm glad y'all talking about this. There's always double standards with me. You have to remember and understand- what you put out, you will get back. Don't do what you don't want done to you. Cheating hurts everyone, and it's never a mistake. It's a conscious choice

  • @gnoch88
    @gnoch88 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nobody is loyal. Once you understand that, life is simple

    • @Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH
      @Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sounds like projecting.

    • @gnoch88
      @gnoch88 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH do you comprehend what the word nobody means? But let me guess, you heard some goofball say that. So now you go around and use it frivolously.

  • @obama2k869
    @obama2k869 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    “I woke up, that’s the schedule” “skin 30” 😂😂😂

    • @dremetlock1635
      @dremetlock1635 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Unc be having the gems 😂😂😂 skin 30 love it

    • @EE-iy9rq
      @EE-iy9rq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aye

  • @1922terrence
    @1922terrence 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Worst pain I ever felt is when my ex wife cheated on me n not only that it was with one of the first friends I ever made in the military that she did it with. I learned a lot from that marriage.

    • @listeningviayoutube7229
      @listeningviayoutube7229 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Do you have trust issues now?

    • @TheMainMan364
      @TheMainMan364 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Well no shit he does

    • @User69-699
      @User69-699 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Bruh it’s sad to say but people in the military with a spouse gets cheated on the most.It’s a terrible thing

    • @1922terrence
      @1922terrence 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@listeningviayoutube7229 yea I definitely do but therapy has helped

    • @1922terrence
      @1922terrence 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@User69-699 it really is

  • @jenniferh.7219
    @jenniferh.7219 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Just remember some people will live by double standards. They will cheat but can't stand it if their partner cheats on them. It should be a given if you cheat in a relationship you can't sit on your high horse if the partner you cheated on does the same to you. Do I think it's healthy, not necessarily. But talk about fairness. What I'm saying is a cheater shouldnt be upset if the partner they cheated on, cheats on them

    • @getschwifty9531
      @getschwifty9531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Getting cheated on doesn't allow you a get out of jail free card for cheating though.

  • @emmanuelrobertson6852
    @emmanuelrobertson6852 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I got cheated on it was more of a relief because I saw the signs I just needed the proof. I was hurt because I gave my all did everything I could to be the best I could be but it wasn't enough. I found out she cheated I moved out and never looked back, it takes only onetime to cheat on me. Now she getting cheated on and abused and I'm married to a beautiful woman and we are happy and enjoying life together.

  • @tamirajohnellestyle
    @tamirajohnellestyle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    lol Ocho be cheezin so heavy when Rell come around😂❤

  • @buckettboyy1380
    @buckettboyy1380 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I’m telling you the pain of finding your spouse cheating is mentally and physically draining on the heart body and soul I’ve been through it I’ve done it and I wouldn’t want anyone to experience it or vise versa

  • @jerryreid813
    @jerryreid813 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    In my opinion, cheating maybe forgivable but not forgettable. Once that trust is gone, it is gone forever. But, to each his own.

  • @arnetressjacar6696
    @arnetressjacar6696 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Long time couples go thru cheating, forgiveness is such a deep and heavy word .marriage is such a emotional roller-coaster that's not meant for the weak..

  • @sammy74747
    @sammy74747 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Loyalty is in you or its not. No in betweens. Once a cheater always a cheater.

  • @sheekviews
    @sheekviews 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I left when I saw it with my own eyes. I had suspicions, but seeing it is a whole different ball game.

    • @SnakeyD8468
      @SnakeyD8468 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don't wish that on nobody ...lol

    • @jalilcook5113
      @jalilcook5113 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oml the worst thing ever

  • @80sbaby73
    @80sbaby73 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yall make a great combo for this show

  • @Smilez-m1s
    @Smilez-m1s 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    There's a big difference. When a man gets caught, the woman expects you to confess in order to continue the relationship. When a woman gets caught, she expects the man to let her die with the secrets and still continue the relationship 🤔

  • @iBtally
    @iBtally 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Ocho just makes me laugh man😂😂 0:16

    • @twoshirts1842
      @twoshirts1842 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      3:43 as well. His smile and head bob is great.

  • @lucristianx
    @lucristianx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I never hated someone more then when I saw they had an unfaithful heart.

  • @beautyfolse4249
    @beautyfolse4249 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I’m on my cycle. I can’t do nothing. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @joemincer8882
    @joemincer8882 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Never cheat. I only date men I respect, and let them know when I'm no longer interested in the relationship. I also don't tell when their friends try to crack on me. I firmly convey it's a "hell no". At some point I let my man know who I feel his TRUE friends are. (wouldn't want to cause friction in his friendships)🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @joemincer8882
      @joemincer8882 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@KingCarolina_ I would never tell because I am considerate of my man's friendships. I would quickly tell the inappropriate bastard to knock it off. I can handle myself, it doesn't need to get messy. He can't get hot with a cold look. You seem a little naive. Most women don't tell.

    • @andresavage9109
      @andresavage9109 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You ain’t to be trusted bye

    • @joemincer8882
      @joemincer8882 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@andresavage9109 Your ego is fragile. It's exhausting protecting it, trust that.

    • @andresavage9109
      @andresavage9109 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@joemincer8882 my ego is fragile because your untrustworthy ok that’s fine

    • @andresavage9109
      @andresavage9109 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This little game you tryna play now is why your not to be trusted

  • @sarahgivens7182
    @sarahgivens7182 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    That's why you have to not put yourself in those situations. Cheating starts with a conversation. That's why I'm not that friendly men. If a man speaks I say hello and keep it moving because I have my own man. I don't need another one. You make these friendships with men or women and then when you're not in a good space with your person, things can happen. I don't want to do anything to jeopardize a room what I have. Ruin your whole relationship for a half an hour. That's stupid

  • @webmedia3748
    @webmedia3748 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Us as men *feel* deeply, our hearts break too.
    How can we get to a point in this period at the top of 2024, get to a place where men and women become co-creators in shouldering the responsibility of building/sustaining a home rooted in fidelity (preserved by both members of the partnership).
    A ‘family-first, household protection’ mindset should be a priority more than ever in our day. Cheating obviously is a trust breaker, telling of the union’s worth to the party that must own an indiscretion.
    Not impossible to reconcile, however but the instance exists in the relationship’s timeline permanently, like scarring that has healed.

  • @lovebeefyoutube
    @lovebeefyoutube 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    all my girls cheated on me and I stayed because im a real man and can handle it ❤
    - said no man ever...
    a man might stay IF he doing the most dog type of sh*t himself behind the scenes but will still be mad lol

    • @krissiskloset1177
      @krissiskloset1177 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lmao correct

    • @getschwifty9531
      @getschwifty9531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@KingCarolina_ one fucking hundred, man.

  • @DonaldBrice-qm9xh
    @DonaldBrice-qm9xh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "My baby just woke up"
    6 minutes later: "She's drunk"

  • @derricka2803
    @derricka2803 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    The pain I had was I trusted a female, broke up with her because of my gut feeling. Felt bad that I didn’t handle the situation right, tried to fix things before it was too late. We started talking again but the truth came out she really was cheating. The thing that pain me most is I knew that I was right all along but I didn’t even trust myself to come terms with it. So in the process I was taken advantage of by being lied too. Say woke fellas

    • @JACQUEZ23
      @JACQUEZ23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can't be woke if already been known

  • @cardesignerchris
    @cardesignerchris 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If a woman would cheat on one of you two dudes, what hope is it for the rest of us. lol

  • @letashaluxuries5661
    @letashaluxuries5661 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Horizontal activities needs to be regularly had😂😂

  • @jenisereedus
    @jenisereedus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    So glad Ocho mentioned men could cheat, but don’t like when women cheat on them, FACTS!!! I told my husband (before we got married lol) that if he wanted to cheat, cool! Just know I will too😎 I can show you better than I can tell you, believe dat. We were together 20 years 🥰🥰🥰

    • @SnakeyD8468
      @SnakeyD8468 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      "Were"¿ lol

    • @MT-hk9cp
      @MT-hk9cp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SnakeyD8468 Her husband probably passed away because of the heart faces she added.

    • @EJByrd
      @EJByrd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@KingCarolina_ hell yea sounds about right bruh.

    • @jenisereedus
      @jenisereedus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wowwwwwww, so none of you read my response, ok, good night.

    • @tyronelorenzovalentio3414
      @tyronelorenzovalentio3414 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men could cheat
      Women cheat all the time

  • @PeepReelz74
    @PeepReelz74 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Okay, I've been tuning in to Shay since Steve Harvey interview, and these nightcaps are hilarious. Between the both of you, I be cracking up and gaining knowledge at the same time. I agree.. once the TRUST gone, itz a WRAP! you gotta Manage the Expectations UPFRONT.

  • @cocoadrops1120
    @cocoadrops1120 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Unc know how to send a lady outside properly 😂😂

    • @RRthee1
      @RRthee1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes! 😂

    • @stephaniewarfield4884
      @stephaniewarfield4884 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yep....without messing up hair and makeup 😂😊

  • @ms.miraclewalking982
    @ms.miraclewalking982 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Being cheated on after you have been faithful is a dagger to heart.

  • @tonjae1905
    @tonjae1905 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The trust is broken completely!

  • @BigWheels13
    @BigWheels13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    People that say they could forgive this know deep down they can’t. They just want to hold onto something that was once special to them.

    • @BlkOnyx0508
      @BlkOnyx0508 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This.

  • @tankell32
    @tankell32 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I got cheated on and he was shocked that I left! Lol. I left and never spoke to him again. He was coming to my mom’s house and all kinds of mess.

  • @MeMe-i2p8r
    @MeMe-i2p8r 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    When a person cheats it has nothing to do with u but them. It’s a choice- u choice to do what u want and what u are feeling. The lying to someone u claim to
    Love is what hurts people to the core. I think people can be forgiven- now if it’s a serial cheater that’s different. How can a woman forgive but a man can’t - fairness must be had

  • @rebornsugar
    @rebornsugar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Cheating for me was grounds for divorce; was so disrespectful. Forgave and wished him well. 💯🥰

    • @tamirajohnellestyle
      @tamirajohnellestyle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      “Wished him well” is right! Good bye! Thats crossin’ the line!

  • @YahChild001
    @YahChild001 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I Truly Love Your Platform… Because You Speak Facts and Honesty… May God Continue To Bless and Strengthen You… As well As OCJ… Positive Black Kings ❤️

    • @jenisereedus
      @jenisereedus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN❤️🖤💚

  • @ShawnRakar
    @ShawnRakar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is why I don’t just jump into relationships. I’m with my girl now and I’m loyal to her. If she breaks that trust, I’m moving on and staying single so I can sleep with who I want to without breaking commitment on my end.

    • @listeningviayoutube7229
      @listeningviayoutube7229 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      LoL

    • @simphiwemtengwane2416
      @simphiwemtengwane2416 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm on the same tip G, and there will be no looking back 😎

    • @ayogee-hg6wv
      @ayogee-hg6wv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro sound like he ready for the big reveal 😂 stay strong fam 💪

  • @davidlowe4889
    @davidlowe4889 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    A subject near and dear to my heart. Children make the decision so much more difficult because it isn't just about you anymore. Love and duration like Unc says also makes it so challenging to just walk away. Now let's throw in grandkids!!! Lasting effects for everyone.

  • @natashamatlock2502
    @natashamatlock2502 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ocho look like a kid in a candy store when he saw his baby wake up, then he can’t even keep his eyes to the camera he’s all over looking for his baby 🥰🥰🥰 love to see that 🥰

  • @mattoth6617
    @mattoth6617 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    My ex ignored me on a Friday night and went and hung out with some dudes and then posted a thirst trap two days later. Don’t think she cheated but she might as well have. Got dropped before she even woke up.

    • @ayogee-hg6wv
      @ayogee-hg6wv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wait what ? 😳 bro she cheated 💯

  • @Cyclonefn3
    @Cyclonefn3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Cheating has always been an automatic cancellation for me. If you forgive that and stay she will never look at you the same , and you’ll never look at her the same. Cut the lost, learn, and move on my guys

  • @lorenzodagamer2485
    @lorenzodagamer2485 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s the worst feeling ever, once it’s done it’s done. Just continue the ride.

  • @72RiviRyda
    @72RiviRyda 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've had to set a couple of my dudes that are habitual cheaters straight when they came to me about their concerns of their girls cheating on them. Like dude, you literally just told me about some chick you smashed last week and now you about to have a breakdown cause you think your girl is smashing someone else???

  • @DibbzTV
    @DibbzTV 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m FAR from perfect and single rn due to not being the best partner. But I’ve never cheated or been cheated on and never will allow it. Period.

    • @DibbzTV
      @DibbzTV 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KingCarolina_ Maybe, but I know my exes pretty well. They were stone cold with my heart at times, but they never cheated. Maybe one who moved on hella fast (but close friends still say no) but even then, I don’t hold it against her cuz the relationship was beyond dead/toxic. So I’m pretty sure

  • @darrenturner6235
    @darrenturner6235 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I've been cheated on, its not as painful as everybody makes it seem. I've delt with wayyyy worse pain in life

    • @fourstars5270
      @fourstars5270 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯💯, now that's real talk

  • @Jalexander14
    @Jalexander14 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My ex wife cheated on me
    Man I felt like a what I call a mini death… that mess hurt so bad and I recovered and found someone after I recovered but that junk hurts soooo bad

  • @mikem4481
    @mikem4481 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rell listening to this rubbing her hands like Birdman.

  • @murphy4391
    @murphy4391 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I just love these 2 they are so funny 😂😂😂

  • @youngbectonify
    @youngbectonify 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you to my two uncles I needed to hear this

  • @Teddy-vv9iz
    @Teddy-vv9iz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've been there, done ✔ it. I caught her in a another man's arms. 😮😮Busted😮😮😮. I knew my worth as a man, and therefore didn't freak out, or do something stupid. I saw 👀 what I needed to see 👀. I walked away, and never looked back. I would never take a woman back if she cheated.

  • @JItillidie
    @JItillidie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Can’t confuse a mistake with a bad decision

  • @Nyjeezy
    @Nyjeezy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Easy, yes. How can either partner ever trust each other again. I’m watching a relationship with my sister in law who her and her new boyfriend both cheated on their exes with each other. Now they keep getting into made up fights about how un-loyal each of them supposedly are. WILD

  • @deidreshepherd3776
    @deidreshepherd3776 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Managing expectations", you got me thinking about that Ocho.

  • @AggieBorn85
    @AggieBorn85 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Cheating is the ultimate “I don’t give a F about you”. I don’t give a damn how long we been together. You cheat, I’m out the door.

  • @Shemzinho
    @Shemzinho 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Nah fuck that. Once she disrespects you it’s over with

  • @MaggieJohnson-h3c
    @MaggieJohnson-h3c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like that Ocho "she did you to you!" 😂😂😂

  • @dagame0329
    @dagame0329 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'll be gone. 1yr,5yr or 10yrs it don't matter. A cheater is replaceable, my health is not.

  • @Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH
    @Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So glad that I got all my bachelor acts out of my system way before marriage. My main focus is my household and building it stronger by the day with my wife.

  • @christophervalentine9063
    @christophervalentine9063 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ocho sooooooo lyin hes 46 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @boycottactivision
    @boycottactivision 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What a coincidence Rell came in at that moment

    • @Iatehmem
      @Iatehmem 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Nah fr😂

  • @teddylamar3190
    @teddylamar3190 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love when unc be ‘ you see ‘ he finna drop some knowledge lol

  • @Sunshine-F1196
    @Sunshine-F1196 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If a man cheats he wants the woman to forgive him and continue the relationship, but let a woman cheat, the man is gone. No if’s ands or but’s about it!!

  • @joshblank1
    @joshblank1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love Ocho being on the show

  • @Yellowlavendar
    @Yellowlavendar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cheating I s not an error. It is an unwise DECISION

  • @Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH
    @Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cheating on your spouse is like burning your own house down.

  • @billyyank5807
    @billyyank5807 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ocho's laugh after showing off his woman 😂😂

  • @rasheedakins2277
    @rasheedakins2277 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Falling into some whooha is not a mistake.....if your married it is unforgivable ...but it really falls under how strong your beliefs are

  • @kentongonzales1315
    @kentongonzales1315 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ocho say "I'm with you when you right"

  • @michaelwrightsr781
    @michaelwrightsr781 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm with unk...i woke up get in here that's the schedule 😂

    • @MT-hk9cp
      @MT-hk9cp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts!!!! and I'm a woman..lol

  • @kingthelastpharaoh3796
    @kingthelastpharaoh3796 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤣😂🤣😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣 UNC a Dammmm fool I swear this man feels like family fr !!

  • @PushingOurPotential
    @PushingOurPotential 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My baby mom cheated on me with the weed man I sent her to pickup from for the both of us🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️ shit was over after that 😂😂

  • @dipset4016
    @dipset4016 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Quickly becoming my favourite channel on TH-cam