Bianca Gascoigne: “I Was Groomed by Mohamed Al Fayed” | This Morning

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  • @NN-bt3vg
    @NN-bt3vg 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +207

    I went for a job interview at Harrods 34 years ago. It was in the perfumery department for a particular perfume that had diamonds in the bottom of the bottle. Mohamad Al Fayad took me upstairs to a dimly lit lounge bar for the interview. He asked me what alcohol I wanted to drink. I was so confused. I didn't want a drink, but he tried to talk me into it. He asked a lot of personal questions...did I have a boyfriend etc. Not many questions about my work experience. He then took me down to the perfumery and showed me around and offered me the job. I was so suprised, it was such an odd situation and I felt uneasy. I asked for a day to think about it and he left. As I was leaving, a girl from one of the other perfume counters, discreetly called me over, and told me what a real creep the boss was and the girl that had left had a lot of trouble with him and ended up leaving. The whole time she was smiling and showing me a perfume bottle while talking. She was very nervous about being caught telling me that. Obviously I didn't take the job...thank goodness!

    • @Queen_-gg5jn
      @Queen_-gg5jn 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      How scary 😢 glad you are OK, it's still a shocker to find he's like that

    • @NN-bt3vg
      @NN-bt3vg 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@Queen_-gg5jn thanks! Yes a lucky escape.

    • @darkhorse9277
      @darkhorse9277 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Thank your lucky stars for that girl.

    • @AmberSantana-is3dq
      @AmberSantana-is3dq 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Bs story

    • @NN-bt3vg
      @NN-bt3vg 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@AmberSantana-is3dq it's true. What about it seems bs?

  • @energylady6903
    @energylady6903 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +267

    i am now mid fifties i can honestly say most of us have experienced this kind of thing. Thank god the younger generation will know its wrong and you can speak up.

    • @Zaynahco
      @Zaynahco 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      So true! I don’t know any women who haven’t been assaulted in one way or another really sad💔

    • @MarieLifeInWords
      @MarieLifeInWords 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@energylady6903 yes🥰 And I'm sorry you have been through this

    • @rosyapplekitchen635
      @rosyapplekitchen635 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It was hard to speak up for me because you can’t go against the entire company. All you can do is leave.

  • @jeanineainscough6698
    @jeanineainscough6698 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +78

    I'm glad people are coming forward and exposing these weirdos. So many of them.... so much harm done.... 😢

  • @MsShanarun
    @MsShanarun 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +105

    The hosts handled the interview very very well. Kudos to Bianca for telling her story/bad experience.

  • @KathKenn-r9k
    @KathKenn-r9k 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +167

    All these people jumping to the defense of a man they don’t know over 200+ women and then wondering why no one wants to come forward when he’s alive…

    • @dee2022uk
      @dee2022uk 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      They don't have a clue what they are talking about.

    • @nettadebeer9936
      @nettadebeer9936 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I was wondering the same thing..talk when they can defend themselves..not while they not here anymore..
      A voice for other woman…no..if you talked be..maybe then ..

    • @KathKenn-r9k
      @KathKenn-r9k 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@nettadebeer9936 his “defending himself” would have most likely been him silencing the women with money, threats and fear. Why act like you don’t know that?

    • @flower4598
      @flower4598 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@nettadebeer9936I guess you were one of the lucky ones, that was never touched inappropriately.... It's easier said than done, look up stories of the millions of victims/survivors, n you'll get your answer.

    • @nettadebeer9936
      @nettadebeer9936 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@flower4598 ..yes…I think I was….i know many women struggle about this in their workplace..but they should came forward..because these men should be punished why lie alive..not when the dead…woman must stand together how hard ..if you believe in something stand up..even if you stand alone..maybe easy to say ..but still..

  • @martasalvi8152
    @martasalvi8152 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    This kind of things goes on a lot my sister was abused with a fashion company in Oxford street called reserved .. they were so awful to my sister to the point that was just very terrifying to go to work . I agree something should be done about people in power that abuse they’re workers 100%

  • @lukegarrard9866
    @lukegarrard9866 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    Parents need to open there eyes, so many youngsters going through stuff like this with men with money and power.

    • @traderboi2662
      @traderboi2662 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm thinking this is about her getting some of that 💰. 😂

    • @Ace01234k
      @Ace01234k 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@traderboi2662not something to make a joke about

  • @MarieLifeInWords
    @MarieLifeInWords 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +144

    I wish I could tell my story, I am not famous, but I experienced this, a step Uncle.
    I'm sorry for anyone who has been through this.😢

    • @saraty4415
      @saraty4415 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      I hope your okay ❤

    • @Mel87y
      @Mel87y 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      You can tell the police tell a counsellor get support

    • @Hs000_00
      @Hs000_00 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      I am sending you the biggest hug, Marie. I absolutely wish I was a friend in person who can sit down and listen to you, but I am here over the internet and I am sending you lots of blessings. Have you ever thought of perhaps writing a book? Doesn't have to be a hundred pages, maybe even 30 pages, under a pseudonym, if you don't want your name revealed. It could be a book many people could read and relate to. No one should ever go through what you experienced, you must be a very strong person.

    • @MarieLifeInWords
      @MarieLifeInWords 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Hs000_00 thank you so much for your thoughts❣️

    • @MarieLifeInWords
      @MarieLifeInWords 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @saraty4415 thank you so much💛 It takes a lot to come forward, to even realise what has happened. When you are a child, teen you are vulnerable, you often don't realise until much later.
      I have now come to terms with it, but I do wish the person could be held accountable 😥

  • @grahamscott1547
    @grahamscott1547 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    As a person of a similar SA, I can totally relate! Even though I could’ve taken on my abuser “physically” I completely froze over and was rendered helpless and I even continued to be in his company “through choice” for over two years after the fact. I think because he was in a position of power, just like poor Ms Gasgoine here. She’s doing the right thing here by talking out, fact!❤

  • @elainewallace-e1o
    @elainewallace-e1o 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    Don't put the blame on Bianca...I feel for her and admire her for speaking up.

  • @Wjill2
    @Wjill2 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

    Being given the role as a buyer for a large department store at 16 yo should have been your parents (yes your parents) first and biggest clue that something was wrong! Took me years to become a buyer. When I hear stories like this, the parents need to take some responsibility! These weren’t parents living on a farm - they were experienced and they should’ve known better. Doesn’t make her less of a victim - it just shouldn’t have taken place to begin with.

    • @RachelClair-s6m
      @RachelClair-s6m 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Her Dad had cancer though 😢

    • @Wjill2
      @Wjill2 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @ although incredibly sad, he never should stop parenting unless he physically couldn’t communicate with his child. Also, where was the mother? She could support the father and still be a parent to a 16-year-old child.

    • @carlcorver
      @carlcorver 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      How did she become a fashion buyer at 16 ? The alarm bells should have been going off 😮

  • @Checkedend
    @Checkedend 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    I think also the situation with her dad, she probably didn' want to add any more drama to what was happening at home ; this is why she just brushed this under the carpet for so long. I feel for her. Such a nice young lady.

  • @monicat9952
    @monicat9952 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    And the poor old man can't defend himself because he has passed on. 🙏🙏

  • @Jesuswashere616
    @Jesuswashere616 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Groomed by his money. And after money again.

  • @NewIphone-q5y
    @NewIphone-q5y 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    I havent seen bianca on anything since she was in her teen/early 20s era but my gosh, what a beautiful, eloquent, strong and powerful human she has become. Shes incredibly level headed and spoke so well in this interview. Well done girl ❤

  • @gemma1874
    @gemma1874 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Hugs to Bianca . Very brave to speak out

  • @GAH316
    @GAH316 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    It has turned into a money grab. First and foremost by the lawyers.

    • @chrisgullett4332
      @chrisgullett4332 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Her story is BS. Ever tried to kiss somebody that is not interested? The kiss simply ain't happening. Avoiding a kiss is super easy. So if he did kiss her, she clearly wanted it. I have had to avoid kisses, and there was no way they could have gotten me to kiss them.

    • @beammeupscottyny
      @beammeupscottyny 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Weird comment

  • @AbigailBrown-wk7xl
    @AbigailBrown-wk7xl 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Bianca this is very powerful. I admire Bianca's strength and courage. Bianca is inspirational. Bianca will of empowered alot of women. Woman will not feel alone . I wish Bianca all the best ❤

  • @Michaeluk62
    @Michaeluk62 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    34 yrs ago. Why now have you made these accusations.

    • @seankelly6695
      @seankelly6695 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Because nobody would have believed her…

    • @xys7536
      @xys7536 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Needs money royal family still hates him😅😅😅

    • @TraceyBarracloughInspiration
      @TraceyBarracloughInspiration 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Because 34yrs ago she would’ve be 4yo

    • @darkhorse9277
      @darkhorse9277 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      What's "your" set time limit? Why not now? Why not 80 years from now? Please do educate us. When is the appropriate time and when is the deadline?

    • @ekno2506
      @ekno2506 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Because of people like you, who blane victims before considering the different environment of that of 34 yrs ago, the level of power of Al Fayed, the situation of women back then and the vulnerability and lack of life experiwnce of a 16yrs old girl.

  • @carolgimenez5169
    @carolgimenez5169 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Its not easy to tell anyone especially when your a child!!

  • @erinakagisha8288
    @erinakagisha8288 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is to destroy Princess Diana's un-fading memory

  • @frenchprovincial9602
    @frenchprovincial9602 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Why is this coming out when Mohammed Al Fayed is dead, why not bring this up when he was alive.

    • @suzannek3493
      @suzannek3493 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      you can't figure out the answer to your own question ? Try harder

    • @frenchprovincial9602
      @frenchprovincial9602 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@suzannek3493 Smart Alec.

    • @freddieqmercury5961
      @freddieqmercury5961 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@suzannek3493please explain, I’m genuinely asking and not being judgmental, but why after a celebrity passes, do so many people come out? I’m sure Bianca is telling the truth, but it always appears that they wait, please explain, thanks.

  • @AlexisAngelb6n
    @AlexisAngelb6n 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +67

    Bianca speaking out is admirable ❤

    • @Dare_2_Dance
      @Dare_2_Dance 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Lovely comment and thank you to Bianca for helping protect our future generations and having the courage to speak out. I've always liked Bianca and full of admiration for her ❤️

  • @ameliafatface7995
    @ameliafatface7995 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Bless her - what a terrible ordeal at 16!! Terrifying 😢

  • @nicksavage4763
    @nicksavage4763 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    CASTING COUCH
    DOESNT ALWAYS
    LOOK LIKE A COUCH‼️

  • @facemakerable
    @facemakerable 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    hes dead , only 1 side story

  • @TheGandzia73
    @TheGandzia73 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Well done for speaking out, very brave young lady 😊

    • @zanussidish5685
      @zanussidish5685 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Brave. No Idea what the situation was but she waited until he was dead.
      She's anything but brave.

  • @Ae4899-c2f
    @Ae4899-c2f 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Now that you're old you complained. When he's giving you money you're quiet.

  • @Sssseeess
    @Sssseeess 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    A lot of rich men are like this

    • @souadharbi4163
      @souadharbi4163 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      even poor are like this
      it s not related to money , but to human values

  • @ayysweetstea9339
    @ayysweetstea9339 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Sorry to hear this happened to her. 😮

  • @qendresaful
    @qendresaful 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Every girl has experienced this once if not multiple times it’s really sick I look back at moments I experienced this from where I am now at 32 and it makes me sad how vulnerable we are as teenagers

  • @sherimillman53
    @sherimillman53 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    ❤ well done fur speaking out

  • @mussymel
    @mussymel 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I admire all victims who come forward.

  • @VibhorSingha987
    @VibhorSingha987 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Be strong ladies. 🙏

  • @yeranishunor
    @yeranishunor 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I reported an individual that sexually assaulted me at his own birthday party. Apparently, some boys feel entitled to your body when it's their birthday and can't handle rejection so they hurt you in the worst way. I reported him to the hockey team he was going to play for. The guy told me he got bad vibes from him and thought he was a creep before I spoke up about him. Trust your gut! If you think a guy is creepy, he def is. Stay safe out there ladies! ❤

  • @margaretbrown8786
    @margaretbrown8786 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    She is so brave very well spoken and beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @wendytaylor8464
    @wendytaylor8464 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    The TRUTH Always Comes OUT 💯✝️💪

  • @MH-es8kp
    @MH-es8kp 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Good God this comment section is horrific full of people blaming the victims. Think comments should be turned off.

  • @z.alvarez1315
    @z.alvarez1315 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My heart goes out to Bianca. She is courageous to speak up.

  • @nannon4189
    @nannon4189 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    There's so much to tell This morning about Working at Harrods and my personal safety and my body with working there who do I tell?

  • @DrRosie101
    @DrRosie101 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Happens to many and repeatedly, with wolves all around even from the most unexpected places. Power corrupts completely…

  • @Christine-wz9fy
    @Christine-wz9fy 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Well done Bianca , that takes courage .

  • @marjeturner3889
    @marjeturner3889 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Agree bianca ,you put it in a box !!! Then one day the lid comes off 😢

  • @paul-sm3wh
    @paul-sm3wh 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Has she got a new book out soon

  • @amandahunter4034
    @amandahunter4034 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    There are a lot of people who should be answering for this - all the men who worked at Harrods, the police, politicians at the time etc. This isn't a case where women only spoke out after the perpetrator's death. Some of them spoke out all along and reported what he did to them to the police, but no-one acted on it and helped them because he was such a rich man. The idea of losing a job at a prestigious company shouldn't be a problem, but it is often seen to be. Wealth shouldn't automatically give someone power, but he was allowed the power to be above the law by the political and justice systems. This needs to end. I hope his survivors do get some justice.

  • @kathylyndsey316
    @kathylyndsey316 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I use to think like some of the people in these comments, but you can never underestimare the power of shame, fright and intimidation.
    One day I was watching a programme where a lady had been SA and I commented "Why doesn't she tell someone, if that happened to one of my relatives Id be able to tell" at that point my mother confided in me that she had been R'd by a neighbour years prior whilst we as children we're at school when he had visited the house to do some DIY for her. I was shocked and devestated to think we had lived doors away from this man for years and that she had endured that and had to go on as normal without help or support. I begged my mum to go to the police but he had told her that no one would believe her and she felt great shame. My mum died with that secret and I am in a catch 22 as the monster is still alive but we come from a small town and my brother knows a lot of people so word would get around quickly if I confronted him or he was arrested for it.
    My brother has a family and if he finds out will go to prison over it. I won't allow his life to be ruined over a POS.

    • @texasinkedgrandma5366
      @texasinkedgrandma5366 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      All the repercussions on the victim most likely makes the perp powerful

    • @beammeupscottyny
      @beammeupscottyny 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow! RIP to your mum! God bless her! Don’t worry, people like that man will be dealt with by God.

  • @starsigngirl9789
    @starsigngirl9789 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Her dad kissed me at rehab once when I was 20

    • @angelonearth111
      @angelonearth111 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So you were an adult?

    • @starsigngirl9789
      @starsigngirl9789 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @ so it seems yes lol 😂

    • @Darcsymphonie
      @Darcsymphonie 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂😂

  • @CLKAMG
    @CLKAMG 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    For decades no one talked. Now everyone talks. Tired of this. If someone does something bad to you, say no and go to the police. Don’t take advantage of it and the play victim when it’s fashionable and everyone steps ahead.

  • @lovelyshirl
    @lovelyshirl 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    She was a Buyer at Harrod's at only 16 years old??

    • @zednevada7362
      @zednevada7362 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Massive smell of BS. As if Mohammed a billionaire could not afford the best escorts girls in the world. What a joke this circus is.

  • @cyberla
    @cyberla 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Looking for a paycheck decades later 🤔🙄

  • @jamesclark9347
    @jamesclark9347 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Why did they wait until he passed? Their silence allowed DECADES of abuse to continue! It's a money grab more than a let's bring attention and get it handled- stopped at this point!

    • @theresahayes4294
      @theresahayes4294 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ask them!!!ask JUSTIN BIEBER????
      ASK ALL THE JUSTIN BIEBERS!!!!!!?
      🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

    • @janaf9993
      @janaf9993 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Anyone with half a brain could understand why they waited until he passed, he was a very wealthy powerful and influential man.

    • @Ace01234k
      @Ace01234k 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How clueless are you

    • @jamesclark9347
      @jamesclark9347 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Ace01234k Explain? I surmise you will say it's because of her safety concerns for herself. What about all the other subjected to this behavior that she could have stopped. John15:13!

  • @carolokbrblol
    @carolokbrblol 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Honestly we have to the message out there to support girl's/ women to report early.

  • @DrRosie101
    @DrRosie101 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Aside from shame and blame, women dont tell because of a power dynamic that could derail everything they’ve worked for

  • @7ChakrasTarot
    @7ChakrasTarot 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I've been sexually harassed I'm work when I was early 20s also happened to both of my parents. People should feel safe in a work place 😢

    • @zanussidish5685
      @zanussidish5685 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And what did you do about it?
      Am not being condescending but replying on TH-cam comments won't change anything.

    • @ElsaSardinha-w9s
      @ElsaSardinha-w9s 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You are definitely not empathetic! Only those that have walked in her shoes will understand

  • @Siaeli.Sunshine
    @Siaeli.Sunshine 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is sad 😢

  • @scarletred8888
    @scarletred8888 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s depressing to learn how much control that creepy man had over his staff, everyone knew he was a predator and yet couldn’t speak out, hopefully those days are well and truly gone.

  • @lovesmealways6825
    @lovesmealways6825 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    How do you become a fashion buyer in Harrods at 16?

    • @df7451
      @df7451 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

      nepotism

    • @yzolakitchi
      @yzolakitchi 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      What an utterly bizarre take away from this brave discussion about horrific abuse. Just not relevant, in any way.

    • @lovesmealways6825
      @lovesmealways6825 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@yzolakitchinot that bizarre and my takeaway would be why was this not questioned by her parents that at 16 she was given such a high position in one of the most famous stores with no experience - so I would say very much relevant!

    • @yzolakitchi
      @yzolakitchi 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@lovesmealways6825 It's not about nepotism as some have suggested, and it's not about parents not taking an interest. This is around 20 years ago. I'm in my late 40s and I know back in my twenties and younger, many of my friends had some serious responsibilities in jobs that by today's standards, they probably wouldn't or shouldn't have. Opening and closing stores alone, taking on buying responsibilities etc. But again, it's missing the point asking about jobs or parents. This all comes down to grooming and HIM as a predator. No parent should have to question whether their child is 'safe' in their job from SA from the boss or colleagues. Being promoted, advancing in a career, having increased responsibility are all celebrated when working. And this was a job she had always wanted, (fashion buying) why would those who loved her not be proud of her achievements. So again, the nepotism argument, should be looked at from a different angle - Al Fayed using her dad's fame and the allure of Harrods to work his way into her life from a young age. Setting the stage for her not feeling threatened around him, as she referenced. This is all about the SA abuser. Always. It's what they do, and they are very, very good at making it all seem really natural and non-threatening. There would be no reason at the time to think anything untoward was happening, no matter how junior or senior she was. So I hope that clarifies my thoughts on placing the focus elsewhere in this scenario. Not said with anger or disgust, just a concern that the ONLY issue is that he was a serial abuser and that the store knew and covered it up. A true horror that so many staff were abused by him.

    • @lovesmealways6825
      @lovesmealways6825 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ⁠@@yzolakitchiI’m not disagreeing that what he has done is horrific and this should be spoken about, however what I will say is as a parent I will ALWAYS question if my child is safe and that’s why I couldn’t comprehend that neither parent didn’t question the amount of responsibility given to a 16 year old! But I think bianca is extremely brave speaking out about this and I am sorry this happened to her many times we have heard predators target families who they think they can also groom when it comes to children so I just think parents need to always be aware of situations children are put in because at 16 she was a child

  • @gillianlaing1073
    @gillianlaing1073 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    How awful 😖

  • @MM-qp4pd
    @MM-qp4pd 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sad she had to shut down and not tell anyone. I can see all the victim blamers saying "why wait this long?!"

  • @rondanatan6198
    @rondanatan6198 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    It’s such a shame that all this came out now when Al Fayad is dead.

  • @zanussidish5685
    @zanussidish5685 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Maybe talk to victims whose abusers are alive
    Just another person who hasn't been interviewed by the media until their dead.

  • @yaslynsahota
    @yaslynsahota 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This is so horrific and upsetting. Poor woman

  • @ephebo2025
    @ephebo2025 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    so glad you told your dad,very brave

  • @1Kaileegirl
    @1Kaileegirl 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just watched the documentary it was a very heartbreaking difficult watch
    I hope all the women find healing somehow
    It's something that you never really get past
    You block it you shove it into a tight parcel but it will unwrap often when least expected
    Can someone explain why new owners of Harrods have to pay out n compensation isn't paid out from Alfyad's billions

    • @zednevada7362
      @zednevada7362 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      The new owners of Harrods do not have to pay out. Why are you inventing this sh*?

  • @teresagangi
    @teresagangi 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm so glad the me too movement is in full swing and working its way around the world. Now it can stop. These predators instill deep fear of repercussions. Now its their turn. Here comes Karma!!!😐😠😡💪👍

  • @lorihall4018
    @lorihall4018 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Horrific.

  • @mirembewinfred5353
    @mirembewinfred5353 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The same thing is happening in my country, but his fellow men in religion are saying its not true

  • @traceyg9554
    @traceyg9554 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was sexually harassed in the workplace by my then boss & proprietor on my first day at work, 33 years ago. It was horrendous. I was too scared to go back there & never went back. I told my dad through my tears. We got a solicitor through the law society, went to tribunal & I won my case. It was such a scary time. I was in all of the press about winning my case. I know why many women don’t do anything at the time, & I understand it. Reporting at the time, although hard, is always the better option, if possible 🙏

  • @l.g4820
    @l.g4820 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I suspected he was a predator when i saw him do a guest appearance on celeb big brother about 20 years ago. He blatantly groped tara reid out of nowhere.

  • @thewomaninblack5827
    @thewomaninblack5827 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    100 per cent believe her

    • @JessicaFletcher-nn5ss
      @JessicaFletcher-nn5ss 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Of course. Why would she make it up. I don't doubt her for a second .Poor girl.

    • @Crystal.0786
      @Crystal.0786 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      lol she’s an actress

    • @dagmarp3268
      @dagmarp3268 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@JessicaFletcher-nn5ss Money ?? She would do enything to get on TV.
      Why she didnt speak up in 2017 MeToo movement ?? Why now, when he is death ??

  • @goody1778
    @goody1778 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I think if she said to him mate don't be doing all this instead of leading him on because she probably thought she's going to get paid for it yh she definitely lead him on for him to keep flirting with her

  • @cestsibon2468
    @cestsibon2468 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So Proud of this Woman.

  • @rhondacruise8666
    @rhondacruise8666 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Its always a bit part model isnt it, its never a doctor or company director, considering he was a billionaire and mixing with these type of people.

  • @EilJones-u2i
    @EilJones-u2i 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    People don't always understand why young folks don't talk about such abuse. I used to work for a company where the owner would call a lot of the girls to his office to so called, " talk about their work and future with the company". I was smart enough to not to give in, but the fact that you were called to his office, gave the other staff members the impression you were having an affair with this person because others were actually doing it. It was never discussed, because people were afraid of losing their jobs, and this was a third world country that poverty was rampant, and jobs were scarce.

  • @KeithRobertson-h1h
    @KeithRobertson-h1h 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That's not courage , it's what you call common sense, she's a grown woman for goodness sake. . A woman who walks miles to get clean water and carrys it back walking for miles in the hot ☀ sun to provide for her family is courage. Reality check. ✌.

  • @MariaOC1_
    @MariaOC1_ 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If he were here, he'd lie

  • @nightrider6357
    @nightrider6357 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Cat not buying it either 😂

  • @melis2645
    @melis2645 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Of course you wait to tell the story once he passes😂 wanting that cash

  • @elChulachaki
    @elChulachaki 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Unfortunately, the guys been dead for decades..
    He can defend himself, he can not face consequences.
    Why now?

  • @altonotis1975
    @altonotis1975 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hope she's got a good lawyer

  • @DrRosie101
    @DrRosie101 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sometimes others know but they dont want mud on themselves by telling, and they also have a sacrificial lamb now

  • @lovemusik39
    @lovemusik39 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    20 yrs....

  • @999shaznay
    @999shaznay 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Cat in particular asking questions but putting words in her mouth.

  • @wendytaylor8464
    @wendytaylor8464 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    The dad knew this was going on

    • @JessicaFletcher-nn5ss
      @JessicaFletcher-nn5ss 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hardly

    • @MyUTube2024
      @MyUTube2024 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Will have sold her to get higher ranked in the lodge

    • @AlexisAngelb6n
      @AlexisAngelb6n 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Her dad was a terrible alcoholic he probably didn't know much about nothing most of the time

    • @catherinejones6250
      @catherinejones6250 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Are you all sick in the head of course he didn't know what was happening, your as sick as alfired

  • @JusticeMoster
    @JusticeMoster 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I believe you

  • @ラグビタル
    @ラグビタル 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He is dead and can not defend himself. Why now?

  • @rdmountford3132
    @rdmountford3132 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    They are all jumping on gbe Harrods gravy train for free money

  • @casadelsolboutiquebedbreakfast
    @casadelsolboutiquebedbreakfast 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Blame the Parents ! Always leads back to the parents !

  • @kellygosa7438
    @kellygosa7438 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Never ever stay at a place that someone creepy has access to especially if they have already abused. Even if you don’t have money. Put the hotel room on a credit card.

  • @natalia-grace
    @natalia-grace 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bianca is *fire !!*

  • @annarosetarot
    @annarosetarot วันที่ผ่านมา

    How do you become a fashion buyer in Harrods at 16 🤷‍♀️

  • @carolewheatley1823
    @carolewheatley1823 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Bianca you are a very strong beautiful young woman, it was sad you couldn't speak up at the time . I am also so glad that you mum went to a meeting when he was going to buy you a flat to live. I would of done the same as your mum i would also gone & spoke to him when you became a fashion buyer at 16 to make sure there was no red flags there. I love the fact you are so caring about your young daughter & other young girls growing up around rich men with power. Stay strong & beautiful

  • @eatingoreo5160
    @eatingoreo5160 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    2024 is exposing how so many powerful men use their power to force their will on others. I hope that this will be a warning to them in the future that there are consequences to your actions. Just because they have money doesn’t mean that they are above the law. I hope that more victims also feel more empowered to expose more of these people!

  • @Sheryl.B.
    @Sheryl.B. 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Funnily enough when I was 16 and if my boss forced himself onto me, I would definitely raise this up and left the job ... also I feel that women did alot of wrong things just to progress in life. I would have left the job ...

  • @karlwillo7677
    @karlwillo7677 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What is the point of speaking on the dead like this? If only for Money . . . . wrong-un

  • @paulfiddes551
    @paulfiddes551 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    of course your were! bet u have a solicitor on speed dial.

  • @mcvicarross7
    @mcvicarross7 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Unless there is video evidence I can't for the life of me fathom how anyone can prosecute a man that's dead when all you have is the say so from a female on something that may have happened over 30yrs ago!!
    I'm not saying the guy wasn't a creep but how can people get financial compensation with no evidence & the other party not here to defend themselves??

  • @Christy-r8v
    @Christy-r8v 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Cat Deeley looks ill-incredibly thin. She also appears to have zero energy and looks fed up most of the time.

    • @MargaretWood-z6l
      @MargaretWood-z6l 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Agree

    • @johnnyherbert7840
      @johnnyherbert7840 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ben Shephard shud be the one looking fed up,he's a West Ham fan ffs 😂

  • @sjboxoffice
    @sjboxoffice 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    if you ever wonder how to pronounce this Gascoigne- is- Gas Going

  • @rifsad1238
    @rifsad1238 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I don’t understand why you would come out now when he is dead and he can’t defend himself. I’m not saying you have made this up but I really feel the accused should be able to defend themselve.

    • @7ChakrasTarot
      @7ChakrasTarot 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Then you need to think longer before you speak

    • @7ChakrasTarot
      @7ChakrasTarot 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh should they! Oh how lovely of you to advocate for the abusers. Yes we must play fair like they did with the 16 year old school girl.