Why we Suffer and what we learn from Dark days 🌓 Oil Painting, Shipping Prints ⭐️ cozy art vlog
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Thank you so much for all the heartfelt comments… I missed you! And thanks to everyone who has already purchased a print. I‘m so happy to be back 🥹💖 If you are going through hard times in life, know that it's a phase and you will grow from it 🙏🏼🌱
❤why do you lehgthen. us. but videos😢😊
Valerie may I please know how old you are? You look like a baby yet with so much wisdom. Love everything you are doing who you are and your works you keep going sweetie.
I’m closing 40 and there are days I have darkness esp after losing my dad 3 yrs ago, but I’m learning to deal with them. To sit with them.
Recently reading mastery by Robert green has helped too. There is this zen/Taoist saying something like - I can only control the boat even when the ocean in rough. The boat is our mind the ocean is life. You are on the right path you will grow stronger in mind and heart.
Sorry for long msg. I am currently broke and between two paths of life but the vision I have will lead me I believe.
Fight and strive for who??
Yourself and for those who are in need for your aura.
Don't wait for somebody else 😌😌
Have you ever took a personalitie test? I raise you to try the myers briggs type indicator. My guess would be that you are an INFJ wich is a rare type. They often struggle with the darkness but are very self aware. It helped me to understand myselfe a lot better. Your paintings are just beautiful❤
I'm glad you came back, I would love to meet someone like you because now I seem to find the answers to most of the things I'm trying to find in you.🧚♀️
Hey Valerie, I usually don't comment on videos and I haven't watched this one yet, but I just wanted to share with you how much your videos mean to all of us and how happy we all are to see you back. I hope you are well and I think it would be important to mention that there is no pressure on you to publish videos constantly, as the most important thing is your health and happiness. Your vlogs and discussions are always so thoughtful and calming, it is a real pleasure to watch! Take car of yourself and thank you💐
I could not express this better myself, I fully agree. Thank you for your very meaningful and helpful vlogs. I so admire your creativity, and insight.
100% agree! I get so excited when she uploads but if not, I always have her previous videos to keep me company while I paint and make my own art content 🥰
Wonderful video
today is my birthday and this is the greatest birthday gift. we missed you a lot valerie
Happy birthday!! 🥳🎂🍰
Happy birthday🎂🌟
May your every new chapter be better than your last. 🍀
@@adrianacamargo23 @vidhidraws thank you, kind strangers! i hope you both have a great day!
Happy Birthday 🎉🎂🥳
Happy birthday to you 🎊
"It's okey to have no emotional support" ....
Thank you for coming back. It is truly a comfort to listen to you as an artist and to understand that we are not alone in existing as artists and that there are others who share our inner struggles and feelings. Thank you.
Welcome back, dear sweet sister. And thank you so much for all that you do for us. I can’t wait to delve deep into this video after four months of not seeing you. Happy to see you’re alive and well. ♡
Welcome back 🎉 by the way , and while you are talking about suffering, last year I left my home in Ukraine because of the war, I left my job, friends, everything and went to France to start everything from scratch, I am learning a new language to be able to work as engineer, trying to adapt with new society, and totally new life , just one day before leaving Kyiv , I was watching your videos to feel better , and to tell myself that everything will be ok , and now after one year of being in France, and still suffering with french 😅 and many things here, I watch your videos to get hope and courage to continue, I like art and I am painting from time to time and I wish to create art just like you one day,,, take care dear ❤ and keep creating
"Because I did not suffered enough to know what darkness is.. to create light." Wow!!!😲 I really needed to hear these words.
You encourage with your words, and share messages that we need to hear..
It reminds me of 15 year old me reading "The Alchemist" and suddenly getting struck by the words. Thinking how did the author knew this is how I felt...
I remember being awestruck by it for 2 mins straight.
I love your videos so much! I remember when I started watching them in the morning before going to work as an art teacher. I deal with so much anxiety about work, people pleasing, others making me their scapegoat in some ways. I've had comments come my way that lack humanity. Your videos helped me stay calm and gave me more confidence for the day. I think you are a light in this world and very authentic, which can trigger people. I have experienced people trying to dim my light so they feel better. This year I decided there's no people pleasing and my goal is to shine my light so brightly and not care one bit about the reactions of others.
Awesome! It is my goal too. Shine on!
Clicked on this because, it's one of those dark days, and seeing the title I thought "well, this is too much of a coincidence." And I'm glad I clicked because you gave me food for thought.
I agree totally about the effect of trying to change who you are to stop people misunderstanding you. I did it for years until I woke up to the fact that I had become a chronic people pleaser, and hated myself for it.
Actually I think this strategy is a poor one. If you're changing your behaviour so people stop misunderstanding you, are you YOU anymore? Or are you something that you think others want you to be? It's the ultimate self denial, which doesn't seem healthy.
Omg! She’s back!! 💕 hi Valerie just wanted to tell you that you’ve been inspiring me so much to experience with my art and gain confidence to share my art content and videos as well! 🥰 thank you for being you! 🎨💕
Just finished the video in between breaks from my work - this is exactly what I needed! I’ve been so sad thinking how work has been dimming my spark for art and every time the weekend comes I try so hard to regain my artistic self back to paint. But I understand how suffering/darkness is also important as part of life ‘cause without it I wouldn’t wake up on Saturday excited to create and take some time for me and me only ❤
Hello! i just wanted to say I love your channel and the artwork you create its so inspiring :)
Another thoughtful and encouraging video! Thank you, Valerie! I can relate to the growth pains you you’ve been experiencing. I’m a psychologist and a writer. I made the tough decision to take a one-year sabbatical from my practice in order to simply write my books and to focus on the creativity that I’ve always craved to express. But my books could not have been written earlier in my career, because I hadn’t seen and vicariously experienced enough emotional pain. Interestingly, this sabbtical has brought much existential angst, almost like growth pains. But, when things become particularly difficult, I imagine myself to be a statue that is being chiseled into something better, like an artist is working on me to improve their finished piece. I tell myself to just keep going and allow the chiseling to happen. I know it’s making me into a better person. Let it happen, Valerie. It’s painful, and sometimes seems to take so long, but it’s so worth it! Best wishes on your journey. In my line of work, I would see your pain and your willingness to face it as a sign of true mental health. We all need healing, but it’s only the courageous who truly pursue it.
This video really resonated with me - until last year, I didn’t know I could paint or draw whatsoever. I then went through a breakup (8 years long, childhood sweetheart, we had a house and a dog together) and it’s been so hard and painful - but it was from this pain and suffering I wanted to create something and that’s when my friend suggested an art class in her village. The art classes have saved me in many ways, but has definitely taught me how to be self aware and how to be connected to my emotions, to accept them and how to let go 💕 forever grateful to be a creator 🥰And forever grateful to you for sharing your art and your story - it’s helped me through one of the darkest times in my life so thank you ❤❤
Dear Valerie, your video hasn't even finished but I couldn't wait to leave you a comment. It's hard to imagine that you feel ashamed with how much of your life you share, you come across so confident and sure of yourself! I couldn't relate more, and then when you shared Skyrim I almost yelled out I was so pleasantly surprised! I play that very same playlist and have spent countless hours watching the lights dance across the sky while in game! Your videos have soothed and comforted me in some of my darkest moments. I love that you watch them and find the same sense of fulfillment and healing that we do. Keep following that pull, you are so on path right now, we all can see it and feel it. Sending you so much love, strength and gratitude. Thank you for you and for sharing yourself with the world, we don't deserve you!
Couldnt have said it better myself
Yes we do! We totally deserve her! She was sent to us ❤
I am suffering at this moment and this video came at the right time and gave me a sparkle of hope, thank you Valerie, keep shining your light. 💜
So True !!!
I’m with you things haven’t been going my way too and this just puts me in right headspace
@@KennyFortaleza there is always a reason may it leads you to something!! I know the feeling, so good to here I am not alone ☺️
It's so wonderful to have you back. You have been dearly missed. How do you have so much wisdom at this tender age? Your shoulders carry such a heavy burden. We love you. We are here for you, cheering you on, holding your hand as you walk through the darkness. And yes, we appreciate light because of the beautiful contrasts with darkness. There is a depth and beauty to the dark (night of the soul), never easy, but one that each osfus must walk through. Chin up lovely lady. Know that you are an inspiration. ♥♥
I think creativity is the light born from darkness and chaos and is the path that leads to love of creation. I love your content!
You're the reason why I want to believe in my art skills ❤❤❤ Thank youu for being my biggest inspiration 🤍
the inspiration goes beyond the art for me - touching my heart and soul as well thank you Valerie!
@@markusstorzer4545 spot on there Mark!...similar feeling...but could never have put the words together so well ...like you did...to describe it....thank you....Janis
This video couldn´t have come at a better time. Five years ago I lost my dear father to pancreas cancer, and now my mom is terminally ill from cancer too and she doesn´t have much time left. She and I have always been very close, talking every day, and she was an artist too so we spent so much time talking about art and she would always be so proud to see my work. Now she will be gone soon, leaving an immense void that I have no idea how to fill, and I don´t know how I will ever be able to create something again without her encouragement and enthusiasm. How does one ever go forward from something like this 💔
I also lost my father 5 years ago to stomach cancer. Now I take care of my disabled mother. I can understand exactly what you feel.. I also paint and my Art is what has helped me get through difficult emotions. You should keep making art and do all the things that make you happy. I sometimes like to paint things that I know my dad would have liked so I can always feel like he is around and part of what I am creating and it brings me a lot of comfort. I hope things get better for you ❤❤❤❤
If I may, try not to project toward the future. There is plenty of time for the answers. And plenty of time to work on things. Things will evolve, in their time.
The best thing that you can do is be with your special Mom and treasure this special time, as painful as it is. Showing your devotion to your Mom is a gift to her and to yourself.
I will be praying for you to treat yourself with understanding and compassion. Do not deny that this chapter is hard, very hard.
We too often tend to others, but neglect ourselves. You are important, too.
To paraphrase Winnie the Pooh, “You are braver than you think, and stronger than you know. And you are loved.”
Your creativity will emerge when the time is right. It’s a part of you.
Thoughts and memories that are painful now, but they will be special to you later.
Take care. Sending you a bear hug. You are not alone.
Do not place pressure on your days. Take them an an hour at a time, a minute at a time. Emotions take a lot of energy.
We are strangers, but I feel deep compassion for you. Again, I will be praying for you. Mostly, I will be asking God to help you feel His loving presence. He is always with you.
@@gabrielle-alexis Thank you so much for your comment, it's very beautiful and true what you say that by continuing to make the things we really love, we keep our loved ones close and their memory alive ❤️ Right now it's so painful, but I hope to continue her legacy and that she will watch from heaven one day and be proud of me 🙏🏻 Lots and love and support for you and your mother ❤️🙏🏻❤️
@@lindahenderson1625 Thank you for your kind words and compassion 🙏🏻❤️ I really like what you said about the thoughts and memories that are so painful right now, will in time become treasured memories. It's so difficult to even imagine not hearing my mom's voice anymore, her laugh or her words of wisdom, but I hope she will be reunited with my father in heaven, and that she will have peace and happiness 🙏🏻❤️ I hope she will watch over me from there ❤️😥
@@mariac4602 Thank you for your prayers and kindness ❤❤This is really good advice 🙏
Wow, I had wondered why I wasn't finding your videos. I'm happy that you have returned. I will turn 75 in about 8 days and always enjoy watching you paint and sharing wisdom from personal experience with us as well. It's so refreshing. Thank you for all that you have to offer.😊❤
These words could not have come at a better time. Your perspective and use of metaphor, such as avoiding the fox by choosing not to be a rabbit with a gun, really struck a chord with me.
Also at the early stages, this painting looked like an abstract of people dancing in joy and I think that is an interesting little takeaway from what my brain was thinking while you shared what dark days can lead to.
I am crying my eyes and my heart out right now. This is such a peaceful and hopeful video. Thank you Valerie! 😭💖
She’s an Angel! healing my inner child’s wounds one video at a time :,))
@@moonsfavoriteson I agree!
Valerie, it's wonderful to have you back. Your absence was felt, and I've truly missed your presence. Thank you for returning. Your willingness to open up and share your thoughts and experiences means so much not only to me but also to others who find solace in your words. It's comforting to know that even though we may have beautiful lives, unexpected tears can still find their way, reminding us of our shared humanity. I want you to know that your words of wisdom have been a guiding light for me, especially during my own challenging moments. This vlog, in particular, resonates deeply with me, as it reflects a part of my own journey as well.
Thank you once again for being here and for the impact you have on so many lives, mine included.
Hi Valerie, I'm usually a silent subscriber but I found your videos in a very dark season in my life previously. Now I'm experiencing another one of those seasons again but you posted at just the right time. Your words have brought me so much comfort over the past year or so. Thank you for what you do and hope you are well!
You had me tearing up, girl. I'm very proud of you. And your art is beautiful.
I've never waited this long for a video in my life. I can't describe my happiness right now!! Just at the second you said that you sometimes watch your own videos, I was thinking that I had to write in the comments that I watched your videos over and over again. Thank you for being so inspiring.
Hi, I just had some struggles that I felt nobody could understand what I was going through and felt in deep sorrow and loneliness. Then... I saw your this video clip. I could relate to your words. It's only you been through those darkness then you know the light. Your artwork and your talk about your experience made me feel understood. Thank you for doing what you're doing and share with this world.
I went through a very traumatic time in my life that included a physical disease and abuse from family. I won't lie, death and I almost shook hands a few times there. But, I made it through. And so much of what you are saying is what I learned through the process. Because it ended up being the best thing that happened to me. I have been able to grow so much, really learn to properly take care of myself, and just focus on that peace. It's a specific kind of peace. It feels grounded, kind and real. Your words and videos hold that same kind of peace. It's very refreshing as I don't really see anyone else talk about it. I think we tend to focus on the negative in our lives, complaining and finding excuses to have "juicy gossip," because we are afraid of how "boring" peace is. But, peace isn't boring and it's not something to be afraid of. It's so comforting and it's something to cherish. It makes me so happy that I cry.
Valerie, you are such a genuine person and I am so glad to have found your videos. Thank you so much for being yourself. I think you are helping others more than you know.
"Who will I become if I commit to my inner voice instead of other people?" Wow. So powerful.
Hi Valerie, first of all, welcome back! I am so happy to see you. I watched and rewatched your videos past three months hoping how you have been doing. I am an ardent fan of yours. Each and every word you said in this video are true and totally relatable.
I just want to say that you are not alone. I am also a person who does every single thing all by herself without a tad bit of emotional support from anyone. I am also not connected with my family and I am a solo traveler. I love doing things all by myself as I don't prefer nonsense company. As a result, I also feel lost and stressed at times but I love to hike and absorb the beauty of nature. Thats what keeps me going.
I see you take brisk walk around the city to ease your mind which is very helpful and I also do the same. But I highly recommend you to do hiking amidst nature as that will give you strength to deal with your emotions. It's just a friendly advice as I care about you and love you.
Just like you, comfort foods and music are also my easing zone. You said very rightly that life is all about how you navigate through suffering. Pain and suffering never ends. This is so very true.
You and I are same. We think alike and do alike. Like a soul sister.
All I want to say that I'm proud of you the way you came out of your darkness and still dealing with it. I know its not easy but you are only becoming stronger and wiser as I can see. Trust me there are a lot of us going through similar situation like yours. Never feel alone. You have us. We are your emotional support.
Keep going and keep uploading your beautiful videos.
Love from India 😍
I'm so happy to see your new video! I think the incredible sense of calm and comfort that all of us feel from your videos comes not just from the gorgeous style, flow, and music, but also from how much we feel related to, and not alone when we watch. I know that I am left with a peaceful and cathartic feeling as I might have after a really good therapy session. I can only hope on some level we can clearly communicate what you mean to us and provide a small amount of that feeling back to you somehow. ❤
I am thinking to put your each and every video from start till today in a movie , put it on TV , close the door of room and watch you . I just want to watch you and listen to you. You are an inspiration for me. In these days I am badly going through delusional thinkings,which are really a very very bad era of my life these past few months . So when I saw your this video covering the delusional thinkings topic I was like " oh My God Is God helping me through your videos????? YES he is.
Please Keep your light coming its making many dark homes bright once again with hope. Don't be too late in uploading your videos. Its a request.
Thank you so much for your time ❤️
Valerie! I have found your channel since you uploaded those art school vlogs .There is always something so calming and soothing in them. I always feel like whenever I get through some Transitioning or sad period there is always your video waiting for me. I really hope you are doing okay. And this community of people and some amazing intellectuals you've created is always here looking forward to your achievements and good happy days. There s indeed no light without darkness, this year when I passed high school I didn't scored as high as I expected and others did so much better than me, I lost sleep hunger, and happiness over it. A few months later now, I'm happily thriving, and in one of the best unis in my country. The universe, god whatever you wish to call it always has some plans up their sleeves. You will find the light again. sometimes tho, it's okay to let go and not be the bearer of the balance of all the protection, I find it tumultuously hard to maintain and choose what's right and wrong when I see through everyone's perspective. Thank you for always enriching my days .
Drink water, please take care of yourself, X.
Hi, Valerie! I m so grateful that I can watch your videos because their inspiring, peaceful, dreamy and comforting. I never comment on videos, but now I feel like I have to. This video in particular almost broke me. I m in a stage in my life where i can t do anything because i feel like something bad is about to happen so I m scared of creating and doing the things I love. Also I have to make a big decision, and I m afraid that What I want it s not What I need, I need a stable income, but I want an art career. I’m very confused. I need to start connecting with my emotions and you really help me in this journey. Seeing you happy makes me happy. I hope you never stop posting, you’re one of a kind creators and i want you to know how much i love you and your content.❤
I wish you health, hapiness, love and all the best❤❤❤❤❤
I'm literally crying. I've been going through a dark period lately too - and today I was sitting writing a journal to clear my mind about my art and myself when I saw your video. I have a birthday in 20 days and I'm 25. I had no education when I started art - still not, I'm trying to learn it myself. And I think, "Am I where my 15-year-old dreams of me?"
Answer is no. Because I'm in a place I can't even imagine. I never thought that I would become an artist and continue on this path. I would say, "Oh, what a beautiful painting, what a beautiful artist!" but I never thought of the possibility that I could be one of them.
Now sometimes I think about giving up and quitting - I'm not happy with myself, my art doesn't seem to mean anything, etc. but I didn't give up. I'm so lonely on this road :) I don't have anyone around to talk to or talk to about these issues - I just write in my diary and read to myself. so I felt like we were really talking to each other and understanding each other while talking in your video and looking at the camera. It put me at peace, Valerie, as you said, peace and hope.
As an artist, I really feel the light and the dark. But knowing that Im not alone and deciding to move on was truly a turning point in my life. I say to my family, "I've really had a turn in my quarter-century life, the next one won't take that long." Love, peaceful and beautiful days Valerie. I'm so glad you're back and well.💜
Hi Valerie! My name is Olya and I live in Ukraine. I really like your videos! When I saw on instagram that you are back on TH-cam, I have been waiting for this weekend for a long time to watch your videos with delicious coffee! You are really calming and inspire me so much! Thank you so much for all that you do! Every time I am convinced that the magic is real! I will be looking forward to your new paintings and cozy movies very much! I wish you successful sales, love and more emotional support!♥♥♥
Hi Valerie, I missed you so much! I was so happy when I received your post. I also ordered a print and I am so excited and I can not wait to receive it. I am so proud of you and all the hard work you put into your work and in your life. You bring me comfort and peace. You help me to understand many things with your wisdom and understanding. Your perspective on life helps me to look into mine. I once was an artist but I gave it up because of the chaos that came into my life, as a survivor of childhood abuse. But you are an amazing artist. Never be ashamed of sharing your life. You touch so many and help so many. You are a breath of fresh air. God bless you! Stay safe and stay strong!!
I honestly love that you're so honest and open about your dark days/months. It makes me feel less alone and helps me feel motivated to strive for what I truly want. You've changed my life in more ways than you can imagine. I wish you nothing but the best!!!!
what a amazing video and message. I can diffently relate to everything.
Being autistic and having ADD, whole my life have felt like looking out at the world. Being puched all the way back in the line all the time. Being ignored and misunderstood all my life. isolation and alienation has always been a part of everyday. This year I really startet to work with the cracks and dents, and not trying to jump over them, or backing out, or covering it all up. It really has helped me seeing how lucky I am in many situations. To have a sense of awareness is a gift. To be vunerable can be a strong powerfull gift also. And both has let me grown more and more. I was so sick of feeling and seeing every single corner of my life being a failure, and just a waste of life; it really was the stones around my feets. Being too concious about being diffenrent, and always feeling incridible fragile. Now I am just working on being just me, using and taking advantage of the dark eras of my life, to create a very beautiful path :-)
Thank you for your always amazing and soothing videos. You really have a talent for both being incridible motivating, and to create. It is so uplifting and heartwarming to see and listen to. Much love
Awesome! Your words moved me to tears. You are amazing. Thank you for sharing your feelings of failure...it really really helps me. Thank you. Big Hugs
You are the ETERNAL person I have ever seen in my life valerie 🌼 I wish I could show you how teary my eyes have become by watching you, hearing your voice and witnessing your art 🎨. I belive the happy tears in the eyes are when the soul truly feel joy. And by joy I mean finnally seeing you. Much love from INDIA♡
dear valerie,
this is my first time commenting on one of your videos, but i have been watching you a lot recently and you are helping me push through so much right now. when you said "it is happening for you, not against you; you will never get more than you are able to carry," i felt like i could finally take a deep sigh of relief. just hearing your voice and watching your process is so soothing, and i am so grateful to have your channel here for me. thank you
Hi Valerie✨I want to let you know, that I‘m seriously grateful that I came across your channel. I‘ve been making art my whole life and I‘m just now beginning to take it more serious. Your Videos have inspired me on such a deep level, that content on social media usually does not. They were a big part in getting me out of a bad Art-Block. You’re able to send your positive Energy through the screen and thats something special, that most people haven‘t yet learned to do.
Sending you Peace & Love
Valerie! I am SO HAPPY that you are back! You really inspire me and give me the "want to" to get back into my studio and work, to stop being lazy and feeling like my art doesn't really matter anymore. I must do it for myself 1st. Thank you for your beautiful videos. I'm on the edge of my seat for your next one!
Literally what you said about how your videos make you feel is exactly I feel watching them. I paint and watch your videos and it gives me peace of mind and motivates me to continue
And when I thought I couldn't like you and enjoy your videos more than I already do, you say a bit more about your music taste. And the way you describe it and how it affects you.... and all I can say, to me you are work of art yourself. And your videos, words, and art have healing power. Thank you for sharing your time, life, thoughts, insights and energy with us.
Hi Valerie, I'm so glad that you are back! Watching your videos helped me so much when I was going through my gcses, and now I'm watching them as I prepare for art college! I'm really glad I found your channel as you've helped me and inspired me so much, and you've helped me progress so far in my art journey. You really are the person i look up to the most, so please continue to be the amazing person you are :)
I moved out into a place of my own a few months ago and felt really inspired by your cozy interior back then. Never got that far in the end with that. This is a good reminder to go find some artsy shops, I neeeed more silly and dreamy things in my art corner. Welcome back!!
Valerie, you have no idea how much your content and your art mean to me. 😊 I usually don't speak much because the frustration of not being understood is insufferable to me. So I've taught myself that my silence is my strength - I still believe this in a sense, but your videos keep giving me courage and your art keeps giving me hope. Thank you Valerie, for having the courage to be yourself. I finally feel understood. Thank you. A million times again. Thank you. ❤
Hi Valerie, I was feeling really bad about my art and having ideas but feeling like i lack the skills to make my ideas come to life. I don't have any artist friends or anyone in my life who understands that frustration that art can bring to you, yet it being something I love so much at the same time. Just watching your videos and hearing you share your experiences and thoughts really reminds me that I'm not alone in these feelings even though it feels like it sometimes. So thank you for your videos they make me so happy that I teared up by the end of this one 💖
A beautiful human and soul - so touching, I connect so much many aspects of this video. Happy to watch and feel you again
You have helped me today - AND you art is breathtaking!
Yeah🎉 her new video! She is right. Her videos are so peaceful and healing. I keep coming back to many of her videos to pull myself together.
Of course, you are talking to someone...That moment of silence made me cry wanting to hug you. At that very moment, I was thinking of how well you can describe and talk about your feelings, some times I wanted to shout out loud crying suffocated, maybe searching for my immense need for belonging. You are precious Valerie, Keep going you are bringing beauty into this world. By the way, I totally understand that you manifest things in your way, You say it at the beginning of your video, you are alone and you look to be content looking inside of you that is a lot of selfconnection and awareness... And I cried again now reading your words😭, I'm never gone, creation is for eternity. Thank you for reminding me too. much love all the way from the Netherlands
This video was so heartwarming and I don’t know in a way, I feel like it has healed me
Just wanted to hug you all the video, you’re such an incredible inspiration, take your time, we will always waiting for you 🫶🏾🩷
Oh my word, you hit my heart every single time you post Valerie! I just adore you and thank you for posting. I am so so happy that your art is selling, and I have no doubt that you'll be very successful at anything you set your mind to!
I usually don't comment videos, but I really wanted to say: I'm so proud of you! I've been following you for a year and your attitude and aura are so inspiring. There's such a pure and true spirit of connection that you bring into your videos. It's true, it's really hard if you're on your own and don't get any support - I can relate to everything you said. So thank you for sharing both your hardships and success. That motivates me to keep pursuing my own project (even though not everybody seems happy with my decision), to keep riding the wave on good days, and to overcome the dark days more quickly. You are a beautiful and brave unicorn and I'm rooting for you. Keep shining your light, you are made for this 🎇🐎🏵️
I stumbled across your video and I can relate to you. I started drawing and progressing to painting because it was challenging to express hurts. My art is my expression of how I feel and it’s great to see you creat your frames, enjoying the rawness and vulnerability you share. Bless you child.
The flow is when my hands are busy, the chitter chatter in my mind is silenced. That’s the power of creating anything.
I am so happy to see you online again- I hope you have been doing well and that your time away was healing and nurturing :)
You made me tear up ✋🏽🥹 Thank you for sharing your story and personal philosophy and being so vulnerable with us, so that we can differentiate the true meaning of light and darkness in our own lives through your eyes and mind 🫶🏽💖✨ You are truly bringing peace into the world and into our lives, thank you
thank you so much valerin for telling me strength and darkness you've gone through. im also kind of a loner riding roller coaster through extreme up and down and are facing darkness all by myself right now. so your mind journey comfort me so much🫂 but i believe that we've made through so many darkness periods and they didnt beat us down. we could make through this time also with deeper and deeper understanding for universe.🌃
I wish I could find more people like you in this lifetime.. I’m a loner too and share a lot of those feeling and outlook , also paint, taking classes at the moment and seeing your channel make me feel calm and inspiring too.. love the way you paint, blessings and that God keep guiding you in your journey.
This took me back to when I was finding my own signature for my paintings! Then I found out that most galleries require printing versus script signatures and I had to start all over haha! Gorgeous job, dear! ❤
I am in this process haha 😂😂
We’ve missed you and your calming voice Valerie
I want you to know that you are my biggest inspiration Valerie. I usually divide your videos in 3-4 parts so that I can watch them for multiple days and feel grateful about my life everyday. thank you.
I hope you understand that you are, in my eyes, a healer. There is no one that i have come across on this platform who provides such truth and wisdom to those of us who are highly damaged and sensitive. Thank you.
Though, the video this time was quite long i just didn't want it to end. you are such a precious soul, Valerie, you make us a little happier everytime 💜
Valerie muito obrigada por esse vídeo, de verdade! Tenho passado por muitas coisas e ao mesmo tempo me sinto empacada na vida, seja ela emocional, pessoal, profissional e social. As vezes encontramos conforto em vídeos, em pessoas que não conhecemos, mas estamos aqui e suas palavras alcançam nao so a mim como a muitas outras pessoas que vi pelos comentários. Obrigada por compartilhar isso conosco, muito obrigada mesmo. ❤
I just realized that I longed for these words. This motivation and support. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and soul💛✨ Let’s happen to life, not the other way around.
Valerie, this video was incredibly beautiful. Thank you for being so open. I always find a sense of calm when watching your videos. Thank you for all that you do. You are inspiring.
I'm only in the beginning of video, but already so glad I'm watching it 😃
I missed your calming aesthetic artistic videos 😍
Every time I click on one of your videos, it's 1000% worth it. Thank you for bringing tears to my eyes and filling my heart up with love each time, with your breathtaking videos and messages.
You’re so far beyond your years. So wise! If I lived near you I’d love to visit all the museums with you and paint and learn and grow. Here in Massachusetts ( the city of Boston ) we have a huge art scene and beautiful museums. Drive an hour North and you have mountains. It’s beautiful. If you ever visit America.. Massachusetts is gorgeous. I wanted you to know you are in inspiration, you help me grow. Most of all you are loved. Thank you for lightening my days with your beautiful content. 🙏🏻🫶🏻🧘🏼♀️😊
genuine and authenticity is rare nowadays，that is why when we find it we feel beautiful.
Valerie, you have come so far over the last two years. Congratulations on arriving to your next journey! Best wishes on your sales.❤
Peace and Gratitude to you Valerie 🤍🌻🤍
Thank you for this post 🙏🏾
I’m so proud of you! 🥰
Dearest Valerie,
You are precisely where you are meant to be and I am truly grateful you are here and now sharing your divine gifts with the world.
May you be blessed with eternal joy, peace, love, light, success and prosperity. 😇🙏🥰💕
It is the things you share with us about yourself that keeps attracting my soul to yours. Please keep being you, you can never overshare yourself or become selfish as a result. I love you 💕💕💕 and your personal life stories 💓💓. I find strength in them.
Hey Valerie, Your first prints, WOW! you go, girl! I saw that you posted a new video just now, and I was like OMG it's Val! I haven't seen her in ages! Your art, always makes me think of the great impressionist painters. As an artist, impressionism is the first style I fell in love with as a child. I appreciate the thought-provoking commentary and the personal perspective you give. I was a bullied child too. I have a scar in my eyebrow from when bullies threw a rock at me as a child. I also understand the emotions and suffering you express, Im like Omg someone else out there on the other side of the globe feels just like me! What you share in your videos is spot on with my Buddhist teachers and The Buddha. :) Happiness and sadness, like dark and light are two sides of the same coin. There are no true opposites in the universe, everything is connected to everything else. when we start to see that we suffer less. Lots of love from America 😊🙏🧡
Valerie, I know we don’t know each other, but thank you for talking to me (and the rest of TH-cam 😝) about how you feel ☺️ it does help me feel less alone and I’m grateful for your courage in sharing your story 💐 it adds so much more depth to your creations!
You are such a wise young lady. The truths you speak are so inspiring for me. I am 60 + years of age, and it has taken me that many years to gain the insight and wisdom you hold. You are a true blessing. TY 🙂and Keep going
Your videos and art give me the same feelings of peace and hopefulness that arise when reading a comfort book, flipping through the inspiring "In Her Studio" magazines, or listening to my favorite soundtracks. You're one of the bright spots that give those dark days purpose. This is such an immeasurable gift during a time when our world feels to be crumbling. Thank you for creating.
So true, “pain” is the first part of “painting.” I am not the best painter, but it helps me give my pain a place sometimes. I am always striving for more, not sure why I am never satisfied with myself and my life. You videos are soothing and humbling.
I love you. I love the sad comment on your mental health, then the giggle after it because you filmed it later than the disaster, and now you can laugh about it.
VALERIE!!! IT'S GREAT TO SEE YOU AGAIN 🎉 I NEVER FORGOT YOUR VIDEOS!
Hi Miss Valerie! My name Jackey Carolyn and I’d like to say you’re one of my biggest inspirations. I adore your word and every time I feel down or unmotivated I put your videos on. Thank you!
I hope one day I can make content inspire to help people. Please keep doing your amazing videos. God bless and stay fabulous!💖
Your inner wisdom and knowing are amazing at a young age. Old soul indeed.
Hey Valerie, I really missed your videos! I was in a dark place as well, and had stopped watching all the peaceful content I used to watch, because there was so much going on inside me. I am glad you found your way back to our hearts, please keep creating peace, all the love, lights and glory to you, and every single person who watches your videos!💜🤍
Here I’m an Argentinian living in Australia going trough a rough path in my life, but yet as you said learning and I just learned a lot from You , thank you for being there ❤
I’ve never felt more seen. Your way of letting yourself be vulnerable in your videos, is so brave and honestly I admire you a lot for that. I really hope life makes cross paths, it would be lovely to meet someone that speaks the same language (and I’m not talking about English language and so on) as me. I’m so lucky to have found you! Keep on being you ❤
Dear Valerie, you are a beautiful human being, any of which I look at you ... your words, your feelings, your art, your humor, your awareness and connection to yourself, myself and the universe. I am a mom, and my daughter is a fine art artist. I am as proud of you as I am of her. Keep on going my love. Marjan
Valerie, I'm thankful to you because you share your journey, your art, and your thoughts with us. It makes me feel that I'm not alone. You give me comfort and inspiration. Truely if there's no darkness you wont see the light in life.
Hi Valerie! Your channel goes beyond being just an art platform. You are so eloquent in putting into words the thoughts we all have but struggle to express. We appreciate the effort and dedication you pour into both your paintings and content creation. Truly, you provide a therapeutic experience that soothes all senses, encourages us to be braver and uplifts our spirits. Thank you!
Yes, you are very good and sincere . I am sorry you have led such a lonely life, but look
What you have become. Thank-you for sharing .😊
It's wonderful to see you back! Y es, you are going through things that so many of us have, in our different ways. Always know that there are like minded people, maybe not close by, but maybe they are there and just too scared to reveal who they are. I wonder if, considering how many of us feel different, fearful and having been bullied for being that way, most people are like that. Perhaps some just respond with meanness and violence. Wouldn't it be lovely if we let people be different, creative and themselves? Perhaps those of us in your community can help support that wonderful change in society. Be the change! Embrace our differences and quirkiness! Thank you for all that you do!
...As an artist, composer, & creator, all I can say is I started watching your channel because it felt as if I'd found a kindred spirit. I honestly didn't mean to start falling in love with you. But with every video -- especially videos as honest & unguarded as THIS one -- I tumble a little bit more... & I'm okay with that 💞🥰💞
✨️ You. Are. AMAZING. Thank you. ✨️
Talk about synchronicities, been having a very hard day today..feel in a deep funk and finding it hard to get back to my passion which is painting...listened to Bashar all day for help and right after his video, this video showed up! thanks and welcome back too as I have't seen a video of yours in a long time. Art wishes across the miles and thanks for the support
Liebe Valerie, ich kann es nicht beschreiben wie und warum aber deine Videos sind echt Balsam für die Seele. Du scheinst ein ganz außergewöhnlicher Mensch zu sein, eine wunderbare Persönlichkeit. Ich denke meine Sichtweise über dunkle Zeiten hat sich ziemlich gewandelt, früher habe ich immer gefragt, warum mir ausgerechnet gewisse Dinge zugestoßen sind. Heute habe ich einen ganz anderen Blick, jede schlechte Erfahrung, jede Zurückweisung, jeder Verlust hat mich zu dem gemacht, was ich heute bin, stark und die nötige Empathie mich in jeden hineinversetzen zu können. Flexibel zu sein und möglichst versuchen nicht schwarz und weiß zu sehen, sondern viele verschiedene Perspektiven einzunehmen. Ich bin sehr dankbar, dass du deine Erfahrungen mit uns teilst, so fühlt man sich ein Stück weniger allen. Wünsche dir weiterhin sehr viel Erfolg 🍀
Hello,
Sending love from India 🇮🇳.
The remarkable aspect about you is that you are not pretending to be someone else.
You are sharing your knowledge, experiences, and feelings so beautifully that we now understand why balance is important in life.
You inspire us by showing that it's important to be yourself.
May God bring you lots of happiness! 😊
Hi Valerie. I just wanted to leave a comment on this video. You are definitely not alone or without any emotional support. You developed a fan base that will support you and your videos. I really enjoy watching your videos and your art is absolutely amazing. Don't be afraid to be yourself and don't be afraid of change. I do believe that you are being guided in your life and in your art. I look forward to purchasing one of you pieces of art one day.
Liebe Valerie, letztes Jahr bin ich über deine Videos gestolpert. Durch deine Art und dein Sein im künstlerischen habe ich wieder angefangen zu malen mit 58. Die tolle Atmosphäre in den Videos, verbunden mit Musik und Worten sind so inspirierend. Dankeschön 💐💐💐🧚🏼❤️🦄🦋
I too am going through a few dark months and your videos are my emotional support and inspiration. I cry a lot of times while watching them and this one was particularly moving. You're such a beautiful human, thank you so much for bringing light and peace with your work.