7 Things You Shouldn't Feel Guilty For

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  • @jiya14
    @jiya14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5658

    1- NOT BEING PERFECT
    2- ASKING FOR HELP
    3- BEING SUCCESSFUL
    4- SAYING NO WHEN YOU NEED TO
    5- REMOVING YOURSELF FROM TOXIC PEOPLE AND SITUATION
    6- ENDING TOXIC SITUATION
    7- WANTING TO BE HAPPY

    • @missrelaxed3872
      @missrelaxed3872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Thank you for this

    • @iamthecatmonsta2870
      @iamthecatmonsta2870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I actually feel guilty about all of those

    • @th3lostw4nderer
      @th3lostw4nderer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Zishou Kun same

    • @aaronlee4608
      @aaronlee4608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@iamthecatmonsta2870 same I'm still somewhat friends with this guy and he is toxic

    • @405OKCShiningOn
      @405OKCShiningOn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you💝💫🙏👍👍🌷💐

  • @sleepyote
    @sleepyote 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2345

    I feel guilty for *not* being happy because I feel like others have it worse and I'm just being "too sensitive".

    • @mochiprincess8099
      @mochiprincess8099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      I can relate

    • @Ziddawastaken
      @Ziddawastaken 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Lol mood

    • @swatisaini6447
      @swatisaini6447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      So relatable!!

    • @trusttheprocess4775
      @trusttheprocess4775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Can relate hard

    • @nardeenkeryakes2847
      @nardeenkeryakes2847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

      Just because someone out there might have it worse does NOT mean that your struggles are invalid!! It’s okay not to be happy, your feelings are always valid!

  • @vxqliie
    @vxqliie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    This is my therapist I can literally make myself feel better listening to someone explaining me what I shouldn’t feel guilty for when I feel guilty whenever and wherever I want
    Thank you, Psych2Go :)

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      We are so happy that this has helped you in some way!! Thank you so much for your feedback! How many things did you feel guilty before watching this video?

    • @vxqliie
      @vxqliie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Psych2Go I would always feel guilty for saying no or being happy I would also apologize when I would be successful at something lol!

    • @rainsupe
      @rainsupe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vxqliie Me too qwq

    • @retzoderzerstorer367
      @retzoderzerstorer367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Psych2go to many

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

  • @26afc
    @26afc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2237

    No guilt is forgotten so long as the conscience still knows of it. I wish everyone to live in all good conscience 🍀

  • @fidgetspinner5188
    @fidgetspinner5188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1556

    And I am feeling guilty for feeling guilty for these things now

    • @maddesthatter1313
      @maddesthatter1313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I love your username uwu

    • @metra8604
      @metra8604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same

    • @raniagl6260
      @raniagl6260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Thats actually called (the hell loop) so you feel guilty for feeling guilty ...i ve read it in a book 🙂

    • @lks806
      @lks806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You aren’t alone

    • @mother_prana
      @mother_prana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Hahaha unfortunately that's the loop of guilt and shame just release and be easy on yourself because changing your thought pattern takes time and practice

  • @rosalindmichie2643
    @rosalindmichie2643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I always feel bad for:
    1. being caught up in others drama
    2. not being perfect
    3. asking for help
    4. being successful
    5. saying no
    this video just made me feel so much better like I wasn't the only one and that it's ok to feel this way

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.a

    • @peach816
      @peach816 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i always feel bad for:
      1. asking for help
      2. buy things for myself
      3. saying no
      4. someone getting scolded because of me

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    Regardless of where the guilt comes from, the stress of the guilt itself can have a serious effect on some people. While mostly psychological, some physical effects can include insomnia, a loss of appetite, and an overall dreary feeling.👍

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      That's so true :( What advice would you recommend for those who are dealing with the stress of feeling guilty?

    • @missrelaxed3872
      @missrelaxed3872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ugggghhhhh I can totally relate

    • @roeee_51
      @roeee_51 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep IM NOT GETTING ENOUGH SLEEP

    • @hunk2140
      @hunk2140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Psych2go it can also cause many skin diseases like rashes..
      I'm 36 and i have studied my psyche my whole life..
      one factor that always we neglect is the F.E.A.R
      it's a hidden subconscious instinct that is the heritage of collective human mind's evolution through thousands of years..
      it takes so many shapes and forms..
      it is root of anger, guilt, hate, ocds and everything negative you can think of..
      the problem is when you try to unroot it from your subconscious (which I've done), it leaves you empty and meaningless inside..(imagine a parasite leaving the host)
      the best replacement I've found for it is L.O.V.E
      Unconditional love to everything..

    • @uMaud
      @uMaud 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ooooooh that might be why I still can't bring myself to eat like a normally functionning human being 😅
      I mean, during the week, all I eat in one day is
      -A hot chocolate in the morning
      -Maybe a wafel at 4 p.m to be able to concentrate on homework
      -Supper
      -Maybe another wafel

  • @missrelaxed3872
    @missrelaxed3872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    Mental health should be our first priority! Paying attention to Toxicity is definitely the last option!

    • @Raymanlegacy
      @Raymanlegacy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes u should NEVER fell guilty if u end a toxic relationship

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

  • @ludwinc4951
    @ludwinc4951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    No one should feel guilty over what they like doing or their interests, it could seriously affect your lifestyle.

    • @Sumirevins
      @Sumirevins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah honestly, If you don't trust yourself I bet you'll Never be truely successful self-esteem Is topmost Priority

    • @meowsonlyhearttt
      @meowsonlyhearttt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought something was funny but everyone said I was mean for doing it

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

    • @wasupbunnniee9332
      @wasupbunnniee9332 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel guilty for begging my parents for a guitar which was 100 dollars and after getting it and not using it

    • @Mari-sg2pp
      @Mari-sg2pp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You must be joking right now one should feel guilty even if they are psychopaths racist murders abusive evil yeah what a self centered thought.

  • @DiscipleOfHeavyMeta1
    @DiscipleOfHeavyMeta1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    I feel ashamed for:
    1. Choosing to do things that feel good instead of doing things that are productive.
    2. Having a sex drive.
    3. Having difficulty paying attention and perform to the level of a typical adult.
    4. Thinking about myself and my own thoughts, feelings, wants and needs.
    5. Not being someone better.
    6. Existing.

    • @Jivi_Galaxy
      @Jivi_Galaxy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋

    • @Jivi_Galaxy
      @Jivi_Galaxy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I can relate 💯. I also have sex drive and I feel so guilty and dirty......

    • @NoNickname9090
      @NoNickname9090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I hear you on number 2. If I am with a person it's not like I would have to always be sexual, but at the same time it's a part of me that's quite surface-level and conscious. I don't like telling myself "it's wrong that I find this person attractive". I legit don't like telling myself that.
      I'm not gonna worry though. I came to this video to learn, and that's what I'm going to do. You got this too!! You'll one day be looking back and be like "I used to feel ashamed about those things."

    • @DY2727
      @DY2727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I feel guilty for being in a certain fandom. The fandom was full of cringy and toxic people when there was also good people too but the fandom was mostly associated with toxic people and I feel like a slut for being in it.

    • @selvarajd4536
      @selvarajd4536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@DY2727 look I don't meant to interfer but I don't know if u r but if u r an ARMY 💜 then I am very sorry u came mostly across the toxic ones I know I'm jumping into conclusions but I have seen many ARMYs who just regrets being an ARMY due to the toxic ARMYs they have encountered ..... But if not I'm sorry for wasting ur time

  • @MrsHobbitFeet
    @MrsHobbitFeet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I feel guilty about mistreating my little brother when we were younger. I’m not the same person as before and try to move forward but I still hold the guilt and regret that I’ve ruined his childhood...

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

    • @noushintaghipour7626
      @noushintaghipour7626 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      At least you feel guilty and your not the same person anymore. My brother ruined my childhood but still he is the same person as before. Even though he is 30 right now. still constantly attack my self-confidence. The worst part is its so hard for me to avoid him and end this toxic relationship.

    • @VantaDraws
      @VantaDraws 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@noushintaghipour7626 Is there a way you can get away from him? I’m sorry to hear that

  • @alyssalarasati8647
    @alyssalarasati8647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Whenever i started to feel sad, anxious, or even panic. This channel is always the right place to go to so that i can release all these negative feelings away. Words can never describe how thankful i am to whoever makes this channel. You helped me so much! And i want to tell you that please keep going because i know that not also me but there are also lots of people that’s been saved by the videos you make. SO KEEP GOING!! I SUPPORT YOU!!

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.a

  • @SunilKumar-vy8gq
    @SunilKumar-vy8gq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    1)not being perfect
    2)asking for help
    3) being successful
    4) saying no when you need
    5)removing yourself from toxic situations
    6) ending toxic relationships
    7)wanting to be happy

    • @charcoal8
      @charcoal8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks 😁👍

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.n

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Number 2 (asking for help) is something I and many need to work on. We struggle alone, when we could get support when needed

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

    • @vaish87
      @vaish87 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm as well.
      I stay in hostel, and ended up writing assignments, washing clothes, getting other girls snacks from vending machine, writing their leave letter, and bringing them food from the mess, when l don't do that i feel guilty

  • @blendibisha33
    @blendibisha33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I only feel guilty when I say "no" to others. I've gotten so used to just helping others every time that when i say no it just feels kind of wrong.
    As for the other ones I don't the feel at all. I used to but ever since I changed the way I view the world and life this whole thing changed. Like how can you feel guilty for wanting to be happy. That is a necessary thing for everyone. Just be happy and let go of everything that is dragging you down. You owe that to yourself.

    • @patricksedjro1764
      @patricksedjro1764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, like the so called "friends"

    • @Grimaldus18
      @Grimaldus18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I dont, I'm just a burden to my parents. This is found by me. My meds are really expensive, it's a huge drain on them, and they dont get their money back

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

  • @SociopathMoon
    @SociopathMoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    I'm glad the saying no was here. 😌

    • @PopCultureFan_
      @PopCultureFan_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I too, have problems with that.

    • @IndyLaLune
      @IndyLaLune 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I JUST CANT DO IT

    • @angelahenson7374
      @angelahenson7374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too

    • @metra8604
      @metra8604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How to say no to parents lmfao

    • @Relaxingsleepingstudying
      @Relaxingsleepingstudying 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@metra8604
      Me: no
      Parents: *death stare*
      Me: Ok ok I will will

  • @lenoresdiaries7783
    @lenoresdiaries7783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    It's been ingrained so hard into my brain that art isn't a job, that everytime I sit down to write and draw to develop skills, I feel so guilty and like I'm wasting time.

    • @AinyAlam
      @AinyAlam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sameeee😭😭😭😭 maybe listen to kitchen sink by twenty one pilots maybe it'll help?

    • @devidaughter7782
      @devidaughter7782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      the world needs your talents, and the world needs for you to be you! please carry on!

    • @christopherjones8920
      @christopherjones8920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Is it really wasted time if you enjoy what you’re doing?

    • @Cassie03
      @Cassie03 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course it is! Ask anyone who worked on any of the Classic Disney movies! (You know, back when they used to use physical art to make movies rather than just computers!? Lol)

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

  • @proudindianprachi5127
    @proudindianprachi5127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jitna doosro ke bare mein sochenge utna hi dhukhi honge . Bss unke bare mein socho aur karo jo aapko apna mante ho . Khush rhiye Hmesha .

  • @apoorva6237
    @apoorva6237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    I'm not gonna lie, if psych2go wasn't there i would be lost....completely lost.
    They help us understand us better
    They love us
    They care for us
    They genuinely want to help people
    Thank you so much psych2go
    You mean a lot to us. Thank you for your love and support 💜

    • @frostlord1246
      @frostlord1246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too. It’s been almost 3 years since I discovered this channel and my life would be unrecognizable without them.

    • @JillofTrades
      @JillofTrades 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They teach me a lot about my mental illnesses, taking care of myself, and notice certain situations.

    • @metra8604
      @metra8604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *starts crying*

    • @apoorva6237
      @apoorva6237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@metra8604 don't cry buddy we all are with you

    • @metra8604
      @metra8604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@apoorva6237 *cries a little less* thank you.

  • @Leon_Wish
    @Leon_Wish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    It’s not that I feel guilty about any of these... often. But a step I’m willing to take, but most people keep saying I shouldn’t because it’s “wrong”, is once I move out and start on my life. I’m cutting all ties and connections with the people who keep bringing me down and hurt me. I don’t need their negativity. But it’s hard.

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes I am aware of what I need to do but taking those steps is HARD

    • @5aheal
      @5aheal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's never going to be easy, and you may feel guilt or regret, but know that you deserve to do what is needed for your health and happiness. I am trying to move out, and once I do there are definitely certain connections that I must break in order to truly move forward.

    • @anjelajemtatunay6062
      @anjelajemtatunay6062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thats my first feeling but it just got worst and worst

    • @lks806
      @lks806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don’t listen to those people that don’t want you to try something new! It’s your life and it’s your own choice and right on how you should live it😊
      Cut those people off who don’t support you in the process!!

    • @matcha2753
      @matcha2753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I totally feel you
      Same but with my toxic sister
      I may be yung but I know what I have to do
      Hope you are doing the right thing
      Don't let there negativity get to you
      Well hope your having a good day bye bye💖🥰

  • @Snow_Sailor
    @Snow_Sailor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel guilty for enjoying a certain fandom.. this video didn't help with that exactly but it still helped.

  • @lianicole3704
    @lianicole3704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I always say sorry for things i didn't do...but i can't stop saying it...how can i control myself?😓

    • @rahmahassaf2275
      @rahmahassaf2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Be honest , but in a friendly way ,it's going to be a bit hard at the start as people don't expect it From you , but you need to get rid of the fact that people think you'll say soory to them

    • @whale2269
      @whale2269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I used to do that xx but you just need to realise that you have done nothing worth apologising for x it's alright, and you're okay xx you haven't done anything wrong 😂❤ xx you'll get used to it x it feels like you're not being polite x but people won't be offended by you for not saying sorry because you haven't done anything wrong to them in the first place xx I hope this helps xx I stopped apologising for things I haven't done with this way of thinking x your words are precious and so are the words "I'm sorry". Those words mean a lot, so just practice using them at the appropriate times xx sometimes just one "I'm sorry" can be very powerful xx you got this xx and have a great day xx and don't say sorry to me if you're going to reply 😂❤ xx

    • @rahmahassaf2275
      @rahmahassaf2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@whale2269 YES!!GOOD ONE

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I see :( How many points did you relate to?

    • @kalyanakaren4045
      @kalyanakaren4045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Psych2go well sometimes lets say A is very kind but A always wants attentions, and I am often busy. Sometimes if I don't give attention to A then A will send me loads of notification and 😭 emoji. I kept on saying sorry... How do I deal with it?

  • @LadyOMyth
    @LadyOMyth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm still working on a few of those things. Hopefully, as time goes on, I won't feel guilty about them anymore. My biggest one ties into wanting to be happy. I've struggled with toxic situations and mental issues for years and I'm finally starting to get out of them, but I have someone in my life who feels that I should be happy right now, that depression and my other issues aren't real and I should just snap my fingers and suddenly stop hating myself, but those comments only make it worse. Sometimes I feel guilty for trying, that maybe I'm meant to be sad and nothing else. Watching this video was a good reminder that those thoughts aren't true. I have a right to be happy without guilt and I have a right to work on that as much as I want. If I keep telling that to myself, hopefully I can slowly feel less guilty about it over time and maybe I can finally find peace.

    • @missrelaxed3872
      @missrelaxed3872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can relate ! I am working on many of these that are mentioned in the video ! I am guilty for just wanting to be happy and getting out of toxic situation! But yes I am learning! Hope you become guilt free ! :)

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.b

  • @Thegoldenbagel
    @Thegoldenbagel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Why does this sound like it’s talking to me?

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      How do you feel after watching this video?

    • @Thegoldenbagel
      @Thegoldenbagel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Psych2Go a bitter better although the process is difficult

    • @hermelaadefrash6414
      @hermelaadefrash6414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ya me too ,it is talking about us

    • @zoeward7107
      @zoeward7107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Psych2go I feel understood. Thank you❤✨

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.n

  • @rahmahassaf2275
    @rahmahassaf2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I always feel like asking for help is weakness, I have trust issues so I say , "What if they use it against me " like what if we were in an argument and they said they helped me ?

    • @aeme3675
      @aeme3675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh god same

    • @rahmahassaf2275
      @rahmahassaf2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aeme3675 the solution ?

    • @DioclesiaKai
      @DioclesiaKai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If they do that to you they may be the kind of people it is better to get rid of. Be sure, ask for help. If they use it against you (which is unlikely but possible) make sure they do it only once. Then step away. Once you encounter these situations in life you learn to see that in people. And you will be wiser and more experienced. You can make it through!

    • @rahmahassaf2275
      @rahmahassaf2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DioclesiaKai I have trust issues ..I won't even try it scares me 😕

    • @DioclesiaKai
      @DioclesiaKai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If that is the case something you can try is approaching this situation with someone you truly trust. If you have to ask for help do it with this person by your side. For starters it will help you feel a bit safer and you will have an escape net if it fails and you feel overwhelmed. Step by step you will achieve your goal!
      People lying or attacking us is a natural part of life. Not that it happens every day. But if you can't confront this by yourself or at all then just begin with little steps. Build up your strength. Slow yet straight. You are not alone and help can come from many places, most of them safe!

  • @weirdguywithamouth5105
    @weirdguywithamouth5105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    You always post these vids at the perfect time. Thank you

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

  • @kyleangelo3834
    @kyleangelo3834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can’t agree more with number 5 💁🏻‍♂️ I just hate it when I’ve tried helping many times already and when the time comes that I’m genuinely not available or exhausted to help they will guilt trip you like you just mistreated them so bad 💀

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.d

  • @ymerithebeloved
    @ymerithebeloved 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    you're literally my daily therapist.. your voice is just so soothing ❤

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly I cant remember life before psych2go

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.b

  • @RenIkeda
    @RenIkeda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Never feel ashamed or feel the need to suppress good things that happen to you or you've achieved something great. Yes there are jealous and pretty selfish people out there BUT there are also those who want to celebrate in your successes. To those like this, it feels amazing and somewhat proud to hear when something good has happened when we hear it. win win

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.I

  • @astridwennerstrom9942
    @astridwennerstrom9942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve struggled with guilt for such a long time. Now I’m learning to go easy on myself for not doing everything perfectly and it has lead to me learning new things that I wouldn’t had dared to even try otherwise.

  • @urdisgusting7778
    @urdisgusting7778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    I'm really struggling in my life because I was sexually asualted when I was 6 but I don't wanna go into details but I really always blame me and feel shame and yeah I just keep struggling so thank you Psych2go for atleast helping me...🖤🖤🖤

    • @nandita54
      @nandita54 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Hey please don't blame yourself and feel guilty it wasn't your fault at all ik you know this but still . I'm sorry I really don't know what to say and don't want to say anything that might offend you or come of as rude . But please know that you're amazing!! you deserve all the love and appreciation !!❤️ Stay safe and take care ! Hope you have a great day !!❤️

    • @aabdulsama6897
      @aabdulsama6897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💚💖💖💟

    • @tsaszymborska7389
      @tsaszymborska7389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Can I just say that you have the best username I’ve come across ever? 😂😂

    • @roeee_51
      @roeee_51 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hey! There are people who know what your going through. I don’t know you but I love you! 💕 ❤️ 💗

    • @autumn2008
      @autumn2008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      hey ! I am not a survivor or victim of rape but I have always had a fear of it. My main point is that,it's not your fault that it happened to you and it doesn't make you any less than a human than anyone else. Sometimes you may live with the feelings of disgust and hatred towards yourself and your life because of what you have experienced but I am pretty sure others won't mind,at least I don't and I am really proud of you for being strong! Those who mind don't matter,those who don't mind matter.

  • @M1k3lol
    @M1k3lol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I feel so guilty about the things I did as a child like hurting my parents or worrying them. I just cant cope with all this guilt

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

    • @Hawaiiansky11
      @Hawaiiansky11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are absolved of guilt for (1) anything that happened 10 or more years ago, especially if you have done what you can to make amends and heal yourself, and (2) anything that happened before you were a legal adult. If you hurt your parents, they should have taught you what to do with that guilt by demonstrating their own behavioral remedies, rather than give you toxic shame for it.

    • @HackiePuffs
      @HackiePuffs ปีที่แล้ว

      You were a developing child your parents are supposed to love and forgive you and guide you through your mistakes. Although I do also relate to that mostly with my dad and pushing him away at times in my life because of how my mom talked badly about him.

  • @sheisstrongpodcast
    @sheisstrongpodcast 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel guilty about being taking out time for myself .. and i also feel drained by being everything for everyone , I dont know if am jst being paranoid but I feel when I wanna just have my me time and not involve everyone in my life in it

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has kept shifting, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.

  • @joy1696
    @joy1696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really needed this video today Psych2go. I’ve had some recent family drama come up in my life and it’s been affecting me negatively. I also realized some things about myself from this video. Thank you for being here. I appreciate you guys. ❤️💜💞💗

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.a

  • @aamenahkhan324
    @aamenahkhan324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much. You helped me build a better self esteem and your videos gave me much needed support. Topics in your videos helped me get to understand things I am too afraid to talk about. Thank you so so so much. You don’t know how much these videos mean to me. I’m literally crying while writing this. Again, thank you so so much.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.I

  • @josnx473
    @josnx473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel guilty about cutting off contact with my toxic parents, my inner child struggles with fear of being in confrontation with them once more

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has kept shifting, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.

  • @NoNickname9090
    @NoNickname9090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    4:29 Number 7) I want to pursue a relationship, but there are some people "it's wrong for two guys to marry". So I can't have a relationship? Nah!! Absolutely nah!!
    "There is no shame in wanting what's best for yourself - even if it sometimes comes at the expense of others' feelings and convenience."
    I needed to hear that. I absolutely needed to hear that. All too often I'm "I need to act like a normal person because it's wrong to be more than one person." Then I end up befriending people with my fake side, then leave them because it was all fake. Then they wondering "where you go?" "I LET MYSELF LIE TO YOU FOR YOUR REALITY!!" People are "you can't be more than one person, that's just not possible". First of all no one knows anything absolute about consciousness, so my consciousness existing as it does is just that.
    I don't care anymore. I used to worry that I was making myself "not human" by removing some of my insecurities. But quite frankly the most insecure things I'm only aware of. My sexuality. Nobody knows that unless I tell them because everyone assumes queer people are what they see on TV. Yea, I said that generic statement. Nobody knows I'm a multiple and it's affirmed because I frequently hear "You got a nice personality Izaya". "Oh do we now? Well it's because I come here to watch these videos". And this is something that makes me happy.
    I am never gonna hold myself back again. I want to live.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.I

  • @claudiomagalhaes1248
    @claudiomagalhaes1248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When you remember that "love thy neighbour thyself"
    Means that before attempting to fulltill anyone else's needs, you should do it with you own first.
    The ones that love you will want you to be happy no matter what you chose, if that comes from the heart!

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.b

  • @stephschultz2353
    @stephschultz2353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video help me so much I always thought “I’m horrible I’m worthless I’m nothing I don’t matter I don’t deserve happiness love respect or to feel sad” but now I know that that’s super wrong

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.b

  • @RayPeng-07
    @RayPeng-07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The point 1, 5 and 6 really got me most of my life. But when the pandemy started I had much time to think about it all and cut myself from it in a way. There totally should be more episodes about why we shouldn't feel guilty.

  • @TheGummyGuysGummyMan
    @TheGummyGuysGummyMan ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I felt guilty because my friend ended our friendship that we’ve had since kindergarten

  • @nightappleispoisonapple1775
    @nightappleispoisonapple1775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's so amazing how I told my mom to talk nicely to me and not scream all the time and she gets all sad and doesnt talk to me for days and says stuff like no one values me when I do so much when she has always hurt me with her words but i never did all this

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.g

  • @DarkestMischief490
    @DarkestMischief490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I relate to this 100% I know it’s not good for me, but with the type of environment I’m in it makes it tough to deal with. I know I deserve happiness and not to feel guilty for things I didn’t even do, honestly it’s just really difficult to deal with.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.I

  • @selfhelpchampion9664
    @selfhelpchampion9664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "Maybe there's more we all could have done, but we just have to let the guilt remind us to do better next time."
    Veronica Roth, 🙏❤️selfhelpchampion

    • @urdisgusting7778
      @urdisgusting7778 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 💕 made my day 🥰

    • @equalitarianbiologist2327
      @equalitarianbiologist2327 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Apropos, the saying. Dont focus on the Hurt. Focus on the Lesson. ✓✓✓
      +
      When you Focus on problems, All you'll have is problems.
      When you Focus on opportunities, All you'll get is opportunities.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.g

  • @anjalishah2925
    @anjalishah2925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So... what's happening with me is that, I've got a truly good friend. He's always gone overboard for helping me with a lot of things, and we've been amazingly great friends. But since recent times, things have begun to go downhill. Turns out he always saw me more than just a friend and confessed, ah I never really thought of him more than a friend. I like some other guy and he's been knowing it since the first day of our friendship, and we discussed that guy a lot, just the way you discuss your crush with your friends you know, that way.... We've not just been great friends, but also shared I love you's, the friendly ones yk, at least from my side they were always limited till friendship. So when he confessed and rejected, he said something like "Please take care from next time while talking to a guy." We had long arguments and after a month, I was so exhausted that I thought of just letting it all go. I want to stay happy and so I just don't wish to confront him again. He said at the end that "You never really cared for me. I know you don't care for me." which is obviously, not true. He's helped me in the best ways, but I was also the only one who'd stood for him when no one trusted him. I'm not sure if it's wrong that I now don't wish to confront him, or if it's right that I'm just wishing to live my life.

  • @mascotwithadinosaur9353
    @mascotwithadinosaur9353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    The thing is, what seems to be "perfect" to others, is "average" to me. Idk when I'm actually striving for an average standard and when I'm being a perfectionist.

    • @rahmahassaf2275
      @rahmahassaf2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Who cares about others , dont! If you have done what you want to do , then let people go to hell

    • @solar0wind
      @solar0wind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well, many people exaggerate and constantly say/write stuff like "OMG, it's PERFECT😱😍❤". They're just over the top. And if they feel happy doing that that's completely okay, although it feels a bit fake to me sometimes. If you don't feel like doing that, that's completely okay too. I'm not like this either.
      However, I want to ask: Can you still feel happiness? If not, it's not the things that feel mediocre to you, it's maybe something underlying in you.
      When I was 11 and 12, I was almost depressed I guess, although I had so little emotional awareness that I didn't notice that something was wrong at that time. What I did notice was that all the colours looked so pale. I remember thinking "Why do I live in a country where the plants are so colourless?" and wished to go to a jungle because I thought the colours were brighter and more intense there. Turned out: It wasn't the colours in my country, it was me. Several years later, I remember stepping out of the house on a sunny day in early summer, and I was overwhelmed by the brightness of all the colours around me. I thought "I could I have ever thought that the colours aren't intense?".
      I learnt that your outlook on life and your feelings have a big impact on how you perceive things.

    • @Cmdr_Kraid
      @Cmdr_Kraid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@solar0wind I am a person who wanna give others feel better by saying that it's perfect like there art is perfect or what they did is perfect
      And yes sometimes I feel that to now after seeing saying good to someone is a debatable thing in internet....
      Like some will think I am fake and some will appreciate my words...
      But what u said is mesmerizing

    • @solar0wind
      @solar0wind 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Cmdr_Kraid Hmm I personally think (feel free to disagree with me of course😊) that nothing is perfect, so if someone tells me this, it doesn't feel genuine. I rather tend to say "Wow that's looks great!" or "That's already pretty good!😊" if I know that they've just started practicing. But that's just what I do, and maybe what I do could be better. I used to be an "emotions dyslexic" (I made that term up), which is also why I didn't notice that I wasn't well when I was younger, so I'm glad when I know what to say to people, and I'm often still not sure if what I say is good.

    • @mascotwithadinosaur9353
      @mascotwithadinosaur9353 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rahmahassaf2275 Noooooo! I don't want ppl to go to hell!
      Anyways, sometimes it's not really about others, but just about how I want to be and how I want to make things. There are times when I genuinely don't care about what others think because I know that whatever it is, it doesn't really matter, nor does it make sense to me.
      For example, if someone were to make fun of me for the way I dress, I wouldn't care because I wear clothes to keep myself warm first, and to look good second.
      But there are times when even if everyone thinks I'm doing good, I'm there like "NO! GoOd IsN't GoOd EnOuGh!!!!". So Idk if I should say that it's a problem of wanting to impress others.

  • @ashisshaw6632
    @ashisshaw6632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You shouldn't feel guilty for removing someone who humiliates you.

    • @patricksedjro1764
      @patricksedjro1764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Elijah Flores

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.a

  • @nababrefo3585
    @nababrefo3585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A colleague at work lied about something really petty and I revealed the truth, now it looks like I am the bad one for not minding my business and for telling the truth. Now I feel guilty and bad for this. I don't know what to do anymore.

    • @kbsunalchik8229
      @kbsunalchik8229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You don't need to feel guilty for this because you only told the truth.....😊

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.g

  • @zarelasanchez5519
    @zarelasanchez5519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    *TH-cam recommendations are giving me mixed feelings.*

    • @happydancingPritiBharti
      @happydancingPritiBharti 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha 😛

    • @100ksubz6
      @100ksubz6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Underrated comment lol

    • @akwaabab8504
      @akwaabab8504 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ignore the recommendations.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.r

  • @listorin6314
    @listorin6314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    1 dislike in 2 mins... damn that person really must hate psych2go

    • @animatoraoi3672
      @animatoraoi3672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Damn they prob toxic people who prob won’t admit its true

    • @lunarinara
      @lunarinara 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Are you sure it wasn't you?

    • @PrincessHVHHDSSS
      @PrincessHVHHDSSS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      They must really be having a bad day!🤣😂😁
      The "haters gunna hate hate hate hate!"
      It's so sad that people hit that thumbs down button. Just go to a different channel, if you want. 🤗

    • @missrelaxed3872
      @missrelaxed3872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol that person could be toxic !

    • @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892
      @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      8. Disliking either some random clip that just popped up, and/or because that's just what you! Psych2Go certainly knows all about resilience anyway. :P

  • @cheeseismypeace7273
    @cheeseismypeace7273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *1.:* seeing people just like the picture you wanted just cause so much jealousy to me..
    *2.:* i can just search on youtube , it’s not really *that* hard.
    *3.: that is my goal , but I don’t think i can achieve it if i keep talking negatively with myself all the time..*
    *4.:* i mean yeah i don’t want any interactions between my classmates , and it’s easy to say yes anyway for me.
    *5.:* i just have 1 friend , maybe my classmates SOMETIMES talk with me , no.. rarely? I will just see them as classmates tho.
    *6.:* no guilt :) but then again i just realized i always take things seriously..?
    *7.:* i mean.. that’s also my goal!

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has kept shifting, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.d

  • @NinaNiterose86
    @NinaNiterose86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm the most nonconfrontational person ever & I always feel kinda guilty whenever I dare to stand up for myself.
    Even at 33 years old, I still feel like everyone else deserves more than me & if I didn't force myself every now and then, I'd probably never do it.
    That happens when you don't cope with childhood trauma, boys & girls. You'll end up an anxious, neurotic mess.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others if it is my choice.

  • @Rinsweetmagic02
    @Rinsweetmagic02 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I felt guilty today because it was Mother’s Day and I did nothing for her

  • @shotodekura3841
    @shotodekura3841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Today I came from a Sciences exam, I have studied 5 hours a day from the weekend. I didn’t finish an exercise, so, I asked my friend “Hey, did you finish the exercise about bones?” But my parents heard me, they started shouting at me and telling me I was throwing away my life, that I won’t have a future ever, and even, that I will be poor in a future. I started crying, you must think this is such a stupid reason but I’m 11 years old, and I can’t remember 50 bones in just a weekend.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has kept shifting, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.a

  • @indridcold8433
    @indridcold8433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All this can be avoided by simply socially isolating yourself. I have had no girlfriend nor friends since 8 August 2000. This has removed an incredible amount of complications and stress from my life. Thed only price is being lonely. But loneliness is a very small price to pay to avoid all the things in a video. In all actuality, contrary to the video, you can do just about everything completely alone. It just takes more time sometimes. You will be astounded just what you can accomplish completely alone.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.g

  • @anjelajemtatunay6062
    @anjelajemtatunay6062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel guilty in all of these! Im also guilty about my capability that i cant do anything like my siblings, I feel worthless and dumb most of the time and that led me to depression! Thank you pysch2go for saving my life!

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.

  • @jamesyapuncich3909
    @jamesyapuncich3909 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Light disperses darkness. After 6 decades of long hikes in some of the darkest carpet of forests where some no many continually dwell in futile shadows without ever seeing any direct sun light or blue sky, I realize I am carrying that so desperately needed light to these dark places... To these lost souls! That is why I am reluctant to "remove or end" as #s suggest to do in life. If not not now when? If not me who? Is there room to say "I am glad I did what I did when I did"? Cause I am sure glad during my 7th decade that those light bearers did not "remove or end" it with me when I got turned around and lost my way! I would of never made it out alive... In a moment of truth I enjoyed you. Wonderful you. James

  • @blr4357
    @blr4357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I cut off a seriously long friendship with someone today who would use me, I put their messages on the ignore option and prayed they’d let me leave peacefully and had no idea how to deal with it. I felt guilty, alone and I desperately needed some sort of reassurance. Lo and behold this was uploaded, I don’t know if this is a gift from God but I really appreciated and needed this. Thank you.

    • @Smile-en6ql
      @Smile-en6ql 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You shouldn't feel guilty because that so called friend used you and that is not right, you did the right thing

    • @rahmahassaf2275
      @rahmahassaf2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is not a friend , YOU'RE RIGHT SOMEONE WHO USES YOU 24.7 SHOULD BE GONE , BLOCK THEM ,we love you ❤❤

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.u

  • @yukisakura7808
    @yukisakura7808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i just ended my relationship with a toxic friend and i honestly feel guilty about leaving them.. so thank you so much for this psych2go 😭

    • @MoonStarr-02
      @MoonStarr-02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol same with me a few months ago and just after that many ppl just disappeared out of my life some ppl i didnt even know that well cuz ppl rlly do come into ur life for a reason and ik my ex has taught me alot of things and im glad i could finally let go

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.b

  • @rebbecachunn
    @rebbecachunn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was raised on guilt which developed into spite, which is pretty much what keeps me moving forward. Yes my therapist and I are working on it. But yeah, this video is pretty spot on.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.d

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My parents have ALWAYS drilled into me to be perfect and told me to never give up and leave a toxic situation. They said that was a sign of "giving up". Thus I have been in toxic situations much longer than I should have been in. It was detrimental to my mental health. Leaving a toxic situation is not giving up. It's surviving and we shouldn't feel guilty about it.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.g

  • @srch-10
    @srch-10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Ok but when I ask my maths teacher seven questions in a row, I gotta feel bad.

    • @mariamabdelwahab9582
      @mariamabdelwahab9582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same!😟

    • @claudiomagalhaes1248
      @claudiomagalhaes1248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its ok to ask, but since people at school don't really like lose their time asking questions, its a gateway into being bullyied...
      So, we could right down our questions and aks the teachers after class, maybe!
      I mean, as a democracy the majority has the right and we should respect it..
      Still, we can't lose our individual rights!
      We are all one, but we are still ourselfs! hehe
      Blessings!

    • @Hippespinster
      @Hippespinster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That is what he or she is paid for: teaching. You don't learn when you don't make mistakes or ask questions. We are not born with a complete brain installed with all the software that knows all. And you have to work with the hardware that was given to you by your genetics. So it is not even your fault for needing to ask so many questions. Actually you should be proud of yourself that you put so much effort in! 👌

    • @srch-10
      @srch-10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Hippespinster this made my day :)

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.g

  • @vhstape5643
    @vhstape5643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Needed this man. Probably the main feeling I’ve had for the past 2 weeks.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.a

  • @lazifatunnoor4274
    @lazifatunnoor4274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    3:30 Hahaha I laughed when it said "Drama Queen Calling" on the phone. 😂😂😂😂

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.j

  • @Toongeek45
    @Toongeek45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Number 7! Definitely! I want to be an actor. To say I'm judged for it would be an understatement. I have people that judge me because I do community theatre. They say i should stop because it's not "Paid acting work." I have several problems with this! First, how the hell am I going to get paid work if I don't prove myself worthy by doing community work first? Second, acting to me is not just about the money! While it would be nice to get paid to do something I love for money, I see it as escaping to another world with my friends and letting spectators watch and have a life changing experience! I could go on for hours about why acting makes me happy and I'm sure I'm going to remember more reasons when I'm done here, but when I'm acting, I'm no longer just the quiet kid in the corner, or the guy at my job cleaning in the background, I feel like I actually matter! And there's the thrill of not knowing who is in the crowd! The monologue you deliver might be the motivational speech someone desperately needed to hear! Finally, the friendships I've made doing this work have been wonderful! I am trying to get up to being paid, but for now, I refuse to stop doing what I love because some people tell me to sit around and do nothing and wait for someone to telepathically find out about my acting ability! I decided this several moths ago, and am proud of my decision!

    • @rahmahassaf2275
      @rahmahassaf2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We're proud of you ! Yes that's right , a lot will hate you at first , but once you start being at the top they'll all love you , these dont love you for who you are, abd obce you're not at the top they'll leave you cut them out ...DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!

    • @misscornicat
      @misscornicat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have already done something great keep it up. People always have problem so just ignore them, it's your life and you should live to its fullest. Have a good day

    • @elina15yiwantsexopenmyvide70
      @elina15yiwantsexopenmyvide70 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💙😍💋💚

    • @violettelovesjesus8888
      @violettelovesjesus8888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you.

    • @evelynschlosser8088
      @evelynschlosser8088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks a lot. That was just what I needed to hear. I love your attitude. Thanks for being strong. It gives me the strength to try the same with my passion.

  • @ryu7408
    @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm Sorry
    For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.

  • @Talkinglife
    @Talkinglife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Giving yourself a break. Most people feel like they don't work as hard as they actually do, which leads to many guilty thoughts

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.u

  • @xokay9152
    @xokay9152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Psych to go are really killing the upload game ! You guys know EXACTLY when to upload omg?

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We hope our content has helped you :) Did you relate to any of these points?

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.g

  • @Melly16yr10
    @Melly16yr10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1 ashamed of not being productive enough.
    2 not asking for help
    3 spending to much time on my phone.
    4 being jealous or Evy of others success
    5. Not being in a relationship, romantic wise.
    Yeah these things bother me all the time and at the same time terrified of them to.

    • @patricksedjro1764
      @patricksedjro1764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      3. Spending too
      4 ) why would you be envious of another person

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has kept shifting, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.j

  • @missrelaxed3872
    @missrelaxed3872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I felt guilty for literally choosing my happiness! It has increased my anxiety and stress!! Thank you for creating such wonderful videos! Your voice makes me sooo happy & Relaxed!
    Yes I have been guilty for saying NO and also felt guilty for ending a toxic relationship

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.I

  • @its_the_ghostly_z812
    @its_the_ghostly_z812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ack- I broke down crying at 2. didn't expect it. it took me so off guard.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.I

  • @kenn0716
    @kenn0716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this channel change my life

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has kept shifting, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.o

  • @caimacd
    @caimacd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Some people SHOULD feel guilty for their success. If their success is at the cost of others, siphoned off the labour or money of others, it's literally sociopathic NOT to feel guilt about being successful in that context.

    • @mazeltov4576
      @mazeltov4576 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So a CEO should feel bad for leading a successful company?

    • @caimacd
      @caimacd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mazeltov4576 well yeah. They are making money off the labour of others. They're literally exploiting people on a mass scale. If you don't feel some guilt about that there is probably something wrong with your wiring.

    • @tsaszymborska7389
      @tsaszymborska7389 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Interesting that someone from MS says that...
      You’re right of course. I just hope that Bill Gates feels guilty sometimes.

    • @caimacd
      @caimacd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tsaszymborska7389 lol. It's a joke name dude

    • @mazeltov4576
      @mazeltov4576 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@caimacd Except literally all businesses do that. Labour is required for success. This is an extremely unrealistic take on reality. No, not all leaders should feel bad for having people work under them. That is how companies work. There's a difference between running a sweatshop and running an IT company.

  • @abeer_belle
    @abeer_belle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People make me doubt myself & my choices .. that what i want career wise for example, is not the right choice.
    The world is overwhelming & I'm scared of it .. I spend days crying
    However, I still do my best .. 🌸

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.l

  • @aliengurluwu6976
    @aliengurluwu6976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Through this video.. I learned im the *Definition of feeling Guilty*

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.g

  • @notaneboyofficial1679
    @notaneboyofficial1679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Me: doesn’t trust my therapist
    Also me: trusts you who I never spoke to

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.a

  • @nyjhabeck5955
    @nyjhabeck5955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ahh... Psych2go, you always come right on time for me. Thank you for all the great content.

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They always cover topics that is SO relevant to what's going on in my life

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.d

  • @devidaughter7782
    @devidaughter7782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "you deserve to be a priority in your own life. your wants and needs shouldn't have to come second to everyone else's" (3:13). . . "nobody has the right to ask you to prioritize them over yourself" (4:54). . . "there is no shame in wanting what's best for yourself, even if it sometimes comes at the expense of other's feelings or convenience" (5:18)

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.a

  • @robertserban2422
    @robertserban2422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Nobody:
    My brain in the weekend when i am playing games in school year:you know....you should really feel guilty that you are not working constantly,that is why you perform like you do....cuz you're relaxing when you could do productive things

    • @trusttheprocess4775
      @trusttheprocess4775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's me even when I take a break. I always think that I have to be doing something productive and better, be it school work, or anything else. I always have to be ON. it sucks man

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.j

  • @adelante302
    @adelante302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel guilty because i'm in love with someone and i really want this relationship with him. But I think i'm annoying to him by talking to him everyday 😕

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.d

  • @thefrustratedneetaspirant7777
    @thefrustratedneetaspirant7777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You should never feel guilty for being sexually assaulted. When I was probably 4 or 6 one of my uncles harassed me ( not exactly rape but still sexual assault) and I didn't complain to my mom.. he would often do it when no one was around and once my mom saw him doing stuff with me ...my mom scolded me for not telling her and told to me that I am a nasty kid and said that I enjoyed it. This thing stuck with me for my entire life ..I always blamed myself for that but now I realise it wasn't my fault.. I was a kid and didn't know how to react.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.q

  • @hiagain1463
    @hiagain1463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    **flashback to the time I felt I was somehow "pulling the victim card" for being sick and felt guilty for having the flu**

    • @shushsi5003
      @shushsi5003 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      don't ever feel guilty for helping your body, think of it this way you could have made everyone sick but u didn't cause u did the right thing and now people can pay their bills on time cause they don't have to stay, home your a hero!

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.d

  • @raindayyedits5275
    @raindayyedits5275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Psych2go : there is no need to feel guilty to ask for help
    Me : ask my mom to help me with my homework
    My dad hearing it : NO youre smart you dont need help you're just gonna waste your mom's time
    Me : literaly Cries my eyes out

    • @HystericalDark
      @HystericalDark 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats not right...I mean, them not offering you help

    • @raindayyedits5275
      @raindayyedits5275 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HystericalDark mehIm over it that was years ago

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.l

  • @PremierRikLatyeskov
    @PremierRikLatyeskov 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes toxic people make you feel guilty about the other topics that you talked about in this video, so I'd say cutting yourself off from those people, no matter if they're longtime friends, random people you know on the Internet, or SO's, it's incredibly important to keep an eye out for toxicity in people. I've dealt with this more times than I can count, and honestly I've felt so much better about myself each time because I've prioritized my own happiness. Sometimes my guilt over cutting certain people off made me feel bad and try and be friends with them again after they would apologize, only for me to say "oh here they go being toxic again" when they repeat the same behaviors I cut them off for,. The moral of that story is this: don't let those people take advantage of your kindness, no matter what they say or do to make themselves seem different.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.j

  • @samnosce1080
    @samnosce1080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    No pun intended but I'm guilty of doing these actions. Guilt, shame, and self punishment is a mental torture especially went you try to find the truth as to why and making peace. Not a great mental state to be from experience. I pray and wish people who knows that pain finally find peace.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.g

  • @TakecenterStage
    @TakecenterStage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really, really needed this one. Thank you for posting this.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.g

  • @kroyssysys
    @kroyssysys 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    TYSM I FELT TOO BAD,BLAMED and HATED MYSELF FOR ALL MISTAKES I DID, BEFORE I WATCHED THIS!

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has kept shifting, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.I

  • @teddyducksworth9662
    @teddyducksworth9662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How can I deal with toxic family members? Like moms, grandparents, dads.

    • @StrongMajor1178
      @StrongMajor1178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't know but I can try to help you

    • @teddyducksworth9662
      @teddyducksworth9662 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@StrongMajor1178 Thanks

    • @StrongMajor1178
      @StrongMajor1178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@teddyducksworth9662 You can pray to God. Your parents may be toxic but God is not toxic. God can help you

    • @sharonisalwaysfreezing
      @sharonisalwaysfreezing 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It can be very hard to change their behaviour or have them see it from your perspective. What is really important is to keep taking care of yourself. What always helped me was taking time for myself, or going out and doing things with friends or on my own. It doesn't have to be anything special, maybe just going for a walk, but just getting away from the situation for a bit helps.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.a

  • @mohamedabdullahi1665
    @mohamedabdullahi1665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s kinda difficult to stop feeling guilty

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.

  • @shreyah9938
    @shreyah9938 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel really helps me when I think that I am the only one feeling something. It helps me sort out my thoughts almost like I am talking to someone. Is it just me?

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.b

  • @shadowofthedarkness7321
    @shadowofthedarkness7321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel guilty after eating..idk why

    • @appelsiini465
      @appelsiini465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol I used to feel guilty after drinking milk 😂

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.j

  • @a.cnugget0323
    @a.cnugget0323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have verbally emotionally Abusive parents its mostly my step father though that Abuses me
    He used to be physical in some way

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.d

  • @405OKCShiningOn
    @405OKCShiningOn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to bring my journal to this upload.
    I'm toxic and I'm certain my isolation is for their good.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has kept shifting, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.

    • @405OKCShiningOn
      @405OKCShiningOn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ryu7408
      thank you. That's alot to add to or relate to the hoponono prayer at TH-cam. I tune into vortex success Jessica Heslop Jason Stephenson Micheal Sealy at TH-cam as part of pieces to hear and learn from and/or incorporate into healing.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@405OKCShiningOn You are welcome. I hope you can absorb something useful from it. ❤️☯️🙂

  • @chonkthedog7002
    @chonkthedog7002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    👋 love you guys, you make my life easier and i respect you.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much

    • @chonkthedog7002
      @chonkthedog7002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Psych2Go yes, I blame my self for not being perfect, thanks for making me notice that and I’m getting better, thanks

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.

  • @saratabone2643
    @saratabone2643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If nobody is perfect, than aren´t we perfect at not being perfect?

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.m

  • @FynnLivesInTheVoid
    @FynnLivesInTheVoid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for making these videos. It's a nice way to pretty much have a therapy session for free, where the therapist explains how to fix problems you have.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway.g

  • @will_beatle166
    @will_beatle166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The last one hit me hard😅

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see! What do you plan to do next after realizing this? :)

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.n

  • @taqi5675
    @taqi5675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    what if i see the guilt to be happy as weakness or faulty wiring of my body, i wonder why people are not born equal?

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has kept shifting, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.

  • @albatross1688
    @albatross1688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'd also like to add, so many people feel guilty for being idle, as if they need to constantly be doing things to satisfy some notion of "being productive". For me, being productive is what my work week is for. How I spend my time outside of that, school and volunteering is my business.

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.g

  • @IBY-zx2jp
    @IBY-zx2jp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Regular men don't forgive for their guilty"
    "Wise men forgive even if they are right"

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry
      For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow. "Anyway", is the word that enables me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice.d

    • @IBY-zx2jp
      @IBY-zx2jp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ryu7408 i feel you brother

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IBY-zx2jp ❤️☯️🙂