How To Talk To Your Crush In The Hallway at School
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.ย. 2018
- Are you nervous about talking to your crush in the hallway at school? Are you ready to approach your crush and start a conversation? What if they're with their friends? What if you don't know what to say? Here's a step by step guide on what to do so you can talk to your crush in the hallway with ease.
It's awkward walking up to someone in the hallway when you don't really know them, but, it's possible to establish an instant connection with them. Here are my #Motivational Tips for #TalkingToYourCrush and learning how to #BeYourBestSelf!
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Remember, if you walked up to your crush and started a conversation - you are already a champion
Unless u walked up to her before knowing what to say now she thinks ur a creep😃
Anybody can approach their crush. We just dont know what to say
@@whooiseli yeh
Thanks for the compliment
Thanks bro🥹
The 3 second rule doesnt work if i cant count cause i forgot everything about everything when i see my crush
Fax
Damn sux my crush is my 2nd best friend
Your whole mind is just like SHT SHT SHT SHT SHT DONT FCK UP!
same here
Me too
*sees crush*
*walks*
*4seconds passes*
Me:oOohH nOo 3 sEcoNds hAve pAssEd
Josh is lowkey my life-saver.
Thanks Adrian, it really means a lot to me
What if u overthink it before u see them 🤣
Josh really has a video on every topic 😳
haha almost!
Fr
Low key that’s so true
@@TheJoshSpeaks my g your clutch bruh
@@SomeGuy-fl1gz lol I remember watching this to prepare myself for asking out my crush got rejected but I’m hype cause for the first time in in my life I approached a girl and it was the most popular girl in my highschool people were scared to do tot but I knew I had it in me stay blessed brother
I’ve never been so down bad 😂
Not down bad, I’d say down bad is looking at porn and shit
Same bro😭
then why u watchin 😭
it’s so easy to talk to her on text.. we have so many conversations but we are both so awkward and shy irl.. she is even more awkward than i am, and i try to not make her uncomfortable :,)
My crush has been starting to look at me in my class more. Thanks to you I'm going to try to start saying hi to her
Same😂
how did it go
Broo !!!
Is she your gf now
Plz replay ?
They got married then got divorced
I would easily get nervous then I would start over thinking from one thought to another.
That's pretty common reaction, the key really is to push yourself little by little to get more comfortable so you can eventually just walk right up to them and talk to them
@@TheJoshSpeaks Thank you so much for the advice and the encouragement that you given me. I will use it to my advantage and you help me out a lot. Once again, thank you.
I’m pretty good at keeping my cool in any situations
This video is about 2 years old and it has helped me realise, what can actually go wrong when talking to the girl you like...sure you possibly could get denied, but with girls there are trial and error.
I don't say hi to my crush because his friends are always near him, and I'm just not confident enough :(
I know what you mean by don't walk to them directly. And walk to the side. That's what I've been trying to do, and my crush actually seems to do the same. Thanks to you, I've learned so much. You da best!
The problem is...
when someone is talking to another person of a different gender. My whole school blows up with rumors that they’re dating or he likes her. Then it becomes super awkward
Visor Tactual hate when that shit happens same at my school
Same
Facts
Great video but, what if your crush doesn't even know you.
Same issue for me
Umm get to know them? Just talk to them... use josh's videos if u still think this is a challenge
In the beginning your crush may not know who you are and that's why you should approach them and their group of friends if that's who they're with just to ask a question. You can check out my video on how I asked that my first girlfriend to learn how I did that and approaching her when I didn't really know who she was
Same..
Same issue
im so nervous and so shy ): I try to do the 3 second rule with other girls and its easy but with my crush its a whole different story . I see her alone sometimes and I just wish I could just go for it but my body says " shes too good for you" or " shell break your heart" ): ): ):
If you can't do the 3-second rule, don't do it. Introduce yourself like you. Of course, it may take a few attempts but you will grow the courage overtime
lol pussy boi
@@Oliver-st3we that is so ironic the way u just phrased dat
Me too
Hey there, its super easy but I know its hard for you. I just want to let you know that I was an introvert and got tired of my life being shy and not talking to people. After so many tries and changing my mindset to what I need to do to overcome my fear helped me but one thing I want to tell you is that all you need to do is be confidence with yourself and go up to the person you want to talk to and say the magic word hello/hi . Just introduce with hello, how are you or something funny if you can. My name is Azraf by the way. I was an introvert and didn't know what do when I need to talk to people but it took me more than a year to learn all of these. Now I am confidence and I can walk up to any person and start talking. Just gotta to be confidence and just go do it. I know it take lots of guts and confidence to do all these but I had the same problems with my life and now everything changed. I personally talk to Jose for lots of ice breakers and other things to talk to group of people and meeting new people. It was very helpful. Anyway, if you want to talk to your crush or make a friend with that cute or just be friend with whoever you want, all you have to do is go up to them and start talking. Don't give a damn about what other people think and make sure when you meet a new person, you know how to act cool , when I say act cool I meant be confidence of course and have good eye-contact but don't be creepy and smile please, its free too. Its gonna be freaking weird and awkward when you meet new person even after 10000000000 tries so keep going but don't give up and relax and take baby steps. Hope all these help you and anyone reading this too. My name is Azraf again and English is my second language so please excuse any mistake, I got really good at these even though English is my second language so believe in yourself and you can do it too.
me: "hey" *shy voice*
him: *not hear me cause my voice was too low and I didnt realize I wasnt talking loud enough*
me: *Depressed* he ignored me...
Guys are easier to approach if a girl just asked me out itd be weird but id have a good convo with her not some disrespectful shit that girls do and straight up reject guys
You know how happy I would be if a girl just said hi to me
@@cjcjcjcj734 watch as the guy starts making fun of you with his friends 🧍🏻♀️
Holy *heck*, this guy knows his audience
My goal is to help teens and young adults learn how to be their best self, this is just one step along the process
My biggest problem isn't necessarily that I'm too awkward (which I am), but it's more because my crush is even more awkward than me
Update? I'm the same rn
@@nyew_thrizz One day I got the courage to ask her out and she said yes! Now we're engaged and expecting our first child! I'm so lucky to have her.
@@ethanhat5696 the good ending❤
@@ethanhat5696 What the heck? That turned out extremely well. So happy for you
Whats holding me back is my confidence
Perfect timing for this. I have a crush on a girl in one of my classes and I want to start talking to her. Thanks for the tips
Very awesome video Josh keep up the good work. During the 2nd semester my freshman year in high school, every day during passing period I have seen my crush in the hallway at the very beginning of passing period between 1st and 2nd period. Whenever I have seen her I’ve always had a nice conversation with her each day. I’ve also been walking with her and doing nice things for her as well as saying nice things about her.
Great video Josh, I agree with you on using the 3 (or 5) second rule to push yourself.
Perfect timing my guy
No doubt, I hope this is helpful!
The Josh Speaks Thanks! This is just What i need!
Oh yeah yeah
Perfect timing, Josh 👍
I needed this last week my dude, schools out for me now.
You always know exactly what I need! The new video most recently (very recent) is also gonna be helpful, im just watching this first! 😂
I always see my crush in the Hallways Always?😂
Thanks Josh, great video as always 👍
Thanks man, i'm glad you enjoyed it
omg I needed this so much! 😍
maybe you could make a video on pros and cons of dating apps like tinder?
For me every time I see my crush I literally die inside, and usually whenever I see her she’s with a friend which sucks.
Josh, you should make a video on how to approach and talk to awkward people. I want to talk to my crush but its not just me whos awkward she is to. That might seen it would make it easier but it doesn't. Love you vids btw
This was on my birthday, thanks BTW!
Happy Birthday!!!
This is really helpful thx alot
My problem is the fear of rejection or embarrassment.
Like fr if you try to tell that u like her it’s gonna get really real and inteanse
This came into my recommendations at the right time
Bro tysm, you have no idea how much you helped me
No lie, this is exactly what I needed.
That's great to hear Brandon, I hope the video was helpful and you can take action now in talking to your crush
I want to be the one to start a conversation with my crush but I’m really shy at school and I don’t know how to not be shy anymore
I have watched lots of these type of videos and honestly this is the best one and some real smart Advice .
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@@thomasacamel5309 haha best car out there
This is very helpful. Although, I still can't build courage to even talk to her. What to do?!
Literally watching this in school and looking at my crush lol.
I needed this
I hope it was helpful Alexander
Me going to my crush then 1 second later asta la vista 😂
hasta*
@@skeptic781 **pasta
I don’t need the advice most of your vids give personally but you need more subs cause you have good content and more
This one girl today approached me while I was with my friends but they didn't think nothing of it. She is a cute, red hair, bluish green eyed girl that is in my geography class. She asked me questions like "Do you like anyone?" and asked me where my locker was and when I showed her she seemed happy that her locker wasn't far from mine. She seemed to look me very deep in my eyes and talked with a gentle higher pitched voice. I take these as signs she likes me. Since my locker is close to her's, I can talk to her. She says "I'm chill" and stuff so I am thinking of starting off with her. Any tips?
I am grade 9 two weeks in, I look older than I am and this seems to attract a lot of girls. So I can use that too.
I love your vids
omg the 3 second rule is genius ill use that because thats exactly what happened i had the perfect opportunity to approach them but overthinked and couldnt
as son as you start walking there is no going back
Today I was planning to start a conversation, my best friend was with me. When he was near I told my friend “omg here he is.” Talking to my friend near him in the area makes my voice gone or very veryyy low. Idk how it happens but I get this weird feeling in my body that prevents me from going and saying “hi”.
How can one be so confident yet so incredibly shy
Great vid
Thanks man, I hope it inspires you in some way
How do you make it not so awkward when you say hi to them in the hallway for the first time? I feel like it would be really weird if you have never talked to her and just randomly say hi out of nowhere. Could be just me idk
@The Josh Speaks I have a crush on a girl and let's just say her name is Mary who I usually pass in the hallways every day. I've actually already introduced myself to her, but now I don't know what to say. The only thing I know about her is that she once cried on a school field trip roller coaster, but I don't know whether to bring that up or not. Another challenge is that she usually walks on the opposite side of the hallway from me. Should I purposely walk on the other side as she passes or should I wait until she's on the same side of the hallway?
I'm always going the opposite way, so I can only say "hello."
My crush is rly quiet and she’s new this year and so she is only other like one of her fitness at a time
I want to join my crushs friend group and i was wondering how to do it. @josh, can you give me tips on how to?
you know you are the best, bro but i think when i approche him and say hi he will say who the fu.. is she because he doesnt even know me i once told him in the chemistry class"hey do you have a chemistry test ?" i was super energitic that day so it went so slow then he said yeah " i wished him good luck and the most stupid thing i did was that i " FLIRTED" without noiticing my self shittt then i laughed akwardly then when he was getting out of class i said bye and he smiled so this was the best thing i ever done with him even though its silly but it really means to me .i want to talk to him again before christmas holiday comes i just feel nervous .
I'll try😣
I have a different question. How do you approach your crush if they already know you like them? My crush knows I like him because everyone in my year group found out in school but we don't talk. If i see him in the hallways i want to start a causal conversation asking if he did the homework or something like that but will anything change if he already knows that I like him? He doesn't approach me and i don't approach him. I also worry that if I do approach him in front of his friends they may start to tease me for liking him. What do I doooooo?
Question how do I idk it’s like me and her r weird we look at each other in class and we smile at each other but when we near each other we don’t say nothing and idk if she likes me cause she talks to other people plz help
Here’s my plan ima nod my head at her on Monday so she knows what’s up then the next day I’ll do mediation to give me confidence and say what’s up
I live in other country, and strangers don't usually talk each other. And i always fear if she will react and see me wierd, or just see me like a guy who not respect girl. Do you have any tips to start my conversation, so she doesn't see me weird?
Me: hi
Her: what do you want
i just wanted to talk or i thought you were cute so I came over to meet you or maybe ask her a question
Hello. A week ago i walked up to her 4-5 times. But because of the annoying sudden facebook messages i sent her she ignores me. So i let it go and didn't talk to her anymore. Maybe she think that i will be an annoying person to her if she keep talking to me. I wanna fix it
Awesome video josh but sigh now me and her cant be tgt now :(
3 seconds pass
nobody:
my face:
my mind: ALR GO AHHHHH GO DO IT DO GOOOOOOOOOO AHHHHHHHHH ASUIGGIAUHUDHUGHUDS WALK WHY AREN'T MY LEGS WORKING ANYMORE
What holds me is the 1 minute till I have to get to the other class
I did it and it went pretty well!!!
Update?
@@nyew_thrizz Nothing really came of it but that helped me get rid of my social anxiety and now I can talk to girls with no trouble.
Hi Josh
The thing holding me back is that he's a year older than me! He doesn't know me, but one time we passed each other and made eye contact for longer than nOrMaL people do. He was also muttering something while walking past a different time. Idk what that was about. The one conversation we had was him rick-rolling me and me saying: that was so rude!
Idk where this will end up, but tell me what u think will happen or whatever. 😁🤪
What prevents me is thatwe don't know well each other that's why I don't approach. She might think I am creepy or weird but if I join her group I not only I will make friends but I will also make my crush notice me and it won't be so weird when I will say hi.
I always approach girls if it’s the mall or something, but in school it’s kind of a closed environment. I don’t wanna look like a creep or something and end up being known by others as a creep. The girl I want to approach is also a year older than me so it would just look weird and she doesn’t even know I really exist.
What if i get rejected and were on the same class. That would be awkward.
I’ve done this. Didn’t go well for me
Guys if you think that your crush is "too good for you", or even subconciously you think that she's better than you, jump into self-improvement and get some self-esteem so that she seems equal or below you
My crush knows that I exist and I am a friend with one of her best friends. We talked once but it just feels unnatrual to start talking with someone you have talked to only once before. I have your guide but I cant just ask her hey whats your fav book when we spoke only once. She is always with one of her friends(with the one I know the most) and asking a group question just seeks unnatrual. I dont know its not easy at all. The real problem is that my friends that I am good with are her friends. That also seems weird. They always hang out in a group. I have a feeling that we know each other but at the same time we dont because we never speak. I am not a stranger to her but neither a friend that she at least talks with a little bit. I dont know ehat to do. Should I just ask her out on Social Media or try to get closer to her? BTW I watched all your vids and love your content. Love and Peace
Ok So the first day I talk to her was on Monday before Spring break and I got to talk to her for a little then we splited off quickly when she was going to 5th period so then Tuesday morning after advisory I tried walking up to her I didn't know what to say and I accidentally said Hi 2x afterwards she seemed a bit irritated so she was like you don't wanna be late for class and I then responded after saying right I'll head to class now afterwards I felt bad Because I felt if I'd apporach her again I would mess up what do I do?
I felt awkward because we both texting to each other for a long time but we never talk in person at school and I really want to approach her but I think its too late because girls doesn't like when people waiting and also her friends always with her and I dont know how I could start conversation with them..... What should I do? Should I continue this or should I stop this and move on to her? Thanks for the help!!
I think i have some disorder or something because i feel this like strong sensation at the thought of even approaching a girl
Theres a school dance coming up at my school I really wanna ask out my crush because I think she likes me too. I dont have any classes except pe with her but I do see her in the hallway and we make eye contact pretty often. I dont even know her name but I really want to ask her out what to i do?
My crush is always with her friend in the hallway and doesn’t really know me what should I do? Please respond
i'm going into 9th grade and i'm scared that i'm going to overthink things and not get a girlfriend.Like i dont have the best luck with girls but i hope this will give me a chance at love and happiness.
What if your crush liked you in fourth grade and you liked her backed but didn’t know she liked you at the time and then it’s been four years and you haven’t talked sense
but not being direct can put you in the friendzone if youre not carefull. and showing your intentions to only her in a Group of friends is extremly awkward
Bad boy
4 days left till the school closes I really need to do something before the school closes
So what happened
Tiski_Jukka he died
It’s just so hard, I’m not a shy kid but when it comes to walking up to my crush. I can’t do it, is there a way I could get her to approach me?
josh i talked to my crush but then it was hard to talk them back the next day so i need help to talked them back can you help me with that
What if u on the same school but not on same grade and only see her sometimes in hallways plus what kind of question should I ask her it would be prob. Weird if I just said hi and start talking is kind of strange
Is there another way to start a conversation bruh
Yo so there us this girl that i really vibe to alot, we have been exchanging stares in class for a while now and its getting kinda aquard i want to approach her but i just dont know how and i have the feeling that when i do approach her it will be aquard but idk what do yall think
You know me too well Josh
My crush is always talking to people while in the hallways. What do I do? Because I don’t want to interrupt his conversation
So I like this girl at church
And I can feel the vibes , that she looks at me very often . I usually go up to girls and say "hey what's up girl"
But since its in church , i have to respect the house of the lord .
Im afraid to confront my feelings to her
Last Sunday she caught me talking to this random girl , I was about to leave because I cant talk to my crush , I hate getting rejected.
Before I was about to leave i heard her voice say "What was that about?"
I kept quiet & I just rolled my eyes and walked out the door.
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How can I overcome my shyness
How can i overcome being frozen
How can I be brave of myself
How can I make it up to her?
I feel that she got jealous
Do you think i should give her a single rose 🌹? On the 9th , Sunday service
Because i wont be able to see her on Valentine day (14) .
It Says How many Times Do You See Your Crush
MULTIPLE TIMES
ONCE A DAY
NEVER
Me:Never Because I'm in The 4th Grade And I Dont Have One
One Of My Freinds That's a Girl:Evreyone In this Class Exept me And you and your Pretty cute
Me:What The Hell
I don’t know if you’ve made a video on this already, but I don’t know how to move forwards with my crush, we are already friends and I’m just stumped.
It's always okay to flirt or ask em out. Don't be afraid, just try and go with the flow.
Whats holding me back? Depression and anxiety :(
LMAO
Everytime i see my crush i just lose all of my words
I’ve been talking to this girl for a while and I’ve asked her to go on a dare a few times but she says that she never has time and is always busy what should I do thanks
If she repeatedly says she doesn't have time she might be trying to let you off easy, or it might just be you're asking the wrong times. Point being, it's probably worth finding out, either by asking her directly (politely) or maybe finding out from a friend of hers if she's actually interested.
This is Denise's son: what's holding me back? Her looks