1-on-1 & Done - The Bachelor WEEK 6 Recap (Zach's Season)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.พ. 2023
  • The Bachelor season 27 continues into week 6 as Zach Shallcross and the women are headed to Estonia! This week we see Charity get her make-up 1-on-1 from last week thrown off when a kiss from Kat is stolen before the date even begins. So how does this kissing drama effect the rest of the dates and who's headed home saying she wants a 1-on-1 or she's done? Check it all out in this latest recap of The Bachelor Week 6 (season 27 episode 6)!.
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  • @BachelorFantake
    @BachelorFantake  ปีที่แล้ว +302

    What are the odds Zach asks Greer "what are you doing back?" when she shows up again next episode?

    • @Kaz_NZ
      @Kaz_NZ ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Lol! 😂 "wait... what? I didn't send you home already ?"

    • @vivianclarke246
      @vivianclarke246 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂

    • @NathanMellor
      @NathanMellor ปีที่แล้ว +74

      "You getting Covid is STILL not like me getting Covid."

    • @laurieemme1534
      @laurieemme1534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NathanMellor 🤣🤣

    • @kimlaffont9951
      @kimlaffont9951 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@NathanMellor 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
    @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 ปีที่แล้ว +1066

    “I don’t think respect ever shifts though.”
    Ariel is really too good for Zach and this show.

    • @laurieemme1534
      @laurieemme1534 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Agree!

    • @discardme222
      @discardme222 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@exnihilonihilfit6316 that’s exactly what she said lol

    • @Varaidzo1
      @Varaidzo1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love Ariel

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@exnihilonihilfit6316 I think she was more so subtly calling out that Kat was reworking this story and coming up with new rules on the spot to save face. Honestly if Kat just owned it I’d have more empathy for her, but I hate when people do this

    • @kittyhazes5741
      @kittyhazes5741 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I think Zack decided that Kat is a “no” after she told him her vulnerability story. He was trying to start a fight with her after the group date. She will probably be gone next episode.

  • @kendrawheeler
    @kendrawheeler ปีที่แล้ว +1073

    it’s so obvious who he likes and who he doesn’t 😂 if it was katie or gabi who was sick he’d have dropped off snacks and a letter. he said “tell greer to feel better” 😂

    • @AntoinetteSarpong
      @AntoinetteSarpong ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💯

    • @crazy4orlando2
      @crazy4orlando2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      We all know the first impression rose given by the bachelor is the kiss of death.

    • @mathieuduval7544
      @mathieuduval7544 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      every season its obvious who the bachelor likes the most 😉

    • @teledoink
      @teledoink ปีที่แล้ว +36

      He’s so turned off by drama, except when Kat is involved in which case it’s fine

    • @kendrawheeler
      @kendrawheeler ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@teledoink 😂

  • @sunnyflour4324
    @sunnyflour4324 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    He’s so rude. Like how is he going to tell Jess “Oh but it’s not about a one-on-one” and then tell the audience “I’m so glad Ariel and I had this one-on-one. It really gave us the time to connect.”

    • @ccrisc100
      @ccrisc100 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      He is lucky Jess is not confrontational. I would have ripped him a new one for that comment before leaving. Lol

    • @tigerroselili5765
      @tigerroselili5765 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      That was weird. I think it was an excuse to send her home. He knows who he wants and the rest are dispensable

    • @sunnyflour4324
      @sunnyflour4324 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@tigerroselili5765 He doesn’t have any empathy. Anytime any of the girls bring up something they feel in the situation or make any comment that’s not happy/bubbly, he’s like: you’re out

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@sunnyflour4324 Dude really wondering why he’s single 😂😂

    • @itszaque5031
      @itszaque5031 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh please you’re kidding right?? That’s not rude, those are 2 completely different conversations about 2 different people, and both can be true at the same time. Jess DESTROYED her chance at the end there by not listening when Zach was trying to reassure her.

  • @aidak3341
    @aidak3341 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    I don’t like how quickly Zach switches when the women say something slightly wrong. He went from “I’m confident” in us with Jess in the blink of an eye to “I’m not confident”. His whole body language changed. I guess we know why he’s single… they really need to start having older, more mature leads!

    • @spidavenom4
      @spidavenom4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@exnihilonihilfit6316 if Jess was the only gal he wouldn’t have done that

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +119

      He makes me so anxious. The kind of guy you’re walking on pins and needles to make happy

    • @xxmakeuplover05xx
      @xxmakeuplover05xx ปีที่แล้ว +107

      He's allergic to women with negative emotions and that's just so unrealistic for the real world. I get not wanting drama but he simply has no conflict-resolution skills and it's gross to see

    • @Userhandleidk
      @Userhandleidk ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yessss thank you

    • @Userhandleidk
      @Userhandleidk ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@exnihilonihilfit6316 hardly a meltdown.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    I think Zach has made it extremely clear with his choices that he likes woman that are outwardly confident, and do not need any assurances. His love language is clearly not word of affirmation 😂.

    • @AnaPie896
      @AnaPie896 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Yea I no longer have questions about why him and Rachel crashed and burned 😅

    • @joshsinglefooter
      @joshsinglefooter ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jess doomed herself

  • @bt2598
    @bt2598 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Zach couldn’t even explain to Jess why he was confident in their connection. He was giving her platitudes in hopes of keeping her around but wasn’t doing anything to get to know her better. He acts like he wasn’t the bachelor and doesn’t understand how important 1-1s are!

    • @vivvelsene63
      @vivvelsene63 ปีที่แล้ว

      IF IT had been a man demanding a one-on-one from the bachelorette - the comment section would be going berzerk questioning his toxicity.

    • @Miranda-gi9fx
      @Miranda-gi9fx ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@vivvelsene63 She did not demand, she expressed her insecurities. If she was demanding, people would have called her out. Why do people lack nuance these days and make false equivalencies...

    • @vivvelsene63
      @vivvelsene63 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Miranda-gi9fx even a man expressing his "insecurities" get called out most of the time - we have seen that enough in previous seasons... there is no nuance when a man does it

  • @RS-ry3iz
    @RS-ry3iz ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Zach shuts down the moment he encounters something he doesn't like. He is quick to dismiss things.

    • @itszaque5031
      @itszaque5031 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What would you rather see, a bachelor who eliminates anyone with red flags (even if that woman was a frontrunner before) or situations like Rachel and Gabby where they keep around the guys who show red flags throughout the season, only to have record break ups after their season airs. I don’t think people in the comments are being fair to Zach, he’s the first lead in AGES to listen to his head as much as his heart.
      I personally think he was totally down to keep Jess until she freaked out about one on ones. While I don’t think the connection was anything insanely strong, I do think she at least had a chance if she hadn’t overreacted. She probably would have got one of the one-on-ones this week and then who knows what happens. I don’t think she’s the final pick, but what Zach did is not wrong. She’s the one to blame for her elimination.

    • @ch9476
      @ch9476 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@itszaque5031 I would rather him say his real reason for letting someone go than to wait for them to make a little word mistake and try to trap them into looking bad so that he is scott free. He has known his favorites from week one.

  • @Kaz_NZ
    @Kaz_NZ ปีที่แล้ว +552

    That bit you did on Zach's "I'm now not interested in Jess" moment is sooo spot on 😂😂😂

    • @marysketch4772
      @marysketch4772 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know! We could see it happen graphically right there on the screen. I may have gone through something like that in my life, ha ha.

    • @angelwings7930
      @angelwings7930 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      He’s really such a wuss. Should get an award for Most Shallow Bachelor. He’ll fold up and get a divorce the first time there’s a disagreement if he ever gets married. He’d do better with a BF. 😂

    • @vanillaghetto
      @vanillaghetto ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@angelwings7930 Haha this!

    • @vanillaghetto
      @vanillaghetto ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The "I'm now not interested in even pretending to be interested in Jess" moment".

    • @amandalidey329
      @amandalidey329 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@AngelWings, lol. From what I saw there. Yes, yes, I do agree , He didn't take her feelings into consideration. So she left. Good for her.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    I don't appreciate charity not getting a chance to say what she had to. She deserves to have Kat explain things because she specifically asked Kat to talk. Brooklyn needed to respect that. You can stick up for people without drowning out their voice.

    • @andreamolinar6883
      @andreamolinar6883 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      YES! I was SO mad that Brooklyn decided to get in the middle of it.

    • @Sara-qw7lc
      @Sara-qw7lc ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yeah and Kat was in the middle of talking and maybe she was getting ready to apologize but got interrupted by Brooklyn

    • @oc2538
      @oc2538 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It became a group gang up and she already had them all voice their disdain. Once you get to voice your disapproval, not multiple times because you cannot bully a person to respect you. And Charity sadly needed to tell Brooklyn to back off. Brooklyn was crossing a boundary, asserting herself again. As if Charity is a simpleton who wouldn't be able to suss someone's BS. Also if Charity accepted an apology that's her choice but Brooklyn didn't want any apology to happen. It showed me how nasty Brooklyn can be.

    • @fluffytail6355
      @fluffytail6355 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I see no big deal with what Kat did. Everyone knows he’s dating more than one girl and there’s always going to be one of the group who will be out of line. Go on your date and make him forget Kat.

  • @oliviaclement4577
    @oliviaclement4577 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    Has anyone else noticed that Zach tried to make a comparison to charity’s emotionally abusive relationship? He said he lost himself in his last relationship and couldn’t even remember his taste in music. She was being cheated on over and over again. It’s “not the same,” as Zach would say. Charity could’ve responded to him the way that Zach responded to Greer.

    • @terry-annfrancis1252
      @terry-annfrancis1252 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      Charity didn’t blast him because she isn’t cold blooded as he is.

    • @laurieemme1534
      @laurieemme1534 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes!

    • @a.r.8954
      @a.r.8954 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I think he has an empathy deficit.

    • @AnaPie896
      @AnaPie896 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@a.r.8954 not programmed into the AI 😅

    • @a.r.8954
      @a.r.8954 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@AnaPie896 Someone call Mike Fleiss, his robot is malfunctioning lol

  • @dornian_gray
    @dornian_gray ปีที่แล้ว +286

    I instantly became an Ariel fan when she dropped the "but that IS what you did" bomb at 3:44. So simple but so incisive.

    • @sarahb8073
      @sarahb8073 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@exnihilonihilfit6316 No it's Kat's argument that makes no sense. If respect never goes away, it wouldn't matter if he got Covid. So you can't say you'd "never act that way except for when..." if you agreed that respect should never go away.

  • @rory_gilmores_coffee
    @rory_gilmores_coffee ปีที่แล้ว +241

    I get that the whole point of the show is for Zach to find somebody and he doesn't have much time to do that, but I'm also kind of put off by the way he treats the women he's lost interest in. Like, he gets on Greer for comparing his ~journey~ to find love on the show to her job, when all she was doing was trying to relate to him (wasn't the best comparison, but the intent was obvious) and then he finds out she has COVID and just...doesn't really seem to care at all? I was expecting a Zoom call between the two of them with him at least trying to show concern, but nope.
    & with Jess, he tells her that he's confident in their relationship so she she take his word and not be so insecure about it...but then she gets a little too emotional and voices too many of those insecurities and now all the sudden he decides that he's out, he doesn't like her enough to deal with it and just kind of goes, "your insecurities made me insecure and I'm not confident in us anymore byeeee." Then he sends her home and goes, "that's the last thing I expected from Jess" or something like that, as if it's her fault and she's let him down in some way. It's fine not to be interested in someone anymore, but once he decides that it kind of feels like he starts blaming them for not being the person he wanted them to be. (sorry for the long comment!!)

    • @Maratrushka
      @Maratrushka ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Yes you are so right.
      I didnt expect him to be a low key narc.

    • @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing
      @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Lol never apologize for saying more. You made some really good points that I agree with

    • @daisylucy2
      @daisylucy2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Don't apologize for the long comment! It was right on point. We're starting to see another side of Zach. It's one thing to be honest, but to intentionally hurt someone is wrong and then try and blame Jess for it! She has a right to feel the way she does!

    • @Julescasper
      @Julescasper ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You said it perfect!

    • @xxmakeuplover05xx
      @xxmakeuplover05xx ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You're absolutely right

  • @denisefromdc1796
    @denisefromdc1796 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    I loved Ariel here. She's been so under the radar. I was stanning Charity for Bachelorette, but now I NEED Ariel!!

    • @esoterium22
      @esoterium22 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Ariel is a great catch for a wise man

    • @RamanN00B
      @RamanN00B ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I love her but she is straight up too good for this franchise

    • @nomad6205
      @nomad6205 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I found myself racking my brain for anyone that she could connect with in Paradise and came to the conclusion that she really is far too good for this franchise.

    • @vanillaghetto
      @vanillaghetto ปีที่แล้ว

      Ariel.

    • @MsCelineL
      @MsCelineL ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@nomad6205 Peter Kraus!!!

  • @merrilew
    @merrilew ปีที่แล้ว +294

    I think Ariel is too smart for Zach; she’s gonna be bored with him before too long

    • @xxmakeuplover05xx
      @xxmakeuplover05xx ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I think he'd resent her too. He seems like the type.

    • @Userhandleidk
      @Userhandleidk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@xxmakeuplover05xx oh 100%

    • @vanillaghetto
      @vanillaghetto ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@xxmakeuplover05xx Any woman that has an opinion is gone. And she lives and works in NYC...and is two years older than him. He is looking for a little wifey that is going to move to him, and take a backseat. Not a sophisticated professional woman.

    • @piumirajapaksha7620
      @piumirajapaksha7620 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@vanillaghetto why do you have to put catherine down? just because in your eyes, she's not a professional woman, she's less?
      01. you don't even know her on a personal level to know what she does
      02. why are we valuing women based on (perceived) career?
      catherine is successfully married, with children, which is arguably one of the hardest jobs in the world. and it says much more about her emotional maturity than your sad little comment here.

    • @xxmakeuplover05xx
      @xxmakeuplover05xx ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vanillaghetto Yeah I feel like his ego would be threatened!

  • @youknowno8552
    @youknowno8552 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    They totally cut something out of Zach and Jess’s conversation. In the previews Zach was more aggressive when talking to Jess but we didn’t see that clip in the episode. I think her reaction in the limo also shows that something was cut out with how angry she was. Also did anyone else catch that when Charity was talking about her abusive relationship Zach compared his insecurities to her abuse. Meanwhile when Greer was trying to compare her experience with COVID to his he got all upset. This dude is something else.

    • @christie5628
      @christie5628 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup- then she gets covid again within the same context as him and he still doesn't care

    • @vanillaghetto
      @vanillaghetto ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He's closet all about Zach.

    • @psyche5348
      @psyche5348 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is a trip. I think he has mental issues. He gets so easily frustrated. How quickly he snapped at Greer and his reaction to Jess was cold and lacked compassion. He seems like he has anger problems. Can you imagine how he is without the cameras around? You probably have to walk on egg shells around him.

    • @vanillaghetto
      @vanillaghetto ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@psyche5348 Seems he has an arrogance problem. And a controlling problem.

    • @sunnyflour4324
      @sunnyflour4324 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He has a weird God Complex or something

  • @teabean7
    @teabean7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "But you did." Best line of the show.

    • @vanillaghetto
      @vanillaghetto ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And her line before it was the second best line of the show.

  • @kathleenpowell5338
    @kathleenpowell5338 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’ve noticed that everyone on their one on one has a traumatic story to tell and that’s how they bond (because they’re being vulnerable). Vulnerability doesn’t always involve traumatic experience. I wish we could see more bonds form from talking about good experiences rather than bad ones!

  • @c-bee2904
    @c-bee2904 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    He really kissed Kat right before going on a date with Charity?! Uh no sir…

    • @pixiestxNyomouf
      @pixiestxNyomouf ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Second Charity has gotten disrespected and hurt when he spotlight is on her..

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I didn’t watch the show live and only watch bachelor fantake but it looked like she went in for the kiss quickly. From my viewpoint it seemed like he barely had time to react.

    • @marysketch4772
      @marysketch4772 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@DottieMinerva Yea in that short clip he seems reasonable, but actually as they were walking away to do it he sort of complimented her (Kat) for doing it (pulling him away) saying it showed spunk or some word like that. And they did kiss three times! I think he owes Charity an apology 100%. Maybe he's gotten carried away kissing girls right and left and can't distinguish anymore when it may be unkind or inappropriate.

    • @gVert404
      @gVert404 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      its literally a competition to win him theres nothing wrong w talking to him for 2 minutes and a kiss

    • @pixiestxNyomouf
      @pixiestxNyomouf ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@gVert404 you are the exact same as Kait and I will repeat what Ariel said to that. Respect. She would be pissed (and was with Anastasia) if the other ladies did it to her

  • @josephine108
    @josephine108 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    Has anyone else comprehended that Ariel doesn't say "like" every other word unlike all of the other women and Zach! By far the most well-spoken person this season. She's such a breath of fresh air and in a class of her own. Absolutely adore her.

    • @pixiestxNyomouf
      @pixiestxNyomouf ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I wonder if they old let her be Bachelorette. She is so likable

    • @thatgirlinautumn5995
      @thatgirlinautumn5995 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      100 % agree with you there - she’s incredibly concise, straight to the point without being rude _or_ dishonest. That‘s rare both on- and off-screen honestly

    • @Ariel-ps8je
      @Ariel-ps8je ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I feel like there's also something about the way she holds herself ❤️

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Nothing wrong with saying “like;” it’s just a femme colloquialism, not a measure of a person’s intelligence

    • @Ariel-ps8je
      @Ariel-ps8je ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@abandonablesnowman 💯 it is just linguistic filler, never understood why people get annoyed by it

  • @kaylyntheimaginary
    @kaylyntheimaginary ปีที่แล้ว +502

    zach cannot seem to understand that “his women” are actually humans, and that to accept an engagement is a two way street. i think all of this has gone straight to his head

    • @bt2598
      @bt2598 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Agree

    • @Maratrushka
      @Maratrushka ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Yes. He doesnt remmember his days of agony. Now gives me some shadows of narcicism.

    • @kittyhazes5741
      @kittyhazes5741 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      He is really feeling himself at this point And his true colors are showing

    • @xxmakeuplover05xx
      @xxmakeuplover05xx ปีที่แล้ว +60

      He like hates when they show any negative emotion and I find that a HUGE red flag! Cause in the real world, you're going to have conflict and your partner may feel sad sometimes about something you did. Each time a woman expresses any negative emotion on this show, he's ready to leave them/kick them off and I just think that's so immature!

    • @angelwings7930
      @angelwings7930 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@xxmakeuplover05xx Yeah. Can’t imagine his beta butt making it through a marriage 😂. He’d be packing his little suitcase at the first sign of anything frown-worthy or even anything deep. 😂. I think he needs a BF not a woman.

  • @j69confessional
    @j69confessional ปีที่แล้ว +64

    His constant dismissive attitude towards women he doesn’t understand is not okay. I give him credit for letting the women try to talk it out with him, but I feel like once he has decided he doesn’t like something a woman has said, his mind is already made up without actually listening to understand what she means. He did it with Greer last week and did it to Jess here. Also he’s probably doing it to producers as well i.e. not giving the roses to the drama for the shows sake.
    Honestly this season really sucks lol
    Also hope Ariel is bachelorette! She’s gorg, smart, fun, and unproblematic.

  • @simonbrushes
    @simonbrushes ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I just come to the realization that I do not like The Bachelor, I just like your recaps of it lol

  • @pigpjs
    @pigpjs ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Never thought I'd see Midsommar clips interspersed with the Bachelor. You have a true talent finding the best/funniest clips that so adequately express the situation.

  • @Mamajoanie123
    @Mamajoanie123 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    The way Zach was talking to Jess turned my stomach! Jess is too good for him!😮

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Most of them are

    • @Bones1220
      @Bones1220 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Jess is so sweet and a little too soft for a love competition I think. She was clear and honest about her feelings and she could have lied in that conversation and said it was fine. He probably would have kept her if she didn’t make a point to say it’s actually really important to her.

    • @daisylucy2
      @daisylucy2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Mine too! I can see where Jess would want a 1 on 1! It does matter. Zach acted like her feelings didn't matter or valid. She, too, deserves better!!

    • @marysketch4772
      @marysketch4772 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She seemed to go on a bit too much about it though, even though he was giving her what she wanted right there. He seemed to be speaking with conviction about her being important to him. She was too far gone to appreciate the shift. And so that's when he subsequently tuned out. I think I may have cause that reaction in a guy or two in my life, when they suddenly disconnect.

    • @Userhandleidk
      @Userhandleidk ปีที่แล้ว +11

      He’s such an immature baby tbh.

  • @Alexandtheworld919
    @Alexandtheworld919 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Zach acted like he’s never been in Jess’s shoes and that irked me.

    • @annabarclay7321
      @annabarclay7321 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah he’s very invalidating to the women having feelings. He’s succumbed to the thing some leads do where they are the only ones that need to be happy.

  • @xxmakeuplover05xx
    @xxmakeuplover05xx ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Am I the only one who thinks Zach was being too aggressive and impatient when talking to Jess?? He seems to have a short fuse and hates any type of conflict and that's just so unrealistic in the real world.

    • @SinaSoh
      @SinaSoh ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m fine with him having a zero tolerance policy for drama and wanting to weed it out. Zack however can use a more calmer tone. I still think he is the best bachelor in years IMO!!!

    • @xxmakeuplover05xx
      @xxmakeuplover05xx ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@SinaSoh He's not the best bachelor at all. Maybe less focused on drama which is fine, but his approach to speaking to the women and his ego get in the way big time. And it's one thing to want to weed out drama and a totally different thing to send home any woman that shows emotion. He has no conflict-resolution skills and that is not ideal for a marriage, where conflict will be inevitable.

    • @kenziej4301
      @kenziej4301 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes which is why I suspect a good half hour was snipped out editing.

    • @SinaSoh
      @SinaSoh ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xxmakeuplover05xx I didn’t say the best bachelor ever. IMO the best in a while (after Sean IMO) up to this point (Juan Pablo was great up to this point in his season too). Zack needs to cut down his animation and his tone and with his wife he can’t leave her if there is conflict (unless physical abuse or infidelity involved). His decision making (for now) is fine. The way he goes about it needs improvement, no doubt about it.

  • @savannahrains8187
    @savannahrains8187 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    They literally erased Greer, lol Zach and the girls were acting like she was eliminated

  • @ceeaich
    @ceeaich ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Thoughts:
    -Brooklyn’s a protector and I like her
    -Cat knew she was wrong, and maybe needs to stop throwing the word “aggressive” around since stealing someone’s date before they leave and kissing them is also an aggressive move.
    -C’mon Zach… that was just disrespectful to Charity
    -I think Cat’s used to being backed up by others (remembering that she was really the only one to speak out to Tazhjuan)
    - Charity or Ariel for Bachelorette
    - Jess was not wrong in feeling “chosen last” (sorry, I don’t really count Greer at this point)

    • @AB-mx1de
      @AB-mx1de ปีที่แล้ว +13

      100% agree! And it is my theory that Brooklyn is absolutely a protector, and was triggered here because of the past abuse she has suffered in her life (speaking from my own experience here).

    • @aliyaha.c
      @aliyaha.c ปีที่แล้ว

      100% agree

  • @francineolguin363
    @francineolguin363 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Zach is starting to give me the ick. Seems like he doesn’t like women who speak up for themselves or challenge his choices. Looks like he feels threatened by them and dismisses them as being to dramatic. So disappointed, thought he was going to be a new breed of man this season. But how awesome are these women this season?!? I find them all to be smart and confident, who sadly through past relationship trauma, are now reclaiming themselves and seeing their worth.

  • @aubreyallen3123
    @aubreyallen3123 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Did Jesse just say Greer is feeling under the weather, but she's asymptomatic? I'm so confused 😂

    • @bt2598
      @bt2598 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He couldn’t shoot straight and say she had covid

    • @bathens4971
      @bathens4971 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I caught that too. She's under the weather one minute, and in the very next sentence, she's fine. Which is it?

    • @peopletopeoplehannah
      @peopletopeoplehannah ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They’re just trying to downplay the fact that she has Covid. She probably is fine but can’t be around people still.

    • @kenziej4301
      @kenziej4301 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      these men make no sense almost like they talk in some sort of bro code 😓

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Shocked that Zach sent Aly home ,but so happy for her that she doesn't have to be with him.

  • @kelleyjohnson7261
    @kelleyjohnson7261 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I don’t understand why Zach wasn’t held to the same standard as Kat. He could have taken that time with Kat and still set boundaries and be respectful to Charity. Making out with a girl before taking another one on a date was so gross

    • @leannewheeler5351
      @leannewheeler5351 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right! He's been a square this whole time, he certainly could have been noble once more for Charity's sake.

  • @jeanienguyen1543
    @jeanienguyen1543 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    idk if it’s my confirmation bias kicking in but i swear during the group date zach kept looking over at kait and gabi so much when speaking

  • @machodgdon
    @machodgdon ปีที่แล้ว +579

    Zach is really starting to lose me. It’s clear at this point he is only primarily interested in Gabi and Kait and everyone else he just treats as backdrops for his season

    • @vivianclarke246
      @vivianclarke246 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      He likes Charity and Ariel too but Kaity and Gabi are definitely his favorite.

    • @0912sooli
      @0912sooli ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Well its just means that he is a normal human being who cant be taht intrested and lead on multiple women at the same time lol

    • @bt2598
      @bt2598 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

    • @marksilla8276
      @marksilla8276 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@0912sooli I mean in that regards yeah, but that literally means he's just stringing the rest along which must definitely not feel great

    • @brookemarie1009
      @brookemarie1009 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s most seasons though. They’re favorites every season

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I loved that charity date was extra long ,and she got alot of screen time. Charity as Bachelorette seems to really be a possibility, and I'm thrilled about it.

  • @meggy0
    @meggy0 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Zach is way too curated this season. He seems to be trying so hard to be this 'great' bachelor that he's boring. Sean had Tierra, and I like that he kept her because he liked her and clearly wanted to see it through, and I admired that. Zach gets rid of any woman that needs something from him or who causes drama, because he thinks it makes him look good, when in fact, it makes him look worse because he can't handle any conflict. He's gonna pick someone, propose, they'll do the whole 'we're planning the wedding', then they'll break up and he'll go on a 'I'm heartbroken' tour to try and snag the role again.

    • @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing
      @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol I hope he isn’t allowed to snag it again 💀 unless he learns a *lot* from his mistakes that you’ve mostly got outlined in your comment, and takes the reigns in a VERY different way than he has this season. This is my first season watching; have they ever recast a lead back into the lead role before?

    • @Maratrushka
      @Maratrushka ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah well if it happens at least now we know how he is now. Needs to mature yet

    • @meggy0
      @meggy0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ClearKnowingFeelingHearing I hope not too, and yes they have! Awhile back, Brad had two seasons a few years apart (I won't spoil it incase you want to watch them, they are great seasons!) and then they really, really wanted Hannah B for back-to-back seasons, but she ultimately declined.

    • @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing
      @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meggy0 Oh ok, thanks so much for filling me in! 😊

    • @highway2heaven91
      @highway2heaven91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ClearKnowingFeelingHearing Brad Womack was the Bachelor in 2007 and 2011.

  • @sandyguinn6059
    @sandyguinn6059 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I hope Zac doesn't try to tell Greer that he knows how she felt having covid. Lol

  • @KarlaElaine100
    @KarlaElaine100 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He seemed so clueless with Jenn. I was proud of her for what she said when leaving.

  • @user-qc3ks6nh9q
    @user-qc3ks6nh9q ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I don't agree with what Kat did before Charity's date at all...but, where is the responsibility for Zach too? He kissed Kat before Charity's one on one. When he could have respectfully declined. I understand maybe it would have been an awkward situation, but I am so sick of women always attacking other women instead of remembering that it always takes two to tango and the man has an *equal part in it.* I also love Brooklyn, but realistically, I don think it was necessary for her to get involved in the private convo with Kat and Charity. EDIT: I realize Charity was the one to pull Kat aside, but still think Charity had the opportunity to speak for herself. Brooklyn didn't need to get involved when Charity had the intention to settle it one on one with Kat. Lastly, I don't think that Jess was wrong by saying one on one time is important. I was surprised Zach was shutting her down. It was very obvious they didn't have ANY connection this whole season- I mean, this is the most screen time the girl has gotten all season. I didn't even know who she was tbh. So she wasn't wrong, I think he just wanted to keep here there for when he got around to her, but seeing how much he has progressed with Gabi and Kaity, I think he was wasting her time.

    • @marysketch4772
      @marysketch4772 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I really think Zach needs to apologize to Charity. He really got that situation wrong. (He even told Kat he admired her spunk for pulling him aside). I think the Bachelor could be a journey to learn on, and he needs to be shown how that was the wrong thing to do. But I'm kind of a fan of Brooklyn's.

    • @s_fashionlover
      @s_fashionlover ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So Brooklyn’s wrong for standing up for Charity against thin lipped Kat?

    • @tjoue3007
      @tjoue3007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea but then he would have looked like an ass for rejecting a woman's kiss. He didn't seem to enthusiastic about it when he did it so I would guess he was thinking about Charity to some extent.

    • @courtneyst.julian8192
      @courtneyst.julian8192 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@s_fashionlover Charity is fully capable of speaking up for herself. Plus, Zach should get all the smoke in this situation, not Kat.

    • @user-qc3ks6nh9q
      @user-qc3ks6nh9q ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@s_fashionlover noooo. I don't think Brooklyn was wrong for that at all. I really like her and I totally support her doing that. I would have done the same thing. I am referring to the situation where Kat pulled Charity aside to talk to her privately and Brooklyn found them and got involved. Then Kat stormed off. I felt like that was an opportunity to squash it between Kat and Charity since that is really who it concerned. and Brooklyn getting involved in *that* scene wasn't entirely necessary.

  • @isabe11e99
    @isabe11e99 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The candle going out on Jess and zach 😂

  • @BoomShakalaka777
    @BoomShakalaka777 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Zach telling Jess that he was confident in their relationship and that's why she hasn't gotten a one on one made it seem to me like he was saying he's going on dates with the women he's not sure about yet and she should just hang in there and wait until the end. But her patience ran thin. I also think Jess was out of his league and he was intimidated by her and sometimes 1-1's can lead to elimination or self elimination.

    • @bt2598
      @bt2598 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      But they never spent quality time together. I really don’t think he invested in the relationship to have any confidence when is why he bailed and didn’t fight for her to stay. He was drunk in that moment if you look at the amount of scotch her had and how he was running his hands through his hair which is why he was all over the place drunk crying

    • @ilexevergreen5405
      @ilexevergreen5405 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But seems only a minute later he decided he doesn't feel confident

    • @BoomShakalaka777
      @BoomShakalaka777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ilexevergreen5405 He was confident that she'd just wait until the end and just watch him go through the motions without getting more intimate on a 1-1. Once he realized that's what she wanted is when he became less confident. Especially knowing there was no way to fix it and go back in time and give her a 1-1. That's why he tried to downplay the notion of a 1-1.

    • @thelexicon7294
      @thelexicon7294 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@BoomShakalaka777 But in downplaying the importance of a 1-on-1 on a marriage reality show, he was just lying. How can you honestly look someone in the eye and say "This isn't about alone time together, but a week from now I'll be deciding whether or not to meet your family, and in a month I have to decide whether or not to marry you"? And that's not even getting into his outright denial that 1-on-1s have routinely become predetermined trauma dumping sessions. This moment made me realize that there's a fine line between taking the process seriously and pretending you aren't a reality TV lead. And Zach has blurred it.

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Saying it’s because he’s confident in them is some real fuckboi shit 😂😂 “We don’t need the labels, baby 🥺”

  • @shooo223
    @shooo223 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I will never, and I mean NEVER, get tired of you using Parks & Rec clips in these recaps. They give me so much joy.

  • @Lunchtable94
    @Lunchtable94 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love how i dont even have to watch this when it actually airs.
    Im gaining all the updates through here lmao

  • @1105pitbull
    @1105pitbull ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He's missing the fact that getting a one on one is a big deal. What a dufus!!!

  • @marykolell6595
    @marykolell6595 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As someone who's primary love language is words of affirmation, I would be gone in like .2 seconds 🤣

    • @SinaSoh
      @SinaSoh ปีที่แล้ว

      (Not with you) but in general I have mixed opinions on people being wanting to be affirmed. Maybe in a relationship or with a family or a very close long time friend being affirmed is important. I totally get that. That’s totally justified.
      My disagreement is when I hear it for people needing it in the workplace from their boss with someone they have conflict with, etc… IMO who cares what others have to say. They don’t need to lift anyone up with words or approval. My philosophy is that (I’m not saying you because I don’t know you or your situation or past history, nor is it any of my business) one should have enough love and belief in themselves (not saying you do or don’t) that they don’t need the validation, approval or co sign of others to feel valued and loved. Just IMO.

    • @kenziej4301
      @kenziej4301 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ikr btw you look like princess Snow White! xo

  • @katiemarie1021
    @katiemarie1021 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It’s so obvious he likes Kaity the most. He’s a smitten kitten when he looks at her and talks to her. Ariel is a big contender too but I just really think it’s going to be Kaity at the end of this

  • @lightlightlight88
    @lightlightlight88 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I feel so confident about us few moments later I don't feel confident - wow this is how he handles a woman puring her heart out - that is a red flag- Guys, or women both should know when someone just needs reassurance - instead he belittled and minimized her feelings instead of giving her validation for her pov which he should know wouldn't be easy for anyone in her position. Good for her for walking away. She is young and beautiful and will be fine.

  • @Maria-ye7vy
    @Maria-ye7vy ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Conspiracy Theory: I think he and Greer had a chat this week where she ended up (self) eliminated and they filmed the Jesse Palmer 'She's feeling under the weather bit' later because they didn't wanted two eliminations like that in one week.

    • @nargles99
      @nargles99 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      That would make sense because I thought it was weird that the women did not mention Greer once!

    • @Userhandleidk
      @Userhandleidk ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oooooohhh I like that!

    • @vanillaghetto
      @vanillaghetto ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But I thought that she comes back next week?

  • @Emxo333
    @Emxo333 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Than you for pointing out j palmer’s creepy spectating at the wife carrying competition 😂😂😂

  • @bt2598
    @bt2598 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The joker bit was HILARIOUS!!!!!

  • @Ashley-ol7kd
    @Ashley-ol7kd ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I'm frustrated that everyone was mad at Kat for that kiss before Charity's date, but no one was mad at Zach? 😒

    • @BlackQueenZi
      @BlackQueenZi ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Finally Thank you !

    • @daisylucy2
      @daisylucy2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I agree! Zach could have said, "Not now. This is about Charity!"

    • @courtneyst.julian8192
      @courtneyst.julian8192 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      EXACTLY

    • @tigerroselili5765
      @tigerroselili5765 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think cause she pulled him. It was disrespectful on both their parts.

    • @fluffytail6355
      @fluffytail6355 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s how it works! Everyone mad at the “home wrecker” but no one mad that the man opened the door and welcomed her in!
      Zach could have easily told Kat, “I’m here to pick up my date and don’t have time to speak with you privately.” That would have shut down Kat AND all the cattiness (no pun intended).

  • @SinaSoh
    @SinaSoh ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Unpopular opinion (based off reading the comments) but judging by the constant drama we have encountered the last few years, I’m perfectly fine with Zack shutting down the drama or saying bye to those who he doesn’t see a future in the very end. He is not dragging the contestants or even himself in this process. I do wish he was a bit calmer with Jess.
    My one request with Zack is when he picks his wife, problem solve your conflicts with more patience and grace. I respect his ability to achieve perfection in cutting the drama and BS, when you say “I do” and tie the knot (outside of cheating, verbal and physical abuse etc…) you are going to have to expect some conflict in a relationship.

  • @amandad6782
    @amandad6782 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I don't think Zack is ready for a relationship. How is he going to deal with an actual argument? He seems to give up on people quicklylooking for an out.

  • @Rosi33333
    @Rosi33333 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I just want you to know that look forward to your videos every week and they really lift me up from all the stress I deal with. Keep up the great content.

  • @amandalidey329
    @amandalidey329 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like how Jess said. "I'm not gonna beg for u." " I'm out" & walked herself out. I get her wanting a one on one if she hadn't got one yet. The ones who don't get the one on one usually don't connect as much & get sent home. Her expressing that to him shouldn't have been so personal to him unless he wasn't feeling anything with her. She sent herself home when he showed no interest that she was just a tad bit upset about that. Lol.

  • @tigrezangel
    @tigrezangel ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is the thing with Zach about Jess. How can he have "confidence" but now want to have alone time with that person just the two of them. I hate when the lead says "I feel/felt so strong about you that I never pick you to go on a date" Matt did the same thing to Abigal. He dismisses her feelings and concerns, tells her that he doesn't feel "confident" just becase she expressed her feeling about the importance of the 1-and-1, and then acts all shook because she decides to leave.
    Kat is so self-centered that she wants to do whatever she wants and not hear anything from anybody. I'm glad that Brooklyn put her clear.
    And Ariel, oh Ariel, I really like her for Bachelorette. I liked how she was very frank with Kat.
    Zach is so allergic to confronting things that even when he said that it felt something weird with Kat, he didn't ask anything...

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great recaps fantake your commentary are hilarious as always 😂👌🏾.

  • @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing
    @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing ปีที่แล้ว +382

    Ariel for bachelorette vote button
    👇

    • @annetraut8247
      @annetraut8247 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She seems like she would be like a Gabby type of Bachelorette and I'm so here for it! But I think it's going to be Kaity. I think she's getting the classic "Bachelorette edit".

    • @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing
      @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annetraut8247 well 😢 hopefully they take us by storm and surprise! But I guess it would be an intriguing season either way, since they both have a lot of personality, just in really different ways.

    • @marysketch4772
      @marysketch4772 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't like that she referred to the nice nude couple as "parents" though. Was kind of disappointed in that.

    • @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing
      @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marysketch4772 ohh really? Unfortunately I missed last night’s episode

    • @vanillaghetto
      @vanillaghetto ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@marysketch4772 Uh, well people thirty years older than you are around your parents' ages... Pretty weird to stick them naked in a little sauna and a little hot tub with them. Gross, she handled it better than I would have. I wonder if the "parents" were actually naked.

  • @jocewaitwhat
    @jocewaitwhat ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This video is top-tier Fantake - on of your best, sir!

    • @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing
      @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed, I wasn’t able to watch the episode last night unfortunately, and Fantake made me feel like I pretty much saw enough to be satisfied with the experience 😌 the editing though and random commentary I wouldn’t think of always provides an extra laugh too

  • @alarachel
    @alarachel ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These have become the highlight of my week. I don’t even watch the show I just love your recaps. Not sure if it’s the way you edit the episodes but now I want to start watching the bachelor 😂

  • @buffymcmuffin5361
    @buffymcmuffin5361 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for recapping the show - love it!

  • @maddiedilts271
    @maddiedilts271 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I loved Brooklyn she was iconic in this episode. “If the shoe fits, lace that bitch up” is such a good comeback 🙌 honestly gave me Hannah Brown vibez

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The awkward middle schooler with acne in me loves seeing the beautiful mean girl get put in her place 😅

    • @daisylucy2
      @daisylucy2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I LOVE Brooklyn!

    • @AB-mx1de
      @AB-mx1de ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@abandonablesnowman me too!

    • @bathens4971
      @bathens4971 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Like Zach said to Jesse Palmer, Brooklyn is a Straight Shooter!

  • @DSlav2488
    @DSlav2488 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Lmao. When the narrarator said "OK, well I think the point here is that THIS WASN'T your moment; it was Charity's" .

  • @tigerroselili5765
    @tigerroselili5765 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are by far my favourite TH-camr. You’re editing is next level. The Ralph joke is exactly what I thought of when I saw the episode and then you played it 😂🤣😂

  • @savvydee123
    @savvydee123 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for doing these bachelor cliff notes 🤓 I get so busy and don’t have time to watch. These are perfect

  • @tehya3367
    @tehya3367 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These recaps never get old, I love the parks and rec clips 😂

  • @kayann6409
    @kayann6409 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The edits were amazing in this lol. Dial up, the Joker, Parks n Rec.. 🙌

  • @connie0613
    @connie0613 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Been waiting ❤❤❤❤

  • @whackedout101
    @whackedout101 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What’s annoying is Kat had the audacity to pull him aside and it’s even more annoying that Zach was like “oh yeah this seems like a great time.” And then he had the audacity to go from “I have confidence in us” to “I lost confidence” just because someone was willing to communicate how they felt in such abnormal way to date.
    Yes, the show does expect you to be vulnerable a lot faster but THE MAJORITY of people on this show open up only during the one on ones. So for him to be like “why is it about that?” When he knows damn well that’s what it is about.
    Also, as someone who is pursuing you, you damn well better be understanding when that person also wants to be pursued and chooses for a one on one.
    I was excited for this season but Zach is a mess.

  • @charlottevictoriaxx
    @charlottevictoriaxx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the first season in a while I feel really invested and enjoying watching each week ❤

  • @cacklinggooseandco
    @cacklinggooseandco ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yayyyyy 🎉 ❤ I’ve been waiting

  • @jaredloitz2436
    @jaredloitz2436 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This has probably been my favorite edit of the season so far. I had to pause the video for a solid 30 seconds with the joker cutaway😂

  • @GAMEoVIDZ
    @GAMEoVIDZ ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I’m tired of one on one’s turning into women telling their sob stories trying to get a sympathy rose.

    • @melodyclark1944
      @melodyclark1944 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What should they talk about? I know the subjects heavy, but they need something meaningful to talk about.

    • @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing
      @ClearKnowingFeelingHearing ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@melodyclark1944 I mean, if it’s the first thing that comes to mind and the most important and heavily-weighted in their minds, then I definitely agree that they should talk about their past relationship traumas. But other stuff they could talk about are deeply important people/things in their lives, maybe-like Christina talking about her daughter, though that particular example did backfire lol seeing as Zach’s body language completely betrayed him and he absolutely showcased his fear and dread on his face and in his body language the moment of the reveal despite the encouraging words he drudged up for her, though that is mostly because becoming a parent is a huge responsibility and sadly does change the dynamic of a romantic relationship. Any other example, though, of someone important in their lives, like an inspiration or a loved one or a role model, would be great to have a conversation about; anything that doesn’t come with the lead having to proactively step up and be involved. Unless, of course, they’re ready. They could also talk about their favourite activities, favourite foods, maybe animals that are important to them or really anything that showcases their unique personality would be other possible topics to bring up in their cute little alone-time dates. Heavy and sad subject matter unfortunately does play a huge role in pretty much everyone’s lives, but there are always positive counterparts that can be explored as well :)

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think the producers tend to pressure them into it, and it’s kind of the culture and expectation on the show. If you’re a fan, you’ve seen everyone before you do it

    • @GAMEoVIDZ
      @GAMEoVIDZ ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree to an extent, I think in the past producers showed the fun part of the date and showcased one or two girls. These days it’s like they all have a formula and it’s the same as writing a college letter- must have a tragic event to gain sympathy. I think it’s more with the producers than the girls.

    • @Userhandleidk
      @Userhandleidk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      “Opening up” literally so boring. I skip it every time

  • @EmanNabil
    @EmanNabil ปีที่แล้ว +36

    It's about time Zach makes correct decisions until he doesn't 😂😂

  • @prettylilly2933
    @prettylilly2933 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your pun/word play game is soooo good!!! 😂

  • @howdy4504
    @howdy4504 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    now using "if the shoe fits, lace that shit up" in my every day vernacular

  • @EllenKennedy
    @EllenKennedy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The double standard. he tells Jess It’s not about the one on one, I don’t understand why that’s so important to you. Then saying how the one on one with Ariel just turned it around for him and wow is he smitten!

  • @hayleymaples6907
    @hayleymaples6907 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your references are absolute gold

  • @meli7596
    @meli7596 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He only cares about gabi and Katie ..and with Ariel it’s just lust . He don’t give a damn about the other girls 😑but I guess for a tv show he got to make it seem like he’s interested 💀😂

  • @orianateyorbeard
    @orianateyorbeard ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you SO much. I got a job and they scheduled my shift 2-8 and Ive missed the shows this is Hilarious and informative

  • @momoats
    @momoats ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I don't think respect ever shifts though. " - Yes Ariel yessss...

  • @darcygraham2430
    @darcygraham2430 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your weekly update, very good. And I have to say...I think that Zach is the best bachelor in a very, very long time. He is a gentleman, considerate, plans such nice thoughtful dates...he is kind, sensitive and articulate...and in the moment. I really like him and the ladies he has chosen...first class!

  • @ellicel
    @ellicel ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just realized that I no long watch wondering who the bachelor will pick (since I don’t expect any relationship to actually last); I’m just wondering who will get picked to be the next bachelorette. Fingers crossed for Ariel!

  • @elainestevens8485
    @elainestevens8485 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ariel had the perfect responses to Kat when she was trying to justify her taking Zach away!!!!!
    Then the rest of the episode is the same ol sayings.... "I can see myself falling in love' and 'this is the perfect place to fall in love' and "I have so much fun with you, it gets better every time' and don't forget the "I'm so much in my head about things'.... same dialogue, different week. Do they write all these sayings down and draw them out of a hat to decide who says what during the week? Every week seems like groundhog day, except when it comes to the rose ceremony.

  • @chunkylettuce
    @chunkylettuce ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Zach is really making it all about him…i understand it’s his journey but he’s not respecting some of the women’s perspectives. If they say anything that isn’t sunshine and rainbows he runs away. He’s clearly not good with communicating about uncomfortable situations, which is highly immature.

  • @patchouleigh_
    @patchouleigh_ ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thanks for the belly laugh at 3:47 !!😆

    • @bloom4096
      @bloom4096 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The not computing sounds were the best part 🤣🤣😭

  • @meggleslynn2061
    @meggleslynn2061 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Zach does a good job making sure every women should be terrified of falling in love with him….

  • @MrBdiddypop
    @MrBdiddypop ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In a perfect world, during that argument between Zach and Jess, I wish that the legendary Hall and Oats walked into the room singing the soulful “One on One”.

  • @wholetthedogsout438
    @wholetthedogsout438 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Zachs sit down with Jess on the group date. She was totally justified and so smart !!! Why should she fight for him ??? She’s 10/10!!! Kind , works, smart, stunning.

    • @vivvelsene63
      @vivvelsene63 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      IF IT had been a man demanding a one-on-one from the bachelorette - the comment section would be going berzerk questioning his toxicity.

    • @wholetthedogsout438
      @wholetthedogsout438 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You deffo a man if this how you thinking.. when did she “demand” anything? She opened up about how she was feeling and wanted his feedback on why she hasn’t gotten her one on one time yet. He proceeded to gaslight her by saying “a 1 on 1 isint that important” when we ALL know that ain’t the truth!!!!

    • @wholetthedogsout438
      @wholetthedogsout438 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Proceeds to look at her like she’s crazy for how she’s feeling … this man clearly hasn’t been in many relationships with women

    • @wholetthedogsout438
      @wholetthedogsout438 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She criticizes him for his actions , and he immediately says he’s not interested !!!!!!! Immature !

  • @lynneking5365
    @lynneking5365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are hilarious!!

  • @dig1018
    @dig1018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg, laughed out loud, joker lips 2:06

  • @paulajames6149
    @paulajames6149 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am confused. Jess says she was not going to beg Zach and then leaves. Zach shares with the ladies that he sent her home???

  • @olaide1521
    @olaide1521 ปีที่แล้ว

    That group date with the witch is such an omen!

  • @AndSoWeLaughed
    @AndSoWeLaughed ปีที่แล้ว +10

    1-1 mean you want to get to know that person privately on a deeper level, she’s not wrong to feel how she did. And only proves her point when he went from confident to unsure in the blink of an eye. How confident could you really be? He lied straight to her face and it’s weird. Someone said words of affirmation aren’t his love language but at least be self aware enough to discuss the differences and respect others.

  • @anhbarker
    @anhbarker ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not watching this season but from what I've seen from your episode recaps, I love Brooklyn! And she's a fellow Okie!! Ye-haw!!!

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Another episode ending in a rose ceremony? I didn't think that was allowed 😂.

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly I don’t think it was fair to hold it without Greer, especially with her not being super solid with Zach

    • @AB-mx1de
      @AB-mx1de ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@abandonablesnowman it's like they already sent Greer home, so weird! That happened with a guy on the boat last season too.

    • @Userhandleidk
      @Userhandleidk ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AB-mx1de Logan? Yeah that was extremely fishy

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AB-mx1de I think there was speculation that Logan left the boat, because they were in Amsterdam. Which if he did, props to him

  • @ZarinaRae
    @ZarinaRae ปีที่แล้ว

    When Ariel said, “I don’t think respect shifts” 👏🏽👏🏽 I was screaming YAS queen!

  • @abandonablesnowman
    @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +36

    While I appreciate Brooklyn defending Charity, it did start to feel a little white savior energy when she walked in on Kat pulling her aside. Charity’s face didn’t look like she was happy Brooklyn was there. This is similar to Katie sticking up for all the non-white women in the house when they didn’t necessarily ask for it. It is a valid question that Brooklyn seemed to be asking-would Kat have pulled Zach aside if it were a different contestant? But I think Brooklyn would’ve done well to ask Charity if she wanted her to step in a third time

    • @pasmetha
      @pasmetha ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah when Brooklyn joined, she asked Charity 'are you okay?'. And Charity replied 'I'm good'. That's cue for Brooklyn to get out of the conversation! Like Charity is a therapist, she knows how to have a conversation

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pasmetha Right, like definitely appreciate the initial call out and it’s great she wanted to support her friend and sniff out possible microaggressions, but it got kinda cringe

    • @Jaimelikegem
      @Jaimelikegem ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@pasmetha as a black woman I appreciated it bc honestly I know how the show/ audience has a history of editing black ppl as aggressive for communicating that a white person did something fucked up to me, so I'd have to communicate using a great deal of respect and taking the high road to avoid my character being assassinated. I also definitely see that the white friend (brook?) was playing white savior on the surface but I also saw that afterwards, when Kat left, brook said to charity that she's leaving or something like that bc she can't take accountability and charity said in agreement "she doesn't want to accept that what she did is wrong" (im paraphrasing). So there's a possibility that she's coming to charity's defense to be the voice charity is restraining from being and that brook is comfortable getting the excessive "aggressive" comments bc it won't mar her reputation the way it would her friend. That's just my opinion. I felt like they probably talked off camera about it how kat was a bitch for that

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Jaimelikegem Totally, I appreciate Brooklyn in that sense too. I think a lot of viewers are seeing it as this colorblind situation where Brooklyn was just being mean, but I do really love that she was willing to step in and possibly make herself look bad, whether that was a fully conscious decision or not. It’s easy to get cynical and see it as a bid to secure her spot on BIP, but she did seem genuinely over it lol especially after the previous situation with Anastasia “feeling threatened” by Kylee

  • @kimmyklo7848
    @kimmyklo7848 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yeah, well was she ever going to get a 1:1? 🤔
    I think that was all done on purpose to eliminate her without him looking like a jerk.