Her subs know what she told us and she made it our business by posting this, right? Everyone has their own opinions and unless she disables comments people will have discussions. Grown ups can usually have discussions and even differing opinions without getting upset.
@@cristinmccloud1980when you care about someone and you see them doing what you think is a mistake, then you tell them, simple as that. You want the best for people, and sometimes what we long or what we desire, is not always the best. Better safe than sorry we say.
To be married to someone that you can consider your best friend is something that doesn’t happen very often. But you will not find that out until your with someone else! You have so many people in your world! Every family needs their own space!
My heart dropped when I saw the title and my eyes got wide! I can not even imagine what you must be going through! Isn’t there any way you guys could see a marriage counselor and work things out between you? This is a total bombshell! Love you guys! My heart goes out to both of you and Damien! Y’all are in my thoughts and prayers! Godspeed on moving forward! And yes I have noticed there’s been more videos without Kyle in them, but it never really dawned on me what could be going on! I am so sorry you are going through this!
If your desire to have another child is greater than your sadness that Kyle would not be the father of that child, then it is best to separate. If you were to experience infertility with a new partner, would you regret separating from Kyle? Something to consider.
The advice I got that made me stay with my husband was that-no one will ever love your children like their father. Now I know that there are shitty dads out there and exceptions to this rule. But it applied in my case. My husband is a great father. Just not a great husband. I stayed. We have been together for 26yrs. I honestly don’t know if it was the right decision. But it’s the one I made and I stuck with it. For the record my husband doesn’t cheat. He’s just a homebody and gives me no attention. He’s not a bad husband-I shouldn’t have said that.Just not the right fit for my personality I would say. That’s all. We were super young when we got together. 17 and 22.
I’m very sorry about this. I definitely could tell something was up. There seemed to be some distance between you. This is tough. I can see how hard this is for you. You have a bright future ahead. I’ll keep you and Damien in my prayers🤗🤗🙏
I recently separated from my husband of 24years, had some very low moments but also am now coming out the other end and looking at the positives, they wernt wasted years, I feel for you Tiffany but things do get easier over time. Sometimes people are better apart than together and that's better for the children
I have always been thinking that you are very different kind of persons, you and Kyle. I dont want to say anything else. I hope your future lives will be great. It has been very nice to follow your life and house construction project. ❤
This sucks. I'm so sorry. My husband and I also went through losing our daughter. It's tough and the decision to try again is the most difficult decision.
So sorry that you and Kyle are at such an impasse. It is devastating when partnerships become fractured but my hope is that you will remain solid friends as you navigate life independently of each other. May your new venture be lucrative and satisfying to you. Damien is blessed to have two parents who put him before their ego.
I'm sorry that are going through this! I can understand both sides of your situation. Devorced/separated parents of children that can still get along is great for the children.
She said they have been doing it for 3 years. While taking in his Dad. So I think Tiffany and Kyle will always do what is right for their family. Sometimes losing someone, like a child, reminds you how fragile life is. They got married because Tiffany was pregnant. To have a special needs child and go through that heart ache. I can’t imagine the lose. Tiffanys spirit has always been bright but her heart stays with those she cares about. She will make sure Kyle is fine.
I’m heartbroken for you, but you will get through this. Your strength is obvious. You have had to deal with things that no one should have to deal with. My wish is for you to find true happiness again. Thank you for opening up to us. Prayers to you, Kyle and Damien.
OMG, Tiffany! That was truly a HUGE bombshell. To be honest with you, I had sort of started wondering about something like this when you took off for Mexico by yourself, but I was hoping and praying that I was wrong. Gosh, how I wish I were wrong! To say that I'm in total shock would be a HUGE understatement. I've been following you, Kyle, Makayla, and Damien for a good number of years, and I have grown to love you guys very much. I was absolutely devastated when Makayla died. But, having some background in psychology, I know that something like this has the potential to either make or break a marriage. I feel extremely sad, not only for Damien, but also for both you and Kyle, because I know that in your heart of hearts, you guys will always love each other. Maybe, just maybe, spending some time apart, maybe you guys can do some soul-searching, and kinda reorganize your thoughts and everything. As for having another baby, I can see both Kyle's side and yours. On the one hand, sure, you guys are both still young enough. And children are so precious, and basically, you get to grow up all over again, looking at the world through their eyes and all that. On the other hand, though, Damien's now about ten years old, and he's had your undivided attention since Makayla died. And I can see potential problems (difficulties) about him having to adjust to another little sibling, who, at least for a good number of years, will require more attention from you. I wish I could give both you and Kyle some useful advice, but I guess at the end of the day, it's probably preferable, in the long run, to separate and remain close friends, rather than stay together and eventually end up resenting each other. I think I have a fairly good grasp about "people" in general, though, so I think I'm very confident that you and Kyle will still be the best parents to Damien and will work out the "co-parenting" thing in the best possible way. And I (and all your other followers) will be praying for you guys to make all the right decisions (whatever those may be) and may the next chapter (and all the following ones) be filled with happiness, success, and lots of fun and laughter, and (most importantly) good health for all of you guys. Sending you lots of love and prayers from Massachusetts!
@samross3257 from what I understand she went to visit a friend, and there's nothing disgusting about that, unless you have a disgusting sense of humor. Honestly, people like you make me want to puke 24/7. Tiffany is a fine, upstanding woman, and I sure hope she ignores this disgusting comment of yours!
@samross3257 you are disgusting. Maybe you should go listen to Tiffany telling us about Mexico. She went to VISIT A FRIEND, and there's nothing disgusting about that!
Ok, things in life change. I hate that for all of you to have to go through this. However life is too short to not live to the fullest. I just lost my husband of 28 years in December to a hunting accident and I never thought of life without him. Miss seeing videos but understand, you have my love prayers and support through all of this.
When you’ve been together that long .. starting off young , stills kids essentially, you grow and sometime… most times… your growth is a different path then your partners as you become adults. And that’s ok. You both are completely different from when you were kids , have gone through some life experiences that change you both in your own ways. That is life . And seeing this together , knowing when you still care for that person and have love for them but am no longer in love is an admirable situation to address. Sending you all positivity and strength through this new life change ❤
Your 20 year relationship is still an inspiration, no matter what it morphs into. You guys were such an impressive team and I'm sure you'll always be one when it comes to Damien. As someone who has been in a relationship for 25 years, I really understand part of your struggle and your decision. I am wondering how you are breaking it to Damien, and how he reacted? Best of luck for your future endeavours!
So sorry you're going through this - wishing you all the very best going forward. I really hope you and Kyle can maintain your friendship and can be a bit like my parents who split over 20 years ago and are probably closer now than at any other point in my lifetime! Certainly makes life easier that way, especially for Damien.
Totally understandable. Some relationships just take different paths. You've guys have been through hell but im so happy you'll still remain friends. Deep breaths girl you've got this. Lots of love from the soggy South.
I’m so sorry to hear this. If you allow me, let me share a few advices I wished I had received when I was younger. I’m a 41 years old mum of 4, I’m divorced and 2 of my kids are neurodivergent and have a bunch of other medical issues. Kyle seems to be a good guy, he doesn’t disrespect you, doesn’t abuse you, doesn’t cheat on you, is a great father and family man. You should think twice before separating and maybe try counselling. It is very rare and precious to marry your best friend. Damien is safe with both of you, and maybe Kyle could change his mind about having another child, and I don’t think he would ever resent you for having another child, he would love the child, no matter what. You both have been through so much together and have built so much together, don’t let it all fall apart, together as a family you are strong. I don’t think going with another man would benefit Damien at all, as anyone here can tell that Damien is a very sensitive child. It is very rare to find someone who will love your child the way you do. Think real good about the situation, try counselling, don’t rush into anything, you’re still young, you can still have other kids, but you won’t find another best friend to marry. It’s understandable that you are you young and wand to try new things, but believe me, the grass is not always greener elsewhere. Think of Damien, as he’s your top priority. Other men might come and go, but not your best friend, not your babies’ daddy. Sorry if I’ve said anything offending or judgemental here but believe me, I wish someone had told me all these things years ago.
They can be everything on paper, but not make ur heart flutter. Marriage isn’t a business transaction. If the heart isn’t in it, it isn’t in it. They were young when they met and grew up and apart. Most of their marriage was taking care of a sick child. Sometimes after that we realize there is nothing left.
Sorry you all are going through this, I know it's tough after that many years. I went through this May 2023. I was with my daughter's "father" for 28yrs on & off, but was together the past 10yrs straight. Our daughter is 25 now & is severely disabled, total care, on a ventilator. Last May he had snuck his clothes out the basement window to his female he had a kid with in 2011. Well May 30 our daughter just got out of the hospital, so may 31 he told me he was going for a bike ride & he would call me shortly. I've not heard 1 word from him since. Not asked about my daughter or nothing. Unbelievable. Walked out on her like she's trash. 😡. I was completely supporting him financially, but now he's there with them & working supporting them. Not a penny or supplies or a gift for his adult child, who's like a 5 month old baby. Thankfully you 2 will continue to be friends & be civil for your son. Good luck on the next chapter of your new journey.
You need to do what is best FOR YOU! People don’t realize that when you’ve gone through what you and Kyle have gone through, it feels like it becomes your identity. The years of caring for McKayla and also caring for your marriage. That was your life. Now that she’s gone, you’ve got to figure out who YOU are and start looking at your future and what YOU want the rest of YOUR life to be like. None of us understand what you have lived through. You are both good people and you’ll be fine. Damian will be fine. You’ll figure out how to co parent with Kyle. You are allowed to be happy in your life! WITH NO GUILT!
I don’t think people get how much you lose yourself, when she was spending so much time loving and caring for Micheala. That and she was young and doing it so well. It’s good for her to get to know herself. We only get one life.
If they want different things they want different things. They can still coparent and maybe even get back together if things change. But there is no reason to settle for things you want or don’t want. Life is too short. Marriage is much more than just having a “good man “ or a “good woman “. If it doesn’t fit, it doesn’t fit.
This is truly heartbreaking! I hope you, Damien and Kyle can find some peace and comfort despite the separation…..I hope life can brighten up for your entire family, I don’t watch your content as much as I use to, but I still care about you guys…….so I check in every now and then…..please take care of yourself and Damien. -
I’m so sorry to hear this Tiffany. I’m 51 and have 2 adult kids but never married. I’m not so trusting of men and that makes it nearly impossible for a relationship. I wish you the very best and hope you guys get through the process with your friendship still in tact.
Oh that's just wrong. Been together 20 years and she goes of with another man. Disgusting woman. My support is for Kyle. You don't do that to someone you have been with for that length of time.
I don’t follow you but just by reading a lot of the comments seems like there is more to the story! You don’t just leave the person you are in love with or is your best friend because he doesn’t want more children and you do. Does that just make you stop loving someone? I don’t get it. Time changes peoples minds on things and why not just honestly talk it out? Seems to me you already have a back up plan. I feel sorry for your husband!
So sorry to hear about your Separation - I Hope The best for both of you and of course for Damien. You are great parents - and had to Go through a lot No parents should have to Go through...
I had a feeling. 20 yrs is a long time you are different people and sometimes you just dont grow the same way anymore..be proud of that time most people dont make it half that anymore life after losing a kid is different and nobody understands
So sorry Tiffany I sensed something wasn't right like there were little hints that you and Kyle weren't happy in some of the videos. I know this must be hard for you both but you two had so many stressor with baby girl and the house and with different visions of how you wanted your life to be that's super important too and you both should live the life that you want and do what makes you happy cause life is short and we all have to find our bliss in this world. I wish you and Kyle the best of luck and thank you for being brave enough to open up. We love you and will always be your fans!
I'm sorry folks I thought this was coming with all the growth Tiffs been doing mentally emotionally and every other way she can she taking better care of her self the weight loss say that and Mexico on her own say she growing mentally and emotionally its like they grew apart and all what she been doing shows there's been problems you could see they were both on different paths i wish you well Tiff big love to you ❤
Oh Tiffany and Kyle. My heart breaks that you are going through this. I personally feel you don't owe anyone the personal parts of this. I'm glad you let viewers like me so I would understand why things have changed but feel a lot of this transition is too personal for youtube. I still would like to see more videos of family members but understand that can be difficult. Thanks for the video.
My best friend’s parents are separated and are best friends which is great for their kids, I pray y’all find a relationship together as friends for your sweet baby boy. Good luck to you both❤
Wow you have been though a lot.i use to watch you all the time when you had your daughter then .then I got very sick and now. I can watch you again I am so happy
I’m so sorry to hear this news, but I understand, I’ve been through it, it’s hard and it’s a grieving process, but I could tell things were off, you’re growing and changing and sometimes people just grow apart and go on separate paths. Sending love, hugs and prayers to you all. Love you sweetie☮️💐🌞🙏🏼🎈🤟✝️🫶🏼💝🥰❣️❣️❣️❣️
I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing this very personal part of your lives with us. What matters most is you and Kyle being able to make this transition without anyone judging you both for what is becoming the best situation for you both and for Damien. Sending you all my love and support. We will always be here for all of you. ❤
I’m so very sad to hear this news. I’ve been watching your channel since Makayla was about four or five. I was devastated after she passed away. I looked forward to seeing her in your videos. To tell you the truth, I haven’t watched your channel too much since then. But, I guess I’m still subscribed as this came up on my feed. Life is so unpredictable. I wish you well on your journey.
I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I have been going through a divorce the last year after being together for 35 years and having two children together I know what you are going through. I am so glad you and Kyle are still best friends. My spouse and I are not even speaking to each other
Hi Tiffany, IGNORE ALL THE JUDGEY COMMENTS People only see some of your life through youtube and have no place to be telling you to reconsider etc. I think you're really brave to take this step and wish you all the happiness in your future xx keep your chin up 💕
I'm so sorry to hear your news. Grief is a big part of it. Don't expect to much of yourself. May God be with you and comfort you. Love from Western Australia.
Sorry to hear about your separation I love you guys I’ve been watching you for a long time even through the days with your daughter 🩷while you guys built your home. I’m sad 😔. Thank you for sharing the Roku drone I ordered one today thanks
I’m so sorry Tiff ❤ you are both amazing people. I have no doubt you will both move forward in the best possible way for eachother and more importantly Damien. As a woman, you take care of you first! You need to be ok in order to be strong for your son. When we reach our 30’s so much changes, we grow, we change and we elevate. Enjoy the process, and do what’s best for you!! Same for Kyle, he deserves the life he wants as well! Sending love, strength and continued success on your channel ❤
As long as everyone is happy and healthy in the end. We, as the audience, don’t truly know how/why Tiffany and Kyle came to this decision. All anyone can do is hope for great co-parenting for their child. I wish the best for both of you and wherever life takes you.
So sorry… big hugs ❤ … I have been divorced now 24 years ago my son was 1 at the time but life goes on we are both now re-married I have another son ( 14) you are a strong woman with a good support system and you and Kyle will co-parent just fine and Damien know his parents love him.❤❤
I'm so sorry to hear about your decision to divorce. Please forgive me for being so honest but I saw it coming 😔. Is easy to criticize others unless you are in there shoes. That is why I will not. All I can say is that I pray God leads you to make the right decisions for you, your son, and yes Kyle too. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💖
I’m sorry Tiff you’re going through this. I could see it coming years ago honestly bc you’re so honest in who you are. You guys have been through a lot ❤ you have a strong family to lean on if needed. Hope Damien is doing well. Hope they are more TH-cam videos to come love catching up with you.
Sorry to hear you are going through this Tiffany. Though I trust like in most things, you know what you are doing. You are one strong, intelligent, resourceful, capable and resilient woman. There is no doubt about that. Your parents should be super proud of you, I know they are and have every right to be, just for the way you have handled all that life has thrown at you up to this point. I have every faith in you girl and I wish you all the very best no matter what you decide to do going forward. Life is short and you all deserve to be as happy as possible for as much of it as you possibly can.
I'm sorry to hear this. Hoping for the best for both of you. Have you two tried couples consoling? Or anything to try not to reach this point? I'm just curious and I know sometimes unfortunately no matter what a couple tries, separation is unfortunately the only option.
@cindyphillips8718I 100% agree with you. Kyle might change his mind with a little bit of time, and Damien is the top priority here. Blended families rarely truly work for everyone involved from my experience, as it is so difficult to find someone who will love your child unconditionally. Damien is a sensitive child, with some special needs and this is not something that would be easily accepted by another man.
Awe I’m so sorry to hear this. I had no idea. You’ve been through so much together and I’m sure you’ll always have a special connection especially since you share a son. You were young and grew up together but I know from experience that sometimes our goals change over time and we can end up on opposite pages. I hope neither of you feel like a failure, you’re not. When you can’t move forward ….it’s time to move on! Good luck to you both ❤
Hi Tiff, I am so sorry about your separation from Kyle. I wish you both the love and support from your family and friends. You both faced lots in your relationship and you guys even grew up together. Thank you for sharing your life with us all as this couldn’t have been an easy video to make. All you two can do from now on is give each other the grace and freedom to be the best version of yourselves, don’t ever feel regret for anything, you both are amazing, you guys are young and have a lot of living to do. Best of success in your new business, hugs to you and Kyle, lastly, you guys are still a team with so much promise. Love to Damien, hope he’s doing well with the new changes at home.
I am so sorry to hear about this. It's never easy to split. I'm hoping for peace for you and everyone else. I was sensing something going on the last few months. Mostly because the vlogs slowed down and Kyle wasn't really in them. I am curious to know why Kyle didn't want anymore kids (I only ask because you said we could for a q&a). How is little man taking it?
So, let me get this straigt, if you both have a history, and love one another, and was staying in this relationship just for the child, tgat was wrong from the beginning.. that tells me, you both had issues steming before the child.. if you both truly love one anotger, both of you need to suck it up, if your actually married.
I’m so very sorry 😞 you are so right everything happens for a reason and I’m keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers and wish you both the best 🙏✝️💟
No one has a right to judge or comment in a negative way. I wish you all the best. My ex-husband and I divorced less than a yr after our son Timothy died. I have a daughter named Mikayla. 😊 I think I found you at the perfect time.
I have been watching you for sooo many years, and it breaks my heart to see you guys separate and to know your struggling, but hopefully you can adapt and coparent with as much strength as it takes to separate, your guys and damians happiness comes first after all ❤ wishing you all the best, keep being awesome
I’m literally just beyond stunned like I was when Makayla died despite having a feeling about it because such a long length of time between videos. I don’t know if this has anything to do with it but it seems many couples break down when their child passes away. I know someone this happened to, they had been together for more than 30 years and then they lost a teenage son and somehow the marriage was still ok and then their second son died still in his 20’s and the whole relationship just fell apart. I’m really sad for you and Kyle as you two really were so much light in our viewers eyes. I think a lot of it was due to the amount of time you two have been together and how you were building an even better future despite losing Makayla. I’m incredibly sorry, I know it’s not words that change but anyway, I really hope the two of you can somehow find some level of peace and solace after the full split.
I’m so saddened to see this Tiffany.. but I do know what it’s like to stay in a relationship just for your kids when you aren’t happy… to be the best parents to your children you need to be happy and content in your own life.. if you can find a way to keep your respect for each other and co-parent and remain good friends then Damien will be fine.. I wish you both the best and please don’t leave TH-cam 😭😭😭 Question for Q&A… will you be staying in the house or will you be selling it?
Sorry about this but as long as Damian is happy and you can co-parent respectfully that's what matters the most. I can say that I saw this coming your videos just showed less togetherness and even though couples do take separate trips your trip to Mexico had me wondering. My questions if you do a Q & A are: 1. Will you have to sell the house? 2. Are your parents planning on staying now to offer you support or do they still plan to find property to build? 3. Are Kyle or you planning on moving out of the house/do you have a timeline? 3. Did you 2 consider or do marriage counseling? 4. With your parents and Kyles dad living with you did they see it coming or was it shocking for them? 5. Don't want to get too much into Damian personal life because I believe a child's life should be just that personal but does he understand what is happening or will be happening in the future? Have you sought counseling for him so he has someone besides his family that he can speak to? I work in a school and often having an outside for a child to speak to is so beneficial even though parents believe their child tells them everything and a counselor can help them process things properly. 6. If wanting more children was not an issue on either side would you stay married or were there other issues? You don't have to say what they were as that is no ones business. 7. Since you want more children are you planning on adopting or do you have a plan to be pregnant within a specific timeline
Unlike most in this comment section, I’m divorced and a single parent. My boy has non verbal autism and a rare heart condition. The first 6 months suck, then you realise everyone in society judges you. Then you get over it and realise what society thinks doesn’t matter. You are beautiful, you are great and you can do it on your own. Your reasons for divorce does not matter. People will judge you for it no matter the reason. Just live your life for yourself and no one else! The only one who will have regrets is you! The people judging you won’t have your regrets. So who cares what they say! You only live once, no point in living it with someone who doesn’t want what you want. ❤ You’ve got this!
I’m so sorry that you’re going through all this. Ignore all the rude and judgmental comments. They don’t know the full story. I doubt you guys made this decision lightly.
Ok I am only 2:15 into this video and from reading the top comment I can see that this has something to do with wanting another baby. I can only speak from my experience but my EX told me he wanted a house full of kids when we got married. We were great 'friends' too, friend being the key word. After 3 years of infertility and finding out he had a rare condition germinal cell aplasia which caused him to have zero sperm, we decided to use a sperm donor and after 2 tries I was blessed with boy/girl twins. Then he led me on for years making excuses as to why we should 'wait' for the next try; jobs, education etc....... Then I find out 8 years later that when he rolled me out of the hospital in the wheelchair holding my twins he knew THEN that he didn't want anymore children, but didn't disclose that fact to me. I left him not so much for not wanting more children but for the BIG LIE he held for all those years. I spent up basically all my fertile years with him, waiting. I don't judge a woman one bit about leaving/separating from a man who no longer shares the same longing for more children.
What about his channel? Are you going to keep doing videos for his channel? Sorry to hear about you guys. It is a tough situation. I had to do it with my parents and I didn’t like it at all. I’m still not happy about it. How does Dan feel about it?
No one knows what’s happening behind the scenes. It’s not fair to judge, some of these comments are unfair. I wish you both the best on your new journeys. Your doing it with love still in both your hearts that’s what matters. ❤❤
I can’t believe how judgmental people are towards this. No one knows all the details and it’s no one’s business. I wish you love and peace and joy!
Her subs know what she told us and she made it our business by posting this, right? Everyone has their own opinions and unless she disables comments people will have discussions. Grown ups can usually have discussions and even differing opinions without getting upset.
@@betty-y3m9y sure, but telling her she’s making a mistake is so wrong.
@@cristinmccloud1980 Why?
@@cristinmccloud1980when you care about someone and you see them doing what you think is a mistake, then you tell them, simple as that. You want the best for people, and sometimes what we long or what we desire, is not always the best. Better safe than sorry we say.
@@Linkelvetrue but to them it’s what’s best and if they get together again great.
To be married to someone that you can consider your best friend is something that doesn’t happen very often. But you will not find that out until your with someone else! You have so many people in your world! Every family needs their own space!
My heart dropped when I saw the title and my eyes got wide! I can not even imagine what you must be going through! Isn’t there any way you guys could see a marriage counselor and work things out between you? This is a total bombshell! Love you guys! My heart goes out to both of you and Damien! Y’all are in my thoughts and prayers! Godspeed on moving forward! And yes I have noticed there’s been more videos without Kyle in them, but it never really dawned on me what could be going on! I am so sorry you are going through this!
If your desire to have another child is greater than your sadness that Kyle would not be the father of that child, then it is best to separate. If you were to experience infertility with a new partner, would you regret separating from Kyle? Something to consider.
This is great advice!
Great reply
Helpful and positive advice. Unlike other comments.
The advice I got that made me stay with my husband was that-no one will ever love your children like their father. Now I know that there are shitty dads out there and exceptions to this rule. But it applied in my case. My husband is a great father. Just not a great husband. I stayed. We have been together for 26yrs. I honestly don’t know if it was the right decision. But it’s the one I made and I stuck with it. For the record my husband doesn’t cheat. He’s just a homebody and gives me no attention. He’s not a bad husband-I shouldn’t have said that.Just not the right fit for my personality I would say. That’s all. We were super young when we got together. 17 and 22.
I’m very sorry about this. I definitely could tell something was up. There seemed to be some distance between you. This is tough. I can see how hard this is for you. You have a bright future ahead. I’ll keep you and Damien in my prayers🤗🤗🙏
I recently separated from my husband of 24years, had some very low moments but also am now coming out the other end and looking at the positives, they wernt wasted years, I feel for you Tiffany but things do get easier over time. Sometimes people are better apart than together and that's better for the children
I have always been thinking that you are very different kind of persons, you and Kyle. I dont want to say anything else. I hope your future lives will be great. It has been very nice to follow your life and house construction project. ❤
This sucks. I'm so sorry. My husband and I also went through losing our daughter. It's tough and the decision to try again is the most difficult decision.
So sorry that you and Kyle are at such an impasse. It is devastating when partnerships become fractured but my hope is that you will remain solid friends as you navigate life independently of each other. May your new venture be lucrative and satisfying to you. Damien is blessed to have two parents who put him before their ego.
I'm sorry that are going through this! I can understand both sides of your situation. Devorced/separated parents of children that can still get along is great for the children.
She said they have been doing it for 3 years. While taking in his Dad. So I think Tiffany and Kyle will always do what is right for their family. Sometimes losing someone, like a child, reminds you how fragile life is. They got married because Tiffany was pregnant. To have a special needs child and go through that heart ache. I can’t imagine the lose. Tiffanys spirit has always been bright but her heart stays with those she cares about. She will make sure Kyle is fine.
I’m heartbroken for you, but you will get through this. Your strength is obvious. You have had to deal with things that no one should have to deal with. My wish is for you to find true happiness again. Thank you for opening up to us. Prayers to you, Kyle and Damien.
OMG, Tiffany! That was truly a HUGE bombshell. To be honest with you, I had sort of started wondering about something like this when you took off for Mexico by yourself, but I was hoping and praying that I was wrong. Gosh, how I wish I were wrong! To say that I'm in total shock would be a HUGE understatement. I've been following you, Kyle, Makayla, and Damien for a good number of years, and I have grown to love you guys very much. I was absolutely devastated when Makayla died. But, having some background in psychology, I know that something like this has the potential to either make or break a marriage. I feel extremely sad, not only for Damien, but also for both you and Kyle, because I know that in your heart of hearts, you guys will always love each other. Maybe, just maybe, spending some time apart, maybe you guys can do some soul-searching, and kinda reorganize your thoughts and everything. As for having another baby, I can see both Kyle's side and yours. On the one hand, sure, you guys are both still young enough. And children are so precious, and basically, you get to grow up all over again, looking at the world through their eyes and all that. On the other hand, though, Damien's now about ten years old, and he's had your undivided attention since Makayla died. And I can see potential problems (difficulties) about him having to adjust to another little sibling, who, at least for a good number of years, will require more attention from you. I wish I could give both you and Kyle some useful advice, but I guess at the end of the day, it's probably preferable, in the long run, to separate and remain close friends, rather than stay together and eventually end up resenting each other. I think I have a fairly good grasp about "people" in general, though, so I think I'm very confident that you and Kyle will still be the best parents to Damien and will work out the "co-parenting" thing in the best possible way. And I (and all your other followers) will be praying for you guys to make all the right decisions (whatever those may be) and may the next chapter (and all the following ones) be filled with happiness, success, and lots of fun and laughter, and (most importantly) good health for all of you guys. Sending you lots of love and prayers from Massachusetts!
She didn't go by herself. She went with another man. Disgusting!
@samross3257 from what I understand she went to visit a friend, and there's nothing disgusting about that, unless you have a disgusting sense of humor. Honestly, people like you make me want to puke 24/7. Tiffany is a fine, upstanding woman, and I sure hope she ignores this disgusting comment of yours!
@samross3257 you are disgusting. Maybe you should go listen to Tiffany telling us about Mexico. She went to VISIT A FRIEND, and there's nothing disgusting about that!
@samross3257 she went to visit a friend, that's all she did!
Ok, things in life change. I hate that for all of you to have to go through this. However life is too short to not live to the fullest. I just lost my husband of 28 years in December to a hunting accident and I never thought of life without him. Miss seeing videos but understand, you have my love prayers and support through all of this.
My heart dropped when I read the title of the video. We'll be praying for y'all and Damien.
You two have been through hell. You’re both doing the kindest thing letting each other move on with the kind of future you want.
When you’ve been together that long .. starting off young , stills kids essentially, you grow and sometime… most times… your growth is a different path then your partners as you become adults. And that’s ok. You both are completely different from when you were kids , have gone through some life experiences that change you both in your own ways. That is life . And seeing this together , knowing when you still care for that person and have love for them but am no longer in love is an admirable situation to address. Sending you all positivity and strength through this new life change ❤
Tiffany, I’m praying everyone will work together for Dude. He’s the one everyone should focus on.
I totally agree!!!
Your 20 year relationship is still an inspiration, no matter what it morphs into. You guys were such an impressive team and I'm sure you'll always be one when it comes to Damien. As someone who has been in a relationship for 25 years, I really understand part of your struggle and your decision. I am wondering how you are breaking it to Damien, and how he reacted? Best of luck for your future endeavours!
So sorry you're going through this - wishing you all the very best going forward. I really hope you and Kyle can maintain your friendship and can be a bit like my parents who split over 20 years ago and are probably closer now than at any other point in my lifetime! Certainly makes life easier that way, especially for Damien.
Is the lack of desire from Kyle not wanting another child due to the fact that you’ve had two children that have complex medical needs?
Totally understandable. Some relationships just take different paths. You've guys have been through hell but im so happy you'll still remain friends. Deep breaths girl you've got this. Lots of love from the soggy South.
I’m so sorry to hear this. If you allow me, let me share a few advices I wished I had received when I was younger. I’m a 41 years old mum of 4, I’m divorced and 2 of my kids are neurodivergent and have a bunch of other medical issues. Kyle seems to be a good guy, he doesn’t disrespect you, doesn’t abuse you, doesn’t cheat on you, is a great father and family man. You should think twice before separating and maybe try counselling. It is very rare and precious to marry your best friend. Damien is safe with both of you, and maybe Kyle could change his mind about having another child, and I don’t think he would ever resent you for having another child, he would love the child, no matter what. You both have been through so much together and have built so much together, don’t let it all fall apart, together as a family you are strong. I don’t think going with another man would benefit Damien at all, as anyone here can tell that Damien is a very sensitive child. It is very rare to find someone who will love your child the way you do. Think real good about the situation, try counselling, don’t rush into anything, you’re still young, you can still have other kids, but you won’t find another best friend to marry. It’s understandable that you are you young and wand to try new things, but believe me, the grass is not always greener elsewhere. Think of Damien, as he’s your top priority. Other men might come and go, but not your best friend, not your babies’ daddy.
Sorry if I’ve said anything offending or judgemental here but believe me, I wish someone had told me all these things years ago.
Great advice and I 100% agree!
Please reconsider…. You need each other! A baby will not make you or break you… you have a beautiful family unit…. Build on it! ♥️♥️
What about being foster parents....
@@kezza82 brilliant idea!
They can be everything on paper, but not make ur heart flutter. Marriage isn’t a business transaction. If the heart isn’t in it, it isn’t in it. They were young when they met and grew up and apart. Most of their marriage was taking care of a sick child. Sometimes after that we realize there is nothing left.
Sorry you all are going through this, I know it's tough after that many years. I went through this May 2023. I was with my daughter's "father" for 28yrs on & off, but was together the past 10yrs straight. Our daughter is 25 now & is severely disabled, total care, on a ventilator. Last May he had snuck his clothes out the basement window to his female he had a kid with in 2011. Well May 30 our daughter just got out of the hospital, so may 31 he told me he was going for a bike ride & he would call me shortly. I've not heard 1 word from him since. Not asked about my daughter or nothing. Unbelievable. Walked out on her like she's trash. 😡. I was completely supporting him financially, but now he's there with them & working supporting them. Not a penny or supplies or a gift for his adult child, who's like a 5 month old baby. Thankfully you 2 will continue to be friends & be civil for your son. Good luck on the next chapter of your new journey.
I’m sorry to hear this. Prayers for you all!!
It's so hard for a marriage to survive the death of a child.my heart goes out to you
Omg! 😮 was not expecting this! Sending love and positive energy to you, Damien and Kyle
I'm so very sorry to hear this news,but wish you both nothing but the best life has to offer.
You need to do what is best FOR YOU! People don’t realize that when you’ve gone through what you and Kyle have gone through, it feels like it becomes your identity. The years of caring for McKayla and also caring for your marriage. That was your life. Now that she’s gone, you’ve got to figure out who YOU are and start looking at your future and what YOU want the rest of YOUR life to be like. None of us understand what you have lived through. You are both good people and you’ll be fine. Damian will be fine. You’ll figure out how to co parent with Kyle. You are allowed to be happy in your life! WITH NO GUILT!
I don’t think people get how much you lose yourself, when she was spending so much time loving and caring for Micheala. That and she was young and doing it so well. It’s good for her to get to know herself. We only get one life.
So, y'all are getting a divorce just because Kyle does not anymore kids? Or am i wrong? Maybe I misunderstood what you said??
If they want different things they want different things. They can still coparent and maybe even get back together if things change. But there is no reason to settle for things you want or don’t want. Life is too short. Marriage is much more than just having a “good man “ or a “good woman “. If it doesn’t fit, it doesn’t fit.
Can’t imagine my relationship falling apart then having my partners entire family live in with me.
Its only his dad I believe.
@@seabass2767 her parents have been living with them also
This is truly heartbreaking! I hope you, Damien and Kyle can find some peace and comfort despite the separation…..I hope life can brighten up for your entire family, I don’t watch your content as much as I use to, but I still care about you guys…….so I check in every now and then…..please take care of yourself and Damien.
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I’m sorry to hear this, sending you positive vibes for a brighter future ahead.
I’m so sorry to hear this Tiffany. I’m 51 and have 2 adult kids but never married. I’m not so trusting of men and that makes it nearly impossible for a relationship. I wish you the very best and hope you guys get through the process with your friendship still in tact.
Sad to hear this news I wish you and Kyle nothing but the best in the up and coming future ❤❤
IMO I figured that marriage was over when she went to Mexico with another man. Best of Luck to you Tiff ❤
I thought that was so odd
Did she go with another man? 😮 found it weird, as well, that she went alone. But never knew she went with someone else
Oh that's just wrong. Been together 20 years and she goes of with another man. Disgusting woman. My support is for Kyle. You don't do that to someone you have been with for that length of time.
How do you know she went with another man?
@@samross3257 Tiffany went to visit A FRIEND!
I don’t follow you but just by reading a lot of the comments seems like there is more to the story! You don’t just leave the person you are in love with or is your best friend because he doesn’t want more children and you do. Does that just make you stop loving someone? I don’t get it. Time changes peoples minds on things and why not just honestly talk it out? Seems to me you already have a back up plan. I feel sorry for your husband!
So sorry to hear about your Separation - I Hope The best for both of you and of course for Damien. You are great parents - and had to Go through a lot No parents should have to Go through...
I had a feeling. 20 yrs is a long time you are different people and sometimes you just dont grow the same way anymore..be proud of that time most people dont make it half that anymore life after losing a kid is different and nobody understands
So sorry Tiffany I sensed something wasn't right like there were little hints that you and Kyle weren't happy in some of the videos. I know this must be hard for you both but you two had so many stressor with baby girl and the house and with different visions of how you wanted your life to be that's super important too and you both should live the life that you want and do what makes you happy cause life is short and we all have to find our bliss in this world. I wish you and Kyle the best of luck and thank you for being brave enough to open up. We love you and will always be your fans!
my heart goes out to damian in all this, but hopefully two happy homes will be better than one unhappy one.
I'm sorry folks I thought this was coming with all the growth Tiffs been doing mentally emotionally and every other way she can she taking better care of her self the weight loss say that and Mexico on her own say she growing mentally and emotionally its like they grew apart and all what she been doing shows there's been problems you could see they were both on different paths i wish you well Tiff big love to you ❤
Maybe she wasn't in Mexico alone. Maybe she had a guy fellow
They were really young when they got together and are totally different people now. Both of them have gone through more than most at their young age.
They were really young when they got together and are totally different people now. Both of them have gone through more than most at their young age.
@@tatanayaalexandra6967 she went with or stayed with a man
Oh Tiffany and Kyle. My heart breaks that you are going through this. I personally feel you don't owe anyone the personal parts of this. I'm glad you let viewers like me so I would understand why things have changed but feel a lot of this transition is too personal for youtube. I still would like to see more videos of family members but understand that can be difficult. Thanks for the video.
All the best to you and kyle on your new journey ❤
My best friend’s parents are separated and are best friends which is great for their kids, I pray y’all find a relationship together as friends for your sweet baby boy. Good luck to you both❤
Wow you have been though a lot.i use to watch you all the time when you had your daughter then .then I got very sick and now. I can watch you again I am so happy
Going to be hard living with the in- laws. Praying for you
I’m so sorry to hear this news, but I understand, I’ve been through it, it’s hard and it’s a grieving process, but I could tell things were off, you’re growing and changing and sometimes people just grow apart and go on separate paths. Sending love, hugs and prayers to you all. Love you sweetie☮️💐🌞🙏🏼🎈🤟✝️🫶🏼💝🥰❣️❣️❣️❣️
I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing this very personal part of your lives with us. What matters most is you and Kyle being able to make this transition without anyone judging you both for what is becoming the best situation for you both and for Damien. Sending you all my love and support. We will always be here for all of you. ❤
I’m so very sad to hear this news. I’ve been watching your channel since Makayla was about four or five. I was devastated after she passed away. I looked forward to seeing her in your videos. To tell you the truth, I haven’t watched your channel too much since then. But, I guess I’m still subscribed as this came up on my feed. Life is so unpredictable. I wish you well on your journey.
I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I have been going through a divorce the last year after being together for 35 years and having two children together I know what you are going through. I am so glad you and Kyle are still best friends. My spouse and I are not even speaking to each other
Hi Tiffany,
IGNORE ALL THE JUDGEY COMMENTS
People only see some of your life through youtube and have no place to be telling you to reconsider etc. I think you're really brave to take this step and wish you all the happiness in your future xx keep your chin up 💕
I'm so sorry to hear your news. Grief is a big part of it. Don't expect to much of yourself. May God be with you and comfort you. Love from Western Australia.
So sad to hear about you and Kyle 😢
Tiffany I am so sorry to hear this my prayers are with you and your family!
Sorry to hear about your separation I love you guys I’ve been watching you for a long time even through the days with your daughter 🩷while you guys built your home. I’m sad 😔. Thank you for sharing the Roku drone I ordered one today thanks
I’m so sorry Tiff ❤ you are both amazing people. I have no doubt you will both move forward in the best possible way for eachother and more importantly Damien. As a woman, you take care of you first! You need to be ok in order to be strong for your son. When we reach our 30’s so much changes, we grow, we change and we elevate. Enjoy the process, and do what’s best for you!! Same for Kyle, he deserves the life he wants as well! Sending love, strength and continued success on your channel ❤
As long as everyone is happy and healthy in the end. We, as the audience, don’t truly know how/why Tiffany and Kyle came to this decision. All anyone can do is hope for great co-parenting for their child.
I wish the best for both of you and wherever life takes you.
So sad I’ve noticed you not posting a lot of videos in the past months.Tiffany you are a strong woman ❤
So sorry… big hugs ❤ … I have been divorced now 24 years ago my son was 1 at the time but life goes on we are both now re-married I have another son ( 14) you are a strong woman with a good support system and you and Kyle will co-parent just fine and Damien know his parents love him.❤❤
I'm so sorry to hear about your decision to divorce. Please forgive me for being so honest but I saw it coming 😔. Is easy to criticize others unless you are in there shoes. That is why I will not. All I can say is that I pray God leads you to make the right decisions for you, your son, and yes Kyle too. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💖
I’m sorry Tiff you’re going through this. I could see it coming years ago honestly bc you’re so honest in who you are. You guys have been through a lot ❤ you have a strong family to lean on if needed. Hope Damien is doing well. Hope they are more TH-cam videos to come love catching up with you.
Sorry to hear you are going through this Tiffany. Though I trust like in most things, you know what you are doing. You are one strong, intelligent, resourceful, capable and resilient woman. There is no doubt about that. Your parents should be super proud of you, I know they are and have every right to be, just for the way you have handled all that life has thrown at you up to this point. I have every faith in you girl and I wish you all the very best no matter what you decide to do going forward. Life is short and you all deserve to be as happy as possible for as much of it as you possibly can.
I'm sorry to hear this. Hoping for the best for both of you. Have you two tried couples consoling? Or anything to try not to reach this point? I'm just curious and I know sometimes unfortunately no matter what a couple tries, separation is unfortunately the only option.
@cindyphillips8718 she wants more kids. He does not. How is life supposed to go on from that point?
@cindyphillips8718I 100% agree with you. Kyle might change his mind with a little bit of time, and Damien is the top priority here. Blended families rarely truly work for everyone involved from my experience, as it is so difficult to find someone who will love your child unconditionally. Damien is a sensitive child, with some special needs and this is not something that would be easily accepted by another man.
Awe I’m so sorry to hear this. I had no idea.
You’ve been through so much together and I’m sure you’ll always have a special connection especially since you share a son.
You were young and grew up together but I know from experience that sometimes our goals change over time and we can end up on opposite pages.
I hope neither of you feel like a failure, you’re not. When you can’t move forward ….it’s time to move on!
Good luck to you both ❤
After everything. Losing babygirl finishing the house.. im so sorry.. you survived so much, this breaks my heart for you guys..
Hi Tiff, I am so sorry about your separation from Kyle. I wish you both the love and support from your family and friends. You both faced lots in your relationship and you guys even grew up together. Thank you for sharing your life with us all as this couldn’t have been an easy video to make. All you two can do from now on is give each other the grace and freedom to be the best version of yourselves, don’t ever feel regret for anything, you both are amazing, you guys are young and have a lot of living to do. Best of success in your new business, hugs to you and Kyle, lastly, you guys are still a team with so much promise. Love to Damien, hope he’s doing well with the new changes at home.
So sad to hear you'll be going separate ways, but glad to hear it seems to be amicable and with the greatest respect for each other.
I’m sorry to hear this! ❤ but I think most or all of us of here for you. I don’t think a sit down is necessary with him. Keep your eyes forward ❤
You did Ruko justice, good advertisement and I ALWAYS skip sponsor stuff.
My heart dropped when i read the title of the video so sad to hear about you and your husband kyle I am so sorry
I am so sorry to hear about this. It's never easy to split. I'm hoping for peace for you and everyone else. I was sensing something going on the last few months. Mostly because the vlogs slowed down and Kyle wasn't really in them. I am curious to know why Kyle didn't want anymore kids (I only ask because you said we could for a q&a). How is little man taking it?
Thinking of you and Damien with care…I am so very sorry to read this. Take good and gentle care of yourselves.
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So, let me get this straigt, if you both have a history, and love one another, and was staying in this relationship just for the child, tgat was wrong from the beginning.. that tells me, you both had issues steming before the child.. if you both truly love one anotger, both of you need to suck it up, if your actually married.
I’m so very sorry 😞 you are so right everything happens for a reason and I’m keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers and wish you both the best 🙏✝️💟
I’m so sorry. My husband and I have had some issues for about same length of time so you aren’t alone..keeping you in my thoughts
I’m so sorry to hear this!
No one has a right to judge or comment in a negative way. I wish you all the best. My ex-husband and I divorced less than a yr after our son Timothy died. I have a daughter named Mikayla. 😊 I think I found you at the perfect time.
Sad to hear this but i pray you both find your peace and happiness you both deserve ❤️
I have been watching you for sooo many years, and it breaks my heart to see you guys separate and to know your struggling, but hopefully you can adapt and coparent with as much strength as it takes to separate, your guys and damians happiness comes first after all ❤ wishing you all the best, keep being awesome
I’m literally just beyond stunned like I was when Makayla died despite having a feeling about it because such a long length of time between videos. I don’t know if this has anything to do with it but it seems many couples break down when their child passes away. I know someone this happened to, they had been together for more than 30 years and then they lost a teenage son and somehow the marriage was still ok and then their second son died still in his 20’s and the whole relationship just fell apart. I’m really sad for you and Kyle as you two really were so much light in our viewers eyes. I think a lot of it was due to the amount of time you two have been together and how you were building an even better future despite losing Makayla. I’m incredibly sorry, I know it’s not words that change but anyway, I really hope the two of you can somehow find some level of peace and solace after the full split.
You have to do what's best for your family. Sending positive thoughts your way.
I’m so saddened to see this Tiffany.. but I do know what it’s like to stay in a relationship just for your kids when you aren’t happy… to be the best parents to your children you need to be happy and content in your own life.. if you can find a way to keep your respect for each other and co-parent and remain good friends then Damien will be fine.. I wish you both the best and please don’t leave TH-cam 😭😭😭
Question for Q&A… will you be staying in the house or will you be selling it?
Sorry about this but as long as Damian is happy and you can co-parent respectfully that's what matters the most. I can say that I saw this coming your videos just showed less togetherness and even though couples do take separate trips your trip to Mexico had me wondering.
My questions if you do a Q & A are:
1. Will you have to sell the house?
2. Are your parents planning on staying now to offer you support or do they still plan to find property to build?
3. Are Kyle or you planning on moving out of the house/do you have a timeline?
3. Did you 2 consider or do marriage counseling?
4. With your parents and Kyles dad living with you did they see it coming or was it shocking for them?
5. Don't want to get too much into Damian personal life because I believe a child's life should be just that personal but does he understand what is happening or will be happening in the future? Have you sought counseling for him so he has someone besides his family that he can speak to? I work in a school and often having an outside for a child to speak to is so beneficial even though parents believe their child tells them everything and a counselor can help them process things properly.
6. If wanting more children was not an issue on either side would you stay married or were there other issues? You don't have to say what they were as that is no ones business.
7. Since you want more children are you planning on adopting or do you have a plan to be pregnant within a specific timeline
Unlike most in this comment section, I’m divorced and a single parent. My boy has non verbal autism and a rare heart condition. The first 6 months suck, then you realise everyone in society judges you. Then you get over it and realise what society thinks doesn’t matter. You are beautiful, you are great and you can do it on your own. Your reasons for divorce does not matter. People will judge you for it no matter the reason. Just live your life for yourself and no one else! The only one who will have regrets is you! The people judging you won’t have your regrets. So who cares what they say! You only live once, no point in living it with someone who doesn’t want what you want. ❤ You’ve got this!
So you’re gonna go find yourself a baby daddy but still stay close friends with your husband?? Doesn’t sound like a good idea imo
I am sorry to hear that your separating and hope you will be ok soon
Sending prayers. Hope for the best for the both of you.
I am so sad to hear this...I with you both all the best.
I’m so sorry that you’re going through all this. Ignore all the rude and judgmental comments. They don’t know the full story. I doubt you guys made this decision lightly.
You’ve been through so much, I hope you find peace 😔🌸
Ok I am only 2:15 into this video and from reading the top comment I can see that this has something to do with wanting another baby. I can only speak from my experience but my EX told me he wanted a house full of kids when we got married. We were great 'friends' too, friend being the key word. After 3 years of infertility and finding out he had a rare condition germinal cell aplasia which caused him to have zero sperm, we decided to use a sperm donor and after 2 tries I was blessed with boy/girl twins. Then he led me on for years making excuses as to why we should 'wait' for the next try; jobs, education etc....... Then I find out 8 years later that when he rolled me out of the hospital in the wheelchair holding my twins he knew THEN that he didn't want anymore children, but didn't disclose that fact to me. I left him not so much for not wanting more children but for the BIG LIE he held for all those years. I spent up basically all my fertile years with him, waiting. I don't judge a woman one bit about leaving/separating from a man who no longer shares the same longing for more children.
i thought it was my eyes lol my mouth fell to the floor you guys are an adorable couple
So sorry. Hope everything goes well with your family
I am so sorry
Turning your separation announcement into a sponsorship video is wild 🫢
So sorry to hear about you and Kyle.
What about his channel? Are you going to keep doing videos for his channel? Sorry to hear about you guys. It is a tough situation. I had to do it with my parents and I didn’t like it at all. I’m still not happy about it. How does Dan feel about it?
Strength to you! Beautiful nature trail! 🫶🏻
No one knows what’s happening behind the scenes. It’s not fair to judge, some of these comments are unfair. I wish you both the best on your new journeys. Your doing it with love still in both your hearts that’s what matters. ❤❤
I'm sorry 😢💔 hang in there. Prayers ❤️