I mean no hate by this at all, just a different perspective: I really think Damien deserves to know more than “mommy wants more kids but daddy doesn’t”. Telling him ahead of time even if it’s two years in advance will help him adjust to the change and understand what’s going on while these changes are happening. Imagine being a naive kid and then all of a sudden you sell the house and then his whole home life changes with everybody separated. Just tell him these changes are going to happen and they will happen slowly and let him feel his feelings and adjust to everything as it happens. Children are resilient and he will be okay, but they also understand a lot more than adults give them credit for. I truly wish the best for all three of you!
Stay friends, close friends. Ya'll going through a rocky patch - grin and bear - life is so short and sweet and for whatever rreason, don;t hide your respecr and love for each other. Amen
He wants out, willing to get full custody of their son. Kyle looks relief and content. When on the last video, talking about separation and divorce; he stated that the marriage was not solid all the time, she corrected him and say no, it was solid. I think is her way or her way. So sad but wishing both the best . Kyle say it”…and in different relationships “. No doubt he’ll be in one . Good luck to both
The body language is very telling.....She is in charge 100% and he is not happy but going along with whatever. Him saying if she goes off the deep end he wants full custody? Also...very telling.
My parents stayed together for me and my siblings.. it’s better to separate children are not silly they pick up mum and dad are unhappy. I enjoy seeing both my parents happier now. I wish you both the best of luck on your new journeys. ❤
Love how you guys are open and honest and good with communication! Even with you guys separated you give couples a good testimony on what healthy communication looks like
I think you are doing the right thing..Kyle seems to not want the same.I agree you'll find someone special to have a family with.All my best to you both❤
Tiffany and Kyle I wish you both the best in where life takes you two. You both are great parents to Damien and Makayla. The decisions you make are what's best for you both. It is sad in a way however no one knows the whole story which is none of our business. Also I've been a subscriber for many years I always thought you two had a great relationship though time changes everything. Like I mentioned I wish you all the best. Take care and do what's best for you and not worry about others who are negative. Take care!
Built a Beautiful home for nothing wow so sad so many memories could have Been made there. Kyle Damien I wish you the best ❤ Tiffany I hope u find what you are looking for
Don't feel sorry for them. They have had a wonderful life together. Exactly, it's not rushed. You're actually two normal folk and quite honestly, still suit each other. Just going through a stupid change in life! No you haven't wasted time!!!
It is so obvious that Kyle is so done. It’s to bad that he can’t find another place to live, even if it’s a small apartment. It can’t be easy being around people who would really rather not be there. I’m so sorry for both of you
honestly I think its a bit bizarre to rope damian into the divorce, but only a little bit, by making it "us against Daddy" about more kids. You're sowing the seeds of the family separating without being upfront and don't think that might warp his viewpoint of marriage/family? On another note, I'm surprised Kyle even did the video, since he's always been very uncomfortable doing these. He seems happier now that he doesn't have to pretend the relationship is working anymore and could express how he's felt about things. however, that sign off tells me, he still didn't want to do this one either.
Thanks for being so candid! As I said in the last video, you guys are an inspiration, no matter what happens. I wish you the best and I've no doubt Damien will feel like a priority!
@@outback7092 I've seen many videos where Tiffany has said Kyle was working a lot of double shifts. So it's not that I know it all just what she has said, dang
Tiffany got really cocky. She lost a lot of weight and just thought she was better than her husband. They both lost a child and I know a lot of families who've lost children don't stay together. It's hard but this man did a lot for the family and I couldn't imagine you know seeing my wife shutting her stuff in hussy clothes going to trips in Mexico meeting. Who knows who there. I'm sorry that the separation happened but I really do feel for the husband knew. How's everything? She just seems like she thinks she's so much better than him
It's great how you both are on good terms & came to this decision together. I also have a medically complex 25yr old daughter who is a lot like your daughter & it's for sure very challenging. Me & her "father" were together on & off for 28yrs. May 2023 she had 2 hospitalizations & the day after we got released he told me he was going for a bike ride & I've not heard a word from him since. He snuck his clothes out to some female out the basement window. He walked out on my child like she meant nothing to him. It's great to see people co parent like you guys are doing, especially when there's nothing like that in our situation. Keep doing what you're doing, it's obviously working for you guys.
Very sad, but life happens, people change and their needs and wants change. Followed you guys for years and years, you are so obviously great friends I'm not sure that will change, which is awesome. So lovely to see the pair of you responsibly separating, many women/men do not accept changes become angry and then start the "rebel process" via the use of the child/children, money and assets. Best of luck to you all. Love you guys together or apart. Much Love from prison Island xo :)
I’ve known Tiffany and Kyle personally for almost 2 years , and i can assure you that Damien is their top priority. He is a wonderful child and when the time comes for them to talk to him about the separation, i know it will be done very maturely and sensitively. - children ARE RESILIENT. My parents separated when i was younger than Damien. My parents didn’t put us jn the middle, they handled it with respect and civility. We never saw them fight . We were never put in the middle . To this day my parents get along quite well. I have no doubts that will be the same for tiff and kyle. Tiffany is the one on here doing videos , not Kyle. So, of course she will get the brunt of the negative comments… this relationship separation is mutual, and thats made apparent by both. We don’t know how deep this goes , and only know what she’s willing to share , with or without Kyle. You have the luxury of viewing, you don’t have a gun to your head. She doesn’t owe you anything more , and if you think she does because ‘ shes on TH-cam’ then you need to find something else better to do with your time lol. Anyways , i love you Tiff and Kyle . 💜 nothing but love and support. - Sandra .
Hi Tiffany, I think I misspoke myself in your last video. I'm sure that Damien is a charming little guy with little babies, and loves them and all that. However, having another little sibling would mean having a baby in the house 24/7/365. With Damien having his own challenges, he probably needs more one-on-one attention than he would potentially get if there were a little sibling in the house. You are a great Mom, Tiffany, thoughtful, loving, caring, and I would have loved to have a Mom like you, being so understanding and all that. However, based on my background in Child Psychology (I minored in Psychology in college), and on several of your videos discussing Damien's schooling and his learning issues and all that, and on my experiences being a daycare teacher, I think that, regarding the "having more children" issue, I think I'm going to have to side with Kyle. But, as I told you before, it's your life, and your decision, and whatever decision(s) you guys make, you have to live with it (them), and you have to be happy with your choice(s). You are both wonderful parents, which we all (your followers and subscribers) witnessed in the way you guys took care of Makayla. I am absolutely convinced that Makayla would NEVER have lasted 10 years without all the sacrifices you and Kyle made, going back and forth to the hospital, doing those chest physios, giving her meds and all of that. It takes two VERY SPECIAL and devoted parents to accomplish that, and you guys should really be proud of yourselves and of each other for that. As you said, even if you split up, your number one priority will be Damien (as he should be), and I hope and pray that even after the split (if, indeed, there's no way to avoid splitting up), you are going to continue being a family. Phew, I know that's a long "comment" (my best friend always accuses me of writing "books", even when I'm just writing birthday cards, lolol)! Sending you guys lots of love, prayers and good thoughts from Massachusetts!!!
It’s your own choice to separate and people need to respect that, the rude comments arent necessary especially the ones about you staying together for your child. My parents stayed together until they couldn’t anymore, they ended up in a messy divorce because they had chosen to stay together for us. It ended up with a lot of abuse and neglect because of it, I wish they had separated when they were still on amicable terms.
Sorry to hear you guys are having problems, but you have to do what’s best for you and your child. Do not listen to these negative comments. People are gonna be mean I don’t know why but they are and I know that you guys will stay friends because get along so well, but that does not mean that you have to stay married, especially for your kid
I think I have known for a long time that you both were having issues. It’s body language and such but that does not mean that you don’t care for one another you have just grown apart. It’s okay and so best of luck to both of you.
I think that question was asking about Damien’s neurodivergence. The significant speech delay, sensory issues (food and sound), cannot adapt to change in routine, stimming, fine motor issues, learning difficulties. He was already held back a grade and is still failing to get by, yet you neglect to investigate. He has an IEP, therapy, a weighted vest, chew toys, special pencils, a computer in class, yet you have say an evaluation for possible diagnosis is not necessary?? A neurotypical child would not struggle this much after being held back a grade, even with the pandemic and having lost a sibling.
I’m honestly hurt by your comment. I don’t know why you think it’s permissible to say negative and derogatory things about someone else’s child. That’s something that is never welcomed…by anyone. Boundaries are to be respected, I’m just really disturbed, I am not a mean or negative person. However, you need to learn your manners and stay in your own lane.
She said the school has said he doesn't qualify to be evaluated. If that's true, idk if Canadian healthcare would cover the testing. In the US, private health insurance doesn't pay because it's technically on the school to provide and fund the evaluations. If it's denial that's one thing, but if the school won't test him they will have to self-pay if they can afford to.
@@brittanyC_ I’m in the same province as her. The school has been very accommodating in providing a teacher’s aid for Damien, a computer for him, an individual education plan; she even takes him to a learning center for children with learning disabilities, which is covered by the province. Tiffany says that Damien just learns and thinks differently than the other children (hint: neurodivergence). She admits that he is very behind the other children despite having been held back a grade already. A neurotypical child would not struggle this much after being held back a grade, even with the pandemic and the trauma of losing a sibling.
@@stephanieann622 Stephanie, this isn’t about you. I didn’t say anything derogatory or negative about Damien. I described challenges experienced by Damien, as documented by his mother for views. They are not things to be ashamed of, and me listing them would only be viewed as derogatory if you are ableist and think that these struggles make someone less worthy. You are disturbed and accusing me of crossing a boundary? Get a grip! His mother made two videos in recent months about this, posts him sucking his thumb, him in his underwear all the time, despite him being bullied at school.
@@EL-tr1vibut wasn't you questioning Tiffs lack of concern for Damien with your comment actually neglect was the word you used you said Tiff neglects to investigate
This makes me so sad. I used to love watching the channel. I ordered tee shirts and some of the jewelry she recommended. I started watching ten years ago. I really enjoyed watching Makayla and her daily routines. After Makayla passed away, I stopped watching for a while. It was just too sad. This “separation video” recently came up on my feed. Kyle has changed a lot. He seems a lot more cynical, unhappy and disengaged than he used to be. I’m no expert on relationships. But, I’ll tell you one thing, he’s done. He has no desire to participate in the social media activity any longer. He’s done with the relationship, too. He loves his son and will continue to be a good parent. But, as for the rest of it, he’s done.
It breaks my heart to see any couple divorce 💔 I’ve been there It’s been 8years ago and I still suffer I thought a divorce was what I wanted. I was wrong 😢 I don’t blame either of you That’s just life. It’s hard. Love y’all bunches 💙🩷🩷💙🐶🐶
Sorry you’ve had rude comments about your life decisions. It’s hard enough without the negativity but there’s always those who feel the need to play the blame game. You’re both wonderful parents and it’s commendable that you’re on the same page about keeping Damien as your priority. Together or apart you’ll always be his loving parents 😊❤
Iam pissed who ever commented that it's unfair on Damien and you guys should stay together for him is crap Damien deserves parents separated if that makes them happy and working together as a team for him not parents miserable because they are staying together for him arguing and fighting being resentful and bitter because that's what happens if a marriage has failed but its being dragged out for the kids its wrong Damien is better off with Kyle and Tiff being adult and grown up enough to realise Damien needs this as much as they do hats off to you guys
Tiffany, first i am so sorry that these other women are so catty and judgemental to your personal life choices and decisions. Id be willing to bet a microscope into their lives would show worse than they are judging you for. Keep your head up, stay strong and stay brave. We only get 1 life, living it and finding our happiness should be top priority for us all 🫶🏼 take care and stay YOU
I get the vibe from Kyle in this video that he really did not want to even do this video but had to for Tiffany, he does not want "his life," and life decisions shared online I could see him in the future not allowing her to share as much about Damien online. More and more youTubers are sharing less of their children until the child is of the proper age to make the decision for themselves if they want everything about them shared. My only thought is everyone online is going to see this are they not concerned that someone who lives near them even another child might break the news to Damian about his parents decision to separate because not everyone is kind and someone will believe its their right to break it to him and even explain what it means about mommy and daddy selling the house and each getting their own house.
No more and more TH-camrs are posting videos of their children and tons of TH-camrs are doing special needs channel. Like this channel was so you’re so wrong
I am married with a young son like you. And if my husband and I where fighting and not getting along I would separate. I think it's more damaging to our son to stay together.
How difficult to explain to followers is such a personal milestone in your lives. I applaud both of you for public respecting each other throughout everything you have gone through. Thanks for the video.
Good luck to both of you. You have a lot of courage to let everyone know what you’re going through because you will be getting a lot of opinions from all kinds of people. I personally couldn’t have done what both of you did on the internet because once my ex husband knew I wanted a divorce it was very ugly and 30 years later it still is. That’s sad. But I wish both of you love and happiness.
I’m so sorry you’ve received rude comments-no one has the right to judge your choices! Be safe, be well-and cherish your lives, as you live separately. How you honour your children is most admirable.
@@judedimatteo8942 Yes they were. There are videos of her laying in the vehicle so she could stay out of the sun at the construction site of the home. I’ve been watching their channel for many years, I know damn well what happened. Apparently you haven’t been watching that long. They started building 5 years ago and even had a full planned custom handicap bedroom and bathroom they had already framed before she passed
Yes, because who wants privacy during the end of a "life long commitment." Who needs to be introspective and reflective during the sad new reality for the child. This ending really just cheapens whatever this was.
Kyle saying immediately thought you changed drastically 😂 and then he said he would try for full custody ??? There’s more to this story. But fine to keep that part private of course
I don’t think reality of a separation has set in you’re still living together wait tell you don’t have your son for weekends or you have to drop him off at his fathers house and you don’t see call every day then the reality of the separation will sit in. I hope you have the same feelings about it.
So what will happen to the dog when you move in separate homes? Will he be transitioning between the two houses? IDK why I feel more sad about this than you two, I just know that when kids die prematurely regardless of their age, it’s damaging to the relationship. I just can’t imagine either of you with new people. I’m so curious too what will happen if people just simply stop watching your channel? Would you have to go into the workforce?
I grew up in a very stressful home. I was abused by my father from 16 to 23. My mom always said she was going to divorce my father but never did. It did shock me when you said you and Kyle we're separating. I wish y'all the best.
It's unfortunate this is happening, but at least it's not how most separation happen; one little thing and that's it, the relationship must end and the two hate each other. If kids are involved, communication is minimal. Nothing together as a family. I hope things don't drastically change once it's time to physically go your separate ways. I've noticed this trend, if it's w vlogging family; it's the mother's fsujt for separation or divorce while off social media, people blame the men. 🤷♀️ How about people change? I do think people seperste/ divirce over little things and firhet the kids if there's kids in the picture. At least you teo thought about it for three years and eopp continue to think about what to do. I think the comment about 2 medically complex kids is believing Damian is autistic and / or other cinditions that requires a lot of extra care.
I personally don’t believe in counseling. I don’t think people really change. Unfortunately most marriages suffer after the loss of a child. Just be buds now!
Best wishes to you all! Your union brought 2 beautiful babies into the world! Thank you for sharing your family. You are doing what is best for you and family. You will get through this even stronger.
Hey Tiffany and Kyle Kaylee here I'm so sad that you guys are split up I thought for sure that you were good with each other when you guys had baby girls but I reaxpt you for that Tiffany maby you can find someone else and have a baby with someone else Tiffany and again I am so sorry that this is happening this breaks my heart for you guys Tiffany love you girl
Would u ever consider leaving Canada & moving to the states & getting to know somebody who would treat u & damien like u guys deserve? And had the same name as ur son? Hint hints. 😉
This all comes down to you want another child, but Kyle don't. So ridiculous!!! And, another thing this vlog here is a complete humiliation towards Kyle. This should never be on TH-cam!!! This is personal matters not for the whole world to see. And yes, you are being selfish.
People always have to says something they're not even been in others lives they don't even seen this people are been in they're lives stop being so judgemental they been together for 16 year's they both worked hardest to have a good home for demian for year's she looked after they're seek girl it's normal whens you're getting older you may want a different thing's we cannot blamed people without knowing the fact
How are you going to put Dan as your big priority if you’re not staying together I say that because my parents did the same thing and I live in Canton and he lives in Bard Asheville, North Carolina, so that’s why I say that over happiness so that’s why I say that
That sounds to me y'all two never really were close to begin and if y'all work close to begin with you and y'all doing this separation bit over another having another child.
My husband and I had our first child unexpectedly when I was 20 years old. I'm 55 years and my son is going to be 35. I wanted another child after my first one, but we Both decided not to. Because at that time we couldn't afford another and we were also thinking of the fact, the future. We NEVER ever thought about separating. We are happily married for 35 years. I have NEVER thought about separating from my husband because he didn't want another. We both sat down and discussed it together. I'm a conservative mom and we are blessed to have our Son. Some people are so selfish they want to bring another child into the world knowing how tough it is to raise kids today.
And if I was in that situation I would never have built that house begin with if I knew that our marriage or relationship wasn't working I would never have built that house. To me this is a bit childish just over Kyle not wanting another child. If you love him so much you will not be separated from him. I want another child after my son was born when I was in my 20s My husband told me we couldn't afford another. Then we both sat down and discussed it together. We both agreed on not having another, because it would have been hard to raise another. My husband and I Never talked about separating because of it. It's going on 35 years for us. Our son will be 35 this month. And we are absolutely happy.
I believe they intend to sell it once all the family members (her parents and his father) in the house have their situations/lives together. Once they move out, then they will likely go their separate ways.
I think it's ridiculous sitting beside your husband answering q&a. I absolutely think this is the most ridiculous vlog made. All this is personal and should be personal between y'all not complete TH-cam strangers. I would NEVER think about doing this with my Husband.
The whole entire video was all about her HE hardly talked! she is so annoying has always been annoying...bringing the ex to do a video for her own benefit $$$ such
Lol what a ridiculous comment. Did you even watch the video?? Anytime she tried to get him to talk he barely said anything and definitely nothing of substance. She talks so much because they're making a video. What did you want her to do? Sit there in silence?
I will never understand why people chose to divorce. Marriage is not understood and is taken as if divorce is an option. We make vows through sickness and health good and bad then years later make things deal breakers forgetting the vows made. I’m sorry to hear you two are throwing in the towel. What God has yoked together let no man put apart. That means even ones self. May God help you two reconcile.
God should be your 1st priority. A house is made of brick and stone, a home is made of Love alone. You're nobody without Jesus. May your new homes serve The Lord. There's no greater joy than Knowing my children walk in Truth. The Bible may hurt you with the Truth, but it will never comfort you in a lie. God never fails to keep His Word. Nobody can stop The Lord.
I can see why Kyle doesn’t want any more children! They have sure struggled with the health of both children! Sometimes enough is enough!
Maybe, he doesn’t want more children… with her.
@@alexisnicole-qjx4478 That’s possible too!
@alexisnicole-qjx4478 they need to have children with other ppl cuz I think their kids will be healthy... i think
I have much respect for parents that stay friendly. Children have more solid roots because of it
I mean no hate by this at all, just a different perspective: I really think Damien deserves to know more than “mommy wants more kids but daddy doesn’t”. Telling him ahead of time even if it’s two years in advance will help him adjust to the change and understand what’s going on while these changes are happening. Imagine being a naive kid and then all of a sudden you sell the house and then his whole home life changes with everybody separated. Just tell him these changes are going to happen and they will happen slowly and let him feel his feelings and adjust to everything as it happens. Children are resilient and he will be okay, but they also understand a lot more than adults give them credit for. I truly wish the best for all three of you!
Kyle looks happier now than he did when you were together
Stay friends, close friends. Ya'll going through a rocky patch - grin and bear - life is so short and sweet and for whatever rreason, don;t hide your respecr and love for each other. Amen
He wants out, willing to get full custody of their son. Kyle looks relief and content.
When on the last video, talking about separation and divorce; he stated that the marriage was not solid all the time, she corrected him and say no, it was solid. I think is her way or her way.
So sad but wishing both the best .
Kyle say it”…and in different relationships “. No doubt he’ll be in one . Good luck to both
The body language is very telling.....She is in charge 100% and he is not happy but going along with whatever. Him saying if she goes off the deep end he wants full custody? Also...very telling.
@@betty-y3m9y yeah what an odd thing to say if they're still cordial, KNOWING these things will get picked apart by people watching.
I think Kyle's best years are ahead of him, Tiff, not so much. She seems to be the type to never be happy. It's never enough.
My parents stayed together for me and my siblings.. it’s better to separate children are not silly they pick up mum and dad are unhappy. I enjoy seeing both my parents happier now. I wish you both the best of luck on your new journeys. ❤
Love how you guys are open and honest and good with communication! Even with you guys separated you give couples a good testimony on what healthy communication looks like
I think you are doing the right thing..Kyle seems to not want the same.I agree you'll find someone special to have a family with.All my best to you both❤
Tiffany and Kyle I wish you both the best in where life takes you two. You both are great parents to Damien and Makayla. The decisions you make are what's best for you both. It is sad in a way however no one knows the whole story which is none of our business. Also I've been a subscriber for many years I always thought you two had a great relationship though time changes everything. Like I mentioned I wish you all the best. Take care and do what's best for you and not worry about others who are negative. Take care!
Prayers to all 3 of you.
Built a Beautiful home for nothing wow so sad so many memories could have Been made there. Kyle Damien I wish you the best ❤ Tiffany I hope u find what you are looking for
Don't feel sorry for them. They have had a wonderful life together. Exactly, it's not rushed. You're actually two normal folk and quite honestly, still suit each other. Just going through a stupid change in life! No you haven't wasted time!!!
It is so obvious that Kyle is so done. It’s to bad that he can’t find another place to live, even if it’s a small apartment. It can’t be easy being around people who would really rather not be there. I’m so sorry for both of you
honestly I think its a bit bizarre to rope damian into the divorce, but only a little bit, by making it "us against Daddy" about more kids. You're sowing the seeds of the family separating without being upfront and don't think that might warp his viewpoint of marriage/family?
On another note, I'm surprised Kyle even did the video, since he's always been very uncomfortable doing these. He seems happier now that he doesn't have to pretend the relationship is working anymore and could express how he's felt about things. however, that sign off tells me, he still didn't want to do this one either.
Those dogs are adorable and clearly adore Kyle ! I hope they are looked after properly after this
Thanks for being so candid! As I said in the last video, you guys are an inspiration, no matter what happens. I wish you the best and I've no doubt Damien will feel like a priority!
That poor dude worked double shifts for years while you made all the decisions $ wise. He almost looks relieved of a lot of stress now
Tiffany made good money off of TH-cam back when she was really into TH-cam. Kyle wasn’t the only one making $$.
you know so much apparently !
@@outback7092 I've seen many videos where Tiffany has said Kyle was working a lot of double shifts. So it's not that I know it all just what she has said, dang
Tiffany got really cocky. She lost a lot of weight and just thought she was better than her husband. They both lost a child and I know a lot of families who've lost children don't stay together. It's hard but this man did a lot for the family and I couldn't imagine you know seeing my wife shutting her stuff in hussy clothes going to trips in Mexico meeting. Who knows who there. I'm sorry that the separation happened but I really do feel for the husband knew. How's everything? She just seems like she thinks she's so much better than him
@@chantellegattrell7073 who's Brian?
kyle is glowing
It's refreshing to see how congenial you both are.
Wishing you two the best sorry to hear it didn’t work out
It's great how you both are on good terms & came to this decision together. I also have a medically complex 25yr old daughter who is a lot like your daughter & it's for sure very challenging. Me & her "father" were together on & off for 28yrs. May 2023 she had 2 hospitalizations & the day after we got released he told me he was going for a bike ride & I've not heard a word from him since. He snuck his clothes out to some female out the basement window. He walked out on my child like she meant nothing to him. It's great to see people co parent like you guys are doing, especially when there's nothing like that in our situation. Keep doing what you're doing, it's obviously working for you guys.
Very sad, but life happens, people change and their needs and wants change. Followed you guys for years and years, you are so obviously great friends I'm not sure that will change, which is awesome. So lovely to see the pair of you responsibly separating, many women/men do not accept changes become angry and then start the "rebel process" via the use of the child/children, money and assets. Best of luck to you all. Love you guys together or apart. Much Love from prison Island xo :)
I’ve known Tiffany and Kyle personally for almost 2 years , and i can assure you that Damien is their top priority. He is a wonderful child and when the time comes for them to talk to him about the separation, i know it will be done very maturely and sensitively. - children ARE RESILIENT. My parents separated when i was younger than Damien. My parents didn’t put us jn the middle, they handled it with respect and civility. We never saw them fight . We were never put in the middle . To this day my parents get along quite well. I have no doubts that will be the same for tiff and kyle.
Tiffany is the one on here doing videos , not Kyle. So, of course she will get the brunt of the negative comments… this relationship separation is mutual, and thats made apparent by both. We don’t know how deep this goes , and only know what she’s willing to share , with or without Kyle.
You have the luxury of viewing, you don’t have a gun to your head. She doesn’t owe you anything more , and if you think she does because ‘ shes on TH-cam’ then you need to find something else better to do with your time lol.
Anyways , i love you Tiff and Kyle . 💜 nothing but love and support.
- Sandra .
Hi Tiffany, I think I misspoke myself in your last video. I'm sure that Damien is a charming little guy with little babies, and loves them and all that. However, having another little sibling would mean having a baby in the house 24/7/365. With Damien having his own challenges, he probably needs more one-on-one attention than he would potentially get if there were a little sibling in the house. You are a great Mom, Tiffany, thoughtful, loving, caring, and I would have loved to have a Mom like you, being so understanding and all that. However, based on my background in Child Psychology (I minored in Psychology in college), and on several of your videos discussing Damien's schooling and his learning issues and all that, and on my experiences being a daycare teacher, I think that, regarding the "having more children" issue, I think I'm going to have to side with Kyle. But, as I told you before, it's your life, and your decision, and whatever decision(s) you guys make, you have to live with it (them), and you have to be happy with your choice(s). You are both wonderful parents, which we all (your followers and subscribers) witnessed in the way you guys took care of Makayla. I am absolutely convinced that Makayla would NEVER have lasted 10 years without all the sacrifices you and Kyle made, going back and forth to the hospital, doing those chest physios, giving her meds and all of that. It takes two VERY SPECIAL and devoted parents to accomplish that, and you guys should really be proud of yourselves and of each other for that. As you said, even if you split up, your number one priority will be Damien (as he should be), and I hope and pray that even after the split (if, indeed, there's no way to avoid splitting up), you are going to continue being a family.
Phew, I know that's a long "comment" (my best friend always accuses me of writing "books", even when I'm just writing birthday cards, lolol)! Sending you guys lots of love, prayers and good thoughts from Massachusetts!!!
Way to much information for anyone to process
I admire how you are dealing with all this ❤
It’s your own choice to separate and people need to respect that, the rude comments arent necessary especially the ones about you staying together for your child. My parents stayed together until they couldn’t anymore, they ended up in a messy divorce because they had chosen to stay together for us. It ended up with a lot of abuse and neglect because of it, I wish they had separated when they were still on amicable terms.
Sorry to hear you guys are having problems, but you have to do what’s best for you and your child. Do not listen to these negative comments. People are gonna be mean I don’t know why but they are and I know that you guys will stay friends because get along so well, but that does not mean that you have to stay married, especially for your kid
I think I have known for a long time that you both were having issues. It’s body language and such but that does not mean that you don’t care for one another you have just grown apart. It’s okay and so best of luck to both of you.
Hope for the best for you two in your journey.
Sooooooo sorry for u both parting ways but least u both are there for ur child that matters most
I think that question was asking about Damien’s neurodivergence. The significant speech delay, sensory issues (food and sound), cannot adapt to change in routine, stimming, fine motor issues, learning difficulties. He was already held back a grade and is still failing to get by, yet you neglect to investigate. He has an IEP, therapy, a weighted vest, chew toys, special pencils, a computer in class, yet you have say an evaluation for possible diagnosis is not necessary?? A neurotypical child would not struggle this much after being held back a grade, even with the pandemic and having lost a sibling.
I’m honestly hurt by your comment. I don’t know why you think it’s permissible to say negative and derogatory things about someone else’s child. That’s something that is never welcomed…by anyone. Boundaries are to be respected, I’m just really disturbed, I am not a mean or negative person. However, you need to learn your manners and stay in your own lane.
She said the school has said he doesn't qualify to be evaluated. If that's true, idk if Canadian healthcare would cover the testing. In the US, private health insurance doesn't pay because it's technically on the school to provide and fund the evaluations.
If it's denial that's one thing, but if the school won't test him they will have to self-pay if they can afford to.
@@brittanyC_ I’m in the same province as her. The school has been very accommodating in providing a teacher’s aid for Damien, a computer for him, an individual education plan; she even takes him to a learning center for children with learning disabilities, which is covered by the province. Tiffany says that Damien just learns and thinks differently than the other children (hint: neurodivergence). She admits that he is very behind the other children despite having been held back a grade already. A neurotypical child would not struggle this much after being held back a grade, even with the pandemic and the trauma of losing a sibling.
@@stephanieann622 Stephanie, this isn’t about you. I didn’t say anything derogatory or negative about Damien. I described challenges experienced by Damien, as documented by his mother for views. They are not things to be ashamed of, and me listing them would only be viewed as derogatory if you are ableist and think that these struggles make someone less worthy. You are disturbed and accusing me of crossing a boundary? Get a grip! His mother made two videos in recent months about this, posts him sucking his thumb, him in his underwear all the time, despite him being bullied at school.
@@EL-tr1vibut wasn't you questioning Tiffs lack of concern for Damien with your comment actually neglect was the word you used you said Tiff neglects to investigate
This makes me so sad. I used to love watching the channel. I ordered tee shirts and some of the jewelry she recommended. I started watching ten years ago. I really enjoyed watching Makayla and her daily routines. After Makayla passed away, I stopped watching for a while. It was just too sad. This “separation video” recently came up on my feed. Kyle has changed a lot. He seems a lot more cynical, unhappy and disengaged than he used to be. I’m no expert on relationships. But, I’ll tell you one thing, he’s done. He has no desire to participate in the social media activity any longer. He’s done with the relationship, too. He loves his son and will continue to be a good parent. But, as for the rest of it, he’s done.
Wishing you both happiness 🌸🌸
It breaks my heart to see any couple divorce 💔
I’ve been there
It’s been 8years ago and I still suffer
I thought a divorce was what I wanted. I was wrong 😢
I don’t blame either of you
That’s just life. It’s hard.
Love y’all bunches
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Sorry you’ve had rude comments about your life decisions. It’s hard enough without the negativity but there’s always those who feel the need to play the blame game.
You’re both wonderful parents and it’s commendable that you’re on the same page about keeping Damien as your priority.
Together or apart you’ll always be his loving parents 😊❤
Why did you stay together another 3 yrs if you felt it was time to separate
Sorry you guys are facing so much negativity, and congrats on handling this chapter with so much maturity and respect.
Iam pissed who ever commented that it's unfair on Damien and you guys should stay together for him is crap Damien deserves parents separated if that makes them happy and working together as a team for him not parents miserable because they are staying together for him arguing and fighting being resentful and bitter because that's what happens if a marriage has failed but its being dragged out for the kids its wrong Damien is better off with Kyle and Tiff being adult and grown up enough to realise Damien needs this as much as they do hats off to you guys
Tiffany, first i am so sorry that these other women are so catty and judgemental to your personal life choices and decisions. Id be willing to bet a microscope into their lives would show worse than they are judging you for. Keep your head up, stay strong and stay brave. We only get 1 life, living it and finding our happiness should be top priority for us all 🫶🏼 take care and stay YOU
Good luck to you both but NGL, saw this coming years ago. Little things I picked up here and there over the years .
Best wishes
Do what is best for ypur family no one else ❤
Best of luck for your futres forward
I get the vibe from Kyle in this video that he really did not want to even do this video but had to for Tiffany, he does not want "his life," and life decisions shared online I could see him in the future not allowing her to share as much about Damien online. More and more youTubers are sharing less of their children until the child is of the proper age to make the decision for themselves if they want everything about them shared.
My only thought is everyone online is going to see this are they not concerned that someone who lives near them even another child might break the news to Damian about his parents decision to separate because not everyone is kind and someone will believe its their right to break it to him and even explain what it means about mommy and daddy selling the house and each getting their own house.
No more and more TH-camrs are posting videos of their children and tons of TH-camrs are doing special needs channel. Like this channel was so you’re so wrong
I just hope your entire family on both sides can find peace in this situation
I am married with a young son like you. And if my husband and I where fighting and not getting along I would separate. I think it's more damaging to our son to stay together.
Wishing you both happiness and your can still be good friends you both are good parents to your son
How difficult to explain to followers is such a personal milestone in your lives. I applaud both of you for public respecting each other throughout everything you have gone through. Thanks for the video.
Good luck to both of you. You have a lot of courage to let everyone know what you’re going through because you will be getting a lot of opinions from all kinds of people. I personally couldn’t have done what both of you did on the internet because once my ex husband knew I wanted a divorce it was very ugly and 30 years later it still is. That’s sad. But I wish both of you love and happiness.
Holding space for both of you as you navigate this new part of your journey. Sending love and support ❤
I’m so sorry you’ve received rude comments-no one has the right to judge your choices! Be safe, be well-and cherish your lives, as you live separately. How you honour your children is most admirable.
He clearly wasn’t happy.
Why build a house together when you're marriage was failing
They started building long before that, as far as I understand it.
They were building when Makayla was still alive
No they were not @@CaptchaNeon
@@judedimatteo8942 Yes they were. There are videos of her laying in the vehicle so she could stay out of the sun at the construction site of the home. I’ve been watching their channel for many years, I know damn well what happened. Apparently you haven’t been watching that long. They started building 5 years ago and even had a full planned custom handicap bedroom and bathroom they had already framed before she passed
@@judedimatteo8942 th-cam.com/video/7GiZ36RaXvo/w-d-xo.htmlsi=lAhGTF-ONi_Z-aWV
kyle is free
Can you imagine when he starts dating?
If Michaela was still here, would you and separated still?
Yes, because who wants privacy during the end of a "life long commitment." Who needs to be introspective and reflective during the sad new reality for the child. This ending really just cheapens whatever this was.
I agree. It seesm to be Tiff's attempt to make herself look better.
What happened in Mexico?
That's what I want to know. combing threw comments
@@vanessa240808she went with another man
She went to Mexico and met up/hungout with a male friend.
@@owlxoxo No Bueno! What a selfish thing to do 😔
@@owlxoxoso what! Don’t just assume shit She’s allowed to have male friends
Kyle saying immediately thought you changed drastically 😂 and then he said he would try for full custody ??? There’s more to this story. But fine to keep that part private of course
Oh yes, that is painfully obvious.
You worked so hard on the house i hate to see you sell it
Kyle looks like a old man without his hair on his head or his beard. Like he has aged a lot! He had a brown beard and long brown hair
I don’t think reality of a separation has set in you’re still living together wait tell you don’t have your son for weekends or you have to drop him off at his fathers house and you don’t see call every day then the reality of the separation will sit in. I hope you have the same feelings about it.
So what will happen to the dog when you move in separate homes? Will he be transitioning between the two houses? IDK why I feel more sad about this than you two, I just know that when kids die prematurely regardless of their age, it’s damaging to the relationship. I just can’t imagine either of you with new people. I’m so curious too what will happen if people just simply stop watching your channel? Would you have to go into the workforce?
They have 2 dogs and 2 cats
Would one of you take one dog and then you have the other when you guys go your separate ways to different homes
What about the fur babies
I grew up in a very stressful home. I was abused by my father from 16 to 23. My mom always said she was going to divorce my father but never did. It did shock me when you said you and Kyle we're separating. I wish y'all the best.
It’s awesome your still good friends
Aren't you affraid that by the time you divorce you will be too old for children?
She’s still in her 30s
It's unfortunate this is happening, but at least it's not how most separation happen; one little thing and that's it, the relationship must end and the two hate each other. If kids are involved, communication is minimal. Nothing together as a family. I hope things don't drastically change once it's time to physically go your separate ways.
I've noticed this trend, if it's w vlogging family; it's the mother's fsujt for separation or divorce while off social media, people blame the men. 🤷♀️ How about people change? I do think people seperste/ divirce over little things and firhet the kids if there's kids in the picture. At least you teo thought about it for three years and eopp continue to think about what to do.
I think the comment about 2 medically complex kids is believing Damian is autistic and / or other cinditions that requires a lot of extra care.
Did you do a house tour??
I honestly don't know what to think,,, its your choice and your family,,, ! I'm sure that this is absolutely going to break Damiens heart !
I personally don’t believe in counseling. I don’t think people really change. Unfortunately most marriages suffer after the loss of a child. Just be buds now!
Best wishes to you all! Your union brought 2 beautiful babies into the world! Thank you for sharing your family. You are doing what is best for you and family. You will get through this even stronger.
I don't really think that Damian thinks much about this choice.
He doesn’t know about it
Kyle is a great looking guy, and he seems to be so chill with a great personality, if only Angus ON wasn't so far away. Lol.
It isn't that far 😉
LOL, I actually live really close to your sister!
That's to funny! You will have to talk to her lol
@@trekkingwithdaddy I actually don't know her, but I know of her!
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Hey Tiffany and Kyle Kaylee here I'm so sad that you guys are split up I thought for sure that you were good with each other when you guys had baby girls but I reaxpt you for that Tiffany maby you can find someone else and have a baby with someone else Tiffany and again I am so sorry that this is happening this breaks my heart for you guys Tiffany love you girl
Jezz she’s just talking about. Her separation with her husband not getting pregnant with someone else.
I hope you will sit down and eat with Damien.
Do a kid with fashion eight adopt up adopt him refresh unique and you can’t do it too
Kyle is already gone.
That gonna break that child’s heart
I’m not even trying to be rude but Damien won’t even notice.........
Would u ever consider leaving Canada & moving to the states & getting to know somebody who would treat u & damien like u guys deserve? And had the same name as ur son? Hint hints. 😉
No she wouldn’t leave her parents
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3'31 mature minded ❤
This all comes down to you want another child, but Kyle don't. So ridiculous!!! And, another thing this vlog here is a complete humiliation towards Kyle. This should never be on TH-cam!!! This is personal matters not for the whole world to see. And yes, you are being selfish.
You’re being selfish he wanted to do a video if he wasn’t happy he wouldn’t of stayed in the whole video
What do I miss about Mexico? but non of anybody's business
Some people are so f ing rude living apart is what is best then thats what you need to do.
People always have to says something they're not even been in others lives they don't even seen this people are been in they're lives stop being so judgemental they been together for 16 year's they both worked hardest to have a good home for demian for year's she looked after they're seek girl it's normal whens you're getting older you may want a different thing's we cannot blamed people without knowing the fact
He must talk. This is the problem with men, some men, oh you do it better.
How are you going to put Dan as your big priority if you’re not staying together I say that because my parents did the same thing and I live in Canton and he lives in Bard Asheville, North Carolina, so that’s why I say that over happiness so that’s why I say that
That sounds to me y'all two never really were close to begin and if y'all work close to begin with you and y'all doing this separation bit over another having another child.
My husband and I had our first child unexpectedly when I was 20 years old. I'm 55 years and my son is going to be 35. I wanted another child after my first one, but we Both decided not to. Because at that time we couldn't afford another and we were also thinking of the fact, the future. We NEVER ever thought about separating. We are happily married for 35 years. I have NEVER thought about separating from my husband because he didn't want another. We both sat down and discussed it together. I'm a conservative mom and we are blessed to have our Son. Some people are so selfish they want to bring another child into the world knowing how tough it is to raise kids today.
She’s not being selfish just because she wants another child
And if I was in that situation I would never have built that house begin with if I knew that our marriage or relationship wasn't working I would never have built that house. To me this is a bit childish just over Kyle not wanting another child. If you love him so much you will not be separated from him. I want another child after my son was born when I was in my 20s My husband told me we couldn't afford another. Then we both sat down and discussed it together. We both agreed on not having another, because it would have been hard to raise another. My husband and I Never talked about separating because of it. It's going on 35 years for us. Our son will be 35 this month. And we are absolutely happy.
I basically posted the same thing, I agree. This makes n sense to me.
They were building when Makayla was alive
Did you mention what you are doing with the house? Sorry if I missed it!
I believe they intend to sell it once all the family members (her parents and his father) in the house have their situations/lives together. Once they move out, then they will likely go their separate ways.
@@graciewlk Yes that's what they said.
That’s sad that you wanna separate poor kids
Son makayla passed away
I think it's ridiculous sitting beside your husband answering q&a. I absolutely think this is the most ridiculous vlog made. All this is personal and should be personal between y'all not complete TH-cam strangers. I would NEVER think about doing this with my Husband.
I think she was trying to make people stop blaming her, so she forced him to do this.
@@betty-y3m9yno he wanted to do this video
The whole entire video was all about her HE hardly talked! she is so annoying has always been annoying...bringing the ex to do a video for her own benefit $$$ such
Why watch then ?
He wanted to do a video you idiot
@@kellyhersey2553You need to watch the video… before giving your opinion! DUH…
Lol what a ridiculous comment. Did you even watch the video?? Anytime she tried to get him to talk he barely said anything and definitely nothing of substance. She talks so much because they're making a video. What did you want her to do? Sit there in silence?
I will never understand why people chose to divorce. Marriage is not understood and is taken as if divorce is an option. We make vows through sickness and health good and bad then years later make things deal breakers forgetting the vows made. I’m sorry to hear you two are throwing in the towel. What God has yoked together let no man put apart. That means even ones self. May God help you two reconcile.
Your more worried about having more kids then be with your husband and bein with other guys wow
The husband agreed that separating was best did you not listen?
God should be your 1st priority. A house is made of brick and stone, a home is made of Love alone. You're nobody without Jesus.
May your new homes serve The Lord.
There's no greater joy than Knowing my children walk in Truth.
The Bible may hurt you with the Truth, but it will never comfort you in a lie.
God never fails to keep His Word.
Nobody can stop The Lord.