I just want to genuinely thank you for taking your time to share all this with us. You show us how to fall and get back up again. You inspire me like no other and I really appreciate it. Thank you Thank you Thank you
I think the koze crew would agree with me on the fact that you definitely made a difference in our lives this year! What you said about how our future selves would kill to be where we are now and the opportunities we have really hit home. I am always so hard on myself and I make super long unrealistic lists for the following day. When I don’t accomplish it all or even anything on the list I get down on myself, so thank you for telling me what I needed to hear. Looking back I’ve also had a pretty great year although parts of it were not so good, where I am now I wouldn’t have believed could happen. I like your haff time idea, I think I’m gonna really implement that from now on. I need to focus on things I want to accomplish every day so my gyst days aren’t so stressful and aren’t needed. The main reason I like watching your videos is because you’re real with us. It’s so easy to edit out the bad parts and not show us and ultimately exude that your life is perfect... but that’s not what you do and I appreciate that because yeah you’ve traveled to some awesome places and have great content but I love the coffee talks and the rosé rambles because it’s just more real and relatable..☺️ P.S. Did you wear a Nike sweatshirt to subconsciously remind us to “just do it” pertaining to all of our yearly goals??
I completely agree, I find it so refreshing to watch videos like this that have meaning and are actually helping and not just showing us how to put on makeup. A lot of what she says stays with me and I think about throughout the day. So insightful at such a young age. She is truly amazing.
You make a difference to people’s lives with every video you make so that means you make a difference all the time. I love your videos. You are such an intelligent, wise young lady.
Listening to your podcast right now as I get ready! ❤️ you are one of the people on youtube I feel like I could be friends with in real life, because you are such a sweet human! Thank you for always blessing us with your inspirational thoughts! xo
I don't know if it's only me but Kalyn OMG before this video I didn't realize it but you have changed. Even the way you talked evolve like you actually trust what you say way more than before. And you know what this made me trust myself even more just because I thought: Wow this is what we all do, we see less of ourselves and never realizing how much we grow in the way that we actually want. If someone reading this and just thought "No, I haven't changed in the way that I wanted," it's okay too. Cuz everybody has their own time schedule. To be honest, I didn't expect this video to changed my way of thinking when I opened it, but I remembered this is just why I started following you in the beginning. This was a long comment, and my first time ever commenting on one of your videos I think I just got too excited and said a lot. Anyways. Thank you and please keep doing what you do.
I’m sure you’re doing awesome stuff and don’t really need suggestions, but I was thinking of some Youtober video ideas that might be fun: 1. Toronto Kalyn style - your favorite places, spots you would recommend when others travel to your city, why you love Toronto, Toronto in the fall, etc. 2. Running for beginners or how to get back into running after injury / how you got back into it after your knee, and how to like it...I’m needing inspiration 3. Skin routine - what’s your routine now for a pre-makeup skincare routine? 4. Hair care routine for long hair, masks, tricks to keep it healthy, how you can do the Dutch braids on your own hair!!! Ugh. Comedy Central when I attempt it. 5. Planning and keeping on top of your schedule (maybe how you do it when working during the day and going to night school - planning for hectic schedules- how to get everything done and keep your cool. ) Feel like a decorative pillow that’s being pulled apart by wild dogs. 6. Prepping your fridge for quick meals on the go. Quick meal bowls! Loved the Buddha bowls video you did a while back! I’m sure you already have a fun Youtober planned that will delight us, just like always, so I’ll shut up now and try to be patient 🐒 until Oct 1st gets here! HA ❤️❤️❤️
For me 2018 has been a good year too I call it as fighting year cause I just graduated , I'm seeking for job but I am happy . And it is kinda my transition year to be an actual adult . Btw you're so inspiring kalyn. Hope one day can meet u directly . Always waiting for ur videos . And your videos have changed the way I live my life (better obviously) . Good luck for everything you're doing .
I've grown a bit this year and sometimes when you grow you feel like you walk alone - you know? Watching your videos has given me this way to connect and be inspired and I can truly say thank you for that. Pushed through a lot of my barriers this year. Cheers - lets slay the rest of 2018
This year was so challenging for me... It feels like the universe was/is testing me constantly about my choices etc... Still I was able to get through it. Every obstacle, every difficult, sad and dissapointing moment made my relationship with myself stronger. I didn't give up, I always keep the good out of everything. And that's the point💗 I hope at some point life will start taking its "ups" again, it has been going down for a while now Anyway, still going strong, I'm ready for it. BRING IT ON UNIVERSE.
When I was younger one of my class teachers suggested me to keep my vision wide towards all people, but pick a role model. Someone whose life you'd be jealous of, but in a good, uplifting kind of way, ya knaw. And I have found many qualities and moments, in certain people, that were talking to my soul... but never an actual role model. Until you. You, wholly, inspire me. With your look, with your story and attitude. You inspire me to be better and do better. I wish you the best and thank you. PS: The BEST CONTENT on TH-cam are your coffeeeeeee taaaalks 💕💕
2018 has been a good year so far. I graduated college, was able to get a job right before graduating, I got my first car, I made my first big purchase on my own which was an iPhone 8.. it’s silly but something I never thought I could afford. I’ve done so much but it doesn’t feel like enough. I’ve fallen out of love with fitness which used to be a big passion for two years, that’s something I slowly want to get back into. The rear of the year I plan on focusing on myself and start saving money and by 2019 I want to be able to live on my own with my boyfriend of 8 years! We are just scared to take the plunge now so I want us to save up so we can be comfortable and not stress right when we move out! Call me insane but I’ve already gotten stuff for our home 😂😂
I see a lot of others saying the same thing, but you have definitely made a difference just by letting us in to see how you struggle, cope, move on and get better. I’m at a point where the year has felt really heavy and I kept thinking how much I’ve let myself down because I didn’t feel strong enough to handle the bad situations and anxiety because of it. Watching this video has made me write down everything that I’ve done this year, and when I look at it like that, so many great things have happened! I haven’t been looking for the good, I’ve been looking for the worst because, like you said, I never feel like I deserve the good things. But screw that’s! There’s no point in being miserable if you’ve made yourself that way! Now I will be moving across the country, 1500 miles away, and it’s about time I had a fresh start! I will remember everything you said and make this new chapter the best one yet! Thank you for everything Kalyn 😸
I love that bit where she says: "the 80-90 year old you would die to be in your situation right now" so true!! This just made me feel happier and appreciate the present a lot more. Thank you! ❤
Your podcasts are da bomb! They inspire me SO much. Please never stop doing them! Also I need you to do an entry in your blogpost about your podcasts because I'm always listening whilst taking notes and it's exhausting. But seriously, you need to. You have so much wisdom about spirituality and personal growth and you give such good advice. Thank you so much for making me feel better about being in my 20s and not knowing everything and living by myself with my pet, I seriously feel lie we're besties. Anyways, love from Barcelona, hope you come and visit Spain soon and if you do let me know!
Shreya Venkat i think if you went back to studying twice as motivated after som Kalyn vibes it was a well worth break, do your best and you can be proud of yourself no matter what :) Lots of luck :)
2018 for me started off on a high and now I’m hitting the low. I graduated from college and started to get more serious about my blog. But I moved back to my home town and can’t find a job. I’m broke and had to foster my cat because where I live I can’t have her. A constant though had been you Kalyn. Thank you for always sparking the best in me and make me think of a new way to look at things. XO
Hi, Kayln! My name is Michela, I am from Italy so just you know you have italian followers who watch you! :) I was having a really bad day/night and I was watching this video focusing so much on your words and your advices that when you started talking about our 80-90's self I started crying because you're right: it's just about the planning and the scheduling, but I never make the right step or the right move to JUST START making a difference in my life and that touched me on a really deep level. Just wanted to tell you that you, my friend, in this moment of my life, are my role model because you inspire me, you taught me so much on each and every video, you make me smile, you make me laugh, you make me cry and be emotional, and most of all YOU MOTIVATE ME and I really really appreciate your work and the way you spend your time making a real difference on this platform so you can take the "MAKE A DIFFERENCE" resolutions for 2018 off your list because you did make a difference, in my life. I love you to the moon, the sun, the stars, the clouds and the all galaxies and back. Love, Michi. :)
Hey Kalyn, this is such a good and helpful video! Following your "haff time" steps I felt a huge weight lift off my shoulders! I was wondering if you could do a video/coffee talk podcast about self discipline??
I definitely need some tips on this. For instance I SUCK at taking my meds I need to take among other things and I always make a plan, set an alarm, etc and then when that time comes I disregard it or push it off to a later time/day and then it never happens...
i just had a conversation yesterday with someone about how i gained a lot of weight when my mom died earlier this year and i hate myself because of it, and i DID say to myself last night ‘i HAVE to lose weight, this is gonna suck’ just like you said in the video. and now i’m listening to you and working on changing my mindset. 💕 thank you so much
It's been so long since I've binged on your content. It's so nice to start with this one. 😍 Your coffee talks are always something I look forward to. And while you may already know this, please know that you are making a difference to someone from another side of the world. ❤
You can tick off ‘making a difference’ because you have made such a massive difference to me and my life! 🖤 In times where I’m feeling down you bring me up and I listen to your voice to keep me going but also when I’m happy you help me stay inspired! Thank you, I love you Kalyn 🖤
"who you are, is already pretty cool" I really, really needed that today Kalyn. Thank you so so much!! My 2018 has had some extreme highs but also some very extreme lows, and if anything, I've learned so much. I can't wait to spend the rest of the year really pushing myself to really reach my goals.
It is good to see you evolve and to witness someone actually sticking to their goals! After a very unproductive afternoon I packed my bag and I’m ready to spend the night at school studying (practicing violin!) and I brought a nice candle there to make it feel cozy! Thank you!
kalyn. your words directly go to the soul❤ i just want to scream and say I LOVE YOU. thankyou for existing and i am greatful that i found you on youtube. you changed my 2018❤
It is so perfect you combining a coffee talk and gaol setting plus self improvement and self love into one video! That is like the ultimate Kalyn perfection :) and to give it a crown I am GYSTing today and organising for the new semestr as I am about to start uni :) Love you so much! I can`t wait till youtober!
You have definitely made a difference in my life! My night didn’t end as planned, so I’m so glad I’m watching this before bed. I’m gonna wake up inspired to keep moving even if things aren’t as I want or imagined. Thank you for always reminding me of that 💙
This video has made me realize what an AMAZING year I had. Everything you said, I did this year. And it's not even over! Wow, I'm so grateful for this life. Thank you for reminding me.
Love love love this coffee talk and Thank you. You’re so right when you say we need to check up on ourself , lately I’ve been slacking on myself, and I’m been to hard on my self too Instead of looking for others ways to do the things I need to do .
You made me cry from happiness! I am so strict to myself and always feeling that everything I do is wrong and I can't accomplish any of my goals. You are pure inspiration and your energy feels so warm and clear! Thank you for existing and i really wish you the best!! * I am from Greece and I would be beyond happy to meet you in person and hug you and get to know you better!* *thanks to you I started yoga and I will be forever gratefull for that* Love yaaa
And now I feel like I can make my dreams come true. My life in 2018 was difficult but I feel like I can make this work now. And I have being thinking of being a new person but you are right, maybe I'm pretty cool right now and I just have to work to get cooler
I love your podcasts I listen them if I cannot sleep or when I am feeling low or during afternoon tea and it feels as listening to a friend, a guide. Just Thank you for the work you do.
Thank you for providing me with the motivation that I really need at this moment. I've been so focused on the end-game, with my current situation, instead of living in the moment and I've come to realize that in doing that I've become detrimental to my own wellbeing. Thank you for giving me that comfort in this dark time to break free from that
You couldn't be more right. You have helped me so much since I started following you, watching your videos. At a start it was to improve myself with my routines and bulletjournal stuff, but now it's even more than that. Your channel became a weekly or even daily thing that helped me in so many ways. Thank you so much!
what great timing :') today is my first full day of REALLY cutting down on the time i spend on my phone, and i know it's going to improve almost every aspect of my life. i'm going to have so much more time during the day to be productive and it will really cut down my stress. i'm going to make the rest of this year so productive and fun!!
I felt it when you referenced 80/90 year old yous feeling towards present yous. That hit me. I love your mind and appreciate you and your content So much!! 😭❤️
okay brace yourself ima let out all the feels... THANK YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE, AND FOR THE INSPIRING WOMAN YOU ARE. YOUR MOTIVATION AND PERSEVERANCE TO NEVER STOP GROWING, HAS TRULY INFLUENCED ME - LIKE WHILE WATCHING THIS VIDEO I MULTITASKED AND WATERED MY PLANTS AND NOW IM JUST HAVING A REALLY PRODUCTIVE DAY EVEN THOUGH I SLEPT TILL 11:45AM OOPS.... ANYWAYS SERIOUSLY YOU ARE INCREDIBLE AND I AM SO PROUD OF YOU AND HOW FAR YOU HAVE COME. LOVE YOU SO MUCH
YOU LITERALLY ARE ONE OF MY FAVES TH-camRS!!!!! I'm going through a hard time in my life and you just help me feel relaxed, fight anxiety and be more focused on my inner self! Love you so much!!! xxxx
I don't know why I just have to thank you for posting motivational videos whenever I need them, thanks you are really inspiring and I hope you are happy💛
So happy this came on a Sunday!! 😊 organizing and getting ready for the week. Recently I have been mulling over the thought that the rest of 2018 will really be a time of preparation and rejuvenation for 2019.
I would love if you could do a video/podcast on how to make the best out of October and the fall months. I think even though you made this, we could all use the continued motivation and inspiration- not just fun fall things to do or outfits to wear or bucketlists's (though let's be real.... we all CANT WAIT FOR THOSE), but how to improve our mindset and prepare for winter and keep the sunshine as the months ahead get darker. I also would love for you to elaborate more on how our future selves would love to be where we are right now, maybe talk about how you've reached the point where that's a reminder you tell yourself. that is probably one of my favorite lines from you and really struck a chord with how hard we are on ourselves on a day to day basis. sending you so much love and i can't wait to see what content you put out next. thank you for being a continuos inspiration! i really hope i get a chance to meet up with you one day, i know we'd make the best of friends!
I‘ve been following you for more than a year now and I‘ve watched all your videos since then. Still this is the first time I comment any of them. Watching this video made me think about your video „Slay 2018“ (or similar) from the beginning of the year and I just realized how much you have grown and evolved since then. Even though its still you, its exactly this babysteps that you share on your growth and mindfulness process that create such a value, at least for me. Thank you for sharing them.Oh, and in case you‘re really not sure about it: you‘ve made such a difference in my life. All the love in the world from Berlin to Toronto :)
Kalyn, thank you for being so genuine.... You are the only channel I can watch that’s actually inspiring and doesn’t just make me feel like shit. Thank you for being who you are!
I usually never comment on videos lol. But you've truly been such an inspiration in helping me grow as a person. I'm beyond grateful to see your wicked creative content grow throughout these years!!
I'm so glad I see you evolving so much through your discipline and your persistence on cultivate yourself. It makes me happy seeing you enjoying yourself and not only putting pressure on it. You are wonderful and admirable and I have the feeling that from now on you will be a lot happier. (because you have learnt how to handle yourself) keep going kalyn!
I have to say: thankyou so much for your video today! I don't leave comments very often, but you have been doing such an amazing job with your videos this year!! 2018 is all about changing, travelling (I left France for Australia one year ago) and learning about myself. I found it sometimes and lost myself again sometimes, but I fall more and more in love with life every damn day, good or bad, because it's our life, and we are already cool people :D (I just love your sentence, I think I'm going to write it down somewhere I can see every morning). Thankyou so so much for being you and spreading all of this motivation and good vibes around you
For me, the change that I wanna make is to take opportunities whenever I can. I do not want to give up on the things that I like anymore, and I have been constantly telling myself that I have to go towards the things that I fear the most. I am so done with me not allowing myself to do the things that I like, I am going to not care about what other people think, and I'm gonna do my own thing. Love you kalyn! Continue travelling and slay with Bentley! (This is my other account that I commented so this is a new sub here!
LOVE the background! It's new and kind of fresh, but it has some of the elements of the old one too. So, so happy for all the good that's been happening to you.
the fact that you skimmed over “make a difference” on your goals for 2018 makes me so sad!! you make a difference in my life every day, i always come watch your videos when i’m feeling upset or sad or depressed and you always hype me up and get me excited for life, fitness, cleaning, and on and on and on!! you make a difference kalyn and don’t you ever forget it!!
I freaking love your channel and your personality. Also, how candid you are! This coffee talk could not have arrived at a better time, I too need to “haff time” ... I’m hard on myself when I do not reach me goals and I prioritize work over everything.. sigh ! But the great thing is I can always refresh and start again! This video has truly inspired me to haff time and then gyst! Thank you for sharing your life and feelings with us! ✨
Hello from France Kalyn ! So cool to watch your video on this sunny end of Sunday's afternoon! I love your coffee talks. Thank you for this one ! Love you to the stars and back! 💚🌹
I can definitely say that where I was at the beginning of this year compared to where I am now, I didn't think I'd be here right now. What I mean by that is at the beginning of this year I was going through a lot of health problems and I was living with a roommate that I did not get along with and they really made me feel like crap about myself, and I allowed them to make me feel like I was a horrible person. The apartment I was living in was really disgusting, I felt like I was just a guest in my own household, and my depression and anxiety were absolutely through the roof. I'd say about the last five months, even though they have not been perfect by any means have been probably the best months I've had all year. I was able to pull up my boot straps and get my own apartment with absolutely no roommates and just basically restart living completely by myself. Which was probably one of the best decisions I ever made. I realized a major shift in my anxiety and depression when I moved out on my own. How much calmer and more peaceful I feel coming home after a long day at work. The fact that I am no longer having to clean up after anybody but myself, my apartment is decorated to my liking, and the exciting part is thinking about what else I can add to my environment. Of course I still have bad days and in the moment I feel like it's the crappiest thing that could be going on but then when I look in retrospect how I felt and the situation I was in at the beginning of the year.. I can definitely see a major difference and I am incredibly grateful that I had the opportunity to get out of that. But I have fallen off the bandwagon as far as certain other aspects of my life. I did have a routine with my health and fitness. I was on a pretty good routine of going to the gym at least 3 if not 4 times a week and making most of my food at home and not eating fast food. Once I moved into this apartment I was primarily focused on getting myself set up, paying the initial first month's rent and security deposit trying to get into a routine with this apartment and my job and just making sure that I had a good Financial grounding to be able to stay here. Once I figured all that out, I realized my gym routine and my habit of making my own food and bringing food to work went completely out the window. So I think my biggest focused towards the end of this year is to get back into my health and fitness routine because I know if I start incorporating that back into my life I will find myself in a much better place mentally and physically. I'm not going to talk myself down and make myself feel bad that I wasn't able to stick a hundred percent to my health and fitness when I was going through what I was going through because I had to prioritize more mental and emotional stability. But now that I have that I can start focusing on stuff that I can have fun with and that overall is going to make me feel a lot better.
It's been similar for me, as well. I lived with my sister for 2 years, and I thought that they would be the happiest times, but like you, I felt horrible about myself. It turns out she was a totally different person that I thought she always was. I felt the loneliest around her when I thought that I would be the happiest. My depression and anxiety skyrocketed and tons of resentment built up. She got found a guy and got married to him after a few months of even knowing him and moved out before the lease was up leaving me high and dry for money. Buuuut, I'm doing a lot better now. We haven't really talked since then, but it might be the best. I'm also losing a good bit of weight, being almost morbidly obese at that time. I haven't been able to exercise yet because of a misaligned back, but I'm doing really good through the ketogenic diet. Lost 30 pounds since May, and I plan to lose 30 more before the year ends.
@@mindymaddness congratulations on the weight loss. That is awesome. I guess I sort of lucked out in that regard because I have not been going to the gym very often at all these last five or six months but I've only gained about 5 to 8 lb back because I've been trying to manage what I've been eating since I haven't been going. I feel you on the whole family thing. That's the biggest reason why I moved out right away when I was 18, you know family is family. But it sounds like your sister was a lot like things were with me my mom and my brother. As much as I would like to say that I had a good family life and that we got along and all that good stuff, my family really brought me down emotionally and mentally. I'm going to be 24 next month and I still don't really talk to my family very often. It's not that I don't care about them or love them on some level, but I know if I interact with them too much that it's going to trigger back and unhealthy emotional and mental state. So you have to do what you have to do for yourself because you are your number one priority. You're the one that has to sit down with your self at the end of the day and you're the one that has to live inside your own head everyday. If you feel like crap about yourself or think bad things about yourself because of what other people have said or done to you, you're just going to find yourself miserable and hating yourself for no valid reason. Eating healthy and exercise is very important for emotional physical and mental health. I definitely felt a lot better about myself and just my perspective on life was so much more positive and clear when I was incorporating working out, because I had an outlet for my stress. I know once I start incorporating some type of workout even if it's just a walk to let my mind wander, it'll give me benefits. I'm really glad that you're in a better place in your life. Keep going with your health and fitness journey and I am sure without a doubt that you will reach your goal. But don't forget to love yourself in the meantime or else those results aren't going to mean anything.
girl youre by far my favorite youtuber!!! i love how transperent you are with yourself and with your subscribers, i love to put your videos and listen to them while im doing my college work on my computer, listening to what you have to say immediatly sets my good mood, and since im studying communication this is really inspiring for when i have to go on the radio, make my speaches and when i write. shout out from mexico!!!! And happy mexcios independence day!!!!1
Thank you Kalyn! I was feeling super bland in my life and starting some bad habits that I’ve been slowly quitting but, this was just the inspiration I needed to know I’m doing what will make me truly happy!💕😇 I appreciate you!!
I love you Kalyn! ! You're so amazing! ! I'm an extremely pessimistic person but after watching your amazing videos, I can't believe I'm actually beginning to be more optimistic, and braver thank you so much Kalyn! !!! Life is so much easier because of you
I’m so glad I found your channel/podcast a few months ago! The last few topics have really been helpful! Now it’s time for me to slay the rest of 2018 and taking baby steps to become a little more cooler than I already am!
I'm sick as hell right now, having so much work for school which I'm not able to finish and I felt so devastated and I just wanted to cry but this video just gave me some strength to take baby steps, I'm aware that maybe it won't be perfect but it's not supposed to be perfect, it's all about the boundaries you move every time when you feel that you can't do better. I don't know, I always feel so enthusiastic after watching your videos 😊 Thank you so much Kalyn, love you ❤❤ P.S. So excited for Youtober ❤
Hey Kalyn, looking back at my 2018 plan I have done things on there. Not all of them but still! Thank you for reminding me to always focus on the positive and inspiring change in baby step form. I'm moving house soon and it feels really overwhelming but I'm gonna sit down and make a plan and some lists... Hopefully it will seem more manageable that way?!? Fingers crossed! Glad you are loving your new space! Much love ❤️❤️ xx
I LOVED this video! I'd really like to see more videos about goal setting/accomplishing. I also really like your positive take on it, it's all about forgiveness and about what's in front of you, not what's behind you. Much love! 💛
Just wanted to say.. thank you. You are sometimes the voice and honestly I need to get my butt in gear. We are the same age but our lives are so different and I just am so inspired by you. In many ways. Thank you for this!
thank you ❤️❤️needed this so much 😞 my mentality just hit the floor recently and I’m sick of it already. hope I can finish the year off with at least something to be proud of.. anyways, again thank you! and sending you lots of love!! hope you can always be so happy and smiley 🐥❤️❤️
I love you! You have made a huge differents to my life! I don't know where I would have been if I hadn't found your youtube channel 3 years ago. I have learned so much from you, you have taught me so much important about life, giving me so many amazing tips that helps me everyday. When life gives me lemon I sometimes think 'what would Kalyn do?' and then I watch one of your videos and get inspired to finding a solution to my problem. Im also very happy that you recommended The Unthethered soul, the four agreements and the power of now, those books has change my life as well. You are such an amazing human being, I look up to you a lot, you have such an amazing life perspective, you are such a beautiful soul!
i’ve had an awful year this year but i’d love to go into next year with a happy content mindset this years been pretty shit and one of my least favourite years however some good things have come out of it. i feel that i need to be positive going into next year so i can get the most out of it... thanks so much kalyn xxxxx
Okay, so I just followed like literally almost all of your Spotify playlists, followed your blog and downloaded some episodes, stalked your blog and obviously followed it. Girl, I just knew about your you tube channel but I'm also obsessed with the rest. You are such an vibe
Kalyn your so inspirational as I’m trying to pick myself up after being put in hospital for anorexia in January. I came back to school in June and I’m recovering now but still really struggling. I’m also suffering with depression,anxiety and severe perfectionism. But I’m determined to one day get my life back xx
Hey Kalyn.. Your videos are so incredible and so inspiring.Your coffee talks are kinda like a boon to the world TBH. I've been loving you and supporting you for a good 3 years now I guess and I really love the way you live life and be aware of what you want and what your mental state is and what you need to do with your life which I find really hard. I hope that you'd make a coffee talk on living in the present and being aware. ❤
I really needed this video. All 2018 I felt like "I wasn't doing anything with my life" but thats wrong I am a full time mom and college student. I have been saying "I am not doing anything" because I don't have a job. I don't feel like a true adult because I don't get my own income and feel like I have a purpose but thats just the negative angel speaking on my shoulder. For the rest of 2018 the things I want to accomplish is: 1. stick to a routine with my meds, 2. learn how to drive and 3. find a job. With those 3 things I have to do baby steps such as set an alarm for meds, study a certain amount of time for driving and out x amount of job apps in everyday ( and remember to follow up with them) One thing I truly want by the end of 2018 is to not be so negative. I live with my mom who is the Queen of Negative Nancys and its so hard to not react to every negative thing she says or when she wants to argue or fight. I also need to learn how to let go of toxic people and stop holding on to people. Its a lot of things I want to work on before 2018 ends but again like you said baby steps. The 3 things I mentioned are the MAIN things I will like like to focus on and then everything else I will work on in due time. Thank you for reading this extra long comment lol
Can’t wait for youtober. I love your podcast. I’ve been begging your videos and when offline listening to your podcast. Love you and thank you for all you do.
I just wanted to say thank you for making videos like this and for inspiring people to keep going and motivating us in a way that makes us feel like we can slay the rest of the year even if we are not feeling too great. I am just trying to get by this year and do things that are making me happier. I make the occasional video too but my spirits have been really down. I am excited for Youtober and to continue to be inspired by you. Thank you
Nope, the notifications never get old...Can’t someone agree? 😭❤️ love seeing the notification of a new video, but when it’s a Kalyn video?! Nope I have to go straight to it!
Kalyn!!! I so needed this right now!!!....going throught a rough time right now and this video really helped me♡ I watch all your videos, you've helped me sooo much with my depression and anxiety😘😘..love you girl xoxxo
*Who else is SUPER FLIPPING PUMPED FOR YOUTOBER?! 🕸👻*
ME😍✋
AlyssaAllDay meeee
ME!
Me
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Has anyone noticed a whole new spark of energy in kalyn?!?!
Karnavi Panchotiya it's the euphoria of a new place and roommate I'm guessing. Moving and having a new scene can really make life exciting.
Absolutely.
As simple as that : YOU made me change my life . thank u for everything
She is GOALS
I hear you, I am in the same boat. I love the inspiration because it helps me move forward.
I just want to genuinely thank you for taking your time to share all this with us. You show us how to fall and get back up again. You inspire me like no other and I really appreciate it.
Thank you Thank you Thank you
How to slay the rest of 2018: not miss any kalyn's video and watch the whole youtober 😊😊
I think the koze crew would agree with me on the fact that you definitely made a difference in our lives this year! What you said about how our future selves would kill to be where we are now and the opportunities we have really hit home. I am always so hard on myself and I make super long unrealistic lists for the following day. When I don’t accomplish it all or even anything on the list I get down on myself, so thank you for telling me what I needed to hear. Looking back I’ve also had a pretty great year although parts of it were not so good, where I am now I wouldn’t have believed could happen. I like your haff time idea, I think I’m gonna really implement that from now on. I need to focus on things I want to accomplish every day so my gyst days aren’t so stressful and aren’t needed. The main reason I like watching your videos is because you’re real with us. It’s so easy to edit out the bad parts and not show us and ultimately exude that your life is perfect... but that’s not what you do and I appreciate that because yeah you’ve traveled to some awesome places and have great content but I love the coffee talks and the rosé rambles because it’s just more real and relatable..☺️
P.S. Did you wear a Nike sweatshirt to subconsciously remind us to “just do it” pertaining to all of our yearly goals??
the whole "future selves" hit home so hard for me.
I completely agree, I find it so refreshing to watch videos like this that have meaning and are actually helping and not just showing us how to put on makeup. A lot of what she says stays with me and I think about throughout the day. So insightful at such a young age. She is truly amazing.
Your videos give me THE biggest motivational pushes! Love you sm! x
100%
You make a difference to people’s lives with every video you make so that means you make a difference all the time. I love your videos. You are such an intelligent, wise young lady.
Listening to your podcast right now as I get ready! ❤️ you are one of the people on youtube I feel like I could be friends with in real life, because you are such a sweet human! Thank you for always blessing us with your inspirational thoughts! xo
Christina Marie I’ve recently started to listen to them too and I love them!
When she’s not talking about horoscopes or tarot, she’s ON! Wise beyond her years! My #1 motivational YTer.
I don't know if it's only me but Kalyn OMG before this video I didn't realize it but you have changed. Even the way you talked evolve like you actually trust what you say way more than before. And you know what this made me trust myself even more just because I thought: Wow this is what we all do, we see less of ourselves and never realizing how much we grow in the way that we actually want. If someone reading this and just thought "No, I haven't changed in the way that I wanted," it's okay too. Cuz everybody has their own time schedule.
To be honest, I didn't expect this video to changed my way of thinking when I opened it, but I remembered this is just why I started following you in the beginning.
This was a long comment, and my first time ever commenting on one of your videos I think I just got too excited and said a lot. Anyways. Thank you and please keep doing what you do.
I’m sure you’re doing awesome stuff and don’t really need suggestions, but I was thinking of some Youtober video ideas that might be fun:
1. Toronto Kalyn style - your favorite places, spots you would recommend when others travel to your city, why you love Toronto, Toronto in the fall, etc.
2. Running for beginners or how to get back into running after injury / how you got back into it after your knee, and how to like it...I’m needing inspiration
3. Skin routine - what’s your routine now for a pre-makeup skincare routine?
4. Hair care routine for long hair, masks, tricks to keep it healthy, how you can do the Dutch braids on your own hair!!! Ugh. Comedy Central when I attempt it.
5. Planning and keeping on top of your schedule (maybe how you do it when working during the day and going to night school - planning for hectic schedules- how to get everything done and keep your cool. ) Feel like a decorative pillow that’s being pulled apart by wild dogs.
6. Prepping your fridge for quick meals on the go. Quick meal bowls! Loved the Buddha bowls video you did a while back!
I’m sure you already have a fun Youtober planned that will delight us, just like always, so I’ll shut up now and try to be patient 🐒 until Oct 1st gets here! HA ❤️❤️❤️
For me 2018 has been a good year too I call it as fighting year cause I just graduated , I'm seeking for job but I am happy . And it is kinda my transition year to be an actual adult . Btw you're so inspiring kalyn. Hope one day can meet u directly . Always waiting for ur videos . And your videos have changed the way I live my life (better obviously) . Good luck for everything you're doing .
I've grown a bit this year and sometimes when you grow you feel like you walk alone - you know? Watching your videos has given me this way to connect and be inspired and I can truly say thank you for that. Pushed through a lot of my barriers this year. Cheers - lets slay the rest of 2018
This year was so challenging for me... It feels like the universe was/is testing me constantly about my choices etc...
Still I was able to get through it. Every obstacle, every difficult, sad and dissapointing moment made my relationship with myself stronger. I didn't give up, I always keep the good out of everything. And that's the point💗
I hope at some point life will start taking its "ups" again, it has been going down for a while now
Anyway, still going strong, I'm ready for it. BRING IT ON UNIVERSE.
1. Budget
2. Fitness
3. Physical Health (nutrition, routine doctor’s visits, pampering, etc.)
4. Mental Health
5. Life Goals
This is exactly the video I needed today!! You are always giving me the motivation I need, also love your outfits!!!
I just dropped everything so I could watch this video!! So hyped 💗
When I was younger one of my class teachers suggested me to keep my vision wide towards all people, but pick a role model. Someone whose life you'd be jealous of, but in a good, uplifting kind of way, ya knaw. And I have found many qualities and moments, in certain people, that were talking to my soul... but never an actual role model. Until you. You, wholly, inspire me. With your look, with your story and attitude. You inspire me to be better and do better. I wish you the best and thank you. PS: The BEST CONTENT on TH-cam are your coffeeeeeee taaaalks 💕💕
Less than a month now until Youtober!
Basically a week away
Rachel Isreal I know right😊!
2018 has been a good year so far. I graduated college, was able to get a job right before graduating, I got my first car, I made my first big purchase on my own which was an iPhone 8.. it’s silly but something I never thought I could afford. I’ve done so much but it doesn’t feel like enough. I’ve fallen out of love with fitness which used to be a big passion for two years, that’s something I slowly want to get back into. The rear of the year I plan on focusing on myself and start saving money and by 2019 I want to be able to live on my own with my boyfriend of 8 years! We are just scared to take the plunge now so I want us to save up so we can be comfortable and not stress right when we move out! Call me insane but I’ve already gotten stuff for our home 😂😂
I see a lot of others saying the same thing, but you have definitely made a difference just by letting us in to see how you struggle, cope, move on and get better. I’m at a point where the year has felt really heavy and I kept thinking how much I’ve let myself down because I didn’t feel strong enough to handle the bad situations and anxiety because of it. Watching this video has made me write down everything that I’ve done this year, and when I look at it like that, so many great things have happened! I haven’t been looking for the good, I’ve been looking for the worst because, like you said, I never feel like I deserve the good things. But screw that’s! There’s no point in being miserable if you’ve made yourself that way! Now I will be moving across the country, 1500 miles away, and it’s about time I had a fresh start! I will remember everything you said and make this new chapter the best one yet! Thank you for everything Kalyn 😸
I love that bit where she says: "the 80-90 year old you would die to be in your situation right now" so true!! This just made me feel happier and appreciate the present a lot more. Thank you! ❤
Your podcasts are da bomb! They inspire me SO much. Please never stop doing them! Also I need you to do an entry in your blogpost about your podcasts because I'm always listening whilst taking notes and it's exhausting. But seriously, you need to. You have so much wisdom about spirituality and personal growth and you give such good advice. Thank you so much for making me feel better about being in my 20s and not knowing everything and living by myself with my pet, I seriously feel lie we're besties. Anyways, love from Barcelona, hope you come and visit Spain soon and if you do let me know!
Got 2 exams tomorrow but I'm here the minute she posts 😅
Watching Kalyn doesn't count as procrastinating right.....?
Right
Shreya Venkat good luck with your exams!
You could call it: getting mentally ready for the exams so technically you were studying :)
Shreya Venkat i think if you went back to studying twice as motivated after som Kalyn vibes it was a well worth break, do your best and you can be proud of yourself no matter what :)
Lots of luck :)
Nah-Ah! Kalyn doesn't count! hahahaha good luck with your exams!
@@kay-lynewolfenden2943 Ty😊
2018 for me started off on a high and now I’m hitting the low. I graduated from college and started to get more serious about my blog. But I moved back to my home town and can’t find a job. I’m broke and had to foster my cat because where I live I can’t have her. A constant though had been you Kalyn. Thank you for always sparking the best in me and make me think of a new way to look at things. XO
Hi, Kayln!
My name is Michela, I am from Italy so just you know you have italian followers who watch you! :)
I was having a really bad day/night and I was watching this video focusing so much on your words and your advices that when you started talking about our 80-90's self I started crying because you're right: it's just about the planning and the scheduling, but I never make the right step or the right move to JUST START making a difference in my life and that touched me on a really deep level.
Just wanted to tell you that you, my friend, in this moment of my life, are my role model because you inspire me, you taught me so much on each and every video, you make me smile, you make me laugh, you make me cry and be emotional, and most of all YOU MOTIVATE ME and I really really appreciate your work and the way you spend your time making a real difference on this platform so you can take the "MAKE A DIFFERENCE" resolutions for 2018 off your list because you did make a difference, in my life.
I love you to the moon, the sun, the stars, the clouds and the all galaxies and back.
Love,
Michi. :)
I love your analogy’s the half time 👏🏻
Hey Kalyn, this is such a good and helpful video! Following your "haff time" steps I felt a huge weight lift off my shoulders! I was wondering if you could do a video/coffee talk podcast about self discipline??
I'm the exact same.. Sometimes I hate myself for it
Yes!!! Please do Self discipline! I feel all inspired and do much more but still lack the self discipline to continue to make life better and happy
I definitely need some tips on this. For instance I SUCK at taking my meds I need to take among other things and I always make a plan, set an alarm, etc and then when that time comes I disregard it or push it off to a later time/day and then it never happens...
i just had a conversation yesterday with someone about how i gained a lot of weight when my mom died earlier this year and i hate myself because of it, and i DID say to myself last night ‘i HAVE to lose weight, this is gonna suck’ just like you said in the video. and now i’m listening to you and working on changing my mindset. 💕 thank you so much
I swear I have grown so much these past years with you always there making it better and better !
It's been so long since I've binged on your content. It's so nice to start with this one. 😍 Your coffee talks are always something I look forward to. And while you may already know this, please know that you are making a difference to someone from another side of the world. ❤
You can tick off ‘making a difference’ because you have made such a massive difference to me and my life! 🖤
In times where I’m feeling down you bring me up and I listen to your voice to keep me going but also when I’m happy you help me stay inspired!
Thank you, I love you Kalyn 🖤
"who you are, is already pretty cool"
I really, really needed that today Kalyn. Thank you so so much!! My 2018 has had some extreme highs but also some very extreme lows, and if anything, I've learned so much. I can't wait to spend the rest of the year really pushing myself to really reach my goals.
It is good to see you evolve and to witness someone actually sticking to their goals! After a very unproductive afternoon I packed my bag and I’m ready to spend the night at school studying (practicing violin!) and I brought a nice candle there to make it feel cozy! Thank you!
kalyn. your words directly go to the soul❤ i just want to scream and say I LOVE YOU. thankyou for existing and i am greatful that i found you on youtube. you changed my 2018❤
It is so perfect you combining a coffee talk and gaol setting plus self improvement and self love into one video! That is like the ultimate Kalyn perfection :) and to give it a crown I am GYSTing today and organising for the new semestr as I am about to start uni :) Love you so much! I can`t wait till youtober!
You have definitely made a difference in my life! My night didn’t end as planned, so I’m so glad I’m watching this before bed. I’m gonna wake up inspired to keep moving even if things aren’t as I want or imagined. Thank you for always reminding me of that 💙
This video has made me realize what an AMAZING year I had. Everything you said, I did this year. And it's not even over! Wow, I'm so grateful for this life. Thank you for reminding me.
Love love love this coffee talk and Thank you.
You’re so right when you say we need to check up on ourself , lately I’ve been slacking on myself, and I’m been to hard on my self too Instead of looking for others ways to do the things I need to do .
You made me cry from happiness! I am so strict to myself and always feeling that everything I do is wrong and I can't accomplish any of my goals. You are pure inspiration and your energy feels so warm and clear! Thank you for existing and i really wish you the best!!
* I am from Greece and I would be beyond happy to meet you in person and hug you and get to know you better!*
*thanks to you I started yoga and I will be forever gratefull for that*
Love yaaa
And now I feel like I can make my dreams come true. My life in 2018 was difficult but I feel like I can make this work now. And I have being thinking of being a new person but you are right, maybe I'm pretty cool right now and I just have to work to get cooler
i feel like these videos are always perfectly timed and exactly what I need in my life when they're posted. so perfect
I love your podcasts I listen them if I cannot sleep or when I am feeling low or during afternoon tea and it feels as listening to a friend, a guide. Just Thank you for the work you do.
Thank you for providing me with the motivation that I really need at this moment. I've been so focused on the end-game, with my current situation, instead of living in the moment and I've come to realize that in doing that I've become detrimental to my own wellbeing. Thank you for giving me that comfort in this dark time to break free from that
You couldn't be more right. You have helped me so much since I started following you, watching your videos. At a start it was to improve myself with my routines and bulletjournal stuff, but now it's even more than that. Your channel became a weekly or even daily thing that helped me in so many ways. Thank you so much!
what great timing :') today is my first full day of REALLY cutting down on the time i spend on my phone, and i know it's going to improve almost every aspect of my life. i'm going to have so much more time during the day to be productive and it will really cut down my stress. i'm going to make the rest of this year so productive and fun!!
I felt it when you referenced 80/90 year old yous feeling towards present yous. That hit me. I love your mind and appreciate you and your content So much!! 😭❤️
Ohemgee “80,90 yr old you.... “ so true -that blew me i need to remember that!!! Thank u. Love all ur vids and u
okay brace yourself ima let out all the feels... THANK YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE, AND FOR THE INSPIRING WOMAN YOU ARE. YOUR MOTIVATION AND PERSEVERANCE TO NEVER STOP GROWING, HAS TRULY INFLUENCED ME - LIKE WHILE WATCHING THIS VIDEO I MULTITASKED AND WATERED MY PLANTS AND NOW IM JUST HAVING A REALLY PRODUCTIVE DAY EVEN THOUGH I SLEPT TILL 11:45AM OOPS.... ANYWAYS SERIOUSLY YOU ARE INCREDIBLE AND I AM SO PROUD OF YOU AND HOW FAR YOU HAVE COME. LOVE YOU SO MUCH
You are such a positive vibe for my life. Whenever I feel down, I watch your videos and I feel better, motivated and feel renewed.
YOU LITERALLY ARE ONE OF MY FAVES TH-camRS!!!!! I'm going through a hard time in my life and you just help me feel relaxed, fight anxiety and be more focused on my inner self! Love you so much!!! xxxx
I don't know why I just have to thank you for posting motivational videos whenever I need them, thanks you are really inspiring and I hope you are happy💛
So happy this came on a Sunday!! 😊 organizing and getting ready for the week. Recently I have been mulling over the thought that the rest of 2018 will really be a time of preparation and rejuvenation for 2019.
I would love if you could do a video/podcast on how to make the best out of October and the fall months. I think even though you made this, we could all use the continued motivation and inspiration- not just fun fall things to do or outfits to wear or bucketlists's (though let's be real.... we all CANT WAIT FOR THOSE), but how to improve our mindset and prepare for winter and keep the sunshine as the months ahead get darker. I also would love for you to elaborate more on how our future selves would love to be where we are right now, maybe talk about how you've reached the point where that's a reminder you tell yourself. that is probably one of my favorite lines from you and really struck a chord with how hard we are on ourselves on a day to day basis.
sending you so much love and i can't wait to see what content you put out next.
thank you for being a continuos inspiration!
i really hope i get a chance to meet up with you one day,
i know we'd make the best of friends!
I‘ve been following you for more than a year now and I‘ve watched all your videos since then. Still this is the first time I comment any of them. Watching this video made me think about your video „Slay 2018“ (or similar) from the beginning of the year and I just realized how much you have grown and evolved since then. Even though its still you, its exactly this babysteps that you share on your growth and mindfulness process that create such a value, at least for me. Thank you for sharing them.Oh, and in case you‘re really not sure about it: you‘ve made such a difference in my life. All the love in the world from Berlin to Toronto :)
Kalyn, thank you for being so genuine.... You are the only channel I can watch that’s actually inspiring and doesn’t just make me feel like shit. Thank you for being who you are!
Kalyn your Sunday videos are the perfect end to my GYST days and I love unwinding to them. You make me so calm and relaxed I love it !
I usually never comment on videos lol. But you've truly been such an inspiration in helping me grow as a person. I'm beyond grateful to see your wicked creative content grow throughout these years!!
I'm so glad I see you evolving so much through your discipline and your persistence on cultivate yourself. It makes me happy seeing you enjoying yourself and not only putting pressure on it. You are wonderful and admirable and I have the feeling that from now on you will be a lot happier. (because you have learnt how to handle yourself)
keep going kalyn!
I have to say: thankyou so much for your video today! I don't leave comments very often, but you have been doing such an amazing job with your videos this year!! 2018 is all about changing, travelling (I left France for Australia one year ago) and learning about myself. I found it sometimes and lost myself again sometimes, but I fall more and more in love with life every damn day, good or bad, because it's our life, and we are already cool people :D (I just love your sentence, I think I'm going to write it down somewhere I can see every morning).
Thankyou so so much for being you and spreading all of this motivation and good vibes around you
For me, the change that I wanna make is to take opportunities whenever I can. I do not want to give up on the things that I like anymore, and I have been constantly telling myself that I have to go towards the things that I fear the most. I am so done with me not allowing myself to do the things that I like, I am going to not care about what other people think, and I'm gonna do my own thing.
Love you kalyn! Continue travelling and slay with Bentley! (This is my other account that I commented so this is a new sub here!
I’ve recently fallen into a rut and i haven’t watched your videos in a while till today. You make me so inspired and motivated thank you so much💕💕
LOVE the background! It's new and kind of fresh, but it has some of the elements of the old one too. So, so happy for all the good that's been happening to you.
the fact that you skimmed over “make a difference” on your goals for 2018 makes me so sad!! you make a difference in my life every day, i always come watch your videos when i’m feeling upset or sad or depressed and you always hype me up and get me excited for life, fitness, cleaning, and on and on and on!! you make a difference kalyn and don’t you ever forget it!!
I love this. It's the honesty, the raw authenticity in the lessons are beautiful.
I freaking love your channel and your personality. Also, how candid you are! This coffee talk could not have arrived at a better time, I too need to “haff time” ... I’m hard on myself when I do not reach me goals and I prioritize work over everything.. sigh ! But the great thing is I can always refresh and start again! This video has truly inspired me to haff time and then gyst! Thank you for sharing your life and feelings with us! ✨
Hello from France Kalyn ! So cool to watch your video on this sunny end of Sunday's afternoon! I love your coffee talks. Thank you for this one ! Love you to the stars and back! 💚🌹
I can definitely say that where I was at the beginning of this year compared to where I am now, I didn't think I'd be here right now. What I mean by that is at the beginning of this year I was going through a lot of health problems and I was living with a roommate that I did not get along with and they really made me feel like crap about myself, and I allowed them to make me feel like I was a horrible person. The apartment I was living in was really disgusting, I felt like I was just a guest in my own household, and my depression and anxiety were absolutely through the roof. I'd say about the last five months, even though they have not been perfect by any means have been probably the best months I've had all year. I was able to pull up my boot straps and get my own apartment with absolutely no roommates and just basically restart living completely by myself. Which was probably one of the best decisions I ever made. I realized a major shift in my anxiety and depression when I moved out on my own. How much calmer and more peaceful I feel coming home after a long day at work. The fact that I am no longer having to clean up after anybody but myself, my apartment is decorated to my liking, and the exciting part is thinking about what else I can add to my environment. Of course I still have bad days and in the moment I feel like it's the crappiest thing that could be going on but then when I look in retrospect how I felt and the situation I was in at the beginning of the year.. I can definitely see a major difference and I am incredibly grateful that I had the opportunity to get out of that. But I have fallen off the bandwagon as far as certain other aspects of my life. I did have a routine with my health and fitness. I was on a pretty good routine of going to the gym at least 3 if not 4 times a week and making most of my food at home and not eating fast food. Once I moved into this apartment I was primarily focused on getting myself set up, paying the initial first month's rent and security deposit trying to get into a routine with this apartment and my job and just making sure that I had a good Financial grounding to be able to stay here. Once I figured all that out, I realized my gym routine and my habit of making my own food and bringing food to work went completely out the window. So I think my biggest focused towards the end of this year is to get back into my health and fitness routine because I know if I start incorporating that back into my life I will find myself in a much better place mentally and physically. I'm not going to talk myself down and make myself feel bad that I wasn't able to stick a hundred percent to my health and fitness when I was going through what I was going through because I had to prioritize more mental and emotional stability. But now that I have that I can start focusing on stuff that I can have fun with and that overall is going to make me feel a lot better.
It's been similar for me, as well. I lived with my sister for 2 years, and I thought that they would be the happiest times, but like you, I felt horrible about myself. It turns out she was a totally different person that I thought she always was. I felt the loneliest around her when I thought that I would be the happiest. My depression and anxiety skyrocketed and tons of resentment built up. She got found a guy and got married to him after a few months of even knowing him and moved out before the lease was up leaving me high and dry for money. Buuuut, I'm doing a lot better now. We haven't really talked since then, but it might be the best. I'm also losing a good bit of weight, being almost morbidly obese at that time. I haven't been able to exercise yet because of a misaligned back, but I'm doing really good through the ketogenic diet. Lost 30 pounds since May, and I plan to lose 30 more before the year ends.
@@mindymaddness congratulations on the weight loss. That is awesome. I guess I sort of lucked out in that regard because I have not been going to the gym very often at all these last five or six months but I've only gained about 5 to 8 lb back because I've been trying to manage what I've been eating since I haven't been going. I feel you on the whole family thing. That's the biggest reason why I moved out right away when I was 18, you know family is family. But it sounds like your sister was a lot like things were with me my mom and my brother. As much as I would like to say that I had a good family life and that we got along and all that good stuff, my family really brought me down emotionally and mentally. I'm going to be 24 next month and I still don't really talk to my family very often. It's not that I don't care about them or love them on some level, but I know if I interact with them too much that it's going to trigger back and unhealthy emotional and mental state. So you have to do what you have to do for yourself because you are your number one priority. You're the one that has to sit down with your self at the end of the day and you're the one that has to live inside your own head everyday. If you feel like crap about yourself or think bad things about yourself because of what other people have said or done to you, you're just going to find yourself miserable and hating yourself for no valid reason. Eating healthy and exercise is very important for emotional physical and mental health. I definitely felt a lot better about myself and just my perspective on life was so much more positive and clear when I was incorporating working out, because I had an outlet for my stress. I know once I start incorporating some type of workout even if it's just a walk to let my mind wander, it'll give me benefits. I'm really glad that you're in a better place in your life. Keep going with your health and fitness journey and I am sure without a doubt that you will reach your goal. But don't forget to love yourself in the meantime or else those results aren't going to mean anything.
girl youre by far my favorite youtuber!!! i love how transperent you are with yourself and with your subscribers, i love to put your videos and listen to them while im doing my college work on my computer, listening to what you have to say immediatly sets my good mood, and since im studying communication this is really inspiring for when i have to go on the radio, make my speaches and when i write. shout out from mexico!!!! And happy mexcios independence day!!!!1
I feel like Kalyn’s quotes at the beginning are seriously under appreciated...they’re always so good!
Thank you Kalyn! I was feeling super bland in my life and starting some bad habits that I’ve been slowly quitting but, this was just the inspiration I needed to know I’m doing what will make me truly happy!💕😇 I appreciate you!!
You have made a HUGE difference in my life this year!! You have inspired me in more ways than I can count! Thank you girl!
I love you Kalyn! ! You're so amazing! ! I'm an extremely pessimistic person but after watching your amazing videos, I can't believe I'm actually beginning to be more optimistic, and braver thank you so much Kalyn! !!! Life is so much easier because of you
I’m so glad I found your channel/podcast a few months ago! The last few topics have really been helpful! Now it’s time for me to slay the rest of 2018 and taking baby steps to become a little more cooler than I already am!
Watching you grow through the year has been amazing. The content you’ve been making has only gotten better & better. Get it girl 💜🦄
I'm sick as hell right now, having so much work for school which I'm not able to finish and I felt so devastated and I just wanted to cry but this video just gave me some strength to take baby steps, I'm aware that maybe it won't be perfect but it's not supposed to be perfect, it's all about the boundaries you move every time when you feel that you can't do better. I don't know, I always feel so enthusiastic after watching your videos 😊 Thank you so much Kalyn, love you ❤❤
P.S. So excited for Youtober ❤
Hey Kalyn, looking back at my 2018 plan I have done things on there. Not all of them but still! Thank you for reminding me to always focus on the positive and inspiring change in baby step form. I'm moving house soon and it feels really overwhelming but I'm gonna sit down and make a plan and some lists... Hopefully it will seem more manageable that way?!? Fingers crossed! Glad you are loving your new space! Much love ❤️❤️ xx
I LOVED this video! I'd really like to see more videos about goal setting/accomplishing. I also really like your positive take on it, it's all about forgiveness and about what's in front of you, not what's behind you. Much love! 💛
Just wanted to say.. thank you. You are sometimes the voice and honestly I need to get my butt in gear. We are the same age but our lives are so different and I just am so inspired by you. In many ways. Thank you for this!
So excited for Fall content!! I’d like to hear a coffee talk podcast episode about trusting your intuition.
thank you ❤️❤️needed this so much 😞 my mentality just hit the floor recently and I’m sick of it already. hope I can finish the year off with at least something to be proud of.. anyways, again thank you! and sending you lots of love!! hope you can always be so happy and smiley 🐥❤️❤️
I needed this so badly right now. You’re by far my biggest inspiration on TH-cam. I love you so much
I’ve never needed this more than right now. Kalyn, thank YOU for always giving us so much inspiration in our lives. YOU’RE INCREDIBLE. 💕💕💕
I love you! You have made a huge differents to my life! I don't know where I would have been if I hadn't found your youtube channel 3 years ago. I have learned so much from you, you have taught me so much important about life, giving me so many amazing tips that helps me everyday. When life gives me lemon I sometimes think 'what would Kalyn do?' and then I watch one of your videos and get inspired to finding a solution to my problem. Im also very happy that you recommended The Unthethered soul, the four agreements and the power of now, those books has change my life as well. You are such an amazing human being, I look up to you a lot, you have such an amazing life perspective, you are such a beautiful soul!
i’ve had an awful year this year but i’d love to go into next year with a happy content mindset this years been pretty shit and one of my least favourite years however some good things have come out of it. i feel that i need to be positive going into next year so i can get the most out of it... thanks so much kalyn xxxxx
Okay, so I just followed like literally almost all of your Spotify playlists, followed your blog and downloaded some episodes, stalked your blog and obviously followed it. Girl, I just knew about your you tube channel but I'm also obsessed with the rest. You are such an vibe
Kalyn your so inspirational as I’m trying to pick myself up after being put in hospital for anorexia in January. I came back to school in June and I’m recovering now but still really struggling. I’m also suffering with depression,anxiety and severe perfectionism. But I’m determined to one day get my life back xx
Your coffee talks (and all your videos for that matter) always inspire and motivate me and put in sooo much better mood! Thank you ♥
Hey Kalyn.. Your videos are so incredible and so inspiring.Your coffee talks are kinda like a boon to the world TBH. I've been loving you and supporting you for a good 3 years now I guess and I really love the way you live life and be aware of what you want and what your mental state is and what you need to do with your life which I find really hard. I hope that you'd make a coffee talk on living in the present and being aware. ❤
This is my fav coffee talk. You completely just changed my thinking and i already feel better
I really needed this video. All 2018 I felt like "I wasn't doing anything with my life" but thats wrong I am a full time mom and college student. I have been saying "I am not doing anything" because I don't have a job. I don't feel like a true adult because I don't get my own income and feel like I have a purpose but thats just the negative angel speaking on my shoulder. For the rest of 2018 the things I want to accomplish is: 1. stick to a routine with my meds, 2. learn how to drive and 3. find a job. With those 3 things I have to do baby steps such as set an alarm for meds, study a certain amount of time for driving and out x amount of job apps in everyday ( and remember to follow up with them) One thing I truly want by the end of 2018 is to not be so negative. I live with my mom who is the Queen of Negative Nancys and its so hard to not react to every negative thing she says or when she wants to argue or fight. I also need to learn how to let go of toxic people and stop holding on to people. Its a lot of things I want to work on before 2018 ends but again like you said baby steps. The 3 things I mentioned are the MAIN things I will like like to focus on and then everything else I will work on in due time. Thank you for reading this extra long comment lol
This is by far my favorite coffee talk. It spoke to my soul this morning. Thank you 🙌🏾💛
Can’t wait for youtober. I love your podcast. I’ve been begging your videos and when offline listening to your podcast. Love you and thank you for all you do.
I feel like I need to hug you right now, you're such an inspiring and amazing person that it is almost unbelievable
I just wanted to say thank you for making videos like this and for inspiring people to keep going and motivating us in a way that makes us feel like we can slay the rest of the year even if we are not feeling too great. I am just trying to get by this year and do things that are making me happier. I make the occasional video too but my spirits have been really down. I am excited for Youtober and to continue to be inspired by you. Thank you
Youre such a positive and inspiring person! I only wish I could be as motivated and passionate as you, seeing a life so positively.
Nope, the notifications never get old...Can’t someone agree? 😭❤️ love seeing the notification of a new video, but when it’s a Kalyn video?! Nope I have to go straight to it!
Kalyn!!! I so needed this right now!!!....going throught a rough time right now and this video really helped me♡ I watch all your videos, you've helped me sooo much with my depression and anxiety😘😘..love you girl xoxxo