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hello superstars! we're back with another episode in the Artist living in Paris diaries! my channel is Paris plus being a multimedia artist content for those who are new! Today im back with an episode where I talk about some new directions in my career, bad neighbor drama (here we go again) and how to stand up for yourself, making music and other life stuff. Here is to a good end to 2023 ! If you enjoy these videos subscribe for videos every Tuesday! xoxo
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I can't believe people are telling you not to make bilingual music-- I feel like it's incredible to have that a niche. As someone who knows english and french, I love watching your bilingual content. Music is so global these days that people listen to songs they dont understand all the time!! pls dont stop doing your thing
Lots of Canadian artists do this, make some fabulous stuff!
What is more intriguing than mystery?? Oui!!!, bilingual music, por favor. (hihihi)
"I'm so done with being a young girl in this world". I resonate so much with this. In 2023 i have fought back with many disrespectful people. It is my divine right to stablish clear boundries and fight boldly for myself 👊❤
I'm the same way, I grew up around a lot of men that couldn't control their temper but most of them are all bark and no bite. They expect you to cower and are usually shocked when you don't.
so nice someone can relate. and yeah no more of that!! sending love
Writing a note that says the radiator was a stroller was so genius omggg. I love your humor 😂
and it's so on brand, magritte-an :)
Oh man… i have a huge problem with authority. Authority with no sense or reason. Anyone who wants to take the authoritarian position and order me around while living their completely undesirable life. How about no. How bout that! 😂 you’re so rad. I appreciate you and your work so very very much.❤
My mom read my diary when I was 13. I was so upset but she said she liked my poetry and my ideas and wanted to collaborate, which was sweet, but I was still upset and at 13 didn't want to collaborate with my mom.
When I moved across the country from California to Florida 5 years ago, I left all my old journals and sketchbooks to my daughter.
At first, I wanted to have a bonfire and burn them as a rite of passage. Then I went through them and thought she might like to see who I was when she was growing up. So I left 24 years of my thoughts and inspiration with her. Letting her know the darkest and deepest parts of my feelings. She loves them. I hope she passes them on someday or burns them as a rite of passage.
That's incredibly beautiful that you let yourself have that level of vulnerability with your daughter. I would love to be able to understand my mother in the same way. I don't think she'll ever have the courage to open up to me like that.
@@SatiricalSarahyou can try to initiate a convo if you really feel like that, she is also just a human being and may have many fears and limiting beliefs . show her you come from a space of love and curiosity, not need nor desperation. hope you get to experience, real and vulnerable moments with your loved ones.
Usually during a confrontation,showing no fear,and being confident will win any battle,without even having to be violent. Most men like that want to instill fear,and that inflates their ego,so if you deny them the expected reaction,they usually back down. I have stood up to,and even got in the face of four-hundred pound biker dudes,girls twice my size, and they Always back down before I do. ❤️ Good for you!! ❤️
“ceci est une poussette” SHAYNA IM 💀
Very important message to share about young women being done with the violence of men. Bravo!!! Hit back as is needed. xx
This was one of the most fun chats to sit in on😂 the part where you said “then I scuba dived-“ I laughed and thought it was definitely possible!
I had shredded my old diaries for that irrational fear of someone reading them in my lifetime.. sometimes depending on what you go through it’s better to let go of all the emotion you put down into that piece of paper, and sometimes it’s very cathartic..
"Ceci est une poussette", a genuine artistic turn to a crazy nonsense situation, ❤. Only a Piano Princess could come up to that.
One neighboor less to get that piano up. There's a crowd you can hire. Bon courage. Bon voyage.
piano princess haha
“They’ll read what they read”. You’re correct. Thank you again for another honesty chat, I love Tuesday mornings with you. I love how no matter how different we are in so many ways, we also have many of the same deep inner feelings. Do have a safe and enjoyable trip back to your earlier home. ❌⭕️❤
SO funny, I get the justice part so much. In fact few months ago I went into a shouting match with a guy in the middle of the street after he almost ran me over with a trotinette. Here's the bizarre part, 1 min after we got separated I saw YOU walk past! Annoyingly I wanted to say hello but I was still so shook from the argument I couldn't breathe let alone saying hello to a stranger 😅 anyway your video reminded me of that day lol
omg !! I wish we could have met
@@thepurplepalace85 I know! Paris is a small place 😀 This meeting would have gone like this: Hey Shayna, I love your youtube channel *me bursting into tears from internal pressure*...wouldn't be a great first impression 🤣
LOL Shayna I'm the same, I'm nice to people including neighbors, but if someone crosses me or behaves in a way that gives them an advantage, does something that's not fair to me or others ... I will react to that. Preferably outsmart them, like you did by writing 'This is a stroller'... well played!
Throwing a radiator at your door is awful behaviour, you should report that! ❤
My fear of someone reading my diary and journaling is so strong I make sure I throwaway everything I write every few days. That started at about age ten until now age 83. When I think of writing a book same thing happens even when told I could say it’s fiction. But in general have always been a private person. Also always loved living alone never have been lonely always having fun friends and never liked hosting . Love your vlogs.
It took me a really long time to break up with my first boyfriend of 5 years. him not only reading my diary but sending a picture of an entry to someone he knew I didn't like was the final straw. He was sleeping and I went in woke him up and broke up with him lol
This is not a radiator. 🎉❤🎉❤🎉
I can only imagine how he treats his family behind the closed doors. But if he does cause damage, or threatens to do so, contacting police may be a good idea, to start an official report in writing, for the future, even if it does not yet lead to much. And I would buy a Ring doorbell, to record any future interactions. Speaking from experience.
All of this. The fact he lost control and threw something is scary 😢
Girl, same! Fellow Aquarian artist here and I can totally relate to the rage for justice thing. I call those people "unregulated children in older bodies"
I speak English and I’m learning French and Dutch. I listen to Russian, Finnish, Swedish, German, Chinese and Japanese musicians. No music needs to be in English for me understand the song. That’s the beautiful thing about music. You know what is being said without literally knowing what is being said.
First! 😹💕 …i knew you’d be a good teacher! 😊
Does your building have a storage area, where you can put the radiator?
Your building should have a person or company that manages the maintenance of the building who could get rid of things, but you should report what happened to you with this neighbor so then if there’s any further incidents, you can report it to the police just in case if it gets worse. You’re not a tenant. You’re an owner. The way he spoke to you is considered assault. This is a good way to acquaint yourself with the property and it wasn’t even in his right to order you around about the heater because it’s not his job. This way too, if they have stuff near their door, maintenance will inform them. Don’t talk to them or even regard them. They were rude to you. In Paris, people like that shouldn’t even get your time or consideration.
Thats why i never wrote in a diary as a kid cause i knew that anyone could take it and read it.
Me and you would make one hell of a bad bitch friendship! Two rebellious artists putting the world to rights!
I fucking support you on the man being violent and you being forced to take it.
My dad is also aggressive. I'm not aggressive towards him but I won't allow him to scare me into him controlling me. Coz before when I was younger I would hear his voice and just flinch.
I'm choosing differently. The world exists on duality but enablers make it dangerous. I will fucking stand up for myself thill I die
I have a problem with people assuming an authority over me which they don't have! The note on the radiator was pure genius!!!
I like being a guest too! I don’t enjoy hosting at all; I can never relax and I’m too anxious and worried the whole time😆I always feel drained and tired when they leave; it feels like so many different energies coming together, that I need to take a nap afterwards to recharge.
Always love the neighbor tea. I love that you’re so strong, it’s inspiring. I want to act like that when faced with confrontation ❤
I can’t stand hosting either. So much work and you don’t get any time to enjoy yourself.
I am just like this exactly... I work alone, live alone and flourish!!!!! And, I am so so kind until something unjust happens and then I go to another place!!!! Don't mess with me! :) Have fun in Florida, I am temporarily in Saint Augustine FL on a project.
My diaries (I'm on the 108th one, and they are in French) are the Grande Oeuvre of my life. They will be published POSTHUMOUSLY and will probably make me more rich and famous than ever while alive LOL. And they will be very entertaining to read.💜
I'm glad you stood up for yourself. People have no manners anymore. Safe travels, xo ❤
This is why I have NEVER had a diary. I have always lived in fear of it falling into the wrong hands. I'm trying my hand at journaling for the first time with YOUR prompted journal. But I have to admit...pouring my truth on to a page still stirs up that same fear. My solution...messy handwriting. I treat it as something I will never go bac and look at and so the hand writing doesn't matter...just getting the thoughts out of me is what matters. But I still feel like I write in a way that "changes the names to protect the innocent" so to speak. Also I love that you stood up to your neighbor. Some people think being loud and scary means they win...Not today Stroller...Not today.
17:45 in regards to the radiator couple, i don't think it was abt the problem w/ authority, as much as it was hypocrisy in this particular case - and i completely understand why you'd react the way you did (rightfully so!).
I think that when we take things too personal we end up reacting with more anger towards authority. He is obviously taking things to an extreme, thats why you are as well (he cant talk it out say why it really bothers him or is a problem, not willing to listen to your explaination or reason, hes taking it personal like its to spite him only or hes the law and you dont matter)
I LOVE THE CHATTY VIBE
Bravo pour le piano! To me, a home isn't a home without a typewriter 💜And as a French-Canadian, keeping my channel bilingual is important, even though adlding subtitles in 2 languages adds hours work to an upload. I had trolls commenting "speak English" before but I think it's just people frustrated that they can't understand what we say LOL. I was surprised to learn my predominantly English-speaking audience loves hearing me speak French💜
ive honestly burnt my journals before to release all the energy. I love your makeup and fits too, and yeah that neighbor sounds cray cray- I did have to report a roommate once to the police as she attempted assault - and my roommate who stayed ended up doing the same. Its just better to have these ppl leave because you neva know. I loved this vlog you are radiant! xx
Congratulations on the piano 🎹 I too grew up with a piano in every home and agree it’s the heart & soul to the home. I dream to have one again in my adult home too!
And yes, I’ve thought about what will become of my diaries when I’m gone. If you think about it Anne Frank was just writing in her diary like any other random girl. We could very possibly be Anne Franking ourselves ❤
I love this dress sooooooo much omfg
as a fellow moon & sun aquarius, I could not agree more. I hosted my kiwi friend for 3 days, and she ended up staying an extra day so she could get a cheaper departure train ticket & it was torture lol as much as I love her I just can't.
I think "fucked up" makeup looks way more fun than super polished instagram makeup
Love the bilingual music!!!!!!!!! Love you!!!! Thank you!!!
My ex-husband used to write me notes in my diary. At first it was nice but in the end it was like having arguments on paper. He was American so I'm not sure if he tried to read it or how much he did understand (probably less than 20% of any sentence is my guess.)
In Sweden we have a word called "särbo" which describes a serious couple living apart. If you're an adult couple (non married, because most of us aren't) living together you're "sambo" "together living", and if you live separately you're "särbo" "separate living".
Also, after being married for five years me and my husband are talking about finding our dream home with a second small building for more private space!
Happened to me every diary I had. I destroyed so many because people read it. It put me off keeping them. Boyfriends, my mother…..
“This is a stroller”
Omg love you
you are so an inspiration. I cannot relate to having an artist life but I am having a hard time lately defining myself and moreover finding friends who fit my life and my vibe. You seem so grounded and home in Paris with your life. I can imagine you manifesting your life 10 years ago and now you are literally living it. So inspiring. Really hope to get there soon!
Ain't that lovely, to open ur eyes up to the turning of the seasons, from green to golden leaves. You look freaky amazingly truely your special unique Queen self
thank you!!!!
@@thepurplepalace85lovey, in reflexion...how this bully neighboor got you to déballe toutes les ressentis avec ta fratrie. Interesting to reflect upon.
Good for you Shayna! What nerve that person has disrespecting you that way. I'm glad you stood your ground with him.
These are my favourite type of videos of you
The neighbor story reminded me of “Beef” on Netflix 😂
This chit chat was amazing. I felt like my best girlfriend and I were sitting there listening to your views and we both could relate to what your were saying. Don't let that 'temper tantrum' guy get to you. In fact, if you just walk away and ignore him it will exasperate him more LOL....If they have nothing nice to say, they shouldn't say anything at all. You've got balls girl lol in a feminine way.
Same, I'm not crazy about people being in my space aside from the occasional friend. I have personal things all around too and intimate creative unfoldings around too.
not a diary, but when i was a young child (6-7 years old) my mom found two songs i wrote and read them. i wrote them for me, not to show anyone else, and i was so traumatized from that violation of privacy, so embarrassed, that i never wrote another song again. well, until recently, really (im 30 now so that trauma had me in a chokehold lmao)
I caught my stepbrother reading my diary.. and he gave me an ultimatum, either I let him keep reading or he'd tell my stepfather what he'd read so far!! I couldn't believe the shrewdness. Now I'm blocked from really pouring my heart out, such a violation of trust. ❤
Wow what a treat he was NOT! Sorry to hear that x
No one should threaten you with physical violence over an argument, specially a man threatening a woman - there's an obvious physical disadvantage there for you and it's intimidation. You should report that neighbor to the police.
omg girl, there is no channel I prefer over your's, because you always speak my mind and I feel like I belong a bit more into the world haha. the hosting thing -> 🙌
Luv ya Shayna have an awesome time this weekend traveling home to see family 💕💕 quantum love and growth and blessings babes!!!
happy holidays Shayna!
Best friend I love you for the ‘this is a stroller’ !!! Lololol
I also had almost the exact same experience with my older sister so we’re not alone
Ps I loved the ending of the video it felt like a voicemail
I am so empowered in my own authority lately that when someone tells me what to do, soooo many portions of me want to do the very OPPOSITE lol.
We are here to change things and be and operate this existence in new ways!!! Changing the game and living OUTSIDE of the programs of lack and disempowerment. Go ahead and judge us b!! They jealous!!!
Wow!!! I cant believe he threw something like that 😱 thats insane!!! Please report and take pictures/evidence. He needs to be held accountable for his actions.
I just saw your Arte studio visit segment, it was fantastic ❤
Good for you!! I know what it's like and I will not cave next time a man wants to push me around :) thanx for sharing
Brilliant remark ! And have a great visit home
thank you!
Thinking about what will happen to your journals after you die is so interesting, I do it all the time lol. I think it's a beautiful thing to be able to leave something so tied to the deepest parts of yourself and your inner workings to the important people who outlive you. Sometimes as I'm writing I imagine who might be reading it in 30, 60 years... Maybe I'll share them with my child when their the age I am now, or maybe my great grand children might read them one day, who knows... Anyway, thanks for another great video Shayna
Wow! Great vid!
The issue with authority is def an Aquarius thing! My bff and husband are the exact same way, both ♒
I *LOVE* how you went all "René Magritte" on his ass, by taping the stroller to the radiator (ceci, c'est une poussette) 🤣🤣. A true artist, down to the core. 💜
Hello! It is so nice to see what you are up to! Have a safe journey! Diary talk. yes. I have a process now. I keep several books. I draw out what I am thinking. I made my own picture font, and I am the only one that holds the key to that. I do sometimes write in Japanese. That is easily enough translatable. Keeping a journal is important to me too, so I put those safe ways to do it. Seems like too much trouble at times and well.... That's okay. As always, LOVE what you are up to. Be well! IF you want to.
Love this! I have strong Aries&Aquarius energy and I am so done being small because of entitled men! This impulse is getting stronger as I get older 💃🏻.
I’ve been pondering about what will happen when I’m not in the world but all my chaotic journals are 😯 at least I won’t be here to deal with any repercussions lol
I have loved keeping a diary, recently though I lost all my past diries and it is a big loss I'm trying to get over. It's such a weird thing to morn
Oh yes, I do think about what is going to happen to my diaries. I used to think it might be insightful - but that's only for me. Now I think they might be soul crushing and I need to get a bonfire going before my husband or kids read anything - yikes! I found a journal from my late teen years and it's beyond cringeworthy. That one I need to burn just to feel better about myself : )
Loved this honest chat! 💗 Also omg the authority issue... I FEEL YOU! Its why im procrastinating on finding a side job... I know I need a job cs right now Im barely scraping by as a student (w my student loan) but can't join fun things w my friends etc. But its almost like, I rather have the stress of that, than dealing with a bossy boss! (I have worked so much as a teen, and actually have all been bad experiences.. and somehow it hurts me when someone is being bossy... Cs I also really care always like I work hard etc!) Some shadow work I gotta do probably 🥺
Im a libra with a sag rising btw
as a fellow aquarian, yes, i absl have an issue with authority! i don't know why either? i cannot be told what to do ahahahha
Power to you and the words you shared- thank you! I have been feeling into a similar pattern/reactionary habit in my own life .. y'know... walking on eggshells or having to be some modest situation diffuser for men who struggle with handling their own patterns. Something that has been helpful (mantra of sorts) is "asserting myself is not the same as unprecedented anger." Yes, I am loud and take up space. No, because this is not wrong or something that serves me to feel shame for. I do not have the time to be treated like a girl or lesser than. My assertion in not petty bitchness... it has been liberating to step into my voice and expression in not taking peoples often gender based aggressions. If someone wants to think I am a bitch for stating my boundaries or standing up for another, let it be.
I say YES to the Bilingual songs , we are in New Zealand and ther are a lot of people here who sing in Te Reo (Maori) and English , and it is so cool because it is a way of learning by hearing them x I am so with You about Authority...and male aggressive bullshit or any form of abuse. Sacred Anger v Rage ... especially from males with small appendages !! I got to laugh, I kept a diary when I was a teenager, and because I did not want my mother to read it , I just wrote the first letter of every word so no one could figure out what I was up to, years later I found it and could not figure out what I was on about LOL
I relate so much to all you said about everything. the need to live alone, and the spark that you feel when someone tells you what to do, and also the thoughts about the diary :'''D hahahahahah I also wonder what will happen with them when I die, or like what if my roommate take it and read it, so I always try to have it hidden between books cause I also don't fucking have filters!
thank you so much for inspiring us
have a nice trip!!!!!!!
Heyy Shayna I’ve been watching your videos for a few years now and the purple palace and all that you put into your videos and documenting your creative process has been a huge inspiration for some of my art projects and the direction my art practice has evolved, I loved how playful and experimental your work is (I’m currently a 3rd year fine arts-mixed media student) and I was wondering if you would be interested in giving a class overseas? I live in Egypt and I know its a long shot but would you consider maybe visiting Egypt, I’m sure you’ll love it!!
“ And then I went scuba diving…” GURL 😭
💫 all my dreams are coming true ☘️
yay new video 🙊💞
Hope you enjoyed it!
Oh Shayna!! You are my twin! I don't ever want to live with a guy again! We each must have our own space. I always liked working on my own and I don't enjoy hostessing these days (for the past 10 years) except my family!!!!
OOOOh and love the ability to just BE!. Love the affirmations! Hugs
Goodness that's why I don't even journal because I don't want my kids reading my private thoughts and feelings. Its like I would be embarrassed after I am dead right? haha geeeez
Enjoy Florida! 🌴💛
Stand up for yourselves but also be careful! You can get a camera to put at your front door, too!
I’ve written diary entries abt ppl reading it after I die 😅
Hi! Have you ever thought about being an artist on band camp (the app) ??? I would love that.. ♡
I do think about my diaries when I die. I don’t want anyone to read them so I’m not sure what I’m going to do about that yet.
omg, you would be so disappointed in me but recently I recycled the diary I had for this year. I filled it to the brim because this year was so utterly horrible and it was my way of processing all the shit that happened to me. But I threw it away because it triggered so many ill feelings. Usually I keep my diaries but I couldn't keep the one for this year.
Very random question....
There was a song in a couple of your vlogs that goes "all of my.... where have they gone where have they gone now"
It is stuck in my head and I am trying to Find the song!!
if your wondering about the authority stuff, from a psychological label perspective ODD is the term that that comes into - it stands for oppositional defiance disorder, also a lot of people say stuff about autism and justice being a thing.. im real obsessed with viewing and exploring psychological behaviour and labels from an art performance lens as it keeps the world of professional psychology at a distance that is playable with, I like to think of myself as doing so professionally as an artist that is being serious and fun with professionals that are psychologists. labels and the corresponding behaviour that is assigned too such , its interesting to both loosen and tighten your grip and focus around what is helpful y thoughts are bity towards the end , you get it , art
The video thumbnail cracks me up
ME ME ME about working for other people and justice! I am also an Aquarius and wonder what other chart similarities we have. Look forward to working for myself someday like you :)
im a capricorn with an aquarius stellium and i hate people telling me what to do especially if the rules dont make sense to me
Do you ever wonder if you manifest these conflicts with your neighbors? Or do you look at them in another way like tests of what you want to manifest via going through the conflict? I had conflicts with a landlord once, and on the one hand it pushed me into buying a house, and it was my dream house, on the other hand I see that many of my character weaknesses were exposed through the conflict. The jury is still out for me. I guess both can be true at the same time. Just wondering how we can believe we manifest everything but then whimsically and subjectively exclude the negatives.
I think I definitely am responsible for i manifesting it! Every obstacle I believe is there to teach us something or help us grow :)
did she completly moved to her new apartment? i honestly miss the renovation videos and i wish we could see a tour of the new apartment, she suddently stopped posting that content...i thought we were gonna go thru the process with the apartment decoration and everything, i was quite excited about seeing how it will end up looking....i hope she will make at least one video with the house tour, if we are not gonna see the pprocess anymore...
Yeah that's what I was thinking too
Ok so when are the Purple Palace journals with locks on them dropping? 🤑
Omg hahaha
Shell collects Rocks?