@user-ny6kj6nm8v oh my gosh, thank you so much! I always feel bad talking about my education because I don't wanna sound pretentious. Maybe one day I'll go back and do a PhD but I really enjoy discussing topics like this. I hope you enjoyed the video 🥰
@@asheycakes911 Makes sense why you would be worried about that ! And Im sure theres people out there who will disagree with me but sharing the knowledge you have on a public platform is one of the least pretentious thing you could do. Especially because in general university and higher education can be very exclusive and classist, to me its more commendable than only talking abt it with the people who have also completed the same studies as you. Im super interested in sociology & psychology but holding off on formal education until my adhd is medicated, to give me a better shot at succeeding. so youtube is where I can engage with these topics that make my brain tick without the insane price tag. I enjoyed the video and what you had to say 😁 And then I subbed once you started talking about gender, it is so refreshing to see a straight person talk about the deconstruction of the gender binary. I am an agender lesbian and that instantly made me feel comfortable to support your channel even if I'm not really a vlog watcher 🖤 Keep up the great work !!
@@alxxblu3 I absolutely agree, often universities (or the people at them) can often be quite elitist and classist but thankfully there are also a lot of people there who are also all about open education (i.e., free access to education/information), which is really important. I definitely want to keep sharing my knowledge with the world, so if this is a space I can do so, then I'm excited! I hope one day you can study psychology and sociology but I want to say I'm proud of you for putting your mental health first (something I should have done a long time ago). I did both of those in undergrad but was a lot better at sociology (psych had sooo much maths that I just couldn't deal with) hence why I continued with sociology into postgrad. And yep, I have heaps of student loans, it should be cheaper or scholarships more widely available OR free education for all. Thank you so much, I'm so glad I've created a safe space for you to share that with me (I will do more sociology topics soon I promise but I do enjoy the vlogs too). If you're interested in reading, my blog www.asheycakes.com has a lot more heavy academic stuff (and some fun stuff too). But it just goes to show how the gender binary is super problematic because of what people actually are. Naww thank you!
Great video! I have watched some of this but am very interested in watching the rest later on. I definitely rage when I see content like that! ANY publicity for them is good publicity in their eyes
Thank you so much! Me too (I can't get over the bathroom cooking like it's so icky) - absolutely agree. Looking forward to the rest of your thoughts when you come back later on :)
@@asheycakes911you did an excellent job on this video! I have to agree with many points you made. I don't understand the tradwife trend. I personally enjoy making food from scratch occasionally but it is not in my daily routine and it's not so I can play into the gender role of it. It's almost like I wonder if they're doing it only for the views, I genuinely wonder if their lives are actually like this. The paper from scratch was cool but yes very unnecessary. It also didn't look practical? Like the kids were scribbling 😂😂 would have been a little more interesting if random items were brought together to show the children they could create something really cool with items laying around or items outside to glue together into a pattern.
@@KBTV444 Thank you so much! Me neither, I feel like my brain is WAYY too overactive to be someone who is submissive. I do also like making things from scratch like baking and making home cooked meals etc. but definitely wouldn't want to do it every single day and honestly, who has time? Rich people hahah. And I definitely don't think things like that should be gendered either. I agree, they're definitely doing it for the views because more engagement is good for them - i.e., more ways for monetisation, brand deals etc. That's a really good point you make about the paper, I didn't think of it at the time but it would be good to help with their development to do more making things themselves - or even if their mum taught them how to do it. I'm not a parent myself so I don't like to judge how someone parents their children, but I think it's okay to analyse and understand the why behind it (I hope this makes sense - it kinda just ended up being a brain dump in response to your comment).
this seems more of an emotion regulation problem and anti social behavior, mixed in with heavy doses of despair. socializing with a variety of people daily, atleast, gives you some form of comparison.
I have been wanting someone with actual credentials to talk about the topic of rage bait, so keen to keep watching xD
@user-ny6kj6nm8v oh my gosh, thank you so much! I always feel bad talking about my education because I don't wanna sound pretentious. Maybe one day I'll go back and do a PhD but I really enjoy discussing topics like this. I hope you enjoyed the video 🥰
@@asheycakes911 Makes sense why you would be worried about that !
And Im sure theres people out there who will disagree with me but sharing the knowledge you have on a public platform is one of the least pretentious thing you could do. Especially because in general university and higher education can be very exclusive and classist, to me its more commendable than only talking abt it with the people who have also completed the same studies as you.
Im super interested in sociology & psychology but holding off on formal education until my adhd is medicated, to give me a better shot at succeeding. so youtube is where I can engage with these topics that make my brain tick without the insane price tag.
I enjoyed the video and what you had to say 😁
And then I subbed once you started talking about gender, it is so refreshing to see a straight person talk about the deconstruction of the gender binary.
I am an agender lesbian and that instantly made me feel comfortable to support your channel even if I'm not really a vlog watcher 🖤
Keep up the great work !!
@@alxxblu3 I absolutely agree, often universities (or the people at them) can often be quite elitist and classist but thankfully there are also a lot of people there who are also all about open education (i.e., free access to education/information), which is really important. I definitely want to keep sharing my knowledge with the world, so if this is a space I can do so, then I'm excited!
I hope one day you can study psychology and sociology but I want to say I'm proud of you for putting your mental health first (something I should have done a long time ago). I did both of those in undergrad but was a lot better at sociology (psych had sooo much maths that I just couldn't deal with) hence why I continued with sociology into postgrad. And yep, I have heaps of student loans, it should be cheaper or scholarships more widely available OR free education for all.
Thank you so much, I'm so glad I've created a safe space for you to share that with me (I will do more sociology topics soon I promise but I do enjoy the vlogs too). If you're interested in reading, my blog www.asheycakes.com has a lot more heavy academic stuff (and some fun stuff too). But it just goes to show how the gender binary is super problematic because of what people actually are.
Naww thank you!
Wow. Such deep dive discussion on your video. Cool.
Thank you so much! :)
Great video! I have watched some of this but am very interested in watching the rest later on. I definitely rage when I see content like that! ANY publicity for them is good publicity in their eyes
Thank you so much! Me too (I can't get over the bathroom cooking like it's so icky) - absolutely agree. Looking forward to the rest of your thoughts when you come back later on :)
@@asheycakes911you did an excellent job on this video! I have to agree with many points you made. I don't understand the tradwife trend. I personally enjoy making food from scratch occasionally but it is not in my daily routine and it's not so I can play into the gender role of it. It's almost like I wonder if they're doing it only for the views, I genuinely wonder if their lives are actually like this. The paper from scratch was cool but yes very unnecessary. It also didn't look practical? Like the kids were scribbling 😂😂 would have been a little more interesting if random items were brought together to show the children they could create something really cool with items laying around or items outside to glue together into a pattern.
@@KBTV444 Thank you so much! Me neither, I feel like my brain is WAYY too overactive to be someone who is submissive. I do also like making things from scratch like baking and making home cooked meals etc. but definitely wouldn't want to do it every single day and honestly, who has time? Rich people hahah. And I definitely don't think things like that should be gendered either.
I agree, they're definitely doing it for the views because more engagement is good for them - i.e., more ways for monetisation, brand deals etc.
That's a really good point you make about the paper, I didn't think of it at the time but it would be good to help with their development to do more making things themselves - or even if their mum taught them how to do it. I'm not a parent myself so I don't like to judge how someone parents their children, but I think it's okay to analyse and understand the why behind it (I hope this makes sense - it kinda just ended up being a brain dump in response to your comment).
this is awesome work Ash!
Thank you so much! xx
Interesting! I did not know this was a thing. Thanks for the deep dive.
Thanks so much for watching! :)
this seems more of an emotion regulation problem and anti social behavior, mixed in with heavy doses of despair. socializing with a variety of people daily, atleast, gives you some form of comparison.
Only God is Lord 😊