No. The times guys have said I was the best they ever had, they also suddenly decided I probably "had a high body count" or lost their minds because I didn't chade them after like a desperate dog. Than disappeared.
I love this ! Be his best friend 🤔Especially in my case he doesn’t believe men and women can be friends but we kind of are. At least he’s not ignoring me.
Thank you, best advice ever. I envisioned two scenarios,, where I see him and act so cool and non chalant and not mention what happened. My other mind, the one that gets me in trouble all the time, tells me to call him, ask him why, he did what he did and be angry when I see him. I was leaning with the positive version and then I saw this video, which compounded what I was leaning toward what to do.
This is proven.. I made him my best friend after sex and be patient.. after being friends (no benefit) for 6 months, now we are in relationship. It was like a teaser 😃.
Tejkrful, YOU did nothing wrong. The person you met was complicated and had complications probably. Also its a good thing that happened to you, even though it hurt you, because he is likely to do that to anyone who he meets, and especially if he marries someone. Anyone who makes big promises and then lets you down is doing it out of habit, and is lost themselves. Men who are 'aware' of themselves and worth keeping don't do that. In your mind, kick him to the curb and find someone worthy, you sound like a good heart so give it to a good man. xxx
Thank you Alex...was how I spent yesterday was fantastic👌🏻 ☺️ and was wondering how to step next, you assured me I was still in the right place. Right direction.....
What if you already talked about what happened and it’s not in your norm. I started beating myself up and he kept saying it was ok. A lot of guys judge you after
My long distance boyfriend of 4 months said "he didn't feel the connection" and its felt "best to remain friends", because "he cant give me what i want" as "he doesn't want a relationship" or a commitment, he wants to explore an open kinda relationship but i wont fit into that because im simple and reserved. He said this after a meeting for a few hours and having a fun time and getting intimate on our first meeting. Clearly a shock after being involved and being into each other in a 4 months emotional connection where he had said he is open to longterm relationship and exclusivity. Devastating response after a much awaited meeting. I am still wondering what went wrong?
Same. Except it was 9 months, and he drummed up the relationship as progressing to marriage. Then when I flew home. It was no it won't work because of small excuses. I feel terrible.
What if we already did the mistake of showing we have feelings and he pulled away and ghosted after saying no he doesn't want a relationship ?? Is it still reversible?
I know you say that the guy will come back once in awhile you know to stay well I waited like two and a half months had enough finally asked him if he wanted me to stay or to go it was okay for me to do either one I said I would like to go if you don't want me anymore so it's okay I'm confused he kept commenting on what I was saying in certain parts with hearts so I said I was confused I sure would love to talk to you face to face hearts can mean anything
We had a great night . We slept together on the first hangout . The only thing i asked him is how will he act when we go bck to work he said regular. He mentioned earlier that he didnt ask pple for their numbers he also asked me if I block pple. Anyways fast forward, the sex happened i enjoyed it he seemed to enjoy it and initiated / asked for another round. Next morning he was cranky still tired and i left quite quickly he never once asked me for my number. Ill see him in a week at work , thanks for this advice .. I do like him its not just lust and even tho i was a little worried you reassured me. Ill act normal with a smile and still friendly to him & ill be patient.
If the girl doesn't come to bed on the first night with me I never call her back for the second date. the problem is that after sex they are often no longer themselves and try to attract attention in strange ways. "Behave normally" is the best advice in this video.
Perhaps if you told them from the outset that you just want sex and are not emotionally or intellectually capable of having a relationship, you wouldn’t have to suffer their “strange ways” or alternatively you could just “wank off”.
Ok, either I'm a wierd guy or this is not accurate. If a girl was interested in me and she was theoretically my type, all she would need to do after we had sex, is not making a big deal out of it and be sincerely interested in me and spending time with me. She's free to text me if she wants to hang out, she's free to just chat or call me and talk about stuff and we could have sex again without it driving me away. Only thing she should not do, is make a big deal out ouf it, being pushy towards a relationship and taking the sex for more than it is, just sex. Also, if she was playing games, or being challenging or making herself rare or whatever, I'd lose interest immediately. If she's chill, interesting and interested in me, it won't be long before I'll ask her out.
I'm a female and feel the same way. I have had plenty experience getting played and also a few guys who were actually serious. With those that were serious, we just resumed as normal. There was no pulling away
One thing also very important be a giver and give him best time so he can miss those things always 😁
No. The times guys have said I was the best they ever had, they also suddenly decided I probably "had a high body count" or lost their minds because I didn't chade them after like a desperate dog. Than disappeared.
I’m leaving it to God
😂😂😂 All you can really do girl! 😆
Same 😢
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I love this ! Be his best friend 🤔Especially in my case he doesn’t believe men and women can be friends but we kind of are. At least he’s not ignoring me.
Thank you, best advice ever. I envisioned two scenarios,, where I see him and act so cool and non chalant and not mention what happened. My other mind, the one that gets me in trouble all the time, tells me to call him, ask him why, he did what he did and be angry when I see him. I was leaning with the positive version and then I saw this video, which compounded what I was leaning toward what to do.
thnx so much...u re like a father taking care of his girls😁. I should say I am in the exact situation.
You're welcome 😊
This is proven.. I made him my best friend after sex and be patient.. after being friends (no benefit) for 6 months, now we are in relationship. It was like a teaser 😃.
Omg girl im tryna be like uu
How did u do it plz help 🥺🤍
How can you be his best friend if the communication is limited and you see him only once a week?
Howwwww?????
R u still together?
BEST VIDEO OUT THERE FOR THIS
Makes complete sense. Relax.
He directly asked me to dress up and drop me back home at mid night
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I should have listened this video earlier. Now i texted him first 2 times. 😢
Did he come back eventually ?
Tejkrful, YOU did nothing wrong. The person you met was complicated and had complications probably.
Also its a good thing that happened to you, even though it hurt you, because he is likely to do that to anyone
who he meets, and especially if he marries someone. Anyone who makes big promises and then lets you
down is doing it out of habit, and is lost themselves. Men who are 'aware' of themselves and worth keeping
don't do that. In your mind, kick him to the curb and find someone worthy, you sound like a good heart so
give it to a good man. xxx
Wow this is very informative 💯
Glad you think so!
So better not to have sex with someone u are not married to. I prefer safe guard myself
After marriage same thing will happened again😊
Thank you Alex...was how I spent yesterday was fantastic👌🏻 ☺️ and was wondering how to step next, you assured me I was still in the right place. Right direction.....
You're so welcome!
I agree if you do these things it doesn't matter how soon you had sex.
What if you already talked about what happened and it’s not in your norm. I started beating myself up and he kept saying it was ok. A lot of guys judge you after
wow this guy is amazing!
Thank you so much for the support!
Thank you sir.... So much for ur best tips
My long distance boyfriend of 4 months said "he didn't feel the connection" and its felt "best to remain friends", because "he cant give me what i want" as "he doesn't want a relationship" or a commitment, he wants to explore an open kinda relationship but i wont fit into that because im simple and reserved. He said this after a meeting for a few hours and having a fun time and getting intimate on our first meeting. Clearly a shock after being involved and being into each other in a 4 months emotional connection where he had said he is open to longterm relationship and exclusivity. Devastating response after a much awaited meeting. I am still wondering what went wrong?
He faked being a good guy to get sex from him. Move on!!
Same
It probably was mostly the long distance. He may have been seeing someone and fell for them in between the times you couldn’t see him due to distance.
Heartbreaking
Same. Except it was 9 months, and he drummed up the relationship as progressing to marriage. Then when I flew home. It was no it won't work because of small excuses. I feel terrible.
You are so nice Alex...what to do if he's not friendly?
Love this, thank you! Wish I had seen this in my past experiences 😅
You're so welcome!
Thank you🎉!!!!!
Thank you so much for watching!
Thanks Coach Alex :)
Goes distant then starts blanking you. Feel so used
Get in shape, buy new clothes and manifest better.
Thanks Alex 💖
My pleasure!
What if we already did the mistake of showing we have feelings and he pulled away and ghosted after saying no he doesn't want a relationship ?? Is it still reversible?
Dang, I would just leave it in gods hands
Love this vedio ❤️
I love the way you say “it’s okay” 🥲💗
Thank you so much for watching!
Oh Alex why are the men so complicated creatures😂😂But thank you for your useful tips Monsieur🙏
My pleasure!
What if it's been a week and he still hasn't reached out?🙁
Don't panic! Some men are feared for their own emotions
He's not that interested unfortunately
God your voice 😍
Farther God I just come to you today lord Jesus that Billy and I will get back together Aman.
Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video is able to help you!
But what if he doesn’t come back and he never talks to me again? all he did was take it and break my heart.
I know you say that the guy will come back once in awhile you know to stay well I waited like two and a half months had enough finally asked him if he wanted me to stay or to go it was okay for me to do either one I said I would like to go if you don't want me anymore so it's okay I'm confused he kept commenting on what I was saying in certain parts with hearts so I said I was confused I sure would love to talk to you face to face hearts can mean anything
Merci
What if he blocked after sex. What are options then
Dats tuff..
Move on
This one will hurt but you gotta move on
Some guys are emotionally immature , they love sex but resent women who give it to them #confused , yes just move on
He has a girlfriend
We had a great night . We slept together on the first hangout . The only thing i asked him is how will he act when we go bck to work he said regular.
He mentioned earlier that he didnt ask pple for their numbers he also asked me if I block pple.
Anyways fast forward, the sex happened i enjoyed it he seemed to enjoy it and initiated / asked for another round. Next morning he was cranky still tired and i left quite quickly he never once asked me for my number.
Ill see him in a week at work , thanks for this advice .. I do like him its not just lust and even tho i was a little worried you reassured me. Ill act normal with a smile and still friendly to him & ill be patient.
First hangout ? Dang
If the girl doesn't come to bed on the first night with me I never call her back for the second date. the problem is that after sex they are often no longer themselves and try to attract attention in strange ways. "Behave normally" is the best advice in this video.
Perhaps if you told them from the outset that you just want sex and are not emotionally or intellectually capable of having a relationship, you wouldn’t have to suffer their “strange ways” or alternatively you could just “wank off”.
What kind of strange ways?
So just keep the same attitude and behaviors from even before sex ?
Is it the same thing as friend with benefit? Where he’s the only one benefited.
Ladies listen !!
Thanks for this video
It is such a relieve!!
Thank you too!
What if you met him, and connected and he is leaving the country?
Get ready to find a new man , I’m in the same situation he’s about to leave to spain
U r aight Alex thanks u so much ❤💞❣💖💕
You're welcome 😊
How to challenge?
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Ok, either I'm a wierd guy or this is not accurate. If a girl was interested in me and she was theoretically my type, all she would need to do after we had sex, is not making a big deal out of it and be sincerely interested in me and spending time with me. She's free to text me if she wants to hang out, she's free to just chat or call me and talk about stuff and we could have sex again without it driving me away. Only thing she should not do, is make a big deal out ouf it, being pushy towards a relationship and taking the sex for more than it is, just sex. Also, if she was playing games, or being challenging or making herself rare or whatever, I'd lose interest immediately. If she's chill, interesting and interested in me, it won't be long before I'll ask her out.
I'm a female and feel the same way. I have had plenty experience getting played and also a few guys who were actually serious. With those that were serious, we just resumed as normal. There was no pulling away
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