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10 Things EVERY WOMAN Should Own By Age 30!

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  • @MariaRosa-cp1sh
    @MariaRosa-cp1sh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    I would add a basic toolbox - hammer, nails, screwdriver, etc

    • @carrietwickler3157
      @carrietwickler3157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True so true

    • @missnobody9475
      @missnobody9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definetly!

    • @GastroVulpes
      @GastroVulpes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maria Rosa Z 🦋 yes!!!! For home, and a just in case kit for the car.

    • @victoriamather2267
      @victoriamather2267 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would say no because it’s used so rarely, you can hire
      someone or borrow someone else’s for the once in a while time you would need it. It takes up space the other 364 days of the year and you should only keep in your home what you use regularly.

    • @sugarmcdoodles8462
      @sugarmcdoodles8462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maria Rosa Z I’m 29, live alone and own none of these things 🤦🏻‍♀️ good thing I can call maintenance 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @pinayanddudeadventures850
    @pinayanddudeadventures850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    Savings account and emergency fund before buying expensive stuff.

    • @mariaoquendo3945
      @mariaoquendo3945 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice1204 Arriaza purses could be considered savings especially with designer 🥰

    • @inderjitkainth5353
      @inderjitkainth5353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TBona yep the most expensive bag I own is a Matt and Nat one ($175)?and I thought 3 or 4 times before buying it.

  • @MsStupidgirl83
    @MsStupidgirl83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +807

    Not every 30 year old has their life together enough to have all of these things, and that's ok ladies!!!

    • @thesocialintrovertchronicles
      @thesocialintrovertchronicles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @Lindsay Nunya, thanks for the encouragement. I was starting to wonder if am the only one who is in my 30s, and doesn't have it all together

    • @alyssadana5011
      @alyssadana5011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lindsay Nunya I was goin to say same thing lol

    • @alyssadana5011
      @alyssadana5011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Lolita Zavala I’m 28 and am no where neaaaar together. So don’t go by what others say. Go by your own timeline

    • @511ayo8
      @511ayo8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you 😢

    • @madlenox
      @madlenox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I think being well dressed and safe does not require hsving your life together :)

  • @iannone39
    @iannone39 4 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    You should I include heath insurance as you start work....definitely no 1

    • @saverasavera3652
      @saverasavera3652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      iannone39 go to the UK and get free healthcare

    • @angelafrith2667
      @angelafrith2667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      iannone39 nah, Americans don’t have a welfare state -they have insurance. Get health insurance girls.!

    • @BodaciousBeverly
      @BodaciousBeverly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Take a job that provides insurance as a benefit. 🙂

    • @charlenejo2490
      @charlenejo2490 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely

    • @DieAlteistwiederda
      @DieAlteistwiederda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or you are from a truly civilized first world country and that's already covered for you by taxes. The US really is a weird place.

  • @erinthompson627
    @erinthompson627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    And if your purse is from Kohl’s...thats ok too.

    • @trishpipkins
      @trishpipkins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Erin Thompson EXACTLY!!

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@trishpipkins Kohl's is awesome:)

    • @youheartmel
      @youheartmel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just bought my first Chanel pink satin flap 🌸✨

    • @DjHappyscrappin
      @DjHappyscrappin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or Target 😂😂😂

    • @glitterpenguines123
      @glitterpenguines123 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok

  • @ruthdennisKnits
    @ruthdennisKnits 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I started my retirement account in my mid 20s. I'm so happy I did. I was forced to retire 2 years early when my company moved out of town and didn't invite anyone to move. I am living better in retirement than when I was working. Please please anyone who reads this do the sacrifice and start saving now! I had to wait a little longer to purchase a house ( and I paid it off way before I retired) but my life now is sweet. Indie all this and my salary was no more than $60K. It can be done.

    • @WafflesOinc
      @WafflesOinc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I started mine in my early 20s. Now I’m in my mid 20s and happy that I made that choice. I used the money I got from my internship (where I live unpaid internship is ilegal)

  • @hroberts09
    @hroberts09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Hi Shea
    The simplest way to use a fire extinguisher is the PASS
    Best of luck and I hope that you don’t need to use it
    1. Pull pin to unlock
    2. Aim the extinguisher at the bottom or base of fire and stand 6 to 10 feet away
    3. Squeeze the lever to discharge the powder/ foam depending on the type of extinguisher
    4. Sweep the spray from left to right until fire is totally extinguished

    • @GretaBeth
      @GretaBeth 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hroberts09 first she needs to remove it from the box and cut the zip tie! That’s not a great way to store it. 😂 It would suck to discover the zip tie in a panic moment.

    • @hroberts09
      @hroberts09 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍🏻 😄

  • @gurdi
    @gurdi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +420

    1. Luxury handbag
    2. A wallet
    3. A good bed & sheets
    4. A fire extinguisher (and knowing how to use it)
    5. A passport
    6. A perfect pair of denim jeans
    7. A professional steamer
    8. A type of exercise you are passionate about
    9. A retirement account
    10. A bucket list

  • @crissolmontiel
    @crissolmontiel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    At age 30 I was broke, single, living with roommates and trying to make ends meet, didn't have any of this things or even think about them and is ok, don't feel bad is that is your case, keep trying and you will find your way, not everyone is successful by age 30.

    • @papayerika9008
      @papayerika9008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hi Crissol
      Do not measure success by accummulated possessions.
      There are multiple ways of being successful at much higher levels, e.g. by making physical, emotional and spiritual efforts and achievements.
      Otherwise I don' t see the point in compulsively buying the umpteenth luxury bag!!!

  • @samanthacharlton4123
    @samanthacharlton4123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As a Financial Coach, I'm so glad you mentioned planning for retirement. So many people in our age range are ill-prepared and don't know the cost of waiting

  • @ssmith543
    @ssmith543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Fire extinguishers? Remember PASS - Pull (the pin), Aim (the hose at the base of the fire), Squeeze (the trigger handle), and Sweep (slowly go from one side of the fire to the other).

  • @annsmith9424
    @annsmith9424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Life insurance should be somewhere on there too definitely if you have kids.

  • @fatimamedina2244
    @fatimamedina2244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    You should included more important things like saving money in your 401k and investing in stocks!!! Things that would definitely make an impact in our retirement!!!

    • @glitterpenguines123
      @glitterpenguines123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fatima Medina don’t forget you can LOSE money in stocks as well...it’s gambling

    • @fatimamedina2244
      @fatimamedina2244 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      JennaPlot definitely possible!!! But it’s still worth it to invest even if it’s small!!!!

    • @dreamluvr1600
      @dreamluvr1600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      bruh she’s a fashion account chill

    • @dreamluvr1600
      @dreamluvr1600 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Evelyn Swenson thats a good point. i think i took Fatimas comment as trying to paint the youtuber as vapid, but ur definitely right, the sooner u invest the better.

  • @margokerby1533
    @margokerby1533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Love your channel, Shea, and love all of your ideas and your talent.
    Just want to point out that the soft sheets you recommend are 100% polyester which is essentially plastic (will not biodegrade for many decades) and is not healthy for us due to the processing chemicals used, some of which may be hormone disruptors, as we absorb toxins through our skin.
    Cotton fleece sheets for the winter is a healthier choice for humans to sleep on all night and also better for our environment. We just need to remember that before we sleep on new sheets/pillow cases, we should wash them first to remove chemical residue from the factories - to be safe. Just my two cents, if it helps anyone who is interested.

    • @moongirl8807
      @moongirl8807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great comment, especially since plastic is on this planet forever. I know we can't be perfect but if you have the choice you should definitely choose something that's better for your health and the environment.

  • @zakharivanisov193
    @zakharivanisov193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    There are no MUST HAVE items by any age. Everyone has a different pace and it’s ok. It’s also ok NOT to want popular things

  • @ViewingHeidi
    @ViewingHeidi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m so glad you brought up the fire extinguisher! I’m in EHS and this is something people often disregard. I recommend an ABC (paper , plastic, flammable liquids, electric fires) and Class K fire extinguisher (for kitchen fires) . Home Depot or lowes sells them in duo packs and they’re affordable! Better safe than sorry everyone! :]

    • @mcd5478
      @mcd5478 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍🏼👍🏼💗

  • @preciousmerriweather
    @preciousmerriweather 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Even though I’m a mom I’m a pro at dad jokes. When you showed the wallet and mentioned the cash strap. I initially thought “it’s perfect when you are ‘strapped’ for cash”. And I died laughing 😂

  • @fetyaethiopia8481
    @fetyaethiopia8481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I don’t have any of them but I have 3 amazing children😊 Alhumdulliha

    • @valaititarka3318
      @valaititarka3318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Fetya ETHIOPIA i don’t have any of them n I don’t even have children ...still happy for everything Almighty blessed me with..

    • @fetyaethiopia8481
      @fetyaethiopia8481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sara 123 😍

    • @allyshimmer
      @allyshimmer 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      fetya Ethiopian girl please. I’m sure you have a wallet and a handbag. Congratulations on the kids though

  • @mandyg2304
    @mandyg2304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I feel like if I watch this whole video I'll just feel really bad about myself

  • @Anna-fw7lm
    @Anna-fw7lm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Do we need this kind of videos when society already press us to acheive this and that at all ages, especially women? I do think there are THREE THINGS women should work on by age 30:
    - a kinder heart
    -a sharper and wisdomer mind
    - gentler manners

  • @Scarletandgray1870
    @Scarletandgray1870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    OMG I’m too old to be here ..... but I love the videos...but 50 is the new 30!

    • @abak3948
      @abak3948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mara _M me too!

    • @Kristine-fz4dy
      @Kristine-fz4dy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Mara _M if you are too old to be here, I definitely am too (I’m 52!). That being said, I still love fashion, beauty and lifestyle things just as much as I did when I was younger, and I don’t FEEL old, so I refuse to stop watching content by awesome creators of any age on the basis that I might have kids that old!!! Lots of people start a whole new life in their middle age, so I’m not counting anything out yet!!! 😀

    • @karmaakabane1194
      @karmaakabane1194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      From a 16 year olds perspective no ones too old to enjoy beauty and such :) i think these tips apply to everyone... (and btw 50 isnt even "old" yet)

    • @trishpipkins
      @trishpipkins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      No you're not too old to be here. My parents are in their 70s and they've raised me to never feel too old for the fun stuff in life. They'll still go to Disney (WITHOUT grandkids) and they love all the stuff their kids and grandkids do. They're an inspiration for all of us. 😊

    • @Scarletandgray1870
      @Scarletandgray1870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks guys. I’m just laughing bcz i’m like omg 32. Seems like yesterday.

  • @ermvg16
    @ermvg16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I know what I like I just don’t have the money for it

  • @carolinehintze9543
    @carolinehintze9543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Expanding on your fire extinguisher thought. Please, if you drive regularly, carry a small fire extinguisher and first aid kit in your vehicle!

    • @nanekatharina3911
      @nanekatharina3911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isn't it mandatory where you live to carry an emergency kit like that in your car? In Romania the legislation mandates the ownership of a small fire extenguisher, those shiny vests, triangles (I don't know their names in English) and possibly a small medical emergency kit :)

    • @carolinehintze9543
      @carolinehintze9543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nanekatharina3911 it should be required! But sadly in the U.S. there are no state or federal laws about that.

  • @jasiyer1435
    @jasiyer1435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    who else loves her videos?:)

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're so nice...thank you!!!

    • @ChannasKidchen
      @ChannasKidchen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jas Iyer me!!!😊

    • @susylopez9308
      @susylopez9308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My 7 year old. Lol. He thinks Shea is hilarious and I’m surprise at his age he get all of her funny comments.

    • @cindyhumphrey3065
      @cindyhumphrey3065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shea, I’m 62 and I love you videos. You have a growing fan club of “a little older women”.

    • @tinameyer4562
      @tinameyer4562 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love the videos so much.:-)

  • @kaylahevans8334
    @kaylahevans8334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I agree with all but the first. Yes a good bag, but I'm not gonna have a bag worth several thousand dollars on my table when we struggle to put food on it. This is unrealistic for most of us.

    • @trishpipkins
      @trishpipkins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kaylah Evans She isn't saying a luxury bag. She says a good go to bag for every day.

  • @jessica_tull_
    @jessica_tull_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’ll be 30 next month!! Love your videos ❤️

  • @sleepmagnolia
    @sleepmagnolia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    “I don’t know why you would like running…” 😂 I feel the same way

  • @calicoquilter4472
    @calicoquilter4472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Cool wallet but not for cash-oriented folks. I dislike mini wallets because I am one of those old fogies who still carry cash, and I want a wallet that holds the bills without folding them. I'm the one at Starbucks NOT paying with my phone! Mine is large enough to hold my phone too. Re: fire extinguisher - get one that has a bracket to hang it on the wall (maybe just inside the pantry door) so it's easy to grab when needed. Not the time to be pulling it out of a box!

  • @thefeistymunchkin
    @thefeistymunchkin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    im 23 but this makes me feel like im on track in a good way! :)

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YAY! Thanks for watching lovely!!

  • @riyajoshi6821
    @riyajoshi6821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She talks about her steamer like its the most precious thing she has. God like love you women!!!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hahaha it’s one of my prized possessions🤣

  • @ChannasKidchen
    @ChannasKidchen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love your ENERGY in front of the camera! ❤️ also, I do not own any designer bags, but by age 30, I think I will consider buying one! 😁

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awe thank you...that makes me happy!!

    • @ChannasKidchen
      @ChannasKidchen 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shea Whitney you’re very inspirational. Every time I watch your videos, I feel more motivated to make my own videos!

    • @theresagreene7234
      @theresagreene7234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2

  • @gundampoon
    @gundampoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    me: aha for old people
    also me: *25*

    • @preciousmerriweather
      @preciousmerriweather 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      estoy I just turned 24 and I’m excited I like “old” people because that means they are living!!!

    • @edithl3441
      @edithl3441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Someone once told me that after 25, time goes by faster. So true!

    • @suellencupertino461
      @suellencupertino461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Goodness so true! I will be 29.soon, can’t believe it lol

  • @GlimmerBelle
    @GlimmerBelle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great suggestions! You should also consider including having your will and advanced healthcare directives set. Regardless of how wealthy you are or whether you are married or not, or whether you have “told” your next of kin what you want to happen to you in certain situations you need to have it documented to ensure you things happen the way you want them to. I didn’t think to do this until I was 34, when I traveled overseas for the first time. I didn’t get my passport before then because I couldn’t afford to travel overseas before I moved into the job I got at that age, but you’re right, traveling is life changing and such a blessing :)

  • @mcd5478
    @mcd5478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent points about travel! 💗 A favorite quote of mine: “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one's lifetime.” ― Mark Twain, The Innocents Abroad / Roughing It

  • @priscillaforzani5436
    @priscillaforzani5436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m 39 and I still don’t know what type of handbag I like or wallet I like just yet. I think because I jumped into fashion late. But I own a black bag and a white one and I bought them years ago.

    • @Itsmeemsx
      @Itsmeemsx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Priscilla Forzani same I’m 30 and don’t know want bag I want and know LV is to expensive 🙃

    • @priscillaforzani5436
      @priscillaforzani5436 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Itsmeems I stick to my Gucci knockoffs I sold a whole collection of LV bags I had but they are good ones

  • @reneklein6049
    @reneklein6049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great advice. My daughters are around your age, and it's definitely important to have a retirement plan in order. Also, a will. Great idea about the fire extinguisher, Shea. I think when I see them for the holidays, I'm bringing them both one.
    I love TH-cam workouts. You never get bored.
    Loving the sheet set. Just ordered!
    My husband is a transplant from Pittsburgh. He moved here 6 years ago from Squirrel Hill.
    Happy Holidays to you and your family. 🎄🎅🤶❤

  • @mayris1901
    @mayris1901 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I'll be 30 next month and the only thing I'm missing is the fire extinguisher 😬😬😬

  • @mommakscafe
    @mommakscafe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The steamer was on sale for $84 and free shipping! Thanks Shea for your review! At 54, I finally got SICK of ironing, lol!

  • @barbr4829
    @barbr4829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Prepay college for your kids!! My husbands idea when they were babies and now that 2 are in college I am SO HAPPY that we did. Such a great idea!!

  • @kujbuszsofia8824
    @kujbuszsofia8824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Okay so far I am not doing bad! :) The only things I don't have is a designer handbag and the steamer, but I like ironing if I needed. :) Thank you so much for the great video! 😘❤

    • @missnobody9475
      @missnobody9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you are going to get a steamer it can't be a cheap one because it takes forever to heat up, constantly tips over, and doesn't steam that well. Shea has a good quality steamer. I generally like to iron as well but steamers are a life saver for those rare silky items that are just too fragile.

    • @qinghunt5207
      @qinghunt5207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol. I miss two thing in this list too.

  • @jadesol6662
    @jadesol6662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Some of them only applies to ladies who are able to afford some of these expensive bags and glorious sheets. This caters again to ladies who can afford them.

    • @papayerika9008
      @papayerika9008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TH-camr Shea Whitney is an affluent woman. It's understood that her aim is to promote luxurious stuffs that she is cumpulsively buying. However this latest vid reveals that high society folks are taking their wealth granted and oblivious about the rest of the world! How dare she expect everyone else to have the same possessions by the age 30?

    • @KatieLuvsToSing
      @KatieLuvsToSing 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She didn't say that it hat to be a luxury bag, she said I reliable bag that you know you like.

  • @TheBlueazul03
    @TheBlueazul03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sometimes, life can be so superficial.

  • @s4r4d3may
    @s4r4d3may 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Oof... I'm 32 and this video made me feel like a total failure 😭😂

    • @azrina1230
      @azrina1230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Don't worry, everybody have their own timeline. 💪

    • @cutcolorglue
      @cutcolorglue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was over 40 before I did any of these. But I didn’t have TH-cam for such great advice!

    • @Thur_The_One
      @Thur_The_One 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Am 32.and am completely sad lol

  • @Momma_AL
    @Momma_AL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My brand new bed is arriving TODAY and I’m super excited about it 😂
    Those sheets look like velvet 😲

  • @blueer0se
    @blueer0se 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Am 32 and I finally got my first bed and my 1st bedroom, now all I need are sheets

  • @-nellie-m3711
    @-nellie-m3711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Great and Funny video Shea, But Not a lot of 30 year olds have that luxury of having those things, especially designer bags, that would be like a months worth of groceries for their family if they have one, priority is the main Goal....most women will put they’re children first, and not buy so much for themselves, this coming from a #59 year old......Love Your Channel, But Sometimes Be Real Girlie.....Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas 🎄 and A Wonderful New Year from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺🤶🏻🎅🏻🎄🎄🦃🦃🦃

    • @missnobody9475
      @missnobody9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Shea gives the inside look of what it feels like to be rich. Should we all stop touring castles because we can't afford to live in one? Or viewing designer runway looks for inspiration. No way. This trickles down and improves our lives as well. A responsible woman will prioritize her child and then go on Shea's channel and fantasize about her giant walk in closet. She will know there is no way she can have that closet but she can improve her own by incorporating some of Shea's tips. Like a belt rack. If people cannot responsibly watch Shea's channel without splurging to keep up with the jones or getting upset because they can't afford what she has than that's on them to change the channel. There is something to be said for people who take away the small things, not the big.

    • @-nellie-m3711
      @-nellie-m3711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Miss Nobody I guess your name says it All..... I was not having a go at Shea, But just stating the Facts...I Love Her Channel even though she’s young enough to be my daughter Lol 😂.....I’m a young at heart 59 year young, and Have everything that Shea has.....Debt Free...worked hard to get there, and now reaping the benefits....Anyone can have What She Has, if they’re prepared to go into Debt for it..which We Don’t, never owned a Credit Card in our whole life...Save For What You Want....There’s No Keeping Up With The Jones Here....😚😚...Have a Merry Christmas 🎄

    • @missnobody9475
      @missnobody9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@-nellie-m3711 Well it's nice that you are allowed to reap the benefits of hard work but anyone who is not you gets judged for it.

    • @-nellie-m3711
      @-nellie-m3711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Miss Nobody That is Not True, Anyone can reap the rewards if they have a Goal Set and Follow It, too many these days whinge about what they don’t have and can’t afford, well it comes down to priorities and not putting everything on credit when you can’t afford to pay for it...Tis the Season where people go Crazy buying unnecessary things....then complain after Xmas that they are Broke....if you can’t afford to pay cash for something, Save For It, there’s usually nothing that you need that you can’t Save For, Other than a Home Loan, But then young ones these days get themselves So Over Budget That they can’t afford the little things....Just Saying...

    • @farhanislam2449
      @farhanislam2449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I m absolutely agree with you. Most of the women can’t afford this designer bags at age 30. U r a TH-camr. U should give us something real for maximum not minimum. N many women or young girls will feel not gd about their life

  • @nikoletacude8721
    @nikoletacude8721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Finally someone that isn't into big wallets

  • @amandavandewalle3514
    @amandavandewalle3514 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My List:
    1. Budget-The only way to do #2
    2. Retirement plan-To survive after working
    3. Life insurance-So your relatives don't have to pay to bury you
    4. Fire Extinguisher-so your relatives don't have to bury you sooner
    5. Will-so your relatives know what to do with you if you don't have #4
    6. resume-to get the money for #1
    7. Toolbox-to fix things so you don't need #4
    8. self care habits-so #3 and 5 don't come quicker
    9. Cookbook-See #1
    10. exercise plan-See #8

  • @karolynanderson2033
    @karolynanderson2033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m turning 30 in about 2 weeks, and I’m glad I’ve got MOST of these things.
    I’m working on my passport (planning to get it by February) and I’ve been contemplating whether or not I need a steamer.
    I’m more of a backpack girl (I hike a lot) and I have a fantastic one from Dakine, so I’d say that’s my “good quality bag”. And we just got a Sports Mattress (one specifically for people leading an active lifestyle) and it is INCREDIBLE.

  • @juliewarner1241
    @juliewarner1241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the shorter darker nails. Very chic!

  • @christinegonzalez7976
    @christinegonzalez7976 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just want you to know how much I love your videos!!! So useful AND fun to watch. You're a gem.

  • @kdallons
    @kdallons 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this because it’s so relatable and fits your channel even though you focus mostly on fashion. I appreciate this slight departure and would love to see more! Thanks from a fellow 32 year old lady. :)

  • @vianca7339
    @vianca7339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I can't wait to watch your 2019 luxury purchases video 💖

  • @annmarie2334
    @annmarie2334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for putting this content.

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate you watching lovely!

    • @ChannasKidchen
      @ChannasKidchen 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ann Marie ❤️☝️

  • @ellebannami5531
    @ellebannami5531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    On my bucket list: make a bucket list!

  • @thegalacticgirl8570
    @thegalacticgirl8570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PSA: if you don’t have these things it’s doesn’t mean you have failed. This is someone with money making these claims. Focus on what counts for a financially stable future.

  • @watermelongal5512
    @watermelongal5512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, all are a must! ☺️Thanks Shea!

  • @thepuglady3931
    @thepuglady3931 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I bought my house on my 30th birthday and it has been the best decision I’ve made in years!!

  • @emilywhite2832
    @emilywhite2832 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    At 23 I have:
    1. A good enough satchel bag (not designer but I like it)
    2. Does a crossbody wallet bag count?
    3. My bed is a futon but my sheets are cotton
    4. Maybe my roommate has a fire extinguisher? It’s concerning that I don’t know
    5. Passport
    6. ALMOST perfect jeans (thanks, quarantine weight gain)
    7. Steamer? I don’t even have an iron 😅
    8. I don’t like any exercise that much... dance and yoga are okay...
    9. No retirement account whatsoever... I’m just starting grad school
    10. Mine has two items: get my degree and get a job. No further concrete plans, and that’s fine.
    So... I definitely have one of these things, or four if I’m being generous

  • @izzy_s_8178
    @izzy_s_8178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m literally 15 almost 16,have no clue why I’m watching this 😂

  • @divya2677
    @divya2677 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Please share your favourite candles and perfumes😘🌷

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm actually not a big fan of candles!! But my favorite perfume is by Clean Reserve!

    • @missnobody9475
      @missnobody9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I get my candles from TJ Maxx / Marshalls.

    • @missnobody9475
      @missnobody9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Caiti M Yikes. I had no idea! Good to know. Thanks.

    • @missnobody9475
      @missnobody9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Caiti M So true. I should know better and to question candles at this point, but I think the constant research from all the toxic products is wearing me down.

    • @yanadre9154
      @yanadre9154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Candles: Yankee candle White cotton and Midsummer's night, Refan Ornamental candles. Perfumes: YSL Elle, Lancome Poeme, Jean Paul Gaultier Classique Eau de Parfum and Chanel Coco Noir.

  • @celesteonthetube
    @celesteonthetube 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes for fire extinguishers!! My husband caught my kitchen on fire cooking bacon. Luckily damage was minimized by our handy extinguisher under the kitchen sink. No one was hurt, but it did happen a few days before Thanksgiving. We bbq’d that turkey and I got a WHOLE kitchen full of new appliances because he felt so bad.

  • @mkp08706
    @mkp08706 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just discovered your channel and i binged like 8 videos. I love your vibe, you are just like “oh hey here’s a video...let’s be weird...back to video”. It’s refreshingly authentic.

  • @hellenveliz1374
    @hellenveliz1374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!! i started to following you, and you have so much energy, love how positive you are, i follow like different people but you are my favorite, you make me laugh, i can watch your videos all day!! GOD Bless you, MErry Xmas and keep it up!!

  • @missnobody9475
    @missnobody9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so true knowing what you want in a wallet. I made the mistake of buying fashionable ones that didn't go with the function I needed. I like wristlet wallets that can be used alone or put in a large tote. My favorite is my ink blue Brahmin wristlet.

  • @MamiOf3kids
    @MamiOf3kids 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in the early 40's & yes by 30 I already had my life set. Decided on 3 kids,long term marriage,home ect... ***life insurance***

  • @BodaciousBeverly
    @BodaciousBeverly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The only essentials are the fire extinguisher and retirement account. The rest are just fluff for if you have a lot of disposable income. Believe me.

    • @salvagemania
      @salvagemania 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I mostly agree, but exercising can be free and exercise is important for all of us. Exercising to varying TH-cam videos is a great suggestion.

    • @aliciascott6464
      @aliciascott6464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You must be fun at parties. Are you mad she didn’t include food and water also?

  • @fmichaud4755
    @fmichaud4755 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My daughter is 21 and has all these things (except for steamer, and the handbag is a hand me down ) she also has health insurance, her own car and her own well furnished appartement. She’s had a job since she is 16 while still going to school and university. She also save our house when she was 16 with a fire extinguisher as the microwave caught on fire. I raised her as a single parent so she is not a spoiled brat or feel entitled either.

  • @inesjacques354
    @inesjacques354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos !!!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahh thank you so much!!!

  • @consuelogonzalez11
    @consuelogonzalez11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What exercise channels do you use?

  • @sreytouchmeng2616
    @sreytouchmeng2616 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your video, definitely have this list

  • @luciahurtado46
    @luciahurtado46 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy holidays Shea

  • @Peggydtw
    @Peggydtw 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your ideas, which become your content, and therefore I love your videos!

  • @lauraguertin4308
    @lauraguertin4308 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Literally everything you said you should have I've done it and the things at the end I was like omg I just started doing that, bucket list for after quarantine :3

  • @Kawzdxs
    @Kawzdxs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow that snow in the back was really cool !

  • @Natalieloves_LV
    @Natalieloves_LV 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do they make an organizer for this bag?!?!! Love you Shea!!!!!! ✨✨✨✨

  • @alyssadana5011
    @alyssadana5011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stop when you did the dance in the jeans I was putting eyeliner on and I ruined my winged eyeliner bc you’re so funny. I’m dead

  • @ronnie-lynn
    @ronnie-lynn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I bought my forever bag, Louis Vuitton and wallet in 2008 when I was 21. It’s still my main goto I only own one other bag and wallet. I paid 1200$ for both and to buy both in today’s prices would cost more than $2000 so it was a great investment for me! 🥰 apparently I’m doing things right I have everything on the list yay

  • @littlefunkygirl1
    @littlefunkygirl1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can always count on you for the best fashion/ beauty/ lifestyle videos on TH-cam, honestly adore your content ✨❤️

  • @loribrooks5596
    @loribrooks5596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the snowing coming down in the background!

  • @lesiaguinn7358
    @lesiaguinn7358 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sunday mornings with Shea and coffee are the best! And look at that lovely snow outside her kitchen window ♥️❄️

  • @jenniferlangford9693
    @jenniferlangford9693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are there any items you think women 40 and older should stop wearing? I enjoy the awesome tips you have.

  • @magdalena9178
    @magdalena9178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Who said you MUST?

    • @amberworshamorr171
      @amberworshamorr171 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her opinion

    • @magdalena9178
      @magdalena9178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Should be "SHOULD" not "MUST"
      STOP pressurising people

    • @vienna7486
      @vienna7486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t watch then lol

    • @magdalena9178
      @magdalena9178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's not abt me, I am already over it long time ago. I am about the young women, who are pressurised. Do this, do that, you must, you mustn't..... I don't like the whole idea. My big NO-NO to such topics.
      There r better ones
      💙💜💚

    • @papayerika9008
      @papayerika9008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@magdalena9178 I totally agree with you. How dare Shea Whitney expect or pressurize anyone to get the exact same stuffs by the age of 30?
      She can afford to pursue her hobby which is compulsive buying luxurious stuffs and now she's setting her accummulated purchases as "standard" or "norm" to seek validation for her being shopaholic.

  • @missk4934
    @missk4934 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVED THIS!!!!!👏❤️

  • @beckiecoca2647
    @beckiecoca2647 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My go to jeans are from American Eagle. I used to always shop at The Buckle but after discovering them, not only does my rump look better in these, but also my wallet is much happier!

  • @alexis-ex1bo
    @alexis-ex1bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love your channel! Merry Christmas (or Happy Holidays)

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you SO much!! Merry Christmas to you too!!

  • @33aafreen78
    @33aafreen78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She makes so many luxury bag vedios that whenever I listen to her say welcome back to my CHANNEL I feel she i saying CHANEL😂😂😂

  • @EllenOzHealth
    @EllenOzHealth 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best way to start a Saturday!

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahh you’re so sweet Ellen!!

  • @avery4997
    @avery4997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your videos are always so helpful!!! Thanks again Shea ❤️

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Avery...that makes my heart happy!

    • @avery4997
      @avery4997 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shea Whitney yay I’m happy that you feel that! You’re honestly my go to TH-camr or just about everything and I just love your channel so much!

  • @angelaamos
    @angelaamos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The snow in your backdrop is nostalgic!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nadiamayormasse1337
    @nadiamayormasse1337 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fire extinguisher : word of caution. An extinguisher is specialised, for exemple for a grease fire or an electrical fire, etc. So you need to know what they are for, how to use it and last but not least have a maintenance contract for it as it should be checked every year. And ... the only time I had a fire in my house, the extinguisher was totally useless.

  • @shakifacastro6636
    @shakifacastro6636 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shea, please give us a link for your dining table!!! I loooove it!!!!😍😍😍😘

  • @suzannetaylor6285
    @suzannetaylor6285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry to disagree... my list would be ( as someone in her 40s)
    1. A career
    2.A house
    3. A Savings account
    4. Investments
    5. A retirement plan
    If you have a couple of things on MY list than you are in a better position to splurge.
    I do love your channel and have purchased things off your recommendations. Merry Christmas 🎄

  • @earthmoonstars2013
    @earthmoonstars2013 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    fire extinguishers also need to be serviced and replaced and you need to put it somewhere thats not in a box, in a closet.

  • @KWSHOPS
    @KWSHOPS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I turn 29 tomorrow! This video came just in time

  • @cherylclipperton5331
    @cherylclipperton5331 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So excited for you! Almost 1M!

  • @marissasharp9892
    @marissasharp9892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The music you had in the background, when you realized you didn’t know how to use the fire extinguisher! 😂 Such a good choice, LOL! 😂 Btw, I don’t know how to use one, either, but I’m sure if it came down to it, I’d figure it out pretty fast, LOL! Love your videos! Have a blessed and happy New Year! 🎆🎊🎈

  • @sanjuraaj2062
    @sanjuraaj2062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6 views n 6 likes! Damn... you go girl ✌️
    Btw, I’m a new subscriber. Love your content 😘😘

    • @SheaWhitney
      @SheaWhitney  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahaha you're sweet...thank you SO much!!

  • @foraluckygirl
    @foraluckygirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wowowow i love that wallet!

  • @dzdrew
    @dzdrew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the crazy eyes she gets at 8:35 😂😂 I mean man if you feel THAT STRONGLY about a steamer maybe I should get one😂