Sista Feels Sad After Realizing Brothas Are Giving Up Dating Because Of Materialistic Women

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  • @andre1987eph
    @andre1987eph 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +617

    The internet allowed men to share notes.

    • @83randaman
      @83randaman 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

      That’s what swayed the scale .

    • @keithjackson2035
      @keithjackson2035 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

      Exactly! Now the truth is out and minds are changed

    • @Sociallydetached
      @Sociallydetached 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Facts

    • @Themusicalhealer
      @Themusicalhealer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      they trying to stop by banning redpill content.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      💯

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +297

    "Women can't function when You don't care."
    ~PATRICE O'NEAL

    • @blkafrocentricusa8429
      @blkafrocentricusa8429 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's the rule of the game which is to STOP CARING for these ungrateful heifers.

    • @jaylove9484
      @jaylove9484 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Absolutely factual

    • @ray1amuro350
      @ray1amuro350 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Facts. RIP Patrice.

    • @wtfsamusidk7574
      @wtfsamusidk7574 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My happiness is paramount

  • @Buckshott_54
    @Buckshott_54 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +540

    BM don’t fear ANYTHING! We just don’t give a DAMN !

    • @abovebeyondandforever6571
      @abovebeyondandforever6571 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      Facts!

    • @bossplayermfs5972
      @bossplayermfs5972 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      Say it louder the people in the back didn't hear you.

    • @royalillness
      @royalillness 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      This is the part that they pretend that they dont get.
      Its Not Fear and Never Was.....It used to be Concern But Now It's Indifference.(Aka WE DONT CARE Anymore)
      The last stage of grieving from Death is Acceptance and I think collectively thats what Stage The BM finds himself in regarding "Black Love".

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Blk women are truly clueless, it's sad.

    • @richardwilson6976
      @richardwilson6976 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Frankly my dear idont give a damm.

  • @terencew7716
    @terencew7716 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +328

    Fellas protect your sanity and your wallet in these current times

    • @blkafrocentricusa8429
      @blkafrocentricusa8429 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      .. and if we don't do that, then, that's on us.

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yesirsky facts 💯

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@blkafrocentricusa8429 we can do this brotha all we have to do is keep on grinding for that paper

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly 💯 stay focus

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@keeppressing1760 and stay frosty too

  • @TCR2025
    @TCR2025 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +319

    Yep we stopped wasting our time. And it’s always these below average ones who are the most demanding too.

    • @cecilfletcher4404
      @cecilfletcher4404 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      The sprinkle sprinkle chick comes to mind

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂😂😂facts

    • @vernardc7579
      @vernardc7579 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Facts 💯💯💯💯💯👊👊👊👊

    • @kyrkwalters964
      @kyrkwalters964 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yep the 3s

  • @cecilfletcher4404
    @cecilfletcher4404 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +294

    Women aren't looking for love, they're looking for a retirement plan or a rescue boat. Jmo

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      😂😂😂😂😂exactly 💯

    • @isaacsgeorge1775
      @isaacsgeorge1775 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Bars.

    • @erijennifer
      @erijennifer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😹😹😹@Rescue Boat ⚓?

    • @henrybox3580
      @henrybox3580 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      More like a YACHT

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I always protected my wallet

  • @joeo8215
    @joeo8215 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +285

    Me, I cannot tolerate a materialistic person because that person will leave you broke

    • @kaze7521
      @kaze7521 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @justswitched8841
      @justswitched8841 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Once you're broke they'll leave you too 😂

    • @dukethadon6170
      @dukethadon6170 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Once they leave, they'll act like you did them wrong..

    • @FierceLeo.
      @FierceLeo. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well, you might as will trysome foreign women in Central America, carribean or South America?

    • @anubizz5956
      @anubizz5956 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Nope...fugem all!!​@@FierceLeo.

  • @traindawg21
    @traindawg21 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +254

    They not sad about the dating part. They sad cause their foodie calls and free meals are gone.

    • @abovebeyondandforever6571
      @abovebeyondandforever6571 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Exactly!

    • @Freshina
      @Freshina 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Facts, that's the reason they're "sad" 💯

    • @devilsadvocacy
      @devilsadvocacy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      And the free drinks when they go clubbing

    • @TFIGBassPlayer
      @TFIGBassPlayer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      They are also sad because men are standing up and not allowing themselves to be used. It may have took years' but (We don't need a man finally caught up to them!)

    • @ericgilliam9902
      @ericgilliam9902 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      MGTOW is Rising

  • @moom8238
    @moom8238 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    Found love overseas and couldn't be happier

    • @rickd438
      @rickd438 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Where?

    • @mlamont235
      @mlamont235 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Me too. I started dating in Africa and never looked back.

    • @FierceLeo.
      @FierceLeo. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I am happily single, stress free, at peace , no baby mamas for the last for 7 years. I plan on trying some South American women when I feel up to it.

    • @WorkSmart-w4x
      @WorkSmart-w4x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mlamont235what area? How did ya do it? After my last relationship I’m no longer interested in the woman over here

  • @plantbased15
    @plantbased15 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +212

    They come to this realization after 30+ after all the mileage 😅

    • @bossplayermfs5972
      @bossplayermfs5972 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      💯💯💯💯

    • @unyieldingrage1389
      @unyieldingrage1389 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Classic 😂

    • @seandeans1279
      @seandeans1279 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men have post nut clarity. Women have post wall clarity. One takes 15 minutes the other takes 15 years 🤣💯

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly 💯 let them run their miles up cause it's their fault not ours

  • @mostunclean6619
    @mostunclean6619 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    I’m 51 years in, I gave up over twenty years ago. I saw the writing on the wall but I never thought it would get this bad.

    • @chv307
      @chv307 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry!

    • @wilfordgainer9134
      @wilfordgainer9134 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      True. I'm older, Even older women are a mess. By myself right now and at peace. Might meet her, but I'm not pressed.

    • @jlcarter04
      @jlcarter04 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​Older women are the worst... bar none. I refuse to ever date an over 35 woman again. ​@@wilfordgainer9134

    • @bruceellison9269
      @bruceellison9269 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you’re older please get your passport ain’t no reason decent brothers should be alone Sysbm

    • @mostunclean6619
      @mostunclean6619 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@bruceellison9269 I retired in 2019 and acquired my passport in 2020. I’m not alone and not lonely. I’m enjoying the fruits of my labors. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when your primary focus isn’t running up behind some female.

  • @NightwingBMV1
    @NightwingBMV1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

    I remember back in the 80s and 90s, boomer blacks (and in the black church) used to say, “The girls are doing great, it’s the boys who are the problem!” That statement didn’t age well. SMH…..

    • @rastahill748
      @rastahill748 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Reminds me of the Simps.. Smh. Its always the men with them.

    • @thedarkplague1475
      @thedarkplague1475 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Now it’s the complete opposite. These women are beyond out of control now. SMH.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      @@thedarkplague1475 It was always this way. Blk men were never the issue. Statistics dating back to the 80's will show you the main problem was always the women. And that's not just in the blk community either. It's universal.

    • @NightwingBMV1
      @NightwingBMV1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@thelegacyofgaming2928 I remember the females doing all kinds of stuff in the 80s and 90s that nobody was calling them out for. Also do you have a source for those stats during that time period? I always had a feeling that the narratives about BM durning that time period were false.

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Gynocentric mindset...ridiculous but reality

  • @BeatEngine-qr7if
    @BeatEngine-qr7if 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +301

    Notice how no one is ever sad about this under 29. No one is “concerned for our men” when those young men are 18, 19, 21, 24.. Hell, some were never concerned for the moment they were born.

    • @AdonisHairston1843
      @AdonisHairston1843 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Right

    • @kriswilldoo6042
      @kriswilldoo6042 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      Correct.. My son literally says it's better to be a sideline dude because he gets treated better then a husband or a boyfriend. He gets a lot of attention because of his looks and I try to tell him to stop but I get why he thinks that way..smdh our women are lost

    • @thedarkplague1475
      @thedarkplague1475 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      @@kriswilldoo6042He’s actually right. Husbands and boyfriends are constantly treated like trash and screwed over while the men these women are actually attracted to get special treatment every time.

    • @mattyghost3409
      @mattyghost3409 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@thedarkplague1475That's why I don't look for a relationship in America.... Crypto will allow me to become an expat and live like a King 👑👑👑....They did me a favor once I got taste of the power of the USD overseas I'll never look at this place the same. ..

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@kriswilldoo6042 Your son is highly intelligent. Good man.

  • @TyroneDewayne
    @TyroneDewayne 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +204

    I hear a lot of young men say they give up because they don’t meet many women that are just good people. No moral compass, impulsive, no self discipline, lack good character, and basically building on sand.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      None of them are virgins. That alone, is a good reason to walk away.

    • @TyroneDewayne
      @TyroneDewayne 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@thelegacyofgaming2928 I have a question because it was asked to me. I’m in my mid 40’s I watch these videos to make sure mine don’t wind up like them. Raising post modern women.
      But this is my question. Pure character. Have the women become way more shadier and more shallow than the men?

    • @supersaturn956
      @supersaturn956 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Yup lot of stank heffas out here forget em

    • @blackpill3773
      @blackpill3773 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yeah I don't blame them I'll just pump n dump or Let pookie and ray ray have them it's not worth it.

    • @TyroneDewayne
      @TyroneDewayne 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@blackpill3773 I’m the old head and a lot of them are fatherless. Raised to not lead but follow women being raised by women. It’s why so many be on the internet following lost people.
      I just tell them check the father. If he’s a man that she loves and is a beta run. If he’s a man she respects and you do too stay. If there is no father don’t even mess with them.
      This generation needed their own Too $hort but was raised by Lil Kim 💯

  • @jasoncody1537
    @jasoncody1537 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    Love and relationships aren't worth it anymore and haven't been for a long time

    • @49ers_red_and_gold2
      @49ers_red_and_gold2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Sorry for you.

    • @jasoncody1537
      @jasoncody1537 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@49ers_red_and_gold2 honestly I just don't care anymore..... But thank you

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @Lordamraphel
    @Lordamraphel 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    I hope more men continue to check out of dating these western women. 🙏

    • @calebhenderson6507
      @calebhenderson6507 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Yeah it's harsh but necessary.

    • @Campaign-gx8ty
      @Campaign-gx8ty 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And leave western disease men alone too

    • @DievestorsNeverLearn
      @DievestorsNeverLearn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@calebhenderson6507 Don't even help them outside of relationships.

    • @alphapimp0073
      @alphapimp0073 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      I agree me to. I cannot stand these women

    • @kevinumba6281
      @kevinumba6281 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I checked out completely at the age of 24

  • @ModernWomenWhatsThat
    @ModernWomenWhatsThat 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +212

    I have NOT given up on dating! I have given up on ALL modern American women and got my PASSPORT!

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      That's the spirit my brotha

    • @dpanman
      @dpanman 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      There u go!!!!

    • @coreygreene9498
      @coreygreene9498 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Africa is the place to find wives

    • @gabrieldaniels6191
      @gabrieldaniels6191 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ✈️

    • @prettylyricsmarie
      @prettylyricsmarie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      But what happens when you go overseas and she's wanting a man to protect and provide for her?

  • @gomab.ing4
    @gomab.ing4 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    You can’t fix someone who doesn’t think they are broken. You will break yourself 💯

    • @MisterE1976
      @MisterE1976 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree wholeheartedly!

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ☑☑☑ I learned this the very hard way

    • @a.okoronkwo311
      @a.okoronkwo311 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🎼 to my ears.

  • @steviemak10
    @steviemak10 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Too many women want a Diddy type until he showed y’all who he is at the hotel!☠️🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @METAMORPHOZIZ-mz6ng
      @METAMORPHOZIZ-mz6ng 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Do da Diddy n Cassie dance

    • @ECO473
      @ECO473 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @feetfunkerson1312
      @feetfunkerson1312 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some of those women will still chase after that type. Women have been known to go back to a dude who hits them.

    • @nurhayat81
      @nurhayat81 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The diddler 🤣

    • @steadmoney3431
      @steadmoney3431 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nurhayat81😂😂😂😂

  • @michaelbrinkley9323
    @michaelbrinkley9323 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    This exactly where I'm at in my life. After being rejected so many times and hearing these "Standards " women have I'm simply done with dating.

    • @Attah57
      @Attah57 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I bet they didn't reject you, it simply means they didn't deserve you,......trust me, the one who'll truly deserve you is on the way,.......and it'll be like dream for you. Hope is not lost at all

    • @michaelbrinkley9323
      @michaelbrinkley9323 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Attah57. Thank you.

    • @t.p.m.414
      @t.p.m.414 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Rejection is your protection...

    • @michaelbrinkley9323
      @michaelbrinkley9323 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@t.p.m.414. That's one way to look at it.

    • @chilombomululu6034
      @chilombomululu6034 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thy didn't deserve u n thts u being saved instead . rejection are blessings smtimes in disguise . probably would have put u through hell.right one wil cm to add peace to ur life n not take it away.

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +144

    😂 women, the chickens have come home 🏡 to roost!

    • @RTA6226
      @RTA6226 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅😂🤣Yes! They didn't put that burden on themselves!!! Sounds like some more lazy ass women.

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly 💯 it's over for them... sprinkle sprinkle 😂

  • @GMacII
    @GMacII 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I'm incredibly proud of us men. We've finally, as a group, taken a stand with our ACTIONS. For years, we've asked (verbally) women to be kind, respectful, and presentable. Over time, the younger generation (of men) has realized that women do NOT care about what you SAY; they respect what you DO.

  • @matrice03
    @matrice03 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +154

    Wow! The women really shot themselves in the foot with this madness. Me and my boyfriend (now husband) used to do the dollar show and White Castle and been together since 17 (in our 40’s now). He said he loved me cause I wasn’t materialistic and cared about him as a person. Now we’ve built a lovely life together and he told me because of love, respect, and appreciation of him, he spoils me. Been loving him since he worked at McDonald’s for minimum wage🖤

    • @12261962808
      @12261962808 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Blessings and long, healthy, prosperous lives to you both.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You moved correctly and stayed with 1 man from a young age. However, you are in your 40's, you're from a completely different generation than the degenerate one we have now.

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      😊😊😊😊😊great story 👏

    • @haquanwright7559
      @haquanwright7559 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Bah-dah-dah-dah-daaaah, I'm lovin' it ❤😂😂

    • @marquesderamus5968
      @marquesderamus5968 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amazing👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jamesw22185
    @jamesw22185 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I’m a single man who would want a good woman the problem is it’s way too much mentally, emotionally, and physically energy to put into someone who may cheat on you

    • @breal1266
      @breal1266 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Or simply say: I'm not feeling the vibe.
      After all that time Wasted

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Facts

  • @jjmcg9184
    @jjmcg9184 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Not just materialistic but they play too many games with guys who are genuinely interested in them.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯💯

  • @daishawilliams8301
    @daishawilliams8301 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Men checked out of the dating world because of the modern day 304 culture and unrealistic expectations us as women have on men and now wonder why drizzle drizzle movement happened.🤦

    • @HollowNoFace
      @HollowNoFace 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Honestly as a man I feel like a target is on my back and I'm at war. I can't even think about love anymore

    • @kev2263
      @kev2263 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@HollowNoFace Facts you took the words right out my mouth, couldn't say it any better!

  • @sirblack1619
    @sirblack1619 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I did not give up. I just went the Philippines where I have not had to deal with any of that crap.

    • @ModernWomenWhatsThat
      @ModernWomenWhatsThat 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      HELL YES! Passport............CHECK!

    • @GregLucas-pv8nm
      @GregLucas-pv8nm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You haven't found a utopia

    • @IAmRetiredSoon
      @IAmRetiredSoon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GregLucas-pv8nm Male Debbie Downers are worse than modern 304s!

  • @TruthHurtz460
    @TruthHurtz460 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    It’s not fear of anything, we just not doing it. Especially for women that ain’t worth holding a door for, let alone taking care of.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯💯

  • @prodigalson1500
    @prodigalson1500 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I just don’t deal with broke women. If you don’t have a job, if you don’t have your own. I’m not going to help you. I am not an ATM.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯💯

  • @begoode2385
    @begoode2385 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    They just mad they not getting attention. Less dating, more courtship.

  • @LaiLuvz
    @LaiLuvz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Attitude too. I keep running into many that'll have bad attitudes. Ran into one today at the DMV. Like why y'all walking around mad at the world?

    • @raamyasharahla535
      @raamyasharahla535 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Demons

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cmon now 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      OMG yep, a couple of days ago I'm fresh off the plane and waited for my LYFT driver, the map showed that they were 5 mins away, little did I know that she was less than a minute. She yells and is aggressive to get my attention, tried to start a unnecessary argument with me when I got in the car. If I wasn't in a rush to get home for work no way I would've got in the car. I don't want to hear another woman talk about they're the least protected and respected. Something simple as holding the doors for many of your counterparts can go wrong.

    • @DeathWing572
      @DeathWing572 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      They're mad because they have to work and no one is putting up with their bullhive

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@DeathWing572 There you go. Time's officially up. Shape up or get left

  • @guevealbino5432
    @guevealbino5432 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Too many Broke Women want something from a man that they can't afford. 😮😮😮

    • @cblack350z
      @cblack350z 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      10,000 % FACTS!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    Well, 🤷‍♂️😏 women you pushed 🫸 us to this point. We men, Alpha men(not simps) are out of patience. 🚫👎🙏

    • @winloseorrug7099
      @winloseorrug7099 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gotta distinguish the difference between men and simps 100% simps will do anything for s3x and it’s undermining the effort of real productive men.

    • @daishawilliams8301
      @daishawilliams8301 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      On behalf of women I'm sorry for the stuff you guys put up with 😮.

    • @dezcuts5319
      @dezcuts5319 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@daishawilliams8301you don’t have to be. We’ve decided enough is enough

    • @RTA6226
      @RTA6226 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​​@@daishawilliams8301I am too. If these women want this stuff they need to get it themselves, instead if being a lazy ass woman. One of my young male cousins told me, "I give up. I don't need this drama." I told him to get his passport.

  • @obtryce7070
    @obtryce7070 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Fellas, prepare for your future not theirs. It's always about them and not you, they bring nothing to you but want everything from you.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯💯

  • @mikelee9516
    @mikelee9516 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I can’t shop at Home Depot or Lowe’s anymore. They walk around pretending they are shopping.
    Drizzle Drizzle ladies
    Drizzle Drizzle......😎

  • @nicholasnorman4179
    @nicholasnorman4179 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    Women want to run my pockets. I'm about to run their pockets in a lot more

    • @edt4080
      @edt4080 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes use women

  • @erickonassis6310
    @erickonassis6310 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I met this girl, and in the beginning of conversations, she said I m spoiled...I quit contact, she been blowing up my phone for two weeks...no thanks, don't need the stress, I m happy with peace...

    • @plot229
      @plot229 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You did the right thing. As soon as a woman sneak that “I’m spoiled” in a conversation…leave she won’t do nothing but run up pockets and run up your blood pressure.

    • @raybandz1109
      @raybandz1109 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh no smh

    • @TheRawledawg
      @TheRawledawg 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's how I do. Any kind of smartazz remarks about me or how I am.......OUT!!!!

    • @Neffect371
      @Neffect371 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yall learning older men like me didn't learn so fast

  • @Nightrain349
    @Nightrain349 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I haven't dated in the states for 9 years now.

  • @joshuajackson7050
    @joshuajackson7050 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I have my own bills why would I pay all your bills when I know you aren't going to pay mine, and can't 😂.

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂common sense 👏 👌

    • @tatheblkpaladin
      @tatheblkpaladin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

    • @Neffect371
      @Neffect371 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yall learning

  • @justwatching3124
    @justwatching3124 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    We ain't giving up... we getting out 😂. You've seen Becky, Maria, Lola, xia, and akumi have men..

    • @TheRawledawg
      @TheRawledawg 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And you will see them all with the men at the NBA draft.

    • @yeahyeahwowman8099
      @yeahyeahwowman8099 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Guys are punk hypocrites that's why. You wanna talk crap, then run into the arms of other races of women, why I can't stand you cowards, (spit noise)

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯💯

  • @TonyMac1
    @TonyMac1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Fellas way late! I stopped almost a decade ago. It’s cheaper to pay to play directly or indirectly vs these women wanting a man to buy this and that to be in a relationship. They just want to use men the same way you have a group of men who wanted to use women for sex only. The problem is people who have true intentions both men and women, end up getting screwed over

  • @cjfyre3914
    @cjfyre3914 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I’m over it. I’m out the game. Good luck! I’m in my Drizzle Drizzle era. Self care and Loving on me.

  • @gurukid08
    @gurukid08 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    It's really bad in the black community.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's horrible in the black community. This is why I do not date BW any more. 💯💯💯💯

  • @coreyondavis6032
    @coreyondavis6032 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Well women did choose the bear. Its a win for everyone when you think about it. The women are safe and the men can find peace being alone

  • @KevinDixon
    @KevinDixon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Phil, we been done.
    We stacking chips to leave.
    We done walked.

  • @gregorywynn3244
    @gregorywynn3244 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    My belief is that if they can't appreciate Macdonalds, then do not treat them to fine dining. It's just that simple.
    Like Cory Holcomb once said, " ...if she's thiry-five and older, and alone her way ain't working." Case closed.

  • @adeona5202
    @adeona5202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I never tried to date anyway and I don't stress about any of this. I never even aproach women. I simply play the proximity game. Every where I go: a class I take, a job etc.. there is always at least 1 cutie that's interested and I just take advantage and have a good time for as long as it lasts. I usually get the interests of the ones I like. So I can't complain! IJS

  • @mrjj-nm1ej
    @mrjj-nm1ej 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Men are not in fear of womens standards....don't be fooled by that sister...

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The only one she's fooling is herself. The women who are smart enough will understand the real reason men are ditching them for better options overseas.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯

  • @Mike-sb7yy
    @Mike-sb7yy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The New Man.... Strong and Independent... FELLAS ...Get Your Gear Together and Get Your Passport and Zoom for a Better Peaceful Life.

  • @ezragilliam9647
    @ezragilliam9647 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Don’t get me wrong. I love my sisters, but they’re too far gone. I don’t have time to be sitting around, trying to heal somebody’s trauma.
    And until they get their act together, you really have no choice but to venture out somewhere else

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      America, dominant society let feminism get out of hand and all other communities feel the after effects.

    • @IAmRetiredSoon
      @IAmRetiredSoon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You dont have to say I love my sisters. I am sick reading this. They are not showing the same love towards us. Time to wakeup.

    • @ezragilliam9647
      @ezragilliam9647 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@IAmRetiredSoon I say it for disclaimer purposes. And I can attest that not all are bad from experience. But they still gotta do the work and until they do venture somewhere else.

    • @IAmRetiredSoon
      @IAmRetiredSoon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@ezragilliam9647 You are free brother i have removed your chains. Go forth and bask in your Freedom. No more disclaimers! Comprende?

    • @ezragilliam9647
      @ezragilliam9647 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@NoMoneyOut no doubt

  • @doncartier6796
    @doncartier6796 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    This is irreversible now. No matter how many women that calling it out, we men still have to look at you as just speaking politically correct. Ladies, this isn't just a 2020s problem, this is institutionalized. And y'all aren't changing it. One thing I can count on is all the negativity of a woman, and that's the most comforting part about our decision to remain alone. Not only that, the time alone has helped us reflect about y'all. You've not only called into question your role in society but also your own humanity. Even the traditonal ones aren't escaping this, no matter what most of us see y'all as a hole in our pockets or a black hole.
    One thing I learned about black holes, always avoid going near the event horizon. No good comes out that.

    • @xmanlatter6013
      @xmanlatter6013 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m a physicist. The black hole analogy hit hard!

    • @doncartier6796
      @doncartier6796 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The only difference between a black hole and a woman is at least, a black hole, once light gets past the event horizon its death provides a spectacular light show. Even the most beautiful woman can’t compare to that natural beauty of energy trying to escape a black hole.

  • @AphrooneRichardson
    @AphrooneRichardson 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Men you are the PRIZE worldwide! Get your U. S. Passport and Zoom Zoom and Drizzle Drizzle to Central and South America where the Afro-Latina's are Traditional and Gorgeous! Viva Cali, Colombia and Dominican Republic and Drizzle Drizzle! AMEN-ASE!

    • @coachc125
      @coachc125 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yessir. I love Afro Latinas

    • @thedarkplague1475
      @thedarkplague1475 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yea, black women in the states forget black people exist outside of western society.

    • @coachc125
      @coachc125 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@thedarkplague1475 Yes they do. There are more black women outside of America. Never limit your options.

    • @GMacII
      @GMacII 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I’ve told this story before that I met a teacher in one of the Zona Sul’s (super market) in Salvador Bahia, Brasil. Super beautiful woman, great conversation, great cook, helpful, etc.
      I’ll never forget she asked me one day “I don’t understand, you look over your shoulder at me” ( side eye). Truth is I’d never been so attentively cared for by a woman that I thought she was trying to set me up lmao 😂

    • @FierceLeo.
      @FierceLeo. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I am happily single, stress free, at peace , no baby mamas for the last 7 years. I plan on trying some South American women when I feel up to it.

  • @ecklealie8061
    @ecklealie8061 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have given up on dating men, especially after what U have been through. Now I an enjoying my single life. No rushing home to cook for any one ect and the emmense freedom which comes with it is priceless.

  • @bmdounds8977
    @bmdounds8977 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Time has changed alot social media has ruin things sex is easy to get so men dont gotta work hard to get women these days and the headaches that come with a woman these days men dont want it

  • @jimmiecato9390
    @jimmiecato9390 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I like what Fannie Willis said, “ A man, is NOT A PLAN, A MAN IS A COMPANION.”

    • @Koyasi78
      @Koyasi78 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bad example. She don't live her words

  • @direwolf1977
    @direwolf1977 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    We just became economically smart!

  • @tennesseesyndicate5337
    @tennesseesyndicate5337 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Fear? We arent scared we just not STUPID

  • @FredrickMeredith-k2c
    @FredrickMeredith-k2c 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    1:50 Because they're selling Box it ain't about finding good men.

  • @theoriginal668
    @theoriginal668 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Nope I am good by myself. I'm loving my peace

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yep...ALOT

    • @Alazar654
      @Alazar654 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      live on, mgtow!!!!!

  • @kevjones72
    @kevjones72 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’m a six figure guy, got my house, car paid off, passport and security clearance, haven’t been interested in going on a date for the past 5 years 😂, except one female I’ve known for over ten years, she’s feminine, friendly and fit. Crypto bull run is starting, I make dough, I don’t give my wealth to a female just because..

  • @markrodrigue6913
    @markrodrigue6913 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen brother!! Many good points made... one.. no man wants a materialistic gold digger... and a woman waking in a relationship and expecting financial help without earning her keep

  • @Wood490
    @Wood490 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Naw Ma, good brothers haven't given up on love. We have decided to give up dealing with shallow, materialist, self absorbed, vain women. During the last 5 years many of us have discovered there's a whole nother world of beautiful women eager for our attention.

  • @alfredojohannes6827
    @alfredojohannes6827 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Don't be concerned about men... Or more specifically good men. We will be ok... eventually. We are built to survive. I only hope the same thing is true for women long term. The good thing is the oldest profession is always hiring and they have already been amassing the job skill set and experiemce. Like the post office, the streets are always hiring.

  • @415folife9
    @415folife9 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Not many think like her !!

    • @calebhenderson6507
      @calebhenderson6507 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The crazy part about this is she will be called a pick me.....

    • @415folife9
      @415folife9 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@calebhenderson6507 Il
      Pick her all day 😂

    • @empowerment_007
      @empowerment_007 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@calebhenderson6507 By picked overs who every Tyrone has touched, played with, then threw it back in the pile

    • @ReginaldBurns-ox6nm
      @ReginaldBurns-ox6nm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She has value an add value she CAN BE THE puppet and the puppeteer. Maybe she could guide if one could follow But you got Basketball Wives

  • @mostunclean6619
    @mostunclean6619 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    At my age peace of mind, overall health and financial stability are paramount. Modern women are not worth the risk of losing what I acquired thru blood, sweat and tears.

  • @richardwilson6976
    @richardwilson6976 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ladies plenty of single bears grizzle,grizzle.

  • @willmallory9085
    @willmallory9085 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Add the divorce rate and biased Family Court Laws...why would men try? Not to mention the risk of being "Me Too'd" if she removes consent AFTERWARDS! 😮😢 Men have woken up!

  • @blacklyfe6881
    @blacklyfe6881 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Relationships aren't worth it anymore being single is just way better.

  • @UrbanSipfly
    @UrbanSipfly 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I don't see American men giving up on love, but, what I do see is American men who try to deal with today's modern materialistic American women involving romance has reinvested in himself to explore his other dating options.
    Hello Europe, Asia, and Mexico, Central and So. America! 😊

  • @ModernWomenWhatsThat
    @ModernWomenWhatsThat 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    TOO LATE......MY SISTA!

  • @p9a9r21
    @p9a9r21 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Read the comments below.... These comments are emblematic of the thoughts and decisions of tens of millions of single childless black men. Domestic black women have accomplished something unprecedented, convincing millions of domestic black men they aren't needed or wanted.
    With respect to the sister in the beginning of the video, she is very well acquainted with misandry she hears just about every day coming out of the mouths of black women. Video after video conveys the same message from domestic black women; we're better than you, we aren't going to lower or standards so shape up or ship out.Well black men are choosing to "ship out" by the millions, domestically and internationally.

  • @plastikloser
    @plastikloser 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Alot of women only want to top 5% of men, and for any reason including boredom they can bounce and take AT LEAST half of everything you worked for or ever owned. That's a lot of pain for little pleasure

  • @telayajackson1.0
    @telayajackson1.0 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It started with "sprinkle sprinkle".

  • @JayWerx
    @JayWerx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I’ve never took women out on dates or paid for hair or nails to clap buns. They just be on social media cappin’

    • @410Phonso
      @410Phonso 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Facts

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts AND i am 5"7 Even this whole women only looking for 6 feet dudes AND i be out here clapping all height levels...

  • @fotosbyduane
    @fotosbyduane 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    A leopard can’t change its spots. The next generation will need to recover from this materialistic mindset.

  • @RonaldMutebo
    @RonaldMutebo หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Faithfulness has been tramped upon for the buck nowadays. It's sad. Back in the day, love was genuine no matter the rises and falls in life's journey between two people. Nowadays, hmmm. So sad.

  • @Attah57
    @Attah57 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    As for me personally,..any woman with higher standards simply doesn't concern me at all,...becuz standard or no standard....is none of my gat dayum business. Women's standards only give headaches to men who contemplate whether they can afford it or not

  • @larrybolton9982
    @larrybolton9982 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It wasn't like this in the 70's and 80's

  • @AlhakeemMoore
    @AlhakeemMoore 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ain't nobody losing no sleep, but jazabel

  • @49ers_red_and_gold2
    @49ers_red_and_gold2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Good work, Phil 👍🏿

  • @thereapernest
    @thereapernest 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The juice ain't worth the squeeze

  • @warriorj8658
    @warriorj8658 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Because we can lose everything we worked for dealing with them

  • @hleland4546
    @hleland4546 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm about ready to throw in the towel!

    • @jjmcg9184
      @jjmcg9184 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I pretty much did myself. Im at a point where if a woman isnt attracted to me without spending a dime then im ghosting her.

  • @kevinmaden5572
    @kevinmaden5572 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    CAPITAL ONE ! WHAT'S IN YOUR WALLET !

  • @realtalkjames2408
    @realtalkjames2408 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    0:18 They priced themselves out of the market; a man has pressure to deal with daily! You want a man? DO for him, ask him out, and say “YOUR Treat”, don't put extra on him.

  • @howardboyd7764
    @howardboyd7764 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I haven't been on a (date) in years....I wish a woman would ask me to "pay her bills" or cash app her a damn thing.....

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This is why DRIZZLE DRIZZLE is heavily trending.

    • @Alazar654
      @Alazar654 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup! Drizzle, drizzle!!!

  • @juniorleslie4804
    @juniorleslie4804 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Materialistic is the least of my concerns. But wanting everything and offering nothing, is.

  • @barrylittle2969
    @barrylittle2969 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Wait...I thought this is what they wanted...

  • @jdcaldwell5088
    @jdcaldwell5088 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Been there done with the GAMES of the western feminist women delusion of a life😢😢😢

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🎯

  • @fourtywater77
    @fourtywater77 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've given up too but this problem is not just limited to black people. I've experienced the same thing from white women too.

  • @Kaiannag
    @Kaiannag 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    There’s this young man who I work with who know is a great man in the making and even as he is now! and when I tell yall I put him on to game quick as he opened up to me about a girl he was dating and harassing him. He’s studying to be an engineer, no children and so responsible and takes care of himself. I’m Always telling him don’t date X, Y and Z. And protect yourself from these kind of woman. Always have receipts and cover yourself! I’m a woman that’s giving up on dating myself but I’m not gonna let my young friend be corrupt by these new age woman. I tell him often he’s doing so much better than he thinks. 🙏🏾

    • @Kaiannag
      @Kaiannag 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Itellthetruthhere wow crazy you say that especially as he opened up to me about the relationship with his mother not being the greatest. 🥺 I Pray God allows me to give him wisdom that will benefit him truly. 🙏🏾

  • @truthseekingfreethinker5214
    @truthseekingfreethinker5214 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If you really take a look at how women learn a new thing. They always take the newly found knowledge and take it to an extreme conclusion. Men are supposed to provide and protect a woman and his family with the basic necessities, and if they have extra they have extra, but women have made luxury a necessity and that will only come to backfire on them in the future.

  • @jdemaison2940
    @jdemaison2940 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They are close to the expiration date. That is why they come up

  • @chosenone4631
    @chosenone4631 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Ungrateful, me walking away 🚶

  • @buddylove5880
    @buddylove5880 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Good video uncle Phil 💯

  • @richardwilson6976
    @richardwilson6976 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Modern women will never change.

  • @isaacsgeorge1775
    @isaacsgeorge1775 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Modern Western women did it to themselves........... Good working class men value peace of mind, including financial maters like not being in debt, paying the bills in full on time and not living beyond their means. Facts.

  • @markf.5551
    @markf.5551 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "true love and honest living"., best I heard so far!!

  • @Mankind-ik4ie
    @Mankind-ik4ie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Drizzle Drizzle ladies