@@leotard2536 if a "relationship" means wasting thousands of dollars "dating" different women who just want free meals and drinks, no, fuck that, I have not done that for years The women use men for free meals, and then they fuck Chad for free after that. No thanks!
scary thing: that is one of the most brilliant statements I ever heard, and I never thought of it that way before; perhaps it explains a lot more about those I was always envious of....
The time I realised I’m not food for some manipulative sponger, who leverages access to her body, to make me work for 30 years, whilst she is out cheating.🤷♂️🤦♂️🙄🤣🤣🤣♥️
I get asked all the time : “You’re 45, never married and no children. What’s wrong with you?“ I tell them them: “I’m smart.” (Update for 2024. I’m now 49 years old.)
I had dinner with my father and several of his friends recently. I had never met them. So, they ask..."You married?" No. "Divorced?" No. "Kids?" No. A few seconds of silence. "How old are you? 45. Raised eyebrows. Glances exchanged. One reached for his glass and the others followed suit. Held them up and and he says, "Smaaaaaart motherfucker. Cheers, man."
I was married for 30 years... the last 12 is was (post-menopause-no-sex) she wanted nothing to do with being sexual. I was a "provider".... After I moved out, I was so happy to be alone. Yea it was hard, but I'm not hassled by "Karen" for taking a nap. I left all possessions behind, she kept the Tundra truck, the Kia optima, all the furniture, the dog, everything. I walked away with my Honda motorcycle, my pc, and my FREEDOM. At one point after being moved out for 5 months point she said "you are nothing to me but a handyman and source on income" after I dumped my cycle, standing there with a broken shoulder blade and a few broken ribs. At that moment I made the decision and filed for divorce. BEST DECISION EVER. Now I moved to Boulder Colorado, living the dream going mountain biking and road biking when I want. I eat healthier, I live better. I have FREEDOM....
My income was enough to provide but not get her all the things she wants. When she tried to tell me that "all" women spend X amount on themselves a month and she doesn't and therefore I should be saving all that imaginary money, I calmly told her thats not how saving money works and no "all" women don't have this budget for non essential items. This enraged her, she completely lost it and started yelling and said she lost all respect for me, she accused me of being financially abusive and of not wanting her to have a nice life.
I’m 48 and retired. I’m financially independent. My house is paid for as are my two cars. When I meet a woman now and they ask “What do you do”, they always ask, I tell them “I’m unemployed. Tough to find work these days, etc” The smile on their face they had meeting what they thought was a good looking single guy, turns into a diss appointed sneer. Then they make an excuse to walk away. It’s quite entertaining. Some of my close friends asks why I do that, she was cute, into me or whatever. I then point out if they were into me, they wouldn’t have walked away.
Dating apps are filled with the leftovers. I am a good looking guy, late 40s, tall, earn 6 figures, big house, great cook, classic car,..... I can't find a decent woman to save my life. You guys aren't alone. These women are train wrecks.
@Wayne Adams: Yes . . . 40s is way, way too late. The (small percentage of) good Women are all snapped up by early 20s. It's lottery odds after that . . .
I don't find all of that attractive. Humility, simplicity are the attractive to me. I'm 55 and don't look it. I stay in shape. Funny thing is, the same complaints I hear from men here I hear from successful women. I make high 6 figures but I'm frugal, and also a geek. I can fix almost anything that breaks in my home. If it's beyond me I call three places to get the best deal The stereo types that are floating around here show that dating apps aren't the way to go. I like meeting and getting to know someone in person. Endless texting is also a turnoff. Too many preconceived notions here.. I'll pass.
@@financeandfirewall How many years did you spend chasing chads in your youth though? You're 55. Of course you find humility and simplicity 'attractive'. But I bet you never took one glance at a humble, simply, 'nice' guy when you were in your 20s and your priorities were on finding a hot, exciting man who can take you on an emotional rollercoaster.
@@QED_ I'm 40 in 3 months. Unless I can find a non-crazy girl under 30 (I know, I know, stop laughing...) then I'm pretty screwed. It hurts as I really wanted to be a dad.
True story: went to a 1st date dinner last night to a 4 star restaurant. Once she found out I don't have a private jet, she wasn't interested. She knew I made mid six figures but it wasn't enough. Mind you, she's 36, 3.5yr daughter, is done having kids, works part time as a caregiver, drives a Honda, and has a 2 year degree. Classic.
I am sorry but this story just seems like pur bs. Sorry man if she gave you that excuse she just did it to blow you off it was something else that turned her off.
@@15xgg80 she's a gold digger. Not sure if you've encountered them before but she's caught in a pattern and is too old to keep the same system and have it work for her. She's still out there though as I've seen her on the same ol websites. You can ask her out if you'd like and see what it's all about. Bear in mind, she expects a chauffer to and from the venue - not by you of course. You get to pay for it. She'll order the most expensive items on the menu, of course. She'll wear one of her Ukrainian outfits which aren't flattering but that isn't the point. As for it being an excuse instead of it being something else, go out with any Soviet block girls and you'll see they don't mix words or are passive aggressive, they just say their blunt truth.
The tipping point for me, was when after a string of bad relationships and interactions with girls, my best friend of many years decided to let me know that she wants more than a friendship. We had an amazing beginning, a little rocky in the middle, and we emerged stronger together after some hiccups. Then she cheated on me, moved away, and 6mo later immediately got engaged to someone else and threw everything out with me on a whim including the friendship. Then I realized how shitty the typical girl is, even those that pretend they are your best friend. They don't care about anyone except themselves. Over a decade later, not having spoken to each other in all of that time, she called me crying telling me how sorry she was. To this day, I without a doubt know she is not sorry....she is just unhappy in her current situation
Medic311 You nailed that 'spot on' - She is not sorry for you - she is sorry that she is unhappy in her current situation and expects you to bail her out - only to repeat what she did earlier. She is not 'Platinum' - She is 'Plutonium'
lol my ex did something similar. She left me for another guy who was twice our age and married. He pretended to be wealthy. Turns out he wasnt wealthy but was maxing out his credit to impress her. When she figured it out she tried to get back with me. I acted casual and indifferent about it because i didnt want to boost her ego but truthfully, afterwards i felt really sad and humiliated by the whole thing. Like she was blatantly telling me im not good enough but good enough for now until something better comes. Its really insultimg.
I think that's the scariest thing of all - knowing how incredibly deceitful and unstable women are. In every experience I've had, it went from her being obsessed and in love to not even caring less if I even existed. And no, I didn't change or do anything wrong. It even happened with a long time friend like you said. For me, women have proven themselves time and time again to be far too untrustworthy so I've just decided it's not worth the risk and will likely live the rest of my life alone. I mean, it's crazy because you can't even predict it - she may be the most kind and Godly woman and swear she'd never leave but when it comes down to it, she will still betray you in time.
Bruh my tipping point is similar, after that I gave up on even trying to date or even go out to the bar scene even looking to get involved with females.
Something that, coincidentally, increases a guy's attractiveness. Counts as ignoring them and being a bad boi but with good social status/a good pay I guess.
I am in "Monk Mode". I simply gave up. I want nothing to do with dating and romance. It isn't depression. It is despair. Love is impossible in a Neoliberal narcissistic world of materialism, status and greed.
It was me a long time ago then I got married and feel ok. Though I totally think this thing with women is primarily western women or women from 1st world countries that put too much value in the next Gucci bag bullshit or other designer crap that can easily be counterfeited.
@@mikuios i woud love to but my mind cant be silenced thougts just never stop on and on and on I have tried so many times the only times i could keep my thoughts in line ia whit loud music musing that makes any sane person ask how can you think in this Thats the point i cant but i love it Adhd is horible
Yeah and there's really no in between. Guys are either deluded simps who value women because they haven't learned the truth yet, or they know better and just look at women and sigh at how useless they are
Well it’s been 17 years of bliss being divorced. After 25 years of marriage the kids weren’t a factor, they were 16 and up. She told me she was going to take it all; so I fought like a devil to not get railroaded in the courts and managed to come out unscathed. Long story short; I’m happy and she is miserable.
The moment I realized that I'm only 5' 9" tall, and that every vvoman here in Southern Ontario is seeking out a man who is at least 6 feet tall = I realized that I'm 'Undateable'. But then again, half of the guys over 6 feet are divorced and paying crushing alimony payments each month, so in that respect, I am lucky that I never got selected for the 'Divorce Lottery' by a female.
I'm 5'8, so ive been turned down for that as well. Went on a date with a girl that was 5'7 and she told me to my face that she was disappointed that i was only an inch taller. Sorry about your luck, i hope it gets better.
@@darkhymnsfromthecoldnorth I'm 5ft8 as well but I don't give a rats Ricky about my height cause there is nothing I can do about it but my physique that I can do something about ..
Now whenever I hear a woman say "He's a nice guy." "He's too nice." "He's boring." Let's be honest. She is not looking for a relationship. She is a junkie looking for her next fix.
@@justinacase2623 the Chad is an LOL but cringe at the tyrone... sent my wife of 10yrs (and our daughter) to Fla. for a vaca, shes a high 8or 9 in looks and figure etc..she sent pics and called daily, she sent one GROUP pic of her w/(trip) friends etc. AND staff from the tiki bar in the resort they'd been to for a few yrs. now & next to her in a group of 10ish was- you guessed it>>> a tyrone standing a bit too close!!! i was beside myself livid. I immidiatly called her screaming...informed her to not come home if she valued life, and that i was burning her stuff,(almost).. reason being is she would text me (I'm FB free) the pics that she also posted on social media!! she's a rather G rated woman of integrity, i do trust her, and shes actually a sheltered prued by comparison but her FB is viewed by hundreds including my family and friends... made her pull that pic...not gonna be that guy that other dudes assume about. makes me sick to this day
@@justinacase2623 say it an't so. I have heard and read such shenanigans. There is so much competition and not enough to go around. I've recently been on the prowl and never thought of the chase, that way. You may have a point to consider.
@@daleaustin1969 bro, you gotta go with her next time. If she is a high 8 or 9, you gotta protect her like a Picasso. You may trust her, but one too many margaritas and....
@@doomsdayking4843 If you want to prepare yourself for the apocalipse, money will give you plenty of tools to do that before that happens. From a brazillian here, where the reality here is brutal and maaaany crisis: If you have money and want to get ready, get your shit right and get ready, if you want to get ready but you are broke, you are fucked. Money give you tools, what you are going to do with that is up to you, to help other, do good, help yourself, whatever, it is up to you.
It’s your life. But your inherently negative perspective on dating and women means you’re probably not properly oriented. You have trauma or issues you need to work on.
@@BadMannerKorea im hating her because of her behaviour and not because of the actions.. examp. If I catch u doing something wrong u dont apologize but u keep lying..i cant respect that.
Finished building my new house (paid for). Only 3 payments left before my truck is paid off. Own my boat outright and have for 15 years. Not dating. Paradise!
To the younger guys who feel devastated when their crush doesn't even notice them, I want to say this: nothing is more satisfying to meet them twenty years or more later when their outer beauty has faded away and they are bitter, while their husbands are looking after younger women all day long. I once was at a reunion party of a club that had closed down for 20 years or so. A woman that never even saw me standing back in the days came up to me that night. She said: "Wow, you didn't get older." and this kind of bs. I replied: "Well, you did." I had a lot of this kind of encounters that night and it was tons of fun.
I looked up my old school guy friends this past week. Funny thing is that they didn't have any interest in dating me. Now that I'm considered a real head turner, wealthy and educated with no debts and a successful marriage and no kids I wouldn't consider them dateable. They are all balding, with beer bellies and baby mamas and working bad hours and low wages and look a decade older than me at least. The 30's are a great time to be a woman like me!
It’s simple for those that wonder. I was worried I’d want marriage later in life and married a woman worth my time to build a relationship with. Too many women are unfaithful, or dependent on a man. She on the other hand is both faithful and independent. Faithful being of importance due to a previous relationship and independence was important as I won’t always be around to help. This served as a way for me to know if marriage was for me or not. Because if it works out, I’ll be in a happy marriage until death, and can build a loving family on that. But if it doesn’t work out, I at least know I tried. I’ve been with her 7 years now. Married 3. I say don’t get married because I still desire to be immature and young. Marriage takes that away from you and sometimes I still desire that “im alone and free” feeling. But just because I don’t want to be married. Doesn’t mean I treat her like shit or don’t love her. We both love one another very much. But my statement isn’t saying “I want a divorce”. It’s more along the lines of saying, I wish I could be young and alone forever. My desire to be “alone”, stems from my anxiety of letting others down. I’m a type C personality. So naturally I prefer making people happy. But that also means I’m unable to be happy if others aren’t pleased with me. Maybe this wasn’t the answer some of you were looking for, but I didn’t want to leave you misunderstanding the care I have for my wife.
@@kipp1755 It's a very important experience. I know, I was married for 2 decades :- ))))))) However, only thanks to that awful experience, you will be able to truly appreciate being alone with your dog. Such a high level of appreciation only comes through fighting through the trenches. Every time you go shopping, make a meal or do laundry you realize that these things are somewhere between 2 or 3 orders of magnitude simpler than your wife made them to be :- ) The totality of a peace and quiet is simply orgasmic. Just GTFO ASAP.
For those who made it to the end, let me add one thing: NOTHING you take into your body by eating, drinking, smoking, snorting, or injecting is capable of making you happy. It is a waste of your life to chase after a rush. Happiness comes from satisfaction that pours OUT of you, not INTO you.
@@danielsnyder2288 That's true. I love a nice Boston Cream donut, but it doesn't last. That's my point. Everything you can take in to your body is only good for a short term feeling.
Modern feminism made me walk away from ever getting involved with a woman. When I was younger it was kind of fun dating and meeting women but something changed. The rise of twitter and 'social media' by the 2010s people I'd meet were insanely toxic. I was brought up to keep sensitive topics to yourself when with a group of people you knew casually but now people had to spew their crazy thoughts all over the place and they HAD to know my stance on everything so they could judge me. It's crazy. I want no part of the modern world and modern feminism.
Mid 90s when they could say "he hit me" and send you to jail. Watched it happen to a few friends and after one tried to pull that game on me I just stepped back and started ghosting them. I've dated since then but it's always the same crap that they're bored or want to spend more money. I don't even talk to them if I can help it. My hobbies is watching them hit the wall and gripe that there's no good men around. Always single moms with three kids by different dad's, it's so clique but stunningly accurate.
Women picky standards. He's tall but not muscular, he dress nice but i don't like his hands. Etc. Its the little things 😒 but brake the rules for the bad boys
arbitrary PasTime id tell her straight to her face, b****, if you gon pick on the details it's cuz u don't want it, go see sumwhere else. Do it and see how she clings to you after that -sigh-
The joke is about women climbing the stairs of a building because at each floor, it says there are better men upstairs. They end up on the roof where a sign informs them that, of course, no men are there. The door opens only from the inside, it starts raining, they're cold, and they have to climb down the emergency stairs, soaked.
I notice how in each of these stories the guy had to do all the work and was found lacking/not good enough etc. All I heard was a whiny entitled B crying about 'oh he's not exciting/good enough for me' etc. Not once did the B ever say what SHE brought to the table (which is probably nothing but a used up vag and a laundry list of expectations). Dating in today's world basically seems to me to be: a woman provides a mammoth list of demands (while contributing very little) and the guy has to do everything he possibly can to be considered 'worthy' of her. And even if he manages that, she still has one eye open for a 'better option' at all times. F that
I was on dating apps for 6 years and did not get one single date out of it. Every single girl I matched with ghosted me. After 6 years, that was my tipping point. I decided I'm just going to try and be happy on my own, and I deleted the apps and it felt like a weight off my shoulders. I've been way happier ever since giving up on dating. I've just been focusing on myself and investing in my hobbies. I figure if a girl happens to come along, great, but if not, I'm content. I'm done putting in the effort with women.
@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 Good. We're all pleased that miserable women who get off on men's suffering will get eaten by their 28 cats in the end. Good riddance.
My first thought when Joker showed the screenshot in which this "girl" attacks him, was: "Damn, that would have hurt me so much, I would immediately quit this f***ing app.
Funny thing is something similar actually happened. Woman had a flat tire,man pulled over and spent almost 2hrs helping her. Days later she accused him of sexual assault, he was arrested,lost his job and his family because they didn’t believe . His lawyers(police didn’t even try) went out and found cctv footage to prove he didn’t do anything and was innocent and she never got punished. Believe women they said
@@aobakwegokatweng1564 problem is there are still a lot of SIMP type men who will help. I guess they need to learn the hard way. Better to never help any woman with anything. I don't even help female relatives or even my sister anymore. They never appreciate anything you do for them.
I was in a 15 year marriage when my wife left me and my son's to pursue her real love in life (being a drunk and drug addict). I don't think I'm undatable I think overall I have everything a woman can offer me. I have my own house, I have my sons, and we have cars, dirt bikes, 4 wheelers... My boys and I spend plenty of time together playing video games, we eat dinner together every night. I have teachers of theirs hitting on me and after what I went through with my ex I just would rather not.
I spent last 22 years in one room with only other humans being my parents and doctors/social workers. I haven't seen my siblings in 9 years. Fuck the stay strong thing.
Some woman on Tinder: "I only swiped right because I wanted to tell you that you're ugly and good luck finding a woman to like you" Proper response: "So, you admit that women only choose potential partners based purely on appearances? Thanks for confirming that. Oh, and say 'Hi' to your 400 cats... sorry, matches" Deloitte (pronounced: De-loyt) is a firm of Accountants in South East Asia & Oceania (Australia, New Zealand). Oh, and for your God's sake, do not ever ever ever tell a female that you own your home / house / apartment (car, van, whatever); that is the Number One thing that will attract their attention and they will pester you from that moment onward. Robin Williams once said: "I thought the worst thing in life was to be alone. No. The worst thing in life is to be with people who make you feel alone"
Correct mate! I wonder why Stella didn't get her ex to take her to Crinitis? Oh.....that's right! Her ex had already P & D'd her! Poor girl must've been hungry & needed someone to pay for her dinner because Chad never did!
Deloitte is not just in the Asia/Pacific region. They are global. It's a solid, respectable company. A woman should be thrilled to have a guy who works for them.
Proper response 2: I'm sorry, I thought this was a site for people with a soul. My bad. When you hit the wall, good luck attracting good guys with your ham sandwich.
@COOL NAME BRO! anything can be a word for incel. Husbands in r/deadbedrooms are all incels. Hell husbands in a relationships where she portions sex to once a month a basically incels. And how many guys can straight up go and get laid without paying for an escort on a daily basis? The term is practically meaningless.
When I was in my 30's, I changed careers which involved my going back to school and moving back into my mom's house to save money. This rendered me undateable, at least to women I was attracted to. I would lie in bed at night thinking about the day I would finish school, the day I would be working in my chosen field and achieved my goals. I studied, joined networking groups related to my profession, went to the gym and eventually got the job I wanted. Several years later, I'm married with two young kids. I didn't realize it back then, but I had it good. I only had myself to worry about. I love my wife and kids, but sometimes I miss those days when I alone. I was living the dream and I didn't even know it. I see now that the dream is in the journey, not the destination.
The tipping point for me happened last summer. I was dating a beautiful younger woman. We'd had a lot of great times together; went to Aruba together, had all sorts of adventures, really in love and the whole shebang. I was contemplating getting serious with her. She came to stay with me for a few weeks in the summer (it was long distance). Once she got to my house, she started treating me like shit: complaining about how I managed my household, about the clothes I wore, about where I put my furniture in the house--she even complained about the way I write on my wall calendar! We had fights almost every day. So one evening I was laying there beside her, we both were silent as we'd had a fight that day, and I was thinking, "Man, SCREW THIS. Why do I even want a relationship? Why do I even want someone in my house at all? It's way more peaceful when I don't have anyone around." And I started thinking about all the opportunities I could have if I was just perpetually single--travel, savings, hobbies and personal fulfillment, other relationships I could cultivate, etc. And something snapped inside me. After she went home, I sent her a terse message saying I felt like she treated me awful and I was done, but I also told her part of this was me--I'd realized I just wanted to be solitary. Now I am working hard, enjoying my personal life immensely, doing my hobbies, and saving up for that dream retirement property up north. Couldn't be happier.
@stevo6891 An average man am I, of no eccentric whim, Who likes to live his life, free of strife, doing whatever he thinks is best, for him, Well... just an ordinary man... BUT, Let a woman in your life and your serenity is through, she'll redecorate your home, from the cellar to the dome, and then go on to the enthralling fun of overhauling you...
Wow, sounds like quite the change. Perhaps she had some hormonal issues, maybe? Sucks. But if you're in a better head space now, that's the best thing. Life's too short for fighting all the time.
@@endlessthoughtspartitionma1349 When women 'snap' like the OP describes, it's possible there are hormonal issues involved. Then again, it may be that she was merely hiding her control freak nature until she moved in -- hiding your negatives is easy to do if it's a long distance relationship. As for it being an excuse, no -- it is not an excuse for shitty, control-freak behavior. There are no excuses for treating someone else like shit.
The irony is that women want a financially responsible man but when he has actual good financial habits like buying a reasonable car, not eating at expensive restaurants, etc; it dries them right up!
That is absolutely true. I am financially well off, pay for all dinners, all vacations, all drinks, etc.; the women I dated never paid for a thing. But I was constantly criticized for not buying an expensive car (I like practical cars that I can throw my training gear and mountain bike in; cars that can take fire roads and dirt roads where all the fun things are....) or buying a bigger house for myself (It is just me....one person.... I don't need a 4,000 square foot home that has unused furniture and echos when I get home at night after work.) If I were to get married and we needed more space, I would buy a bigger place, but to just do so for the sake of spending money is insane.
@@BurtonSKnowles Yea, I think it boils down to biological instincts and if a man comes across as cheap, it means he is less likely to be willing to share/spend resources on her. You can sort of get away with it by telling them that I save where I can so I can spend where I want. I may take you out to dinner with coupons but that is so I can go on my 5 cruises I have booked next year.
Basically what that kind of women wants is some sucker to fund their expensive lifestyle without any of the goodies in the bedroom. That is all it boils down to.
And those 10% of guys are always subjecting themselves to possible false accusations or threats of them if they don't comply with what a woman wants. Sex is used as bait to set the hook and reel them in. The devouring comes later.
They want to make as much money as men but only want to hook up with men who make more money than they do. Nothing contradictory about any of this, right?
I remember the date that made me walk away. Setup on a blind date by a coworker (female). I was age 35, and was told my date was 30 something, ready to settle down, tired of games and wanted a serious relationship. Sounded fine. I called, offered to pick her up, but she insisted on meeting me there. OK. A couple minutes into the date, she told me she was leaving. She said, that if her choices, at this point, were a guy like me (meaning average looks, financially stable, emotionally mature, intelligent) or going to a sperm bank for children, she'd rather do the bank. I gave up after that. Now I'm 60 and never married, and looking at my divorced friends, happier for it.
Women know within 30 seconds if they would sleep with you. She didn't want to waste your time or hers--she was crass to explain it that way though. It's nobodies fault there was no chemistry.
I recall a friend's wife trying to set me up with multiple single friends of hers (all rejects), including a newly divorced friend of hers (she was mid thirties, I was late 30s). She said this friend was looking to settle down (again). I told her I just down to bang. She left me alone after that.
@Lola Montez Your comments are well taken and might be true for many men. But not in my case. My point is, I'm responding to the video, this was the proverbial last straw, when I decided dating wasn't worth the effort. That was my tipping point, and that's what Joker is asking us. And I am happier for it.
@Lola Montez Man, what a laugh - only a woman could never consider the possibility that a man's happier on his own. 50 failed blind dates is 50 planned evenings wasted on some hapless individual too caught up in their own bullshit to give you the time of day. If there's only a *slight* chance any of them work and the prize is the companionship of someone who in all likelihood is probably awful, why would any self-respecting dude waste that much time when the prize isn't worth it? Love is a joke. Ditch the fairy-tale.
The moment I realized I was undatable was just after high school and I turned 18 and started going to clubs and bars and saw the huge disparity between the number of women and men in my town. I was 27 before I had my first serious relationship with a Thai girl who I met on a dating site and married. Two kids and 15 years later the only thing I wish was different is that I met her earlier.
@@lurklingX most men don't choose. It's not as though they have options lining up the street. For most they just get committed to any girl that shows any interest in them and think It's love. The one who can afford to choose are the physically attractive guys.
My lady is from Okinawa, Japan and granted 10 years my senior but she makes me happy and we spend time together and takes care of me while I win the bread for us.
@Matt Pizzano Haha foreal. I passed by this chick one time, a little older, but very attractive, and I can tell she was feeling me, so I stopped and approached her, and we go to talking things went smooth little bit of flirting then I ask he out she goes well your very sweet and attractive but you remind me of my son..ugh my dick shriveled into my stomach
I'm 28, I have a good job, just by my job title alone there's all the hotties I knew back in high school that keep contacting me for you know what. Like clockwork. Of course I cut the conversation short immediately.
@@richardlbowles that she was! Interestingly enough, we still kinda became buddies to a degree after...but I also notice she's a bit on the weak-willed side anyway. I feel like I dodged a bullet there.
Worked as a RN for close to 30 years and retired at 56 in 2019. Had multiple relationships, two marriages and raised two step sons to adulthood before their Mom had an affair and left me. During my entire medical career it always seemed like money was tight whenever I became involved with a woman. Vacations, eating out, in-law financial dramas, hospital visits, new wardrobes and a fresh car every 5+ years. Then the 2nd divorce happened and a year later I retired with a pension roughly 50% of my annual gross. But here is the kicker. Everything is paid off, no debts, finally finished off the 65 Galaxie restoration, get up when I want, go wherever I want, rarely eat out, will talk to anybody, anytime without being chided and give back to my community via various volunteers organizations. With all this going on and making 50% less income, I am STILL able to bank $2000+ a month? No interest in searching for the next female at this point and will now enjoy playing the role of prey instead of being a predator on the hunt. Life is awesome.
Why are people saying this? I've been advised by a lot of women to never get married... Is love really dead? I've been waiting for true love my whole life. I don't care if it sounds silly, it's the truth. So why is this failing... and how to avoid it? It's so... well... heartbreaking.
@@catstrawford don't give up. A lot of the people here are a collection of hurting people in wrong relationships. This is not a place to look for hope, but just for those who need to vent their bad experiences with dating and marrying bad people. I feel bad for the men who were wrong by idiot women, and the reverse is true too. But at some point you need to stop blaming others and be accountable for your own behavior and move on with forgiveness. That way you don't carry a burden that you put on another person. I was single my whole life until I met my husband at 29, and so was he at 31. Maybe because we don't have emotional baggage and a laundry list of people we slept with and dated it made for a healthy marriage.
@@lisamendis5886 i appreciate where your coming from. but for the vast majority of men your situation is unattainable. you and your husband got lucky remember that.
@@jimjohnson394 it’s a way of brainwashing men to make things easier. If the simp decides to “just be himself” women will avoid him. An attractive man who is well off just being himself? Attracts women like flies to honey.
No kidding man, probably the top 2 in my top 5 reasons why I dont date, the absolute madness that comes after engaging with a women. My brain cells start to die, and any hard on I had for the women slowly recedes into the abyss of my body. Having to constantly talk and talk, just to keep things going while, she sits there on her phone clearly wanting to be somewhere else. And you ask them so what you do, oh not much, nothing, I like to travel, I like to eat..🤦♂️
@@keanowhitmore8009 yeah, it's always shit like that with them. I like traveling, shopping, eating out. NONE of these are hobbies or interests. They all revolve around spending money, usually men's money. There is no skill or creativity involved with anything they are interested in.
Here is a secret to happiness. Stay single until you're happy being single (yep, overcome your addiction to the V they use to hold power over you). Don't waste any time or emotions on women who love social media and constant posts/pics about herself. When the great V is off the table, what else do they bring to it. Nothing? Tell them to kick bricks. Stop following them around like a puppy with your nose shoved up there. All you do is encourage their narcissistic magic princess complex. Show garbage the door. You're the great temple they wish they could worship at. Always stand with your shoulders back and tell them to "F" off with authority.
I work in the bar industry. The girls I work with post pics of themselves on social media looking incredibly sexy. Always a party.. real life is a different story.. working with these chicks made me realize how miserable they are with relationships/ life in general. It's all a lie.
Lol you let her do her thing, she thinks you’re too soft. “His weak”. You decide to lead and set her straight while maintaining boundaries... she thinks you’re controlling. You say F it, I’m done with dating. Got no time for this nonsense. They think you’re gay. Moral of the story is Just do you. People will always have their own opinion of you. Focus on yourself
The tipping point is that when you realize that the person you're with already has a few men waiting for her at her beckon call. As well as almost every w0men has a ridiculously high body count at the age of 20. Don't get me started on divorce courts cause that's a whole other problem on its own.
@Perverted Alchemist haha truth !! Approach a girl and one of the first things shes asking "are you single " , meanwhile shes already thinking about her next hit of attention from chad after you leave
@@jimraynor7788 I have gone a few dates and used photofeeler myself. It's all a big game. Gotta take photos that look interesting, good angles and poses or sometimes that look "natural". Then get them rated. Pic the best ones (whether it's from photofeeler or female friends). Then get the matches. Then be interesting or unique. Then take them to a good venue or offer an interesting experience. Rarely but sometimes you can get them to come straight over or go to their place. Every once and a while need new photos. It's a ton of effort for little roi. If it works out it's usually just a one night stand. All while women can take a selfie, and make no effort and get mad when men use selfies lol. It's getting harder and harder to get matches. Barely get any now that work out. Like maybe one a month that works out to an actually date. I am being a little joking with the women taking just selfies as most now clearly have makeup and or filters and are trying to be "models"
Dating apps and websites are literally made for the top 1% Chads, you're insanely blue-pilled or masochistic if you go on there as an average guy. Real life isn't much better.
The tipping point for me was when my "Dream Girl" tried to manipulate and project her faults on me, and then feel sorry for herself when I wanted nothing more to do with her. She was a wise and virtuous young woman once, but then she became proud and lewd. My dreams of an eternity with her died; I chose her, I chose wrong, and I cannot offer my best to any other woman. I'm content to live the rest of my life making the best of it, contributing where I can, and avoiding unnecessary drama and stress.
I was married for 7 years; that has made me realize that I am so lucky to be unwanted and 'undatable'. I used to walk on eggshells, just waiting for the next 'explosion' to go off in my face. The marriage was hell because she was unhappy and blaming it all on me. I was never so happy to be divorced! Why would I want to go back to Hell again by getting into a new relationship?
Hey did you marry my ex girlfriend ha ha sounds the same. Once she cheated I was so happy cuz I kicked her to the curb you can fuck me she says sorry it's not special if you let everyone have a turn you doorknob. An I was just happy she left everything was always all my fault and the constant nagging. You never listen to me why so you can claim everyone abuses you and your actually the abuser. No thanks never again agreed.
I was just about to say. Maybe he IS her ex because he got busted dealing pills and is now serving a couple of years in the county lockup........ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
I'm almost 40 now and full Monk, but before that, Dating was like a Rollercoaster. In my younger years, i was this very boring nice Guy. My Mom teached me to be a Gentleman. I got burned all the time. I turned into some really bitter Arsehole, who couldnt give two fucks what Women want or think. That was the time where i got LOTS of attention from Girls. I healed from my "Red Pill Rage" or whatever that was, but i had to keep playing the role to keep the Girls attention. I came to the conclusion, that it is way too much effort for this stuff. Now i'm just beeing myself. Girls are (in a romantic or sexual way) almost invisible to me. I was never more happy or relaxed in my life. Giving up on Dating is like giving up on some bad habit like Smoking or heavy drinking. It's hard at the beginning but you will feel so much better in the end.
@Blaster Master Kind of. My Dad was present, made sure we had Food but he was not really involved in the parenting. He just wanted to be alone all the time. Was kinda weird.
It happened at 19 for me. 25 now and still have days where I feel pretty damn lonely but I generally just try to do something physical and that takes my mind off it
You've had it easy, trust me. I 30M have dated and it's just not pleasant. It's incredibly hard to find someone not obese even if you're tall and working out. Also, we haven't been divorce-graped.
@@timothyswauger3984 not in my country (not yet, at least). Maybe in America. I'm looking for a virgin anyway, so even if she doesn't have children that's not enough for me - which disqualifies 98% of women already even in my somewhat conservative country.
@@timothyswauger3984that's what killed it for me In my 20s I was always willing and ready but always found hogs and single moms "I was saving this cookie for you" gtfo!
@@alexvig2369its almost funny at this point. I'm conventionally attractive or at least so I'm told. 6ft, physically fit and approaching beach lean 31M and while I can typically do alright in the casual sex department, anything that resembles something longer than a fling is just a pipe dream. Women are awful people in my experience. I've been used, cheated on, treated poorly. I recently (this week) deleted all the apps, unfollowed about 200 Instagram accounts and decided I was opting out. It's a shame, my parents had an amazing strong perfect marriage of 30 years. But I don't think that reflects reality these days. Young women are too immature to date seriously, older women are either ahead of me financially so it would never work, or I don't find them attractive. Or they cant bear children, so what's the point?
I'm 63yo and widowed 1.5 years. Tried dating. 1: find a woman I'd like to date-easy. 2: find out if they are available-time and effort. 3: introduce myself because asking cold doesn't work. 4:get told no without saying no. One had a boyfriend. One said she had a boyfriend. One said I'll get back to you and didn't. One said she was getting over a boyfriend who was bad for her from 5 years ago. Last one had to find herself. 5: done and out. 6: spend my time and money on hobbies and interests.
I moved to a small town . Met a few women, all of them flirty, yet in a relationship or married, and all have school aged kids. No thanks. Looks my golf game is going to really start to improve.
As someone a bit more than half your age, I have to agree. For the asking cold bit, while the answer lies in a balance of "strike while the iron is still hot" along with learn to flirt, thing is if you don't have something she obviously wants* when you flirt, then it doesn't matter how soon or late you initiate because you will be rebuffed every time. *(money and providership in overwhelming majority of cases, indicating she needs a sucker to pick up the tab OR social status because she's a social climber and you look like a solid stepping stone) For the getting told no without saying no, I've often heard rationalizing that basically "but I'll get beat and murdered if I say it directly". IMO this speaks more to shamelessly lying and never admitting they're really after something else. The mind games are the worst part of it. For initial asking-out often times even if you think you've done it right and they say yes initially, they will come back later and say no, having changed their mind. Usually followed up with either some version of "I still care for him blahblahblah" or trying to flip it around to blame it on you for "coming on too strong" and they were "caught off guard" or "taken aback". Whatever the story, the point is "this is why NOT you". I can at least respect someone who kicks you to the curb and wants nothing further to do with you. Unfortunately the majority will still try to stick to you and see if they can get something else out of it. When they want to be friends I just say "I'll think about it" and walk away giving an easy-out to end it. If she pursues it (which some stupidly do), I'll just tell 'em "Nah, I don't want to be friends with somebody I have nothing in common with who makes everything my fault". (because that's exactly what it is and that's exactly what she did) Most the time they let well enough alone.
#2 is the worst, especially when you first meet them. It's easy to talk to a girl and get her number. But texting and communication is absolute trash. 9 out of 10 times you pick a time and place and they say they're busy or can't make it. But they never respond with a better time or day. I give a girl 2 chances. A few days or a week goes by and I'll invite her out 1 more time and if she again can't make it? over, blocked, number deleted I'll never understand why they have to waste so much time. They shouldn't talk to the guy and take his number if they're not interested. Guess it really does come down to that attention they crave. You're just 1 of 20 guys she's talking to and when she's short with you let's you know that you're not in the top 5
I had this "moment I realized I was undatable" when I was in the 4th grade - around 10 years old. I remember it vividly and where I was standing and how it made me feel. Back during that age, we would give girls notes that said: "I like you. Do you like me? Yes or No. Circle one." I was not the only one - all the guys did it. All the girls I gave that kind of note to either circled "NO" or did not return the note. I would go through the scenarios as to why girls turned me down but not my friends. Then one day as the class was walking in single file between classrooms I was thinking through this issue and it came to me. The only possible solution. I was ugly. It made me sad and relieved at the same time. But I dismissed the feeling because people would always say "looks do not matter." The biggest lie told to kids growing up. I was about 20 years old when I finally realized that I had been right all those years ago. I got over it but what I realized after becoming an engineer and lawyer, I was not going to give the women who were uninterested in my youth a chance to share in my success. And I had plenty of chances. But I refused to let women make me pay through the nose for something now less valuable than what they gave away to others for free. But I still went out of my way to be nice to females over the years.
@@ChurlzVA I agree that's true. The problem is when you're undatable, you are invisible to these women. Basically they ignore your @$$ or friend zone you and that's all she wrote.
This is crude - but I have my morning wank and then blissfully don't think about women the rest of the day. I'm that done with women. It sounds loser talk to admit what I just said, but I've had opportunities to 'date' but I just can't bring myself to do it anymore; it's a truly horrible, awful, time-wasting exercise.
@@MattExzy yes I know what you mean, iv had opportunities to date but after a while there's just so many times you can play the same shitty game with these females, that's rigged against you ( and this coming from someone who has had some success in sleeping with them). I'm to a point where my biology craves them but I don't, it's a messed up clash within me
@@MattExzy and yes for me 7 times out of ten it's a truly awful horrible time and money wasting experience, dating and courting them. Now, if I see they either won't put out or start playing their toxic little games with me, I'm out.
Years ago I was on one of of the first dating sites. I had just put up my listing a couple days before and woke up sick one day and left for work at about 10 am. Before I did I sent a short introductory message to a woman that was sort of nearby and looked kind of interesting. I basically wrote that I liked what she had written in her description of herself. When I got home from work (no smart phone back then), I had three messages from her. The first one thanked me for my message. The second one said she was not sure she was comfortable interacting since I had not posted a photo of myself (I was waiting to get a good one). The third one said "Obviously this does not mean anything to you!". We had gone through an entire relationship and broke up and I wasn't even there! I thanked my lucky stars.
I bear a resemblance to this remark. Less severely disabled (TS/ADD) but that being said, if you're noticeably different, it throws a monkey wrench into something that's already complicated. This throws the need to pick and choose your battles into sharper relief. I finished a BA debt free and I've always worked. I haven't set the world on fire, but I've done ok.
@@gitfiddlio when most women my age see i walk with a cane it really just kills all chances I would have had. At this point I just make sure my life is fulfilling and I am content. Im lucky that I have fun hobbies that I can still enjoy even if they are painful sometimes. Since breaking my spine in a few spots its pretty much constant pain. It could be worse, I'm grateful for what I have. Could be a lot worse...
@@joshp2542 really sorry to hear about your situation. I hope that within the next 10 years, medical technology will become so advanced that you will be able to walk like you did before the injury. Stay strong, man. Hang in there.
Yeah I am 6'6 but mentally ill since about age 8. I think I will just buy a love doll later in my life for companionship that resembles a woman. I could take meds but they have too severe side effects.
My buddy had his wife help him out up a lift in his garage one Valentine's Day. I asked her about it and she said she enjoyed doing it. She was sincere. There are good women out there.
@@Bekssss it is not real sex experience though. Bareback sex is real sex. The rest is just cheap masturbation wearing a condom inside a human hole experience. Sorry for breaking it up to you.
15 years with my wife and 2 kids. She kicked me to the streets. Said I was “Toxic” but couldn’t tell me why. Said I was “controlling” but couldn’t say how. I asked her “What my rules in the home?” She couldn’t answer. Yes, I’m the Toxic one? Really, she kick the father out and our children are suffering. Who’s is really the toxic person…
@@kuyajohnny8506 my ex didn't give a sh*t about our kid's needs for both parents either, she tried to both while we were still married. She could always do it better (in her mind only) they're suffering for it now, not her.
The attitude of these women is so incredibly repulsive. They are doing men a favor exposing their darkness and coldness of heart. I wish I had a Mazda!
@@keithstewart934 I'm driving a 6 year old VW Golf 7 with the smallest Motor i could get. I only need to drive 15 minutes to work, so i dont need anything bigger. Some of my Coworkers ask me on a regular Basis why i dont get a better Car, cause "we can afford it". But one older coworker i had, who is retired now, always told me "I dont need a Car for the Neighbours to look at, i just need one that fits my needs" and right he was. The Golf was pretty cheap, is reliable and dont uses much Gas. That's all i need. I can safe my Money for an early retirement instead of spending on some shit i don't want or need.
As someone who owns street and dirt bikes, I can confirm, this is the correct way to live. Last year I went to the tail of the dragon. While there I thought, if I was dating, would they let me leave for a few days and race a dangerous road. The answer is probably no.
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LOL sure dude i bet they are really banging down your door to get in
@@britishbulldogsvsthehartfo5677 yea, it's called paying for therapy. Sometimes it's payment to a therapist or psychologist, sometimes it's payment to an escort, but it all ends up costing.
There was a time when I was sad and depressed at the knowledge of being undatable, unwanted, undesired. But now, I see those three things as what ultimately saved me in the end.
I realized that it wasn't actually that, it was a mix of going outside, excercise, noise and stress reduction and not living paycheck to paycheck. Having 1 friend who's well connected helps too. I talk (actual talk in person, not just hello) to a fam member or friend once a week, that's more than enough. Anything beyond that is a hassle and requires a reward. Texting is a different story.
@@electricityofmind6300 Where in my comment did I mention men not caring about looks? Did you notice the complete disconnect in your own comment? You complain about men caring about looks and use the guy in the video( who comments on the financial) as an example. It's not a double standard what haunts you, it's illiteracy and poor reading/listening comprehension. Same goes for the poor soul who liked your comment.
@@EnLaMatrix1 @ Matrix: Sometimes I see slim, tall Millennial men hooked up with thunder - thighs, land whale women. It is a confusing and scary sight.
I’m 55 years old I have full custody of my son , I have my six guitars and I play my Beatles Albums and I come home to a peaceful house! Never getting married again to much heartache! I’m more happier
Working on divorce, child custody right now. I have physical for the time being. She walked off 4 years ago. Had to lower work hours to keep up with raising kids. Had more resources after she left even with the hit in work schedule. Court coming up soon for child support from her, but how to get that from a jobless parent.
Yet they get plastic surgery, wear fake up, butt or breast implants/injections, ugly eye lashes and stupidly long nails. All this to hopefully increase her attractiveness levels. if that cant help them out, shall we bring up ... Catfish lol. All manipulative tactics when you think about it
I have finally accepted that I'm not going to ever meet the unrealistic expectations of today's women and I'm ok with that. While I miss the companionship I don't miss the bs. Thanks for your videos
@Stevo that they do. I thought the same thing too..... now i can't see entering a contract that the other party is incentivized to break. Time for men to go their own way
@stevo6891welcome to my world and then they have the audacity along with brass neck to cry, beg, plead, and complain as to why they can't find a good guy or better yet no guy GTFOH she fails you bought it upon yourselves and us guy's blessing is watching their reality come crashing down upon their heads as a punishment/consequence!! 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁
For me, it was realizing that no matter how much I tried to improve myself, there will always be someone who will be better than me and she will eventually leave me for them. So I decided that It's better to test drive rather than paying full price.
For me when I realized I was not going to get a girlfriend, was probably around 2002. After getting stood up, or rejected multiple times, I just gave up. Actually feel better since. Once I turned 35, that was when I accepted that I was going to be alone. Don't have to worry about trying to make someone happy, when nothing I do will make them happy... for long. Just focus on your own life and things will work out.
I'm 25 and considering that approach. I haven't had a complete lack of luck with women - have had a number of really nice experiences. But one really bad breakup that took me years to recover from, and watching my Dad's life fall apart after his divorce (which he wasn't guilt-free in - but still) has left me pretty iffy about relationships in general. For years I've wanted to meet somebody genuine but it's just a waste of time. I'm not perfect at all, and I'm definitely not the best looking guy of the bunch - but I'm not the worst either. I play 4 instruments, work in engineering, have a math degree, and generally consider myself a decently fun person to be around. But trying to meet women in their 20s is just an absolute waste of time. Especially nowadays. I really want to state clearly that I'm really glad that female empowerment has become a thing and some of the misogynistic norms in our society has been reversed - but much of it now is people blowing smoke up each other's asses and acting like everything done in the name of empowerment is a good thing by default. I'm pretty close with my sister and she's legitimately a fantastic person. Generous, intelligent, funny, etc. But it took listening to her complaining about her 'dating problems' (i.e. her being unable to choose which one of the multiple guys into her at the time she should go with) to make me realise that women just don't get it - and not of spite. They literally just think dating is exactly the same for women as it is for men. As I saw it put in another comment: 'dating for women is like shopping - dating for men is like job hunting'. Except that in a job interview you can use your experience, portfolio etc. to be in with a shot. In the dating world, it's good looks, psychological and social hacking skills, and $$$$$ (which is hard to come by early in life) that count. I dunno man I'm just tired of this shit, all I want is somebody to work together with in life. Literally a life partner, it's not like I'm looking for a ye olde style housewife or sex doll or something. Tired.
As a female I feel sorry for men… I’m on the inside and the woman are brutal.. 44 years married and I am grateful for every single day that I have with my super hero husband and dad to are children 😊
Same here. I'm 35 and have realized that in this past year. It's a better mindset for sure. I feel less neurotic when I view myself as a prize vs worrying about what women think
I'd hate to be younger nowadays and contemplating/trying dating. I'm 56, divorced and have NO intention of going back into the world of dating (not that I understand how any of it really works). I tried it about 5 - 6 years ago. It was exhausting and demoralising. I quickly realised that even though I have a professional career, a home, interests, hobbies, etc, none of that would cut any ice with women my own age (let alone younger!). As an introvert personality you realise that most women, or at least the ones on dating sites/apps, are complete opposites and you are 'undateable'. I don't buy the opposites attract nonsense anymore.
if you go for the introvert, you'll never notice her. she'll hardly talk to you or do stuff with you. she'll want you to keep her entertaining while not expressing any emotions. after a while you'll realise the paint on the wall has more expressions and is more interesting than her.
I'm a homebody and I'm with someone who is also a homebody. Opposites attract only in the short term. It's nice to have some differences, but only in ways that compliment each other.
Got divorced in 1994 (mid 40's). So... I had the career without the home or money (and it took 10 YEARS to recover financially - hear that young men???). Went to a couple of 'single dances' in the beginning. Asked this one woman to dance, and afterwards sat down to talk. As soon as she found out I was divorced, she wasn't interested. She said she was single, never married, and was looking for the same in a man. No excuses, that was it. I told her I wouldn't be interested in her either, and of course she was instantly put off and pissed off. I couldn't be... but SHE could. I told her good luck finding and keeping a man because, at 38 years old... she's never had to settle, she's never had to compromise, she's never had to even think about what someone else might want or need. As far as I was concerned, she had as much or more 'baggage' as the ones that were divorced with a kid or two looking for a live-in sugar daddy and replacement father. Even back then 25+ years ago, women had more 'standards' and expectations than they could cash. Would love to have someone to travel with (34' motorhome with solar so I can 'rough' it in comfort out west and a Jimmy 4x4 TOAD behind it to go out on the trails) but I'm at the point now where that woman was back then. I'm not going to settle or compromise or risk losing what I have to live with a self centered bit... to have female 'companionship'.
I’m 18 and dude the shit I’ve been through with women is insane. They’re so fucking heartless it’s ridiculous. I lucked out with my current girlfriend but fuckin hell, the bullshit I’ve gotten just from me being 5’1 alone is pathetic.
Got divorced 15 years ago, and realized that dating is a dead end in this country for men. Saved all my money (Did not spend a dime on the bitches). Just retired early at 58, liquated my belongings, and now moving to the Philippines. $1200 a week income sent to my mail box no matter where I live. it can be done just stay focused.
SE Asia and Latin America still offer value and are worth spending time with. Too bad American women lost that decades ago. I think every man should experience those regions of the world at least once.
My tipping point was when my first girlfriend introduced me to the world of dating by cheating on me after 2 months. She was incredibly guilty afterwards, but in the meantime she made no attempt to get us back together. She just wanted us to talk as "friends", because she had the emotional attachment, but apparently I wasn't goodlooking enough to continue in a relationship. Sums up the whole thing how no amount of emotion or intelligence or partnership a guy can offer is enough for women, if the dude is not handsome.
so... you get into one serious relationship, get yourself burned a bit. then, you act as if you've lived trough, half a lifetime of relationships and hardships? listen here man. you will get hurt every now and then, but you need to get out there and go get some more... do you really wanna sit around as a old stud and wonder? what it could have been like to get some love and affection ?
Pretty much it, isn't it ? I've had a whole number of discussions and fights with many of my girlfriends. Some get it, some don't. Their number One enemy is their own inflated ego, unrealistic idea about themselves and the world around them. They live, breathe and preach the feminist narrative. Reality shows them otherwise, but they keep going. Until it's too late.
@TheyCallMe Doug It's called let them think they're in charge and be fake until you reverse the situation. Keeping women in check, what a disturbing way to describe a holy unit between two people that should be based on love and respect.
Being falsely accuse, did it for me, I was 19 on duty at the company commander’s, desk, in front of at least 7 other people, never talk to her, and still got accused of harassment! I promised to never do anything, or ever help for any of the fefails! They lie as if it were the only way live life!
Had a guy from my ship get accused of r--- it took the 6 of us saying that he was ashore at the bar with us, a credit card receipt of his for that night and security camera footage from the bar and testimony from the bar staff to get him out of the brig. Then she started complaining that all of us avoided dealing with her afterwards. When she transferred, no one said good bye to her.
It did not help that the company commander was a female too, I swear she believed that broad, she said it was because she was pregnant, it was the reason she accused me, At the time I was having a conversation with a Staff Sargent sitting on the edge of the desk, at the very moment and yes their was cameras too! To this day I keep cameras running around me, in my car, in and around my home, and at work too!
49, 6'2", great physical shape, decent career. I'm not opposed to dating, but women in my general age range and attractiveness are absolutely mental. 40 Yo chicks with good genes that exercise regularly seem to think they deserve a man who has amassed a life time's fortune for the sole purpose of taking them traveling around the world. I wouldn't say I am undateable, but I am unashamedly me and refuse to compromise anymore. Same net result, and I dont really care.
Amen the real coo-coos. I met a 46 yr old with a 5 yr old who wanted to be "traveled" GTFOH you have everything against you. When I saw a pic of her 22 yr old daughter I lost all interest. Rather have the daughter.
5’2, shy, awkward, and introverted. I’ve had a few dates from online dating but didn’t particularly find my dates attractive. None of them really embraced their femininity but nonetheless, I dated them because they were the only ones to actually respond to my messages etc. Realized I’m quite unattractive since those type of girls were all I could get. Would rather be alone than with someone I’m not fully attracted to which will only cause resentment. Cue The Car’s 1981 song: I’m Not The One 🎶
I'm in a similar situation, except I'm 6ft. Don't feel shy at all but yeah I'm an introvert and whilst I've been on dates and wouldn't mind more it's also hard to imagine actually being with someone all the time. I think I'd feel imprisoned. I don't want to justify hobbies, where I spend my free time on, etc. I don't want a woman who invites her female friends gang over etc. Just not interested at all in any of that as an introvert. So I ask myself, is it really worth it? I'm not sure, I think us introverted men are perhaps better of focussing on hobbies and tranquillity.
Depends on what you mean by excitement? Believe it or not, there are women out there who don't ask for much. A simple date night planned or a surprise night out together every once in awhile will do for some. Or simply show interest in taking her out and showing her off is nice. Don't expect women to get all "excited" for you when all you do is play video games all day and spend your money on pot every week. Talk about a romance killer. Keeping the romance alive is important in a relationship. Especially, long term relationships. And you wonder why she went off and cheated.. Boohoo.
Yeah, it is, and it's just women for the most part. But what's really sad is that so many men act similar, as if they're owed something by life or the world in general. It's not just women who act like this, but even the majority of men who try desperately to make things work, and then act shocked that nature doesn't work out the way they expect it. Avoid women and don't have expectations from anyone--easier to not be disappointed.
@@rikk319 You got that right Bro. The world is full of whiny, loser "Nice Guys" who wanna believe that bein a "Good Guy" should entitle them to a GF, and a ticket into a Girl's panties
Always had a hard time with the ladies. Always tried to be nice. After several highly disappointing relationships I decided to work on myself, improve my SMV. Fast forward a couple years and I realized how much I appreciate being the sole arbiter of my destiny. But what really sealed the deal was when I noticed a sudden increase in female attention. NOT when I massively improved my mental wellbeing and monetary situation, but when I started treating them as though I had better things to do with my time. Isn't that a revealing observation...
Maybe the fact you got to chase a woman, pay for everything, plan surprise trips, be romantic, put up with her mood swings , insecurities, jealousy, and still bend down on one knee to marry. This is without kids and bills involved. Bruh this shit really stressful now that I’m typing lol.
@himode In the beginning, let's say first 2/3 months, then the requests will come. I know, I am 6"2, workout everyday, big green eyes. It's not enough mate nowadays, it's not enough.
I had a beautiful wife I loved but who never loved me. I had 2 beautiful daughters, co-owner of a successful but tough family business, big house, status, influence, everything. So you would think from the outside. I’d still be trapped in a loveless marriage if she hadn’t had an affair. That was 15 yrs ago and she’s going through her second divorce & working her ass off. I divorced her, sold the business, moved to a different town. I haven’t done online dating for years and I’ve given up on dating, period. The only women I’m remotely interested in don’t give me the time of day because they don’t date either. They’re sharp, focused & great women, but they don’t wanna give up their freedom any more than we do. It is what it is.
The great single women I know in their 40s are focused on their careers and their kids and don’t date. Post menopausal 50-somethings aren’t interested in starting over either, unless they’re desperate. My last relationship turned out to be a 50-something narcissist who wound up seducing & marrying her recently deceased sisters rich husband. I’m out, done.
Sometimes I think the old 'backwards' way of doing things came about because they had been through some sort of process like the one that seems to be unfolding in the West now where the homebuilding & childbearding contract between the genders has been fully and completely shredded to bits (disclaimer: I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing - but as you say, it is what it is). Really makes me wonder how things are going to turn out. As a 25-year old guy... it's not looking great. I'm taking the comments in this video to heart.
not true. either they dont want to date you or you are too much of a wussie to do s/t about it. hate to break the news to you - but those classy women you idolize are getting it hard from s/o that you probably know. that's how they want it. You sound like a NG (nice guy). too bad you're your own worst enemy.
Words of wisdom from an old family friend (the guy you grow up calling uncle even though he isn't) I've never forgotten: "If it floats, fucks or flies it's going to be trouble long term and you're better off renting"
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Any woman that turns you down because "you're not exciting" is a woman you don't need in your life.
The people watching this BS are "bachelors" or "fuckboys." They aren't here to build a genuine relationship, they just want casual sex.
Exactly, they dodged a bullet.
Yeah, a woman that fancies a drug dealer would be a woman i would exclude from the get go.
@@leotard2536 if a "relationship" means wasting thousands of dollars "dating" different women who just want free meals and drinks, no, fuck that, I have not done that for years The women use men for free meals, and then they fuck Chad for free after that. No thanks!
@@leotard2536 nope. Just being on the bitter side of the coin too often.
Not there yet. Not giving up.
Remember, gentlemen: "Why aren't you married, you're such a good guy?" is a question that answers itself.
Mi Ke It’s really weird how acting indifferent and treating women like shit has them nipping at your heels.
I got asked this question by all the married women at work. I just said I don't see it happening. They just left it at that respectfully.
Don't ask women why they don't have kids. Don't ask a man why he isn't married. Simple.
scary thing: that is one of the most brilliant statements I ever heard, and I never thought of it that way before; perhaps it explains a lot more about those I was always envious of....
The time I realised I’m not food for some manipulative sponger, who leverages access to her body, to make me work for 30 years, whilst she is out cheating.🤷♂️🤦♂️🙄🤣🤣🤣♥️
I get asked all the time : “You’re 45, never married and no children. What’s wrong with you?“ I tell them them: “I’m smart.” (Update for 2024. I’m now 49 years old.)
Right on, man! When they try to shame you, shame them back.
I had dinner with my father and several of his friends recently. I had never met them. So, they ask..."You married?" No. "Divorced?" No. "Kids?" No. A few seconds of silence. "How old are you? 45. Raised eyebrows. Glances exchanged. One reached for his glass and the others followed suit. Held them up and and he says, "Smaaaaaart motherfucker. Cheers, man."
and lonely
Lauren .. Nice try with the shaming tactic. No loneliness over here. No one said they didn’t deal with women at all.
E.L. Norton ... I love that, brother! Cheers! 🍻
I was married for 30 years... the last 12 is was (post-menopause-no-sex) she wanted nothing to do with being sexual. I was a "provider".... After I moved out, I was so happy to be alone. Yea it was hard, but I'm not hassled by "Karen" for taking a nap. I left all possessions behind, she kept the Tundra truck, the Kia optima, all the furniture, the dog, everything. I walked away with my Honda motorcycle, my pc, and my FREEDOM. At one point after being moved out for 5 months point she said "you are nothing to me but a handyman and source on income" after I dumped my cycle, standing there with a broken shoulder blade and a few broken ribs. At that moment I made the decision and filed for divorce. BEST DECISION EVER. Now I moved to Boulder Colorado, living the dream going mountain biking and road biking when I want. I eat healthier, I live better. I have FREEDOM....
Join the club. Being a handyman and source of income is All women think of men.
Live the dream hell yah 😁
I am so happy for you ❤😊
FREEDOM IS EVERYTHING!
My income was enough to provide but not get her all the things she wants. When she tried to tell me that "all" women spend X amount on themselves a month and she doesn't and therefore I should be saving all that imaginary money, I calmly told her thats not how saving money works and no "all" women don't have this budget for non essential items. This enraged her, she completely lost it and started yelling and said she lost all respect for me, she accused me of being financially abusive and of not wanting her to have a nice life.
I was married for 23 years. I'm hoping that when I die my marriage counts as time served in Hell.
omg--was it that bad?
@Leslie Starck 23 years of marriage was an eternity to him. He will likely enjoy Hell more
I think it’s pronounced “De loit.” It’s an accounting firm.
Nope.
Its hell...so nope. 😈
I’m 48 and retired. I’m financially independent. My house is paid for as are my two cars. When I meet a woman now and they ask “What do you do”, they always ask, I tell them “I’m unemployed. Tough to find work these days, etc” The smile on their face they had meeting what they thought was a good looking single guy, turns into a diss appointed sneer. Then they make an excuse to walk away. It’s quite entertaining. Some of my close friends asks why I do that, she was cute, into me or whatever. I then point out if they were into me, they wouldn’t have walked away.
Even if they stayed, you would still be better off single than in a relationship.
Wonderful, good sir.
After that I'll take my brand new Porsche Cayenne for a ride and drive right by her with the windows down smiling. Lol
brianmcg321 the red dress, by Rollo, this is a clear example, bravo!
@@sirwizalot7164 You do that in the metoo generation and your personal wealth is bound to go down.
Dating apps are filled with the leftovers. I am a good looking guy, late 40s, tall, earn 6 figures, big house, great cook, classic car,..... I can't find a decent woman to save my life. You guys aren't alone. These women are train wrecks.
Lol there’s no way you can find a women that can add to your life. Women in 30s and 40s do not offer anything period. End of story.
@Wayne Adams: Yes . . . 40s is way, way too late. The (small percentage of) good Women are all snapped up by early 20s. It's lottery odds after that . . .
I don't find all of that attractive. Humility, simplicity are the attractive to me. I'm 55 and don't look it. I stay in shape. Funny thing is, the same complaints I hear from men here I hear from successful women. I make high 6 figures but I'm frugal, and also a geek. I can fix almost anything that breaks in my home. If it's beyond me I call three places to get the best deal
The stereo types that are floating around here show that dating apps aren't the way to go. I like meeting and getting to know someone in person. Endless texting is also a turnoff. Too many preconceived notions here.. I'll pass.
@@financeandfirewall How many years did you spend chasing chads in your youth though? You're 55. Of course you find humility and simplicity 'attractive'. But I bet you never took one glance at a humble, simply, 'nice' guy when you were in your 20s and your priorities were on finding a hot, exciting man who can take you on an emotional rollercoaster.
@@QED_ I'm 40 in 3 months. Unless I can find a non-crazy girl under 30 (I know, I know, stop laughing...) then I'm pretty screwed. It hurts as I really wanted to be a dad.
True story: went to a 1st date dinner last night to a 4 star restaurant. Once she found out I don't have a private jet, she wasn't interested. She knew I made mid six figures but it wasn't enough. Mind you, she's 36, 3.5yr daughter, is done having kids, works part time as a caregiver, drives a Honda, and has a 2 year degree. Classic.
lol I bet her girlfriends tell her that she deserves better. Time to invest in boxed wine and cat food ;)
get better at lying amigo! women expect/want that these days..
Maybe she is extremely beautiful thats why you were interested as well
I am sorry but this story just seems like pur bs. Sorry man if she gave you that excuse she just did it to blow you off it was something else that turned her off.
@@15xgg80 she's a gold digger. Not sure if you've encountered them before but she's caught in a pattern and is too old to keep the same system and have it work for her. She's still out there though as I've seen her on the same ol websites. You can ask her out if you'd like and see what it's all about. Bear in mind, she expects a chauffer to and from the venue - not by you of course. You get to pay for it. She'll order the most expensive items on the menu, of course. She'll wear one of her Ukrainian outfits which aren't flattering but that isn't the point. As for it being an excuse instead of it being something else, go out with any Soviet block girls and you'll see they don't mix words or are passive aggressive, they just say their blunt truth.
The tipping point for me, was when after a string of bad relationships and interactions with girls, my best friend of many years decided to let me know that she wants more than a friendship. We had an amazing beginning, a little rocky in the middle, and we emerged stronger together after some hiccups. Then she cheated on me, moved away, and 6mo later immediately got engaged to someone else and threw everything out with me on a whim including the friendship. Then I realized how shitty the typical girl is, even those that pretend they are your best friend. They don't care about anyone except themselves. Over a decade later, not having spoken to each other in all of that time, she called me crying telling me how sorry she was. To this day, I without a doubt know she is not sorry....she is just unhappy in her current situation
Medic311
You nailed that 'spot on' - She is not sorry for you - she is sorry that she is unhappy in her
current situation and expects you to bail her out - only to repeat what she did earlier.
She is not 'Platinum' - She is 'Plutonium'
lol my ex did something similar. She left me for another guy who was twice our age and married. He pretended to be wealthy. Turns out he wasnt wealthy but was maxing out his credit to impress her. When she figured it out she tried to get back with me. I acted casual and indifferent about it because i didnt want to boost her ego but truthfully, afterwards i felt really sad and humiliated by the whole thing. Like she was blatantly telling me im not good enough but good enough for now until something better comes. Its really insultimg.
I think that's the scariest thing of all - knowing how incredibly deceitful and unstable women are. In every experience I've had, it went from her being obsessed and in love to not even caring less if I even existed. And no, I didn't change or do anything wrong. It even happened with a long time friend like you said. For me, women have proven themselves time and time again to be far too untrustworthy so I've just decided it's not worth the risk and will likely live the rest of my life alone. I mean, it's crazy because you can't even predict it - she may be the most kind and Godly woman and swear she'd never leave but when it comes down to it, she will still betray you in time.
She’s for the streets
Bruh my tipping point is similar, after that I gave up on even trying to date or even go out to the bar scene even looking to get involved with females.
Men no need to stress yourself out trying to get a women. build your career and focus on yourself.
Yes just get into the NFL and you'll be swimming in bitches
@@sergiorocha76 what
@@sergiorocha76
Emphasis on "bitches"
Something that, coincidentally, increases a guy's attractiveness. Counts as ignoring them and being a bad boi but with good social status/a good pay I guess.
"Woman should be a compliment to your life, not the focus" - Entrepreneurs in cars.
I am in "Monk Mode". I simply gave up. I want nothing to do with dating and romance. It isn't depression. It is despair. Love is impossible in a Neoliberal narcissistic world of materialism, status and greed.
Let us meditate together, brother.
That's me right there
It was me a long time ago then I got married and feel ok. Though I totally think this thing with women is primarily western women or women from 1st world countries that put too much value in the next Gucci bag bullshit or other designer crap that can easily be counterfeited.
@@mikuios i woud love to but my mind cant be silenced thougts just never stop on and on and on
I have tried so many times the only times i could keep my thoughts in line ia whit loud music musing that makes any sane person ask how can you think in this
Thats the point i cant but i love it
Adhd is horible
I gave girls up 10 years ago... First it was because I'm not really desirable to them so it wasn't worth it, but now I truly don't care, I'm over it!
To get women you have to not care, but the problem is that you don't care anymore.
Yeah and there's really no in between. Guys are either deluded simps who value women because they haven't learned the truth yet, or they know better and just look at women and sigh at how useless they are
Women in their 30's: where are the good men?
Women in their 20's: ew, why would I date you?
Women in their 40's & 50's... Please, please, PLEASE ask me out!
@@Nerodz Actually, I'd say its:
Women in their 40's and 50's: "Please PLEASE somebody support me and my 3 kids!"
@@ArcaneWorkshop Yes, the bulls-eye.
They’ll turn into Karen’s once they realise it’s too late and all the good men have gone their own way.
Women in their 40's: If he's breathing?!?! He's a good man!!!
To bad it's too late by then
I don't consider myself "undateable"...
I consider myself uninterested.
You nailed it!
Amen to that brother.
Well there's enough porn around to keep you interested.
Precisely!
Many of us out there. Nothing wrong with it.
1. Don't answer at all.
2. Don't be on Tinder in the first place.
Boom
alot of simps don't want to hear this.
leave all these apps and social media to the chicks.
True. If you are a bloke not in the top 20%, you are going to find Tinder a soul-destroying experience.
Tinder’s awful
If you can't see it, touch it, or feel it, it's NOT REAL! :)
Well it’s been 17 years of bliss being divorced. After 25 years of marriage the kids weren’t a factor, they were 16 and up. She told me she was going to take it all; so I fought like a devil to not get railroaded in the courts and managed to come out unscathed. Long story short; I’m happy and she is miserable.
I love hearing happy endings.
And how is your relationship with your children now? Were they unscathed or are you paying for their uni bills and therapy now?
@@LSSYLondon lol what how was this his fault you imbecile
The best revenge you can get, is living well. Good to know a man can win in court while dealing with the vedma, or witch he was duped into marrying.
Well done (other than the 25 years).
The moment I realized that I'm only 5' 9" tall, and that every vvoman here in Southern Ontario is seeking out a man who is at least 6 feet tall = I realized that I'm 'Undateable'.
But then again, half of the guys over 6 feet are divorced and paying crushing alimony payments each month, so in that respect, I am lucky that I never got selected for the 'Divorce Lottery' by a female.
Fellow southern ontario resident here .
Any woman that considers the height of a partner being a requirement isn’t worth dating anyway.
I'm 5'8, so ive been turned down for that as well. Went on a date with a girl that was 5'7 and she told me to my face that she was disappointed that i was only an inch taller. Sorry about your luck, i hope it gets better.
@@darkhymnsfromthecoldnorth I'm 5ft8 as well but I don't give a rats Ricky about my height cause there is nothing I can do about it but my physique that I can do something about ..
@@TheHiker24 You are right. I dont care about my height either.
Now whenever I hear a woman say "He's a nice guy." "He's too nice." "He's boring." Let's be honest. She is not looking for a relationship. She is a junkie looking for her next fix.
Looking for Chad and Tyrone. The rest of us are ATMs
@@justinacase2623 the Chad is an LOL but cringe at the tyrone... sent my wife of 10yrs (and our daughter) to Fla. for a vaca, shes a high 8or 9 in looks and figure etc..she sent pics and called daily, she sent one GROUP pic of her w/(trip) friends etc. AND staff from the tiki bar in the resort they'd been to for a few yrs. now & next to her in a group of 10ish was- you guessed it>>> a tyrone standing a bit too close!!! i was beside myself livid. I immidiatly called her screaming...informed her to not come home if she valued life, and that i was burning her stuff,(almost).. reason being is she would text me (I'm FB free) the pics that she also posted on social media!! she's a rather G rated woman of integrity, i do trust her, and shes actually a sheltered prued by comparison but her FB is viewed by hundreds including my family and friends... made her pull that pic...not gonna be that guy that other dudes assume about. makes me sick to this day
@@daleaustin1969 I hear ya! Never understood that messed up thinking, whoamans!
@@justinacase2623 say it an't so. I have heard and read such shenanigans. There is so much competition and not enough to go around. I've recently been on the prowl and never thought of the chase, that way. You may have a point to consider.
@@daleaustin1969 bro, you gotta go with her next time. If she is a high 8 or 9, you gotta protect her like a Picasso. You may trust her, but one too many margaritas and....
You will lose a lot of money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money.
why even date? what a waste of time
Yeas but what does chasing money accomplish? 🤔 It won't be worth anything once the apocalypse starts.
@@doomsdayking4843 If you want to prepare yourself for the apocalipse, money will give you plenty of tools to do that before that happens. From a brazillian here, where the reality here is brutal and maaaany crisis: If you have money and want to get ready, get your shit right and get ready, if you want to get ready but you are broke, you are fucked. Money give you tools, what you are going to do with that is up to you, to help other, do good, help yourself, whatever, it is up to you.
@@marciobranco6192 Invest in assets not liabilities.👍
@@ross_ulbright7779 Hell yeah !
'the game' is rigged, the only winning move is to not play.
Man I hate my fucking girl..she doesnt care lying on my face swearing shes telling the truth. Bitches are just bitches
It’s your life. But your inherently negative perspective on dating and women means you’re probably not properly oriented. You have trauma or issues you need to work on.
Rossoblupersempre A lot to untangle here. But if you hate her then why are you with her? Why not go to couples therapy if you value the relationship?
@@BadMannerKorea im hating her because of her behaviour and not because of the actions.. examp. If I catch u doing something wrong u dont apologize but u keep lying..i cant respect that.
@@Elbomberdelvernal get rid of her bro. Time is a non-renewable resource. If she doesn't add to your life she subtracts and you should move on.
Paid off house, paid off car, kick ass watch collection. Haven't chased women in a while.
same
Finished building my new house (paid for). Only 3 payments left before my truck is paid off. Own my boat outright and have for 15 years. Not dating.
Paradise!
Absolutely, My money is for ME, not the whims of pleasing someone else. Life is very good.
That is why you have money. Good job!
Seems like you got no 'time' for time wasted hehe
Stay the hell off dating apps guys...let them starve..
Amen. I never have been on one and obviously never will at this point
I feel like missing out though.
@@Zaluskowsky Your not missing anything.
All the weirdos are on dating apps
Amen. I find better stuff left outside the goodwill.
To the younger guys who feel devastated when their crush doesn't even notice them, I want to say this: nothing is more satisfying to meet them twenty years or more later when their outer beauty has faded away and they are bitter, while their husbands are looking after younger women all day long.
I once was at a reunion party of a club that had closed down for 20 years or so. A woman that never even saw me standing back in the days came up to me that night.
She said: "Wow, you didn't get older." and this kind of bs.
I replied: "Well, you did."
I had a lot of this kind of encounters that night and it was tons of fun.
Burn! I like it. I never went to a reunion because I figured it would be boring.
Lmao well you did. Burn.
I looked up my old school guy friends this past week. Funny thing is that they didn't have any interest in dating me. Now that I'm considered a real head turner, wealthy and educated with no debts and a successful marriage and no kids I wouldn't consider them dateable. They are all balding, with beer bellies and baby mamas and working bad hours and low wages and look a decade older than me at least. The 30's are a great time to be a woman like me!
Savage 😂
@@LSSYLondon lol 😂 give us a break youre probably 5/10.
I’m married. Been married for 3 years. Never wanted to be married. Still don’t want to be married. Don’t get married.
Why did u get married? 😲
@@v205 bobs and vagene
F
It’s simple for those that wonder. I was worried I’d want marriage later in life and married a woman worth my time to build a relationship with. Too many women are unfaithful, or dependent on a man. She on the other hand is both faithful and independent. Faithful being of importance due to a previous relationship and independence was important as I won’t always be around to help. This served as a way for me to know if marriage was for me or not. Because if it works out, I’ll be in a happy marriage until death, and can build a loving family on that. But if it doesn’t work out, I at least know I tried. I’ve been with her 7 years now. Married 3. I say don’t get married because I still desire to be immature and young. Marriage takes that away from you and sometimes I still desire that “im alone and free” feeling. But just because I don’t want to be married. Doesn’t mean I treat her like shit or don’t love her. We both love one another very much. But my statement isn’t saying “I want a divorce”. It’s more along the lines of saying, I wish I could be young and alone forever. My desire to be “alone”, stems from my anxiety of letting others down. I’m a type C personality. So naturally I prefer making people happy. But that also means I’m unable to be happy if others aren’t pleased with me. Maybe this wasn’t the answer some of you were looking for, but I didn’t want to leave you misunderstanding the care I have for my wife.
@@kipp1755 It's a very important experience. I know, I was married for 2 decades :- )))))))
However, only thanks to that awful experience, you will be able to truly appreciate being alone with your dog.
Such a high level of appreciation only comes through fighting through the trenches.
Every time you go shopping, make a meal or do laundry you realize that these things are somewhere between 2 or 3 orders of magnitude simpler than your wife made them to be :- )
The totality of a peace and quiet is simply orgasmic.
Just GTFO ASAP.
For those who made it to the end, let me add one thing: NOTHING you take into your body by eating, drinking, smoking, snorting, or injecting is capable of making you happy. It is a waste of your life to chase after a rush. Happiness comes from satisfaction that pours OUT of you, not INTO you.
That is 90% true👍
Thanks Cumdumpster
Good and best acknowledment
I dont know, donuts make me pretty darn happy 😀
@@danielsnyder2288 That's true. I love a nice Boston Cream donut, but it doesn't last. That's my point. Everything you can take in to your body is only good for a short term feeling.
Just be nice to the women you meet and be yourself. You will be invisible to them within minutes.
True
In my teenage, I really found it cool, how it would be to have a cloaking device...
LOL, isn't that the truth.
Lol
do the opposite, it will be more fun than you think
The moment I realized women do not find virtue and morality attractive like men do was one of the most enlightening moments of my life.
I find virtue and morality attractive.....
@@JinxD247 sure you do, just not as attractive as the bad boys huh?
@@sunkillsmoon it's a quality that I find rare. Bad boys... Whatcha gonna do? 🤣
Faithfulness and honesty are high up on my list😘
If men find virtue and morality attractive why are they throwing money at strippers and only fans models and s3x workers literally every day? 🤔
@@effyutubeagain1099 desperation
Modern feminism made me walk away from ever getting involved with a woman. When I was younger it was kind of fun dating and meeting women but something changed. The rise of twitter and 'social media' by the 2010s people I'd meet were insanely toxic. I was brought up to keep sensitive topics to yourself when with a group of people you knew casually but now people had to spew their crazy thoughts all over the place and they HAD to know my stance on everything so they could judge me. It's crazy. I want no part of the modern world and modern feminism.
Mid 90s when they could say "he hit me" and send you to jail. Watched it happen to a few friends and after one tried to pull that game on me I just stepped back and started ghosting them. I've dated since then but it's always the same crap that they're bored or want to spend more money. I don't even talk to them if I can help it. My hobbies is watching them hit the wall and gripe that there's no good men around. Always single moms with three kids by different dad's, it's so clique but stunningly accurate.
I noticed that, I thought it was just me.
So your gay now?
@@Steve-yu6pq we respect your decision but please stop pushing it on us we just aren't into you that way
Amen Brother
400 matches, yet she's probably still single and swiping... that's what I would call pathetic.
I bet she hasn't dated them all
Exactly. I would have followed up with that.
"400 matches and you're still on here? Maybe you're the problem"
Worst part is 400 matches proves nothing. Most girls have that many or more cause supply and demand.
She’s been pumped and dumped 400 times. What a “prize” lol
They act like their puss is a national treasure 😅
Women picky standards. He's tall but not muscular, he dress nice but i don't like his hands. Etc. Its the little things 😒 but brake the rules for the bad boys
arbitrary PasTime id tell her straight to her face, b****, if you gon pick on the details it's cuz u don't want it, go see sumwhere else. Do it and see how she clings to you after that -sigh-
They break the rules for chads aka guys that are above 8/10 in looks lol
The joke is about women climbing the stairs of a building because at each floor, it says there are better men upstairs.
They end up on the roof where a sign informs them that, of course, no men are there.
The door opens only from the inside, it starts raining, they're cold, and they have to climb down the emergency stairs, soaked.
They have a lot of options and they know it, the behaviour is just a result of that.
I notice how in each of these stories the guy had to do all the work and was found lacking/not good enough etc. All I heard was a whiny entitled B crying about 'oh he's not exciting/good enough for me' etc. Not once did the B ever say what SHE brought to the table (which is probably nothing but a used up vag and a laundry list of expectations). Dating in today's world basically seems to me to be: a woman provides a mammoth list of demands (while contributing very little) and the guy has to do everything he possibly can to be considered 'worthy' of her. And even if he manages that, she still has one eye open for a 'better option' at all times. F that
I was on dating apps for 6 years and did not get one single date out of it. Every single girl I matched with ghosted me. After 6 years, that was my tipping point. I decided I'm just going to try and be happy on my own, and I deleted the apps and it felt like a weight off my shoulders. I've been way happier ever since giving up on dating. I've just been focusing on myself and investing in my hobbies. I figure if a girl happens to come along, great, but if not, I'm content. I'm done putting in the effort with women.
I'm so pleased men get rejected a lot. It satisfies me. 😂
Most these days are useless anyway due to modern propaganda and bad breeding.
It really is a weight off your shoulders. Be free.
@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 I was going to leave a long response to your comment but you're not worth the time or effort.
@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 Good. We're all pleased that miserable women who get off on men's suffering will get eaten by their 28 cats in the end. Good riddance.
I know a guy who committed suicide due to experiences like this.
RIP Jeremy 😞
Bloody hell thats rough sorry to hear that.
Sorry to hear. Peace.
My first thought when Joker showed the screenshot in which this "girl" attacks him, was: "Damn, that would have hurt me so much, I would immediately quit this f***ing app.
Grow up
@@pinkgal206 What?
As a divorced man myself, I can definitely say It's hard to put a price on freedom. No pointless drama, but sweet peace.
Same here
@@JBS2018
Amen! When I was married I had no fear of death. After ten years of freedom, it terrifies me!
dont you miss having sex with women?
Loooong lasting peace if we're smart.
🍻
Woman gets flat tire.
Man pulls over to help.
Woman sues man for alimony
Woman wins. Judge said they cohabitated for 10 minutes.
Women are "strong and independent " now. So just ignore them. No attention. Don't help them or give them any money.
@Tim Sheryl Legend!!
Funny thing is something similar actually happened. Woman had a flat tire,man pulled over and spent almost 2hrs helping her. Days later she accused him of sexual assault, he was arrested,lost his job and his family because they didn’t believe . His lawyers(police didn’t even try) went out and found cctv footage to prove he didn’t do anything and was innocent and she never got punished. Believe women they said
As Tim Sheryl commented, I would stop to say YOU GOT THIS GIRL and give them a thumbsup, and speed off LOL Best idea ever for this situation.
@@aobakwegokatweng1564 problem is there are still a lot of SIMP type men who will help. I guess they need to learn the hard way. Better to never help any woman with anything. I don't even help female relatives or even my sister anymore. They never appreciate anything you do for them.
I was in a 15 year marriage when my wife left me and my son's to pursue her real love in life (being a drunk and drug addict). I don't think I'm undatable I think overall I have everything a woman can offer me. I have my own house, I have my sons, and we have cars, dirt bikes, 4 wheelers... My boys and I spend plenty of time together playing video games, we eat dinner together every night. I have teachers of theirs hitting on me and after what I went through with my ex I just would rather not.
Men don't 'need' companionship as much as women....so when it comes to who can hold out longer, we will win every time. Stay strong fellas
Traditionally yes but allot of these guys are showing more need for companionship than the woman and for some reason that’s a turn off
It's natural for us but for them each nano-second is years of torture. Oh well.
Better to get a dog as a companion than a wife or gf. 😊😊
Some farmable land off the grid is a more tempting prospect than the average American woman
I spent last 22 years in one room with only other humans being my parents and doctors/social workers. I haven't seen my siblings in 9 years. Fuck the stay strong thing.
Some woman on Tinder: "I only swiped right because I wanted to tell you that you're ugly and good luck finding a woman to like you"
Proper response: "So, you admit that women only choose potential partners based purely on appearances? Thanks for confirming that. Oh, and say 'Hi' to your 400 cats... sorry, matches"
Deloitte (pronounced: De-loyt) is a firm of Accountants in South East Asia & Oceania (Australia, New Zealand).
Oh, and for your God's sake, do not ever ever ever tell a female that you own your home / house / apartment (car, van, whatever); that is the Number One thing that will attract their attention and they will pester you from that moment onward.
Robin Williams once said: "I thought the worst thing in life was to be alone. No. The worst thing in life is to be with people who make you feel alone"
Correct mate! I wonder why Stella didn't get her ex to take her to Crinitis? Oh.....that's right! Her ex had already P & D'd her! Poor girl must've been hungry & needed someone to pay for her dinner because Chad never did!
Or "tell me that again in 10 years"...
just a narcissist who needs to crap on people to feel good about herself
Deloitte is not just in the Asia/Pacific region. They are global. It's a solid, respectable company. A woman should be thrilled to have a guy who works for them.
Proper response 2: I'm sorry, I thought this was a site for people with a soul. My bad. When you hit the wall, good luck attracting good guys with your ham sandwich.
Undateable almost sounds like an advantage in the west here
it becomes a super-power. Wahmen are less likely to seduce and manipulate...
Seriously
Its been my aim for years & glad to say it's finally working :)
@COOL NAME BRO! anything can be a word for incel. Husbands in r/deadbedrooms are all incels. Hell husbands in a relationships where she portions sex to once a month a basically incels. And how many guys can straight up go and get laid without paying for an escort on a daily basis? The term is practically meaningless.
Imagine spending all that money, all that time, all those efforts...
on yourself!
When I was in my 30's, I changed careers which involved my going back to school and moving back into my mom's house to save money. This rendered me undateable, at least to women I was attracted to. I would lie in bed at night thinking about the day I would finish school, the day I would be working in my chosen field and achieved my goals. I studied, joined networking groups related to my profession, went to the gym and eventually got the job I wanted.
Several years later, I'm married with two young kids. I didn't realize it back then, but I had it good. I only had myself to worry about. I love my wife and kids, but sometimes I miss those days when I alone. I was living the dream and I didn't even know it. I see now that the dream is in the journey, not the destination.
No worries, you'll be divorced and single in no time : )
Thats only if you actually succeed. Think about it again if you get divorced, and loose everything.
good on you!
The tipping point for me happened last summer. I was dating a beautiful younger woman. We'd had a lot of great times together; went to Aruba together, had all sorts of adventures, really in love and the whole shebang. I was contemplating getting serious with her. She came to stay with me for a few weeks in the summer (it was long distance). Once she got to my house, she started treating me like shit: complaining about how I managed my household, about the clothes I wore, about where I put my furniture in the house--she even complained about the way I write on my wall calendar! We had fights almost every day. So one evening I was laying there beside her, we both were silent as we'd had a fight that day, and I was thinking, "Man, SCREW THIS. Why do I even want a relationship? Why do I even want someone in my house at all? It's way more peaceful when I don't have anyone around." And I started thinking about all the opportunities I could have if I was just perpetually single--travel, savings, hobbies and personal fulfillment, other relationships I could cultivate, etc. And something snapped inside me. After she went home, I sent her a terse message saying I felt like she treated me awful and I was done, but I also told her part of this was me--I'd realized I just wanted to be solitary. Now I am working hard, enjoying my personal life immensely, doing my hobbies, and saving up for that dream retirement property up north. Couldn't be happier.
@stevo6891 An average man am I, of no eccentric whim,
Who likes to live his life, free of strife,
doing whatever he thinks is best, for him,
Well... just an ordinary man...
BUT, Let a woman in your life and your serenity is through,
she'll redecorate your home, from the cellar to the dome,
and then go on to the enthralling fun of overhauling you...
Wow, sounds like quite the change. Perhaps she had some hormonal issues, maybe? Sucks. But if you're in a better head space now, that's the best thing. Life's too short for fighting all the time.
@@chriscampbell9191 hormonal issues ? do i get to use this excuse too when i'm acting like a pile of shit ?
@@endlessthoughtspartitionma1349 When women 'snap' like the OP describes, it's possible there are hormonal issues involved. Then again, it may be that she was merely hiding her control freak nature until she moved in -- hiding your negatives is easy to do if it's a long distance relationship. As for it being an excuse, no -- it is not an excuse for shitty, control-freak behavior. There are no excuses for treating someone else like shit.
The irony is that women want a financially responsible man but when he has actual good financial habits like buying a reasonable car, not eating at expensive restaurants, etc; it dries them right up!
@VINCENT C it would if someone was rich enough to do that without affecting their finances much
That is absolutely true. I am financially well off, pay for all dinners, all vacations, all drinks, etc.; the women I dated never paid for a thing. But I was constantly criticized for not buying an expensive car (I like practical cars that I can throw my training gear and mountain bike in; cars that can take fire roads and dirt roads where all the fun things are....) or buying a bigger house for myself (It is just me....one person.... I don't need a 4,000 square foot home that has unused furniture and echos when I get home at night after work.) If I were to get married and we needed more space, I would buy a bigger place, but to just do so for the sake of spending money is insane.
@@BurtonSKnowles Yea, I think it boils down to biological instincts and if a man comes across as cheap, it means he is less likely to be willing to share/spend resources on her. You can sort of get away with it by telling them that I save where I can so I can spend where I want. I may take you out to dinner with coupons but that is so I can go on my 5 cruises I have booked next year.
Basically what that kind of women wants is some sucker to fund their expensive lifestyle without any of the goodies in the bedroom. That is all it boils down to.
Yup, lol. I actually enjoy cooking (many women "apparently" find a man that cooks is hot- not sure if that is a reliable vector, though.)
Guys, remember this, 90% of women these day only want the top 10% of guys...
False. 100% of women only want the top 10% of wallets.
Top 1%
And those 10% of guys are always subjecting themselves to possible false accusations or threats of them if they don't comply with what a woman wants. Sex is used as bait to set the hook and reel them in. The devouring comes later.
99.999% of women these days only want the top 1% of guys.
There. I corrected it for you.
They want to make as much money as men but only want to hook up with men who make more money than they do. Nothing contradictory about any of this, right?
I remember the date that made me walk away. Setup on a blind date by a coworker (female). I was age 35, and was told my date was 30 something, ready to settle down, tired of games and wanted a serious relationship. Sounded fine. I called, offered to pick her up, but she insisted on meeting me there. OK. A couple minutes into the date, she told me she was leaving. She said, that if her choices, at this point, were a guy like me (meaning average looks, financially stable, emotionally mature, intelligent) or going to a sperm bank for children, she'd rather do the bank. I gave up after that. Now I'm 60 and never married, and looking at my divorced friends, happier for it.
Women know within 30 seconds if they would sleep with you. She didn't want to waste your time or hers--she was crass to explain it that way though. It's nobodies fault there was no chemistry.
What if you want kids
I recall a friend's wife trying to set me up with multiple single friends of hers (all rejects), including a newly divorced friend of hers (she was mid thirties, I was late 30s). She said this friend was looking to settle down (again). I told her I just down to bang. She left me alone after that.
@Lola Montez Your comments are well taken and might be true for many men. But not in my case. My point is, I'm responding to the video, this was the proverbial last straw, when I decided dating wasn't worth the effort. That was my tipping point, and that's what Joker is asking us. And I am happier for it.
@Lola Montez Man, what a laugh - only a woman could never consider the possibility that a man's happier on his own. 50 failed blind dates is 50 planned evenings wasted on some hapless individual too caught up in their own bullshit to give you the time of day. If there's only a *slight* chance any of them work and the prize is the companionship of someone who in all likelihood is probably awful, why would any self-respecting dude waste that much time when the prize isn't worth it? Love is a joke. Ditch the fairy-tale.
The moment I realized I was undatable was just after high school and I turned 18 and started going to clubs and bars and saw the huge disparity between the number of women and men in my town. I was 27 before I had my first serious relationship with a Thai girl who I met on a dating site and married. Two kids and 15 years later the only thing I wish was different is that I met her earlier.
Yes. International women are better. I am married to an Indian.
that's a great story. glad to see an actual happy marriage. those seem rare. (maybe people are terrible at choosing partners on qualities that matter)
@@lurklingX most men don't choose. It's not as though they have options lining up the street. For most they just get committed to any girl that shows any interest in them and think It's love. The one who can afford to choose are the physically attractive guys.
@@rosihantu1 100%.
Worse still, some of us never even get the scraps.
My lady is from Okinawa, Japan and granted 10 years my senior but she makes me happy and we spend time together and takes care of me while I win the bread for us.
"A girl would be so lucky to have you for a boyfriend!"
"Oh yeah....Well, you want to go out?"
"Oh god, no."
@Matt Pizzano Haha foreal. I passed by this chick one time, a little older, but very attractive, and I can tell she was feeling me, so I stopped and approached her, and we go to talking things went smooth little bit of flirting then I ask he out she goes well your very sweet and attractive but you remind me of my son..ugh my dick shriveled into my stomach
@rose I cant tell if your being genuine or sarcastic..
Keano Whitmore that last sentence got me 😂
She: You're such a great guy, why aren't you married?
Me: Well?
She: Well not with me!
Then she disappeared into the crowd. True story.
@Rick O'Shay I can't remember exactly. Outside at a fair or such.
"I'm not looking for a relationship."
Translation: "I find you about as attractive as a lugfish, but when you get super-rich, try again."
I'm 28, I have a good job, just by my job title alone there's all the hotties I knew back in high school that keep contacting me for you know what. Like clockwork. Of course I cut the conversation short immediately.
once had a classmate say to me "I'm not interested in a relationship right now, but there's this one guy I'm kinda looking into". I'm dead serious.
@@KingRandor82 I can well believe it, Your Majesty. Might I assume this classmate was of the female persuasion?
@@richardlbowles that she was! Interestingly enough, we still kinda became buddies to a degree after...but I also notice she's a bit on the weak-willed side anyway. I feel like I dodged a bullet there.
That just about sums up women now, they just want a meal ticket.
Grandma here. You're not going to find anything nice in a trashcan. tinder is a trashcan.
Haven’t found much better outside of that trash can. So... 🤷🏻♂️
@@Outlaw8908 give up
You never heard "one man's trash is another man's treasure"
@@crimsonghost2449 😆😆 lol!! I'm not sure if that philosophy is valid in the dating world but you make a good point!
You tell them Oma.
Worked as a RN for close to 30 years and retired at 56 in 2019. Had multiple relationships, two marriages and raised two step sons to adulthood before their Mom had an affair and left me. During my entire medical career it always seemed like money was tight whenever I became involved with a woman.
Vacations, eating out, in-law financial dramas, hospital visits, new wardrobes and a fresh car every 5+ years. Then the 2nd divorce happened and a year later I retired with a pension roughly 50% of my annual gross. But here is the kicker.
Everything is paid off, no debts, finally finished off the 65 Galaxie restoration, get up when I want, go wherever I want, rarely eat out, will talk to anybody, anytime without being chided and give back to my community via various volunteers organizations.
With all this going on and making 50% less income, I am STILL able to bank $2000+ a month? No interest in searching for the next female at this point and will now enjoy playing the role of prey instead of being a predator on the hunt. Life is awesome.
Women are like teenagers with credit cards. They don’t know how to stop spending
Never ever get married guys. If you want compassion, companionship, loyalty, love...buy a dog. There's a reason there called man's best friend.
Yes! Adopt a dog! It's a great thing to share love and care for a canine!
AND you can teach them the "Peanut Butter" trick......😂
Why are people saying this? I've been advised by a lot of women to never get married... Is love really dead? I've been waiting for true love my whole life. I don't care if it sounds silly, it's the truth. So why is this failing... and how to avoid it? It's so... well... heartbreaking.
@@catstrawford don't give up. A lot of the people here are a collection of hurting people in wrong relationships. This is not a place to look for hope, but just for those who need to vent their bad experiences with dating and marrying bad people. I feel bad for the men who were wrong by idiot women, and the reverse is true too. But at some point you need to stop blaming others and be accountable for your own behavior and move on with forgiveness. That way you don't carry a burden that you put on another person. I was single my whole life until I met my husband at 29, and so was he at 31. Maybe because we don't have emotional baggage and a laundry list of people we slept with and dated it made for a healthy marriage.
@@lisamendis5886 i appreciate where your coming from. but for the vast majority of men your situation is unattainable. you and your husband got lucky remember that.
I’m sure dozens of women told the boring nice guy to “just be yourself”
Because they're a great guy and they just want to see their FRIEND find the right girl.
@@MrCoincash Yup, they want him to be just how he is so they can have someone provide for them after she ran through 100 Chads.
@@jimjohnson394 it’s a way of brainwashing men to make things easier. If the simp decides to “just be himself” women will avoid him. An attractive man who is well off just being himself? Attracts women like flies to honey.
I'm not exactly boring, but I *am* Autistic; most gals prefer the *boring* ;)
Women never say what they mean, they speak in parables where the true meaning is between the lines.
It always amuses me how women always look to other people to bring them excitement. They are so damn boring.
No kidding man, probably the top 2 in my top 5 reasons why I dont date, the absolute madness that comes after engaging with a women. My brain cells start to die, and any hard on I had for the women slowly recedes into the abyss of my body. Having to constantly talk and talk, just to keep things going while, she sits there on her phone clearly wanting to be somewhere else. And you ask them so what you do, oh not much, nothing, I like to travel, I like to eat..🤦♂️
@@keanowhitmore8009 Of all the women I've dated, no matter how fun they were, they were never nearly as much fun as hanging out with my real homies.
Definitely! if a girl says I'm bored that's a huge red flag 🚩
Opening on dating app im bored swipe the fuck away from that
@@keanowhitmore8009 yeah, it's always shit like that with them. I like traveling, shopping, eating out. NONE of these are hobbies or interests. They all revolve around spending money, usually men's money. There is no skill or creativity involved with anything they are interested in.
@Andrew Battersby "because they have no imagination" someone should study why women lack imagination
Here is a secret to happiness. Stay single until you're happy being single (yep, overcome your addiction to the V they use to hold power over you). Don't waste any time or emotions on women who love social media and constant posts/pics about herself. When the great V is off the table, what else do they bring to it. Nothing? Tell them to kick bricks. Stop following them around like a puppy with your nose shoved up there. All you do is encourage their narcissistic magic princess complex. Show garbage the door. You're the great temple they wish they could worship at. Always stand with your shoulders back and tell them to "F" off with authority.
Well said.
I work in the bar industry. The girls I work with post pics of themselves on social media looking incredibly sexy. Always a party.. real life is a different story.. working with these chicks made me realize how miserable they are with relationships/ life in general. It's all a lie.
You're basically rolling out the red carpet for someone who hates you, what's the point?
Took me way to long to see it that way!
Women are gonna have to approach men and they don't like it. Not 95% of mens' problem anymore.
Lol you let her do her thing, she thinks you’re too soft. “His weak”.
You decide to lead and set her straight while maintaining boundaries... she thinks you’re controlling.
You say F it, I’m done with dating. Got no time for this nonsense. They think you’re gay.
Moral of the story is Just do you. People will always have their own opinion of you. Focus on yourself
@Focused on the Future I met Male narcissists and they are horrible persons. But yes, it seems narcissism is a rather female defect.
...self hatred?
The tipping point is that when you realize that the person you're with already has a few men waiting for her at her beckon call. As well as almost every w0men has a ridiculously high body count at the age of 20. Don't get me started on divorce courts cause that's a whole other problem on its own.
You simply can not trust them. EVER.
@@ConstantChinner That's the sad reality of it all
@Perverted Alchemist haha truth !! Approach a girl and one of the first things shes asking "are you single " , meanwhile shes already thinking about her next hit of attention from chad after you leave
Russian Bot kinda makes you envious though doesn't it? Not so hard to understand them. I'd love my own harem as well.
Guess the pendulum did swing. Idk how it will look like when it swings back again though... kinda curious now.
Joker: "If you're the guy that gets turned down on dating apps..."
Me: "So, 80% of guys on the apps?"
Even if they look really good at this point if the texts aren't new or interesting they are gone.
It's really like 10% of guys getting action. I get high marks with my photos on photofeeler, and I get matches but when I ask them out *silence*
@@jimraynor7788 I have gone a few dates and used photofeeler myself. It's all a big game. Gotta take photos that look interesting, good angles and poses or sometimes that look "natural". Then get them rated. Pic the best ones (whether it's from photofeeler or female friends). Then get the matches. Then be interesting or unique. Then take them to a good venue or offer an interesting experience. Rarely but sometimes you can get them to come straight over or go to their place. Every once and a while need new photos. It's a ton of effort for little roi. If it works out it's usually just a one night stand. All while women can take a selfie, and make no effort and get mad when men use selfies lol. It's getting harder and harder to get matches. Barely get any now that work out. Like maybe one a month that works out to an actually date.
I am being a little joking with the women taking just selfies as most now clearly have makeup and or filters and are trying to be "models"
Dating apps and websites are literally made for the top 1% Chads, you're insanely blue-pilled or masochistic if you go on there as an average guy. Real life isn't much better.
My lies are not even good enough for these broads on tinder anymore lol.
The tipping point for me was when my "Dream Girl" tried to manipulate and project her faults on me, and then feel sorry for herself when I wanted nothing more to do with her. She was a wise and virtuous young woman once, but then she became proud and lewd. My dreams of an eternity with her died; I chose her, I chose wrong, and I cannot offer my best to any other woman. I'm content to live the rest of my life making the best of it, contributing where I can, and avoiding unnecessary drama and stress.
I was married for 7 years; that has made me realize that I am so lucky to be unwanted and 'undatable'. I used to walk on eggshells, just waiting for the next 'explosion' to go off in my face. The marriage was hell because she was unhappy and blaming it all on me. I was never so happy to be divorced! Why would I want to go back to Hell again by getting into a new relationship?
once your walking on eggshells you know its over. The woman has to respect you or it's not going to work.
You start to make it sound like I'm married to my mom - I get the same experience with her xD
Sounds familiar. Walked on shells for 20 years. Wish I'd remained a despised incel. Human relationships are trash.
Hey did you marry my ex girlfriend ha ha sounds the same. Once she cheated I was so happy cuz I kicked her to the curb you can fuck me she says sorry it's not special if you let everyone have a turn you doorknob. An I was just happy she left everything was always all my fault and the constant nagging. You never listen to me why so you can claim everyone abuses you and your actually the abuser. No thanks never again agreed.
Sounds like a former girlfriend who was diagnosed as Bipolar and refused to take her meds.
"My ex was a legit criminal without any loyalty"
Sounds like a catch...
But she chose him anyway xD
I was just about to say. Maybe he IS her ex because he got busted dealing pills and is now serving a couple of years in the county lockup........ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
But he drove a GTR you see.
Operator X Not everybody drives. GTR. He must be a catch🤷🏾♂️
Would likely stand up, walk over to pay the check - and walk out of the door without another word.
I'm almost 40 now and full Monk, but before that, Dating was like a Rollercoaster. In my younger years, i was this very boring nice Guy. My Mom teached me to be a Gentleman. I got burned all the time. I turned into some really bitter Arsehole, who couldnt give two fucks what Women want or think. That was the time where i got LOTS of attention from Girls. I healed from my "Red Pill Rage" or whatever that was, but i had to keep playing the role to keep the Girls attention. I came to the conclusion, that it is way too much effort for this stuff. Now i'm just beeing myself. Girls are (in a romantic or sexual way) almost invisible to me. I was never more happy or relaxed in my life. Giving up on Dating is like giving up on some bad habit like Smoking or heavy drinking. It's hard at the beginning but you will feel so much better in the end.
@Blaster Master Kind of. My Dad was present, made sure we had Food but he was not really involved in the parenting. He just wanted to be alone all the time. Was kinda weird.
@Blaster Master Yeah...you could say that. To some degree at least.
I was raised the same way and went thru a similar exerience.
It seems to be a trend...
@@GamerMNE Sadly, yes
It happened at 19 for me. 25 now and still have days where I feel pretty damn lonely but I generally just try to do something physical and that takes my mind off it
You've had it easy, trust me. I 30M have dated and it's just not pleasant. It's incredibly hard to find someone not obese even if you're tall and working out.
Also, we haven't been divorce-graped.
@@alexvig2369It’s hard to find someone not obese and someone who doesn’t have children. LOTS of single mom’s out there.
@@timothyswauger3984 not in my country (not yet, at least). Maybe in America. I'm looking for a virgin anyway, so even if she doesn't have children that's not enough for me - which disqualifies 98% of women already even in my somewhat conservative country.
@@timothyswauger3984that's what killed it for me In my 20s I was always willing and ready but always found hogs and single moms "I was saving this cookie for you" gtfo!
@@alexvig2369its almost funny at this point. I'm conventionally attractive or at least so I'm told. 6ft, physically fit and approaching beach lean 31M and while I can typically do alright in the casual sex department, anything that resembles something longer than a fling is just a pipe dream. Women are awful people in my experience. I've been used, cheated on, treated poorly. I recently (this week) deleted all the apps, unfollowed about 200 Instagram accounts and decided I was opting out.
It's a shame, my parents had an amazing strong perfect marriage of 30 years. But I don't think that reflects reality these days. Young women are too immature to date seriously, older women are either ahead of me financially so it would never work, or I don't find them attractive. Or they cant bear children, so what's the point?
I'm 63yo and widowed 1.5 years. Tried dating.
1: find a woman I'd like to date-easy.
2: find out if they are available-time and effort.
3: introduce myself because asking cold doesn't work.
4:get told no without saying no. One had a boyfriend. One said she had a boyfriend. One said I'll get back to you and didn't. One said she was getting over a boyfriend who was bad for her from 5 years ago. Last one had to find herself.
5: done and out.
6: spend my time and money on hobbies and interests.
women wonder why they can't find anyone
I moved to a small town . Met a few women, all of them flirty, yet in a relationship or married, and all have school aged kids.
No thanks.
Looks my golf game is going to really start to improve.
Wait...what were the ages of these women 🤨
As someone a bit more than half your age, I have to agree.
For the asking cold bit, while the answer lies in a balance of "strike while the iron is still hot" along with learn to flirt, thing is if you don't have something she obviously wants* when you flirt, then it doesn't matter how soon or late you initiate because you will be rebuffed every time.
*(money and providership in overwhelming majority of cases, indicating she needs a sucker to pick up the tab OR social status because she's a social climber and you look like a solid stepping stone)
For the getting told no without saying no, I've often heard rationalizing that basically "but I'll get beat and murdered if I say it directly". IMO this speaks more to shamelessly lying and never admitting they're really after something else. The mind games are the worst part of it.
For initial asking-out often times even if you think you've done it right and they say yes initially, they will come back later and say no, having changed their mind. Usually followed up with either some version of "I still care for him blahblahblah" or trying to flip it around to blame it on you for "coming on too strong" and they were "caught off guard" or "taken aback". Whatever the story, the point is "this is why NOT you".
I can at least respect someone who kicks you to the curb and wants nothing further to do with you. Unfortunately the majority will still try to stick to you and see if they can get something else out of it.
When they want to be friends I just say "I'll think about it" and walk away giving an easy-out to end it. If she pursues it (which some stupidly do), I'll just tell 'em "Nah, I don't want to be friends with somebody I have nothing in common with who makes everything my fault". (because that's exactly what it is and that's exactly what she did) Most the time they let well enough alone.
#2 is the worst, especially when you first meet them. It's easy to talk to a girl and get her number. But texting and communication is absolute trash. 9 out of 10 times you pick a time and place and they say they're busy or can't make it. But they never respond with a better time or day. I give a girl 2 chances. A few days or a week goes by and I'll invite her out 1 more time and if she again can't make it? over, blocked, number deleted
I'll never understand why they have to waste so much time. They shouldn't talk to the guy and take his number if they're not interested. Guess it really does come down to that attention they crave. You're just 1 of 20 guys she's talking to and when she's short with you let's you know that you're not in the top 5
I had this "moment I realized I was undatable" when I was in the 4th grade - around 10 years old. I remember it vividly and where I was standing and how it made me feel. Back during that age, we would give girls notes that said: "I like you. Do you like me? Yes or No. Circle one." I was not the only one - all the guys did it. All the girls I gave that kind of note to either circled "NO" or did not return the note. I would go through the scenarios as to why girls turned me down but not my friends. Then one day as the class was walking in single file between classrooms I was thinking through this issue and it came to me. The only possible solution. I was ugly. It made me sad and relieved at the same time. But I dismissed the feeling because people would always say "looks do not matter." The biggest lie told to kids growing up. I was about 20 years old when I finally realized that I had been right all those years ago. I got over it but what I realized after becoming an engineer and lawyer, I was not going to give the women who were uninterested in my youth a chance to share in my success. And I had plenty of chances. But I refused to let women make me pay through the nose for something now less valuable than what they gave away to others for free. But I still went out of my way to be nice to females over the years.
SE Asia beckons you.
VERY well said!!!👍
You were good up until the end. C'mon man, there are still good women.
In jokers story that guy should have said to her "but you are the ugliest of all inside"
@@ChurlzVA I agree that's true. The problem is when you're undatable, you are invisible to these women. Basically they ignore your @$$ or friend zone you and that's all she wrote.
It’s too much work. It’s too many mind games. It’s too much dishonesty.
It’s just not worth it.
Exactly
This is crude - but I have my morning wank and then blissfully don't think about women the rest of the day. I'm that done with women. It sounds loser talk to admit what I just said, but I've had opportunities to 'date' but I just can't bring myself to do it anymore; it's a truly horrible, awful, time-wasting exercise.
@@MattExzy yes I know what you mean, iv had opportunities to date but after a while there's just so many times you can play the same shitty game with these females, that's rigged against you ( and this coming from someone who has had some success in sleeping with them). I'm to a point where my biology craves them but I don't, it's a messed up clash within me
@@MattExzy and yes for me 7 times out of ten it's a truly awful horrible time and money wasting experience, dating and courting them. Now, if I see they either won't put out or start playing their toxic little games with me, I'm out.
100% agree
Years ago I was on one of of the first dating sites. I had just put up my listing a couple days before and woke up sick one day and left for work at about 10 am. Before I did I sent a short introductory message to a woman that was sort of nearby and looked kind of interesting. I basically wrote that I liked what she had written in her description of herself. When I got home from work (no smart phone back then), I had three messages from her. The first one thanked me for my message. The second one said she was not sure she was comfortable interacting since I had not posted a photo of myself (I was waiting to get a good one). The third one said "Obviously this does not mean anything to you!". We had gone through an entire relationship and broke up and I wasn't even there! I thanked my lucky stars.
I'm undateable... Disabled from breaking my back. Drunk driver took me out. Women want a atm and I'm barely getting by on disability.
Jesus that is so freaken despicable behaviour.
I bear a resemblance to this remark. Less severely disabled (TS/ADD) but that being said, if you're noticeably different, it throws a monkey wrench into something that's already complicated. This throws the need to pick and choose your battles into sharper relief. I finished a BA debt free and I've always worked. I haven't set the world on fire, but I've done ok.
@@gitfiddlio when most women my age see i walk with a cane it really just kills all chances I would have had. At this point I just make sure my life is fulfilling and I am content. Im lucky that I have fun hobbies that I can still enjoy even if they are painful sometimes. Since breaking my spine in a few spots its pretty much constant pain. It could be worse, I'm grateful for what I have. Could be a lot worse...
@@joshp2542 really sorry to hear about your situation. I hope that within the next 10 years, medical technology will become so advanced that you will be able to walk like you did before the injury. Stay strong, man. Hang in there.
Yeah I am 6'6 but mentally ill since about age 8. I think I will just buy a love doll later in my life for companionship that resembles a woman. I could take meds but they have too severe side effects.
"I've got a boyfriend."
"I didn't ask about your personal problems."
😆
That line was the best
I saw this in the first minute of the video and I was just dying to know the context of it
😆👍
My buddy had his wife help him out up a lift in his garage one Valentine's Day. I asked her about it and she said she enjoyed doing it. She was sincere. There are good women out there.
Destructively brutal line :- ))))))))))
BlackManOps yes but it’s getting more and more rare.
I gave up on dating a long time ago. Dates and relationships are just not worth it.
you arent missing much. its not worth it anymore. just live life for you man. better to remain single
It's overrated. Just like most other things in society
Just back fron Tijuana, sex cost only $20/15min .
@@Bekssss it is not real sex experience though. Bareback sex is real sex. The rest is just cheap masturbation wearing a condom inside a human hole experience. Sorry for breaking it up to you.
@@joshua50101 😂😂😂
15 years with my wife and 2 kids. She kicked me to the streets. Said I was “Toxic” but couldn’t tell me why. Said I was “controlling” but couldn’t say how. I asked her “What my rules in the home?” She couldn’t answer. Yes, I’m the Toxic one? Really, she kick the father out and our children are suffering. Who’s is really the toxic person…
@@kuyajohnny8506 my ex didn't give a sh*t about our kid's needs for both parents either, she tried to both while we were still married. She could always do it better (in her mind only) they're suffering for it now, not her.
The attitude of these women is so incredibly repulsive. They are doing men a favor exposing their darkness and coldness of heart. I wish I had a Mazda!
@Cody Levinson I'm betting you will never forget the look on her face as long as you live.
I wish i had a Mazda too...specifically the CX-5, it handles, drives and lasts like a car that costs way more.
@Cody Levinson Great Job Bro! You did very well with this one. I'm sure she was exploding on the inside.
@@keithstewart934 I'm driving a 6 year old VW Golf 7 with the smallest Motor i could get. I only need to drive 15 minutes to work, so i dont need anything bigger. Some of my Coworkers ask me on a regular Basis why i dont get a better Car, cause "we can afford it". But one older coworker i had, who is retired now, always told me "I dont need a Car for the Neighbours to look at, i just need one that fits my needs" and right he was. The Golf was pretty cheap, is reliable and dont uses much Gas. That's all i need. I can safe my Money for an early retirement instead of spending on some shit i don't want or need.
Zoom Zoom - chiming in for rag top Miata lust. fun car.
bought a motorbike, never looked back. Motorbike comes first, women second. Puts things into the correct perspective.
@Nóra Jánosi Get a motorbike. I'm not trying to be misogynistic, motorbikes just really are that good.
I like your way of thinking!
As someone who owns street and dirt bikes, I can confirm, this is the correct way to live. Last year I went to the tail of the dragon. While there I thought, if I was dating, would they let me leave for a few days and race a dangerous road. The answer is probably no.
LOL sure dude i bet they are really banging down your door to get in
As someone who works in the ER, I fear for you safety. Most of the trauma patients come from 2-wheel vehicle accidents. They're death machines.
i don't know why men go on dating apps, it's like going into a snake pit hoping to find compassion
same for women. Snake pit all the way....
Is compassion located in the back of her throat? Not sure thats why people go on tindrr
@@fallacy4348 i think you need to pay for compassion nowadays
... and being expected to pay for the privilege. The dating apps are a money pit for guys who want to communicate and are designed that way.
@@britishbulldogsvsthehartfo5677 yea, it's called paying for therapy. Sometimes it's payment to a therapist or psychologist, sometimes it's payment to an escort, but it all ends up costing.
There was a time when I was sad and depressed at the knowledge of being undatable, unwanted, undesired. But now, I see those three things as what ultimately saved me in the end.
When I look back at my life, those times when I was sad and depressed led to times of being happy and content.
I realized that it wasn't actually that, it was a mix of going outside, excercise, noise and stress reduction and not living paycheck to paycheck. Having 1 friend who's well connected helps too. I talk (actual talk in person, not just hello) to a fam member or friend once a week, that's more than enough. Anything beyond that is a hassle and requires a reward. Texting is a different story.
Women: Just be yourself
Also women: You have to be this tall, this big, have this car, this job, trigger this feeling...
as if men don't care about looks. Just listen to the video - guy is commenting on the financial situation of the woman. Ah, the double standards..
@@electricityofmind6300
Where in my comment did I mention men not caring about looks? Did you notice the complete disconnect in your own comment? You complain about men caring about looks and use the guy in the video( who comments on the financial) as an example.
It's not a double standard what haunts you, it's illiteracy and poor reading/listening comprehension. Same goes for the poor soul who liked your comment.
yep
@@EnLaMatrix1 @ Matrix: Sometimes I see slim, tall Millennial men hooked up with thunder - thighs, land whale women. It is a confusing and scary sight.
Women: "Be real" false eyelashes, boob job, collagen lips, makeup, spanx, dyed hair, high heels.....
I’m 55 years old I have full custody of my son , I have my six guitars and I play my Beatles Albums and I come home to a peaceful house! Never getting married again to much heartache! I’m more happier
Hell yeah, are you listening to them on vinyl?
Awesome man!
Let it be
Working on divorce, child custody right now. I have physical for the time being. She walked off 4 years ago. Had to lower work hours to keep up with raising kids. Had more resources after she left even with the hit in work schedule. Court coming up soon for child support from her, but how to get that from a jobless parent.
Me too but play my drums...
Women believe 80% of women are above average in attractiveness, and 80% of men are below average in attractiveness...! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
MrBisketTV Tell them to try without makeup lmao. Most of them are fucking troglodytes without tons of fakeness on their faces.
@@nihilism6226 fake up, push up bras, "body contouring"( fat compression) garments, fake nails, dyed hair, filtered selfies... But they want a "real man" ... Counterfeit female demands an authentic male...
Yet they get plastic surgery, wear fake up, butt or breast implants/injections, ugly eye lashes and stupidly long nails. All this to hopefully increase her attractiveness levels. if that cant help them out, shall we bring up ... Catfish lol. All manipulative tactics when you think about it
@Officer Murphy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
They're called 49ers. A 4 who thinks she's a 9. America is littered with them.
I have finally accepted that I'm not going to ever meet the unrealistic expectations of today's women and I'm ok with that. While I miss the companionship I don't miss the bs. Thanks for your videos
@Stevo same here! The juice isn't worth the squeeze.....
@Stevo that they do. I thought the same thing too..... now i can't see entering a contract that the other party is incentivized to break. Time for men to go their own way
@stevo6891welcome to my world and then they have the audacity along with brass neck to cry, beg, plead, and complain as to why they can't find a good guy or better yet no guy GTFOH she fails you bought it upon yourselves and us guy's blessing is watching their reality come crashing down upon their heads as a punishment/consequence!! 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁
For me, it was realizing that no matter how much I tried to improve myself, there will always be someone who will be better than me and she will eventually leave me for them. So I decided that It's better to test drive rather than paying full price.
You got it. They are ALWAYS looking for the better, bigger deal. NO MAN is safe.
@@ConstantChinner If Steph Curry and Will Smith aren't safe, no mere average man is.
@@rippedreaper7279 You got it my ripped friend! And same with Channing Tatum, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp etc
@@zestrokeshehe You are sad at the fact that I figured out how women operate 😂
@Mr. Green it's okay to be jealous.
For me when I realized I was not going to get a girlfriend, was probably around 2002. After getting stood up, or rejected multiple times, I just gave up. Actually feel better since. Once I turned 35, that was when I accepted that I was going to be alone. Don't have to worry about trying to make someone happy, when nothing I do will make them happy... for long. Just focus on your own life and things will work out.
Cheers to that brother. The world is your oyster.
Bravo I'm 50 and I've never look back cheers mate
Solitude is not loneliness. Peace brother.
A dog will love you more than a woman ever can and their shit tests are relatively easy to pass.
I'm 25 and considering that approach. I haven't had a complete lack of luck with women - have had a number of really nice experiences. But one really bad breakup that took me years to recover from, and watching my Dad's life fall apart after his divorce (which he wasn't guilt-free in - but still) has left me pretty iffy about relationships in general.
For years I've wanted to meet somebody genuine but it's just a waste of time. I'm not perfect at all, and I'm definitely not the best looking guy of the bunch - but I'm not the worst either. I play 4 instruments, work in engineering, have a math degree, and generally consider myself a decently fun person to be around. But trying to meet women in their 20s is just an absolute waste of time. Especially nowadays. I really want to state clearly that I'm really glad that female empowerment has become a thing and some of the misogynistic norms in our society has been reversed - but much of it now is people blowing smoke up each other's asses and acting like everything done in the name of empowerment is a good thing by default.
I'm pretty close with my sister and she's legitimately a fantastic person. Generous, intelligent, funny, etc. But it took listening to her complaining about her 'dating problems' (i.e. her being unable to choose which one of the multiple guys into her at the time she should go with) to make me realise that women just don't get it - and not of spite. They literally just think dating is exactly the same for women as it is for men.
As I saw it put in another comment: 'dating for women is like shopping - dating for men is like job hunting'. Except that in a job interview you can use your experience, portfolio etc. to be in with a shot. In the dating world, it's good looks, psychological and social hacking skills, and $$$$$ (which is hard to come by early in life) that count. I dunno man I'm just tired of this shit, all I want is somebody to work together with in life. Literally a life partner, it's not like I'm looking for a ye olde style housewife or sex doll or something. Tired.
When she’s upset you didn’t break the law you know she’s destructive
Sooo boring not killing people in traffic lol.
He dodged a bullet
if she needs the excitement of breaking the speed limit and dealing drugs then she probably doesn't have a lot going on in her life.
@@firehandszarb
He is driving a Mazda not a Ferrari. That is her problem
@@leesullivan8532 The guy she liked was going fast but going nowhere. If that guy was so great why is she no longer with him?
As a female I feel sorry for men… I’m on the inside and the woman are brutal.. 44 years married and I am grateful for every single day that I have with my super hero husband and dad to are children 😊
Im happy for you. there are less and less men and women who want to work on the relationship.
too much selfishness and broken society today
I went from “I hope they like me” to “I hope I like them” and that’s when I realized how few dateable people there really are.
Same here. I'm 35 and have realized that in this past year. It's a better mindset for sure. I feel less neurotic when I view myself as a prize vs worrying about what women think
this comment is underrated
how about I hope I like her AND she likes me too.
@@ScottH7651 let her worry about that.
@@treepocolypse what’s funny is, you don’t realize She worries about exactly the same, till She gives up on Men and stops dating.
I'd hate to be younger nowadays and contemplating/trying dating. I'm 56, divorced and have NO intention of going back into the world of dating (not that I understand how any of it really works). I tried it about 5 - 6 years ago. It was exhausting and demoralising. I quickly realised that even though I have a professional career, a home, interests, hobbies, etc, none of that would cut any ice with women my own age (let alone younger!). As an introvert personality you realise that most women, or at least the ones on dating sites/apps, are complete opposites and you are 'undateable'. I don't buy the opposites attract nonsense anymore.
@@NerdlySquared made me laugh. The extroverted muffin stuff i mean. I'm gonna steal that... :)
if you go for the introvert, you'll never notice her. she'll hardly talk to you or do stuff with you.
she'll want you to keep her entertaining while not expressing any emotions.
after a while you'll realise the paint on the wall has more expressions and is more interesting than her.
I'm a homebody and I'm with someone who is also a homebody. Opposites attract only in the short term. It's nice to have some differences, but only in ways that compliment each other.
Got divorced in 1994 (mid 40's). So... I had the career without the home or money (and it took 10 YEARS to recover financially - hear that young men???). Went to a couple of 'single dances' in the beginning. Asked this one woman to dance, and afterwards sat down to talk. As soon as she found out I was divorced, she wasn't interested. She said she was single, never married, and was looking for the same in a man. No excuses, that was it. I told her I wouldn't be interested in her either, and of course she was instantly put off and pissed off. I couldn't be... but SHE could. I told her good luck finding and keeping a man because, at 38 years old... she's never had to settle, she's never had to compromise, she's never had to even think about what someone else might want or need. As far as I was concerned, she had as much or more 'baggage' as the ones that were divorced with a kid or two looking for a live-in sugar daddy and replacement father. Even back then 25+ years ago, women had more 'standards' and expectations than they could cash. Would love to have someone to travel with (34' motorhome with solar so I can 'rough' it in comfort out west and a Jimmy 4x4 TOAD behind it to go out on the trails) but I'm at the point now where that woman was back then. I'm not going to settle or compromise or risk losing what I have to live with a self centered bit... to have female 'companionship'.
I’m 18 and dude the shit I’ve been through with women is insane. They’re so fucking heartless it’s ridiculous. I lucked out with my current girlfriend but fuckin hell, the bullshit I’ve gotten just from me being 5’1 alone is pathetic.
Got divorced 15 years ago, and realized that dating is a dead end in this country for men.
Saved all my money (Did not spend a dime on the bitches). Just retired early at 58, liquated my belongings,
and now moving to the Philippines. $1200 a week income sent to my mail box
no matter where I live. it can be done just stay focused.
yeah, Ive seen those vids...tall white older men with young dark, tiny women walking down the street, you will be one of those guys. Might be fun.
Yeah I met a lot of guys like that while i was in Asia, they are definitely happier than they would be in america.
Boss Level moves
From what I've heard of PI you'll live like a king there!
SE Asia and Latin America still offer value and are worth spending time with. Too bad American women lost that decades ago. I think every man should experience those regions of the world at least once.
I hate it when things are expected of me, but I can't expect anything from her.
That's when I realized I couldn't date anymore.
God, I don't miss being married. I'm perfectly capable of making myself miserable, I don't need help.....
Your name is so nearly Ted!
Preach
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ouch, me too.
Hope ur doing better but that def gave me a laugh. Cheers
The woman who sent that message on tinder in 10 years:
I can't find men who want to date men ,and it's MENS fault.
The irony is she'll still have 100s of thirsty dudes hitting her up on social media.
But for now she is having loads of fun. That is all that matters.
@@RoopaDudleyPaintings Oh, she's having loads, alright...
@@neilpeartspurplenose8739 That is right. Deal with it.
@@RoopaDudleyPaintings Deal with what? Std's? That's alright honey, I'll pass. Nasty ass skanks, yeesh.
"Please tell your mom to stop calling me." Made me smile.
Hahaha,... made me laugh
Lmao
@@lloydkeith3061 Same.
That was so unexpected =)
@@dulabu3304 Yep. That is why it was so funny in my opinion.
My tipping point was when my first girlfriend introduced me to the world of dating by cheating on me after 2 months. She was incredibly guilty afterwards, but in the meantime she made no attempt to get us back together. She just wanted us to talk as "friends", because she had the emotional attachment, but apparently I wasn't goodlooking enough to continue in a relationship. Sums up the whole thing how no amount of emotion or intelligence or partnership a guy can offer is enough for women, if the dude is not handsome.
Yeah, modern day 'dating' depends so much on the superficial, with looks being 90% of it probably.
so... you get into one serious relationship, get yourself burned a bit. then, you act as if you've lived trough, half a lifetime of relationships and hardships?
listen here man. you will get hurt every now and then, but you need to get out there and go get some more... do you really wanna sit around as a old stud and wonder? what it could have been like to get some love and affection ?
@@wayofthewicked Yeah I tried many times, and all of them ultimately failed but for different reasons, however I was never guilty.
Yeah, Tom Brady wasn’t handsome enough or Brad Pitt? Nope, women leave when their narcissistic neurotic needs aren’t met.
I am dateable! Its the women that are undateable.
That made me laugh
david your soo fucking right
All of them ? lol yeah keep telling yourself that lol
Pretty much it, isn't it ? I've had a whole number of discussions and fights with many of my girlfriends. Some get it, some don't. Their number One enemy is their own inflated ego, unrealistic idea about themselves and the world around them. They live, breathe and preach the feminist narrative. Reality shows them otherwise, but they keep going. Until it's too late.
@TheyCallMe Doug It's called let them think they're in charge and be fake until you reverse the situation. Keeping women in check, what a disturbing way to describe a holy unit between two people that should be based on love and respect.
Being falsely accuse, did it for me, I was 19 on duty at the company commander’s, desk, in front of at least 7 other people, never talk to her, and still got accused of harassment! I promised to never do anything, or ever help for any of the fefails! They lie as if it were the only way live life!
Shit, brother. Hope things got better for you.
relatable brother, had my career almost destroyed by them.
Had a guy from my ship get accused of r--- it took the 6 of us saying that he was ashore at the bar with us, a credit card receipt of his for that night and security camera footage from the bar and testimony from the bar staff to get him out of the brig. Then she started complaining that all of us avoided dealing with her afterwards. When she transferred, no one said good bye to her.
@@eds946 horror story. Horrible. Pence rule.
It did not help that the company commander was a female too, I swear she believed that broad, she said it was because she was pregnant, it was the reason she accused me, At the time I was having a conversation with a Staff Sargent sitting on the edge of the desk, at the very moment and yes their was cameras too!
To this day I keep cameras running around me, in my car, in and around my home, and at work too!
49, 6'2", great physical shape, decent career.
I'm not opposed to dating, but women in my general age range and attractiveness are absolutely mental. 40 Yo chicks with good genes that exercise regularly seem to think they deserve a man who has amassed a life time's fortune for the sole purpose of taking them traveling around the world. I wouldn't say I am undateable, but I am unashamedly me and refuse to compromise anymore. Same net result, and I dont really care.
Hallelujah brother!!!
Amen the real coo-coos. I met a 46 yr old with a 5 yr old who wanted to be "traveled" GTFOH you have everything against you. When I saw a pic of her 22 yr old daughter I lost all interest. Rather have the daughter.
40 and want to travel the world? Bed would be a dealbreaker to me. If you can't no abu dhabi, singapure, morroco or whatever can made up for it.
Find a woman from abroad. If it wasn't for already finding the woman for me, I would never date another Western girl ever again.
@@wheeliebin18 Go to Thailand. The women are gorgeous and love white men.
5’2, shy, awkward, and introverted. I’ve had a few dates from online dating but didn’t particularly find my dates attractive. None of them really embraced their femininity but nonetheless, I dated them because they were the only ones to actually respond to my messages etc. Realized I’m quite unattractive since those type of girls were all I could get. Would rather be alone than with someone I’m not fully attracted to which will only cause resentment. Cue The Car’s 1981 song: I’m Not The One 🎶
I’m 5’3” bro. It was over for us from the get go.
I'm in a similar situation, except I'm 6ft. Don't feel shy at all but yeah I'm an introvert and whilst I've been on dates and wouldn't mind more it's also hard to imagine actually being with someone all the time. I think I'd feel imprisoned. I don't want to justify hobbies, where I spend my free time on, etc. I don't want a woman who invites her female friends gang over etc. Just not interested at all in any of that as an introvert. So I ask myself, is it really worth it? I'm not sure, I think us introverted men are perhaps better of focussing on hobbies and tranquillity.
same 😂😂😂 @@Josh-fp2qn
if a girl is looking for excitement , she is not looking for a relationship shes looking for an emotion - stay away.
Every woman looking for emotion in relationship other than gold diggers
Depends on what you mean by excitement? Believe it or not, there are women out there who don't ask for much. A simple date night planned or a surprise night out together every once in awhile will do for some. Or simply show interest in taking her out and showing her off is nice. Don't expect women to get all "excited" for you when all you do is play video games all day and spend your money on pot every week. Talk about a romance killer. Keeping the romance alive is important in a relationship. Especially, long term relationships. And you wonder why she went off and cheated.. Boohoo.
@@MB-wx2jp romance is not love
@nick biller. Love and romance are both feelings that can be experienced in the same setting.
@@MB-wx2jp romance is an ideal, love is an emotion
Wow. The entitlement and arrogance from these women is incredible.
It makes me absolutely sick
Yeah, it is, and it's just women for the most part. But what's really sad is that so many men act similar, as if they're owed something by life or the world in general. It's not just women who act like this, but even the majority of men who try desperately to make things work, and then act shocked that nature doesn't work out the way they expect it. Avoid women and don't have expectations from anyone--easier to not be disappointed.
@@rikk319 You got that right Bro. The world is full of whiny, loser "Nice Guys" who wanna believe that bein a "Good Guy" should entitle them to a GF, and a ticket into a Girl's panties
Being told your undateable in this climate is a medal of honour.
That was great! I needed a laugh!
Wow, I have a crapload of those then
I got 3 up and 3 down, with a medal v for valor
Even if you are dateable, most dates are just going to be a waste of time
Always had a hard time with the ladies. Always tried to be nice. After several highly disappointing relationships I decided to work on myself, improve my SMV. Fast forward a couple years and I realized how much I appreciate being the sole arbiter of my destiny.
But what really sealed the deal was when I noticed a sudden increase in female attention. NOT when I massively improved my mental wellbeing and monetary situation, but when I started treating them as though I had better things to do with my time. Isn't that a revealing observation...
Did you get in great shape? Weight loss etc?
@@bedadays1763 I never had a problem with that anyway since I've had very physical jobs.
Maybe the fact you got to chase a woman, pay for everything, plan surprise trips, be romantic, put up with her mood swings , insecurities, jealousy, and still bend down on one knee to marry. This is without kids and bills involved. Bruh this shit really stressful now that I’m typing lol.
It’s pathetic knowing there’s simps out there that don’t see a problem with any of that
Oh no, even if she does, trust me on that, she will get bored of your attractiveness soon enough too, like all the rest.
@himode In the beginning, let's say first 2/3 months, then the requests will come. I know, I am 6"2, workout everyday, big green eyes. It's not enough mate nowadays, it's not enough.
@himode You're perfectly right and between us, it's exactly what women do, without any kind of remorse.
@@daze507 +1.
Social media and "dopamine addiction" broke women.
I had a beautiful wife I loved but who never loved me. I had 2 beautiful daughters, co-owner of a successful but tough family business, big house, status, influence, everything. So you would think from the outside. I’d still be trapped in a loveless marriage if she hadn’t had an affair. That was 15 yrs ago and she’s going through her second divorce & working her ass off. I divorced her, sold the business, moved to a different town. I haven’t done online dating for years and I’ve given up on dating, period. The only women I’m remotely interested in don’t give me the time of day because they don’t date either. They’re sharp, focused & great women, but they don’t wanna give up their freedom any more than we do.
It is what it is.
wow what a story--you survived, congrats
The great single women I know in their 40s are focused on their careers and their kids and don’t date. Post menopausal 50-somethings aren’t interested in starting over either, unless they’re desperate. My last relationship turned out to be a 50-something narcissist who wound up seducing & marrying her recently deceased sisters rich husband. I’m out, done.
Sometimes I think the old 'backwards' way of doing things came about because they had been through some sort of process like the one that seems to be unfolding in the West now where the homebuilding & childbearding contract between the genders has been fully and completely shredded to bits (disclaimer: I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing - but as you say, it is what it is).
Really makes me wonder how things are going to turn out. As a 25-year old guy... it's not looking great. I'm taking the comments in this video to heart.
not true. either they dont want to date you or you are too much of a wussie to do s/t about it. hate to break the news to you - but those classy women you idolize are getting it hard from s/o that you probably know. that's how they want it. You sound like a NG (nice guy). too bad you're your own worst enemy.
Women are pretty much 'unhappy' and they bring you down. I'm not perfect and make mistakes but when alone I don't notice them.
Amen
Words of wisdom from an old family friend (the guy you grow up calling uncle even though he isn't) I've never forgotten: "If it floats, fucks or flies it's going to be trouble long term and you're better off renting"
Wow so true