How do I Forgive Myself For Not Being Present? Q&A Eckhart Tolle
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ย. 2024
- "We cannot act beyond our level of consciousness." In this video, Eckhart answers a question and talks about consciousness, parenting, and the importance of pursuing the estate of presence.
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“Forgive yourself for not being at peace. The moment you completely accept your non-peace, your non-peace becomes transmuted into peace.“ -ECKHART TOLLE💜
so true
Thanks
I love this so much 🙏🏻 ❤️
I adore when Eckhart chuckles to himself. It's a very child-like expression that accompanies it. People that make rude comments about his physical appearance are missing out on so much. He is sharing so much wisdom, calmly and sensibly. It's refreshing to be spiritually fed without someone shouting from the pulpit to come up and get on my knees to beg forgiveness every Sunday, to rinse and repeat. Thank you Mr. Tolle
Love listening and watching to his videos, seem to be just what I need in that moment! He is an amazing person 💗☮️
❤️❤️❤️ I totally agree. I also love that as popular as he is he still lives a very humble and simple life.
Oh my goodness how petty about commenting about his appearance! He is such a joyful and helpful person to watch.
I'm a straight male and I think Eckhart is straight up adorable.
@@ericvutran4140 yes! ❤️☺️
I've made forgiveness a daily practise where I journal what I forgive myself for each day . ♥️🙏🏼 It's wonderfully uplifting
I like this idea. Thank you for sharing
Can you forgive others like this way?
@@satoriubermensch4933 hey, yes, i actually write two lists: what do i forgive myself for? Who do i forgive today? With others, sometimes it takes multiple times. But i have a deeper process i also do when it comes to forgiving others.
@@AnisQiz Thanks for your response Anis ;)
I do the same at night when I journal before bed, helps me unpack the day, put it to rest. I might add I also make sure to include gratitude, all the things I'm grateful for, even the smallest things.
Real forgiveness always means that there is nothing to forgive.
You just drop the judgment.
Perfect
YES Neutrality 💛
5 things to quit right now:
1. Overthinking
2. Trying to make everyone happy
3. Living in the past
4. Worrying
5. Doubting yourself
Absolutely...
Easier said than done , if your a worrier its part of your nature and its very difficult not to worry , even though you know it makes no sense. ( yes I speak from personal experience ) .
@@bruceshaw2402 Yep, right there with ya Bruce, boats against the current. Stay strong, visit my lil channel here you get time friend.
If you can stop do so.
If you can't stop go at max speed.
Infinite speed is standing still.
It is general relativity applied
Or psychic judo 😋
Do you practice awareness,i mean deep awareness??
Remember you don’t have a soul. You ARE a soul, and you have a body. 😌
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Also “you” are not the mind 👁
I am not my soul, i am the conscience!
@@user-qo2ri9jy1p Same thing.
@@user-qo2ri9jy1p soul and consciousness is the same thing
Compassion for yourself is key.. you are always doing the best you can with the tools & perception you have right now.
you can't go in without forgiveness
Thanks for sharing your takeaways!
“The present moment is life itself. Yet, people live as if the opposite were true and treat the present moment as a stepping stone to the next moment - a means to an end. It is through gratitude for the present moment that the spiritual dimension of life opens up.” -ECKHART 💜
Sometimes what you're most afraid of doing is the one thing that will set you free🙏🏽💙💫
It can really help to treat yourself like you would treat a baby or a pet or anyone you have compassion for. Most people wouldn't be too negative about them not being present 🙏
"Forgive them, for they know not what they do"
@ThatOneGirl Forgive me, I know what I did but I ain't sorry 😆
Great words shared!
The principal injustice we can do to ourselves is judging our “me” from the past with the informations that I have now... and it is for everything, not just presence.
I write this under a lot of videos but once again, thank you to Eckhart for steering me on to the right path. ❤
Because of you Eckhart l am in my now..
Started a youtube channel..
Learning new things and taking care of myself..
Because of you..l know how to honour and take care of my present..
I learnt a lot of things from you and l am using those to improve myself..
7:30 Don’t misconstrue an unconscious act as an permanent identity.
You are not who you were yesterday, and neither is anyone else.
Thank you 😊 💓
Thank you
Forgiveness is always key and being present.
I practice self compassion. This helps me to be more compassionate towards others.
The way he talks about bring in a dream like state in his 20s. Eckhart I am there. I have been asleep for so long and have hurt my friend because of my careless non present behaviour but idk how to forgive myself because I feel guilty
Thanks for sharing about your parents. My childhood was chaotic also.
I agree. Very special and generous for Eckhart to share about himself
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Thank you so much. When I heard you saying "no one is able to act above their level of consciousness" instantly reminded me of Kim Eng's "everyone loves at their own level of consciousness", which had been such a revelation for me then. What a remarkable couple you are: living examples at their best. Thank you both for your being and work 🙏🧡
Eckhart is the Gandalf of our time
Whoever is reading this may all your dreams come true 🤗
I am now trying to be present but failing so many times , this is the video I needed .😭🙏
I'm on the same boat 😞
Ditto.
We are all in this with you...let's keep swimming 🐠
You're not failing. You're practicing and you'll keep getting better. It's a process that keeps getting easier ❤
This is the type of video I’ve been always looking for♥️
I absolutely needed that! I've been struggling so much with my parenting mistakes and have found myself in a full on cycle about it for the last couple weeks. I just did a long and moving guided meditation for unconditional love then came out to this. That's a blessing. Thank you. 😊❤
This is what I’ve been working on- thank you! Gotta forgive myself for having a bad dream when all I wanted was a present moment.... so I don’t mess up this present moment😂
Awareness of unawareness is awareness, just carry on and don't let the mind beat you up.
"Grievance can stop the arising of presence in you."
"Whatever somebody else did to you, they acted out of their level of unconsciousness."
"Many things you need to overlook in other person because every person has his/her unconsciousness that occasionally manifests."
"To forgive in a present situation means to overlook."
"Focus on the being of a person rather than on the faults which are unconsciousness."
"If you see a fault, don't dwell on it."
Many thanks.
"Whatever somebody did to you... they acted out of their level of unconsciousness"
Sticking to grievances can prevent you from being aware.
Reminder to self --> Tell this to family and friends who may need it.
Especially to those who say Forgive me, but I ain't sorry for those bad things I did to you. Now, get over it... ? Maybe those are the exceptions lol:)
Everything was necessary, for you to be present, here and now, my friend.
This is precisely what I needed to hear today. Thank you.
I will become a very conscious parent thanks to your teachings. I think this is the best gift I will give to my children. I couldn't possibly give what I don't have.
I have just found him .I am so grateful for all his wisdom. He is the most beautiful person I have ever come across in my life .😁❤❤❤
This is so great Eckhart. My mom sometimes feels guilt for not “being” there for my brother and I growing up. She has accepted it more now. Some from her own presence and acceptance. Some probably from my brother and I telling her she did a good job. While we all have our issues we turned out ok! She was pretty young when she had us. It’s one of the reasons I wanted to wait until I was a little older to have kids. She’s an amazing mother. Amazing nurse. She’s helped countless kids. I am sharing your books/videos in hopes that she come fully forgive herself for anything she’s holding onto or harboring. I hope she watches this!
you don't need to forgive yourself. you are a human being. it is a daily practice to be 'present'.
I loved this video - it found me just as I needed it ❤ I forgive my parents.
This helps a lot with the confrontation I recently had with my sister she was complaining how sensitive I was to experiences we had when I was a child. Something triggered her to respond to me like that. All I needed from her was some understanding & compassion and I get a judgement attitude instead.
I'm learning forgiveness from my experience with her when I make a mistake in my judgement as well.
Music to my ears.. 🎼🎶🎸
Thank you, I needed this.
Thank you
I miss Ken W. but I am thankful for Eckhart
We all speak and act from our level of Being or Consciousness.
Thank you Eckhart for teachings and gentle guidance. There's a feeling of freedom when forgiving ourself and others 💜
All these comments make me feel relieved at hw normal i am.
That's a very good question
Thank you in tons...Eckhart for this Video!!. Everytime I come up with a doubt I happened to bump into videos that answer my doubts...
It must be the law of attraction...and I am fortunate to come across his preachings 🙏🙏
This BEING IS a true wise Teacher
so much gratitude for this man, his book was a lifeline
This little clip is so powerful... Exactly what I needed to hear today.
Thank you so very much Dear Master Eckhart ...this preaching was especially designed for me..Gratitude 🙏🙏🙏🙏🕉️
Respect. thanks, words of Krishna, again. You are so so clear and meaningful. thanks so much
Thank you so much. I needed this my soul needed this. I understand now at 50. I forgive myself. And I will start to forgive🌹
Thank you sir!
Thank you so much Eckhart for sharing valuable knowledge with all of us!
It is so freeing to understand that the people whom did things to you were acting at their level of consciousness. Now that I understand consciousness it is freeing. It’s easy to forgive my parents, for others, for the people that abused me, that caused me to go unconscious because they were unconscious. The reality is that people are running in patterns, repetitive sequences, thoughts, and are trapped. I am free because I woke up. Yes it took an event to wake me but at that moment I realized I’ve been trying to wake up and or was trapped for years. I forgive myself.
Love your videos eckhart! A quick question in case anyone here has had it: has anyone here gone through depersonalization before? If so, how were you able to escape it and reach presence?
I have. I got help from a therapist and learned grounding techniques & many strategies to get you present & Stay present. You should look online there are plenty of tools and strategies to acquire.
You have to keep working at it. Anchor yourself. Good luck
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@@lorrainew7529 thank you!
Thanks This match the situation I am now and helps lift up the weigh of ego .
What a beautiful answer. Thank-you so much Eckhart!
I wish Eckhart coud comment on the book "Tales of Power" Carlos Castaneda. I like When Eckhart comments on books.
Thanks Dear Coach!!! Haha my Awakening Variety Show is going as planned... Thank you God for All the guidance provided by Eckharts wisdom during my rough patches and my moments of "Alert Calmness".... with Love, Francesca(the mean one, hahaha).... have a great retreat Dear Friends!!!!
See the positive qualities in people and situations
You got me with the pun, Eckhart.
We are the ones who create who we will become
This is the best talk! Thank you! God Bless!!
beautiful. thank you.
Thank you so much
Thanks for this 🙏
❤ Perfect timing for this message. Thank you
Thank you so much, Eckhart!
Thank you Eckhart. That was perfekt in time, like always. 🌅🌎
Thank you Eckhart Tolle🥰
Being present takes practice with the unconscious. When I come to see such people I prepped myself to pause and step back from the ego. Even with this action I have fallen unconscious when my ego buttons get pushed. You have to stop caring about the person at some level which promote better success.
Thanks
Gracias
This was helpful. Thank you Eckhart.
3:20 I cant believe you went through that..
Gratitude for your education on the presence of now, imagine sharing this during the Reformation back in the 1500s when Queen Mary was in charge, so many people burned at the stake how unconscious of her.Thank you ❤
How do I Forgive Myself For Not Being Present? Who is this "I" that is asking to forgive its self, its me, who is this me/ who is this 'I' .... then stop,... like listening for that unfamiliar bird call...SILENCE. remain silent never answer it and chase this erroneous "I' down continually throughout each day..... silence is who we are .... deeper and deeper ............... The 'I' thought is the mischief maker everything is attached to that. (self enquiry)
Forgiveness is overlooking the fault and seeing the Being..
9:10 Allowing for lack of consciousness in other people. Nobody is perfect - we ALL have unconscious aspects of who we are but we don't want others to define us by that, and vice versa.
The responses are wonderful❤️👌
Thank You Eckhart ♥️
"if you see a fault, don't dwell on it"
Forgiveness is acceptance in the present moment.
I understand, but still Eckhart has never had kids and most adults, myself included have guilt over our mistakes with them. No matter how good a job we did there are instances we are so disappointing about, that hurt our kids. this is very challenging to move on from ...
I missed you ❤️
I like expressing humor.
Become present now, and the issue/need to forgive yourself dissolves. ET has given that response many times. Here he choose a more superficial answer, maybe because it would appeal to the audience as seeming to be more 'direct'. Interesting.
We know who you really are!
04:40 "Nobody can act beyond their level of consciousness."
Universe I pray for positive energy and love
interesting question
thank you so much 🙏🙏this has helped me immensely ☺️
7:50 great. I get the same message from ACIM 🙏
"If you are buying a house in California and you find a fault,
Don't dwell on it."
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As someone with an ego and looking at houses in California, I needed this
I so did not expect that, and sometimes have a tendency to listen to Eckhart too intently. Got a big belly laugh out of that one.
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Such a smoothly delivered joke, Eckhart seems to be masterful at everything! :-D
I don't get that can anybody explain?
Does the level of consciousness also equate to the level of love a person feels and expresses?
yes!!!
but sometimes people can take on a “loving personality”, block themselves from receiving love themselves, and then become resentful when it’s not reciprocated, creating a martyr personality for themselves.
Thank you very much, for this very interesting Video.🙏❤️🧚🏾
Wonderful beautiful soul
Thanks for the inspiration shared : )
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