Eckhart’s Secrets to Conscious Loving Relationships | Valentine's Special with Eckhart Tolle
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- Eckhart reveals how we can develop deep and meaningful relationships with our loved ones by growing in consciousness and supporting each other.
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- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this comment to know; Awakening is not changing who you are, but discarding who you are not ✨
Thank you!
Very insightful!
Thank you for this have a blessed rest of your day 🙏🙏🙏
This is so very,very true...Discarding who you are not, awakens your true self❤
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Rumi once said soulmates don’t finally just find each other somewhere they were in each other all along
I like him. He always kills. The quotes
Amma (Mata Amritanandamayi Devi) used to joke, "First comes the engagement ring, then the wedding ring, then the suffer-ring." She always had a good sense of humor.
😂 It helps to add levity to truth. 🤍
Yes the “fall” into ego/body
If your looking for a relationship here is something I picked up from Eckhart during his manifestation series "open up" don't look for someone but don't reject the idea of meeting someone either. Open your energy field and see what happens. Also, seek the heart not the form.
The last fragment means- don't focus on body appearance, focus on what's within?
Yes it means don't look for the form "body" look for the heart "that which is beyond form"@@juliakorzen41
Sooo many cloud their essence with drugs so experience a false experience and amplified body/mind/ego contraction after drugs wear off.
Reminds me of the quote You can only meet someone as deeply as they met themselves
Yes, beautiful...and remember you do not need to "find" love, you ARE love. Own that and you become magnetic to love including the perfect loving partner...
this is all part of presence too for as soon as we look outside of ourselves for something that already exists within we create lack in that present moment and attract situations that support that lack belief into our lives. Happy Valentines Day!
Yes
Another one to remember: "Love is basically a recognition that in essence the other is the same as you" - Thank you Eckhart
I've learned that anger is an addiction of the ego, specifically of what Eckhart calls "the pain body."
Early childhood trauma is difficult to release, but all the inner work has certainly heloed.
I thank Eckhart and all enlightened beings for bringing us their wisdom.
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We strengthen our ego because we're not seen and loved since the pasts. And its difficult to let go as your experiences accumulated on those bad roots and reinforcing the idea that you're not worthy
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“The conscious conversation is basically a conversation between two people where each person is not identified with their viewpoint, their perspective, their mental position. They put forward their perspective, their positions, their viewpoints without any sense of self in it because they don’t need that because their sense of self is derived from the presence that they can sense throughout the conversation in the background of their being. And then they can play with concepts, they can play with opinions, they can play with words, they can play with arguments even, “my argument is this,” and the other person “well and mine is that,” like the famous saying “we agree to disagree.” That sounds relatively conscious because at least you’re not identified with your positions, “that’s fine, we agree, that’s ok, it’s interesting…” Self identification with mental positions is the unconsciousness, because then you will be defending your mental positions but you’re really defending your sense of self. This is why these conversations become easily and very quickly unpleasant, they are unconscious. So in unconscious conversations and with very unconscious people it can even happen where they get so defensive and aggressive about their respective mental positions they start physically attacking each other.”
I had awaken, naturally, not really knowing what it was and then immediately fell in love. Getting caught up in the overwhelming feelings of love, I totally lost the transcendental and became completely unconscious over a few months. It took me 2 years to come back to the realization of the transcendental but now the mind keeps trying to scare me away from it. It takes so much earnestness to go past it again and again
It still takes two to tango.
You can be as conscious as you can be, but if you're with someone who is trapped in toxicity, unforgiveness and who refuses to be accountable, yet who is always seeking to hold to account, then the love you give disappears like water poured onto sand.
yeah man, these people work in low vibration energy friends and family. There are not conscious for changes in their lives and we have to defend against their shame
If you are conscious you will leave that situation/person behind and move on
@@lalainamimi Easy to say. Not so easy after 32 years together, with children and grandchildren.
@@salparadise1220 didn't say it was easy, just saying that if you are truly conscious you won't attach to that anymore
@@lalainamimi I orbit around the point of leaving, sometimes closer, sometimes further sway, but not made the break yet.
I know I need to. I just hate causing pain.
It is so true 🙏 First you have to free yourself from YOUR OWN unconsciousness to understand it, as in all things in this world. But it's never too late to understand that neither sexuality nor romantic relationships, REALLY have anything to do with love: it's only when transcendence belongs to you like the dress you wear that you can love generously. The other is no longer THE OTHER but the manifestation of the universal heart ❤️ Only in this way you won't make anyone suffer anymore ... Not even to yourself..It takes many lives to understand it and it wraps like a warm cloak to everything and everyone once and for all...Life is powerful...💓🙏
Partially true. If the “other” is still unconscious then they WILL know suffering and your essence will be the rub.. for them.
“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” -Rumi
What a wonderfull teacher he is. Just no words to express my gratitude.
I want nothing that you have. I know that you want nothing that I have.
Happy ❤ Day Eckheart Everyone here🌻
Doesn't it feel so difficult - with all the attractions at play? Fortunately there is a "knowing part", or our being, in us... It is described in Steps to Knowledge, which I love very much for its profound teachings. If we know, we don't have to rely on pure guesses on this front, which I feel is priceless...
thank you for this
Thank you!
I'm becoming aware of my unconsciousness much more readily than ever before even if it's just after the fact. I am so grateful for this evolution.
Thanks💚
A recognition of the form and the transcendent essence between two lovers, so nuanced and beautifully said😌
8:40 Good to see Jesus in attendance.
U are unconditional love when u let go of the ego
Anyone is here who knows their own essence ?
Thank you for existing ❤️
Yay! Happy Valentines Day ❤
I've never met a conscious loving person in my life, if they exsist they must be rarer than a unicorn
do u think they exist? And why?
You made me laugh
They are becoming more common
I know 2 😄
Nonsense.. get out of your ego mind
Thank you😊
Best love advice ever.
I feel so entangled within myself. And now it has become so that I need extra effort to even start something.
So grateful for Eckhardt’s ability to communicate his understandings.
Yes you Always realize it' a a fall...
It's a big illusion
Love Is in pure presence
Beautiful 🙏🏼💘
Would you visit portugal eckart? Listening you is the most peaceful moment of my day.
1:50 Fall in love, or fall in consciousness...
3:30 Sense stillness and presence within. Then recognize it in another. That recognition in the space of stillness is true love which does not need the other because the other is only reflection of who you are.
7:40 Agree to disagree. Unconscious conversation is unpleasant.
9:55 Unconditional love is the recognition that your formless essence (consciousness) is also in others.
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Thanks Eckhart. 15 February 2023.💥🍮🐝⛷🎁🦆💝🔦
happy valentines day! I am grateful for my loving family.
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The other only reflects to you who you are. Absolutely! ❤
Such an important principle to realize ❤
Happy Valentines day 💓 💗 💖♥️ 💓 💗
Thank you ❤️
Thank you
Beautiful messages♡ food for thought!
I want to give up. I’m so weary. The devil wants me to lose my faith but God won’t allow it. Since covid I fell on a terrible hardship, like many others. I lost my job for declining the vaccine. I declined due to my health conditions. I suffer from lupus, and heart disease. I’m now waitressing but not making nearly enough to get by. I’m a single mom, my husband is with God. I still miss him dearly. My children are autistic and non verbal, I’m overwhelmed they require so much from me. Jesus hear my prayers. I’m tired of struggling financially every single month. But I trust in you Jesus even as I struggle providing groceries for my children. I feel like a failure. I only keep going because of you Heavenly Father. Please hear my prayers. I know the power of your Love will continue to guide me. Walking with faith not by sight!
Sending you love, I hope you're prayers are answered and things get better for you.
You are BIG LOVE!!
Give up this story and know the gift he gave within you that you stop your created sufferings
Happy Valentines Eckhart ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ever expansive 💗🙏
Me watching this video even though I'm single.
حلقة رهيبة بكل المقاييس سعيده ان قدرنا نشهد على هذا الحب وهذا الزواج الناجح الي ما اعتقد فيه منه كثير بعالمنا
استمتعت جدا جدا شكرا انس شكرا هاله كاظم شكرا لالهامنا في يوم الحب شكرا ان عطيتونا امل في الحب شكرا جزيلا
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Thanks for your message today ET.
A gift of love , I have come to realize that your messages are truly a gift to help us become better ❤️ human beings. blessings and good health. Happy Valentine day.
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thanks brother
This was a beautiful one Eckert
I just want to let anyone reading this :;going through a tough time know that it’s going to be Okayy ❤❤❤:))) you will get through it ❤❤
Give your total attention to the present moment and get yourself rooted there
XXOX! ❤
I love you ❤
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Gratitude
Beautiful video 😍
This was genius, thank you ❤️
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The bed bugs met in the mattress got married in the spring.
Dear sir Eckhart Tolle, I have courage to ask a question to please incorporate, Albert Einstein"s quote that a clever man solves problems but a wise man avoids. In the perspective of spiritual evolution of...... Awareness, space, stillness, or what. It is disturbing me for days when I get into it. Thanks. Allah Tallah bless you and your family members. Shakir Baloch Islamabad Pakistan
🌈Thank🐦Y☺️u🌺Eckhart for🎁sharing💖 " All the world lS mad , except thee , and l , and even thee lS little bit strange "🙏
«soulmates» is such a broken philosophy, that helps to feed the misery of millions western people. First you have to perfect yourself to the max, and while doing this you most likely will find yourself a partner anyways. Just do not stress too much about the “searching”, just do you thing whole-heartedly
If this was not made romantic sense, how does our economy works? Think about the extravagant purchases that design to manipulate our minds
"Soulmates" is typically a delusion for people to project their psychological needs onto someone else. The myth of Narcissus comes to mind. His soulmate was his reflection. He would stir the water with his fingers to make his reflection move, appear more autonomous. He was in love with an object.
A less-known part of that myth was Echo who fell in love with him. She was cursed by the goddess Hera to only say the most recent words she'd heard. She fell in love with Narcissus, but couldn't tell him. All she could do is repeat his words to him. He held contempt for her because of this (as a result, the god Hubris cursed him to fall in love with his own reflection). She was mirroring him honestly, and he condemned her for it (unwilling to consider that there was more to her). Then fell in love with his reflection, animating it like a self-delusion. Echo sat nearby, pining way for him. He would say "I love you" to his reflection. She would (due to her curse) repeat "I love you..." thereby adding to his delusion that reflection was real/animated.
IMO, that story shares a lot of similitude with the notion of "soul mate." We idealize others into objects to meet our needs. A true soulmate could slip past our notice due to some flaw. We'll suffer making someone our soulmate, and cause suffering by rejecting others who really could be (but don't fit our egoic notions of who we deserve).
Love requires no thinking or imagination to exist, its just a pure beautiful emotion than can only ever be felt and experienced by one who totally feels love for another. Love is such a wonderful beautiful emotion and feelings love for another is even nicer being loved by another. Love is surely a many splendid thing, and then some ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
But then a lot of people have children in these states before the suffering. Then split and youre a single parent wich is quite hard and tiring. Id love some practical views on these situations. I sometimes ( though I love his teachings) miss the practical side especially when and how with children....its much easier when youre single to practice your "consciousness "
I am a single parent trying to break generational trauma, who practices consciousness through my children. They can be very triggering, I can be overwhelmed at times, but I am learning not to be so reactive so I do not pass my trauma onto them.
The suffering starts if there is no element of the formless. The transcendent element needs to be there - I use my rose pink dragons to help with transcendent love and connect in with the cosmic heart of oneness ❤
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Bonjour, abonnée depuis un bon moment, comment faire pour écouter en français svp? Je comprends l'anglais mais pas tout et en français cela me faciliterait beaucoup. Thank you very much. Béné 🐞
Bonjour Béné,
J'ai rencontré le même obstacle que vous. La plupart des enseignants à mes yeux vraiment spirituels étant anglophones, j'ai choisi de me laisser progresser en anglais en les écoutant. Ca vaut l'effort ! Ekhart à lui seul vaut d'accepter cette difficulté provisoire, je trouve. Et toute traduction fait perdre quelque chose.
Cela dit, affichez les sous-titres anglais, cela vous aidera.
Je vous encourage en tout cas :-)
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But, how can you see the presence in others while they are highly unconscious?
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Is there anyone at all who are sharing this type of transcendent relationship cause i have my doubts that it actually exists with any two or more people with trees ,animals,rocks yes i can totally see that working but between two peoples no way! It wont ever happen! I dont think but i could be wrong ( but is there an example?)
I know a couple, friends of mine
Yes. It has happened to me for a moment of a year or so. The marriage was painful and unfulfilling. Mind against mind. Seemed the only thing keeping us together was the little bit of ‘chemistry’ we still had for each other. We were on the verge of divorce when I happened to break my foot and we were forced to be together almost 24/7. You think it would have made for a worse relationship but at that point we were both totally broken in every way. Couldn’t get much lower. But something happened, that had nothing to do with us ‘doing’. anything It transcended anything that we could have done ourselves. There was more consciousness and less ego. It was literally Heaven on earth. Nirvana. We were firing on all cylinders. It just happened. The universe gave us a taste of what it’s like to live with a completely different human with diffrent everything yet connected to their Being.
So it is possible because I have been given a taste of it the love that transcends all logic and understanding
I've never seen it between a man and a woman, but I have met people (mostly in non-romantic relationships) with whom I had/have that kind of transcendence.
A quote that has helped lead me (not sure if it’s ET’s quote) Never put the key to your own happiness in someone else’s pocket… another person can’t MAKE you happy, they can only add to the happiness you already have with yourself
Both enlightening and confusing. Not because of what is said, but the confusion comes from personal experience and personal beliefs about the self and other when we are not conscious and assume we know who/what we are. This takes from thought and contemplation
Kind of a dark way of looking at falling in love, expecting the suffering to come
In the US, 50% of marriages end in divorce. So, it's both dark _and_ realistic.
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Is it possible to have transcendental love, be with someone who you do not psychologically or physically are compatible with? Someone who you are so different from or see as a good friend
do you think we are selectively judgemental? As in, we'd forgive the same mistake if someone made it and hold someone else to a higher standard? Not a case of holding a highly accomplished athlete to a higher standard than a toddler, we do that with people who are almost similar, going through similar situations. I wonder why.
I might be wrong here but imma make a statement that romantic love always contains identification on some level. prove me wrong.
Awareness is changeless...
Hi Dear Tolle.
You know, there is a devastating disaster in Turkey and Syria. It is the most devastating earthquake of the last century.
Can you publish a video for us and for all the suffering souls in Turkey and Syria.
Best,
And in pain.
The happiest dinner gathering would indeed include:
Eckhart & Kim
Esther (and Jerry) Hicks
Wayne Dyer
Joe Dispenza
Joe Rogan!
I'd add Robina Courtin, Mooji, Adyashanti, Dr. Joy DeGruy, David Richo, Byron Katie, Richard Rohr, Rupert Spira, Elon Musk and Matt Dilahunty
Valentine = Lupercalia
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Indian parliament 😂
"Unconsciousness is self identifying with your mental positions but you're actually identifying with your ego."
Amazing explanation
The burping ???
Echart Tolle a Most Hatalma elmond mindet még a kundalini erőnek a felébredését!🇭🇺
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