That or the infamous "You'll regret this" when OP finally makes clear they won't back down or change their stances, specifically in cases that are public for all to see of their shenanigans and the only ones who'll regret it is them
I think with phones nowadays, kids should record all this stuff. Then when the parents come back and say how grateful the kids should be, just play it all back. Tell all those family members to take him in.
Agree. All of these stories say exactly the same thing: I thought things were over, I thought things had quieted down, maybe just maybe….hmmm….all written by the same person? 🤣🤣🤣
When extended family like aunts and uncles and cousins start calling blaming OP for not "helping out family", tell them "Well since you are so concerned about 'family', I will call them and say you volunteered to house them". Watch the back peddling begin.
Once Ben and his family got into ops house they would never leave and never pay for anything. Look at how no one would accept them renting their units? Lol why couldn't any of those family members take them in?
Literally all my thoughts here were. 1. You are right, you're family so why wont you take him in? I literally would have said that every response. And if they make excuses... i would say Ben isnt my brother... we dont share mother or father biologically... he was just a childhood roommate that treated me bad. 2. Im sorry but he seems to irresponsible to rent to... if he cant find a place he must not make enough money or have choose not to pay his bills. I feel uncomfortable having him in my home as if he got evicted obviously he isnt a responsible inhabitant. 3. Mind your own business... i dont tell you to let homeless people live at your house dont tell me to.
My mom did this too. I reminded her of my father and she hated me for it. He was a good man too. No cheating no abuse she was just selfish and narcissistic
Wow, the way your mom completely ignored you and focused on Ben is heartbreaking. It’s crazy how she couldn’t even see the damage she was doing to you. That dollhouse moment must have been crushing.
Well said. Plus, after going no contact with her mother and stepfather, OP will find love and attention in all the wrong places; OP will sell the house her grandparents gave her, move to another city, find solace with/marry a guy who's a gentle "Prince Charming", one moment, a tyrannical, and violent Ike Turner, the next, and have a kid on the way, then, escape from her abusive relationship, move to another state, (with the help of cops and DV social workers) to create a stable home environment for her kid, keep him away from her mother, and stay at a women's shelter, find a nicer apartment, a trustworthy therapist, plus another job to support her one-parent family, hire a nanny to care for her kid, and to avoid making the same mistake her mother is making, OP will need to say no to potential new husbands, and stepkids, focus on her career, getting therapy for herself, raising her kid, and be a better and more attentive mother to him than her own mother is.⚠️
*Op:* Sometimes, family isn't the people you share blood with. *Me:* Exactly, family are the people you shed blood with! **Draws Longsword** *Me: To Me Brothers, Charge!*
Simple! Just blast in social media Tag Ben that these are your family who likes to help you because they are your family. They are worried and they will be offering their home. I bet everyone will be quite after that 😂😂😂😂
Your mom is a disgrace. This happens all too often in order to curry favor with the new stepchild the biological child gets put on the back burner and humiliated to support and promote the new step kid and the spicy new bedroom playmate. Move on OP your mom doesn’t love you go where you’re wanted and don’t look back. Let Ben have his perfect family and his perfect family can support him. And he can support them.The flying monkeys that were not there for you now are guilting you to take care of Ben’s kid. No the kid had a mom and a dad and two sets of grandparents and all of the flying monkeys to take care of them
If they can afford an opinion, they can afford to take him and his family in. People who don't have anything, and weren't there for you don't get a vote. Why aren't they required to help out family?
When the mom said "I hope you don't regret it when you're the one that needs help some day" my response would have been I've already been in that situation and YOU ALL turned your backs on me.
Those people were never your family they were your relatives difference between family and relatives you have relatives your grandparents were your only family
Yea doormatty sums it up.. Especially the DILs who put up with bullying for years. Suggested immediate response “If that mother of yours doesn’t shut her fuckin’ mouth I’m gone”
Why can’t people just say NO! Why are you explaining that Ben treated you bad, never apologised blah blah blah. Say NO! Tell Ben to move back home. End of discussion.
The fact that Ben even when he knows that apologizing is the best course of action to have even a chance of OP maybe changing her mind still will not do it tells it all. OP was right to deny him and the fact that they can't rent anywhere else is also a huge red flag.
Why in all these stories does the OP continue to answer their abusers phone calls? They know it's going to be more abuse and they still answer. I hate blaming the victim, but when you keep letting your abuser into your life by answering their calls or letting them into your house, you sort of allowed it to happen.
I hate that be the bigger person you know what be the bigger person means right it's just a word that was changed I think we all know that be the bigger person is another word for cat
Everyone is right… Adaline should not have to suffer! so her parents need to step up and provide a proper home for their daughter. It is that little girls parents, whom the fault and responsibility all falls on not the OP.
Anytime family members contact you to tell you you're being heartless for not letting them move into your house you tell those families then stop being heartless and let them move into YOUR house
Why are all these stories alike. Kid gets abused and deserted . The op always becomes successful and the family comes back to leech. The golden child is always a monster. If this was a real op would tell them to f off right off the bat. All those jerks who would guilt trip op would be told to F off too. Op would tell them YOU pay for them or YOU have them move in with you. Then op blocks them all
Well said, OP SHOULD go complete NO CONTACT with her mother, stepfather, and maternal relatives; not only that, OP should also sell the house her grandparents left her, move to another state, buy another house there, and grow her own family consisting of new and supportive friends, a trustworthy therapist, plus, a wonderful man whose family are good people. She'll even end up with a MIL who's more of a mother to her than her own mother is.
Because there's really nothing new under the sun. Those are human experiences that happen over and over. They are so common, that's how clichés are made.
All those family members trying to shame OP to let Ben move in; why aren't they offering to let Ben his "poor daughter" stay with them? Why is it only on her?
Anyone that says let go of the past and it was years ago should be answered with until they apologize and ask for forgiveness it's not going to happen. Tell the family members that disappointment is a two way street. And tell Mom that her stepkid is not your brother because he never acted like one just like she never acted like a mother. Also should have told the mother she expected better from her too.
If everyone is so keen on Op to open his house for "family" then THEY can open their homes to Ben instead of trying to put this on Ops shoulders. but we all know the excuses they'll make.
Holding a grudge benefits the person holding the grudge so long as the grudge is legitimate. People who believe otherwise are those who constantly get used.
OP is such a saint, whereas i am a complete monster, i would have made sure that ben wouldn't find a place to stay. Any place he could rent out, i would make sure to take the place for myself even if i wasn't going to stay there, or just tell the landowner about his behaviour
The Mom: "Family Don't Turn their backs on Family" What OP should have responded: "Yet you always did when I needed you the most. I learnt by your example" The mom: "I hope you don't regret it when you need help someday" What OP should have responded: "What is there to regret when I've been through that before. There is no threat when there is nothing to begin with "
Tell the relatives that called about you letting your brother not moving in,‘glad to hear that you are letting them move in with you’. If they object repeat what ever they said to you.
This always annoys me when people ask you to take them in and call in other family to make you. Why don't these people take them in. That is what I want to know. Why can't they step up.
It's just me or the fact op never talk about the fact they did not reach out for months or for years yet say it in the story, never say it to his mom or anyone, makes it feel like fake story or someone who does not tell the all truth
Here’s something I never read. Why do they always ask if you are still upset over them doing something horrible to you, but they’ve never done anything good to apologize or make up for it. So, yes, I’m still upset. And if you can’t figure out why, that’s on you
MOTHER HATED DAUGHTER BECAUSE DAUGHTER WAS ALWAYS GOING TO BE EXTREMELY SUCCESSFUL AND. DEFINITELY. MORE BEAUTIFUL . AFRAID HER MAN WOULD NOTICE HOW BEAUTIFUL HER DAUGHTER IS
Op shouldn't allow Ben and his family in her house. Noone wants to rent to Ben for a valid reason. He's more than likely a horrible tenant who's delinquent in rent payments. They would NEVER leave. Op would hv to go through the eviction process which takes months, lawyer, court proceedings and lots of money. For the family members trying to force Op to take Ben and his family in, Op NEEDS to call Ben and pass their number along to set up housing arrangements with them.
lol eating cookies to keep his strength up for soccer - "I considered ignoring it but then the story would end so I picked up" haha i love these fake stories
Maybe OP should of said 'Okay, Adeline can move in but not Ben'. IF the family came at me with 'but he's family blah blah blah' I'd say, if he is 'family' and you are so worried about them why don't you let them move in with you?'
All these family members who have time to berate OP, why don't they take Ben and his family in? And see how long it lasts before Ben starts throwing them the "squatters right" in their faces. Nah, no thanks .. I would rather be a total AH, but I'll have peace of mind, knowing I don't have a bully living in my house.
Ben isn’t even her mom’s biological child. I wouldn’t have went through all that stuff. I would’ve changed my phone number and I would’ve told the extended family that this is none of their business. That they never helped me when I was struggling and so they can just stay out of my life. If they want to help family then they can help Ben who isn’t even their blood relative. Then I would tell them if they keep up with their antics I will press harassment charges against them. All this would fix them. I would also block them on social media.
I don't understand why OP is trying to be civil with these A-holes. OP should've just told them when they said don't expect any help from us when you are having tough times. OP's response should've been like when her grandparents died and atruggling through life. Also, I get the feeling that OP's egg donor wanted a son instead of a daughter.
I needed to think about it... The f*ck is there to think about?? He made your childhood absolutely miserable!! Her response should just be an automatic *nah mate, take care"
At some point I'd of been 'Ben isn't family, he's never been family, he is family to my mom but has never treated me like family either just a whipping post'
I’m so annoyed with stories like this oml..- 🙄 Like, they had so many options , and decided to stay silent? Excuse me? OP could’ve cleared it out, and get peace of mind, but they haaaaad to “ignore it” even though it was messing with their head 😀, like, DUDE, IT’S SO IRRITATING… EeeeeeuuUuUughhhh..- 🤢
Yeah, Mom will help pay for college. For BEN. Ben messed up? Why can't he get a JOB? Hey Mom, where was the "family is family" when your DAUGHTER needed you?
Should tell the mom and Ben to piss off. Tell all the other relatives if they want to help Ben go head they can open up their homes Ben should go live with the mom
He's just being a boy? My brother said to me once "You know you're adopted?" I didn't run to mom. I said "I look like Mom. Phillip looks like Dad. And you look like your dad is probably the mailman!"
Oh no. Guilt. See, guilt should only work if you have done something wrong. You never have. You have no guilt. I have no guilt complex. Never works on me. Either I meant it or I've already apologized. That's it.
Make everything public, very public! People need to know, exactly how parents and steps are treating you. Everyone from their peer group. Everyone who works with them. It isn’t defamation if it’s true. Lol at asking for money from a college student. If that evil kid calling himself your brother has not apologized for past actions, then there is no way he would change. See the evil comments he makes to you and about you. You know he will try to make you leave if he moves in. Besides, those parents are responsible to move the married couple into their home. Ben is right about family. To bad they made sure that you are not family. He needs to ask his real family for help, don’t go outside his family to ask you.
I love it when people call others ungrateful when they've never given those other people anything to be grateful for.
That or the infamous "You'll regret this" when OP finally makes clear they won't back down or change their stances, specifically in cases that are public for all to see of their shenanigans and the only ones who'll regret it is them
Exactly! It's always easy to call someone ungrateful when you haven't done anything for them
Its called “manipulation”, the sinners never have a argument and only insult
I'd have said "Well, I've never heard of people thanking others for neglecting them before, and I'm not going to be the first to start."
I think with phones nowadays, kids should record all this stuff. Then when the parents come back and say how grateful the kids should be, just play it all back.
Tell all those family members to take him in.
Being an adult isn’t forgetting the past. It’s accepting responsibility for your own actions.
If all these people are so beside themselves with grief and despair over Ben's situation, why don't ANY of them give him a place to live?
Agree. All of these stories say exactly the same thing: I thought things were over, I thought things had quieted down, maybe just maybe….hmmm….all written by the same person? 🤣🤣🤣
When extended family like aunts and uncles and cousins start calling blaming OP for not "helping out family", tell them "Well since you are so concerned about 'family', I will call them and say you volunteered to house them". Watch the back peddling begin.
I feel like a majority of reddit stories, real or fake, can be solved by doing that.
Once Ben and his family got into ops house they would never leave and never pay for anything. Look at how no one would accept them renting their units? Lol why couldn't any of those family members take them in?
Because it is cheaper to be a flying monkey
Literally all my thoughts here were.
1. You are right, you're family so why wont you take him in? I literally would have said that every response. And if they make excuses... i would say Ben isnt my brother... we dont share mother or father biologically... he was just a childhood roommate that treated me bad.
2. Im sorry but he seems to irresponsible to rent to... if he cant find a place he must not make enough money or have choose not to pay his bills. I feel uncomfortable having him in my home as if he got evicted obviously he isnt a responsible inhabitant.
3. Mind your own business... i dont tell you to let homeless people live at your house dont tell me to.
Everyone is so generous with OP's stuff.
Right? It's funny how no one in the family would take them in, but they expect OP to deal with them forever!
My mom did this too. I reminded her of my father and she hated me for it. He was a good man too. No cheating no abuse she was just selfish and narcissistic
Wow, the way your mom completely ignored you and focused on Ben is heartbreaking. It’s crazy how she couldn’t even see the damage she was doing to you. That dollhouse moment must have been crushing.
Well said. Plus, after going no contact with her mother and stepfather, OP will find love and attention in all the wrong places; OP will sell the house her grandparents gave her, move to another city, find solace with/marry a guy who's a gentle "Prince Charming", one moment, a tyrannical, and violent Ike Turner, the next, and have a kid on the way, then, escape from her abusive relationship, move to another state, (with the help of cops and DV social workers) to create a stable home environment for her kid, keep him away from her mother, and stay at a women's shelter, find a nicer apartment, a trustworthy therapist, plus another job to support her one-parent family, hire a nanny to care for her kid, and to avoid making the same mistake her mother is making, OP will need to say no to potential new husbands, and stepkids, focus on her career, getting therapy for herself, raising her kid, and be a better and more attentive mother to him than her own mother is.⚠️
*Op:* Sometimes, family isn't the people you share blood with.
*Me:* Exactly, family are the people you shed blood with!
**Draws Longsword**
*Me: To Me Brothers, Charge!*
Simple! Just blast in social media Tag Ben that these are your family who likes to help you because they are your family. They are worried and they will be offering their home. I bet everyone will be quite after that 😂😂😂😂
Yes, indeed He needs to show up to their houses unannounced and say We're here to move in. Where's our room? 😂😂
Your mom is a disgrace. This happens all too often in order to curry favor with the new stepchild the biological child gets put on the back burner and humiliated to support and promote the new step kid and the spicy new bedroom playmate. Move on OP your mom doesn’t love you go where you’re wanted and don’t look back. Let Ben have his perfect family and his perfect family can support him. And he can support them.The flying monkeys that were not there for you now are guilting you to take care of Ben’s kid. No the kid had a mom and a dad and two sets of grandparents and all of the flying monkeys to take care of them
Her mom wanted a son instead of a daughter.
@@rogueshark23 no she’s just butthurt that ops dad didn’t want her
OP should've go full scorched earth from the beginning.
Literally or figuratively?
Figuratively...hopefully
@@Levithoswhy not both 🤪
Why do people always pull the family card when they have no right to lol damn entitled narcissistic people and their selfishness.
If they can afford an opinion, they can afford to take him and his family in. People who don't have anything, and weren't there for you don't get a vote. Why aren't they required to help out family?
When the mom said "I hope you don't regret it when you're the one that needs help some day" my response would have been I've already been in that situation and YOU ALL turned your backs on me.
Bigger person = to permanent doormat status.
Those people were never your family they were your relatives difference between family and relatives you have relatives your grandparents were your only family
"Be a bigger person"
"Take the high road"
Yeah, because the other person is a lower scum, and will always take the lower road.
Funny how the bullies always say “we were kids back then “, I loneliness with peace is better than constant conflict
these stories are getting stupider. Why are the main characters always so doormatty.
Yea but it takes time to get over years of neglect and and trauma.
I was just thinking that. And the a$$holes don't get justice for their actions either
@@ifynwamma it is a fake AI story, lol. There's no years of trauma
Exactly 🙄
Yea doormatty sums it up.. Especially the DILs who put up with bullying for years. Suggested immediate response “If that mother of yours doesn’t shut her fuckin’ mouth I’m gone”
Why can’t people just say NO! Why are you explaining that Ben treated you bad, never apologised blah blah blah. Say NO! Tell Ben to move back home. End of discussion.
How these ops are not responding with “ if you people are so much want to help Ben, then y can’t you all people don’t help him?” 🙄
OP should've told her mom, "Better to be like Dad then to be like you."
OP is so weak, how do you stay in contact with a mother like that. What a weak scrub.
If she were that weak, she would have let Ben move in and cave in to her mother's demands.
@@paarthurnax8519Nah, she is Weak for staying in contact with the POS Egg Donor
Because it is an AI story and it was made to be like that
@@paarthurnax8519no, she wouldn't even have been in contact with Ben either to be in that situation to begin with.
@benzemamumba people who experience abuse, find it hard to break away.
The fact that Ben even when he knows that apologizing is the best course of action to have even a chance of OP maybe changing her mind still will not do it tells it all. OP was right to deny him and the fact that they can't rent anywhere else is also a huge red flag.
Then they can help Ben's family or shut up!!
That's the thing with these fake stories they lay the whole family is family on thick
Why in all these stories does the OP continue to answer their abusers phone calls? They know it's going to be more abuse and they still answer. I hate blaming the victim, but when you keep letting your abuser into your life by answering their calls or letting them into your house, you sort of allowed it to happen.
They are generally spineless simpletons.
I hate that be the bigger person you know what be the bigger person means right it's just a word that was changed I think we all know that be the bigger person is another word for cat
I don't blame you, I hate that line, too.😒
Being the bigger person isn’t always the right thing to do
Everyone is right… Adaline should not have to suffer! so her parents need to step up and provide a proper home for their daughter. It is that little girls parents, whom the fault and responsibility all falls on not the OP.
Anytime family members contact you to tell you you're being heartless for not letting them move into your house you tell those families then stop being heartless and let them move into YOUR house
Why are all these stories alike. Kid gets abused and deserted . The op always becomes successful and the family comes back to leech. The golden child is always a monster. If this was a real op would tell them to f off right off the bat. All those jerks who would guilt trip op would be told to F off too. Op would tell them YOU pay for them or YOU have them move in with you. Then op blocks them all
Yeah, if this is a real story, OP should've go full scorched earth, go full nuclear.
Well said, OP SHOULD go complete NO CONTACT with her mother, stepfather, and maternal relatives; not only that, OP should also sell the house her grandparents left her, move to another state, buy another house there, and grow her own family consisting of new and supportive friends, a trustworthy therapist, plus, a wonderful man whose family are good people. She'll even end up with a MIL who's more of a mother to her than her own mother is.
They’re all fake AI generated, cut and copy pasted.
@@princessmarlena1359 I absolutely agree with you that's why they are so similar.
Because there's really nothing new under the sun. Those are human experiences that happen over and over. They are so common, that's how clichés are made.
You need a cease and desist order.
Or better yet, OP should just sell the house, and move to another state to start her life afresh.
@@danacarter9147 she probably loves the house because of her grandparents
@@rockinscarletI understand, but OP can buy another house, or a posh looking condo.
"mom" sounds like my evil stepmother. I wish I would have had grandparents to take me in. I had to wait until I turned 18 to escape.
All those family members trying to shame OP to let Ben move in; why aren't they offering to let Ben his "poor daughter" stay with them? Why is it only on her?
SHE DIDNT HATE YOU BECAUSE YOU REMINDED HER OF YOUR FATHER. SHE HATED YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.
Huh? That's it? No terrifying revenge?
Anyone that says let go of the past and it was years ago should be answered with until they apologize and ask for forgiveness it's not going to happen. Tell the family members that disappointment is a two way street. And tell Mom that her stepkid is not your brother because he never acted like one just like she never acted like a mother. Also should have told the mother she expected better from her too.
It's just gaslighting.
They are not brothers and have never been 😡
Well that was an unsatisfactory ending
Hope op stayed strong, she doesn't owe them anything.
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If everyone is so keen on Op to open his house for "family" then THEY can open their homes to Ben instead of trying to put this on Ops shoulders. but we all know the excuses they'll make.
"DO IT FOR BEN!!!!"
NEVA!!!!!
🤣
Everyone on Ben's side should chip in to help him get another place or let him and his family move in with them.
These family why can't they take them in.
Ungrateful? What has Ben ever done for OP for her to be grateful?
Holding a grudge benefits the person holding the grudge so long as the grudge is legitimate. People who believe otherwise are those who constantly get used.
As I write, eggs cost close to $6 a dozen. Egging that front door was an extravagance!
I could never be with someone who treated their kid(s) like this.
This story could have easily been 5 minutes but it was dragged out past 30 , why?
Why not stop listening then? 🤷
OP is such a saint, whereas i am a complete monster, i would have made sure that ben wouldn't find a place to stay. Any place he could rent out, i would make sure to take the place for myself even if i wasn't going to stay there, or just tell the landowner about his behaviour
The Mom: "Family Don't Turn their backs on Family"
What OP should have responded: "Yet you always did when I needed you the most. I learnt by your example"
The mom: "I hope you don't regret it when you need help someday"
What OP should have responded: "What is there to regret when I've been through that before. There is no threat when there is nothing to begin with
"
Tell the relatives that called about you letting your brother not moving in,‘glad to hear that you are letting them move in with you’. If they object repeat what ever they said to you.
This always annoys me when people ask you to take them in and call in other family to make you. Why don't these people take them in. That is what I want to know. Why can't they step up.
There good story's
It's just me or the fact op never talk about the fact they did not reach out for months or for years yet say it in the story, never say it to his mom or anyone, makes it feel like fake story or someone who does not tell the all truth
Here’s something I never read. Why do they always ask if you are still upset over them doing something horrible to you, but they’ve never done anything good to apologize or make up for it. So, yes, I’m still upset. And if you can’t figure out why, that’s on you
MOTHER HATED DAUGHTER BECAUSE DAUGHTER WAS ALWAYS GOING TO BE EXTREMELY SUCCESSFUL AND. DEFINITELY. MORE BEAUTIFUL . AFRAID HER MAN WOULD NOTICE HOW BEAUTIFUL HER DAUGHTER IS
Op shouldn't allow Ben and his family in her house. Noone wants to rent to Ben for a valid reason. He's more than likely a horrible tenant who's delinquent in rent payments. They would NEVER leave. Op would hv to go through the eviction process which takes months, lawyer, court proceedings and lots of money. For the family members trying to force Op to take Ben and his family in, Op NEEDS to call Ben and pass their number along to set up housing arrangements with them.
If they are so concerned about Ben and Adelaide, they should take them in!!
“Ben grew up and changed” *commits vandalism when he’s unwanted*
Again, all these family members come out of the woodwork to tell you to take him in but none of them are willing to do it.
lol eating cookies to keep his strength up for soccer - "I considered ignoring it but then the story would end so I picked up" haha i love these fake stories
Someone who says “family is all we have” is talking nonsense.
PEACE IS BETTER THAN FAMILY!!!
Maybe OP should of said 'Okay, Adeline can move in but not Ben'. IF the family came at me with 'but he's family blah blah blah' I'd say, if he is 'family' and you are so worried about them why don't you let them move in with you?'
"He cheated on her". Can you blame him?"
Op should have used the "family" line on everyone.
These stories are all the same, “curiosity got the best of me” “family members I haven’t heard from for years”.
How did the mom suddenly have pictures of all three without the narrator so quickly?
All these family members who have time to berate OP, why don't they take Ben and his family in? And see how long it lasts before Ben starts throwing them the "squatters right" in their faces. Nah, no thanks .. I would rather be a total AH, but I'll have peace of mind, knowing I don't have a bully living in my house.
Family matters, especially when it's convenient.
I just don't understand why people work so hard to get away just to go back
I'd just say No! I wouldn't care about the kid either! Those flying monkeys and mom would also have their feelings hurt!🤬🤬
How do you leave a 10 yr old home alone over a weekend
My mom left me and my brothers home alone every weekend when I 11 and 12
One word - negligence.
Ben isn’t even her mom’s biological child. I wouldn’t have went through all that stuff. I would’ve changed my phone number and I would’ve told the extended family that this is none of their business. That they never helped me when I was struggling and so they can just stay out of my life. If they want to help family then they can help Ben who isn’t even their blood relative. Then I would tell them if they keep up with their antics I will press harassment charges against them. All this would fix them. I would also block them on social media.
Screw those jerks
1 question. And it will get most of them if not all of them to shut up.
“If you’re so concerned why don’t you let them stay with you?”
ADILINE. CANNOT MISS WHAT SHE NEVER HAD ! CHILD DOES NOT EVEN KNOW YOU
I don't understand why OP is trying to be civil with these A-holes. OP should've just told them when they said don't expect any help from us when you are having tough times. OP's response should've been like when her grandparents died and atruggling through life. Also, I get the feeling that OP's egg donor wanted a son instead of a daughter.
she has the wrong target IMO--she should be going after her Mom because Mom treated her so badly.
Wow, during the Dan/Emma saga I kept thinking "how long has Emma and Dan been hooking up?". Took a while for the truth to come out, but sure enough...
As for the poor woman whose family treated them like crap. I have to wonder if "mom" calling because"Ben screwed up" was Ben knocking up his gf.
I would have told the family they should let him move in with them…..
I needed to think about it... The f*ck is there to think about?? He made your childhood absolutely miserable!! Her response should just be an automatic *nah mate, take care"
Tell Ben and everyone else you understand how his daughter feels because you never felt safe with Ben in your life
And, I expected you to be a mother. Yet, you never were to me.
ben is not family. just family through marriage.
At some point I'd of been 'Ben isn't family, he's never been family, he is family to my mom but has never treated me like family either just a whipping post'
Tell them his family can live with them
Guys like Ben just take and keep taking forever
I’m so annoyed with stories like this oml..- 🙄
Like, they had so many options , and decided to stay silent? Excuse me? OP could’ve cleared it out, and get peace of mind, but they haaaaad to “ignore it” even though it was messing with their head 😀, like, DUDE, IT’S SO IRRITATING… EeeeeeuuUuUughhhh..- 🤢
Forgot -to inform everyone whether they have or have not allowed on social media
Yeah, Mom will help pay for college. For BEN.
Ben messed up? Why can't he get a JOB?
Hey Mom, where was the "family is family" when your DAUGHTER needed you?
You are good enough there the ones that aren't good enough.
Funny how the victim has to be the one to acomódate the wishes of the one who wrongdoing them
If this family of tramps are harassing you, sue them
Should tell the mom and Ben to piss off. Tell all the other relatives if they want to help Ben go head they can open up their homes Ben should go live with the mom
Well, Mom, as a kid, I expected better from you.
Kick rocks, Adeline is not your problem.
He's just being a boy?
My brother said to me once "You know you're adopted?"
I didn't run to mom. I said "I look like Mom. Phillip looks like Dad. And you look like your dad is probably the mailman!"
Oh no. Guilt. See, guilt should only work if you have done something wrong. You never have. You have no guilt.
I have no guilt complex. Never works on me. Either I meant it or I've already apologized. That's it.
Make everything public, very public! People need to know, exactly how parents and steps are treating you. Everyone from their peer group. Everyone who works with them. It isn’t defamation if it’s true.
Lol at asking for money from a college student.
If that evil kid calling himself your brother has not apologized for past actions, then there is no way he would change. See the evil comments he makes to you and about you. You know he will try to make you leave if he moves in.
Besides, those parents are responsible to move the married couple into their home.
Ben is right about family. To bad they made sure that you are not family. He needs to ask his real family for help, don’t go outside his family to ask you.
Fyra please don’t post doormat op stories please. And little bit more revenge.
If Ben had messaged me, I’d have messaged back saying “who are you”? And then blocked him.